My single parent mother tried to teach me to be fiercely independent. Ambitious and aggressive. Her lessons didn’t really stick though as I am a nurturer at heart. She would get so mad at me for having what she called “Florence nightingale syndrome.” But I’ve been married to my wonderful husband for 30 years and she’s alone. She recently told me she’s jealous of my marriage and having such a great husband. Feminism is a lie designed to destroy marriage and family and emasculate our men.
@hamlinhomefinder2 ай бұрын
I have a very similar story. I was always called “too soft” by mom
@Amoski12082 жыл бұрын
“With experience comes clarity, and with clarity comes a good relationship.”🙄 Hmm- I got married at 21 & we are celebrating 13 years this year. Best decision ever.
@slatkipukovnik77592 жыл бұрын
Świetna robota
@Tahiha2 жыл бұрын
You obviously lost your way on youtube.
@bdewarrior52 жыл бұрын
😩 A.M. every now and then take your man to the ballgame and treat him to hot dogs and beer or what he likes and watch how different he looks at you 😳 wow my wife is my buddy 👍🏽😉
@skinfanjay2 жыл бұрын
✝️🙏💯
@wiseonwords2 жыл бұрын
@@Tahiha - You certainly did, big.OT.
@OvO-OvO1 Жыл бұрын
Damn, I miss this brother. Love from South Africa.
@princessg41002 жыл бұрын
Fitness is sooooo important. Also exercise helps tremendously with mental fitness. Ladies I promise it is soo worth it. It builds confidence, you get high off your own supply (endorphins), and your overall mood will be so pleasant. Stay consistent. You don't have to be perfect just dedicate yourself to the lifestyle! Everything in your life will change for the better!! :)
@noinfoherebro2 жыл бұрын
Just because they exercise doesn't mean they will be suitable for a man. So many if these IG models are I'm great shape but Toxic. Fitness is only one part. Most of these women need therapy. A pretty face and body is nothing if her mindset is trash and is emotionally unstable like most modern women are.
@princessg41002 жыл бұрын
@@noinfoherebro definitely not arguing against that at all. Mr. Samuels broke that down really well. I only pointed out fitness because of lot of women resist that part and that’s a major issue especially in the Black community. Nutrition and exercise is good for health which help combat mental health issues to a degree. If a person starts there it “could” help with the other issues. Emphasis on “could” 🙂
@skinfanjay2 жыл бұрын
Princess. G. This was an awesome comment. Bless you my sista ✝️🙏💜💯
@mcole4422 жыл бұрын
Big Shirley🐷: I don't NEED no gym membership.......🤣
@teodora53772 жыл бұрын
Thats nothing but the truth. I got much more confident in my own body in every possible way, since I started going to the gym and lifting heavy. Your spatial avarness and mobility improves, not to mention you look nicer. I also noticed Im much more calm than before, less anxious. And seeing those stunning women that are regulars there, really inspired me to up my own beaty and fitness routine.
@The_Winners_Legion2 жыл бұрын
Every caller: 1. Says she's high value 2. Doesn't answer directly, KS checks her 3. Says, "she feels like" 4. Believes she "deserves" more 5. Call spirals to 100% delusion The End....smh
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@bawsnitti2 жыл бұрын
You just summed everything up just like that
@QueenMspeaks2 жыл бұрын
Salute to you Kevin for educating Young Black Women to think about marriage in their 20s instead of what social media is showing women in their 20s to go after an Athlete or Rapper!
@theflyguy59762 жыл бұрын
Then complain when they don't s Wanna commit like they don't have options.
@johnames64302 жыл бұрын
they should go after any man with a job at this point
@reese852 жыл бұрын
That’s been happening way b4 social media tho!
@yihuda74592 жыл бұрын
U r clueless…..Women r not attracted by the men occupations…they’re more attracted to his bank account….currently athletes and rappers r one of the most wealthy folks out there ….
@Pedant_Patrol2 жыл бұрын
They should be thinking actively about marriage in their teens, preparing themselves and learning the necessary skills. Their fathers should be identifying potential husbands at this age.
@d-kreate54682 жыл бұрын
He perfectly described the Asian woman I’m dating. Truly feminine, accommodating, and affectionate, she cries when watching sad parts in movies, she is a girly girl. He’s definitely right about the morning sex thing (she will bring her butt closer to me - there’s not even a conversation of her being tired or that she wants more sleep). Haven’t even entertained the thought of leaving her. And taking her out is not bothersome because she brings so much value and I’m truly happy when she comes over, even if I’m still working, her presence is not interruptive. Feminine women know how to lock men in for real. It’s funny women like her are probably laughing at other women who find it difficult to keep a man. Men are very simple with the things we want and that bring us peace.
@_JESUS_is_GOD_2 жыл бұрын
What does she do for a living?
@lotusconnoisseur2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree man...what's your nationality? It didn't take me long to understand these concepts. Most black women are just determined to do it there way...and I say, ok do it! LOL!
@Thiiink2 жыл бұрын
@@_JESUS_is_GOD_ it doesn't matter - keep waiting for jesus
@_JESUS_is_GOD_2 жыл бұрын
@@Thiiink I don't have to wait Jesus is already an active part of my life.
@drujornbrink2 жыл бұрын
@Jesus is God amen brotherman, every knee shall bow and every tongue shall confess that Jesus Christ is Lord
@familyman46682 жыл бұрын
The most desired woman is the one who brings peace to a man.
@khaliladam99522 жыл бұрын
If you don't understand how peace can be brought, you can't have it. What Kevin mostly said brings peace to a degree. Peace is a large word. Don't just throw it and think you understand everything.
@Madness12992 жыл бұрын
Rare lol. Women are just custom made to talk and talk and talk. All drama. Talking about drama, watching dramas, creating dramas.
@codeofsilenceent2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@Deshawn12 жыл бұрын
Time stamps 0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Current Mood by Gregory David 🎵 3:04 🎵 Vapour By Osoku 🎵 5:40 🎵 Homeless Soul By Fleurs Douces 🎵 8:45 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 11:40 🎬 Show Starts, Monologue, The Most Wanted Women, Candle of the evening Diptyque Baies, Fragrance Of The Day Maison Francis Kurkdjian Petit Matin Perfume, Fragrance of the evening Baccarat Rouge 540 Parfum Maison Francis Kurkdjian 20:01 Qualities Of A High Demand Woman 54:40 1st Caller Amber age 25 , 2nd Caller Elyse age 23 1:33:01 3rd Caller Shay age 22, 4th Caller Sarah age 23, 5th Caller Idil age 32, 6th Caller Audryana age 27, 7th Caller age 27 2:13:35 Outro
@Diamonds1002 жыл бұрын
When I get off work and look for you..making life so much easier for us! Thank you💙
@joimumu2 жыл бұрын
Thx 🙏
@Soundafek2 жыл бұрын
Thank You! Thank You! brother, i can't say it enough. Appreciate your effort and dedication. Thank You again..
@jaymac72032 жыл бұрын
Nice, I was looking for this lol
@deonte22 жыл бұрын
The Time Stamp Master strikes again...we appreciate you D Master along with our Godfather....both of y'all keep up the good work/fight!!!!
@simonkalibwani58322 жыл бұрын
You really can't blame these women. I was at a family gathering last weekend and overheard my 50-year old aunties spitting that "do you girl" "discover yourself first" "dont commit early" "focus on yourself first" to my 20-year old female cousins. This advice is coming from people they deeply respect and look up to.
@princessmilkchocolate52462 жыл бұрын
I believe your aunties are RIGHT. Ironically... many of the people I know who married in their 20s.... are now divorcing in their 30s... which sucks! From what I'm seeing... marrying in your 30s may be a great idea if you want a marriage that's gonna last FOREVER till super senior age. lol The average age of marriage in the US as of 2021 is now 34! So Kevin's narrative is incorrect in THIS day and age. The man is damn near 60 so back in HIS day... EVERYBODY married young mainly for financial reasons....NOT for love so he needs to get with the times which are changing very quickly! 😄
@rashaadbrown1752 жыл бұрын
@@princessmilkchocolate5246 you on the wrong channel
@rashaadbrown1752 жыл бұрын
@@princessmilkchocolate5246 y’all gone FAIL hard
@blasiankiki78312 жыл бұрын
Aunties not wrong… at-least until 24… then they can look for marriage. It’s nothing wrong with doing it straight out of highschool if that’s what they want to do but I wouldn’t recommend it.
@rashaadbrown1752 жыл бұрын
@@blasiankiki7831 u sound u said it’s good but u wouldn’t recommend it that shit is WRONG
@mediaman342 жыл бұрын
low key kevin is showing the younger generation of fathers how to raise a daughter the right way. Salute, Kevin really is the Godfather no one had.
@EPFForsyth2 жыл бұрын
I moved from WDC/DMV to El Paso Texas to find a traditional wife, I dated with intent and the first date was always an interview/ coffee date. After wading through a sea of candidates, I found the woman I wanted. I proposed marriage after 3 weeks, and we have been married since April, 2017. We are both very well off and we have an executive marriage meaning we help each other out. There are allot of good women out there, but I believe you must have a through screening process, and intent. Great show as always KS...
@LadyF712 жыл бұрын
My husband proposed after 3 months and we married 1 year and 1 month after we met.
@LadyF712 жыл бұрын
Weve been married for 11 years
@juancastorena3162 жыл бұрын
Being from El Paso myself you will find some of the loyalist woman out here. Being a Bordertown some of the women here just appreciate everything that comes their way.
@wcclarence21472 жыл бұрын
Good on you.
@associatealpha11662 жыл бұрын
No, there are not “alot of good wimminz out here” 3-5% of wimminz in USA today are quality marriage material
@mikhailabdurrachman24432 жыл бұрын
Remember Boyz, never pay for "something" that Tyrone got for free 💪
@lertub2 жыл бұрын
Damn couldn’t have said it better 👍👍👍
@treyparker37752 жыл бұрын
Preach my man
@jamari7772 жыл бұрын
Amen
@williewideback2 жыл бұрын
and more than likely He's still around and can still get it for free
@he2tall882 жыл бұрын
Boom
@MrAntd12 жыл бұрын
Kevin had me hollerin this show!!! These women stepped right into it!🤯😭🤣🤣🤣I'm so glad I'm married. Lot of these women so delusional 🙄 🤦🏾
@king504gaming52 жыл бұрын
Its hard out here for us who ain't married 😅
@MrAntd12 жыл бұрын
@king504 Gaming I feel y'all pain I didn't get married until I was 38. I had almost given up hope.
@bfr74vz802 жыл бұрын
I just don't get why some of these women don't understand why 6 figure men don't approach them when they're under 5'5 and weigh over 150lbs
@eq20922 жыл бұрын
@@bfr74vz80 here is the thing about most 6-figure dudes I know. Their wives all got with them when they were broke just starting out. When they were sub $75K so making average money. Then they built it with them. Also men become high earners in late 30s at the earliest. So do they want a 40 or 50 year old dude cause those are the guys who consistently make that money?
@reese852 жыл бұрын
@@bfr74vz80 5’4, 150 ain’t fat tho
@FlipmasterFED2 жыл бұрын
Kevin has the most patience I've ever seen. He needs to be the war negotiator with Russia and Ukraine currently. The break down of the 27yr old nurse was priceless.
@princessxenomorph89522 жыл бұрын
The Russians are the good guys. Brandon et al are pure wickedness.
@Fitbossjas2 жыл бұрын
Crazy how KS is literally raising me at 27 🤦🏾♀️I agree with a lot of things he says, life definitely has taken me off the path of womanhood. But I can feel myself becoming better. 🙏🏾
@AskAW2 жыл бұрын
Are you dating marriage minded men?
@Fitbossjas2 жыл бұрын
@@AskAW I’m actually not dating at all, I’m in hibernation.
@bawsnitti2 жыл бұрын
@@Fitbossjas What is hibernation? Lol 😂😂 You mean celibate Which is more ...... BS But good for you "if" you're growing But that's just BS
@samanthakirk37932 жыл бұрын
I loved this Kevin. I love the biblical principles to these as well. The foundation of a lot of what you say is just that. I really enjoyed this. Thank you
@erictoomer56652 жыл бұрын
Right, I love when he hits them with the Word!
@anrenes34592 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it’s basically proverbs 31 women bulletin points but most people don’t know it. Truth is truth whether we like it or not.
@erictoomer56652 жыл бұрын
@@anrenes3459 💯💯💯
@lyrikalinyoswiminpoo2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how almost EVERY divorced woman that calls into this show was the one that filed. I mean like 99.999% paternity test level accuracy.. Wow!! KS knows what he's talking about and the numbers back him up..
@shoca34272 жыл бұрын
Maybe but I'm more interested in hearing their reasons behind filing not just that they filed. If a man is a cheater and abuser then should a woman stay? If it's "not working" then idk those should be worked out and worked on
@msfox21762 жыл бұрын
@@shoca3427 finally someone said it! Because this narrative that women just need to stay with the man but not taking in the fact men can be cheaters, abusers etc
@RioTheHitman2 жыл бұрын
@@msfox2176 Are you saying you think 50 plus percent of divorces are filled in the black community because of cheating and abuse?
@RandomPerson-nd2ey2 жыл бұрын
@@RioTheHitman exactly! Show me the text messages of the guy cheating or police reports for abuse. I knew one chick who was trying to cheat on her husband with me or leave him for me. I'm not sure which. Either way, I wasn't having any of it. Why would I trust a woman who was willing to cheat on her husband or leave him to be with another man? In any case, she started claiming that he was abusing her. Well, that could change the circumstances but she could just be a liar and cheater. So I asked for evidence. Did she have bruises or cuts? Exactly what was he doing? Etc, etc, etc. The *only* thing she could come up with when I pushed the issue was that he smacked her butt on the way out the door when leaving for work. By the way, she was a housewife who didn't need to work because of him. I told her "I like butts too so I would do the same thing. If he really is smacking it too hard or you don't like it, you should talk to him about it. Did you?" "No." I tried to let that guy know what was going on but he didn't want to hear any of it. In his eyes, his sweet innocent little wife would never do anything like that so I must have been the one trying to steal her from him.
@prettymommy32 жыл бұрын
Just because a woman files does not mean the marriage failed because of her. It can mean she filed to GET AWAY from a horrible situation caused by the man.
@shannoncrenshaw34942 жыл бұрын
Its so confirming watching this and being a woman who made and continues to make good decisions from early on.
@MrCMR9012 жыл бұрын
Salute to you
@bkcnone55522 жыл бұрын
Mentor the younger girls in your community so they dont end up with many bodies and kids out of wedlock
@lancerivora93252 жыл бұрын
Was your father in your life?
@bwchildcare78442 жыл бұрын
I hope the 2nd caller got his points that he made because since watching KS, I have loss 30 lbs and my husband said he didn’t care about my weight but now, I can’t keep his hands 🙌 off me. 😂 ❤️
@heidehho61912 жыл бұрын
Congrats pretty Lady! Any advice for healthy weightloss?
@AskAW2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like your husband is a liar 🤥
@nightfalltavion99362 жыл бұрын
@@AskAW just because he like the way she look with less weight doesn't mean the weight bothered him
@bronxishomenomatterwhereig31492 жыл бұрын
@@nightfalltavion9936 Exactly. They likely still had sex and he desired her when she was heavier. But now she's even more physically attractive to him. Thus more desire to smash.
@bwchildcare78442 жыл бұрын
@@heidehho6191 I just started working out about 4 times a week and stopped eating meat 🥩. I also do intermittent fasting too. Thank you so much.
@stephenjones1012 жыл бұрын
"I'm being sought after, but I don't know where to find them". If you are really being sought after, they'll find you. That's in the very nature of being sought after. If you can't find them (HVM), then how do you know they are looking for you? You can only know this if they find you and tell you that you are what they've been looking for. Otherwise, it's all just in your imagination.
@adrianchandler78532 жыл бұрын
Say it again for the women in the back!!!
@damrhy2 жыл бұрын
Polar bears do not eat penguins because they never meet. HVM are in paces she is not. There’s also a strong possibility that HVM will avoid visually low quality women (weave, fake lashes, raptor claws, tattoos, giant hoop earrings, etc).
@zaidpatel8695 Жыл бұрын
Their ego: I'm being sought after Them: I don't know where to find them
@ImranKhan-hl6ch2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 41 year pakistani man and after watching Kevin Samuals even I’m becoming a good wife for a black man
@awerimedia12342 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 dead
@ThurstMETV2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 too funny!!!
@DonCE02 жыл бұрын
Looooooool
@redpillredpill32162 жыл бұрын
👀😂😂😂😂😂😂🤪💀
@chalkkey4332 жыл бұрын
Don't give up your career, keep playing cricket 🏏
@amandar51862 жыл бұрын
Affection can be so calming for the soul in a stressful world 🦋
@wshelby832 жыл бұрын
So true!!!
@creolelady1822 жыл бұрын
Its absolutely incredible to me that people think they are entitled to someone else just because they exist
@bawsnitti2 жыл бұрын
You mean entitled to their money and lifestyle They don't care about anything else
@creolelady1822 жыл бұрын
@@bawsnitti YES
@bawsnitti2 жыл бұрын
@@creolelady182 They only want him to look good because they wanna post BS pics on Facebook to pretend they're fake happy in front of their friends Crazy thing I was saying this since high school and college and people said I was wrong for having a type A modern woman ain't finna stick around if her man/ATM machine gets sick
@jerrybruckhart91342 жыл бұрын
@@creolelady182 Honestly, it is the norm today.
@cnory3422 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo that 1st girl was lying about everything
@drifta20012 жыл бұрын
Absolutely one of the best shows I've seen in ages. He is methodical, calm and very educational towards the ladies in this show. He really is trying to make them see sense and really get them to think about what it is they want and how they should get it. Kevin gets a lot of flack for being unkind, I think this is unfair when you have ladies not prepared to do some homework or listen to what he's actually trying to do... Help them!
@scortez992 жыл бұрын
calm😂
@jobjob88502 жыл бұрын
Kevin, you are spot on with all the points that you have laid out, particularly on uncondional feminity, affectionate in public and in private, and warm eyes,as eyes don't lie!
@satchellesenat37122 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that I found KS channel! His concepts are very simple if you take the time out to listen and truly want to better yourself as a woman. I’m learning more about myself everyday.
@horacejohnson89252 жыл бұрын
The cat analogy was excellent. Fit, Feminine, Naturally nurturing, mindset, Discipline, Discerning......cooperative.....agreeable . This was another fantastically phenomenal show Mr. Samuels 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🔥👍👍🙌
@amanslife3602 жыл бұрын
One of the best KS sessions I've watched. QUESTION: So, is it true that black women think black man will except less from them than non black men? The first black female video guest on this show said so. She basically said black male standards are lower than non black men so she does not have to try hard, can give less and get the same results and get the same high caliber of black man for little effort. ANSWER: Black men do not give black women like this your TIME! Give your TIME (and love) only to black women who can spell the word RESPECT. And who can demonstrate it every single day to you.
@johnames64302 жыл бұрын
they know a brother will hit it regardless, I see a brother down the street with a 250lb white woman, brother thinks he just hit the lottery or struck gold because he's got a white girl.
@theblackmarvel2 жыл бұрын
@@johnames6430 sometimes men will take the first woman who is feminine, cooperative and supportive. They will go down in beauty and race to avoid the headaches. That 250lb lady may be the most peaceful woman he ever met lol. Too many of our sisters are 250 themselves and think that thats actually normal weight, they are "thick" or "big boned" and think they're the same as a woman 100lbs less.
@patrickchula2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Make sure you all add this to your KS playlists
@patrickchula2 жыл бұрын
@@theblackmarvel The Godfather gave me the best follow up. “I’ve never seen a big boned skeleton.” Because women will ramble ramble ramble when they use the “big bones”.
@jermaineburgess37672 жыл бұрын
This is why I don't date bw its a non starter for me
@joshblackweinfluencetheint63712 жыл бұрын
If you’re a woman you could listen to this while you work out it would definitely motivate you.
@Anna-dh1iy2 жыл бұрын
- the man said
@theatom55932 жыл бұрын
After watching these videos it’s safe to say that Kevin is actually being NICE ! Most of the girls he called average aren’t even average, they are below average !
@bawsnitti2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Charlie_Alpha_Lima2 жыл бұрын
Fit, feminine, cooperative and can answer a direct question with a direct answer.
@DizzKoMane2 жыл бұрын
That's incredibly rare
@louisj46452 жыл бұрын
Sounds good but I don't believe we can get all in one lol
@GeminiDre262 жыл бұрын
Kevin added a few qualifiers.. now she must be book smart and street smarts.. and the book smart has to match your book smarts.. basically men don’t know what they want because only a delusional man thinks he’s getting more than 2 qualifiers at a time
@getithowyoulive2.2 жыл бұрын
This show was definitely an eye opener. This made me really step up my standards. These women that cam'd up are delusional 🧢tains smh
@jasonBGI2 жыл бұрын
It reminded me to be colder. I used to have a soft spot for these broads but they are judging men extremely harshly by some arbitrary standards that don't ultimately matter.
@jasonBGI2 жыл бұрын
So I'm not wasting time money or attention on em
@garlicsteve2 жыл бұрын
"You can't ride on just being black." This is exactly what many black women don't understand. You aren't going to be first in line for ANY man if you are not fit, smart, agreeable, disciplined, feminine, cooperative, nurturing and slightly sophisticated. Black women will come at us with whatever sort of attitude and relaxed manner they choose as though there is no need to impress us. I see this even in the work place. Go to a restaurant or a store and interact with black women and you'll notice you don't even get eye contact. They'll talk at you, not to you. Just from that slight interaction you can tell a lot. Women of other races will smile at you while making eye contact. This is happening all over the place where men and women interact. Black women please work on your approach to black men. When we're getting smiles from other races of women but not from you, it makes it hard to ignore all other women and pick you instead.
@Osunshoney4092 жыл бұрын
Pick what makes you happy. Simple.
@JGetsItIn2 жыл бұрын
@@Osunshoney409 you see, no intellectual rebuttal towards anything the brother just said but rather “pick what makes you happy”. Black men it’s time we really woke up and isn’t it ironic they show us more reasons to leave than not when in reality we just want them to cooperate with us. We as black men need to value ourselves way way more and the more we do the less we have to deal with these type of women within our community. Men of other races aren’t rushing to put rings on you but you’ll still be willing to give them things you’d never give us lol, it’ll only get worse for y’all.
@mightyrsa97722 жыл бұрын
@@Osunshoney409 You could also do what makes us happy so we could pick you... How about that?
@Osunshoney4092 жыл бұрын
@@mightyrsa9772 really? Well I’m already picked sorry… but as for these 2022 females 😂😂😂… they not trying to hear none of that! You better have a bag bigger than the one they can get themselves or it’s game over…
@adrianchandler78532 жыл бұрын
@@Osunshoney409 from what I see in your attitude, I’m confident he regrets picking you.
@bwchildcare78442 жыл бұрын
Great job 👏, Mr. Samuels!!! I loved 🥰 every moment of the show. 💯 Keep up the phenomenal work.
@architecture.w2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant broadcast!! KS is a philosopher of our time.
@JohnDoe19xx2 жыл бұрын
i used to argue with my sister that "her carrier does not define who she is" but after watching Kevin for 1 year i've understood why she is 31 and single
@Bayo1062 жыл бұрын
@MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS he means career
@martineberhardt22052 жыл бұрын
If she has a airplane carrier, that shit is high maintenance! I would guess it takes a lot of time and kinda defines her.
@roolyfe2 жыл бұрын
Career doesn’t matter to a man because we got to pay all the bills 💸
@reese852 жыл бұрын
@@roolyfe if you pay your wife or gf personal bills! Your crazy
@janelleg5972 жыл бұрын
If she's an aircraft carrier that's a whole mess of issues lol
@tonychesssnutsss14042 жыл бұрын
As a black man what I’m experiencing is black men will take anything our standards are the lowest.
@pcarebear12 жыл бұрын
I'm blessed to have grown up with 3 grandmas, they taught me most of what Kevin says in his videos. Of course worded differently :) (One abuela from Nicaragua w/ Indigenous roots, Nana from NC w/Cherokee roots and another Nana from rural VA w/Baptist roots). I followed their lessons after they passed, cooking styles, cleaning, and treating everyone with a warm welcome, don't be indebted to a man (pay for your dates). I intentionally didn't date in my 20s to help provide for my family, working 3 jobs, schooling, and chronic illness. I'm glad I waited like my nana's warned, no way I would understand their lessons in my 20s in survivor mode.
@bfr74vz802 жыл бұрын
Women in high demand never let themselves get out of shape to begin with.
@charristemp89892 жыл бұрын
Facts
@charristemp89892 жыл бұрын
That mean the mindset off
@rdthaprariedawg2 жыл бұрын
“I’m discerning...also, I don’t know when to take men serious” Maybe you’re not discerning, honey
@creationmuse23132 жыл бұрын
The disconnect between middle aged or older women is, trying to negotiate with men that have the option of more youthful women. Men look for Beauty, Brains, and Compatibility. Which is what most women want. Women tend to look for Wealth, Ambition, and Protection.🤔
@vennyi2 жыл бұрын
That platform your using is awesome Kevin! Watching the women talk to each other is amazing! So much insight!
@ea.charles91762 жыл бұрын
With regards to the girl that identified as East African, I said it in the live chat, but this is exactly what the western world or more specifically that 3rd wave wyte feminism will do to non-western black women without a solid understanding of how they ended up in the West or without a proper respect for their parents' struggle to get them where they are. All of a sudden, they forgot about what their parents had to overcome so that they now have the opportunities they have. It happens with the younger generation of men as well but the difference is young men will sooner or later get the reality check of problems with law enforcement etc. if they are not careful. With these type of women? Not so. They escaped accountability because as it is, society at large gives them a 'free pass'. I'm really trying not to generalise too much, but she is probably second generation (even third) born in Canada. Traditional women are just built with a different disposition. Sure, they might and do talk sh*t too, but their disposition is entirely different.
@Charlie_Alpha_Lima2 жыл бұрын
100% I've dealt with quite a few of them here in Dubai (they're actually my favourite) and real Horn Africans are super traditional women who value marriage and family. They are so pleasant to deal with. This one has been properly brainwashed with that Western independant woman crap
@wiolettamotoccev82772 жыл бұрын
Opp0
@eliporter39802 жыл бұрын
I spent quite a bit of time in West Africa and noticed the same thing. Once those women come to America/the west, they're basically spoiled for marriage.
@-glitch-81952 жыл бұрын
100% agree with you on traditional women being built with an entirely different disposition. Traditional women are apologetic and it does not bring them joy to see a man in distress. These females on the other hand love rubbing everything in the man’s face and letting him know exactly how they feel but guys still be thinking it’s because they’re acting “hard-to-get” 🤣
@lorryhenley35112 жыл бұрын
Trina
@anonymous1214742 жыл бұрын
This show is highly appreciated as I know that my Wife of 19yrs is a High Demand Woman…. She is my world and inspiration! Ladies, you better listen, change, and enact all that KS stated to end the madness you are currently living. Fellas, listen with your EYES when vetting a Wife… these are all characteristics that cannot be faked overtime…. HDW are scarce!!
@__khadijahhhh2 жыл бұрын
This monologue was EXCELLENT! Thank you for this, we need your tough love, lessons, & truth! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@ptrdnls2 жыл бұрын
Your best show to date. 🇯🇲👊🏾🇺🇸This will be a must watch for my daughters. Who are still young and impressionable. My guy. KS 🙏🏽
@romeoo52722 жыл бұрын
The best show on the youtube hands down.
@gw64962 жыл бұрын
You're right!!in the top 5
@Twingotit2 жыл бұрын
Ladies that over talking a man when he’s talking IS A REAL THING ! Please stop doing that
@iamthesec2 жыл бұрын
The way Kevin is exposing how black woman see black men as lesser than is masterful. Kevin is playing at a different level.
@reese852 жыл бұрын
It’s not easy being accepted by other races when it comes to dating! Idk why y’all acting like this info is new
@Higfsyourvioihb2 жыл бұрын
Y'all are lesser though
@charlesr.dearsjr.30272 жыл бұрын
@@Higfsyourvioihb Care to elaborate?
@Higfsyourvioihb2 жыл бұрын
@@charlesr.dearsjr.3027 You have less money and power than WM in the market BM are of lesser value
@hermanwilkins52042 жыл бұрын
@@Higfsyourvioihb Not just to BW to everybody.It's taught
@vintageswiss90964 ай бұрын
I'm a HENRY white guy making 145k a year... I got me a Hatian wife that understands family and an actual struggle, and she truly appreciates what I can offer. American black ladies... you aren't even in contention with each other... you aren't the only black women on the planet. And others truly appreciate their husband. Love my baby. ❤
@erictoomer56652 жыл бұрын
Another eye-opening show for ladies, you can be desired but not wanted off the pertinent stuff that Kevin broke down such as mindset, fitness, intelligence, femininity, cooperation, etc. I’m also a guy like Kevin who loves smart women too, folk call it a sapiosexual.
@jamint.jaddua17712 жыл бұрын
@@akinbode2298 lol you must be a virgin
@mmadinobiotigbuo45092 жыл бұрын
When I say I NEED…WE NEED THIS!!!!
@mmadinobiotigbuo45092 жыл бұрын
God is too good
@erictoomer56652 жыл бұрын
@@mmadinobiotigbuo4509 Yes Sir we do!!
@erictoomer56652 жыл бұрын
@@mmadinobiotigbuo4509 Yes He is 🙏🏾
@such_a_delight97482 жыл бұрын
As always, intelligent conversation for grown folk. PSA for the Impatient Crowd: He doesn't get it started til minute 12.
@CArsonVevo2 жыл бұрын
I love how Kevin had the two women speaking on their views and playing moderator in the middle. It’s chess not checkers.
@WarriorsCherub9992 жыл бұрын
Kings Gambit
@planbsponserme2 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch Kevin’s videos I’m like, “Damn, this man is preaching’!”
@jahbless4ever2 жыл бұрын
Good show tonight. Kevin Samuel has helped me to raise my expectations of women. Peace.
@Rjay12332 жыл бұрын
Don’t let them low grade women keep you down king 🙌🏽
@failureface18372 жыл бұрын
Love this dude he speaks the truth I agree with a lot he says
@BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏿👏🏾some of your best work I’ve heard...Very educationally, thorough, descriptive, and well defined... makes me want to go purchase your book thou I’m very conscious and in tuned....Hopefully the (black) world is listening and taking notes. Natural nurture = the proverbial virtuous woman aka most wanted even the 👹is look for her. “HD” woman all the way😘😍🌹🏡🚘💰💍👑she Brings peace /balance/and sanity to the table.
@jbb82612 жыл бұрын
A traditional valuable woman has the qualities of an executive assistant, nutritionist, personal trainer, event planner and nanny all in one. And she enjoys the ways she can help others.
@reese852 жыл бұрын
Personal trainer, really? Freak outta here with that
@prihaps2 жыл бұрын
Lmao why not just hire help? Like if he makes so damn much. If he doesn’t then she can work too bc working and hiring help is cheaper then doing it yourself.
@jbb82612 жыл бұрын
@@prihaps No thanks. I don’t want to spend money to have some random woman in my space doing things I’m perfectly capable of. My husband makes more than enough but I view hiring someone as a complete waste of time. Excercising, meal planning, taking care of the children Etc are not difficult things and I don’t see the point of having children if you’re going to have to have someone other than you care for them. Hard pass.
@obiziii2 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@wshelby832 жыл бұрын
@@valeriacortez7003 me too! I pray we get great men!!!
@pomptitk2 жыл бұрын
Mr. Samuels, Your Q&A skills are phenomenal. Your ability to get the callers to cut the B.S and be honest is unlike nothing I've ever witnessed. What an eye opener your platform is. I really hope young people gravitate to your material before embarking on life's journey.
@b-logo_official76372 жыл бұрын
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@b-logo_official76372 жыл бұрын
Ŵ𝒉ạťʂ𝑨ƤƤ˂Ͳεϫϯ ±𝟏𝟿𝟏𝟕𝟖𝟏𝟑𝟒𝟒𝟗𝟔 Tell him I referred you…….
@heybro61052 жыл бұрын
Ole girl put her finger up at Kevin, almost turned into WWIII. 😅
@thomasrichardson56612 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to see that.
@mauricewebb10982 жыл бұрын
This was definitely one of the best shows to date. Content just gets better and better
@macman96892 жыл бұрын
@1:44:18 lady:"what is mileage? Kevin: 'dicks and broken hearts!"🤣🤣🤣
@redpillredpill32162 жыл бұрын
She filed for divorce when she started making more money than her husband. That’s the thing these women won’t admit to.
@antoniotula2622 жыл бұрын
She knew what he meant, particularly in a dating conversation. Disingenuous.. at best!!
I burst out laughing when she said she was a 8😭😭😭😭🤷🏾♂️
@ransavage41942 жыл бұрын
She was tripping!!!!
@rancosteel2 жыл бұрын
If Cindy Crawford is a 10 she is a 1.
@ransavage41942 жыл бұрын
Kevin gave Nicki Minaj a 8 lmao
@professionaltrollgirl26822 жыл бұрын
@@ransavage4194 nickis body is DISGUSTING. Short, abnormally big boobs and huge butt ...ain't a good look .
@Osunshoney4092 жыл бұрын
@@ransavage4194 no he didn’t, he gave her a 9
@REMEMBERING2PACANDNIP2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t want this to end 🦄🎯🌹 Thank You 🙏🏾
@healyourself96752 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and his contains are truly an eye-opening for me, I’m really glad that I stumble across his channel :)
@trellwiggins25392 жыл бұрын
Discipline is a Must 🙌👍 And this made me want raise my Standards up higher and demand more I hope more Black men and other non black men do that too
@SumMumBoMum2 жыл бұрын
The first caller is definitely a fun girl because I wanted a drink after that call.
@rse11132 жыл бұрын
I needed a drink and an Advil.
@Markbell732 жыл бұрын
This white guy wouldn't even have fun with her. No thanks. I couldn't get drunk enough.
@insights3140 Жыл бұрын
Such an astute assessment of people. He left us with gems. I’m happy to hear this description. It’s validating of moving through the world in femininity and it being valued.
@neteruhathor2 жыл бұрын
I married young and am currently going through my spiritual awakening. At first I thought women should wait to find themselves, but after watching these, I realize that it is okay to do that with your spouse. Also, it is imperative for me to help my daughters find themselves while they are young, so they are not entering college with emotional baggage and/or lost. There is nothing wrong with getting an education, as long as they stay open, ready, and looking for a mate at the same time. Keep on teaching Kevin! I am learning a lot👌🏾
@thegoalconquerors16092 жыл бұрын
Been saying this for years!! Common sense! A women of wisdom....Facts...Character , grace, commitment high intangibles!!! Tell em!
@SmileyBoy2 жыл бұрын
We gotta protect this man at all costs. Just powerful realizations he's bringing every single day.
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@DinoSvanhvit2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kevin for laying it out. All men know about this, when he mentions this. 🙏
@Markbell732 жыл бұрын
The Godzilla roar, makes me chuckle and smile everytime! Half the time it gives me chills how appropriate it is.
@medbrotha2 жыл бұрын
As a masculine man, you can really FEEL femininity. Some ladies have that aura and you recognize it. And you see why they are married lol.
@missor4312 жыл бұрын
I'm here! But I'm in 🇫🇷 😂
@amerokeewiya13202 жыл бұрын
Um my sibling isn’t feminine at all…married tho
@codeofsilenceent2 жыл бұрын
Fact
@sarahscunnin10092 жыл бұрын
This was a good one... made me think a lot about my husband and mine's relationship and how I should work harder to make it better... We've been married 12 yrs and have been together 14 yrs. We met when I was 22 and he was 21, both down on our luck. I had two kids with two different baby daddies... he had a step dad who was there for him and influenced him TREMENDOUSLY. Never wanted any kids of his own. Then he met me. We met working at a local fast food restaurant. Long story short (lots of other stuff inbetween) we REALLY hit it off and we both were exactly what we were looking for in each other... Thing is we were both damaged... He had been previously damaged by women and I had previously damaged men along with getting damaged myself by men and my family did a number on me as well, along with his fam doing damage on him...it's a long long story (14 yrs usually is) but we went from public housing to losing buying a first home and losing EVERYTHING because of our choices AND both our mothers being control freaks to FINALLY building things back up TOGETHER and being where we are today... you don't need a "high value man/woman" to be happy... And I can tell ya that kids can DEFINITELY COMPLICATE EVERYTHING!!! Knowing what I know now I wish I we both had been smart enough to wait... but if we hadn't we probably wouldn't be together today.... And he's my best friend... and I'm his.... I'm now 36 years old... we have an almost 11 yr old together along with my other two. Don't have a fancy house, nor a fancy car... but we do have 14 acres and a 4 bedroom brand new modular along with a 2016 jeep cherokee with only 50,000 miles on it (and trust me, in Maine you need 4 wheel drive... especially this time of year), our kids are doing good, not great, but good☺️ I love my husband more than I even know... You are so right about "damage" causing issues... women need to realize that we are built for raising/carrying/nurturing our young as a species... I used to have more "feminist/liberal/leftist" views growing up but it's only because that's what I was raised with... always had a distaste for government and once I had kids I started to see how unfairly men were treated when it comes to society and the law...
@b-logo_official76372 жыл бұрын
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@jesusloveisthegreatestpower2 жыл бұрын
Kevin is brutally honest and that is rare in America these days. That is what makes his content shocking.
@blizle20152 жыл бұрын
I totally understand why The GODFATHER walked away in frustration!! Why do black men have to accept less from our own women?
@EliteBelleZoe12 жыл бұрын
BM don't have to accept less, date out if you feel BW are offering less.
@duckfoutube17612 жыл бұрын
EliteBelleZoe1 Lot of you offer less 🤷🏾♂️
@Bonecrusha8652 жыл бұрын
My wife has a friend that is pretty good looking, educated, has a good job..and in her 30s and can't find a man because she was taught to spend her prime years not thinking about relationships but going to school and her career. It's sad to see.
@six88102 жыл бұрын
not sad... she deserved that
@EliteBelleZoe12 жыл бұрын
She's not putting yourself in the right circles, that's all.
@alzero34002 жыл бұрын
Your bad friend for allowing that to be.
@lertub2 жыл бұрын
She will end up getting with a lower caliber guy. Just like my sister and my coworkers.
@jubernardi232 жыл бұрын
She needs to contract a matchmaker 😎
@christelletremaine89002 жыл бұрын
Kevin, thanks to you I started learning how to cook & tonight I got the courage to approach a man for the first time. I NEVER approach men! Listening to you has helped me so much. Thank you. 🙌
@skinfanjay2 жыл бұрын
✝️🙏💯
@bronxishomenomatterwhereig31492 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
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@tabithaedwards745 Жыл бұрын
Get a pressure cooker and it will always make the meal's amazing.
@wrightwayhvacr44632 жыл бұрын
Thanks for still giving us the fragrance of the day it matters!
@ijessflo82 жыл бұрын
I think this is my favorite episode 🤣 Kevin has become so patient!
@MegaCityOne2 жыл бұрын
They all want the Tinder Swindler. 🤷♂ Why can't these average women be satisfied with a average hard working man? A Cop, Fireman, IT guy, Plumber.
@alexisc75652 жыл бұрын
Plenty of those men have women lol stop complaining
@jarellbrown8242 жыл бұрын
Because their delusional 🤣 reality isn’t an option for modern women, they’d rather believe in lies and something that’s completely unrealistic..monogamous billionaires wifing up older women on Tinder LMFAOOOOO welcome to the circus 🤡🤡
@MegaCityOne2 жыл бұрын
@@jarellbrown824 It really is delusional. They don't realize that their competing with every other woman on the planet for that top 0.5% man. Meanwhile an average man is satisfied with an average woman as long as she fits his preference & has some family values.
@MegaCityOne2 жыл бұрын
@@alexisc7565 It's not like that in every case, but this has become one of the main problems in the game. It's an "imbalance". Many men are abandoning the dating scene because even average women don't want them. Many women are ending up single, because after chasing the top 0.5% for so long, they eventually hitting the wall.
@alexisc75652 жыл бұрын
@@MegaCityOne If the vast majority don't want a man, I PROMISE you it isn't because he's a firefighter lol.
@roblack35102 жыл бұрын
The Godfather has given so much free game to you women on this one. Awesome session 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@alphonsoalphonsoalphonsoba62632 жыл бұрын
You made a great statement, but I want to ask, do you think the women are listening, do you think they are grasping this information and using it ? ?
@jamari7772 жыл бұрын
@@alphonsoalphonsoalphonsoba6263 not at all , they get frustrated facing the truth instead of using it as an advantage
@AskAW2 жыл бұрын
These shows aren't for women.
@lizexox2 жыл бұрын
I was reading while listening to one of the callers the second I believe and I heard KS walk off and then I heard her narrate it and I burst out laughing never a dull moment
@TheKingGadiid2 жыл бұрын
Omg this man spits fact with perfect sound clips right behind em 😂 you definitely a goat OG
@SarahEg912 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching and following for about two years now and have always gained something watching your videos. I enjoyed my brief time on your show and I appreciate your feed back on what I said. Maybe next time I can ask my question to you on the subject. Many many thanks from over here!
@peterzum2 жыл бұрын
Fixing the culture one woman at a time. You’ve chosen a Herculean task for your life, and you’re doing an awesome job of it.
@mauriceh89472 жыл бұрын
Hercules couldn't even do this one!😂 Thanks for you effort Brother Samuels ✊🏿
@jasmynnwaters1932 жыл бұрын
Cheating on your wife is recking your home, not leaving someone who stepped out.
@frankjames62322 жыл бұрын
According to generational ident that is because from my family experience my mother's mother didn't walkout on her father and he was a womanizer and a alcoholic and abusive but yet she was obligated to the marriage but again this is why bw's don't stay in marriage too long I've a perfect example of a great marriage David and Tamela Mann been married for 32 years and on Valentines day David gave her a bouquet of Red and white Roses 🌹 and a pair diamond earrings and yet both are estimated at 6 million dollars each, but yet she never complained or gripped about the gift he gave.
@di34862 жыл бұрын
Listen to that woman talking and you know why his husband cheated on her, she’s a nightmare
@thepursuitofknowledge52452 жыл бұрын
1st caller says she wants to know where to find the right men but says she is still in a 2 year relationship and wants to build a legacy with her man?!!. She is a wife, discerning, disciplined and mentally fit?!! Like, what!!
@kevinthomas15112 жыл бұрын
I thought that as well.
@jayschi1232 жыл бұрын
He killed it with the 5th caller. Nailed it with the questioning
@justj30142 жыл бұрын
Ladies do not mismanaged your youth, tap in early with and Man ! Be smart, cooperative and build your life 👍🏾
@Jay2.0-2 жыл бұрын
Divorced with 3 kids 🤦🏿♂️ it’s a wrap for her out here!
@skinfanjay2 жыл бұрын
Real talk
@xtrey19x2 жыл бұрын
At least her fitness level will prevent her from being offered as much mileage as she otherwise would.
@kokoalaska98882 жыл бұрын
One thing I can always 100% agree with KS on is our weight! Going to vacation Sunday and planned to eat what ever I wanted at the Resort , but after this broadcast, I better stay in the hotel gym and stick to my diet.😂 Good show!🍓🥑🍆🌱🥔🥗🥦🥒🍒🍌🍎🍊🍍
@huejass91302 жыл бұрын
Nah definitely enjoy your vacation and do whatever you want. Save the dieting for after, one or two weeks won’t kill u. Please enjoy yourself
@reese852 жыл бұрын
Have a balance! Hit the gym and don’t let all your meals be bad meals and drink as much water as you can! Enjoy ur vacation
@reese852 жыл бұрын
@@huejass9130 1-2 weeks can definitely set you back big time! Especially if your already out of shape
@huejass91302 жыл бұрын
@@reese85 nah it’ll set you back by 1 or 2 weeks
@Osunshoney4092 жыл бұрын
@@huejass9130 I agree with you Hue
@ransavage41942 жыл бұрын
That was a great episode GODFATHER!
@EmHotep45202 жыл бұрын
Kevin, I like how you gave time for the ladies of differing views on the topic of discussion to engage each other directly. I think it's a good idea for this to take place from time to time.
@jasminedanielle99572 жыл бұрын
Omg these women stress me the hell out 😖😖😖 these simple questions! “What is the outcome you want with a man” - starts saying a bunch of unnecessary stuff “What is the OUTCOME” -more unnecessary stuff “OUTCOMEEEE” Damn it! 🤦🏽♀️
@taylanscott90982 жыл бұрын
Advancing the kingdom u heard her😂👩🏾🦯🕺🏾✌🏾
@jerrybruckhart91342 жыл бұрын
I am 56, have never met one in real life that could/would answer a yes or no question with yes or no.