Who is MOST Desired: Plus Top 5 Frequently Asked Questions

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Are Men or Filipinas most desired in the Philippines, Thailand and through out Asia. Age Gap Relationships can be found online in dating apps like Christian Filipina, Filipino Cupid, and Dating in Asia. Who is the Prize, who is the catch, who has the mojo in romance and dating in the Philippines and Thailand, Malaysia, Korea, and Japan.
the Dating economy revolves around scarcity and surplus. Men has security, finances, and experience to offer and they trade for beautiful Filipinas and
Thai women, asian women with youth, adventure and excitement to make them feel young.
In the West too often men are faced with a scarcity, and if they are not in the top 12% of men in looks and money they find a difficult and depressing online and in person dating relationship opportunity around them. This can lead to self doubt, a portrayal of neediness, and desperation. Looking needy when dating is a real problem and will turn off all women including Asian and Filipina women.
Learning to love yourself, exude confidence, and being selective is the key to online dating and relationship success.
Men in the west can be invisible and ignored when they reach their forties, fifties and sixties. There is a real shortage of women and due to the scarcity men become desperate and lose their ability to be selective in searching for and finding a potential partner. The opportunity for an age gap relationship is nearly impossible in most western countries like the United States and Canada. However in the Philippines and Thailand there is a surplus of available younger beautiful Filipinas and Thai Women. Even countries with higher cost of living like Korea and Japan have an abundance of female companionship available compared to the west.
Men are realizing that an abundance of opportunity online dating and in person dating can be found in the Philippines and Thailand. Manila, Cebu City, Bangkok or Pattaya are just the first stops on a new economy of abundance which can be found on a new continent.
Unfortunately once a man decides to make a Pivot towards the Philippines and Thailand he usually tries online dating apps or Facebook. Not Tinder which is quite different in Asia. But Filipino Cupid, "A Foreign Affair", Christian Filipino, or Dating in Asia or PinaLove dating apps. Again a scarcity is run into as scammers and frauds abound on these dating apps. Less than 50% of the Filipinas and Thai women are honest and real. Most will deceive and attempt to take advantage. So similar to finding a casino full of ways to lose your money men are once again faced with a shortage of available targets of opportunity to find love, romance and adventure in Asia.
A plan for online dating and in person dating with Filipinas and Thai women needs to account for this artificial shortage in what should be an abundant dating environment. A hybrid approach of online dating apps and in person visits to Manila, Cebu City, Pattaya, Phuket, Tokyo and Seoul will yield the surplus you are looking for. We discuss the strategies to find success in an age gap relationship in Asia and the type of budget needed.
In addition I reveal the top 5 frequently asked questions from my consulting practice for Expats seeking to meet asian women and relocate to the Philippines. Banking, Finance, Debit Cards, Bank Credit cards are discussed. Services like PayPal, Western Union, Remitly, and other wire services are rated and discussed. A Charles Schwab debit card, PayPal and a limited amount of US dollars are needed.
The correct Sim Car and Cellular service to receive OTP codes and stay in touch with the west are discussed. Tello.com, Verizon or T-Mobile service, which one is best and what does it cost.
Which Dating app is best rated?
What age Filipina should you be looking for, or Thai Woman, or Korean or JAPANESE woman is best sought after online and in person. Where to go? Makati Philippines, Bangkok Thailand, Cebu City IT Park or Davao City or Dumaguete. Where to stay airbnb or hotel, what is a good budget.
Its all here in this comprehensive Philippines Vlog, Thailand Vlog on why and how men are making the move from a scarcity economy of dating and finding love and new relationships when they mature and are men in their 50's 60's and 70's. It's not just about the best airline to book a transcontinental flight and what month, its all about finding love and romance in Asia where a man can be patient and selective and find an old school girlfriend to spend the rest of his life enjoying retirement in the Philippines, Thailand, Korea, Japan or back in Canada or the United States. Join US.
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@palirvin1871 29 күн бұрын

As a man living in Oceana and Asia now for most of ten years I want to say that his is a very sincere and fair video. I just want to add a little bit of emphasis on two things. 1) if you are new to Asia please don't rush into a marriage of any kind, if you are in love then give the woman a year as your GF and see how it goes , get to really know the worst as well as her best because any mistake you make will set you back time and money-wise. 2) If you are an American man with basic financial stability & you're not totally gross then you are a Grand Prize to a sea of women in Asia but they want you on their terms so remember, you're not someone to be defiled and ridiculed like American women treat you, you're a man in demand. Please spend a year getting your 'new brain wired' in that capacity before stepping off the deep because once you settle down with a woman you are without your consent expected to provide for more than just her. This is a brutal reality and you better get our 'new brain wired' properly before you step into the deep end of the pool. Remember, you are a desirable mate to a women in Asia don't let the scars of hateful American women ruin your new life but also don't be stupid. All relationships are exchanges, both parties have to get something from the relationship or there is no value in the relationship, value is not of course just money, see the truth for the truth and be smart.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Thanks for that well written comment

@gabres19871 28 күн бұрын

Especially if U are young,U just waste your time as you can find always better...just as girls always compare and date with others if U are not around... Dating is not what is used to before COVID...now is just an exchange

@RJT80 13 күн бұрын

One thing I disagree with mentioned in this video is I wouldn't worry about being bald or balding. Don't let that stop you. Most girls, especially the province girls, don't care. It's personality first. They are not Western girls that feminism ruined and now they simply prioritize looks. I've met a ton of happily married guys who no hair and pretty wives. If it worked for MJ it can work for you. Dress well and hit the gym. Gym memberships are dirt cheap there. No excuse for a beer belly unless that's how you absolutely want to live. Even then a lot of women won't care but you should also just live a healthy life. It's much more possible there. Portion sizes are smaller, gyms are cheap, walking is common, etc. You should not be gaining weight in the PH.

@wanderlusttv4382 Ай бұрын

I'm 42 financially secure and in the Philippines. I find myself just trying to enjoy my time and whatever comes I will figure it out from there. I am attracted to friendly, kind, funny and smart. Different places have different vibes but simple ladies catch my eye more

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing- some real gems simple ladies

@chadr4013 Ай бұрын

I’m looking into doing this same thing. I’d like to make the move.

@johnwelch3016 20 күн бұрын

Basically I will use the woman that I meet online or any woman even in America I am a very patient man😊 I never rush into any relationship I was always like that even when I was a young man😂 when I was young they used to say I was conceited😅😅 because I wouldn't just lay down with any woman😅 I was very choosy even to this day in America it's where I live I live alone I've been living alone since my last divorce how long has that been over over over over over 12 years I think now😂😂😂😂 I was in my 50s then and I only focus on myself since I was 53 years old after the divorce so I concentrated on my finances and my self I'm waiting until I got financially back on my feet LOL because every man knows it's an expense leaving a woman in America after a divorce it sets you back LOL even in another country I was to go again in a relationship😂😂😂 so I would be very picky and choosy even though I am 66 years old now almost ready to retire😂😂 still in great shape as I was when I was a young man😂 the only thing different is I'm older😂😂 but I can still wear my pants that I wore when I was a young man the same size🎉🎉🎉🎉 my grandmother was a registered nurse told me to never get fat😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 never gets settled down with a woman and think that she'll be there forever they are different today🎉🎉🎉 never forget that never forgot that saying she said never ever Be totally in love in love in love in love with a woman from the start😂😂😂 because that woman can change very quickly LOL and then she said you'll find out you were in bed with a snake or a lion😂😂😂 so with that being said grandson number one don't fall in love with any woman always keep one eye open all the time watching that woman so funny I still remember that conversation I was 20 years old😂😂😂 but I was married in America for 18 years before it fell through because I work too much so I decided to stay alone until I retire which it will be semi-retired in 2025 so I'm going to be looking to come that way to the Philippines and take my time just enjoy the scenery just like I did when I was younger no rush to pounce on getting into a relationship😂😂😂 ,,,, basically you,ll see me just walking around enjoying the scenery😂😂😂😂 of course I will be looking for a woman but I will not be on a prowl I will just be observing and looking for that Gem of a woman that I am looking for😂😂 I will not be in no rush at all😊😊😊 I will wait till the right one present itself is my grandmother said patience is a virtue😂😂😂

@johnwelch3016 20 күн бұрын

Basically I would watch that woman typo error above LOL

@BarryRock Ай бұрын

Hi Rob & Chrissy. My story started 4 months ago. I went thru Christian Fillipino, only for 3 weeks. In that time period I went thru 498 people. A lot I know, but I was looking for a professional person. Bingo, Teacher 11 years in Phillipinies, with a Masters. So back to story. Then I narrowed down to 3 people. Funny thing is she went thru her last 3 & weeks went from there. She’s 39 with a 22 & 21 year old sons. Both in college. So 501, that was my total I’ll be coming into Phillipines, Manillia, August 8 th. Single mom for over 20 years, in Leyete Province. Just my story. Barry & Joylyn Tacloban, Php

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Awesome thanks for sharing and keep in touch

@GrahamMason 29 күн бұрын

A few years ago I had a look around the Philippines. Lots of available geourgeous women to partner with. But after one has got over the pleasure of being served a few pina coladas on the beach, a man needs a purpose. An increasing number are inspired to become bloggers, but what can the rest do apart from propping up the bar. Haven't come across one blogger who addresses this issue. It not only about female companionship.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing. Good suggestion for content.

@DouglasStewart-p5u 24 күн бұрын

Thank you Rob. I highly recommend your consulting service to your followers who want elaboration and meaningful exchange.Doug

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 24 күн бұрын

@@DouglasStewart-p5u Thanks Doug. I appreciate the referral. I enjoyed talking with you, it was more like chatting with a buddy.

@mickcantana1830 24 күн бұрын

Bingo - expats are in the bars by noontime.

@RJT80 13 күн бұрын

There are opportunities to open businesses but you need to put them in a trust or in your wife's name. Not completely risk free but I would rather start a business there than the US at this point. If I bought an established business in the US that is different but building from scratch at this point in the US is a fools errand in most cases. And most anything tied/branded to a foreigner or Western culture will be popular with native Filipinos. Maybe 80% of restaurants fail in the US but I bet that number is much lower in the PH and especially when you brand it as foreigner owned and operated near a tourist area. You can even work there you just need to be slick about it.

@vinz300000 20 күн бұрын

Awesome video. I like this format, the philosophical one man talking session, keep doing these that's great!!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 20 күн бұрын

Thanks Vincenso

@Maurice181 25 күн бұрын

Pretty sure I'm in the top 10% in the west for my age (60s). That said, I can assure you that dating women between 45-65 is wacked out. And even at that age.. they are still looking for Chads. I seriously think that most western women in that age group have just lost their minds relative to dating. Their expectations are sky high, and don't at all correlate with their 45-65 year old SMV for men.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 25 күн бұрын

Will said Maurice and thanks for watching our channel and taking the time to comment

@cowboy12 Ай бұрын

This one was awesome!!! Do more of these my friend. 💪🏽👍🏼👍🏼

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks! Will do!

@PhilippinesFarmLife 7 күн бұрын

When I was single and living in the USA dating felt like a job interview. I thought their questions were prying like: What kind of car do you drive? Where do you work? Do you travel a lot? Qualifying questions to determine my income. I am sure you experienced it. I would ask how many kids they had and is the father the same for all of them? This was my qualifying question to NOT to date her again and how EASY she was. 😆 I met my Filipino wife during a 2004 visit to friends in Manila. We have been married for 18 years! Best decision I made was visiting friends in the Philippines 20 years ago.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын

Great success story thanks for sharing it

@freedomwillring6749 Ай бұрын

Thanks for your honest and informative information. You make some great points.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@robertboll1503 Ай бұрын

Such wonderful advice! Thank you!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Appreciate the feedback

@albertmorrissette3640 29 күн бұрын

If a person is confident but not arrogant, they will attract the person they seek.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

👍

@dbuck1964 26 күн бұрын

If you’re in se Asia, yes. Not true in the west anymore.

@loothak 29 күн бұрын

ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING VALUABLE KNOWLEDGE……!!!!!!!!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

@@loothak 🙏

@amazonseller-yf8vv Ай бұрын

Wow, you really did it, you really told em!!! I hope this advice will really help men to avoid getting scammed because they won't be thinkiinig they have to giive a girl whatever she asks for since they don't have any other hope of love and apprecation. I also encourage men to keep leveling up, get in a bit better shape, learn new sklls, improve your confdence and then you can set your boundaries in advance.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Thanks

@cdjpower1 18 күн бұрын

Very insightful, thank you.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 18 күн бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@themacker894 Ай бұрын

Great info! Loved the advice.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for the feedback and for watching the video

@Billy_B_Goat Ай бұрын

Rob, on this occasion I strongly disagree with you on two points: 1. WHY do you keep promoting NAIA Manila Airport?!? It's CRAP and consistently rated one of the Worst Airports in the World, yes again this year. The baggage handlers and security agents there are notorious for theft. You are so off base about the Cebu Airport - (unlike Manila) is compact, ALL A/C, immigration is a breeze AND almost all international Flights arrive in the middle of the night so the trip to your hotel in IT or Business Park is just 10 or 15 minutes. Just because you arrived in the middle of the day from a local flight and hadn't planned for a 45-60 minute drive (and really what do you care anyway you're just sitting in the taxi, your not driving). Gentlemen if you are flying international and going to stay in Cebu AVOID the Manila Airport. 2. I personally would bring at Least $1,000 US (I advise $2,000). If you island hop at all you can easily find lots of hotels, restaurants, bike rentals etc that take nothing but cash. Standing in line at an ATM SUCKS A$$... and that's if it doesn't run out of cash which they do all the time especially small islands like Siquijor or Siargao. But hey that's just my take.... you do you. Peace and Love, B Goat

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

B Goat interesting feedback regarding Cebu airport-

@HemiChrysler Ай бұрын

I agree about the money, but the quality of an airport is a non-factor.

@Billy_B_Goat Ай бұрын

@@HemiChrysler Well I hope you enjoy really spread out un-airconditioned Cluster F@cks that put you at risk of a baggage handler stealing your stuff. NOT the way I plan on managing my move to PH. To each his own, good luck with that.

@Abelius Ай бұрын

I haven't heard him 'promoting' any airport. 🤔

@Billy_B_Goat Ай бұрын

@@Abelius He did in this very episode and has recommended Manila at least twice before.... and it's Rob's podcast and his opinion, so of course he's justified in expressing it. But as he finally saw why Cebu such a great starting point via IT Park (I would argue Business Park makes a Great compliment as you can meet up with Lots of Vloggers and Expats at The Social) I argue he is misguiding folks about Cebu Airport given that Manila Airport has some of the Worst Ratings in the Whole World.... and yet he promotes it... as is his right.

@dragonrln Ай бұрын

Great pep talk, Rob. Thanks. (Missed seeing Chrissy though...)

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks, she will be back next episode

@ralexanderjones2356 7 күн бұрын

Thank you for the video.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 7 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@rogerhessell9137 26 күн бұрын

I had grey before I came to the Philippines But I coloured it dark brown but the Philippines liked it wen my hair was grey

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 25 күн бұрын

That’s good to know thanks for sharing that with me

@abqcrutch Ай бұрын

Hey Rob, great information. I'm retiring summer '24 and moving to the PI that fall. Have a friend who owns a condo in Manila and has offered it to me for one month. I'm a scuba diver so I plan on going on dives that first month and checking out the different places. I'm seriously looking at moving to IT park since I used to work in the BPO industry and understand that "culture." Thanks.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Sounds like you’re on your way 🍀

@joeford4587 Ай бұрын

Brilliant info for newbies

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

🙏👍

@cliffyfellows38 28 күн бұрын

Bit repetitive but sound advice. I have been in a relationship for 6 years and we now have a business here. One factor that is overwhelmingly obvious is that the No 1 reason for having a foreigner partner is your money. Call it security, better lifestyle, use whatever euphemism you like. The humour, personality etc is a bonus and will probably provide the glue that keeps you together. That’s why you will be treated like a king - and it feels so good. Ask yourself, If you came with your man bod, tongue hanging out but she magically knew you had little money, would she still want you?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Good points

@hedyvillanueva51 21 күн бұрын

@@cliffyfellows38 - Sorry, but not all Filipinas are hungry for money. There are a lot of decent, well-educated & accomplished Filipinas who are only seeking true partnership. Money will not make you the happiest.

@RawContent 28 күн бұрын

Good video. T-Mobile is only 15 Gig for the 30 days. If you are near wifi it's no problem. It's only a problem if you're streaming outside wifi which is rare in the Ph. I just got back from a week in BGC and used virtually no data. I probably could have made the month. Thanks again!!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 28 күн бұрын

Good good to know thanks for sharing

@mikmak1900 Ай бұрын

no Chrisy dance at the end ??? lol … great advice as always - thanks !

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Next time!

@faisan902 29 күн бұрын

Excellent video, thanks 😁👍👍

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it

@angelomesiti9082 17 күн бұрын

Thank you very much

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 17 күн бұрын

You are welcome

@jamesslagowski1109 29 күн бұрын

Hello, I have been to the Philippines 7 times but not since 1986. I know things have changed since then but I wanted to say that in watching your video that I have really never heard the situation put out the way you expressed it. My times there were courtesy of the United States Navy from which I retired in 2001. I do appreciate the information you provide and will continue to dream while I get things situated here in the US. Take care and I wish you and Crissy the best life.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Thanks for writing James. Let me know if I can help

@davidmorrow6409 Ай бұрын

So true my friend. I found my true love in Leyte

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Awesome congratulations

@billyjohnson9166 Ай бұрын

By the way that’s a good one Charles Schwab ATM card. When I travel Asia I would take dollars and exchange it in that country. But now just my ATM card you get best exchange rates wherever I am. I still take five hundred in cash just in case. By the way Cebu is great. IT Park is 10 minutes from me. Women are everywhere here take your time. I’m grateful to live here in the Philippines. Also traveling Asia is also great and inexpensive.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing that Billy

@Matthew-gz4oh 29 күн бұрын

A Foreign Affair can di a great job as I used them in Colombia. They a la carte services as you mentioned is the way to go.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Thanks for the feedback, Matthew

@emanuel3636 12 күн бұрын

A 55 yo Swede here, planning for my future. Great video!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 12 күн бұрын

Go for it!

@shinypennyinc7027 Ай бұрын

I wouldn't advise for "A foreign Affair". It's all about pay per letter etc. The women have an intro letter that is sent out automatically so you'll think there are hundreds of women dying to meet you who have never even looked at your profile. A lot of guys are taken for tens of thousands on that site.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Good to know

@user-bf5fi4ss2q 12 күн бұрын

That's a great educational video on Filipino relationships. Who i do feel sorry for is old woman.Us men don't want them always looking for a younger and prettier lady.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 12 күн бұрын

Perhaps

@ronlittle578 Ай бұрын

I am preparing to make my second trip to Philippines in October. Home basing both times out of Mindanao. My first visit was in the province 1 hour outside General Santos city and despite US warning level 3 of that area, I always felt very safe. I will be in CDO this next visit.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Let me know if I can help

@ronlittle578 Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Would love to meet up with you guys and take you to lunch when I am there. We are going vacationing to Palawan and Cebu before returning to CDO for a week and my woman friend goes back to work.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@ronlittle578 Ron write me on email flymetothephilippines@gmail.com

@ricksheridan7049 22 күн бұрын

Good morning Rob, Marilyn and I have been in CDO for 5 days now and have been so busy looking for a suitable house to rent. As soon as we can get settled we will start working with an engineer on plans for our home construction in Fresno Parkview. Hope to meet you sometime in person.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 22 күн бұрын

Good news. Looking forward to it

@baconsandwichbaconsandwich727 Ай бұрын

have you ever had experience / heard of organised speed dating tours of the Philippines. they organise your flight, dating events hotel etc as a package. i heard it was being run in cebu and educated quality of men / women was higher.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Yes called a foreign affair

@stan1027 Ай бұрын

In regard to taking her back to the US, our Supreme Court recently ruled that Americans do not have the right to bring a foreign spouse back to the Us based solely on their marriage. She would still have to go through all the requirements to get a Visa or become a Us citizen on her own

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

I thought the recent ruling said…Visa denials are not reviewable in court unless the government violates an applicant's constitutional rights in the process.

@stan1027 Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I'm not certain about that. The case I'm referring to is Dept. of State vs Munoz

@gordondkrbavac6861 7 күн бұрын

OMG 😮 Yet the U.S. has open borders allowing millions of potentially bad people in with No requirements at all. VOTE DONALD TRUMP ❤

@leonardclanton4829 Ай бұрын

I am so looking forward to retiring in the Philippines, but I think I’m about a year or two away

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Keep planning

@DV-zl8ur Ай бұрын

Hi Rob. Chrissy needs to be there and hear you say this.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

She edited video

@RandyRhode-yq5hq Ай бұрын

Beware - The problem with dating sites is that you become emotionally involved with the image that the women (or scammer) gives you. I think the best way to use them is to wait until a month before arrival, like I did. I am happy I used a lengthy introduction with a code word at the end, to be included in the response. The code word helped screen the scammers and those with limited English skills. Most messages were "Hi, how are you". Only a few had the code word.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@Trent-000 Ай бұрын

Very smart man. Scammers don't like to waste time. In my profile I put "you ask me money, you will be blocked" and I get less than 5% of the women contacting me.

@Spitzbube Ай бұрын

Explain please, if you don't mind, how this code works.

@RandyRhode-yq5hq Ай бұрын

@@Spitzbube I asked they use the word in their response. I used "Water". Example - Hi, "water". The Filipina Pea suggested using a code word. I used water because I grew up on Lake Erie. It easily transformed into a subject to talk about in the couple of chats we had.

@Spitzbube 29 күн бұрын

@@RandyRhode-yq5hq that's clever, and a good screening tactic. Thank you for sharing that Mr Lake Erie. Go Bills-Browns-Lions. (lol)

@theagelessfactor1980 Ай бұрын

I've been extremely picky all my life, so its nothing new to me. I research SEA for 3 years before i decided to live in Boracay. Was on a number of dating sites just to feel the water so to speak. But I told any women I talked to I can't take anyone seriously unless I meet them, its a vibe thing. The last site I was on was Pina Love, I literally got interest from at least 1,000 women within a 6 month period. Out of that 1,000 maybe talked to 50, out of the 50 maybe 5 were decent, but only one survived. lol

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

It only takes 1

@michaelmorris5978 Ай бұрын

3 of them were begging under a bridge with there kids under a bridge. Another 3 girls I put in cebu after there house burnt down They are now all working and help me with rent for . They are all intelligent and speak perfect English.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Sounds Noble

@bribengal1968 29 күн бұрын

Long time ago a guy who looks a lot like you told me some things about relationships for older people. He said guys who marry twice do it because they believe in love. After that he says it's a deal. That's depressing, even though it puts me into the top tier for making deals. Sounds like It could be super difficult for me to discern if they really like/love me. My plan is to come out and play golf, eat food, and play on the beach. After that idk?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Let me know if I can help

@stevehatten209 10 күн бұрын

My friend, I totally agree with you on needy men being the biggest turn-off for any woman. It took me a while to learn this. I also have a Masters degree in psychology...Just saying.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын

Steve, thanks for the positive feedback and thanks for sharing

@jeffgood3785 Ай бұрын

Your 12% is way too high for the West. If you don't have at least 2 out of the 3 sixes your in trouble in the West. Can't wait to come to the Philippines for vacation next year Thank you Rob for all the good information .

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

❤️🙏👍

@James-ei3br Ай бұрын

Agreed, if you want a truly attractive woman you gotta be top 5% now. I have all the sixes except the 6 pack and still get almost nothing. The sixes leaves out male model face which is also a requirement.

@Kimonha 29 күн бұрын

So, you’re telling me if I had worked harder , I could’ve had a woman like Lauren Sanchez? Wow! What a prize she is. 😅

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Perhaps

@TobyBloom Ай бұрын

Rob u are so true. Here in NM it's horrible.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

✅

@4GoHireAVet Ай бұрын

Excellent intel Rob, you had me cracking up several times & I loved your analogy as it's like going to a "Casino" in Vegas or wherever, great way to view it! 🤣🥳 Anyway I've been at this "recon" in my words for the last 2-3 yrs specifically for the Philippines, Thailand, then Vietnam I thought but I keep coming back to the Philippines, it just checks the most boxes hands down especially for me in doing work with the US Navy. So for me I had really only one final consideration that was "How much of an age range" would make sense & respect for both me & my FIlipina once I found the one I thought might finally be the one, I think I have after a couple years swinging my bat so to speak & yes a few $grand. Anyway I always believe you're never too old to learn, you got only a couple years on me at the most & my 99% for sure Filipina she's 37, but I told her we can both have that final 1% when I get there in the next month or so, keeping my fingers crossed because I never really was much into gambling at the casino's anyway! Anyway I'll send you an email for a consultation, when you said you liked to talk I got that gift of gab also, I thought damn I was expecting you to say like $150 so $50 brother is definitely a bargain especially because after seeing your recent YT video on CDO & even Iloilo, but CDO sounds like the spot for me & when I told my Filipina who lives in the Pagadian area, about wanting to put CDO at the top of my list of places to visit & consider to open a business & live together while we're there in the Philippines she said she would Love to live there in CDO. BTW - here's a little another OTP code hack also, just use or get a Google Voice account and attach your cell# to it, that way you'll still get the OTP code delivered to whoever your mobile provider is or even can just access via a wi-fi Internet connection to get it online. 😎

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Chrissy is also from Pagadian. Google voice works for Schwab and PayPal but not Wells Fargo/ B of A

@oceanbreeze369 Ай бұрын

Sorry but when you go to the Philippines you don't need to do anything but sit back and relax. Talk to the girls and people you want and just enjoy. People always think they need to do something. It's funny. If you allow any woman to be in control then you are no longer a man. Know how to lead. Cheers!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

👍

@hamishskinner7439 Ай бұрын

Great video Rob. I’m kinda the guy you talk about. A little insecure and not confident enough to make the first move on a woman so women choose me and I end up in the wrong relationship.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Let me know if I can help. Email me

@chadr4013 Ай бұрын

Spent my first 30 days explore there. Could never get my phone to work properly.got a globe sim at the kiosk, went to a few stores, went to customer service, asked friend for assistance, downloaded the app; nothing. Basically an iPhone that was a camera only if off wifi, which is everywhere once you leave the hotel. Would like to figure out a western style phone service plan for when I return.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

My globe SIM card works everywhere?

@chadr4013 29 күн бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines jealous. Couldn’t make phone calls or search internet or use apps when not on WiFi. iPhone was basically a glorified camera. Maybe next time it will work.

@william4202 Ай бұрын

I would like to hear commentary on how viable it would be for an American man retired from a working class job to pair up with an educated Filipina.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion off the top of my head. I think it’ll be very doable.

@wanderlusttv4382 Ай бұрын

Ask 10 out 8 might say yes to a date.

@robertboll1503 Ай бұрын

Philipinos think every western person is rich, and compared to them I guess we are (Google the average wage there) It would be like a millionaire or celebrity over here. You have much better than average dating opportunities. Best advice is to not try to act rich (not sustainable) and be careful of gold diggers (same problem as here if you are a millionaire or celebrity)

@Barefootape Ай бұрын

It does not matter. The woman are so delusional in the U.S. now. Any where or thing is better.

@hedyvillanueva51 21 күн бұрын

@@robertboll1503 - I don't think many Filipinos think that way. Well-educated Filipinos, especially those accomplished, do not think that Western people are all rich. It cannot be automatic. We also use our brains to see through things. Just saying...

@albertungaro8819 6 күн бұрын

Love your content! Enjoyed your one month budget video. I would like to experience a 10k month. Is it possible to safely find a companion for a month at around 500USD a week?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 күн бұрын

I’m sorry I can’t answer that

@user-et3gq8wk6d 27 күн бұрын

I want to go there this month and want to ask you about the golf course you play. I like playing often but some of the courses are expensive in the Philippines

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

@@user-et3gq8wk6d $15 plus 9 for caddy but 1 hour drive to Manolo Fortich, Pueblo de Oro costs double

@user-bf5fi4ss2q 12 күн бұрын

Pay as you go with phones,is the only way to go.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 12 күн бұрын

Yes

@arcuskhozar Ай бұрын

Develop an abundance mindset is always a beneficial advice. David Hawkins book Letting Go can help you remove your obstacles to that state of mind if you are looking for a little help on that path. Have a wonderful life!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for the tip

@richardlapanne2412 7 күн бұрын

Guess the rice thing that I would have to eat always puts me out then.i eat what I feel like and she should too.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын

👍

@TobyBloom Ай бұрын

Pinalove worked for me.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

👍

@michaeltoia9095 Ай бұрын

The best way the only way to meet someone is to meet them physically never mind all these dating apps and advisors in my opinion if you think about it did you meet your first lady on a dating app I doubt it. Now due dating apps work Yes and no anyway good luck Just voice in my opinion having one has😊

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

🤔

@omarloi7389 18 күн бұрын

good man

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 17 күн бұрын

@@omarloi7389 thanks Omar

@canadianguy37 Ай бұрын

9 out of 10 picked the guy who looked like carrot top 🥕 lmao!

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

🙏👍

@jmaction Ай бұрын

I have 7 years. I then retire. I'm thinking in 5 years I'm going to take some golf vacations. I'm an actual country boy. So what's the best public golf course in higher altitude of the Philippines. Beach view not needed, affordable golf a must. What would be a good vacation site for golf.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Monolo Fortich Del Monte $15 usd in Bukidnon Mountains where I golf every Thursday

@jmaction Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines if I pick the Philippines, over Argentina, or unknown option. I'll contact you a for consultation. Thanks for the golf course tip.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@jmaction looing forward to it

@richardlapanne2412 7 күн бұрын

If money is the thing just like anywhere else then love care trust understanding and faith are not there for a canadian man or any man.i guess im out on this with a Philippine woman as well even though i married one there.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын

I’m sorry you experienced didn’t work out. Patience and perseverance seems to be the key to success.

@richardhogeland8597 29 күн бұрын

My sweet spot 25-30 still would like to have children, I'll be 45-46 when I move there

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Richard seems practical

@user-et3gq8wk6d 27 күн бұрын

I like this video. Men need to be selective and find a compatible partner

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

👍🙏

@Handsome_Ry Ай бұрын

First 10 minutes is not one of the five most asked question but good info non the less

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks for the feedback

@leonwangls 26 күн бұрын

There are plenty of beautiful girls in Philippines. How many available men with 3000usd per month?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 26 күн бұрын

Good point

@michaelmorris5978 Ай бұрын

Hi I met my philippines girls on Facebook. All from mindinao All got tragic stories I got them out and rented a house in cebu . I'll be going there in November from London. Am I doing the right thing . Regards Michael

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Time will tell

@johnsones8406 29 күн бұрын

Your giving mentality is going to cost you you should be there first to meet them before any money is exchanged or inviting them into your environment

@michaeltoia9095 Ай бұрын

Yeah I wish I've won the Powerball

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

👍

@Kimonha Ай бұрын

Rob , it’s not the Dad bod, it’s the Dad pension.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

So right 😂

@reggiecoleman4627 24 күн бұрын

My opinion is the man is the one that's desired because it's better when the woman desires you more so than you desire her because it begins and ends with the man

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 24 күн бұрын

Perhaps

@perry8498 Ай бұрын

I actually thought you new that already

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Yes but worth repeating

@alexanderTheGreat2010 18 күн бұрын

You are correct mud 20to 30s

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 17 күн бұрын

@@alexanderTheGreat2010 thanks for the feedback Alexander

@rabidfarmer9765 26 күн бұрын

It is the bottom 1% that many expats end up with over there - is very true. The rich people there will usually marry other rich people too. It is rare those two classes will unite but happens sometimes. But many Pinoys will always strive to do better however they can -go overseas and work and save. The old expats are a quick way to get out of poverty w/o much effort. So expect to be a walking ATM -

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 26 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing your opinion

@Dwarloc 2 күн бұрын

Gentleman When in, or going to another country you should consider investing in a phone that is Unlocked. This way u can go anywhere in the world buy a Sim card that works in that country put it in your phone and have no problem.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 2 күн бұрын

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@khut2u Ай бұрын

Sorry if you have already covered this topic or do not want to discuss it, but have you and Chrissy come to an agreement on additional children? Again, no pressure to answer, I was just courious based on your 30+ year age gap.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

We have however it occasionally comes up for renegotiation

@GUITARTIME2024 Ай бұрын

@FlyMeToThePhilippines. Dude, please don't do that. Kids need dads and you're around 70. It's ridiculous.

@jimanonymous113 Ай бұрын

They both already have children.

@mwj5368 Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Be cautious as I think or learned over the years that if one or both of the parents are older there is a chance they will have a child with downs syndrome. That's just what I've heard.

@patrickmelson4745 Ай бұрын

Debit card? Or is a credit card okay?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Debit card for cash withdrawals

@elitepctech Ай бұрын

Credit card for purchases if the merchant takes cc. Only use the debit card for withdrawals from a bank owned ATM .

@seans7228 Ай бұрын

How long have Y'all been engaged?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

14 months

@BobbyMac-bv6ef Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippineshow long have you known each other

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@BobbyMac-bv6ef 16 months

@BobbyMac-bv6ef Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines you locked that down quick , dont blame you . When you get a good woman here there is really no upgrade needed. Good luck to you both , stay safe 🙏✌️

@BobbyMac-bv6ef Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines i just got married about 3 weeks ago but i have known her 4 years and she has shown me she is just what I saw she was . Im a suspicious dude si my eyes and ears were open but I kept that to myself , no need to hurt anyones feelings because of the horror stories i had heard . No major surprises . She was a teacher in Manila , all her siblings are teachers as well . I got really lucky , i was 63 when i met her she was 31 . We never argue , laugh alot , go places and love each other . She gives me her best everyday and its hard to match but i try All that being said setting up a wedding in the church was a nightmare , the two months prior to the wedding was pushing my limits . I spent a lot of money only because i was able to and i wanted her to have that dream. Actually we talked about after it was over and we both agreed if we knew what was in store for us we would have gone civil and had a party with friends . I did not enjoy the day at all , she was gracious enough to appear to but we are both happy its behind us . So think hard before you make your plans . Believe me i thought i could handle it , whatever you decide know what's coming good luck

@youngalwyn1124 29 күн бұрын

Where does the presenter get the *Top 12%* figure from?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 29 күн бұрын

Study done on Tinder, 90 percent of women swiped 12 percent of men

@patrickmelson4745 25 күн бұрын

Can an American open a bank account there before I go to the Philippines?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 25 күн бұрын

@patrickmelson4745 25 күн бұрын

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Do you have to be there to open it or how?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 25 күн бұрын

Technically you need a retirement visa, however some report after 4 months with immigrant id card some bank branch managers will bend the rules

@patrickmelson4745 25 күн бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines okay thx

@TobyBloom Ай бұрын

I got lucky and met online a pretty 56 yr old. Bingo

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Great to hear Toby

@rickmounce484 13 күн бұрын

If I have a $6,000 a month income can I live comfortably in the Philippines Likewise do I have to be covid vaccinated to go to the Philippines now

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 12 күн бұрын

etravel.gov.ph/entry-guidelines

@rcardoosuna6491 Ай бұрын

It seems like in the Philippines, even if you look like Ocar the grouch, Shrek or Quasimodo, it will not matter because you will become as handsome as Brad Pitt. If you were considered poor with a measly income by Western standards then it will not matter because by Filipino standards, you will be considered rich. It's no wonder these fellows head that way.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

👍

@DrJamesBWood 12 күн бұрын

This makes a lot of sense but I still don't get why things are so hard over here. It isn't like women are rare in the US, they are everywhere and are over 50% of the population. The pay gap, especially before kids, is the lowest it has ever been which is great for equality but women are also still dating up and looking for providers and that may limit things. Another difference is that we don't prioritize marriage and family. Speaking of pivoting, it seems like I would be relatively taller and relatively richer and relatively better looking if I arbitraged myself.

@jgotnorizz 12 күн бұрын

All the women chase the same few men. Simple as that.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 12 күн бұрын

What are you waiting for James?

@michaeltoia9095 Ай бұрын

Wow I'm getting a headache or is they say here I'm getting a nose bleed

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

🤔

@jimanonymous113 Ай бұрын

$125 !! That's a full week's salary. Is it for each woman that one has a date with ?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Yes

@jimanonymous113 Ай бұрын

@@FlyMeToThePhilippines ouch

@lillpoetboy Ай бұрын

Im 42, never married, no kids, make 50-55k a year. Im not handsome, i have mild nager syndrome, so most women in the west dont find me attractive enough to notice me. Im a introvert, partially deaf and a practicing Buddhist and live a simple stress free, minimalist lifestyle. With that being said, im going to the Philippines in September, staying 3 months. I was invited to go and stay by filipina co workers, they said they want to help me find a good woman to marry and have kids with, and having a family is all i ever wanted so i said why not. I dont know how I will do with the women there but im willing to give anything a try. If itndoesnt work out, theres always Japan, Hong Kong, Singapore, Thailand, Cambodia, etc etc etc.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@lillpoetboy awesome attitude thanks for sharing and best of luck

@ionutmititelu2083 Ай бұрын

😂😂@lillpoetboy you sems pretty naive, you think woman from Japan , Hong Kong , Singapore will ever like a man like at 42 with this kind of circumstances??? There is plenty of young Asian men everywhere. Bro , Philippines maybe it will work for you but you will be in a trade relationship, no love involved, you will be used , she will smile at you , cook for you , etc etc, but never love you, even the extremely good and conservative Filipina will be like that as long her family get some help. You will trade financial help ,with " love and caring" but that love will be there as long the money is there . Some people are choosed by gods to stay single, don't force and fight against destiny as destiny will punish you sooner or later. Conservative Filipina didn't exist, social media and foolish men who go there to find a wife , change them alot . Trust me ,you are invited there to be used and wallet empty. Filipina is same like russian woman, they just been " practical" when marriage , is like a business for them if they marry outside of their race , they will be practical and clean all your money.😂😂😂 You will be 50 , same guy but older , lonely, and without money and hopeless romantic after you meet one of them . 😂😂

@GUITARTIME2024 Ай бұрын

1. So you're wanting to pass along that syndrome to kids? 2. Japan/Malaysia/Singapore are not like Phillpines/Thailand. Being American or European or similar doesn't really give you a major advantage. When you're in Phillpines/Thailand, be careful you don't get financially mixed up with a scammer type lady. Please do plenty of research before you come to Philipines.

@tomix3568 29 күн бұрын

Do you feel like this is true re: educated (college degree at least) women in the Philippines? That slightly older western men still have a lot of value to them?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Yes. Airline pilots only 1k usd per month salary….

@franky3231 29 күн бұрын

Thank you for being honest about the dating sites. I have seen a lot of vloggers pushing hard for Christian Filipina because they are getting paid. One went even went as far as doing a whole video about them, like and infomercial, it was pretty annoying like you are listening to a car salesman. Great video.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Yes it’s true

@timlee5260 Ай бұрын

I know you're modest man and know better than to toot your one horn, but it needs to be said that you dress the part of who you want to attract. You dress well and act respectable so that is what you attracted. It's a big mistake for guys to run around in tank tops with their arm pit hair showing. Being clean and well mannered will go a long way.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks and good advice

@robertboll1503 Ай бұрын

Hahaha you are right. When I landed in Manila and finally met my longtime online gf, i was wearing my normal travel clothes, collar shirt and cargo pants. She laughed that she thought she was meeting the president. Everyone there wears t-shirts shorts and flip flops.

@rodrigo1965 18 күн бұрын

2000 dollars a month is enough, but more does not hurt at all😂😂

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 17 күн бұрын

Exactly Rodrigo

@dave_in_florida 28 күн бұрын

I been on CF x 3 mo, and first girl after two months turned out to be a scammer, other girl now after three months of chatting / texting finally video chatting says she has a boyfriend is not interested in a serious relationship. O luck 3 mo. Waste of time.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Patience and perseverance is key. Video chat quickly-

@billyjohnson9166 Ай бұрын

Tell us how are your dividend paying stocks working out? Tell us open up a financial channel. I’ll watch. Can I ask you why do you have a KZfaq channel? Is it a hobby, is it for income or what’s the reason? I’m figuring you’ have a net worth of a million dollars or more. You seem to be a successful guy. By the way you have a great channel better than most. I’ve been here eighteen years and in a great marriage.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

Thanks Billy love hearing from you

@ferney2936 Ай бұрын

looks like a fake comment to me & I've seen similar ones before on this channel....puzzling

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@ferney2936 No he has been a subscriber for a long time and enjoys teasing me

@patrickmelson4745 Ай бұрын

Is there a hotel next to the airport to crash for a day first?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

In Manila just walk across skybridge to Belmont or Savoy

@elitepctech Ай бұрын

The Hilton by the airport is excellent

@patrickmelson4745 25 күн бұрын

@elitepctech Okay, thank you!

@patrickmelson4745 25 күн бұрын

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Okay thank you!

@FlipandTheBlueMule 28 күн бұрын

👋👋👍🇺🇸🫡🇸🇽❤️🙏

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 28 күн бұрын

Thanks 😊

@gabres19871 28 күн бұрын

Well this is also scarry... U should mention U will encounter a lot of users,scammers,cheaters, I will be a walking ATM... well most of the foreigners flying there as no language barrer and the visa also important... Because why foreigners not choosing Mianmar,Vietnam,Laos if U want a cheap country hehe

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 27 күн бұрын

Yes you will

@tauriq79 26 күн бұрын

I typically enjoy/agree with your videos, but I think in the first part of this vid your are deluding these men into thinking that they can be "mid" yet still be highly valued just because they are foreign. If you are extremely old, out of shape/fat/obese, and not good looking you will not find some beautiful woman that wants to be with you for love. They will be with you for your resources. Even a man who is in their 40's handsome and in shape is still going to be looked at for resources but has a much better chance at finding a more genuine relationship

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 25 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching our channel and thank you for providing your feedback. I think there’s some validity in what you say.

@Paladinbr 25 күн бұрын

I have to disagree about Manila. I prefer Cebu. Airport is much much better. I pay the 10 dollars for the first day. Then I go to the mall for a local SIM to register for my local 30 day trips. That's part of my recovery day from the 26 hours to get there. Then I head to Leyte since I got lucky on Christian Filipina.

@FlyMeToThePhilippines 24 күн бұрын

I’ve been to both several times-I just like the quick ride to Makati

@patrickmelson4745 Ай бұрын

What about using Google voice number?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

It works with Schwab and PayPal but not Wells Fargo or Bank of America

@Midwest10 Ай бұрын

Never believe any expat that says do not meet them online. Only meet in person. I have one of the most beautiful Filipinas on earth, now married, that no Expat has matched in the Philippines..Don’t ever restrict yourself to those you pass on the street in a given city.. by going online, you reach the most beautiful women in far off provinces that you will never pass on the street. Let this blogger show his young beautiful partner?

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Ай бұрын

I agree with your point but just watch Chrissy dozens of videos