WHY Are You Still Wearing THAT? Tips for women over 40 & 50

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In this video, WHY Are You Still Wearing THAT? Tips for women over 40, I'm sharing tips for women over 40 & 50 on how to stop wearing clothes that make them feel uncomfortable and ashamed. 🍀 Subscribe for good luck: bit.ly/2Z2kQr5
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@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

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@frankmarystump960 Жыл бұрын

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@mereyemsuzanne8635 Жыл бұрын

You are my younger sisterfriend 😉😁😚 I wish you have a beautiful last day of the year.... Best wishes for the new year..

@sugarplumk2381 Жыл бұрын

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@Delphi333 Жыл бұрын

I think investing in really good bra, underwear, and undergarments at our age is KEY. So much of frump is due to having droopy look under your clothes. Also update your shoes and hair. Lastly - clothes MUST be tailored or FIT you properly. Frump is born out of ill-fitting clothes and when you're older you have less wiggle room to pull it off - because baggy clothes + baggy body = frump. Get your undergarments sorted stat!

@marieleemcgill5011 Жыл бұрын

Oh, I agree about the bra we used to have a couple stores that would fit you for good bra and never let them sag pull those straps up

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

100% thank you for sharing x❤

@bernitajenkins3180 Жыл бұрын

Totally! VPL makes me cringe... that, and pilling and fluff are pet peeves. Easy to resolve, though.

@mmcs4973 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree! When breasts face due North rather than East/West it makes such a huge difference and the top half looks narrower without the spread, and you look slimmer, cos, let's face it, you are noticed from the face down 😉

@woodmarie2 Жыл бұрын

Some of us have foot problems that make it impossible to wear fashion shoes. It really it is depressing. I had to give my Bally, David Weitzman, and Chanel shoes. Sigh

@auntshirley7124 Жыл бұрын

I love your style, your videos, your encouragement, and your humor! At 65, I’d lost my husband and was caring for my father, who was still stylish at 104. I’d long stopped caring about my appearance. Until my dad politely mentioned it - lol. Then I saw myself in a family photo. I was packing that extra 20 pounds from 2020, and yes, I was wearing a flowered dress I had no business wearing. The 20 pounds have gone, and I’m paying attention to my wardrobe. All I can say is what worked for me was omitting sugar and refined foods - if it came from a factory, I avoid it. It simply makes me feel unwell. Even my sinus issues are almost nonexistent now. I didn’t realize how bad I felt until I felt better. Now I like feeling better. I like looking good. I care again! Nobody is more surprised than I am - lol!

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, sorry for your husband lost of love x

@anaalves3658 Жыл бұрын

That is just amazing!!! Good for you for taking care of your health and now you can start to take care of your appearance. I'm sure that your mental health as also improved immensely.👏👏👏👏😁

@Sandra-bx6yy Жыл бұрын

Your Dad is/was 104! That's incredible!! This gives me hope for the future, for my parents and other family members,who are entering mid to late eighties and early nineties. A big part of my fears is that life is over at that point, and their time is rapidly coming to a close (which it could be, but it's nice to know that there is still hope.) Somewhere along the way we can lose our zest for life. Making changes to our diet can definitely help, even for a short while, while we get back on track.

@theaweavers8576 Жыл бұрын

Go girl xxxx

@vedawattieram1974 Жыл бұрын

I am so encouraged by your story! I am 57 with a pot belly after 2 pregnancies. I have to do a lot of speaking assignments and l am am self concious. My clothes do not fit right. I am not sure about what colors l should wear. This year, l decided that l will not be frumpy. My daughter recently cut my hair. Looks nice, but l must learn how to style. I do want to look elegant. I cut sugar many years ago and am doing intermittent fasting now for 3 years, but not losing weight as l thought l would. Have to figure my next move. So encouraged, though by your story.

@mariecurie7491 Жыл бұрын

At age 69, I am way past the menopause years. It is a liberation, frankly. I have remained a French size 38/40. I have completely white hair but warm toned complexion. The town in Sicily where I live is not noted for stylish women, so I am grateful for advice in videos such as yours. Looking my age doesn't bother me at all. But I make an effort to look modern. I pay attention to my posture and flexibility

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Great tips thank you x

@hiannahgus574 Жыл бұрын

I am 66 and am a French size 38/40 (US 4/6), too. I like the discipline of caring for and about my body and clothing style. You are right, posture and flexibility go a long way in maintaining youth. Your combination of white hair and warm toned Mediterranean skin is beautiful!

@mariecurie7491 Жыл бұрын

@@hiannahgus574 how nice to hear from you! Until I retired at age 64, I led a sedentary life that did much harm. Among other things, I needed spinal surgery. In retirement, I go to yoga classes and swim. Best of all, got rid of my car 4 years ago. Now I ride a bike everywhere - including shopping. Result! Best wishes

@asavaridesai3929 Жыл бұрын

@@mariecurie7491 Yoga is the solution to most of the problems. Love from India -- Bharat

@mariecurie7491 Жыл бұрын

@@asavaridesai3929 oh yes. I believe I would not have needed spinal surgery, had I had the time and opportunity to lead the active life I do now. But I had to work, long hours, to support my family 🤷‍♀️

@conservativetaxpayer Жыл бұрын

I love wearing orchid purple or lilac colors in the winter, preferably on a sweater but the sweater will have a nice texture or cut that is flattering. If I wore black every day, I’d be so depressed but color makes me happy!

@yvonneadrian734 Жыл бұрын

I love the 3 color rule that I learned from you! It just makes everything flow and look so much better. My husband often tells me that I am over dressed because our retired friends dress the same every day in jeans and a half zip polar sweatshirt. I prefer to have a little elevated look and have purchased quality sweaters in cashmere and wool blends NO poly! I also purchased a beautiful wool coat (hence the over dressed comment) but it's warm and classic! LOVE this channel ............ learn so much thank you Frederique!

@MrsStevenBrown Жыл бұрын

Don’t give in! You will inspire the others! And those younger will be proud to take you to lunch! 😊

@specialk1627 Жыл бұрын

OOh I’d be interested to learn about the 3 color rule? I’m guessing Fredrique may have a video on it?

@Red_1976 Жыл бұрын

@@specialk1627 me too? What episode was that in?

@cyclamen831 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this, I am in the same boat. I live in the US but I am from Italy. I grew up just embracing a proper form, a way of respecting self and others ( fare la bella figura). Somehow, it translate to always being " overdressed" when for me it is just casual elegant comfort on a daily basis and on the proper occasion straight chic. Somehow it has become threatening to others when we are elegant ladies...I have not given in but, admittedly, it makes me feel a bit isolated.

@uma2823 10 ай бұрын

⁠@@cyclamen831I’m sorry you feel isolated, I understand you very well. I’m from South America, and come from a family and a culture that dresses for the occasion. We take care of the way we look; it’s a priority. Living in the US I always seem a tad overdressed compared to others, but I’m generally well put together, and feel good about myself. That’s enough for me 😊. Keep showing up with pride ❤!!

@carak4356 Жыл бұрын

“It’s Under your control when you meet someone what kind of impression you’re going to make”. Loved that ! ❤ really brings power (and responsibility) back!

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Love that!❤

@Rossi5007 Жыл бұрын

I am 59, and I loved wearing short dresses and skirts, tight pants and jeans as well, high heels all of the time...I had the body and legs for that. But not anymore, and the skirts are getting longer, but the heels shorter haha! I didn t noticed much of the menopause luckily, but my body shape is changing, so my clothes as well. I do not care what the others think of me, but I do care how I look, just for myself. Never walked like a joke on street, never will do. My guilty pleasure is hard rock and heavy metal, I go to live gigs and rock clubs. And guess what, there I can still wear crazy things like leather skirt, high boots and leather jacket, panther print shirts plus some chains and leather wrist bands😆😛Just because nobody cares and everybody is dressed like that! Being careful though, not walking the streets like that on day light! 🤣🤣🤣

@calawa8500 Жыл бұрын

Culture plays a big role in clothing choice. Caribbean and Tropical cultures utilize prints and colors a lot and it is extremely classy and classic.

@islandgirl21131 Жыл бұрын

So true . Warm weather allows beautiful colors and prints. You don’t see people wearing cheerful clothes from cold boring countries.

@coriennl6215 Жыл бұрын

I am wearing less colorfull clothes and less colors together (not more than 3) in an outfit thanks to you. My wardrobe is more stylish than it was a few months ago. Thanks for your video's, love them, I learned so much from you 😍

@janetmackinnon3411 Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Love that!❤

@lindacgrace2973 Жыл бұрын

Very sound advice. My only quibble is that I look 100% fabulous in bright Barbie pink. Barbie pink is the epitome of overly juvenile unsophisticated color. Fuchsia, hot pink, raspberry pink, light pink, soft nude pinks, any cool pinks (coral, not so much) drops ten years from my face. I wear a simple grey skirt and a pink cashmere sweater and men young enough to be my son make passes. Red is a good "also ran" and also excites male interest (I am a widow, this is important to me). So... even though I wish dearly that my best color is unsophisticated, I wear my juvenile pinks. I wear very sophisticated colours relieved by a bright splash of a pink scarf or a pink blouse peeking out of my navy blazer. 🤷🏻‍♀ Love your channel - keep up the good work!

@alijane6675 Жыл бұрын

I hear you. Men like pretty colours. It is what it is lol. I don’t agree with everything she said. She’s French lol. I like pink, too. And I love a good tyedye tracksuit! We can take what we like and leave the rest, I think. Rock that pink, and good luck in dating!

@elizabethsahu7822 Жыл бұрын

I love pinks and reds too. I still wear them as well as my new neutral palate 😊

@anitadeponte1699 Жыл бұрын

You go girl! Wear your pink with pride 👌!

@janetmackinnon3411 Жыл бұрын

@@alijane6675 Feel free to be yourself!

@mstea3232 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you can wear red. I'm 55 and as I've aged I've gone lighter in hair and makeup. I don't look like me in 2000 ( just found a pic of me, red cardigan, red lipstick). It ages me now. I do love red but sadly, unless it's red lingerie (I have a beautiful set from Victoria Secret) I don't wear it out. I'm a nude or brownish lio color now too.

@doxieowner2571 Жыл бұрын

I'm middle aged, menopausal, and have been sick for a long time. I'm finally feeling a bit better, and I'm trying to get back into shape and find my personal style. Your videos are great!

@joycecolli2023 Жыл бұрын

I am LOVING YOUR STYLING COURSE!! All this time since I was young I was hourglass. I’m short 5ft and as I aged I’m 72 I went through menopause 3 TIMES!!! I gained weight in my midsection and thought I was an Apple body shape BUT I’m still hourglass😊!! I have always been complimented on my style and I’m Classic Dramatic. Your course is giving me more options and tucking in the tops had been an eye opener for me! As I continue my journey I constantly pick up tips from you and I greatly appreciate all the time and effort you put in to your videos!! I am getting this extra weight off and enjoying myself!! I am a Ballroom dancer for over 30 years and after menopause for the 3rd time I got depressed and gave up. You have given me the strength to get back into shape and LIVE my life again!! I love you my sweet beautiful funny friend and THANK YOU with all my heart❤️❤️ God sent me to you for this very purpose my friend❤❤🙏🙋‍♀️

@americafirst9144 Жыл бұрын

Go dance your heart out.

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you Joyce I’m so happy you are enjoying my course ❤

@joycecolli2023 Жыл бұрын

@@ms.frederique it is FANTASTIC ❤️❤️

@MsBackstager Жыл бұрын

MENOPAUSE actually agreed with me as I was too underweight for years. Now I'm a bit more muscular and filled out.

@kimberlyberlin4999 Жыл бұрын

First things first....I love those glasses on you. They are fabulous! Secondly your makeup and hair are on point.

@FS-rb2bh Жыл бұрын

I think the issue of bright colors is not that simple, I color bright winter and I need intense and bright colors to look good and young. When I look older and faded, it's with beige, for example. I also wear neutral, I hope I avoid completely neutral looks because it's better for me, but I'm not the only colorist who needs color. By the way, I am romantic in style (but in the most kibbe sense of romantic), with a bit of natural and a bit of classic. Fits my hourglass well too so happy

@walkerandkays8336 Жыл бұрын

Me, too. I look dead in beige and need bright, dense colour to come alive. Do what is best for you.

@dorotajenerowicz7796 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@islandgirl21131 Жыл бұрын

Wear what makes you feel good. Color is important and can be paired with a neutral. I used to wear only black and white until i realized I looked like a waiter and when I wore a color I got more compliments. Don’t be afraid of color.

@Red_1976 Жыл бұрын

I was never taught the importance of looking and feeling good growing up. It is something I have always struggled with. Your videos really help me. Thank you 🙏

@cathyosullivan718 Жыл бұрын

Frédérique has the best style and attitude! I ordered two sweaters she suggested frôm her Amazon store this morning. Can’t wait until they come!

@michellejeffrey2890 Жыл бұрын

I have recently seen a clinical nutritionist and she advised me to cut out all grains as there is no such thing as a gluten free grain. It made a huge difference to my stomach, weight and energy levels. Also my swollen thyroid. (Hashimoto). Grains are a big cause of this too! Love your videos Frederique! 😍😍

@sheilaturchyn434 Жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you said here and love that you are sharing menopause effects. People don't know what to do to help with the changes they experience and I think they're too embarrassed and tired to act accordingly. They just end up with frumpy clothes instead!! Thanks again for another good video! xx

@allysonran5542 Жыл бұрын

You've inspired me to remove 2 extremely frumpy dresses from my closet. One to be donated and the other to become a throw pillow or bean bag cover🙂

@astone3871 Жыл бұрын

In my teens and twenties I wore a lot of pink in all its glorious shades and lots of scarlet. Now many years later I tend more toward deeper shades- jewel tones, I get a lot of compliments when I wear shades of wine, burgundy, plum. I love brighter colors but now wear them as accents instead of all over. Black has always been my neutral and it pairs well with so many colors. I find it more versatile than any other color.

@surenemcclon958 Жыл бұрын

Ive had to wear tight N95 masks and face shields since 2020 because I work in healthcare, really rough on the skin and pointless to wear make up due to the sweating. Never feel attractive at work, or motivated to look nice due to this. When I do go out I love to wear colors, or a splash of colors mixed with neutral. I think my undertone is neutral to cool. I can wear yellow and oftentimes get complimented, but anything pastel, especially mint green and I look 10 years older. Thanks for the advice, I did get rid of anything with a large print, they truly were hideous, what was I thinking! LOL. Have a great day Frederique.

@LB-ku6ry Жыл бұрын

So sorry that you have to wear the mask and it irritating your skin. 😢

@kimberlyberlin4999 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. It's very rare for me to wear prints unless they are stripes, small plaids, or tiny polka dots. I use to wear florals a lot but thanks to you I learned the error of my ways lol. Keep up the good work and bringing us such good content. I'm a follower from way back. Happy Holidays Frédérique.

@nadiamaturano8741 Жыл бұрын

I recently started to pay more attention to the colors that are adequate to my skin tone and makes a huge difference. Regards from 🇲🇽

@fayeandlindsaytaylor9586 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. Thanks for your advice.

@meredith18352 Жыл бұрын

Yep menopause, I got sick of the weight creep and decided to do something about it. Build muscle, I don't mean huge muscles but enough to protect your bones and improve your basal metabolic rate. It has taken me the better part of a year but without changing my eating habits I now have so much more energy and I can fit into all of my pre-menopause clothes. Also my BP is down, my resting heartrate is down and so is my cholesterol. If I had have been better at dieting things might have happened faster but personally, I want to enjoy a glass of wine and not cut carbs out of my diet. I agree, even though we have to get older we don't have to dress like our grandmothers did.

@stayfaithful4860 Жыл бұрын

You are one of my favorites! I love that you don’t over style your hair! Also your adorable grasp of the English language so refreshing and tue. Fun and informative thanks for staying real and honest. 😊

@kathleenmayer2729 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for giving it to us straight. Keep it up!!

@carolalvarez3925 Жыл бұрын

Love this video. Great way to start the new year! Bought winter sweaters in solid navy, army green, off white and a beautiful black and white stripe cotton cable knit. Asking myself when I choose my outfit " is this elegant, classy orv chic". If not, it may be good enough to walk my dogs but thats it.

@jenn8179 Жыл бұрын

I have a couple of hats I love to wear. I have a dark purple wool cloche and a houndstooth hat I love. I get compliments all the time! It's a good way to add texture or a pattern without going overboard. Love all your videos! 💝

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

That is awesome!❤

@kra13 25 күн бұрын

Thank you for bravely and compassionately talking about menopause. I love your style, your poise, your advice, and your kindness to women of all ages and bodies.

@dianesolosa Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video. I am 50 and my body just suddenly has a life of its own. I realised everything i do (go gym 2-3 times a day, intermittent fasting, breathing air) will add 1 more kilo to my already ballooning weight. In my 20s, i was 49-50kilos, and during Covid i started putting on weight andd i suspected also having peri-menopause, and after Covid the weight just continue to climb and i am now 61.9kg!!Hearing you encountering all these hormones and how not to give up and stop wearing flowery night gown😅 really cheered me up. and the food part too. With age comes IBS and all sorts of gassy and bloated symptoms. It is so frustrating and demoralising. I am so glad you made this video for me who is over 50 and about to give up this fight.

@TheBohemianStyle Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, all lower cost clothing stores only sell printed clothes and due to continuous inflation, you can’t afford mid to high end clothes that would look better on you.

@MyCrownstar Жыл бұрын

Resale and thrift stores sell at great prices. I had to learn to identify quality first though

@TheBohemianStyle Жыл бұрын

@@MyCrownstar Not in my size and body shape.

@ktahini Жыл бұрын

Loved your styling course and felt quite affirmed! Would love suggestions on dressing for a fast-paced manufacturing job, where the women to men ratio is 1:20. Activities in a typical 12 hr days could go from sweating on a ladder repairing a machine, to giving a presentation to a room of managers or engineers.

@gracewise5428 Жыл бұрын

I have been living in UK for years and no offence.. women in here should watch this video! I don’t understand how these prints can be popular in this country.

@catherinejohnson7460 Жыл бұрын

I support staying away from dairy during menopause-except plain Greek yogurt. I think it’s a great whole food loaded with protein and it’s great for digestion.

@inesmundt6130 Жыл бұрын

thank you very much. great advice, as always. love your humour.

@kimcarroll1129 11 ай бұрын

We should add Camouflage too. Unless you're heading out on a hunting trip, it's always a bad idea. Agree with everything you said! :)

@patriciacaruolo3132 Жыл бұрын

You're classy and honest !!

@crinadil2009 Жыл бұрын

True! Thank you! Yes… “young at soul”. A style minimal in colours with a certain cut is better than bright colours + lots details. Good point of view!👍

@janinebate1272 Жыл бұрын

I love these look-younger videos and you make it fun and entertaining, not preachy at all! Please dont stop making them. You look gorgeous in this one too! X

@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын

WOW, Frederique is on brilliant form today! Thank you so much for a great video full of useful tips x

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!

@Au-19 Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with you! 😌

@barbmathers7190 Жыл бұрын

Hi Frederique - here I am in Christchurch, New Zealand, at home in isolation with Covid and I am over 65, and 5ft 2in, and you have just brightened up my whole day and your positive energy and great tips about styling, colours and your honesty about how you feel. Love it and I now an avid watcher.

@nancyhuston1939 Жыл бұрын

I love that you give new thoughts on what’s in my closet.

@annesikaddour7225 Жыл бұрын

Bonjour Frédérique, since I watch your videos I have regained confidence in myself. I must say I also lost some weight and feeling thinner at the waist makes a huge difference as I can tuck in now! Yeah! Btw, for me like many, it was the "white " carbs which made me feel bloated and gain weight: no more white bread (being French it's a challenge), white pasta, or white rice either. I feel better and I look better. I always had the wardrobe staples in my closet and your many videos about how to mix and match them have been so helpful ! Each time I wear one of your suggestions, I get compliments 😉, and now it's almost every day because I finally dare to wear pieces I one thought were overdressed. They're not, they're simple and classy, yet modern and they make me feel so good! Thanks again for voicing nicely the truth, and all the hard work to put up these videos. Keep them coming, je ne m'en lasse pas!

@fatamorgana7110 Жыл бұрын

You are a Queen 👑💯, you are absolutly right in all the things you say i agree totaly. There is no need to get fat and frumpy after Menopause. A healthy diet, some workout and a good Lifestyle solves it all. A little bit of make up, good skin care and some stylisch clothes do the rest. I am Looking and feeling better than ever. So say other people.

@redpillqueen8888 Ай бұрын

I’m a Clear Winter…my colors are super bright. No tan, creams, camel, khaki, wine…

@emilyevans6989 Жыл бұрын

Great video! Lots of great information, and fun as well. Thank you! As for me, I live a jeans and boots lifestyle, kind of a classic style meets boho vibe. I probably only have 20 more years on this planet, so I’m going to wear what I like and do my best to be kind! (Round, my body shape is ROUND, and who took my waist?!?!) 🤣😂😆😉

@rousse61 Жыл бұрын

I was born and raised in Southern California and spent my teen years in the mid to late 70s. I keep gravitating towards jeans (of course they were started there) and T-shirts but love Classic Styles

@blackthornsloe8049 Жыл бұрын

I love this video ! So glad I've found you . I've been having trouble having clarity about fashion at age 53 . You are helping so much. I've recently released some pieces in my wardrobe that were great for a younger me . I'm now asking myself if what I'm wearing looks elegant. Such a good litmus test .

@gabriellewilder501 Жыл бұрын

So glad I live in Northern California! We like prints and comfy outdoorsy clothes.

@anaveronicafrasch9768 2 ай бұрын

I ve tried colours lately cause I was always mostly on black and white and I ve noticed that brighter colors suited me more. But its just that I don't feel quite myself on them and in the end I feel good only whit beige, nude, cammel...sometimes Bordeaux..here in Italy people use a lot of color and they are masters in combining and creating perfect looks. But even if i LOVE THEM in others...i feel better the days that Im in classic tones. Love your ideas, you look great and you re funny. Im so happy I found you. !

@DivineWithinYoga Жыл бұрын

Bonjour! I have weeded through my clothing, and rid myself of much frump and big loose clothing. Thank you for the inspiration ❤️😊

@sonjabachmann1810 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that you are direct and honest. Also health and fitness no excuses there for us

@gaylestewart8196 Жыл бұрын

Amen, Girl! You are the best! Great video!

@saraG100 Жыл бұрын

So appreciate your honesty. I will try to be more discerning in my selections. You look amazing!

@caterinablasco1761 Жыл бұрын

I love this sincere video. Good advice from a wonderful woman ❤️

@katrinajeffrey2565 Жыл бұрын

Great informative video! I really needed to hear this sensible advice, as I was wondering what I should be wearing as a mature woman. Thankyou.💖

@febbiemukuhlani7356 Жыл бұрын

I always learn 1 or 2 things every time l watch your video thank you 👏

@anaalves3658 Жыл бұрын

I am loving your videos ☺️😍. You are so funny and vibrant. I have definitely had years where I didn't try very hard on my appearance and others when I have put a bit more thought into it. This year I bought a few dresses for summer and hardly wore any shorts. I do not have a single skirt in my wardrobe at the moment. As our lifestyle changes so do our clothes and of course our bodies as well. What you might have loved as a 20 something is most likely not going to be what you love now. Keep experimenting, I recently just bought a pair of wide leg jeans, which I never thought i would do, guess what I'm really enjoying them, in fact I am wearing them right now.

@karenyates8826 Жыл бұрын

Oh my where does one begin and where one needs to draw the line. I love color, clothes, shoes, handbags, and jewelry. Daily fashion choices can be tricky but can also be fun and liberating. I gravitate towards a classic look. Many factors from location, age, to body size and shape to finances have all impacted us all over our lifetime. I think as long as a person is comfortable in how they look they should go for it. I really enjoy your channel.

@iahorvath Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your always refreshing and honest tips on how to dress well and with taste at any age.

@meaux0611 10 ай бұрын

Hi Frederique! I just want to say I watch you, and I love your content, even though I know and completely understand why you don’t make these kinds of videos anymore. My natural style has always been what I call “effortlessly classy & a little sexy.” I’ve always worn a lot of black, neutral colors, etc., BUT I will say that black women can get away with many things you deem “cheap” or not elegant. The bright colors, and even prints, especially African inspired prints, look amazing on dark skin, so I just wanted to mention that. I’m still watching your content all these years later, and using a lot of your older videos for my upcoming trip to Paris. Thank you so much for your videos!

@Rhauxshna82 Жыл бұрын

I quite adore Japanese tie-dye (Shibori) dresses and wear Pastels a lot as I'm a Soft Summer with Low-Medium contrast) and look best in greyed muted colours. Other than that, I quite agree with you 😉😋

@nicod2213 Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I found your channel :-) fashion does definitely not come naturally to me so I need all the help I can get! I feel like half of the stuff in my wardrobe is probably needing a change up to be a bit more tidy! Slowly but surely 😄

@MrsStepford Жыл бұрын

Red Bull! Oh you are a hoot Darl! The advice re prints and colours is on point as always x

@eugenelim1191 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing

@danielej.proulx6482 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you all the way. You look absolutely stunning 😊

@LinetteMiles Жыл бұрын

Congrats on your channel!! You are beautiful! Love love love your authenticity!!! Keep do in that! I know many people take personally but you are doing a great job! , I’m new on your channel!! Love it!! Thank you!!! I’m taking notes!!! And all the great tips! From NC USA.

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

@Rocking_the_Mimi_life Жыл бұрын

Those ugly “drapery couch” patterns don’t look good on the 20 year olds. I look at the way older granny women are still portrayed in print, film and television and cringe. I feel like I am in denial of my age because I say that is not me! Full disclosure I was a punk rocker in the 80s so I like still having that edge. And I am facing 60 in 7 months.

@lynnelhampton-bott6917 Жыл бұрын

I think Cindy Lauper is a good example of an older woman with an edgy rock and roll style.

@kerincitrekindonesia8920 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your information, its very important .. Good luck

@tammystroud4084 Жыл бұрын

Once again, spot on Frédérique. Love you xox

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thank you!❤

@FantasysMine Жыл бұрын

Oh so agreed !

@yvetterodriguez4850 Жыл бұрын

I’m 100% American 😂😂😂 But Ooooh girl!!! You make me miss my working days around the many snooty French … I mean international (saying with love & appreciation ❤️😉😂) bosses & coworkers who pushed me to be my best self. Always tell people “I grew up n Queens, NY but I was born on 5th Ave & 57th St” My blood sweat and tears are still there. 🤔 Did we work together in the 90s? Or have I ever done your hair or makeup? Lol Your voice sounds like home to me 😉☺️

@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын

I hate the clothes and accessories at those “mature brand” stores. Everything is so long, all tops are tunic-length, all sweaters and jackets cover the butt, etc. I can’t stand that stuff. I’m 62 and wear leather pants, ticked-in shirts and cropped sweaters like everyone else, I don’t want to hide my butt or tummy. And the novelty prints, like with lobsters, anchors or teddy bears on them, never, ever. Just because we’ve turned 50 or 60, it doesn’t mean that we’ve lost all our taste!

@GladBurgio Жыл бұрын

Yes please! A video to pinpoint my style. Sometimes I feel I'm all over the place. And where did you get your top in this video? Zara?

@myaunteffy1440 5 ай бұрын

I enjoyed this. Thanks

@bibibrin5035 Жыл бұрын

I've got 6 flowy viscose shirts with beautiful prints; looks like Hermes but it isn't. I often combine them with simple black or blue. Works well for me.

@petamoss358 Жыл бұрын

I love your vlogs thankyou I have learnt so much. I love your style and only wish I could wear the same but unfortunately the natural colours e.g camel and ecru look terrible on me so instead I try to do the same but with my neutrals of navy and grey. I have found that since embracing my grey hair my colours I can wear have changed so much.

@sharroon7574 Жыл бұрын

My digestive problems improved tremendously after doing a candida cleanse and taking other supplements to help with SIFO. I know it's not very well researched but I felt horrible and now I can eat what I like.

@sugarplumk2381 Жыл бұрын

Hi Frederique. I couldn’t agree more about tie dye. I didn’t like it in the ‘70’s and dislike it even more now, even for young women. As I was watching I was thinking how gorgeous that colour is in your top. It’s so flattering to your skin tone. You even mentioned skin tone. It’s so important to wear what suits us. As I’m getting older I think I suit navy more than black. I like both though and still do wear black. Fit is very important. I really dislike dresses that are skin tight. I don’t think having dresses hugging the backside it’s flattering but I know some people will disagree. Skimming yes, on someone with a great figure but clinging, no. It’s very true that a lot of fashion for women over 40 is ugly. The manufacturers use cheap fabrics too, with lot of hideous prints and styles. That’s why I stick to classic style but I’d love to have a bit more femininity without looking silly. Apparently I’m a romantic body type in the Kibbie method. I think anyway. It’s hard to judge. It would be great if you could do a video on personal styles. Thanks for the chat!

@marytran1719 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100%

@Pluscelamemechose Жыл бұрын

I'm thrilled about my raspberry red wool coat! I'll be stylish for at least a year. ;)

@conservativetaxpayer Жыл бұрын

Love this video!!!!🎉

@antonellaravani4629 Жыл бұрын

I agree on almost everything you say…but, as a bright spring, neutral colors make me older looking. And orange, kelly green and purple gives my skin a nice, healthy glow. Not to mention neon yellow or pink…😂 everytime I wear those color, someone comments on how I look healthy and young looking! 😄

@11-jianna21 Жыл бұрын

Thank u for lovely advise of styling ourself according to our age .I liked ur speech

@MonLis76 Жыл бұрын

Yes, please do a video about the different style types - romantic, edgy, etc. and please direct me to a video about accessories and what pieces to start with, if you have one. Thanks for a great vid! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@renepena3024 Жыл бұрын

You are SO much fun to watch, but could you please do more videos that include more than camel, black/navy and ecru? I get it, they look good on you, but I look better in jewel tones.

@abarbaradorsey3713 Жыл бұрын

Me too have you tried burgundy, I think that’s making a comeback for 23

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

❤

@carolinaalmas4656 Жыл бұрын

You look gorgeous Frédérique, this hairstyle really suits you ❤

@donnabraud7945 Жыл бұрын

I agree with your comments and suggestions. You always make me laugh.

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much lovely 🥰

@josephineaddison2054 Жыл бұрын

This is interesting I need so much in my wardrobe now.

@jaigobinroxanne6356 Жыл бұрын

Love uuu thank u for this

@Pamsmith59 Жыл бұрын

Menopause, covid and authoimmune hashimotos have changed my life, and not for the better. I'm age 63 and hair loss is now an issue. I must tell you that your continued emphasis on finding your undertones to improve your wardrobe ALSO exactly applies to purchasing hair of whatever sort (extensions, halos, wigs, toppers) one needs. So thankful for your expertise and your willingness to "say it like it is" to help us regain our beauty and our confidence.

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I have also hashimoto and it’s been hard take care x

@SuperStacycat Жыл бұрын

Thank you for another great video 😁 You look absolutely beautiful 🤩

@judithbonnick3529 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for your relaxed and delightful presentation. You’ve opened my eyes Even as a mature aged person I have lifted my game. Vive la difference!

@evelynvigh8488 Жыл бұрын

There are some clothing pieces in extreme colours that look classy. I have a long hot pink tailored wool coat form Zara and it looks very chic. For me pairing a strong stand out colour with a tailored fitting is very chic. Especially if I see a woman in wiser years in a stand out colour paired nicely with neutrals I think oh this woman is a fashionista.

@ms.frederique Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!