WHY ARE MEN AND WOMEN TURNING TO ESCORTS?

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Sadia Psychology

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6 ай бұрын

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@sadiapsychology
@sadiapsychology 6 ай бұрын
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@Awesam3rd
@Awesam3rd 6 ай бұрын
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@MikesWorldunfiltered
@MikesWorldunfiltered 6 ай бұрын
Sex workers is also a sign of a 3rd world. And the fact of it being legitimized in USA, speaks volumes of were we are financially, not to mention morally!
@josepablolunasanchez1283
@josepablolunasanchez1283 6 ай бұрын
When the concepts of pleasure, love and reproduction as treated as a package, decisions become responsible. If someone does not want to have any of these 3, do not engage in adult activity, pretty simple rule. Contraceptive transhumanist technology attempted to separate these 3 concepts. Transhumanism tries to "improve human condition" without defining what is being human. Without a clear definition there is nothing to improve and the rules to separate these 3 elements become unclear. Humanity did not have internet for thousands of years. So trying to live offline is the way to go. Internet should only be used for work, homework, and pay the bills. For videogames, single player ones are the best. How about board games? Not being available 24/7 like in 1980 would be good too. Internet experience is designed to produce FOMO, and adult activity is not the exception. FOMO tries to show promiscuous behavior as cool, but it is just marketing, "the grass is green in the other side of the fence" says marketing. Not following promiscuous FOMO only produces a hypothetical loss, while engaging in promiscuity produces real tears. Young people should know that there are not many years to be young and to be adult there are plenty of years, so trying to be adult too soon is not worthy. Once adult no one can go back to be a kid. During youth, many people from the same age group will pretend to teach others about life. But they know nothing. Advice from adults may sound illogical and counterintuitive, especially if it sounds "too moralist". But tradition is an experiment that works. Having a divergent life compared to other people may also bring FOMO feelings, but in time it will become clear who made the best long time decisions. Learn from mistakes of others, because there is no time to make all the mistakes in one life. And the final idea to avoid promiscuity is "toilets are easy to clean, people are not". The reason for religion to ban promiscuity was not "morality", it was health, physical and mental.
@josepablolunasanchez1283
@josepablolunasanchez1283 6 ай бұрын
When the concepts of pleasure, love and reproduction as treated as a package, decisions become responsible. If someone does not want to have any of these 3, do not engage in adult activity, pretty simple rule. Contraceptive transhumanist technology attempted to separate these 3 concepts. Transhumanism tries to "improve human condition" without defining what is being human. Without a clear definition there is nothing to improve and the rules to separate these 3 elements become unclear. Humanity did not have internet for thousands of years. So trying to live offline is the way to go. Internet should only be used for work, homework, and pay the bills. For videogames, single player ones are the best. How about board games? Not being available 24/7 like in 1980 would be good too. Internet experience is designed to produce FOMO, and adult activity is not the exception. FOMO tries to show promiscuous behavior as cool, but it is just marketing, "the grass is green in the other side of the fence" says marketing. Not following promiscuous FOMO only produces a hypothetical loss, while engaging in promiscuity produces real tears. Young people should know that there are not many years to be young and to be adult there are plenty of years, so trying to be adult too soon is not worthy. Once adult no one can go back to be a kid. During youth, many people from the same age group will pretend to teach others about life. But they know nothing. Advice from adults may sound illogical and counterintuitive, especially if it sounds "too moralist". But tradition is an experiment that works. Having a divergent life compared to other people may also bring FOMO feelings, but in time it will become clear who made the best long time decisions. Learn from mistakes of others, because there is no time to make all the mistakes in one life. And the final idea to avoid promiscuity is "toilets are easy to clean, people are not". The reason for religion to ban promiscuity was not "morality", it was health, physical and mental.
@josepablolunasanchez1283
@josepablolunasanchez1283 6 ай бұрын
When the concepts of pleasure, love and reproduction as treated as a package, decisions become responsible. If someone does not want to have any of these 3, do not engage in adult activity, pretty simple rule. Contraceptive transhumanist technology attempted to separate these 3 concepts. Transhumanism tries to "improve human condition" without defining what is being human. Without a clear definition there is nothing to improve and the rules to separate these 3 elements become unclear. Humanity did not have internet for thousands of years. So trying to live offline is the way to go. Internet should only be used for work, homework, and pay the bills. For videogames, single player ones are the best. How about board games? Not being available 24/7 like in 1980 would be good too. Internet experience is designed to produce FOMO, and adult activity is not the exception. FOMO tries to show promiscuous behavior as cool, but it is just marketing, "the grass is green in the other side of the fence" says marketing. Not following promiscuous FOMO only produces a hypothetical loss, while engaging in promiscuity produces real tears. Young people should know that there are not many years to be young and to be adult there are plenty of years, so trying to be adult too soon is not worthy. Once adult no one can go back to be a kid. During youth, many people from the same age group will pretend to teach others about life. But they know nothing. Advice from adults may sound illogical and counterintuitive, especially if it sounds "too moralist". But tradition is an experiment that works. Having a divergent life compared to other people may also bring FOMO feelings, but in time it will become clear who made the best long time decisions. Learn from mistakes of others, because there is no time to make all the mistakes in one life. And the final idea to avoid promiscuity is "toilets are easy to clean, people are not". The reason for religion to ban promiscuity was not "morality", it was health, physical and mental.
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x 6 ай бұрын
"Cheapest woman tends to be the one that you pay for." Jack Reacher
@deemo5245
@deemo5245 5 ай бұрын
Yep
@RoyCyberPunk
@RoyCyberPunk 5 ай бұрын
"A woman that you have to buy is not worth having" - Wilson Fisk AKA The Kingpin (Daredevil season 1)
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x 5 ай бұрын
"You don't pay her for sex. You pay her to leave." Charlie Sheene @@RoyCyberPunk
@Choompam
@Choompam 6 ай бұрын
“When you like the person that you are, you see yourself as a gift to other people” SHEEEEEEESH ❤❤❤
@yeahLOUIS
@yeahLOUIS 4 ай бұрын
Narc some?
@khalilwilson2586
@khalilwilson2586 6 ай бұрын
My problem with saying all/ majority of sex workers end up in a nice house of car is just wrong. Most sex workers make less than the national average and are undesired when dating. Only the top 1% makes life changing money.
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 6 ай бұрын
Mental health issues
@khalilwilson2586
@khalilwilson2586 6 ай бұрын
@@kingmaafa120 seems like instead of focusing on 100% of men and women She’s choosing to focus on let’s say at max 10% of each and acting like it’s the majority. Very dangerous thinking
@jessiesheldon-huffey1824
@jessiesheldon-huffey1824 6 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right! Most sex workers are trafficked and have no control over their own lives!
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x 6 ай бұрын
Most women are very bad with managing money too. I never met a woman in my life who knows how to invest in things like mutual funds.
@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 6 ай бұрын
Not only that, but many have grave mental issues, attachment issues, some are into drugs to cope and others have std's. To train your body and mind to remain detached for years after laying with so many equally dysfunctional people must really take a toll on you...and it will show if they want to be in a healthy normal relationship. I assume it would be difficult to near impossible to turn off that "detached" button.
@bullrider9617
@bullrider9617 6 ай бұрын
Wow , this lady is telling things which everyone need to hear !! This is exactly whats happening these days !!
@afveteran
@afveteran 6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately the ones who need to hear this to save themselves. Will not in 5 years they will be the next generation of homeless population. How ever, what we see here on KZfaq is a minority of low value people (men/women).
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 5 ай бұрын
Sex workers are a miserable lot. Nothing glamorous.
@DSGQR
@DSGQR 6 ай бұрын
There’s no such thing as dignity because culture normalized “don’t judge me” which lead to the no shame or embarrassment culture
@erictaylor3897
@erictaylor3897 6 ай бұрын
Men control yourselves. If you're starting a relationship with someone from a dating app or social media and she's wearing very little. She's for the streets, she's not worth your energy worrying about what she's doing behind your back. If she just started posting these pictures, just walk away. You don't need to negotiate or ask her to stop. Your time is valuable and irreplaceable. Don't get old and depressed about your lost time in youth.
@San606
@San606 6 ай бұрын
Pin this post!
@javiertorres9114
@javiertorres9114 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@craigclermond8001
@craigclermond8001 6 ай бұрын
Exactly. If you are in a relationship and she's posting bikini photos then she doesn't respect you. That's like a guy being in a relationship and going to strip clubs. Most females wouldn't accept that.
@rontheoracle
@rontheoracle 5 ай бұрын
Ditto.
@knowledgelibrary1141
@knowledgelibrary1141 5 ай бұрын
"Don't get old and depressed about your lost time in youth." This is very true but also very hard.
@v9b23j
@v9b23j 6 ай бұрын
I completely agree with her last point in that if you like yourself, or really respect yourself, every decision you make, every action you take or don't take is based on one question: Is this adding real value to my life?
@joebright4607
@joebright4607 6 ай бұрын
You mean like taking the time to watch this ?
@shaynalee
@shaynalee 6 ай бұрын
Awesome points Sadia! I modeled years ago and a lot of the girls would escort on the side. 100% that they knew how to manipulate men and had zero respect for them. In fact they would laugh at them. I was married at the time but truth be told I was a bit jealous of how they could just turn it on and off and get whatever they wanted.
@camillemorse5039
@camillemorse5039 6 ай бұрын
I agree. I also work in the Marling industry and it’s heavily overlap with the sex industry.
@Niek1001
@Niek1001 6 ай бұрын
Thing is, they THINK they can turn it "on and off", but later in life the mental aspects of these experiences will appear.
@PaulGarfield
@PaulGarfield 6 ай бұрын
You're talking like these women are in a position of power They're commodities for Rich guys nothing else
@zerus4435
@zerus4435 6 ай бұрын
A man pays either way doesn't matter if in a relationship or escort. In the long run it is cheaper for the men. So who is actually laughing?
@shaynalee
@shaynalee 6 ай бұрын
@@zerus4435 I dated a guy who lost his job within the first month. I ended up supporting him for almost 2 years. Of course he wanted to get married. I eventually kicked him out and was like now I know how some men feel!!
@estherchang4174
@estherchang4174 6 ай бұрын
We love her sincere heart felt comments about poor relationships for couples .
@garybennett5645
@garybennett5645 6 ай бұрын
Reality is how people perceive it. Unfortunately social media has distorted reality and moral and religious values have been diminished. Great video Sadia.
@p19shelt
@p19shelt 6 ай бұрын
Reality doesn't change. Reality is.
@rrickarr
@rrickarr 6 ай бұрын
Yes and moral and religious values have been diminished especially by the GOP constantly apologizing for the behaviour of Donald Trump!!!!!
@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 6 ай бұрын
@rrickarr Trump 2024 💗💗🇺🇸🇺🇸
@charlesdarwin5185
@charlesdarwin5185 6 ай бұрын
Genotype + phenotype + psychotype= avatar. Behavior is projection of avatar into action. Alignment of probability results in reality. Reality is relativistic and dependent on the observer. These actions are the quickest and shortest route to resources like money. Ant Behavior.
@charlesdarwin5185
@charlesdarwin5185 6 ай бұрын
​@@p19shelttruth is a perception of fact.
@khalilwilson2586
@khalilwilson2586 6 ай бұрын
Why are the only two options available an escort or a single mother? So much is wrong in this line of thinking
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 6 ай бұрын
Or single career woman, no kids.
@marcvslicinivscrassvs7536
@marcvslicinivscrassvs7536 Күн бұрын
Because most men cannot afford the stay at home wife anymore.
@donaldhutchinson811
@donaldhutchinson811 6 ай бұрын
ESCORTS ARE CHEAPER THAN DATES......YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR......
@gnarlycat
@gnarlycat 6 ай бұрын
Keep preaching the truth Sadia!
@Azeraph
@Azeraph 6 ай бұрын
Keep pushing Sadia. These times, i never thought we would see era's like these.
@mitsubachi6865
@mitsubachi6865 6 ай бұрын
Listening to this as a woman is super saddening because it shows that men would drop you as soon as they can't sexually use you. Be it for children, pleasure, or ego boost. Out of that, they don't need us.
@AQBPlays
@AQBPlays 6 ай бұрын
Get out of here. Men are virtually invisible to modern western women. Somehow you’ve made it about you again though.
@dedricklane4899
@dedricklane4899 6 ай бұрын
Most women would drop a man if they couldn’t provide for them anymore.
@karllarsen8797
@karllarsen8797 5 ай бұрын
No need to be sad mitsubachi6865 because 80% of divorces are initiated by women. That is a statistical fact.
@ChristopherX30
@ChristopherX30 5 ай бұрын
In many cases, when a man's wallet dries up, a woman has no more use for him. This even happens to husbands who lose their jobs, stalling in their career progression, sometimes.
@lovelyesmeralduh
@lovelyesmeralduh 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Sadia!
@ghostplaymakers3681
@ghostplaymakers3681 6 ай бұрын
"they measure dignity differently" - if they put money over the "self".. They are lost. AND MONEY does NOT = Success.
@khal7702
@khal7702 6 ай бұрын
collaboration i didn't expect but appreciate!
@Towanda-xq2xg
@Towanda-xq2xg 6 ай бұрын
The bottom line, if you have no Self Respect, Honor, Integrity, based on how you are raised, if you have children, you like it, we love it for you, KARMA is a mother and keep it moving! Next! 💯💯💯💯💯💯
@121sh1213
@121sh1213 6 ай бұрын
Always Elegant & Well Spoken.
@ms.tinygiant
@ms.tinygiant 6 ай бұрын
She is amazing. Her mind is *chefs kiss* Definitely going to make sure other people see this video as well.
@papayalovesMAC
@papayalovesMAC 6 ай бұрын
protect Sadia at all costs.
@edwardduarte7393
@edwardduarte7393 6 ай бұрын
Sadia! Sadia! Sadia! Kimmie Cakes is another yachter. Megan Markle...yachter. When I see a 19 year with a Fendi bag. Dad or Daddy. That includes the gays.
@schnee78
@schnee78 5 ай бұрын
​@@edwardduarte7393no, sometimes it is Mom.)
@whoisperfect_no1.381
@whoisperfect_no1.381 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Sadia. Love from the Philippines.
@mikewolff2432
@mikewolff2432 6 ай бұрын
Great analysis of the situation today. I didn't allways agree with your statements in the past... But here you are right on spot.
@0rbium
@0rbium 6 ай бұрын
The comment at the end about liking yourself being the way out of this bind is GOLDEN.
@Miraclepearl7
@Miraclepearl7 6 ай бұрын
The harsh reality. Great video Sadia.
@najehshafi2760
@najehshafi2760 6 ай бұрын
No one does that anymore hun, ❤ Sadia motivates and inspires 🇧🇩
@luckyjayakody
@luckyjayakody 6 ай бұрын
Sadia, you are 100% spot on measure of life's success. Different people measure if differently. Some people measure the success in life materialistically like wealth, possessions, status etc., whereas some other will measure it from intangible values, like peach of mind, dignity, loyalty, serenity, community, close knit family etc. The argument on these things to prove one party wrong is not going anywhere. These arguments are like a hypothetical argument happening between a monk dedicated himself to meditation in Himalayan mountains and a world famous billionaire. This is the issue with some of the red pill podcasts as well. They bring in all these women who are using sex & their bodies to earn money, & trying to convince them that after 40 they are going to be lonely, no man will wife you up, you will die alone etc. The bottom line is that those women don't care. They don't give a F**k. They only care about money & materialistic possessions. They are in this mindset that, I'll be old one day, but I'll be an old woman with money.
@schnee78
@schnee78 5 ай бұрын
Very well said! As Sadia mentioned you can end up alone anyway. All these men act like if a woman gets married young and virgin and whatever else they demand, it will guarantee her anything. Not to mention that being alone is not a problem for everybody and I bet that even most of the ones for whom it is will prefer it to a shitty marriage.
@bruce9032
@bruce9032 5 ай бұрын
G-d Bless you Sadia, it's long over due that man understands the workings and nature of us . Humanity....there's still hope.
@mrvanntabulous
@mrvanntabulous 6 ай бұрын
Sadia commits the apex fallacy here. The assumption a majority or significant portion of prostitutes are driving Lamborghinis and sending their kids to parochial school is asinine. Prostitution is an extremely imbalanced profession, where the top performers make the lion's share of the money. It's almost a meme at this point that the average Only Fans account pulls a measely $150-180 a month. You couldn't rent a Lambo for a day with that.
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x 6 ай бұрын
Most women are very bad with managing money too. I never met a woman in my life who knows how to invest in things like mutual funds.
@mrvanntabulous
@mrvanntabulous 6 ай бұрын
@untouchable360x They tend to have higher marginal propensities to consume, and contribute less to 401ks etc on the whole, but I wouldn't say they don't understand how to put money in mutual funds
@sporegnosis
@sporegnosis 6 ай бұрын
The problem is that once most of them become prostitutes, society and them, end up with all the drawbacks and none of the benefits (money) due to supply/demand dynamics. For sure there will always be the 1% ultra successful. The root of the issue was always having proper values and not a price. Instead we have commodified all private life and relationships while loosing all of our values and morals. Here framework is based on traditional values (that's good) and hence she imagines prostitution as it was performed in the past by the outcast women in a society that would indeed have many hungry men and perhaps some economic success in life, however today, we celebrate prostitution while calling Loyalty and normal relationships an outdated thing.
@ivan0oze886
@ivan0oze886 6 ай бұрын
The escorts in my area are broke they live normal paycheck to paycheck lives
@AQBPlays
@AQBPlays 6 ай бұрын
They get paychecks?..
@calinpopescudumitru
@calinpopescudumitru 5 ай бұрын
Congratulations Sadia! I love the way you demonstrate psihologically the true of real values of life.
@user-bt9tl3ii8h
@user-bt9tl3ii8h 5 ай бұрын
im so pleased by watching your podcasts where you reveal and explain every detail accurately I was watching and noding my head OMG how true is that, people have lost the real life's meaning whether from religious aspects or different aspects, I always learn and take advantages of your elaborations, thank you sadia.
@defundthefbi1434
@defundthefbi1434 6 ай бұрын
"You train it to control itself". Truth...lolol. I was waiting to see if he could keep a straight face with her saying that. He couldn't. Neither could I...But it is a serious matter. Informative post.
@dandaman9009
@dandaman9009 6 ай бұрын
Well if you can get men laid and into relationships then this wouldn’t be a thing, but this is many men’s only options, because women do not want them. For many this is their only avenue for intimacy.
@cerebral1095
@cerebral1095 6 ай бұрын
This
@Notimportant253
@Notimportant253 5 ай бұрын
This comment gives Elliot Rodger vibes. Plenty of men are in relationships but still go see escorts. What’s your explanation for that?
@dandaman9009
@dandaman9009 5 ай бұрын
@@Notimportant253 either their wives aren’t attracted to them anymore or they aren’t attracted to their wives anymore. Or they are cheaters. See how simple the explanation is? No emotion just facts. Just like the men who can’t get any go to them as well which is also facts. There’s space enough for empathy for both. Now the cheaters they have no excuse.
@JohnSmith-dm1wo
@JohnSmith-dm1wo 3 ай бұрын
I sleep with a lot of escorts. I flat out hate dating, which is why I do it. Dating is fake and exhausting
@mikeriley9802
@mikeriley9802 6 ай бұрын
Wow! I am very impressed with this lady. She is unusually perceptive and logical. I hope many men and women listen to her message.
@gabrielman368
@gabrielman368 6 ай бұрын
Sadia is delivering true value through truth.
@JasMin-ez2lv
@JasMin-ez2lv 6 ай бұрын
😂
@wednesday3561
@wednesday3561 5 ай бұрын
This advice is priceless. Chef's kiss 👌🏻
@bapbap22
@bapbap22 4 ай бұрын
I knew a genuinely good woman who grew up poor turn to sex work in Dubai. Sadia is correct. Even for a woman who once wanted commitment, the white picket fence, whole 9 yards- it can make more sense to secure your financial security because love is a gamble. Society is in a sad place.
@lubnaahmed9529
@lubnaahmed9529 6 ай бұрын
She is on point with everything and speaking true facts. Its a sad reality to face.
@roshinitoenlightenment
@roshinitoenlightenment 6 ай бұрын
Come to India here land of value, ethics, diginity and spirituality
@byronryan4216
@byronryan4216 6 ай бұрын
It’s a sadiapsychology mystery…😝
@sunbox4700
@sunbox4700 6 ай бұрын
Very good video 👍 I liked to hear your analysis of men and sex work. I agree with what you said.
@Drenchkat
@Drenchkat 6 ай бұрын
Star Wars Theory is growing himself, well done sir! 👏🏼
@monica_nielsen_
@monica_nielsen_ 6 ай бұрын
Your Amazing 😁❤️ love your content Sadia Keep Going ❤ I love your work and message you share with the world
@byronryan4216
@byronryan4216 6 ай бұрын
The luring of your glance led me to your sadia domain … 🙋‍♂️
@Elman_Baku
@Elman_Baku 5 ай бұрын
I'm really addicted to listening Sadia's soothing voice and behold her beauty 🙂 I love when she says hmm
@arizonaron7814
@arizonaron7814 6 ай бұрын
The money is a cope, it is not truly what they desire.
@ChristopherX30
@ChristopherX30 5 ай бұрын
They definitely want the security that money brings.
@ebonyeverything2751
@ebonyeverything2751 4 ай бұрын
​@@ChristopherX30exactly.
@BigAirDropper666
@BigAirDropper666 6 ай бұрын
Very good explanation about the value systems of escorts vs normal women in regards towards their desire to feel secure vs feeling respected+loved. Unfortunately in the (software) startup community women founders are in it for the security & their loyalty bought.
@lugaritzbrown2250
@lugaritzbrown2250 6 ай бұрын
I have to agree with Sadia on a lot on this piece.
@carlos.a.sanchez201
@carlos.a.sanchez201 6 ай бұрын
It was a struggle for many years, being divorced for over three years, I finally gave up porn addiction for nearly a year shortly after dating a women I was with for nearly ten, and a half months. Now, I am taking a break on dating and focusing on working out a bit harder than ever to regain my manhood and confidence back. It's a mind set that must over come from urges on wanting sex as I came a very long way!
@Elman_Baku
@Elman_Baku 5 ай бұрын
We have similar path. I was divorced for over three years. Gave up porn addiction after dating a woman for several month. Working out is great and as you mentioned it helps to regain your mandhood. There is nothing wrong in wanting sex though, but you don't need to sensationalize and idolize it.
@horacioaugustofilho6487
@horacioaugustofilho6487 5 ай бұрын
Because they don't have anything else of value to offer.
@dewantamanik8540
@dewantamanik8540 6 ай бұрын
Really valuable lesson... 👍
@TheBigExclusive
@TheBigExclusive 6 ай бұрын
There are some good points in the video, but the problem is that only the very top 5% of s3x workers make the kind of big money to buy a mansion. Most do not earn big money like she is saying.
@electrocademyofficial893
@electrocademyofficial893 6 ай бұрын
Also she says it's the men who are causing the problem via going for promiscuous women and moaning, whereas the men going for promiscuous women aren't the ones who are having issue (society is such that there's more promiscuous women around in one way or another relative to earlier generations and it's not shamed as much...).... the men not going for promiscuous women are both not causing the problem, and are the most impacted (furthermore their choice to not chase promiscuous women doesn't change a jot about the world on an individual level, they simply have to put up with living in it)
@lonewolf18650
@lonewolf18650 6 ай бұрын
It helps men avoid marraige and im good with that
@davidbanner9344
@davidbanner9344 6 ай бұрын
Sadia is spot on, each and everytime she speaks!
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@user-ld6wo4rv8h 6 ай бұрын
No
@cerebral1095
@cerebral1095 6 ай бұрын
Not always no. While there is gold to be found, a lot of it is just superficial and ignoring realities as well.
@cptheartist
@cptheartist 6 ай бұрын
This was amazing
@ghostplaymakers3681
@ghostplaymakers3681 6 ай бұрын
a lot of sex workers dont end up on top. They cant sustain the lifestyle as they age. Most sink TERRIBLY
@RandyEades
@RandyEades 6 ай бұрын
Good show ! Thank you,
@theeel420
@theeel420 6 ай бұрын
I agree with the first five minutes, disagree with the rest. Also even sex workers want love and a genuine connection.
@ChristopherX30
@ChristopherX30 5 ай бұрын
They find their love and connection threw others means than the traditional route.
@jjstarrprod
@jjstarrprod 6 ай бұрын
Star Wars Theory is probably one of the last guy I would have seen doing an interview with you, but here we are !
@akinun
@akinun 2 ай бұрын
Sadia has to be a must course at universities
@Peaceful_waters
@Peaceful_waters 6 ай бұрын
Selling yourself out is not a reward ...
@thatanimefan91
@thatanimefan91 6 ай бұрын
9:39 I dissagree with this being only a mans fault. One of the biggest reasons why men go to escorts, is being a lot of women/even their own partners are thinking too high of themselves or just thinking that they are more important than men therefore they can do what they want therefore it leaves men sexually unsatisfied. Dont get me wrong, men do play a part in this, but remember, it takes 2.
@Niek1001
@Niek1001 6 ай бұрын
Exactly. It's a matter of supply and demand. And the demand comes from low supply. In many cases the amount of hoops a man has to jump through to get access to women is so high that it's no longer worth the effort. Also the thing you're getting out of it IF it works out is of questionable quality. As many men find out in the later stages of a relationship.
@thatanimefan91
@thatanimefan91 6 ай бұрын
@@Niek1001 that's just it, men have to put a lot of effort than women for a maybe, which is just not worth it.
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 6 ай бұрын
As a single middle-aged woman, I'm wondering then why do you guys choose women like that and shy away from women who want a fair and mutually respectful relationship? It was your choice that led you there. You made the choice to be with women like that.
@thatanimefan91
@thatanimefan91 6 ай бұрын
@@Xianne027 not all of us went that way. I for one am looking for a fair relationship however todays women hold such high price of themselves and we have to clear so many challenges while women mostly sit there and wait for a man who checks her boxes off..how is it fair when men have to put in all the effort while women do as they wish..I know it's not all women, but majority of them has unreal expectations hence men cant be fucked with relationships anymore
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 6 ай бұрын
@@thatanimefan91 Sorry that you're experiencing that. But once again, if you have your filter set for overly demanding women who use men then that's what you'll attract. It's all about your own awareness of your own personal boundaries and what you let into your life. We're all responsible for our own choices. I'd be willing to bet that you'd never choose a woman who's willing to work as hard as you do and pay equal for living costs, right? You filter out those women who are prepared to give equally to the relationship and who place high value on fairness and mutual respect. Then you choose a demanding gold digger and say that all women are like that. If you feel that women just sit and wait for a man who checks off her boxes, then you're showing that you don't feel like you have any personal value to bring to a relationship. You lower your own self image and blame the women for not lowering themselves to that level.
@ZohaibHisam1
@ZohaibHisam1 5 ай бұрын
one thing we are missing here, i think the need for social validation arises from lack of validation and appreciation in real life. so a real cure would be to love, compliment and appreciate your partner more.
@BuddhaofBlackpool
@BuddhaofBlackpool 6 ай бұрын
The answer is one sentence... We live in a society where most people have no morals and capitalism has caused desperation so people with no qualifications can only sell sex
@chrishomann8422
@chrishomann8422 6 ай бұрын
Its been that way going back to ancient times lol
@mhm5319
@mhm5319 6 ай бұрын
I love Sadia . She is truly god given when it comes to relationships advice. A genius. Everything she said is so true . What a brain ! I mean, she is so on point . Her husband should be so thankful to have such a perfect woman. I got nothing but appreciation for her . Waou!!!!!!!!!! . Thank you again for sharing your priceless insight!
@NishantSharma-tr6xl
@NishantSharma-tr6xl 6 ай бұрын
Some good info dropped... I can relate
@jerryphillips6809
@jerryphillips6809 4 ай бұрын
In the dynamics between emotional and financial security, the element of personal trust is in play.
@frankbreuer8849
@frankbreuer8849 5 ай бұрын
I really like your content ... helping men to see what is not easy to spot ... but it also serves both genders in the long run because in close relationships winning is eventually losing.
@jonnygraham2372
@jonnygraham2372 6 ай бұрын
Commitment is done in 2024. Accept the future will be fully transactional. just as the past. Have a good time and be courteous and respectful to those you do business with.
@jerrys5764
@jerrys5764 6 ай бұрын
Woman advertise their availability and sexuality in their preferred language, covert and nuanced communication. There is plausible deniability and manipulation in her ways. Men have no choice but to overtly take action and overtly approach if he wants romance. Knowing that should make you see couples differently when out in public. Men could not approach yet woman know what they’re advertising.
@celeste3100
@celeste3100 6 ай бұрын
I’ve already accepted never marrying so I’m going after a high earning degree in Aerospace Engineering and just be my own rich man.
@carrino15
@carrino15 6 ай бұрын
Kind of same plan. High five for women in engineering.
@byronryan4216
@byronryan4216 6 ай бұрын
You are summoned on high from beyond the roof of heaven Celeste…🌌
@bosheek8632
@bosheek8632 5 ай бұрын
You would earn more in SW and retire at 35
@mariorodas768
@mariorodas768 6 ай бұрын
It's always the men's fault whatever happens in society, right? Why is it that women always fail to take responsibility?
@edytadelfel249
@edytadelfel249 5 ай бұрын
Way too Sad!!! It’s so hard this days! I am a mum of 2 teenagers and that challenging enough. If you are living from Pure Ego you will never be happy for long. Death of the Ego is essential to move forward to stay happy. So many unhealed people out there with no clear direction. I stay away from the Matrix as much as possible!!!!! My Peace is way to Important ❤And I really got a lot out of this pot cast. Like the person you are❤❤❤❤❤Yes! High Self Eteem is at work.
@Anniemax1
@Anniemax1 Ай бұрын
This hits home 😢
@tungao2515
@tungao2515 21 күн бұрын
So much truth to this. I now realize that I'm rewarding the wrong kind of women.
@wildonez3076
@wildonez3076 6 ай бұрын
Looking like you're winning isn't the same as winning...
@GlaucoASOliveira
@GlaucoASOliveira 6 ай бұрын
Amazing arguments! Congrats. Being against sex work is not a question of individual morality, but rather, it might be justified because this is an issue that creates several social and economic imbalances. As she argues, this lifestyle harms the majority of people, besides a tiny percentage of high-end sex workers and their clients.
@ME-tp8em
@ME-tp8em 6 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@Blissedx
@Blissedx 6 ай бұрын
It does seem like xesworkers are winning this day and age. Refreshing to hear someone finally say it out loud. 😂❤
@bettywhite2694
@bettywhite2694 6 ай бұрын
They're not tho. It's a miserable existence. I make a lot of money in the mining industry but it's nothing compared to the relationships I have in life.
@ebonyeverything2751
@ebonyeverything2751 4 ай бұрын
​@@bettywhite2694how does your mining give u insight on this actual topic?
@laurenpaer252
@laurenpaer252 6 ай бұрын
I don’t think most sex workers are winning. A couple maybe. But not most of them. They don’t tend to end up the mother of rich men’s children living in mansions. Though of course there are always exceptions. Though it is true that many men (and women) are rewarding bad behavior that has the effect of punishing good behavior.
@ABC-hi3fy
@ABC-hi3fy 5 ай бұрын
All relationships with any woman is temporary. So never legally get married or you will be cleaned out, lose your children.
@BackSlidBacktoGod
@BackSlidBacktoGod 5 ай бұрын
The LORD says dont put your Strength in women. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️
@ChiTheAesthete
@ChiTheAesthete 6 ай бұрын
I think the point is missed, not all sex workers are that successful its only the top 5%
@mellogic
@mellogic 6 ай бұрын
i disagree with you on the escort part, only a small 20% of them are living in mansions and all, most of them will wined up financial messed up even in health as most escorts turn to drugs and alcohol, some dont have custody of there kids, when there looks start to drop and there customer base starts to drop, there money flow will get bad at the end which i seen this happen escorts will be like the sad scene from the god father part 3 when Michael dies alone with no one even with no family
@sunbox4700
@sunbox4700 6 ай бұрын
She meant online sex workers can get rich. My sister just started recently and already makes $2000 a month. If woman gets popular she can make $100K a month.
@mellogic
@mellogic 6 ай бұрын
@@sunbox4700 she talking about sex worker period it doesnt matter if online off line bruh please pay attention,and your sister 2k a month aint shit i make more than that driving cab so you have no point
@JosieLaBord
@JosieLaBord 2 ай бұрын
Powerful information
@do7696
@do7696 6 ай бұрын
Great insight.
@johnnycanuck6923
@johnnycanuck6923 6 ай бұрын
Hello Sadia, I really appreciate your work. You seem very knowledgeable and your commentary is most insightful. If your a man and you have only three questions you can ask a potential mate when you are trying to choose successfully. Which questions should be asked and what answers are expected? Maybe its not that easy, I realize this, but I was just curious. I value your input. Thx Sadia!
@nickmattio3397
@nickmattio3397 6 ай бұрын
Soo basically attractive women on social media are powerful Sith Lord$…
@adeltalebpour4955
@adeltalebpour4955 6 ай бұрын
It takes two to tango, absurd or unrealistic expectations or standards makes it very difficult for men.
@Verteune
@Verteune 5 ай бұрын
This lady is speaking sense
@tornatic1983
@tornatic1983 6 ай бұрын
Not all sex workers make enough to be well off especially in those 3rd world countries. They make just enough to support themselves and their child or children
@zaynumar0
@zaynumar0 6 ай бұрын
Thanks sadia
@gergohegyesi2266
@gergohegyesi2266 5 ай бұрын
Noone could have "high bodycount"...have experiences of course, in a nice, selfrespected way. Nothing wrong with being in 2, 3 relations if you are in them with heart! But always be honest and get in a new relationship if you are ready and you can give respect and all of your heart to it. Either men or women.😊
@ABC-hi3fy
@ABC-hi3fy 5 ай бұрын
Men have to undeestand that women need men mostly for resources and protection and not love. Men are the ones who love. Women dont need men once they can earn and are secure. Men lose all interest without woman but a woman can go on without men once they have money.
@Scorned405
@Scorned405 5 ай бұрын
It’s not “ manipulation “ it’s business. The man knows these women are not gonna want a relationship with them. It’s no different than going into Walmart and buying something. It’s business. The man also holds the cards cause he has the money.
@fifthwavefeminism
@fifthwavefeminism 5 ай бұрын
I so love the honesty you're bringing to this conversation Sadia. Truly refreshing. But I have reason to believe you might be wrong about porn. Porn is not the cause as much as it's the symptom. What I've observed is that we are witnessing the result of thousands of years of archaic training. One that prevented men from learning how to restrain their sexual desires and one that prevented women from developing a moral compass. Men and women have been kept locked into old methods of psychological technologies (religions, laws, etc) that have stunted our development in different areas. Now with more freedom than ever to go our own way we are really seeing what we are developmentally as a species. Men are seeing the ugly in women and women are seeing the ugly in men.
@dan3696
@dan3696 6 ай бұрын
Mostly true, I wouldn't have necessarily gone with the 'stronger and stronger' descriptor but fine. What's more important to know is that it's by design. Don't forget that
@How.Dare.You.
@How.Dare.You. 6 ай бұрын
Mindblown
@RyanBfromNYC
@RyanBfromNYC 6 ай бұрын
Sadia is a genius
@byronryan4216
@byronryan4216 6 ай бұрын
🙊
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@user-ld6wo4rv8h 6 ай бұрын
No
@Marcus-hb9ll
@Marcus-hb9ll 3 ай бұрын
Just a reminder that in the end, even sex workers (if want to call them that), end up unhappy and live a very unfulfilled life. No children, no hubby, no sentimental value achieved. It will ALWAYS come back to haunt them no matter what.
@AstroSquid
@AstroSquid 5 ай бұрын
I'm doing online dating. I'm learning people think just because someone it talking with you it means they are already in love with you. I'm a guy so I get this from women all the time. They don't ask questions to get to know me, so if I'm just looking for sex, I can pretend to be everything they want, give them the attention they are craving, and have a one night stand and then leave. She will blame me, but I took advantage of her lack of real interest. When people first meet online, they need to take some time to get to know each other if they are looking for love. Otherwise it's just a game. I'm beginning to believe this is how women have one night stands with men, by not asking them questions, so they can say they where used by the man and it's his fault.. This they can say to their friends so they are the victim and not the sIut. Is this the female form of being a player and not being judged?
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