Who Are The ESTPs (The Gladiator)? | ESTP Cognitive Functions

Who Are The ESTPs (The Gladiator)? | ESTP Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph

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CS Joseph discusses who are the ESTPs (The Gladiator) and what are the ESTP cognitive functions?
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@JA_BRE 5 жыл бұрын

I'm an ESTP. Dude you're reading my soul.

@Tophtoes 5 жыл бұрын

Same dude lmao.

@mariemochi6153 5 жыл бұрын

Do u get along with an INFP ?

@ryanhoffmann4983 5 жыл бұрын

Boban Ilic brøther, I’ve found you😂

@ryanhoffmann4983 5 жыл бұрын

mariem ochi somehow yeah my best friend is an infp😂

@mistercrinkles 4 жыл бұрын

big same

@user-sp4iw8dn3l 4 жыл бұрын

ESTP the most attractive type to women...me = perfectly dodged the advantage, by being an female ESTP lmao

@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын

female ESTPs are pretty dope, not going to lie

@catinthepeng2686 4 жыл бұрын

It's okay; I frankly have never been attracted to ESTP men either... but Se is my trickster.

@nomad6956 4 жыл бұрын

Gibb tomboy owo

@firebreathingmoonbeam3961 4 жыл бұрын

I dodged it also

@onlinealias622 3 жыл бұрын

Become lesbian - improvise, adapt, overcome lol

@0halibut0 5 жыл бұрын

When ESTP are mad....DON'T GIVE THEM OPTIONS! They will feel overwhelmed and get more pissed off. Wait until they cool off then they'll be ready for options. --from an ESTJ wife married to an ESTP

@TheLaNadine 4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha I relate to this so much

@iman5147 4 жыл бұрын

I can't relate because I can't get mad.

@gigip4727 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, that household.... I can only imagine.

@SweetNovember000 3 жыл бұрын

@@gigip4727 I know right 😂

@gigip4727 3 жыл бұрын

😅😆

@caitporter_24 6 жыл бұрын

I'm an INTJ, and I regularly go to my ESTP sister when I need a good slap in the face with reality.

@katrinagarcia8645 4 жыл бұрын

Corinne Lewis me too dude

@ma_iii 3 жыл бұрын

Lol hahah

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

How does that look like?

@caitporter_24 3 жыл бұрын

@@ashuranero5721 A nice red mark on my cheek

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

@@caitporter_24 No i mean for real, what does she do?

@LaudenElizabeth 4 жыл бұрын

ESTP woman and man I cried when you said "as children, you think everyone is stupid" Theory does cause rage.

@amalgamated333 4 жыл бұрын

TheLorinExhibit I recently discovered myself as an ESTP by using reference points from other’s and my mom reminded me that I used to have a tshirt I wore in middle school that said “I see stupid people” hahaha I had forgotten about it until she brought it up

@Black.Sabbath 2 жыл бұрын

That sounds way too misanthropic for an ESTP

@t-man5196 2 жыл бұрын

Damn, this whole video must have caused rage for you then

@LelaBria Жыл бұрын

@@Black.Sabbath lol mmm well we’re not one dimensional jock bully stereotypes only capable and enjoying rage/ joy and bullying lol. What on earth would make you think Ti parent, Te critic , or being Fe child on the secret squishy inside , whilst the majority of the world basically mob mentality bully projects sadistic demon intentions on you, as if not a human being , for literally just sacrificing ur own child functions Safety and comfort in hopes to provide the actual bullies and their friends a path to wellbeing and growth as a human being , key hack paths and truths that no one (entp possibly excepted ?) else will be willing to provide to avoid the lash back, but later on rare occasions the more growth oriented mature ones may one day endlessly thank you for having the balls and yknow , caring to even bother… but like , years after creating a monster image of you for ut tho 😂 and never going back to reflect on that, and around the world turns for the next thankless twerp we can’t help but try to help if we see so clearly how, to do the same like why wouldn’t be misanthropic as all fuck 😂 WUT.

@katierenae2330 5 жыл бұрын

My husband is a ESTP and it took me forever just to get him to take the test, I said, babe I wrote down what I think you are on a piece of paper and it would mean so much to me if I could see how "in tune" I am with this personailty stuff ive been digging into...I cracked up bc you described my hubby SO well, hes SO cranky in the morning, he is SO direct at times it comes off to me as cold, heartless and uncaring, I am a INFJ, yeah its been years of me growing thicker skin, and my hubby taming down his direct word arrows to my heart lol I love ESTP though bc it helps bring me back to "reailty" and they just dont care what others think about them.

@ashuranero5721 2 жыл бұрын

If your husband is an ESTP then it is very very unlikely that you are an INFJ. It is more likely that you are an INFP, because that is the bronzw pair of the ESTP, which is quite common

@reysabelr4343 2 жыл бұрын

@@ashuranero5721 I agree. That or her husband is actually ESTJ. ESTJs can be walking reality check too as far as I know. INFJ and ESTP relationship (MBTI version, not socionic) would be a disaster if we're looking at their cognitive function stack.

@MrEvldreamr 2 жыл бұрын

@@reysabelr4343 they are disasters

@Black.Sabbath 2 жыл бұрын

Still waiting to hear if they're still together.

@crunchyandmagnificent5646 Жыл бұрын

@@reysabelr4343 ESTJ are quite often walking dogma enforcers, not walking reality check. They don't test something on how realistic it is, but rather they usually test something for how well it aligns with the pattern they know. These patterns CAN be realistic and pragmatic, but it depends big time

@gabbyflor13 5 жыл бұрын

This video helped, I'm a female ESTP I'm my mid 20s and I'm literally right now feel that I'm stuck that idk what to do and feel like I have no freedom and it's driving me crazy!

@amieg 4 жыл бұрын

OMG sis same! I literally have been scrolling down to see if someone was going through the same thing as I. I feel so stuck and stagnant exactly like he was saying. I hope you got out of that funk and if you did, please let me know what you did because I feel like I'm wasting away and don't know how to "snap out of it".

@buzzllin 4 жыл бұрын

Feel this yoo.. 😔

@rohanofelvenpower5566 3 жыл бұрын

@@amieg get pregnant. Than you will really be stuck.

@Oilofmercy 3 жыл бұрын

@@rohanofelvenpower5566 omgs no. I never had kids for that reason

@afterthoughts423 3 жыл бұрын

I, an ESTP, had my doubts this video would be accurate, but you nailed it in every area 100%. Much respect! I haven't been that impressed with someone's research and topic knowledge in quite a while.

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@angeyoldskoolcool 8 ай бұрын

@@markqq4487Emergency services

@shizzlemywizzle1 5 жыл бұрын

I’m an INFJ, and my high school boyfriend was an ESTP. I always joke that he was extremely intelligent, yet so dumb at the same time (in regards to empathy, relating to other people, being oblivious to everyone else’s needs). He was very sweet to me in unique way, and everyone thought he was a dick but I knew that he came from a good place. Such a great guy; he opened my mind to different experiences and connections. Love ESTP’s, I also believe that my mother is one!

@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын

have you verified he wasnt an ENTP?

@patriciaheath6677 6 жыл бұрын

I’m an Infp married to an Estp and when we were first married he thought I was the laziest and most selfish person, I thought he was selfish and just an a**hole. Because of our religious beliefs though we were going to learn how to love each other and make it work... well it was difficult, but after 20 years and a lot of maturing we have seen how much better our lives are because of our differences. He showed me and encouraged me to actually live in the today and he makes my life so fun, I showed him that there is more to life than just the tyranny of tasks that need to get done and that I would follow him off a cliff😊. I think ESTPs are misunderstood, but they are worth it. I am thoroughly enjoying my mature Middle -aged ESTP.

@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын

Patricia Heath I just shared this comment with an ESTP friend who is going through the same. Thank you for being a source of hope.

@LIVdaBrand 6 жыл бұрын

glad it worked out! we ARE fun! meet in the middle :)

@LaMadeleinedeJesus 5 жыл бұрын

im an INFP dating and ESTP and he's taught me so much and I have grown a lot from watching him because we are really different from each other.

@coachkay3098 5 жыл бұрын

Patricia Heath wow !! 💖 well they say love wins💖💖

@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын

I'm a female INFP and I'm very attracted to ESTPs. Not just opposite sex. I have two ESTP close women friends whom I trust. I wouldn't follow them over a cliff, though. I can only do that for ENFJs.

@NEC73B 6 жыл бұрын

I am ESTP married to ESTJ and life is fabulous. 23 years together and we are like life has just began.

@LIVdaBrand 6 жыл бұрын

so ESTP of you lmao :)

@lpzlzl 5 жыл бұрын

Yesssss me too! I'm ESTP and my husband is ESTJ! Best combination!

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

How do you do reality checks?

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@Rjm1331 3 жыл бұрын

As an ESTP, I’ve been called a “walking reality check” countless times.

@ondrejspilko9768 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah me too.

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

@@ondrejspilko9768 How do your Reality Checks look like?

@ADeeSHUPA 3 жыл бұрын

@@ashuranero5721 uP

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

@@ADeeSHUPA ?

@markqq4487 2 жыл бұрын

What does it mean ????

@got2bthesweet1 4 жыл бұрын

My biggest reason for stagnating is a fear of committing. I'll be hesitant to take on responsibilities and make decisions which will have an impact on my personal life for more than half a year. It stresses me out because I feel like I'm giving up a lot of my freedom. When I get an uncontrollable urge to do something spontaneous that clashes with these responsibilities, it always leads to me letting whoever down. Not to mention that responsibilities are more often than not dull and uneventful. Committing to a relationship is also stressful as it comes with the expectation of not being flirtatious with others. I'm not a cheater, but flirting is a fun sort of 'game' that comes naturally to me and a difficult thing to keep in.

@sahilpawar4543 3 жыл бұрын

Man I am going through the worst period in my life, I can't even eat food these days, but this video is making me understand myself better and why I do the things I do, why I pushed myself away from my ex? And why I doubt myself everytime I do something new, I have moves to a different country all by myself for the second time in my life and I have really struggled here. I really like your video, I feel so understood.

@dbate17 4 жыл бұрын

This is so good. What a great description. Very educational and spot on... thank you.

@mythmismail3366 5 жыл бұрын

I loved your video no one else has ever explained and understand ESTP more than you I really relate to everything you said, thanks man and keep it up

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@abitterwind 5 жыл бұрын

I'm an INFP learning about ESTPs (I work with 3), we get along super well and their mind fascinates me. This video makes me understand where they're coming from even more, it's amazing.

@halilyn4123 5 жыл бұрын

I dated one for 13 years. They make the best salesmen. They can sell ice to an Eskimo.

@japanesereadingandwriting Жыл бұрын

@@halilyn4123 I think you can sell ice to an Eskimo too.

@josephbraun8211 5 жыл бұрын

These videos are amazing. Keep up the good work!

@_vurb_ 10 ай бұрын

wow. phenomenally accurate. brings so much depth of understanding to my past and my patterns. i've watched this before but it wasn't until i wrote it all down and really studied it that i could see myself clearly.. much appreciation for your time and effort in delivering this!

@superfightbros.2692 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making me sound so awesome!!

@tobacon3097 4 жыл бұрын

That hit me like a wall, but like a proper ESTP, I am gonna use this information to not fall victim to my weaknesses and improve myself accordingly😉 thx👍

@sofiamayelaresendezmedina2753 Жыл бұрын

LITERALLY WHY I WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS hahaha

@Lineman-zs3zx 5 жыл бұрын

Spot on, you’d think he’s been observing me for my entire life

@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын

I have the ability for remote viewing.

@Kana_108_ 5 жыл бұрын

Great work Joseph! I am very impressed!

@totally_a_spy 5 жыл бұрын

My sister is an ESTP and I am an INFP. And I feel like for the most part of our life I spent time adapting to her. And not vise versa. I disliked it but still went along with it. She made rules the entire time we grew up. TV shows that only she could watch or songs or products only she could use. It was very much her comfort first. And it continued like that for all our teenage years until she tired of it and just changed the rules. Which temporarily caused a rift between us as I felt like she just did things as she liked with no regard to the fact that I was adapting to her and trying to get her to appreciate me. This does explain a lot about her. She is so tough love. She doesn't care when I want to talk about what could be or dreams or people suffering. She's got empathy, but it doesn't come out for most issues. We're very different in terms of what make us us. But we also have very similar principles and fine we both have a very live and let live attitude

@t-man5196 2 жыл бұрын

Explain to me how an individual can live a life that is “very much their comfort first” as opposed to others comfort, make others feel like most of the time they’re around them that they have to adapt to them, make rules about having things only they can use/tv shows only they can watch and still have “empathy”? That sounds like the polar opposite of empathy. In fact, it sounds like straight up selfishness and a marked lack of consideration for others. What am I missing?

@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын

Good lecture. I have an ESTP cousin and she is the ultimate alpha female. Very persuasive and mature, and doesn't think she's ever wrong.

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@Polymath9000 Жыл бұрын

@@markqq4487special forces.

@resmarted 4 жыл бұрын

ESTPs have more fun, both at the expense and benefit of others.

@resmarted 3 жыл бұрын

@Skeltion No

@resmarted 3 жыл бұрын

@Skeltion No, I'm having fun at your expense.

@distortedattention4231 4 жыл бұрын

As a INFJ, I absolutely love ESTPs. We get along great. I do feel like they don't always care, but that might be an INFJ issue.

@CyanydeKiss 2 жыл бұрын

ESTP are carefree, free-spirited. They value their freedom to do whatever they want most of all. If you want something from them, you have to plant seeds in their mind so they feel like it was their idea, or they won't want to do it.

@Emprah 2 жыл бұрын

@@CyanydeKiss as an ESTP, I’m telling you: you’re goddamn right.

@shrek_istheonlygod1547 2 жыл бұрын

we don't always care unless you show us your super caring to us(that's me anyways)

@LelaBria Жыл бұрын

@@CyanydeKiss *squinting … ohhhh. Lol one of my partner always does that when suggesting plans 😂 ahead of time he gives some ideas and says just planting a seed ahead of time don’t respond or decide now we can figure it out later. Hmm. Smart guy 😂

@saharaleebolo2759 5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my dad. He insults people as a way to motivate them, but this is because he had a military background where insulting subordinates is considered an effective way to toughen them up.

@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын

please watch my interview with Robert Glover on Grimerica podcast that explains more about this.

@erikab4001 5 жыл бұрын

I'd love to see a video comparing ESTP and ENTP...!

@imjustrambling 4 жыл бұрын

ESTP vs ENTP video already exists on this channel

@ADeeSHUPA 3 жыл бұрын

@@imjustrambling Link

@josiest-amour5298 5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU for showing both the positive AND negative sides

@VondaInWonderland 3 жыл бұрын

That was actually incredibly enlightening. I have overcome many demons with age, but in my youth, oofff! I just started studying this part of Jung's Philosophies. It's astounding that such a human could exist, especially back then. I subscribed to your channel. You seam to be the most informed, and able to explain in a rational way, thus far. Thank you ♥

@CSJoseph 3 жыл бұрын

Much appreciated

@c.s.70 3 жыл бұрын

Well Jung was an INFJ, your ESTP polar mirror so you also have subconscious INFJ ;)

@Entyipo 2 жыл бұрын

@@c.s.70 Jung was an INTP typed by C.S Joseph

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@dominiquelegagneur9636 4 ай бұрын

this won me over i’ve been in denial about being an ESTP because of the stereotype but i’ve never been explained this well from “analysis paralysis” to “stupid-zoning” this was incredibly enlightening !!! thank you :))

@poisonivy1227 5 жыл бұрын

Soo true! I am an ENTP and my boyfriend is an ESTP. I give him options and perspectives, help him with his "path" and inspire him to create his life :) He gives me new experiences, company and initiative to act. He is a cure for my procrastination. He helps me to implement my ideas, which he understands (thanks to high logic) and he makes them more practical. In my opinion this is perfect match

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@itsramon2429 2 жыл бұрын

Dude, I like you a lot for knowing me more than my own friends and family.

@heiro9611 4 жыл бұрын

I’m an INFJ, the ESTP being the aspirational side of my mind I find most of this stuff to be stuff I would want to do, especially with the breaking down and the building up of a person. I often get scared with my Inferior Se to speak out against anything when it comes to someone I think is being an awful person. That’s not to say I haven’t, I recently cut off a friendship with an ESFP because she was spreading rumors about someone she disliked. All I told her was that she was doing a lot of shitty things, I could have told her more, but I didn’t because my Ego was pulling back my ESTP.

@jlc6735 2 жыл бұрын

That’s why many INFJs married ESTP

@heiro9611 2 жыл бұрын

@@jlc6735 The most common INFJ relationship is the ESTJ

@beryosa 4 жыл бұрын

„They will push you away just to see if you’ll come back“ OMG, that’s me! About respect, I always said that I need my partner first to respect me and then to live because I don’t need love if he doesn’t respect me. Your videos was very much focused on male or at least you said often „male ESTP“ but in general it was very interesting. I really saw myself. When you said that they don’t know what they want I was thinking that it’s not true but then I remembered that when I was younger (now 34) I really didn’t know what I want and now I know exactly what I want. I was sitting at home and wasn’t going out. I was following rules but now I’m a bit different. And it might be not interesting to you but since I feel like alpha and act like alpha men are a bit afraid of me and it causes problems in a relationship. Maybe you can make a video about this topic too. Would be nice :)

@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын

I do, its in season 17

@cyberneticbutterfly8506 4 жыл бұрын

Careful about that. If you do it to an INTP I'd never come back if you pushed just once.

@hananabusalih7894 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! You are a genius!!! nobody /no other source can describe my personality in a better way.

@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын

too bad the world disagrees with you. I am thankful you see it this way.

@hananabusalih7894 4 жыл бұрын

@@CSJoseph, lol that's not quite what I said. However, speaking of that; my own society and family do actually disagree with all my life decisions and lifestyle (and the other way around). :)

@gadisglitchofficialchannel6999 4 жыл бұрын

@@CSJoseph such an ENTP way of responding 😂

@t-man5196 2 жыл бұрын

@@hananabusalih7894 what about your life decisions/lifestyle do you find your society disagrees with? If anything in particular

@TarzanHedgepeth Жыл бұрын

@@hananabusalih7894 he meant the world disagrees with your assessment of his ability to describe the ESTP type…, or any type for that matter. But the more I learn, the more I realize this guy knows more than most anyone else. Actually… more than anyone else that I’ve seen.

@derekbrisson2448 5 жыл бұрын

Bravo. Amazing job. Very impressed

@valazull 4 жыл бұрын

This is so GOOD! I feel EXPOSED! Thank you so much! So accurate!!!

@AmberMcQuiston 5 жыл бұрын

This is so dead on. One of my best male friends is an ESTP. He's an ER nurse and ex-military. Very alpha, but not super domineering at the same time. He's very charismatic and always looking out for people who are loyal friends. He witnessed my exboyfriend verbally being a dick to me. He didn't confront my exboyfriend, but he told me later he wanted to, and he wanted me to be very aware that he noticed what an asshole he was to me, and how he was this close to punching him. Most guys wouldn't say anything, and kinda mind their own business.

@AmberMcQuiston 5 жыл бұрын

My exboyfriend is an ISTJ and I'm an ENFP. Chew on that for dysfunctional relationships! Lol

@jennysmith9591 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry, that kind of bragging does not impress me. It sounds like he put you in a position of "damsel in distress" ...without actually doing anything to help. So, sexism plus laziness? IDK

@MrAlexmac123 3 жыл бұрын

@@jennysmith9591 validation = sexism, 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@t-man5196 2 жыл бұрын

What is your MBTI type?

@j2b2man 6 жыл бұрын

Your videos are gold. I've never learned so much about the inner workings of the people I'm close with. Keep up the great work mah dude!

@CSJoseph 6 жыл бұрын

Mr. Brillz thanks bro

@rambultruesdell3412 5 жыл бұрын

I (infp) work for a man described by this presentation. He must be the most misunderstood individual in Ninilchik, AK. As a probable INFP, I am able to understand him as hard and reasonable and not as the biggest a- hole in town. Thank you.

@dannyrivko1761 5 жыл бұрын

I found out so much about myself from this. Thank you!

@Vezmus1337 5 жыл бұрын

I was going to point out the ISTP/ISTJ error but thankfully you caught it and corrected it already

@halilyn4123 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the testing the rules thing...the ESTP I know always has traffic tickets and excuses for every one such as some technicality or reason the rule was stupid.

@iman5147 4 жыл бұрын

@CrimsonHazmat 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for these vids, these are great vids

@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын

you are most welcome

@baaf777 6 жыл бұрын

Good video Joseph, Straight shooters, yes One month after getting a new boss I told him he was a control-freak and explained him to get off my back. Want the people around them to perform well. Yes! In the office and in sports I’m always spotting for talent and I love to see them grow to their best potential. Wow, so true on the low Ni making us struggle sometimes. I’ve several wonderful NFJ ladies in my life and an INTJ friend who are my Ni guides to the future. But never cranky when I wake up. It’s as if all my systems are switched on immediately and I’m ready to kick ass. I think it’s Se.

@user-up9jf1jq2w Жыл бұрын

I love them too. Your description is beautiful tooo.

@one5872 5 жыл бұрын

I just typed my friend ESTP. Super good analysis of his persona I didn't know he was so valuable to me. My man gotta test my systems

@tjz6202 5 жыл бұрын

I'm an ESTP, but I do believe that all living things have this invisible energy called Qi, and some humans can manipulate it in personally beneficial ways. I have seen a Chinese master done it with my own eyes, or else I wouldn't believe it. This has also lead me to be more open to other impossible to prove concepts like Karma, life after death, and even the very existence "The Creator".

@minimunk7 4 жыл бұрын

Same on everything pretty much. I used to discard anything hypothetical as boring but now, especially after trying lsd hsve turned towards spirituality. I've become engrossed in Buddhism, yogi, stoicism and psychology. This didn't happen until after my lsd trips though, I was starting my journey before that but they pushed me miles ahead. Since I experienced spiritual things I'm now very convinced of them

@Emily.J. 4 жыл бұрын

My estp boyfriend has some metaphysical beliefs too, I think if you're a more subconscious heavy estp you might adopt that infj interest in the metaphysical?

@Kiseochan 3 жыл бұрын

This is awesome and interesting that you still needed that sensory "with your own eyes " experience to be open to it. Pretty cool!

@joeltucker5488 5 жыл бұрын

Great job explaining ESTP's. I am one big time!!!! Although im not grumpy in the mornings, and i do have high moral standards. Spot on on testing everything, facts r facts. The whole Alfa thing finally makes sense, LOL. Big thanks for taking the time to do this video!!!

@stevedavenport1202 6 жыл бұрын

I have known many ESTPs and the vast majority of them are quite nice

@ShadowQuik 6 жыл бұрын

Steve Davenport yeah I find they can be pretty aggressive sensation seekers but they can switch to this caring and empathetic side with their Fe

@halilyn4123 5 жыл бұрын

@Leearn the ESTP I dated for 13 years didn't really appreciate sarcasm. He was always joking around but his humor was more about pointing out dumb things others were doing. I guess hence the reality checks again.

@DS-cf1zc 5 жыл бұрын

@Leearn I am the most sarcastic ESTP you could ever meet, and take the piss out of everything, everyone, and almost all situations. Life is for living, and for being fun, and sarcasm is a form of warped humour. I am also in a relationship that will pass 30 years this year, and married for almost 28 years.

@DS-cf1zc 5 жыл бұрын

@Leearn Yes she is an ESTJ - dont laugh, she writes lists - miles of them, shopping, holidays, almost everything has a list. My holiday list comes out of my head at the eleventh hour the night before, and I never forget anything. unlike Mrs List. :) Who usually misses something of it. She is also ultra funny, and when grumpy, I just do something daft and make her laugh again.

@MrLuigiFercotti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@mariamunozpiz6070 Жыл бұрын

This is the best video out!!!!! Wise wise

@dream2sea 4 жыл бұрын

You REALLY know your shit and it shows! Kudos!!

@frappino4544 6 жыл бұрын

Wow I was uncertain about my personality type but now i know it’s estp ! Thanks alot !

@CSJoseph 5 жыл бұрын

you're welcome

@rawanalali2483 5 жыл бұрын

Amazing explanation 👏🏼👍🏼 thank you✨

@Laroula1 4 жыл бұрын

You described me in ways i can't describe myself! but you didn't go much into the ESTP female though! yes it's a slightly rare to find an ESTP woman but worthy of a little more elaboration, don't you think!

@TheLaNadine 4 жыл бұрын

I second this! Please and thank you!

@ajj2468 4 жыл бұрын

i would love to hear more about estp women!! -an estp woman lol

@luz3424 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@JW-dh3nc 5 жыл бұрын

Handwriting is surprisingly neat this video 👍🏻

@lindajoyflower 3 жыл бұрын

So true! no one has better explained my Estp husband. Now so much makes sense! Thank you CSJ!

@ma_iii 3 жыл бұрын

As an ESTP. I’m not the stereotype estp. I would like to have a sexual relationship only with the right person who I’ve decided to spend the rest of my life with. I don’t have the eagerness to go to different people, to me this is waste of time, lack of self worth.

@ara5979 3 жыл бұрын

Watch C. S. Joseph's video about ESTP's vice and virtue!!

@oscarwong4201 3 жыл бұрын

Yep sex after marriage is what I want even if my sex drive is sky high all the time :/ - estp

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

@@oscarwong4201 Female or male?

@ondrejspilko9768 3 жыл бұрын

@@oscarwong4201 Yeah same :D. The believe is for me far more.

@LinYouToo 4 жыл бұрын

This helps me understand why some personality types either come across as high on the narcissist spectrum (or psychopath LoL) and it may require a lot more understanding than what meets the eye ;)

@edwinfalkner152 4 жыл бұрын

"Walking reality checks" hehehehe, pure gold!

@stevensanchez4687 4 жыл бұрын

Wow this explains everything. As an estp i just finished editing people's papers for group work right before watching this and there was this girl i kinda liked so i changed her paper a lot and did a lot of commenting probably because i cared more for her. And finding out that estp tries to break apart people who they actually care was surprising lol

@LelaBria Жыл бұрын

Lmao literally just told my esfj partner who’s practicing his boundaries agency blah blah , that … “wow so me being me must be really rough on you Bec my immediate reaction to feeling excited about discussion WITH YOU is to like ask a million questions, test ur logic lol, explore the bounds of everything ur saying 😂 must be fun for that Ti inferior huh. Lolol. (I also don’t consciously register thst it’s viewed as tearing them apart even at such minor levels lol 😆 I’m literally just NEUTRALLY intaking information FROM MY PWRSPECTIVE and people be feelin torn apart lol like ok😩 but maybe I’m not scared to tell you shit so if I didn’t tell you shit I don’t mean that shit you imagined it means 😆 but okaaaaay general human population. *sighs in estp * lol Not sure if this helps but i told him. You realize that me doing that means I actually respect and enjoy and want to know what you think right? I’m not gonna waste my energy search ur words for shit if I think ur stupid and useless in the brain dear love. 😂 my “challenging “ you is literally Bec I’m excited to see what you got. I want to play fight ur brain. Let me wrestle you… intellectually lmao. That means love and respect okaaaaay this is SP land keep up esfj 😂 I always am surprised when people think I have some sort of nefarious intentions (trying to convince them of any particular conclusion, away them away, assume they’re wrong or uninformed etc etc some sort of disrespect implied ?). Literally I just insta explore the bounds of this thing. It’s got nothing to do with a goal beyond seeing what is here 😂 I am not invested in the outcome or thinking about ur worth or security as a human being like relax ! A question is literall a question. No idea how often I have said the words “please do not add layers of interpretation to what I’ve said. If I didn’t say it. That’s not what I meant. Pls. Im very clear and honest lol just take my yes for yes and my no for no ?”

@howardminkler484 5 жыл бұрын

I questioned if I'm an ESTP because I've lost my ways through life and poor choices but this makes sense to me.

@kevingaffey4062 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your work.

@nevtzee 5 жыл бұрын

This hit home a bit. Im stagnant and to insecure to do anything. Explained a lot about my self. thank you

@willieoosthuizen1 4 жыл бұрын

NOVEMBER 2019. Why haven't I found this earlier. Great video! ESTP here and that was enlightening

@xWINfinity 6 жыл бұрын

Great vid, pretty much spot on! (ESTP)

@cakesrenee986 3 жыл бұрын

So good! Thank you!

@stephanieb5632 6 жыл бұрын

I literally yelled, "YES!" at the "analysis paralysis."

@liveforyouonly 3 жыл бұрын

the I'm going to tear you down part is so spot on. thought I was just a bully

@ashuranero5721 3 жыл бұрын

What exactly do you do to tear others down?

@halilyn4123 5 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with their struggle with monogamy

@user-mx7ve9tc1x 4 жыл бұрын

thank you. nice informative video) actualy helps me figurate out some things about myself

@mennims 4 жыл бұрын

ESTP here, love the jabs at my personality type, looks like you've had some personal experience with ESTPs

@kian1941 5 жыл бұрын

Now this is interesting ,the fact that if I (INFJ) get over my Se insecurities , I can become this ESTP alpha (even if it's for a short time). Thank you so much for these videos everything is starting to make more an more sense. I'm going to keep watching and writing notes

@LinYouToo 4 жыл бұрын

kian 19 INFJ here. Same happens to me as I work on my S. I become more alpha.

@kirasundberg9643 6 жыл бұрын

the video's great. im trying to type a buddy of mine and this video helped a lot.

@Sappien 4 жыл бұрын

OMG. I’m ESTP and my man you just reading me like a book. I even laughed how accurate you are 😀👌.

@markqq4487 Жыл бұрын

What jobs should ESTP avoid, due to their struggles and fears ? What job suits ESTPs in your experience ??

@SrzMMC 4 жыл бұрын

I understand now, he’s in spectator mode and has been watching me for years!

@edwinfalkner152 4 жыл бұрын

Dude... you are a fucking genius... the Si indecision and insecurity part is so spot-on its scary.

@juni260 5 жыл бұрын

you are just.. the smartest guy I've ever seen, .....great video! came here after the short episode on the podcast (you should try check it out if you haven't already?)

@jeterpilled_memester 4 жыл бұрын

weirdo estp who doesn't wake up cranky every morning(unless people interrupt my sleep, then I am pissed off). Really thankful for the whole guide here

@ScotlandWeitzel 3 жыл бұрын

My sister is an INFJ and I'm an ESTP. When we were growing up, I gave her so much crap because at the time I could definitely sense some self-doubt. She would annoy the hell out of me, I could not understand how she could worry about such small things! We've both grown up a lot, I'm way less of an evil DIC ;) and her naïve optimism for all groups of people is a little endearing. And that Omega comparison was spot on, I have a strong distaste for people who act like weasels. But if they want to become better, I'm there to help them every step of the way...with a little tough love.

@firebreathingmoonbeam3961 6 жыл бұрын

I don't hate theory as long as I think it's reasonable.

@natashabaier6247 6 жыл бұрын

I love this I'm an enfp but I have a close estp friend and shes awsome :)

@pinkbabe145 3 жыл бұрын

I think my best friend might be an ESTP, I’m having a hard time typing her. She’s not afraid of confronting me when I make her upset. Also when I talk to her about my fantasies she would get tired and tell me to snap out of it. She’s also super brave taking bus rides ever since she was a young kid. What made it hard to type is that she babies me most times. The more I learn personalities the more I love close people in my life

@A-ID-A-M 4 жыл бұрын

This explains why everyone asks me for advice

@elitzapetrova3768 4 жыл бұрын

Female Estp here... Exactly who I am!!! Thanks Joseph!

@carlymestep9001 5 жыл бұрын

Good video. 99% accurate. Some ESTPs are early risers who wake up happy and ready to cook breakfast for everyone, while singing, loudly...then wash the car, take the kids to the park, go visit grandma...all before the INFPs and ENFPs are even really awake. (Go ahead-ask me how I know.)

@rachelbass7914 4 жыл бұрын

Carly M Estep how do you know this?

@hendlovessesshy 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm an INTP with an ESTP husband, and the struggle is real. This helps me understand him a bit more. The loyalty checks are super accurate. I'm kinda offended by it but when you explained that it helps him feel safer, although i think means he doesnt trust me, ill probably let it go for now. The only bit that's different is that he is really energized in the morning and always in a good mood. And it most situation giving him options doesn't really work well, he gets overwhelmed i think and burst. I'm now kinda doubting he is ESTP bec yes he gives reality checks, but sometimea it isn't logical. Like he thinks he is giving checks but it doesn't make sense. Plus the excuses..omg the excuses he gives himself! I know you have lots and lots of requests but if you ever get the chance to do a compatibility of an INTP Female and ESTP male that would be awesome. (If you didn't already i mean, im gonna check your videos)

@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын

One day

@Black.Sabbath 2 жыл бұрын

Overwhelmed? Doesn't sound like an ESTP to me. But as an employee of an INTP, bloody hell does he always test me!

@amelamch5536 9 ай бұрын

@@CSJosephso ? 😌

@jonathanchappell9503 4 жыл бұрын

watching this has really really hepled me put my inferior funciton at peace. I have been searching for me forever. I found why I cannot make a decision and why i am stuck and unable to launch.

@oilmama8510 3 жыл бұрын

I'd like a video about enfp and estp, you do a great job!

@evafernandez3845 2 жыл бұрын

omfg this is the most accurate thing that someone ever said of me !!

@baris9948 4 жыл бұрын

You Just explained my whole life

@valeriagomez394 3 жыл бұрын

Omg even you focused more about men being estp, me as a woman you described a lot about myself and made me realize stuff I wondered why I used to do or why I acted in some ways.

@Latin_King_1 4 жыл бұрын

Be yourself!! Be proud of who you are!!

@punkpixee 3 жыл бұрын

I was raised in a religious home and found spirituality after that. Both destroyed me and made me super depressed my whole life until I left it all altogether and chose to just go by the physical and what made sense to me, then I became my true self for the first time in my life. Dogma really is an ESTPs kryptonite. I’m not against all that but it sent me back very far. Thank u Chase!

@sebastianayala6580 2 жыл бұрын

YES THIS JUST DESCRIBED MY UPBRINGING

@guernica5413 Жыл бұрын

Recently the mother of a dear ESTP friend of mine passed away. Me and other close friends went there to comfort him. He comforted everybody.

@Prettydee90 4 жыл бұрын

Great job! I’m a INFJ married to a estp and that’s perfect information. We have been together for 12 years!

@Prettydee90 4 жыл бұрын

I need a INFJ and estp relationship video

@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын

you mean you are ISFJ?

@Prettydee90 4 жыл бұрын

C.S. Joseph no I’m an infj lol why did you say isfj

@raedjamal5779 4 жыл бұрын

@@Prettydee90 ESTPs and INFJs have the 3rd lowest compatibility whereas ESTPs and ISFJs have 5th highest compatibility so it would make sense that you are an ISFJ since you've been together since 12 years.

@Prettydee90 3 жыл бұрын

No believe me he is a estp lol we are completely the opposite but I love him for that. There is no such thing as a low compatibility when you love and respect one another for who they are and dont try to change that.. do to our opposite function, we help better one another's inferior function.(INFJ ni,fe,ti,se VS ESTP se,ti,fe,ni) we have a unique understanding in our communication same point different ways expressed and Experience. I go in to detail and he loves to bottom line it lol.. It just take time, patience understanding and trust. We have our moments just like any other couple but my Estp is loyal,committed, and explosive with spontaneous and a doer of (acts of love). He give me my space to recharge and I let he explore his adventures. He keeps me in the present and in the moment as I help him have more insight and plan the future.. it's a great thing! He is the peanut butter and I'm his jelly lol!

@LornaLens 2 жыл бұрын

I am an ENFJ, my besties are ENFJ and ESTP and INFP. Hubby ENTP. I love this!

@blessparco 4 жыл бұрын

It's so true. I'm reputed to be caring but not 100%. I let people realize that they're screwing up. I can be cold and ruthless if I need to. In my college days I was the only one who had this type of personality. I've seen people who act as if they're intelligent and all powerful as of nobody can defeat them but they don't realize that in the end they can be outsmarted. ESTP female here. I love it. It's more of like an influencer and it's like magic because when I'm around people, people seem to try to improve I don't know why. Most especially the loyalty check, I'm so much like that, I always do that. I agree with every single point given here. I also absolutely agree with the ESTP as a spiritual person explanation. As a rare type of ESTP who believes in spirituality and metaphysics, I absolutely agree. I hate conspiracy theories it's so true. If someone disrespect me, that actually makes me angry. I agree with how ESTPs are when angry as well because it seems like we can be sadistic. I love screwing people up secretly when I get really angry.