Every time he says he’s just “popping in” 😂😂😂 I know the video about to be long and good!!!

LOSE BOOTY 901 takes me out EVERY TIME lol

Earlier this year I was seeing a guy that I liked a lot, he worked a good job, he was good at complimenting me, and he was an all out gentleman at first glance. About 2 months into dealing with him I noticed he wasn’t putting in the right kind of effort. He wouldn’t plan dates, canceling dates, but was always available last minute. So I told him it wasn’t working for me and decided to walk away even though I really liked him. Just recently I found out he started seeing someone else and completely broke her heart with the games he was playing, I feel like I dodged a huge bullet but I also feel bad for the new girl. Ladies it’s imperative that we recognize the signs of grown boy syndrome and cut ties IMMEDIATELY!

I appreciate this Guy! I've Been following him since I was 25 years old. I'M 28 years old Now, but I just Met my wife 1 month ago and. I will be getting some coaching from him before i propose . I HAVE NO MORE TIME TO WASTE !

“The more important question, which you might not be asking is, Why did I choose the grown boy?” TG

Spot On! A lot of women whether they realize it or not are trying to buy a man when they brag about their degrees their jobs and their property ownerships. That’s why I don’t brag about my accomplishments because these men are looking for the bag.

Facts brother... I was dumped by a grown boy for someone who didn't necessarily have more but she was willing to give more! I did my praise dance... GOT TA GO!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

I used to have a strong need to be in relationship but after meeting so many losers, now i am wary. It's really better to be alone than with a loser who insults and degrades you. Loneliness is better than fake horrible relationship.

When you stop abandoning yourself, no one can abandon you. When you see yourself with clarity, you will be able to see others clearly. When you let go of fantasies, you won't traffic in fantasy. When you talk straight and talk true, you won't go sideways. Other people cannot be the template or the standard of your full experience. Find a better blue print for yourself and remember, you are in a universe of choice.

“The grown boy chooses everybody so the real question is why did you chose the grown boy?” Here are your options: you don’t know your worth, you don’t know the traits of a grown boy, you forgot you have options regardless of what you look like because beauty is in the eye of the beholder 💞💞💞💞

Grown boys usually have swag and they know what to say to make you feel good.. the problem is they say the same thing to everyone but it only works if you don’t know who you are and he preys on that insecurity

I used to ask and actively try to figure out “whY aRE mEn LiKe ThIS” . The spirit of DUMB. It’s not to understand WHY a man is a grown boy , it’s all about recognizing the signs and RUNNING

“I don’t have much time” makes a 45 minute video 😹

A grownboy wanna choose everybody.-TG EXCELLENT

I think some women grow into recognizing what a grown boy is after they've been taken through some immature drama and some never are able to decipher between a grown boy vs a man! I can detect it at my age now by conversation or how he's carrying himself. Like you Tony, I read people too well, it's almost scary.

It’s crazy because im dark skin and men expect me to have low self esteem and get mad when I have standards. The bad thing is I keep running into these types and not any others

Just dated a grown boy and ran for the hills after 6 weeks. His compliments were always about my physique, complexion, skin, hair, nails but it did seem like he was going down a checklist it was so scary.. not as scary as the textbook narcissistic qualities that he didn’t wait very long to show me… to this day I consider Gods deliverance from that man as a major win in 2023

Tony is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! A grown boy chooses a woman based on society’s standards and then have the nerve to say “I want a good woman.” Don’t care nothing about the heart, just looks.

"You got the wrong one baby...I'm not what you thought."

It reminds me of my realtor agent. My realtor agent is a Chinese guy from Canada. He's a very good looking guy 7 to 8 on a scale. When we first met last year in January. He didn't think I was attractive because I had my head shave. Whenever he shows me houses, he looks like he was bored and he didn't say nothing much to me. As my hair grows back he's see me in a different light. My hair grows fast so last year April he's try to paint a picture in my head about marriage and started asking about my family background ( btw I'm Asian and I love listening to you and a few of the other dating coaches) I was like ok...whatever because I remember what you and the other dating coaches were saying that don't believe his words if his actions doesn't match. And this is when my hair is down to my neck. Then in September I caught him looking under my shorts when we were in the basement at a house he was showing. When I try to walk away he blocks me and tells me about his morning. I was like "that's cool" and leave there. Now whenever I goes house hunting I would bring a friend, my brother or my parents. In November he tell me that he likes me with long hair. I was like "thanks" and didn't say anything else. Now he realize that I'm not falling for his tricks, two weeks ago he finally revealed that he has an fiancee. I was like this guy has red flags. He's a cheater, womanizer and perhaps a liar too. Thank you for you and your channel.

Gullible, easily fooled, naive..I've gotten all of those until they get to know me and then they like " Whoa, ok!"

So basically he chooses you depending upon where he considers your self-esteem/self-worth barometer to be at according to "societal norms". In other words, he thinks it's LOW.

“I ain’t gon say nuthin cuz some of these rappers like to shoot” 🤣🤣🤣

A lot of the girls in 8th grade and high school that were considered pretty and popular turned out to be a '5' once they reached adulthood.

"Alotta women tryin' to get picked by a grown boy..." ~TG 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Tony you being able to see people clearly without even knowing them is discernment and it’s because you have the wisdom of God and because you are close to God. That’s the Holy Spirit giving you insight.

"The women that are being overlooked are on their grid because they are not distracted ".....true that TG

Whew!! Tony you are silly!!! I am crying........ "Lion with a squirrel", "full set of nostrils", "Nosetradamus"!!!! CRRRRYYYYING!!! Lord, y'all I can't take it!!!

It is definitely a BLESSING & a CURSE to read people 😞. I’ve realized it’s because we are chosen and have the spirit of discernment. I can read weak males and females, insecurities, hurt , etc. . You want to save people and guide them , but sadly they can only find God and save themselves .😕

LOL! A lot of guys choose somebody they sense won’t cuss them out and jack them up. They don’t want a woman to be blunt and brutal to them. But what these guys don’t see is that they are not suitable for a nice woman who won’t be like that. Like with me, guys tell me how terrible another woman did them. Threw bottles at him or whatever. But that doesn’t make him suitable for someone nice and mild tempered. So how I see it is this: Don’t look at me just bcuz I’m nice. I have no sympathy for you. I’m not gonna be with you just bcuz somebody else jacked you up. Bcuz I know that the brutal ones he is most suitable for. Just bcuz he don’t want that treatment doesn’t mean that it’s not what he’s suited for. So when I see a man, I don’t look at the plights he’s telling me about, I look at how he is and the kind of behavior he’s into. As for instance, if he has no respect and just want to use and smash and think that women should be fast and have no sense, then why should he have a nice woman who would be nice and good to a man? He don’t deserve that. The ones who will cuss him out and jack him up are the ones he deserves. I don’t criticize women like that. I respect them. Bcuz they have sense enough to treat a man the way he deserves to be treated. It bothers me to see nice women walking on eggshells with a guy who don’t deserve a nice woman. It’s wrong to respect a man who can’t show respect in return. So nice decent ladies, you know who you are. When you see a man whose not ready for a nice lady like you, stay out of it and leave guys like that to their kind. Never mind their whining. Turn your emotions off to that.

This video struck a wound that I didn’t even know existed in me, and it makes sense to me why I also have low self esteem. When I think back to middle school I was always the girl that was overlooked by guys in my middle school. It was a few guys that like me, but not many. I had really bad acne and I used to wear goodwill clothes and cheap tennis shoes lol. That did make me feel bad about myself. When I got to high school more guys liked me than in middle school but I still was really insecure about myself. When I would hang with my friends at the skating rings the guys would always approach them and not me. I always felt overlooked by guys now that I think about it. Now I’m 25 and when a guy seems interested in me I can’t believe it and even take him serious. The guys that I liked never liked me back and that was hurtful as well. I noticed the damage that it caused me along with other childhood trauma that I experienced and I realized that I need to learn to learn myself for who I am but to be honest it’s been a struggle.

It’s so sad that some men pick out women just to treat them like s***. Just because a woman looks a certain way, it doesn’t mean that she’s deserving of disrespect and mistreatment. Nothing good will come to a grown boy who does that to a woman.

"I gotta turn off the comments cause y'all gonna be sensitive" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

“The grown boy chooses everybody but only gets so far with certain people.”

tony - smacks lips * “🙄OOOHHHH”

I can see spirits on people too now.

Yes... I agree there’s different degrees of attraction or looks not every woman is beautiful to all men. Certain women will leave immediately. Most women that I’ve spoken to won’t even stay with a guy after he’s cheated the first time

"Pickmisha" 😂😂

“You know Sonics the one with the flavorful dranks “ 🤣🤣😭

"What matters is who you say you are."

Tony 🤣😂when you smack your lips & say,”Oooooh!” It’s freaking hilarious 😆

Ya, I need to remember I’m beautiful. Remember you’re beautiful! Otherwise you will settle for less than you deserve. Take care of u not a grown boy. Oh, and thanks... I’ve been dealing with a grown boy... he don’t see me, he sees himself. Times up! Take care Tony.

I’m dyinggggggggg laughing when Tony impersonates a woman he always say Ohhhhhh”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔🤣

This is complicated --i'm stayin single!!!!!!!!

I'm healing and laughing at the same time lol

Tony needs his own dictionary😂 Always making up new words. Looks aren’t everything. Some men that know they look good, are worse than women. Looking in the mirror constantly. What we have to think about , deal with and dodge, is something else. Thank you for this message, Tony. Be blessed.

I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Take me as I am, or leave me alone. Either way, I'm good. Once you truly learn to value yourself, you will not allow anyone to devalue you.

I dang near almost lost it not seeing a video for a couple days 😅

I can’t even finish the video I’m still stuck on the nose story. I am in tearrrssss!! 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

“Oh I smell spaghetti for dinner next Wednesday” nose so big he know what’s for dinner next week 😂

I may be looks challenge to society, but I like what God did when he made me. I may not be skinny or not voluptuous enough, but I like that my body allows me to be athletic. I may be too brown/dark for society but I love how my skin glows cauz I'm a health freak 😁.

"Do she eat"....😂😂 You was real about the types in high school. You have to know who you are 💯

Welp! The pickings are slim ladies. Be safe! Disappointing but a very necessary conversation.

Not “What’s cooking next Wednesday?” 🤣🤣 On a serious note, thank you for your time, Tony. We definitely missed your content even if it was just a few days. You bring that truth and crack us UP while you at it. God bless you and the fam in Jesus name! 🙏🏽

Hey Hey, missed your wisdom pass couple of days! Know you busy and family comes first! Thank you for your time!

Yes!! Define “who am I” - know yourself, stay strong when they try their nonsense & you’ll find that these Grown Boys WILL be on their way out the door - quick 🙌🏽💯

I have alway loved me BBW and Brown SKIN!!!! I don’t and have nerve taking care of a man. Always had a boyfriend so I agree you do have to be Secure with your own self and happy about your own self. Married for 10yrs (HAPPY)

"I ain't saying no names because some of these rappers like to shoot." 🤣🤣🤣

😀😀😂🤣 "Looks like Penny Proud" Tony, you're truly a smart man!

Happy Birthday Queen Gaskins!!🎶🎈🎈🎈🎉🎉

yeah what u said, “that spirit on ‘em” like thats discernment STRAIGHT UP

Not “a thick ole tongue” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

Behest is a word..."a person's orders or commands".

I need to sharpen my intuitions when it comes to men. I'm getting better because of you Tony! You've been a godsend. God Bless you abundantly. ❤

Lord help me not to be naive, insecure, or gullible. I have confidence in myself

I stay fighting off grown boys because I'm fluffy, I guess they assume I'm going to go for the okie doke but not!! Lol it's so annoying fighting off assumptions smh. This video is once again on point 👏👏💖

When he’s trying not to say the words 🤣🤣🤣 scrias...escors...onlyhands!🤣🤣🤣

“All of us is ugly” uugghhh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I cant!

I’m a history major who did a paper over how they used to judge criminals based on their bone structure 😝 kinda cool you mentioned that haha!!

They also look for pretty women that don’t know they are pretty or cute women w low self esteem

I was called Oreo in elementary because of my pink lips and dark complexion. A gay man in high school told me he loved my skin it’s like mocha chocolate.

I have a classmate who is not that attractive that likes to flaunt her big house and Merecedes car to try to snag a man. I aint knockin her game but she is just going to attract users.

I love the 8th grade reference!! My goodness! It opened my eyes for sure! Thanks Tony

When Tony does the woman's voice, it kills me every time. 😁😂🤣

I've learned so so much from listening to your videos. The one titled "What women don't want to hear", I listened to it honestly about 15 times. This video in particular helped me begin to heal after my grown boy boyfriend broke up with me. You have so much wisdom and insight and it has drastically sharpened my outlook on myself, men and relationships. I appreciate you sharing your gift with the world. And..you are too funny which also helps because laughter is just good for the soul. Thank you and God bless you.

I'm not sure how anyone can ever argue or get upset by anything you ever have to say! Nothing but True, genuine facts come from your soul. Forever keeping it real! For the women that do argue or get offended, please keep watching. God Bless 🙏🏻

I died when he said "She had a thick old tongue"😂😂😂😂😂😂

“I ain’t gone say no names cause some of these rappers like to shoot” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Be blessed. Thanks for sharing. "Based on society standard of beauty" "Sometimes it will come to me, like Joseph interpreting a dream" "Men go through a checklist and he comparing you based on society standards" "Listen to me now (smacks lips)"😂😂😂😂 " when you insecure about something you looking for it on everybody" "I gotta turn the comments off cause y'all gone be 🎶sensitive🎶"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 "Women being over looked were on their grind" "Pickmesha" 😂😂😂 "Sonic drive thru" 👀me eating tator tots "To my behest" 😂😂😂😂😂 "She had a thick old tongue"😂😂😂😂 "Okay thank you - you just retired me from king of diamonds"😂😂😂😂😂😂 "You know who you are, you're not bending over backwards" "Go back to 6 to 8 grade" 🤔😔🙁 "Nobody wanted you in 8th grade cause you hadn't grown into your lips" 👀😔 "How? You now! This a set up" 😂😂😂😂😂 "I ain't gone say no names some of these rappers like to shoot" 🕵 "CAUSE ALL OF US IS UGLY -- Looks challenged in somebody's eyes" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The line down the back 😭🤣🤣, " I thought it was a long back". This is good!

I can’t wait to listen to this in the morning.

I now know why a grown boy chose me. I know what men are looking for. I don’t want to be pursued or stalked. There is nothing wrong with being single. I’m going against what men want from a woman. This has honestly been a great week. Thanks for this page! You and Sheri keep helping people- some want marriage, some don’t. Either way y’all are helping! Have a great day! 👍

I swear I checked my notifications earlier today to see if I missed a notification from this here wisdom. I was thinking " where is uncle Tony " Whew!

Screamsssssss....retire from king of diamonds👑💎... Squiriting in there💦.. Thank you...👐 Little Jimmy...🤰🏿 🤣🤣🤣I'm laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but you dropped GEMS... You hit the nail on head.... Lordt bless these men and womento do right and get their acts together... We ain't got time for this nonsense still... We need a change 🥰

I love the sense of humor from a real man telling the truth I been single 8 years so I can hear you the ladies demonstrations 🤣🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣 I could not help myself laughing at your examples that you used. Great video, Thank you Tony!

I’ve watched this 3 times now. This type of wisdom is difficult to break down. Hats off to Coach for taking the time to put this out there for us. 💫✨💫

“She look like Penny Proud, like a cartoon character” 😂😂

I’m an LVN & I didn’t get mad Tony lol 😂

I got friend zoned early in the morning. I was watching the news and this beautiful lady was doing the weather forecast. A'lls I could recall saying was, "this one fine lady right here." I wonder whats her name? All of a sudden she pulled out a remote and changed the channel on my T.V.

Tony you have the Holy Spirit, "gift of discerning of spirits". That's a blessing.

She looks like Penny Proud from The Proud Family! 😂🤣😂🤣 I love that cartoon.

Uncle Tony we ain’t worried about them holes under your shirt!! Lol 😂 Glad to have you back! Missed these videos past few days

You went deep on us! Truth! 👏🏾👏🏾

Real and hilarious as usual. Thank you!

This is hilarious! You just telling the truth and putting us up on game. I'm not mad. I'm grateful.

Tony! This is hilarious! This all makes sense! Thank you! 🙏🏻🙌

READY FOR CLASS !!!

Tony, you crack me up every time! It's nice to hear our story told in your way! Whew boy! The truth be told!! Lmbo!!

You get down to the nitty gritty and we need the truth!!!!!!!! You keep it 💯🙏🙏🏼