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When Your Spouse Complains | MarriageToday | Jimmy Evans, Karen Evans

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When one spouse complains, typically the other becomes defensive. Learning to deal with complaints before they become destructive is critical to the success of every marriage.
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Jimmy Evans is one of America’s leading experts on family and marriage relationships. He is Founder and CEO of MarriageToday™ and co-host of MarriageToday with Jimmy and Karen, the marriage ministry and national award-winning broadcast that airs to millions of homes each week. A popular church and conference speaker, he has also authored a number of books, including Marriage on the Rock, Our Secret Paradise and The Right One.

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@myrasarrekadianzaba2372 4 жыл бұрын

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@monkeymankyle 6 жыл бұрын

Realizing more about how my family was growing up and how I am in my marriage now....kinda relates to the beginning of marriage of Jimmy and Karen. I'm praying for healing and believing for restoration in my marriage. I don't know it all and I want to learn

@anitacarter547 7 жыл бұрын

I love Marriage Today I trutly learn from every show, study, and or lesson, and I come away feeling trutly Blessed- Amen

@rogerforest1729 3 жыл бұрын

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@momof372 5 жыл бұрын

We tell each other to fly off, express our views, then 5 minutes later it's like nothing ever happened. Neither one of us hold anything back. Usually one of us apologizes, usually him, because he tends to go out in the weeds and yells at me when he is frustrated working on a project and I am always there to help, but now I tend to do "check-ins" to see if he needs anything and try to avoid at all cost, but let him know I am there to assist if he needs it. We go to bed snuggling and thankful each morning we wake up to each other.

@Musikisbellatastic 9 ай бұрын

You bless greatly. Please keep spreading your calling to this ministry

@sophie-fr3xu 4 жыл бұрын

Being raised in a family where anger is not allowed and if anger is shown we pay a price and are punished. Sets you up for spousal abuse later in life.

@lucyscott6919 2 жыл бұрын

What about if you tell him your angry about something and he does not care or change the behavior. He says I need to change my attitude. Will not discuss the issue. He won't listen to these videos or go to counciling. I think my marriage is over but he thinks it's fine.

@thomasbranham4374 Жыл бұрын

The only reason I stonewall is because it stops me from saying something I’m going to regret

@ramsam01 7 жыл бұрын

Amen

@lordzson2700 2 жыл бұрын

Best relationship video i seen so far

@sssttt2211 3 жыл бұрын

You were trusted in second department but you were doubted in fiirst... This works at workplace too. In my first job with startup company, my boss trusted blindly.. so we never felt deceiving him...

@JJacob72 4 жыл бұрын

What if one spouse has anxiety, and has complaints due their own anxiety? The other spouse doesn't validate the other's anxious thoughts.

@preston6618 4 жыл бұрын

Great question. I think that we should do what we can to reassure and comfort and serve our spouse in their spiritual weakness, just like we are in a physical weakness. It should be even stronger support in a spiritual weakness. If your spouse has a physical handicap, aren’t you going to make accommodations and inconvenience yourself in order to meet his or her needs? Why would you not do the same along with prayer and the Holy Spirit in order to try to overcome the anxiety of your spouse, while also praying for God to heal it? When God joins a man and a woman two become one… You’re not your own person but their person. Their problems, spiritual, physical, mental, or also your struggles.

@Onemillionbucks 5 жыл бұрын

I haven't even watched this video yet but i'm going to write this comment to get it out. My husband is the world's most obnoxious complainer. He complains when there is a time change, he complains about how fast time goes by, he complains about getting older, he complains about other drivers, our son, his coworkers, going to work, bills, money, being tired, etc etc EVERYTHING. He is toxic. I am a woman of God and he has 0 faith. I want out!

@The_Stubborn_Christian 4 жыл бұрын

Bonnie my husband is 100 times worse than any women. But when I want to voice what irritates me, and not necessarily him, he would get mad at me.. he can't deal with my concerns right now. I'm always complaining.. and yet, he got me to the point to just keep my mouth shut and he didn't care what I say. So I say nothing..and he still accuses me if complaining when i've said absolutely nothing

@patriciaamongin6662 2 жыл бұрын

"Allow your spouse to complain", wow🎉🙌🙆

@bryantotten7315 6 жыл бұрын

so we are not the only family who folds their arms and think their view point is the only one that matters.Jesus help us

@kindsir2734 Жыл бұрын

I live this life. I don't understand any of it. We have had years of counciling, we are both pursuing our faith in God. I find she begins every fight, when this happens, and always escalates and she will not accept an apology. After attempting to repeatedly apologize it always ends in threats. How can I correct what bothers her If it is nor a two way conversation. I am stumped

@XOMarriage Жыл бұрын

We are so sorry to hear of what you are facing. Please feel free to visit xomarriage.com and the "Marriage Help" tab for marriage coaching. We have lots of content on our site, too!

@laragreene8328 4 жыл бұрын

I see now why the bible doesnt talk alot about marriage....Its so you'll go to God for help....only God knows you and your situation personally!! Nobody else knows!

@averyflowers8819 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@thisisbob1001 5 жыл бұрын

Yes haaaaaaa

@hugostiglitz8855 2 жыл бұрын

Bull$&!t My wife’s family of 3 siblings and parents have 12 divorces among them and they talk relentlessly about everything.

@tinyhansson9510 5 жыл бұрын

My problem is one of the biggest thing in this home and marriage he complains a lot about he is the one bringing money in the house but when he go out there create problem loans and he cannot even pay for it our properties been taken away and he cannot even do anything and I'm the one who pay everything I'm the one I created this month I'm the one is under 1 days I am sick and tired of that

@jacquelinefreitas3000 6 жыл бұрын

The clinical definition of depression is DEFINITELY NOT anger turned inwards. Just FYI

@janiellgarabito547 5 жыл бұрын

Jimmy Evans is a great pastor, thank you for your words of wisdom I am stuck on this channel to constantly learn.

@manimoremakri6390 5 жыл бұрын

@Marten Dekker true.

@framboise595 5 жыл бұрын

@@janiellgarabito547 If you think this charlatan is a great "pastor" then you have zero discernment. This is very serious . It is time to open a Bible .

@The_Stubborn_Christian 4 жыл бұрын

@@framboise595 there's always a nay sayer that chooses to believe satan and what he's telling you. Anyone that teaches exactly what the bible says is not a charlatan. Only satan worshipers say what you said

@The_Stubborn_Christian 4 жыл бұрын

I used to listen to science and I was highly mediated. If you know anything about science.. science is theory, science is NEVER 100% accurate. Theory is an idea, a POSSIBILITY. Remember, the business of medicine is a practice. PRACTICE! THEY ARE USING YOU AS A GUINEA PIG PRACTICING ON YOU