Dude: "Who's the sucker who pays for sex?! Not me.. I wouldn't spend a dime on it. The same dude: Spends $300 on a date with a below average chick, and still fails get sex at the end of the night.

It is a different world. I had a Personal Fitness client who, to my suprised, was an escort. She payed for college that way but continued with certain men after she graduated. She told me that men use escorts so they don't have to deal with the MULTIPLE problems that women have. I didn't judge her, she was very educated, "classy", spoke 4 languages & very attractive. Women who want a rich dude better be prepared to deal with this because, as she explained, most rich dudes have an escort.

Jack Reacher : I can't afford you. Sandy : I'm not a hooker. Jack Reacher : Oh, then I *really* can't afford you.

Dudes wont "pay for play" but will pay for dates HOPING that it leads to sex....Last time i checked hope wasnt a strategy smh

“You pay them to leave” - Charlie Sheen Having dealt with stalkers and pregnancy scares in the past makes me appreciate how they just leave you alone once you’re done.

It can basically be summed up as poorer men place high value on their money while wealthier men place high value on their time. As such the poorer man will prefer to exchange his time for female companionship while the wealthier man will prefer to exchange his money for it. Men should do what’s best for them, if you’re satisfied with your outcome then cool.

Kevin's right about paying no matter what. The time and attention, constant texting and phone calls with this new girl! Just another way to make her satisfied

Being Alpha in the corporate world and in the dating world are two totally different things

In the old days girls would hire a Mack to arrange these meetings. He wasn’t a pimp but was a broker who took a fee for matching them with appropriate men.

If a man can pull a decent looking woman without having money. There's something to be said

Its amazing to me how This topic goes way over the heads of these callers.

Your paying for it however you look at it , your time which is your money , your attention , your assets once she takes you for all you have , trips vacations and more. Call it what it is your always paying if it’s direct or not.

I’m not gonna necessarily say I condone prostitution, but it would definitely benefit to learn at a young age that life as a whole is transactional and to not take it personally. Tired of seeing so many men get full on depressed because no one helps them out of the kindness of their heart. They grow up thinking a woman will love them even if he can’t support her. Doesent work. Everything and I mean everything is a means to an end with humans period.

Time stamps 0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your Good lies by Vividry 🎵 2:57 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, Who Pays To Play, Candle of the evening Brooklyn , Fragrance of the day Tom Ford Ombre Nomad, Fragrance of the evening Gucci Intense Oud 29:55 1st Caller David age 41, 2nd Caller Eugene age 51, 46:55 3rd Caller A Mak age 26, 4th Caller Nathan , 1:17:32 5th Caller Najee age 27 1:34:04 6th Caller age 39, 7th Caller Nathaniel age 25, 8th Caller JD age 40, 9th Caller Dark Sons age 32 2:00:02 Closing words 2:14:56 Outro

I like when this topic is discussed because it exposes who's really open minded and who's not.

Anyone that has ever had a Kobe Steak from a top chef will understand what Kevin is saying they are two different worlds. If you have never participated, well I’m sorry for you can you truly can not comprehend the difference. I don’t need to have Kobe steak for dinner every night, but when I choose to have it…it is the best spent money for pure pleasure and comes with no regrets!

Tom Leykis, Hugh Hefner and men like them don’t concern themselves with the “why” of their chosen women.

You just have to appreciate REAL PROFESSIONALS. Simply because there's countless amateurs out there. Kevin is right on point ... as usual.

Kevin is right, I got shell shocked at my first C-Suite Invitational event. I saw all the cities executives who I KNEW we're happily married with gorgeous young women in tight dresses on their arm. I had one of them explain to me that when you're at that level, its about how you look, what you arrive in, and WHO you arrive with.

I'd rather pay, because I have tried all the aspects, I was in a relationship boyfriend and girlfriend, I was married, and I have dealt with hook up culture, and all of them takes commitment and time to cultivate those relationships. Don't waste any more time on situations that doesn't benefits me or distract me from my focus. Now it's just about handling my needs, which isn't that difficult and back to work, stress free, drama free, refocus, intuitive, excited, all the benefits you get from your significant other within your relationship and marriage, but the women don't want to do these things for their men. After a while it's like pulling teeth to get intimacy. I'd rather have a set schedule to handle this because it doesn't interfere. It actually helps

At 45 yrs old, If my wife and divorce, this is a route I may go. You pay regardless. Why not pay for exactly what I want?

Miss Kevin dearly. I don't know of any other channel which was broadcasting such mind blowing content with such finesse. RIP Godfather 💪💙

Chad & Tyrone as a baby daddy: " I get her off my name alone " Modern Woman as a GF: " I'll take everything you own w/ just your name & leave you just alone " HVM: "I reupholster her walls & paid her to go back home 🏠" Moral of Story: she can have you for 18yrs plus a marriage & wipe out your financial lineage Or you can break her off for 3hrs & Keep on your purpose It's about peace & discretion that's all 😂😂😂😭😭😭

He's right on the pay to play. When I was younger I thought paying for "P" was lame. Something only corny dudes did who couldn't get "P". As I've gotten older and see the way the world operates. I've realized what you're paying for is the Discretion and for them to leave. You're paying for them to not try to intentionally get pregnant and ruin your family. It's a cost calculated business transaction. And for all those who say well you shouldn't cheat. . Technically we all a should be virgins until we're married. But you see how that plays out . There's a difference in the way the world runs compared to the way we actually want it to run. And Yes, I'm married and I have this thought process. It applies to single and married men.

Tricking is in perception of the wallet holder/time spender. If you feel you wasted time or money you say you tricked it off. Someone else's opinion doesn't matter as they are not party to the transaction.

Its easy to have a cheap mind. When you start earning big money you realize time is everything.

Working for one of the top five law firms in the country. The “Alexis and the Kelly’s” really exist. Kevin was just scratching the surface. This talk is for professionals only. Why do you think Ghislane Maxwell is keeping her mouth closed? 😉

Working private security for professional sports athletes, corporate exces, Vp’s and CEO’s. I witnessed they rather pay for play. Have them sign a NDA, have a good time and keep it moving. Both parties know what it is at the end of the day. Simply a business hire for the night, weekend or week.

Everybody pays, married or dating, married women are paid to stay with you and the pros are paid to leave. Women have the monopoly on kitty 😺 which is mortgaged by the married (long game) and leased by the single (short game). The only difference between a married woman and an escort/ call-girl is that the wife is paid to stay and the other is paid to leave...it all boils down to paying for sex.

Kevin talks about women who live in scarcity and lack. Today's show proves men can live with the same mindset. Just admit it, some of the things Kevin talks about is simply out of your price range. These are heavy money conversations and everyone won't qualify.

Moral of the video time is money and if you want to save time spend money.

A few years ago on my commute home from work I hit a nail on the highway and while sitting in the shoulder waiting for the tow truck the CEO of my company flies by me in his Ferrari with a lil young thang in the passenger seat. I'm 22 or 23 at the time myself so I don't know a damn thing about a damn thing. At the next team meeting a few of us are shooting the shit while we wait for everyone to show up and I said something along the lines of "CEO has himself a lil baddie, huh?" and one of my coworkers responded "he's married to an older white lady, that was the mistress" and the conversation smoothly flowed into another topic as if it were business as usual. That's when I knew there were levels to this shit.

Kevin's covering the main points succinctly. When he says educated, it's not I got a PhD, it's worldly knowledge. You can intelligently discuss investing, world politics, entertainment, philosophy, whatever floats your boat. When you do a decent level of business in Asia, it's a matter of course to be provided with a "tour guide" that's actually useful. They vet you, you don't vet them. And taxes? They pay tax up the ying yang and buy up all sorts of goods. Tens of thousands on clothing, purses, upkeep to stay beautiful. High end hotel rooms and and condos, property and room tax. Taxes on their investments, cars, and travel.

KS is speaking all facts. When I was *very young* I was referred to a private agency in the upper East side of Manhattan. They hired me for waitressing only. Rules were. No talking. Absolutely no drinking. Serve patrons only. There was a lady there, who basically trained me in poise and class. I also noticed they only hired girls who were young like myself and trainable. Peaceable . These high end men purchased thousand dollar bottles of champagne only. Using credit cards I had never seen in my life lol!..I truly was naive I remember The girls who sat with these high end men looked like Runway Models all nationalities and who spoke multiple languages…I’m going to leave it right there!..This world does exist!..For men who don’t know, you’ll never know. For men who know! Enjoy!

Kevin is 100 pro on this. I travel and perform as an artist here in Europe and this is very common for high dollar men.

This is a subject a lot of men don't know about. Time is money. Peace is priceless. High level men have no time for games. They pay for a service. And it's been said but we all pay one way or another.

1 John 2:15 King James Version 15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

This reminds me of the conversation where guys say “I would never let somebody else cut my grass.” I haven’t owned yard materials in 20 years.

This video is basically the joke The man: I can’t afford you The woman: I’m not a hooker The man: then I really can’t afford you

I'm so glad he's breaking this down. I've always known this. These women attended schools like Vanderbilt, and that's how they network. I respect and give a nod to Kelly. They access old money. It takes skill, class, education, and a certain charisma, which can't be bought to be and do what they do. Huge difference between them, the Meg the Stallions and Instagram ladies.

Kevin you don't need staff in your house, but you can have 1 guy in your employ that you can trust like an escort to be a tech to figure out these sound/video issues.

She wants you to take her on a date. Did Tyrone or chad take her out on a date? 9/10 Tyrone and chad got it for free. Moved accordingly men.

Thank you for the education. Of course, I know the Kelly's exist, but I appreciate the way you articulated it. It put me into that world without having to be a "high" end guy to experience it.

Any man that calls in on this conversation is not on the level he's talking about. The men on that level would not even call in to this show because of anonymity.

Dude in the polo had good points. Kevin did move the goal post with him. He dismissed his points instead of giving him his due

A man is going to pay regardless , it's just a matter of how , sum pay rent or mortgage, some pay alimony, Loose change , car notes , for Dinner etc

Excellent broadcast. You don't get these conversations anywhere else. Thank you.

Best show you’ve ever done Godfather!!! Thank you so much. Bravo!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Here in England men who are of a certain class do visit professional (it is legal here) women who only accept meetings based on recommendations, these women must accept your request and it is extremely safe for both parties. Only men of said class will understand the benefits of doing this. Well done Kevin 👍

Paying to play is not simping Simping is going above and beyond for a person who doesn't give anything in return. Where's the confusion

I see why Kevin doesn’t talk to men normally now…

Working for my old company as a mobile concierge dealing with the top 1% to 3% of wealthy people in the u.k opened my eyes to alot . I think part of the issue us , black people have to see to believe it in alot of situations and this is one of them .

Cost per wear is a concept in style to justify investment level costs. Then there is rental market. What do you rent and from where? The cost of ownership for a Ferrari is much different than weekend rental.

" I'd rather pay a escort so she leaves when we're done rather than sit here and put a bunch of money into a chick and then taking her out for nice dinners buying her thing and you get the same result in the end anyway you're still paying for 😺" - A wise man

I'm glad someone finally said it. Nobody was listening to me on the Minister Jap Channel at all.

After many months of watching KS videos I firmly believe there is a distinct problem in our black folks education experience. Neither the men nor the women exhibit comprehension of any subject and can't give a rebuttal or supportive argument. Complex thinking to understand is an extinct artform. This is a good extrapolation of the kind of available men on the market.

As a 26 year old I can say Kevin put me onto some game this stream. Got to zoom out and expand your thinking

Some wonderful truths were given to young Men I applaud you, Sir.

I’m still can’t believe the guy brought up taxes when it come to “pay to play” I’m dying of laughter.. all callers were a mess lmao.

No cap, this was the best episode he has ever put out

I’ve been preaching about this too long! You are absolutely right Kevin!

Poor people value the money, rich people value the time. Tell me how much it cost and I’ll pay if it means I get to spend more doing things I actually wanna do.

No man that has called in is high value. No disrespect, but this pay to play idea is for people who’s time is extremely valuable. This is Boss Talk and I’m sorry my brothers you have a worker mentality. Keep grinding and get your weight up.

Most men that haven't been in this life or been around this type of lifestyle will always have the mindset of it won't pay for the play. K Sams isn't talking about the day to day street walker or stripper. The escort life is a different, private, almost invite only type of life. I lived in Europe for yrs where what we as Americans see as prostitution is completely legal and regulated. Ppl go and they pay for the services of women and the go on about their lives and its not even a thought. K Sams is one point with this.

Marriage or Single, Wealthy or Average Income - It's all transactional. The sooner men realize it, the wiser men become.

I noticed the only men who get mad about tricking is ones who can’t afford to. A man told me I was a gold digger years ago because I didn’t want to split the bill on the date. He asked ME out!🤣🤣🤣

Honestly Kevin … u are a smart, conscious/very aware man. U hit it all the time. U explain the game of life…. Love all u do!!!

Dude you are a beast.. most these cats fail to understand the game you are playing. Most are not well versed in anything unless its rap. Keep up the man/mind expansion.

Proverbs 24:1. King James Version ... 24 Be not thou envious against evil men, neither desire to be with them.

6'1 handsome man from the Bahamas. Anytime I've paid for it, I hated it and there was no intimacy. I also hate condoms. Being an immigrant I've had experiences with women of many walks of life. Models, engineers, attorneys, students, porn stars. Also IMO the real talented women are wifed up and not on the market. Let's not act like Madams or Pimps aren't one in the same. High end providers aren't impressive. I'm good.

What a great show. Educational and enlightening. I love it as always.

Simping, in my opinion, is associated with a certain individuals; men and women of class and status which is based upon their social attitudes. A truly High Value Man moving within a defined circle; people with like financial positions, influencers and power brokers are not Simps or Tricks. Simps and Tricks are individuals who are looking for and drawing attention to themselves. High Value Men and Women who are truly High Value are not looking for attention; they are not wreak-less. They move with a purpose.

If you want to go the route of hiring a escort/prostitute do you. This has been happening since the beginning of time. Regardless men are going to pay in some capacity. The real question is why do people call this man to have a conversation when all he want to do is argue? Makes no sense

I've been watching your show for a while. To me appear that most Black Americans have the right to be right! Even when they don't know shit they are talking about. They don't realize how ridiculous and childish they sound, rather than keep their mouth shut, listen and get some knowledge. That is hateful behavior. I truly admire your patience, Mr. Samuels. Before one of you call me racist I'm Black from Brazil.

This is 💯. As a personal trainer I’ve had several clients over my career in this area.

I understand exactly what he’s talking about. But I won’t be partaking lol

The issue with this is Kevin wants to speak to average men about a world that only applies to 5 percent of the top 1 percent of all men. Educating them on a world that exist that these men will never take part in seems pointless. However I completely understand what he's trying to say to these men

I can safely say that I NEVER thought I would hear Kevin say "Leave them in a wet heap".

This was an awesome broadcast!!!

The gentleman that mentioned that the high end ladies aren’t paying taxes😂😂 Neither does drug dealers…Who TF cares😒

For the wealthy, simps are people who allow their time to be wasted. Gold and silver are money, Cash is debt, and time is the most valuable asset you have...so "Tricking" is trading your time for cash debt, which is what all employees do. For the wealthy, assets earn income, money is an employee, and expenses are tax deductions. We need to start a school Kevin!

This community: All flash no cash. And never any talk about good values and decency.

I’m not even interested in dating and I’ve been watching your pods lately, just love the well-spokennes (is that even a word) even when I disagree 👌🏿

I see The main point of this convo is to learn how to have a transactional mindset when it comes to romance… and not get caught up in emotions, that’s where men make mistakes. Not about tricking.

Really enjoined this discussion. The premise was clearly stated. The 'infrastructure' of the world Kevin described was clearly stated -- also covered the 'downsides' (disease, exposure)... I was continuously stunned as to the rigidness of mindset from the men. I have changed my mind. When discussing cost -- EVRYTHING must be put on the 'table' as a 'factor' in cost. It's just not dollars....

Speaking to the comment by that one brotha who suggested women who move in high circles can get caught if they get sloppy: we have to remember that one of the things that separates high end arrangements from prostitution is that with the former, you know the person you're dealing with via referrals, the initial meeting, etc. One of the tests the law uses is to establish that the prostitute does not have a prior relationship with the trick. If you look at arranged marriages in the east that involves a dowry, isn't that similar to an arrangement (albeit it's for family or religious reasons)? Establishing an arrangement takes away the illegal aspects is the point. Not arguing either way, but just putting this out there for those who are not used to how powerful men move. Look at concubines in the historic Ottoman empire era. The emperor could have any woman he wanted with m without having a harem, but he had one full of the most beautiful women in his realm. He had to pay to take care of them, yet he barely knew most of them. Is that tricking, or just a harem arrangement? Todays emperors are now Fortune 100 executives and high powered politicians. Just a thought.

I like the topic but I don't think most will get this. I stumbled onto this "hidden in plain sight" world by an unexpected recommendation from a colleague so I "get" it. There are definite benefits more than just the "basic" transaction. But not everyone can imagine the benefits of a concubine, hence many will not experience the benefits. Keep striving, there is no one path, be open to self development. Peace, always!

Many of the same men against pay for play have no problem being lose with their seed with a 304 or someone they’re “dating”. I don’t get it 🤷🏾‍♀️

Regardless, you will pay in some form. Married, dating, whatever, it comes down to resources spent, time, money, effort. Choose wisely how & where you spend your resources.

Informative episode. Shout out to Coach Greg Adams

This was excellent and very much needed among brothas. Thanks Kevin. 👊🏾🥃

I personally got it (when I was Single & building but now married) BOTH WAYS. I had a FWB and still “Paid To Play” to protect myself & assets. I saved my Emotional connection for the Women in between vetting Women as Girlfriends. I compared my expenses to friends from my PTP to their Dating…. I SAVED WAY MORE than they did over time and reduced below $0 the emotional/mental/financial upkeeps or maintenance/physical and time losses they experienced with Women.

This topic should have been targeted to men in the top 5%. Trying to debate this with men who can't relate to the subject such as myself, is irrelevant.

Shout out to the men that maintain your morals and values. Do not be persuaded by men who are able to pay for these women services off of the money that YOU are giving him. I'm a fan of a lot that's taught on this platform but there is a line in the sand for everyone. Chose for yourself where yours is. 💯

Whatever...paying for affection is pathetic whether its $100 or $5000. Build real relationships black men!

He's saying it's better to pay for sex with a prostitute than pay for a date with a woman you're not guaranteed to get sex from. Completely disagree.

If Derrick Jaxn knew how to apply KS advises, he wouldn't have gotten in all that mess.

After my gf bought me the swinging sticks for Christmas, I find myself saying french toast a lot more than before.

Ks theme music is the best, I be jamming to it at the end of his videos!

It all comes down to the value of human life. Treat people like family because it all comes back around.