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I work at a law firm and 80% of the practice is family law. I will never get married because the courts are so prejudice against men. My male clients get slaughtered. It’s depressing.

Very little to gain, everything to lose.

Women want marriage but don’t wanna be wives.

Females that want to "settle down" have been plowed more than a cornfield in Iowa.

The woman you marry is never the same as the one who divorces you

I'm 44 and I've never been engaged...Life is good!

You can’t get divorced if you never get married. Sounds like a win win to me.

I'm 60 years old now, made my choice decades ago. I'll be single all the way to my grave, after that, it doesn't matter. I have no regrets.

There are 3 rings in a relationship. Engagement RING, Wedding RING, and SUFFER-RING

Men have finally figured it out.

When I finally realized that I'd never make her happy, I simultaneously realized that there was no reason why I couldn't be.

In this day and age, smart men don't get married.

Men should be allowed to quit their jobs, but still require their former employers to pay them under threat of imprisonment. Call it, "Dude-a-mony."

As a woman, I could not agree more with this. It’s sickening how women are playing the victim and taking advantage of men.

Young men are now becoming smarter , things will change eventually

I was desperate when I was younger, but now, I feel like I have dodged a bullet.

Nothing in it for us Men.

Extra work, extra worries, extra responsibilities, extra headache, having to explain everything, etc.

"Insurance is like marriage - you pay, pay, pay, and you never get anything back." Al Bundy

Modern women bring absolutely nothing to the table in a relationship. It's really depressing.

I'm surprised people still ask this question.

The average woman is not the definition of a wife.

I’m red pill and married. Became red pill 15 years after being married, would never do it again

You loose freedom, money and energy...we in México are starting to wake up also

Because men are expected to live up to all the responsibilities, and get none of the benefits (i.e. authority).

When I get asked “why aren’t you married?” My response “why would I want to babysit a grown as human”. I’m 45 and I’m more focused on my retirement.

The power of logical thought enables more and more men to avoid marriage.

Marriage is a scam, a better question is would women crave for marriage as much as they do if they had the same outcomes as men? 😂😂😂

He asked her to marry him she said no & he lived happily ever after 😁💰

The girls at my High School talking in large groups about “ divorcing lose her husbands and stealing the guys livelihood liked there mothers.” Has turned me off to dating anyone in the area

I'm sixty one never been married, I enjoy my tranquility.

When your wife wants to get divorced. just ghost and move overseas and never speak to her ever again and avoid the family courts and become a vagabond

I get the impression that when you get married or you get a woman pregant, she owns you 100%. Men lose control of their lives.

You know, I want to get married. But after being red pill aware, 8 prior relationships, 2 combat tours, and crippling depression, I’m not sure if being divorce raped is something to risk.

We get nothing out of marriage except debt

"Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse" -- Groucho Marx

When I try to have a discussion about this with women and I mention the things you talked about they become unglued and triggered in a heartbeat and I'd look at them and I'd tell them this is exactly why men are avoiding marriage..

I work in FAMILY COURT IN California...…...its a blood bath for men in my courtroom..

Why we're not "wifing up" these days? Divorce court.

In a single word- Feminism- you girls wanted it, now live with it.

Next up...Why men avoid licking poisonous cacti covered in scorpions and fire ants... Hint: Same reason

Why are men avoiding marriage? It tends to involve women.

“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” ― Charles Bukowski

I hate controlling someone's life and I dont like someone controlling my life. That's why am never getting worried.

*Last time I came this early I got stuck with child support payments*

Even Russian Roulette seems like a better deal... Even if you lose its over in an instant, as opposed to it being strung out over decades while a man slowly dies inside.

I love how women act like they don’t know why men avoid marriage it’s entertaining, I’m 44 years old never married and never had the desire😎 it’s simply not worth it

Ive been married for 40 years, my death sentence began on 9/6/1980. Stay single men.....trust me.

Expecting women to act in the best interest of men or take responsibility for this is pointless. They never will.

It's simply hard to find an admirable woman nowadays. Also marriage is a bad deal.

I'm yet to see a truly happy married man. Just a man who is constantly looking for permission.

I’m 37, I own my own house and have 3 cars and I have a few bucks saved, watching videos like this and hearing about what my male coworkers go through, make me not want to get married or have kids.

no point you are never the last man to have her you are just next in line

Women have made it too difficult. It's too much work, time, and money. Women want a successful man, but successful men (like myself) are focused on going to the next level. If a woman wants a man, she needs to take the initiative & show interest. I refuse to use my valuable time to compete with 10 other chumps who are dying for her attention. Lowering myself to compete with those chumps would be equivalent to a star MLB player quitting the pros to go play in the minors.

I dated a woman who had like 900 Facebook friends. She was not interested in me as much as being able to post about having a boyfriend. We could not go on a date without her updating and taking photos none stop. The validation she got from FB meant she put her self on a pedestal. We broke up after I got tired of her acting like she was doing me a favor by dating me. Everything was my fault and when I poited out her flaws she laughed at me. I feel really bad for the next guy she dates.

Once a man felt the family Court system ram up his rectum he will not repeat that process again.

Wow, you hit a home run with this video Richard, every Man, Woman & Child needs to watch it...Well done.

Because we have more to lose and less to gain, vise versa for women.

When they say "man up" what they really mean is "slave up" and get married.

Tom Leykis told us all a long time ago. There is no reason for man to marry.

I'm from Russia and sutuation is very similar here. We are being westernized with a huge rate. False values, lack of feminine skills and everything you talk about is here as well. Not as bad as you have it, but getting there.

Even in the church, there is no incentive for me to be a husband.

I always found it amusing, that in a break up, "you don't want to be with me, but you want 1/2 or more of my stuff??"

for me it’s the simple peace of mind that comes from being truly free. In many ways it ties into a minimalist lifestyle and having another demanding human being who essentially holds me hostage financially, is the most clutter I can think of.

Women: "Man up!" Men: "Up yours!"

1 full time job + 1 business + time for me == NO time for a wife.

When anyone asks me "Why don't more men get married?" I usually say "How much time do you have?" because, yes, the reasons why a smart man won't get married, reach beyond infinity. Or when I get told "Why don't you find Ms. Right?" I say "I'd rather have a Ms. Right Now" With a Ms. Right Now, there's no complications, it's just sex. Whether it be one time or more than once, it's strictly sex. And without the bs of a normal relationship ;)

I'm 18 and glad I've been taking in this knowledge outside of college, appreciate the content; we men are coming back like the good ole' days.

Coop does a pretty good job explaining the legal ramifications of marriage. Socially and personally, the numbers game is terrible. Simply put, there are less than 60% of the females in the US that are not obese or overweight. So the selection pool is low. Now that women are getting jobs and there's a social push to accelerate their pay above men's and to hire women over men, it lessens the darting pool for women too. In other words, women won't marry down economically. So feminism is basically turning marriage into a wealthy persons game, but the law is really pushing them out too. So now that most women won't be attracted long term to a man, and most men aren't attracted to most women, what are we left with? On a personal level, most men are taught to look after women, not to boss or push them around, make joint decisions and always consider what she wants. Don't be pushy or aggressive, etc. women are taught that men should do the cooking and share in the household chores and share in child rearing.... basically, the way we're raising our kids makes them completely unattractive to the opposite sex too. Finally, women have no skin in the game. They don't want to have sex, they stop and leave the guy frustrated him and ruin him if he cheats or forces sex. It's rare for a woman to ever pay alimony. It's rare that the woman lose her house or kids. Even at split custody, the man usually has to pay. And women are encouraged for this outcome. Basically men risk everything for temporary or little gain. Women risk very little but have enormous gain from getting married. Go feminism.

I gave up on dating entirely at 21 and never looked back. I'm 29 now, happily single, don't have sex and don't want to. I just enjoy my peace and quiet and don't want to be bothered with anyone. For me, happiness is a grilled steak and baked potato, a Diet Coke and a good movie. If you want to see me happy, give me that and leave me the f**k alone. Never was a people person. Never considered myself alpha or beta. I'm an omega male and proud of it! alpha male - tries to impress women with bad boy persona beta male - tries to woe women with chivalry and/or beg omega male - loves being single, loves being himself regardless of what anybody thinks, and willfully neglects women and sex to focus on other areas of life. It's all about living for yourself and not giving a f--k what anybody thinks about it. I love that! Also, rejecting hot women is more fun than sleeping with them anyway. Think about it, she's hot which means she's spoiled and used to having men treat her like a goddess - then I come along being the cold-hearted motherf---er that I am and act rude, stuck-up, treat her like a walking, talking piece of sh*+, and walk off feeling like a boss! I love it. Btw, why would you respect the institution of marriage? It has a 50% failure rate. How is that something to be respected/admired?

Don’t get married period

Widowed and divorced here. Why would I risk losing half of my wealth and assets when she gets bored after a few years when the butterflies wear off? I have way to much to lose. Not even a prenup could save me. I will never again enter into a contract that she will profit from from breaking.

I watched one man after another be taken to the cleaners by ex-wives in the 80's and 90's and beyond. Destroyed them..up to 2/3 of income sent off to ex's and children turned completely against them. I don't blame young men one iota for turning their backs on marriage.

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that the most popular piece of advice I received as a kid growing up was some variation of "Trust me, don't get married" accompanied by a very stern tone and sincere eye contact.

No Wife, and a very happy Life.

Keep Up The Good Work!!!!

75% to 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women get what they want in a divorce. If I was thinking about going skydiving and learning that my parachute only had a 25% chance of working correctly...nobody would be skydiving. Marriage sounds good, companionship, love, shared experiences, family, someone to care for you when you get sick or need a ride to the hospital. But all the temporary good things don't outweigh the inevitable excruciating pain of the divorce. It is a huge financial and emotional price to pay, and all because the girl got bored or just wasn't satisfied because that's what a lot of divorces come down to. Irreconcilable differences. It's no longer a sacred bond that can only be broken by something truly horrible like cheating or physical abuse. Women got all this power from women's rights and it's like they can't make up their minds or control themselves. Then want an alpha for a couple weeks then a beta for a couple weeks. He must be strong, but sensitive and he must be able to read a women's mind to know when she wants him to be strong and when to be sensitive. He has to have a big dick and lots of money and muscles. Women say "that's not true ". Bullshit! Every woman with a guy that is skinny or fat (no muscle) with an average to small dick working a low wage job will definitely 100% not be satisfied and will leave. And even if a guy has all 3 he still has a great chance of getting fucked by a divorce. I no longer do anything trying to make myself more marketable to women. I only do what makes me happy. When I work out it's for me. When I dress nice it's for me. When I spend my money, it's for me. Women wanted equality. Now they have it all and they can do shit for themselves.

Never Married -saw through it years ago.Certainly lots of 30's something women chilled my Blood.Marriage makes me shudder and i am very happy with my life.Seen enough friends and colleagues shattered and gutted by divorce

Toxic feminists have killed men’s’ interest. If I was a man I’d never marry. Even prenups can be overturned. It’s always the nice guys that get screwed over too. It’s not fair. I don’t blame men, and I’m a female and I understand this.

#1 Liability, not only do you lose half, the other half goes to legal fees, child support and alimony. #2 The courts make awards that can force men into extreme poverty so the princess can live the life she deserves. Your survival is not the courts concern. Many men never reach the same life style they had before divorce. Living in a single wide trailer in a cheap trailer park has become a right of passage for many divorced men trying to recover financially. I did for 2 years. I also worked 2-8 hour jobs for a year. I vowed to never marry again, never own property with a woman and never share finances with a woman. Now years later I live on an 83' yacht, have no debt, retired early, and if a woman comes or goes, it doesn't affect my life. When she goes, she takes what she brought and nothing more. To young guys, get a vasectomy. Tell no one. End the pregnancy trap. Later in a moment of insanity, you can reverse the vasectomy. Be upfront about not having children. Some women will go, most will stay. Many that stay will try to change your mind. If they can't, they will get pregnant by other means. That's why you don't announce your vasectomy. I've seen it too many times.

I'm late to the party as I discovered your channel just this week,but here is why I'll NEVER get remarried.This is my story. I was 45,single,and wanted children. When I met a very attractive coworker who 32,was looking long term and wanted children I thought I hit the jackpot. We married,we had a boy,then things deteriorated. I learned quickly she was a hoarder. She had zero parenting skills and left almost all of it to me. I fed him,I bathed him,I took him to the doctor,got him ready for bed,you get the picture. She would drain "our" joint account,while spending all of her account (where her check was deposited) on useless crap that literally piled up on the walls. I was being used as a money cow for her to milk as she drove me deeper into debt. We got counseling (surprisingly,it was her idea,she thought I didn't do enough and that our son was a terrible child. She never once looked in the mirror). After the counselor spent 18 months with us (the most she was allowed) and no progress in our marriage was made,the she pulled me aside one day and told me it's always better for the child if the parents remain married,but I also needed to consider what was fair for me and my son. She also told me she'd deny ever saying that,so please don't bring it up. I started planning. I took pictures of the hoarding. I wrote down every event (when she'd rage,scream at our son over nothing,etc). I kept records. I hired a divorce attorney and filed for divorce and custody. I closed our joint account that day. A Guardian Ad Litem was appointed. The Guardian (who was female) interviewed us separately before she started her visits. On our visit,she talked to me,then our son apart from each other,then inspected the house and the hoarding. After she interviewed my wife,she told my attorney we needed to file a motion to force my wife to move out. I am one of the lucky ones. I won custody. Because of the debt I accrued she got none of the house equity (I purchased the house 15 years before we met and it wasn't paid off yet). She did get $37000 of my retirement IRA,but this won't hurt me that much long term.This was in Ohio,a no fault state. I am now 58 and I've been red pilled ever since although I learned the term from your channel. I will never marry again. I'm setting up our son's future with the house,my IRA,and the IRA I inherited from my parents and I will not risk them. I've decided all I want is either a girlfriend or a friend with benefits. My red pilling has helped. There's a coworker that likes me and made advances,but she has a habit of snapping at you when you drop her work off to her,even though it's hers. She always apologizes,but would it get better if we were involved? Ummm not likely. The other woman I met through a friend. We had been on one date when she called me one day and asked me if I had AAA,she had locked herself out of her car. When I told her no,she she told me she only had $130 in her bank account,but she'd figure something out. I recognized she was guilting me. I went ahead and purchased her a AAA account to help her out,but broke it off after that. That's my story. I won't remarry. My house is now paid off,my finances are good,and I should easily be able to retire in four years. I've also made myself the promise to not date anyone that exhibits red flags. I think you're doing a GREAT service,and wish I had the advice that you're giving while I was dating my now ex. Take care.

there's been a real decline in shame and dignity for women.

I can't even imagine how horrible it must be to have to hand over half your pay check to a woman you hate

I’m really glad that you exist Rich, your work is just excellent. I’m hooked on your truthful message man. A tremendous thank you.

I agree and I’m a woman. Women need to let a man be a man. It’s ok for women to have a job and education but don’t bash every guy. Smile and have charisma. A lot of women want to a wife but don’t have the qualifications to be one.

I've been married and divorced twice. With my first wife I worked my tail off in the late eighties and early 90's, we built a home and had four kids. She decided to leave when my youngest daughter was 1. I bought her out when we split, paid a ton out, almost paid it off, then married a second time, and had a child several years later. She convinced me to renovate, and add a new finished basement, then she wanted to build an addition. Soon she left, after I had about paid that down, and then had to buy her out. Yup, I'm now finishing that up. So I'm done with buying the same house over and over, and having kids. I've been going to a bus stop since 1988. Still doing it! I love kids, don't get me wrong. He will be on his own after college, gulp. Still I'm staying strong. Living alone, except for my 15 year old son (shared parenting) and dog is enough. I've dated quite a bit, but it takes too much focus from what I truly want to do and my own business. Wanting is better than having, because it doesn't end up what you want! Im 59 by the way, pretty much at the end of the runway. I'm not bitter, just well schooled.

I appreciate how he laid all of that out without the rage that fills most men's hearts who've been through a failed marriage.

And to think single mothers have the nerve to question why men are refusing to date them. Marriage to childless women is challenging enough and even they have failed to convince us that there’s an ROI to be had. I just cringe at the way these broads sell themselves as if they had just as much to offer as a bachelorette. And I have yet to include the legal consequences that follow after moving in or marrying them. I mean really? If Childless women are now being viewed as high risk to men, then what makes a single mother think she can secure the bag with all the negative equity she brings?

It's risk vs. reward. Simply put.

2 years in I was in lust and a sucker that settled for a kid. Was not stupid enough to get trapped in marriage even tho she pressed it for years. After 7 years with her, I am free and single and it feels amazing to get my life back on track

Married and divorced twice. Met a lady three years ago..., She turned out to be a cheat and Alcohol dependant. I left her..... So mentally exhausted.

I got divorced I ended up getting full custody and I receive child support very rare As a man I realize I’m blessed my ex wife didn’t get one dime out of me Fight the good fight be strategic and find a great lawyer.

When you get married you can't win any more than you can if you aren't married to your partner. All you can do is lose. Love is love. No certificate needed Just like knowledge is knowledge. No certificate needed.

Hey your doing an amazing job of bringing this awareness to Men and building a community. I think your amazing persons and serve as a mentor for young men. Appreciate all your videos and once again thank you .

I'm always under pressure and it's just not worth it ..... this is all the motivation I need.

I just want to thank you for all you do to instruct men into the pernicious nature of most women. The marriage laws are so biased against men that it is not worth getting married in today's feminist environment. Young men out there really need to listen to you. To all young men, your value will go up as you get older and a woman's will fall faster than lead in water. So keep studying, keep working out, and generally keep improving yourselves. I have been happily married to the most wonderful woman ( from Mexico since I was smart enough to not marry an entitled western raised woman) for 27 yrs and still going strong. I was 19yrs old when I met her, I was also skinny with no muscle mass even though I worked out, I had no money, no college education at the time, no house, not even a car but she accepted me like that. After two yrs dating we got married. A little after I bought a house, got a university degree, money started rolling in, built apartments to get passive income, and when I turned 30yrs old something in my system changed and I started to pack on muscle. I am now a 49 yr old man who is well established and with so much muscle I get hit on by so many women in their twenties that it is scary. But, I don't care about them. Its flattering but that is all. I will always care and love my wife because she loved me when I had nothing more to offer her other than just my love. Today, I show your videos to my son who is in his 20's and studying to be a doctor. I have told him to not ever marry or have children with any American and/or western raised woman. I have warned him about girls that are 30yrs or close to 30yrs. Those girls will say the sweetest things to a man because they are running on fumes because of their biological clocks. AND DEFINITELY NO SINGLE MOTHERS! He can date these women, he can have fun with them, but not to ever marry or cohabitate with them. There are exceptions of course. If he can find a girl who dates him exclusively and encourages him while he is struggling to finish his studies, as was the case with me, then that is a girl that has good moral value who is willing to sacrifice with you. I also encourage him to seek out out girls that have arrived from countries where women are still traditional. Nothing is a guarantee, but it increases the chances for a long loving happy life. If he cannot find a good woman now, then, after he starts working in his chosen profession, he needs to marry someone who earns as much as he does or more. If all else fails he can live like Leonardo Dicaprio. Single, but happily dating girls 20 yrs younger than him. That's why Leo always has a smile on his face. And now, as the good uncle that I am, I have started to instruct my nephew as well. Anyway, thank you for your advice to the men of the world. You are a saviour of men's hard earned money. Leykis 101

The Force is strong with this one! :-)

After being in two marriages, I feel like I was treated like a sperm donor both times. Once the job was done, the relationship was ignored. Never again. EDIT: yeah, I was a naive idiot raised by traditional depression era parents who raised me believing in family values.

I couldn’t physically or financially survive a second divorce. I don’t always like living alone but it’s the safest option, at least I can have company when I choose.