Why are men choosing the wrong women?

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Tony Gaskins

2 жыл бұрын

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@bbstar2254 2 жыл бұрын

I’m claiming a faithful, God fearing and loving spouse for all who read this. It’s possible y’all 💕

@mariaowens3399 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏🏽 so much love 💕 I believe that and have faith in God that my sweet kind caring loving attentive husband is here in Jesus Christ name I pray amen 🙏🏽

@denisegreen6878 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sis I believe my husband is coming real soon in Jesus name amen 🙏🙏🙏

@kilimanjaro5537 2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@ladyddatruthseeker 2 жыл бұрын

I S.I.A STAND IN AGREEMENT

@celiapowellcpa9142 2 жыл бұрын

I stand and agree with you🙏🏾

@ashleylee651 2 жыл бұрын

As my dad says, a man has to first know his true identity and God given purpose on this earth. Once he truly knows who he is, and what he was called to do then he will be able to know he type of woman he needs in his life. Until then, his decisions are just going to be all over the place. No real direction or clarity in his life everything is flesh driven

@NalaMahal 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this…I’m going to save your comment because my friends have to read this 💜🙏🏽

@ashleylee651 2 жыл бұрын

@@NalaMahal You are welcome!

@neglibre6916 2 жыл бұрын

Nala Mahal Me too, thanks!

@neglibre6916 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@overcomerbtbojesus 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@ladyshenna967 2 жыл бұрын

This is so real what he saying. I made decision 6 years ago to be celibate and honor God and myself to do things the right way. I didn't want to have sex until I was married. I waited. I'm married now. To piggy back off Tony, it does not feel good to lay down with a man, get up and expect God to be okay with that.

@ZawadiBirya 2 жыл бұрын

What was your journey like? Was it tough dating?

@khloe38 2 жыл бұрын

@denisegreen6878 2 жыл бұрын

That is so so true I agree with you sis on that

@ladyshenna967 2 жыл бұрын

@@ZawadiBirya It was tough. So what I did to make it easier, I placed sole focus on me. I had to be real with myself and DEFINITELY involve the Lord in everything. Have discernment and I asked God what he thought about this guy or that guy. Then I really changed it up. I laid everything down. I said Lord I'm not looking for a man. I trust you God, you know what I need. I said God you pick him. The man God pick will see me and recognize in his spirit I'm what he need. Honestly, I did. My husband is my best friend, we get on each other nerve every now and again. We are normal loving couple. I love him to pieces, and truly feel I can not live without my hubby. God got me, us both in anything, but I hope you know what I mean.

@INOUCIT 2 жыл бұрын

@@ladyshenna967 thank you for sharing this!

@ladyshakari 2 жыл бұрын

A lot of these older men don't know how to date anymore. They are trying to pull and touch on you during the date, some think if they pay for dinner you owe them sex. Im glad a lot of women are ok being single & happy.

@beatlestitchmuserart7399 2 жыл бұрын

Thought I was the only one experiencing this im Houston. It is terrifying out there!!

@justinafields4450 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, and they ALWAYS approach you assuming you're not married. What do these men REALLY want? DEMONIC

@taneska1 2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately...we live in a microwave society...The men of today want everything quick, hot, easy, & effortless💯 A woman of good character, morales & standards don't have time for that kind of foolishness! Keep riding solo!😃

@luwilliams1059 2 жыл бұрын

Chile think they at Lil Caesars lol the audacity

@valenciasuggs8602 2 жыл бұрын

I honestly believe that this is why a lot of men become prematurely impotent and/or unable to perform with a woman.

@bacnthaday4350 2 жыл бұрын

Valencia you are so right its like if the men/women keep on with their behavior their bodies become broken due to impotency.

@tiffanyd.8660 2 жыл бұрын

It's exactly the reason

@zakiyanafisa2979 2 жыл бұрын

You’re correct. My spouse spent so much time finding pleasuring himself in secret to porn until he was caught till when it’s time to be intimate. He either takes wayyyyyy to long or he cannot finish, or when he wants me to do it to him really hard like his hand I be like 😳… you’re not lying.

@chloethemessenger 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I’ve had a guy friend confess this to me. He said porn ruined his sex life. He couldn’t ejaculate anymore

@zakiyanafisa2979 2 жыл бұрын

@@j-tenn226 What? You should re read whatever conversation you had wasn’t with me for you to tag me and say that ma’am.

@shereewhite4828 2 жыл бұрын

Until men start seeking God for a good woman, they will continue to choose the wrong woman. The devil comes to steal, kill & destroy. He's happy when men choose the wrong woman because it brings their souls closer to him.

@gcode305 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@jordansutton9 2 жыл бұрын

lust can never be satisfied and it will never be enough. thanks for the insight.

@swiftjustice04 2 жыл бұрын

Love and lust mimic each other the appetite for lust can never be satisfied.Real love is a beautiful,

@BklynBabe 2 жыл бұрын

🤷🏾‍♀️ I wasn't made for any man, I was made for the man that was made for me. There's no rush, many people trying to find someone that looks perfect for society, instead of finding someone that makes their soul sing

@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын

Alright nah 👍💯❤️.

@Love2Love927 2 жыл бұрын

@ BklynBabe … You’re absolutely correct!! 💯❤️

@yipeedo372 2 жыл бұрын

It says in the Bible a woman was made for a man and not the man for a woman.

@millicentstollenwerck5239 2 жыл бұрын

That's why women need to be intentional about asking a lot of questions and waiting before sleeping with a man, find out if you are really what he want in a long term mate. You will save yourself a lot of time and heartache.

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

I agree, and it doesn’t seem to make a difference whether they are young or old. 😞

@InspiredUno 2 жыл бұрын

This part. And stay away if you’re not what he truly wants, because he will entertain you long enough until he can get what/who he wants.

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

@@InspiredUno 💯!!

@CeeceeH1819 2 жыл бұрын

💯

@ieshjust16 2 жыл бұрын

Not sleeping with them might be a good idea

@chloethemessenger 2 жыл бұрын

I tell my son it’s not real because it isn’t. It’s an illusion meant to trap men. It’s important we tell our children especially our sons this so they are aware. We can always count on you to keep it real Tony. Thank you 🤍

@delinapham7677 2 жыл бұрын

Tony, this is a sad world. There’s a lot of Christian women waiting for a husband and all these men ain’t stepping up to pursue. They still want to live a sinful life and ain’t ready to die to themselves. There’s a lot of great women waiting to be married. The devil is crafty and attacking on Purpose marriages.

@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for saying this!! I'm a good woman, my grandfather always told me I'd be a great wife. I gave my all in relationships only to be used, lied to and cheated on. I'm 42 no kids, no drama, not busting it wide open, outside living my life and yet in told I hit a wall, I have no value and clearly the problem is ME. I'm happy that people are finally speaking on the fact that these men today (young and old) are rotten.

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 жыл бұрын

@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed I am sorry and please know you are not the only one experiencing this. It is utterly heartbreaking. Sending you love ❤🙏

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 жыл бұрын

@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed BTW, I have come to realize the trick is to NOT give our all. That seems to be the winning strategy these days. I will never give my all again.

@cuquee12 2 жыл бұрын

@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed I'm 42, never been married, and no children as well. I grew up being taught to be respectful and to love myself. I was taught to be a lady and be woman of standard. It is amazing that if It were in the 50's or 60's we would be praised for being these type of women. Now, we are mocked, rejected, and frowned upon because we are choosing to honor God and ourselves. It's really a backwards world. My parents didn't prepare me for what is happening and I didn't expect to be unmarried. I am glad that I'm content. I'm in a place where if I get married great, if I don't I pray that God gives me the grace to live as a single woman. Praying for us all. ❤❤

@Stormy867 2 жыл бұрын

You couldn’t have said this better! It’s so sad out here! And it be the 35 and over club that’s still on demon time.

@mariamilathegsd8379 2 жыл бұрын

You said it perfectly. I asked my ex if he watched porn and he said yes, he loved porn so I asked him to stop if he wanted to continue dating. He said no and that I just want him to stop because I’m insecure and judgmental/boring. He said I’ll never find a man that doesn’t watch porn. 😟 I have yet to meet a man that understands why porn is damaging and doesn’t watch it but I believe it’s possible and he’s out there.

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

I exist lol, porn is horrible

@thelovelylife7451 2 жыл бұрын

@@anthonynosike You’re a unicorn!! Bless the lady who ends up with you!

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

@@thelovelylife7451 Thanks so much!! And tbh they are quite a few men who agree with me. Just that women aren't looking their way for numerous reasons.

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

@Nykia Gross Let him know that that's why he wont get the girl he wants. Alot of men struggle with porn and its really alarming the ignorance they have

@Ayommari 2 жыл бұрын

@@anthonynosike Not watching porn is only one aspect of what is important. You have to be fun, funny, engaging, interesting and hard working.

@nizhonichica2005 2 жыл бұрын

I think not only porn, but the movies, society, music etc help influence all of this. Love your videos.

@ChelseasLiveLine 2 жыл бұрын

Very true!

@TRIPLEMLUXE 2 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%! Thinking about doing a video on negative influences on my channel!

@rachelphillips5576 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@rachelphillips5576 2 жыл бұрын

Why people like to live in fantasies..I never understand. I want reality..not something in my mind. Men have this problem more than women. I guess because they sit and fantasize about a beautiful woman they can't get..smh.

@helenlovell8587 2 жыл бұрын

Remember ladies every time they’re subscribing to these sites they’re subscribing to a seat in HELL

@gcode305 2 жыл бұрын

God blessed me with a Godly kidless woman for marriage because he knows my heart and my my faith and my character. You get what you put out in the universe, he knows i have no desire for the “nasty stuff”

@thelovelylife7451 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you and your future wife! I’m so happy love stories like this still exist!

@lanam1636 2 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍 God bless y'all

@WomanforGOD 2 жыл бұрын

I've been young and now I'm old but never have I seen the righteous forsaken and his seed begging bread they confess GOD with. mouth but the heart is far from him know better so then we can do better GOD give us strength to do you're will and endure until the end

@allaboutherterritory 2 жыл бұрын

Omg that’s a deep story - it’s crazy what kids learn and this how the enemy starts taking over the minds. And men and women grow up still stuck in this illusion. Lord deliver the people. And thank you for deliverance.

@edema2274 2 жыл бұрын

My ex boyfriend dumped me for a Latina preference BBL porn star. He made me feel like I wasn’t good enough even though he constantly told me he wanted marriage and kids. Every time I brought up a real world woman issue he would become extremely uncomfortable, he would even say I’m ‘starting drama’ when I would let him know basic things. He is definitely a porn baby, 35 years old addicted to onlyfans lol and the craziest part is he is extremely religious!!!

@saetae9208 2 жыл бұрын

many narcissists are religious too, so were slave owners. js

@misutasutanto6312 2 жыл бұрын

My girlfriend's Latina I love them!

@agees924 2 жыл бұрын

I have seen guys who attend my church every week that catch my attention. I go look them up on Instagram and they are openly following onlyfans stars. It’s so disappointing but that’s God giving me closure.

@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын

You are not the problem he is. He is lost, confused, no morals or values, lacks self control, no self discipline and no self love. Recipe for a good hot mess.

@edema2274 2 жыл бұрын

@@agees924 it’s just crazy because his religion is super strict, he goes to church TWICE A WEEK and his family literally built a church! If you look at his Instagram following he’s following IG thots, porn stars and OF girls. I have nothing against women making their money but how could such a religious person contradict themself?

@beatlestitchmuserart7399 2 жыл бұрын

Sadly....I don't think the genie is ever going back in bottle. I have finally accepted there is no man in my future and committing to working on my inner self. I cried so many tears about it but brushed off now and pushing my life forward!

@tameekaharris6425 2 жыл бұрын

💖💖💖🙏🙏

@lanam1636 2 жыл бұрын

Don't give up on love because of a couple of assholes don't let them win, you never know who the man God has for you in store hang in there sis we're all in this together ✨

@ashleykathryn9038 2 жыл бұрын

Right with you sister, I haven't met a single man who wasn't into porn. I'd rather live a life of celibacy, I've given it to God and fully and now focus on making my life the best it can be while being single

@AmsaH5 2 жыл бұрын

You are such an honest man. I appreciate you sharing your experience.

@LaBrayeMcKinley 2 жыл бұрын

Netflix has a series called Black Mirror and the episode is called "Black Viper". The man (married to a woman) and his bestfriend (male) would meet up in VR and have sex with one another. That was 2019. There is no coincidence. Tony is definitely speaking facts on the conditioning of the digital platforms.

@kikic7637 2 жыл бұрын

I remember that episode and I was like whoa😬

@dahliaherrod4301 2 жыл бұрын

That episode messed me UP! I still think about it. I have yet to make up my mind on how I feel about it.

@elizabethcook9199 2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, now that's a first for me. Man will find any means to commit sin somehow. I remember seeing on the news earlier this year the first case of real rape via VR. Sickening days.

@CiaobellaAmour 2 жыл бұрын

Omg that episode was deep

@GeminiCloudTech 2 жыл бұрын

Yea i was real surprised Anthony Mackie would play such a part 🤦🏽‍♀️🤯 my husband saw it too and was so disgusted.

@KeeTheSpirtualOne 2 жыл бұрын

Folks out here playing russian roulette with their lives to please the flesh!

@magnolia2 2 жыл бұрын

Russian roulette *

@KeeTheSpirtualOne 2 жыл бұрын

@@magnolia2 thanks 👍🏾

@Foxxey46 2 жыл бұрын

All these evil spirits 😳 voyeurism spirit.. smh

@louisaatkinson4828 2 жыл бұрын

Tony can we get your wife to give us on some advice tips on study habits for our kids and advice on discipline for our children. I have been listening to you for some time and I'm 49 years old and haven't heard half of what you teach in my lifetime. I'm learning so much from you. We appreciate all that you do. One of my friends is going through and I told her to watch the Teddy Bear video. We are all blessed by what you teach. Thankyou

@TonyGaskins 2 жыл бұрын

Hey, she has a parenting course on TonyGaskinsAcademy.com, but she doesn’t do KZfaq yet. Bless you!!

@jadeshalahumphries5499 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Louisa! I took the Parents Helping Parents course on the academy and it was really helpful in the areas of academics, developing the love of learning, discipline, and hygiene. I have twin girls (5) and a younger son(4) and it covered all ages well. Have a great day!

@louisaatkinson4828 2 жыл бұрын

@@jadeshalahumphries5499 thankyou

@LarennPBel 2 жыл бұрын

He has a course online

@mamagoatandfamily 2 жыл бұрын

Tony, the church don’t talk about this the stories I could tell. Thank you for your transparency. This is why it’s so important to get healed and delivered as a individual person before connecting with someone else. God bless you and continue to let Him use you.

@ShadaeMastersAstrology 2 жыл бұрын

Porn has never done anything for me. I’ve always valued and adored the process of how a man and woman becomes attached over time. How they are initially attracted to one another and the feelings, thoughts and actions that are involved. The initial pursuit which ultimately leads to attachment, commitment and devotion. Porns’ way of taking the evolution process of what separates mankind from animal(rational thought)and dumping it in the 🗑 can is ridiculously lazy and tacky. Just meeting randoms and jumping in the sack is reckless and perplexing to me.

@mamagoatandfamily 2 жыл бұрын

One other thing I see a lot of married women who let their men go to the strip club. I don’t see a man being faithful when you open that door for lust.

@ClowneryAtItsFinest 2 жыл бұрын

The wives and husbands go to the strip club together, so the wife can choose and meet the stripper before they take her home with them.

@mamagoatandfamily 2 жыл бұрын

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest the marriage bed is undefiled, that doesn’t mean it’s ok to bring another person in your bedroom. God never ordained that in the Bible

@ClowneryAtItsFinest 2 жыл бұрын

@@mamagoatandfamily I NEVER said it was okay. I was simply explaining what I’ve been told and seen. I believe 3-somes are for single people. For the record…EVERYONE(men and women, young and old)I know that’s had 3-somes have a horror story behind it.

@cegecej 2 жыл бұрын

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest married men also go alone a lot

@ClowneryAtItsFinest 2 жыл бұрын

@@cegecej Hot mess!

@silentdreams2415 2 жыл бұрын

Be blessed Sir!

@Foxxey46 2 жыл бұрын

Those kind just want easy everything easy for them .. be it young girl no life experience.

@misutasutanto6312 2 жыл бұрын

That's true... less the work less the headache

@tarao4382 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Tony!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@itstimefortea4582 2 жыл бұрын

This was very interesting because this is exactly what happen on the show SATC with the character Charlotte. She married this rich dream guy name Trey and they were perfect for each other. Both came from great families, rich and had generational wealth. However, he had a bad p*rn addiction to the fact he couldn’t make love to his wife but had no problem doing it for the women in the videos and magazines. Tony I don’t know how you were able to know everything that you do but lord knows your teachings are a blessing 🤲🏿✨

@bacnthaday4350 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tony for this its not talked about much but its rampart out here.

@LadyAngela678 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You Professor Gaskins!! 👨🏾‍🏫

@yoyo-jt6yp 2 жыл бұрын

Brother Tony dropping us gems

@sonatajoyy 2 жыл бұрын

Such an important conversation!

@diamondjack-cooper5322 2 жыл бұрын

Wow 😳,I just turned 27 and most guys I have dated or encountered are straight forward to a point it is cruel and and makes me cringe and want to cry! Also men I have dated or know just don't know how to interact,work with,or be romantic or romantically involved with woman; this was the devil's plan for the black man and woman! The men are 14 mentally and emotionally but are 24,34,44,and 54 years old which means they aren't sufficiently functioning enough to be a boyfriend, husband, employee or leader! Please do more videos for black males because I have a son and I need help but also I want to understand the black man better because I want to have black children! AMEN

@iamgoddessoflove 2 жыл бұрын

One reason why relationships don't last is because one may go in with too many expectations. Understand that expectations leave room for unhealthy attachments and disappointment. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@cheekscheeks5840 2 жыл бұрын

You are so on point with this one TG . As I think back things are much clearer to me

@ccharrhill639 2 жыл бұрын

TG, thanks 🙏 . As you counsel us I can see the awakening of virtues within your person. You are clearly in this world but not of this world. "Let your words Manifest within the Masses!

@kristyfernandez7510 2 жыл бұрын

Tony I know a married man with a classy hard working woman and he still cheating.

@evka24 2 жыл бұрын

Because it’s not about her being enough or not. He is unbalanced. Maybe she is too good for him and he needs one that is less then him to make him feel more masculine and in charge. Many reasons

@kristyfernandez7510 2 жыл бұрын

@@evka24 that makes sense, but its common, social media looks fantastic but real life, what we dont know, is a whole other ball game

@misutasutanto6312 2 жыл бұрын

@@kristyfernandez7510 most men wouldn't want to settle down with one woman... unless he's old and tired or broke. It's just a bad deal.. especially in the states

@cegecej 2 жыл бұрын

@@misutasutanto6312 senseless nonsense

@kristyfernandez7510 2 жыл бұрын

@@misutasutanto6312 well I can say that does hold some weight to what you said. Usually a man will commit to the responsibilities and the woman if he has a lot to lose. Men are not wired to see and be with one woman. I usto trip a lot about petty stuff, like why u looking at her or why u stay in touch with women of your past or why is your phone locked , or why do u watch porn and why this and why that. I said look all men have something as long as u don’t get a woman pregnant and as long as u keep it 100 with me and as long as u don’t jeopardize our home . I’m happy. As long as u stay consistent with us and u lead the way I’m happy. I can’t worry about that other stuff because all men are human they eventually stop on there own. If they don’t they lose not me. All I can do is be by his side as his wife. God will always guide me into making the right decision

@prettygirlrocks 2 жыл бұрын

What about guys that follow a bunch of nude pages on IG ?? This seems really common.

@peacefullove2078 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. This video is enlightening and helpful for me in understanding men. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins.

@mariaowens3399 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏🏽 Tony

@Godfavorsmi 2 жыл бұрын

Talk that talk Tony !

@champagnegold8614 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. It was very good and insightful and help me to understand a lot of things.

@touchpoint4christministries444 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tony Excellent Content I appreciate you authenticity !

@glendanesmith 2 жыл бұрын

Good video today !

@mrsmoderation7718 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve had unfortunately 2 Christian men leave me over not wanting to have sex outside of marriage.

@cuquee12 2 жыл бұрын

Me too...Smh..

@mrsmoderation7718 2 жыл бұрын

@@cuquee12 You go into it thinking they are different so it becomes disheartening when you find out they are not.

@cegecej 2 жыл бұрын

Because they're not true followers of God. True followers of God are very rare. Don't waste time getting into relationships that God didn't approve. Seek God about a man that wants your time and a relationship with you.

@ARighteousLife 2 жыл бұрын

These are not real men of God, sorry to say. The devil is a deceiver. A true man of God loves God and wants to be obedient

@CeeceeH1819 2 жыл бұрын

They are fake Christians and them leaving you saved you a whole lot of heartache

@zakiyanafisa2979 2 жыл бұрын

I told my spouse that he’s cheating online by watching or holding conversations with estrange women also caught a wya text. His reply was “it’s safer” at least I’m not doing it in real life. And Tony your first 5mins of speaking you’re totally correct.

@ramonacooper5407 2 жыл бұрын

Please don't leave be for fasting and praying and counseling !praying for you ❤

@Angel-sc3go 2 жыл бұрын

I found out my live in bf of 6 years is addicted to porn and than it turned into him sexting on these hook up sites. Watch out if he's doing that he may be looking on the girls near their area that's prostitutes. It's serious. My bf is being treated for sex and porn addiction. His replays we're he's safe cause it's just talking online but it results into full blown cheating. At least your man let you know. I had this hidden for the past 6 years

@EButta71 2 жыл бұрын

People who aren't or haven't been married are so quick to suggest divorce lol They have no idea how your lives are involved and entangled! Keep having your open conversations and allowing him to understand how his actions are negatively impacting you and him. Praying for you Sis!

@MJWife07 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that. Being a married woman myself I know that hurts 😢. Hope it gets better and don’t let it get your self esteem down. Know that you are beautiful, sexy, and amazing! Stay blessed and encouraged.

@LadyAngela678 2 жыл бұрын

If thats not okay with you, let him know that thats not okay. You have to draw your line in the sand and be prepared to act if he crosses the line.

@sheiatkins 2 жыл бұрын

Help us Oh Lord🙏🏾

@mikag1137 2 жыл бұрын

In All Essence in the beginning of this Video you have given an illustration of what it is to Internalize an unrealistic idea of Genuine Love that has been replaced with Infactuation of Temporal Pleasure and Physical Attraction. " And their Eyes were Open" !! The Modern Day Tree of Technology.. You Aced this Segment on A Whole Spiritual Level

@cegecej 2 жыл бұрын

Tree of technology? Please please elaborate

@qscott888 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning 🙏🏽🤗

@alexjuniortv3281 2 жыл бұрын

Wow 😯 thanks for sharing..

@LarennPBel 2 жыл бұрын

Notification gannnnnggggggg. We outchea🥰🥰💜💜👍🏾👍🏾🙂🙂

@talicialee 2 жыл бұрын

Your revelation and understanding of the spiritual aspect of things is beyond anything I’ve seen on social media. I’ve been wondering for a long time why are these men who are well rounded or “smart” fall for these types of women. Finally hearing that these men have strongholds to porn and fantasies makes perfect sense. I prayed a while ago about this very thing. God I pray me and my future spouse be free from sexual immortality because I don’t need him physically with me but mentally tied to everything he watched on porn or past sexual encounters. This is serious and people really don’t know the damage it does.

@jhonnaturner3262 2 жыл бұрын

Preach.

@camuyana 2 жыл бұрын

Tony, your topics are interesting but I was really looking forward to a topic like this one from a man's perspective. I questioned myself why.

@tdm8797 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning 🌄

@jennifersylaire7536 2 жыл бұрын

Good Day Sir i am not used to watch your videos but i am really blessed by your teachings… Many Women out there should listen more to Men that give Good advices. Sir if you are led so by the Holy Spirit maybe you can give us as women some insights concerning the Daddy issue … May the Lord bless you 🙏

@SelfcarewithChristineRenee 2 жыл бұрын

Good Word!!!!!!!!

@DawnOfKelly 2 жыл бұрын

Real women problems… these examples take me out! 😂 Great lesson. Thank you 🙏🏽

@lawill3559 2 жыл бұрын

Shalom family….present

@cheekscheeks5840 2 жыл бұрын

GM everyone

@MiraclesHappen777 2 жыл бұрын

Class is in session and I’m here for it ✍🏾🗒

@fredajohnson506 2 жыл бұрын

Wow that's really deep but definitely make sense what you are saying it's sad that so men's been introduced to sex early age by family members babysitting whoever that one reason some men's mess up. But then some just opened that door to devil. Thanks Tony Gaskins for enlightenment to this revelation about men's.

@Kehli_so_bad 2 жыл бұрын

They choose right for them, I don't see it as wrong...women need to embrace reality. The man for you may not look like you...but will be perfect for you. Look at the whole picture not just the cover of the book.

@Kehli_so_bad 2 жыл бұрын

@Square Peg I also agree with ur perspective

@Empressnimra867 2 жыл бұрын

Not the nasty store 😂😂

@flymetothemoon9541 2 жыл бұрын

1000% truth

@exklusivejewels5186 2 жыл бұрын

Because its easy!!

@EButta71 2 жыл бұрын

Yup. And that's why a lot of them go for White women who will cater to them and are too afraid to call them out on their crap. And because they can pretend to have an easier time in life but not having to deal with the stress of being Black...but ain't no running from that. It's beautiful if you embrace it!

@rosettemarshall3024 2 жыл бұрын

The Bible speaks about the woman in the street in Ecclesiastes. They are not aware of her.

@acaciamorgan5408 2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@qscott888 2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏽

@ARighteousLife 2 жыл бұрын

Yes at a young age many of us were turned over to lustful spirits. We need mass deliverance. I would advise couples to first get deliverance.

@Leydo773 2 жыл бұрын

Off topic, but Tony could you PLEASE do a video about that man who brought his kids some McDonald’s but didn’t bring the other kids food and the baby momma threw the food out. I would love to hear your commentary on that situation. 😅

@PIPER040810 2 жыл бұрын

I want to hear too!

@Jeanninecomeau 2 жыл бұрын

I'm old. I'm gonna tell you guys the truth. The love of my life came when I was young . Respectful, treated me good. Wasn't rich, but he treated me well. After about 10 years, I thought all guys were like that .. well, I got played from then on out. What I'm telling you, is get a young, respectful one when you're young and he's young and forget about this shit with these guys Look at Tony Gaskins. This is what I'm saying.

@EMdee1986again 2 жыл бұрын

Preaaaaach

@Foxxey46 2 жыл бұрын

Lol . 🤣Not the nasty store

@Lifeofalishaa 2 жыл бұрын

Not him telling you the pimples & sperm have a correlation lol, omg 😆

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

Crazy🥴

@Lifeofalishaa 2 жыл бұрын

@@dublingirl1691 🤦🏽‍♀️

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

@@Lifeofalishaa Tony can be so funny without meaning to be. 😆 Great video!

@Lifeofalishaa 2 жыл бұрын

@@dublingirl1691 haha! Yes i agree he cracks me up but i know he’s serious at the same time lol

@chrissyd19711 2 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed

@MsChristianr 2 жыл бұрын

I emailed in. I really wanted a replay. Single mom of 4 weekends at noon are 0 quiet time for me. 😞😞😞😞I would have paid double

@K_kayy 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Tony do you have any advice on giving your kids that "talk". My son is only 10 but I've noticed from our environment kids are smoking by 11 whether it be cigarettes or weed. Breaking into cars, using foul language, etc. I just want him to learn from me first, and not the world..

@GotKEYStudio 2 жыл бұрын

No hope for a girl like me!! Jazmine Sullivan and HER made a song. "Girl Like Me"

@queenofthesouth4205 2 жыл бұрын

Preach Tony!!!! Cam Newton has "4" children with an ex-stripper whom he met in DC.

@ashleysmith5019 2 жыл бұрын

Pimples are sperm . I’m screaming 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Tony is so funny

@mariamilathegsd8379 2 жыл бұрын

I was speechless like wow that guy was really creative lmao

@laries3140 2 жыл бұрын

I have heard this in my childhood as well! That is so wild.

@PatriceCetrine 8 ай бұрын

Loool 😂

@fitmissdarsh7725 2 жыл бұрын

A real woman can be well put together physically & be a good woman of value yet why do men still pass someone who would be considered “rare”?

@fitmissdarsh7725 2 жыл бұрын

@@PlaywithDaisy so the real issue men have is self worth underneath it all

@purposedpatience6597 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@CeeceeH1819 2 жыл бұрын

Some of my friends'marriages broke up due to the men being addicted to porn

@mareelovely 2 жыл бұрын

I believe that popcorn has ruined a lot of marriages. I think men and women have consumed so much popcorn, they can't even get excited for regular relations. It has destroyed intimacy.

@Jo.Raquel 2 жыл бұрын

Men and women let popcorn destroyed their marriage! Yup

@rachelphillips5576 2 жыл бұрын

I was raised in the church and so are my two sisters. We are far from a freak. That is just women he has encountered.

@Destinee36 2 жыл бұрын

✅✅✅

@celiapowellcpa9142 2 жыл бұрын

Metaverse = man made manufactured trying to create and control reality…tower of babel🤷🏾‍♀️

@TheFearlessBabe 2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad your shedding light on this. Women also watch porn. Even people in the church

@marilynmcgraw2117 2 жыл бұрын

Many of the older men are the same way...

@Itismytime-Amen 2 жыл бұрын

what ive learned is don’t play with men.

@thelovelylife7451 2 жыл бұрын

Same! I hear such contradicting views though!! One side of the fence describe the loveliness of pure and true love! The other side of the fence yells to never get married! I’m not really sure which one it is! I just know reality is not like the movies! I’m deciding to stay single because I’m too sensitive to be heartbroken

@Itismytime-Amen 2 жыл бұрын

@@thelovelylife7451 well i hear you. but always remember you set the rules. so if you allow something one time then that’s what it’s going to be continually 🥰

@azizabydesign 2 жыл бұрын

People should be and ideally honoring God with their bodies, yes. And people that are having sex should be practicing safe sex (condoms, foams, birth control, etc.). That can greatly lower your chances of contracting STI (sexually transmitted diseases).

@creating1_c1999 Жыл бұрын

I saw this eroding the consciousness of mankind in the 80s. The 2k turn was truly confirming it. Men were comparing the video to the reality. Women who aren't even in the industry, sitting on the seat of their work are compelled to do all of this designer work on their body. And it still will not make a man faithful.