Why BestDressed Feels Like Too Much Sometimes

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Eric Wen

Eric Wen

3 жыл бұрын

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@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Hey friends - for those curious or confused! In my opinion, that fingerprint match that makes the most sense for Ashley is she's an ENFP, (a more socially introverted ENFP)! The way I originally edited the video it took me over 2 minutes to introduce everything and start reacting to Ashley! (boring boring boring!) So I chopped out the entire intro to improve the video! Unfortunately the intro is also where I directly mention that I think Ashley is an ENFP - sorry if that was confusing! I did mean to say her personality type in this video - I just unexpectedly had to trim it out!
@tomatoeggs48
@tomatoeggs48 2 жыл бұрын
I would argue the other way actually, I’m wholly convinced that she’s an INFP. Like you said she’s really tuned in with her feelings, she’s very concerned about what’s right or wrong to say or do however small it actually is (like in the ‘youtubey rants’ part of the video you showed) all of the time. She is very bubbly and can seem quite energetic and in some videos she explained it as a mask (also to be ‘watchable’). I’ve been following her for a while and in some videos she shows that she hasn’t been out at all, she had just stayed at home working hard, and only hanging out on the weekend to ‘feel’ alive. That is a Fi-Si loop that a lot of INFP can fall into. I have numerous examples but I don’t want to come across as argumentative. I love your videos! But I wanted to share my opinion:)
@EricWen
@EricWen 2 жыл бұрын
@@tomatoeggs48 thanks for sharing your thoughts! I actually went into analyzing Ashley thinking she was probably an INFP and then came out of it feeling a socially introverted and possibly imbalanced ENFP made a little more sense. Which surprised me too. I have a lot of thoughts why but would love to hear more of YOUR thoughts and reasoning behind your conclusion bc I also have watched a lot of Ashley and am curious what clips come to mind for you. If you were interested in chatting about this, perhaps message me on Discord or Instagram! :). You don’t seem mean or argumentative at all - thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
@mimishinky9278
@mimishinky9278 2 жыл бұрын
I would agree that she's a socially introverted ENFP cs I could relate to her as I am one. These types are creative, bubbly, funny and random (very Ne-Fi) at times but at the same time can be structured, wise, rational and thoughtful (coming from developed Te). They can be extremely friendly with anyone (Ne needs to explore the world/people connections to understand them - I guess this is what makes us very curious) but at the same time easily drained and need lots of alone time afterwards to re-grasp their values (Fi). I guess I could relate with her in a way I do love making random videos based on my mood (most videos I made are usually at home; like painting or room decorating!) and expressing what I'm feeling at that moment. I believe Ashley is probably the type that prefers to do things comfortably on her own and being herself, like making her own KZfaq videos at home and being a different person when heading out meeting people (something I would do as well). I bet she's also fun, friendly and a genuinely lovely person meeting with friends off screen. And yes, I can relate to the part being confusing at times.. Like my friends can't pinpoint whether or not if I'm actually an introvert or extrovert cs my mood is always changing simultaneously from chaotic energy to hermit kermit.. xD I can be an extremely open person with private barriers if that even make sense (Ahh Ne wordplays hehe..) 🤣
@micag3556
@micag3556 3 жыл бұрын
The "afraid of appearing fake" speaks so much to me. As an INFP, I avoid Instagram/Snapchat filters that clears my skin or alters my features too much because it makes me feel like a fraud, and if someone likes it, it will hunt me even more because it's not me, I don't look like that in real life.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@dianana7371
@dianana7371 3 жыл бұрын
Me an INFP, who deleted Instagram years ago because I hate inauthentic ity
@wrinkleintime4257
@wrinkleintime4257 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an INFP and that’s me too! I like filters for fun haha, the silly ones especially! But if I ever post something with me in it, it feels too weird to perfect my image. Because ... then it doesn’t look like me and it started freaking me out 0-0 I rarely ever post myself though, just the books I read haha
@sanemiko5848
@sanemiko5848 2 жыл бұрын
WOW @Mica G IM AN INFP AND I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY !!! IVE NEVER HEARD SOMEONE FEEL THAT LIKE I DOOO
@arxsaur
@arxsaur 2 жыл бұрын
oh my god me too! i dislike wearing makeup because it just makes me feel fake
@inigocabs1527
@inigocabs1527 3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP I relate so much because I clarify myself so much to the point that my fear is oversharing and feeling like I'm talking over people ;-;
@niamh830
@niamh830 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@bongiubon
@bongiubon 3 жыл бұрын
yea same :/
@sarahthevirgo2777
@sarahthevirgo2777 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@elizabethportant7305
@elizabethportant7305 3 жыл бұрын
...are you me?
@leti1569
@leti1569 3 жыл бұрын
YES. this. Lately I've been struggling so much with this.
@nebbieee9246
@nebbieee9246 3 жыл бұрын
Infp here, I always see myself doing an imaginary interview inside the bathroom and I always answer vocally and not just in my head and I just laugh whenever I catch myself doing this but I also find myself rephrasing and repeating my answers to communicate better to my imaginary audience so I understood the clip of ashley repeating her self. Love the vid 💖
@dmn4747
@dmn4747 3 жыл бұрын
I do this too! Also info. I thought it was just me lol.
@arathzepeda3540
@arathzepeda3540 3 жыл бұрын
I took a test and it said I was an INFJ but relating so much with this vid and comments is making me feel like I’m maybe an infp
@eunicehung4246
@eunicehung4246 3 жыл бұрын
@@arathzepeda3540 *Yeah, INFPs usually get mistyped as INFJs!! 😅😅😅 So you are most likely an INFP 😅😅😅 By the way, I am an INFJ 🤗🤗🤗💖💖💖*
@haleyjanebrown
@haleyjanebrown 3 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time, but I'm an ENFP :)
@gabicook9
@gabicook9 3 жыл бұрын
MEEEEEEEE
@jessicaveeno
@jessicaveeno 3 жыл бұрын
Infp here. I DO try to clarify my emotions with sentences after sentences because I love expressing the same thing in different ways. But this can tire out the listener in a conversation, so it's a BIG insecurity of mine. hahaha
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I get you! :) my hope with this video was that more ppl could understand the FP’s better!!
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
this is so cute ughh i wanna like hug everyone's insecurity. I find them all so appealing and oddly fascinating!!
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
dude my essays used to always get points less cuz i had so many run on sentences trying to explain tge same thing in different ways omggg people think u have nothing to say and thats why u repeat it but noooo
@phillipwithstyle
@phillipwithstyle 3 жыл бұрын
I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH! it’s such an insecurity pressure point. Omg I always feel like I shouldn’t word vomit cuz other people don’t appreciate it,, but like that’s how I process, it’s how I FUNCTION.
@cerealis_5432
@cerealis_5432 3 жыл бұрын
I always want to find the “best” way to say something. Sometimes the way I word things changes my perspective and makes it easier for my brain to accept for some reason, even though it’s essentially the same message. I’m always trying to find the best affirmations/mantras to silence the negative inner dialogue. I always want to say things in a hard-hitting, profound way if that makes any sense.
@Ebee2
@Ebee2 3 жыл бұрын
Is this guy intellectualizing and analyzing her content to justify falling for Ashley... because if so, mad respect and same
@cbcblad0
@cbcblad0 3 жыл бұрын
IKR I feel like he was crushin'
@wannabesirius
@wannabesirius 3 жыл бұрын
He was just smilin while watching her😃
@Elif-bg8xc
@Elif-bg8xc 3 жыл бұрын
He was an intp, she was an enfp, can I make it anymore obvious
@emmastar020
@emmastar020 3 жыл бұрын
@@Elif-bg8xc aww
@shalomikemba
@shalomikemba 3 жыл бұрын
This analysed me in less than 20 minutes. It's a huge explanation on why I feel insanely connected to Ashley. Amazing.
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
ashley was the literal reason i started subscribing to channels and understanding how youtube worked omg
@gkwdla7881
@gkwdla7881 3 жыл бұрын
same !!! i feel connected to her also
@lisar252
@lisar252 3 жыл бұрын
Same!! Wow!
@SonneMondundSterni
@SonneMondundSterni 3 жыл бұрын
omg same
@dreamingofthemoon
@dreamingofthemoon 3 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@beautyybychloe
@beautyybychloe 3 жыл бұрын
This video gave me so much clarity on myself as an ENFP I base all my decisions on how I feel in the moment but I think all the time about so many things in depth
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I’m SO happy you found this video! It was exactly for you! :)
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
same thing here, oh my gosh
@beautyybychloe
@beautyybychloe 3 жыл бұрын
@@EricWen Just subscribed :)
@jare___
@jare___ 3 жыл бұрын
I think what people miss about how Ashley says her sentences over and over is that she’s showing you it in purpose because she WANTS to be genuine. A lot of KZfaqrs repeat their lines over and over- they just don’t tell you that. She knows this, and she’s trying to show you the full scope of who she is and what she does; and she’s really nervous of what people think. I genuinely think a lot of the hate that gets thrown towards her mostly comes from the fact that she’s a successful young woman, and she’s put under a lot more scrutiny as a result. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t have flaws or inconsistencies- literally everyone does. Give her a break. She seems like a genuinely kind person who’s trying her best to live her best life in the best way she can.
@tsubomi6775
@tsubomi6775 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know her channel, but based on this video, it's exactly what I thought too...
@emmystapleton6586
@emmystapleton6586 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like that's true too! And, she wants to express her feelings about something in the way that best helps us understand her inner feelings; I think her rehearsing is just her trying to help us see what she sees. Maybe like a musician rehearsing a piece of music that they interpret to contain certain feelings. They practice and re-do so that they can show the audience feeling that they feel.
@patriciabovie
@patriciabovie 3 жыл бұрын
I really like the idea of showcasing KZfaqrs to help understand the functions of MBTI. Excellent work, keep it up! -From a fellow infp :)
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much :) I really wanna make the mbti functions easier for ppl to understand! They’re such a powerful tool!
@raiha1425
@raiha1425 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENFP and this is so accurate! I dance around and sing out loud ALL THE TIME when I have headphones on and I don’t really care what people think because I’m having fun ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@akankshabele
@akankshabele 3 жыл бұрын
Same! But my family says I'd ruin ears listening to music all the time. And its like music is something that makes me feel happy and bubbly so why wouldn't I? Dancing to the songs im blasting in earphones is the best thing ever and no one can change my mind!
@dreamingofthemoon
@dreamingofthemoon 3 жыл бұрын
Samee, my sister gets so annoyed w/ me when we're outside
@quaintrellei3153
@quaintrellei3153 3 жыл бұрын
“Introverted feeling is not a curse.” As someone who had repeatedly told myself and other people that it is a curse, I crIED at this video. HHH I guess I never really viewed Fi this way. More often than not, I wished I was a whole other personality type, because maybe then things would be easier 🥲 Thanks Eric! 💕
@clemcreates
@clemcreates 3 жыл бұрын
BEST DRESSED NEEDS TO HEAR THIS
@NotReallyRebecca
@NotReallyRebecca 3 жыл бұрын
As a creator, I relate too well to that clip of ashley repeating her jokes 7392984 times
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
ur hair is fkn gorgeous omg
@NotReallyRebecca
@NotReallyRebecca 3 жыл бұрын
@@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 no u:')
@MatthewSantiagoPowell
@MatthewSantiagoPowell 3 жыл бұрын
ENFP here and the part where you talked about the consistent change in terms of feelings, values and stances ... YOU READ ME LIKE A BOOK
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I get you!!
@videotapeses
@videotapeses 3 жыл бұрын
Something I've noticed about Ashley and Emma are they are both very self aware people which is a beautiful trait. The more self aware we are the more authentic we can be.
@rosegarden0988
@rosegarden0988 2 жыл бұрын
What happened to Ashley??!!
@ams4043
@ams4043 3 жыл бұрын
I love Ashley, she's so sweet and I can relate to her. I don't get the hate she's getting, and I hope she doesn't stop youtube because of it.
@tchassakamga
@tchassakamga 3 жыл бұрын
Drinking tea and watching Eric, I feel like I'm hanging out with my smart friend who makes me smarter by the minute 🍵
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
:)
@withinwithout6263
@withinwithout6263 3 жыл бұрын
I watched one video of Eric’s (about Kelly Stamps), thinking I’d bite then pop out again, but he really won me over. So much kindness, thoughtfulness and nuance he brings to the table, definitely someone that would actually be cool to be friends with. I feel that way about most ENFJs (if I’m pinning his functions correctly).
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
@@withinwithout6263 haha aww that was such a sweet comment! Thank you!! I’m an INTP actually! Just an extra nice one haha ;). On KZfaq my Fe comes across very strong and my Ti, Ne, and Si working together give me some pretty good Ni abilities! That was a good guess! If I only saw myself on KZfaq I’d probably have guessed that too! What are you?
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
@@withinwithout6263 YESS HES THE SWEETEST OMGGG
@emilyl.449
@emilyl.449 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENFP and I was bullied in high school (to the point of dropping out & doing online school) for ALL of these same reasons: “too happy” “fake??” “Weird” “performing” “awkward”, etc. Watching this video was the most liberating thing EVER. Thank you for clarifying to me why I was so confused. I polarize and piss people off, but also draw everyone in and it’s really... confusing. Especially that analogy you gave about me dancing in the street, and then people start asking “why you’re doing it” or “can you justify or explain”.... that’s my whole damn family hahah. Oh oh-and the whole bit about getting cold or moody when snapped out of feeling, holy hell is that not the most accurate thing I’ve ever heard. Thank you! Thank you. Love your videos!
@melonmelody18oz
@melonmelody18oz 3 жыл бұрын
I FEEL so VALIDATED. ENFP here and was recently accused of not being analytical. I believe creativity and analytical is not binary, both and everything in between can exist in one person. I’m here for your videos!! 💖
@millymartin7191
@millymartin7191 3 жыл бұрын
INFP here. You legit just described everything about me that I have always wondered about.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Introverted Feeling is your number one personality superpower :) I’m so glad you found this video!! Hope you enjoy the ones coming up!
@millymartin7191
@millymartin7191 3 жыл бұрын
Take a look at Micarah Tewers. She’s like a wholesome, hilarious, talented, chaotic Disney princess.
@shineinstars
@shineinstars 3 жыл бұрын
same!
@goya4685
@goya4685 3 жыл бұрын
I am an INFP and I have hated this 'dramatic' (expressive) side of me for a long time. Past one year I have been trying to embrace this side and I am glad that I came across this video. I wouldn't have been able to see myself in this perspective on my own. Thank you for the video :)
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
💙💙💙
@lindseydrew9812
@lindseydrew9812 3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP, I feel really seen. Love the personality type videos!
@katiejohnson47
@katiejohnson47 3 жыл бұрын
i’m an infj, and that explains why i feel so drawn to her personality
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
omg check if u feel drawn to mine heh
@-maru-chan
@-maru-chan 3 жыл бұрын
@@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 😂😂😂
@maddyf1465
@maddyf1465 3 жыл бұрын
same. INFJ
@verymadz
@verymadz 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENFP and this made so much sense to me!! Your videos are always so informative and make me realize something every time
@abbyherold9828
@abbyherold9828 3 жыл бұрын
Infp here, thanks for making this video; It explains FI very well.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it!
@strawwberryyy
@strawwberryyy 3 жыл бұрын
I think this is a prime example of how we hold men and women to different standards in society - a man would NEVER receive any of this hate for being... a human being? who shares his honest thoughts about life? shocking
@alekhyabhat8973
@alekhyabhat8973 3 жыл бұрын
I was kinda confused about whether I was an enfp or an entp and this was super insightful and made me realise I have, without a doubt, introverted feeling LOL
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
That was the main hope for this video! To clear that up!! I’m so happy! It Can def be confusing bc enfp’s do also have a logical side!
@mcgil8891
@mcgil8891 3 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
I need to blow up so Eric makes an analysis of me😂😂😂
@CallieCo
@CallieCo 3 жыл бұрын
I learn sooo much about myself by watching Eric's videos haha. I am an ENFP!! Must be why I"m always so entertained by bestdressed, she is SO unique
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
YES!! Thanks for watching Callie!!
@linneakunesh8409
@linneakunesh8409 3 жыл бұрын
yes this man did just analyze my personality. this is perfection. I'm coming back to this whenever I feel sad. ENFP out
@deleted8800
@deleted8800 3 жыл бұрын
i was an ENFP and was just like her a few years ago. but i feel like i’ve lost that ability to express all the nuances in my feelings. i start to share a lot less on social media and always worry about being judged whenever i share something. i used to be fearless of that. not sure what has changed in me. i do feel a lot more emotionally stable, but in the expense of losing sensitivity to life.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Watch my video on Philip defranco! On exactly that!
@kellyboyed7877
@kellyboyed7877 3 жыл бұрын
I love infps. They are so imaginative and their expression is inspiring.
@iburnedthetoast13
@iburnedthetoast13 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for observing the consistency in being in harmony with emotions, it is often overlooked or misinterpreted
@Vita-eq3oj
@Vita-eq3oj 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I really like the tone of this analysis and the lovely conclusion "they are able to express and celebrate certain colors, emotions, flavors of emotions that other people completely forget about. They inspire others to express and be fully themselves". *first time I see your videos, this is amazing content! Thank you, Eric.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
☺️☺️🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙 thank you so much for being here!
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
i almost cried man, he is soo wholesome, like his smiles??¿¿
@melissamartinez276
@melissamartinez276 3 жыл бұрын
you helped me to understand myself and clarify lots of stuff that i felt, thank you -a proud INFP :D
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
yay!!
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
dude I just realized our literature teacher made us write an essay on our personality type im an ENFP and that dancing explanation Eric did was sooooooo spot on oh my god. Im super social and friendly but I most admit every day in school I would arrive and put on my headphones and walk around dancing until the bell rang. Regardless of everyone else HAHA
@JoannaRoxanne
@JoannaRoxanne 3 жыл бұрын
"A bucket of emotions" ----> really sorting out feelings and motivations. I loved this line because it's so true! We don't even realize it!! ❤
@ganirisandy7074
@ganirisandy7074 3 жыл бұрын
I Love how you analyze her personality (and that smile tho 😝) , I love her videos, giving me this feeling wanting know more about her.
@katvancuten
@katvancuten 3 жыл бұрын
Another INFP feeling very seen and comforted by this video! I've loved Ashley and her content for years, and this is a beautiful breakdown of what about her draws me in so much! I live for genuine, expressive, thoughtful folks.
@aoi6075
@aoi6075 3 жыл бұрын
She is the only type of that personality in my circle and that’s why I like her. She is super calming and sweet.
@itsgabibelle
@itsgabibelle 3 жыл бұрын
agh i love MBTI I LOVE THIS ERIC
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I love that you’re here Gabi! I’m an INTP too haha :)
@priyamadhu9644
@priyamadhu9644 3 жыл бұрын
I'VE BEEN WAITING SO LONG FOR THIS THANK YOUUU
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
You got it!!
@dogsrpeopletoo
@dogsrpeopletoo 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you talking about the "inconsistency" some people accuse her of. Unless she continuously claims to not do one thing but does the opposite with a noticeable lack of self awareness, I think I could understand their argument. But if you watch Ashley's videos, she is definitely self-aware of her privileges. As much as I want to be environmentally friendly, it can be difficult to do so with EVERY waking moment. That's why I think it's strange to expect people with a following to always be this way. I say things all the time that I forget about and when someone brings it to my attention, I may have different opinions about it down the line. The issue is that everything that she says is documented and can be rewatched and analyzed to the point where you can catch any subtle differences (even from years ago) and us it to pin it back on her as proof that she's "inconsistent". It just comes off as nit-picky. If you're just not a fan of hers, that's fine. Come to terms with it and move on. Also an INFP and I appreciate your analysis! :)
@moozicforLIFE
@moozicforLIFE 3 жыл бұрын
Isfp here! What you described at the end about being made to turn off authenticity which leads to shutting down... Is exactly what I've been feeling in work this week and this has really clarified things for me.
@JulianneDoodles
@JulianneDoodles 3 жыл бұрын
Love how you approached this! Super in depth but still approachable
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks ☺️
@louera
@louera 3 жыл бұрын
your expressions while you were watching ashley's vids look like you were trying to suppress a blush the whole time! quite cute. And thank you so much for underlining how, when we share our feelings or thoughts, it isn't to conform to expectations. It truly is for myself only, to look back at my younger self and see this is how she viewed things, regardless of how others viewed them. And thanks for saying that if we do get pressured to perform, we get overwhelmed, which is quite true for me. Lovin' your new content!:)
@ingenueee
@ingenueee 3 жыл бұрын
ahh these analyzing videos are so helpful for a youtuber who just started out, like me. You are awesome and very authentic! I love that you shared repeating your lines, cause this literally is happening to me and it gives me hope and strength to go on and not to give up so easily:). So thank you!
@fluffernutter9420
@fluffernutter9420 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP I feel simultaneously so called out and yet understood on a very deep level. I'm addicted to your videos now, lolol
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Yay!!
@gahx3itsleelahhh
@gahx3itsleelahhh 3 жыл бұрын
WOW! ENFP here and you are SO spot on. 100% my personality to a T.
@acanimatics906
@acanimatics906 3 жыл бұрын
I've recently been really strugling with over thinking wether or not Im acting authentically or just always faking evry Action and thought because for a while now I have been unable to feel like myself. This video really helped me out and brought clarity to the questions and issues I had. I love Ashley and I enjoyed your analysis of her imensly, evrything was very well put and I especially liked your examples with the dancing and song they really made it easy to understand.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
so happy this could help!
@noursqushair
@noursqushair 3 жыл бұрын
That was CLEVER Eric! The commentary around 13 min made me chuckle :)
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
☺️☺️ thanks!!
@andymagliulo
@andymagliulo 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you made this bc THIS IS ME (talking about how this makes me feel) Thank you! 💛 #ENFP
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you were able to find this video! More people need to understand where you guys are coming from :)
@soupytho
@soupytho 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I just wanted you to know this video helped me so much. I'm definitely an introverted feeler. My feelings are in everything I do. If I'm feeling good, I am so much more creative and productive. If I'm feeling down, I can't do anything, make so many mistakes, and can't act "normally" around my colleagues. I am in a very scientific/analytical field and am surrounded by people who can just push through feeling low or in a tough spot, and I thought there was something wrong with me that I can't. Now I realize this is just me and it's more important for me that I sort out my feelings than it might be for other people.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you so much for sharing this! I was really touched, reading this. I'm so glad this video could help you.
@Coinsider
@Coinsider 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel should be MUCH MUCH bigger. Friend shared it with me and I watched 10 videos so far and subbed!
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
My time will come! For now, im happy you’re here and enjoying the content! Tell your friends :)
@benicedarnit
@benicedarnit 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is fascinating! You’re very good at observing clearly and concisely, and explaining behavior in a very digestible manner. As a psychology major this makes me happy!
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! So happy you found me :)
@itsmeraz3008
@itsmeraz3008 2 жыл бұрын
Eric, wow wee! I loved that you noticed the overwhelming response when you stop feeling for yourself and are aware of other people wanting something from you. I become incredibly uncomfortable and want to shut off. These days I try and focus on my own feelings for myself which Definitely puts me in a much more confident and comfortable place.
@najoua6257
@najoua6257 2 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP who's trying to find her place into society, you kinda help me feel proud of me, thank you.
@KellyRobinson
@KellyRobinson 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this was amazing. I finally understand the N in my Myers Briggs result. It’s spot on
@NotReallyRebecca
@NotReallyRebecca 3 жыл бұрын
These types of videos are so interesting to me. Subbed
@trizzbot
@trizzbot 3 жыл бұрын
this feels so strange... idk what i would do if some random internet guy tried to analyze my whole personality 😬 eek
@trizzbot
@trizzbot 3 жыл бұрын
@@cUCH1337NPC not rly obvious, i never even thought this kind of content existed
@kayaeki
@kayaeki 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's so weirdd hahaa
@mirche99
@mirche99 3 жыл бұрын
noo he has another video on her too i think hes obsessed o.e
@miang6565
@miang6565 3 жыл бұрын
He’s a personality analyst 🙄
@juanzavala9023
@juanzavala9023 3 жыл бұрын
Thought I was the only one tbh
@katrinakubofoodculture4358
@katrinakubofoodculture4358 3 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel through your Kelly Stamps video and I am obsessed with these analyses!! Watching this video was like a self-awareness crash course. I'm very much into enneagram and astrology, but I kind of forgot about myers briggs. This blew my mind. I am an ENFP and hadnt heard about introverted feeling before. it makes me feel so seen and understood to learn about this. I am also obsessed with studying youtubers and analyzing video history, styles, virality ect. The fact that you added in the description how many followers you had at the time this video posted is *chefs kiss* I went thru your entire library to get an idea of your youtube journey. will definitely be watching more video. thank you thank you!! also CONGRATS on blowing up in 2021!
@krystalsoong740
@krystalsoong740 3 жыл бұрын
Enfp here, I discovered Ashley’s channel a while ago and instantly knew we were the same type. Takes one to know one I guess 😂 Loved this analysis, Eric! Can’t believe I’m just seeing your channel now ✨
@ixi9
@ixi9 3 жыл бұрын
love love love how encouraging and uplifting Eric is, wow
@mcgil8891
@mcgil8891 3 жыл бұрын
Right
@fourmiantirrhinum9089
@fourmiantirrhinum9089 3 жыл бұрын
This video makes me feel so much better about myself. Thank you Eric! :)
@jenniferyu2828
@jenniferyu2828 3 жыл бұрын
Dang this is my first time coming across your channel and I’m loving the content! I’m rly into psychology and personality stuff so this is super interesting
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@RobinvanHalteren
@RobinvanHalteren 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVED THIS VIDEO! It made me feel so seen as an ENFP 🕺🏻🥰🦋🌸
@melinamadrigal
@melinamadrigal 3 жыл бұрын
I am an ENFP and people always say i act exactly like Ashley/bestdressed. And after this video and your analysis i feel so understood. Like this is spot on how my brain works!!😳😂
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰
@AyeshaNoelle
@AyeshaNoelle 2 жыл бұрын
Feel so seen as an ENFP. Thank you Eric🧙🏾‍♀️
@clarav.7937
@clarav.7937 3 жыл бұрын
This is really interesting cause ALL of my friends say I’m “inspiring”, just cause I’m so authentic, it inspires them to be more authentic and open too. And follow their real dreams and live in a “realer” way. However, idk how my personality type helps me. I feel I help others more than myself.
@CJShopland_Art
@CJShopland_Art 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the repeat of sentences, I don’t often repeat for the tone but there are stumbling blocks at points and have to redo for clear . Loved hearing more about my introverted feeling, and the many sides :) also points for shaping baby driver 😎☺️
@CJShopland_Art
@CJShopland_Art 3 жыл бұрын
Showing baby driver
@phoebe5724
@phoebe5724 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly loved the content bc it made me learn why i relate so well to ashley but I do wish you chose a less clickbait title - it rings similarly to those “problematic” types
@AleBlast
@AleBlast 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh thank you so much Erick 🙌🏻 truly helpfull
@bellz4591
@bellz4591 2 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I just wanna say I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS and THANK YOU SO MUCH !!! Learning about the different personality types is so interesting, and I love that you talk about them in lots of detail with zero judgement ^-^ All the types have their own unique and awesome capabilities, and I loveee that you emphasize that! Keep doin what you’re doing, I can’t wait to see more :D
@dianadias3
@dianadias3 3 жыл бұрын
Oh My, it was so awesome that you showed yourself also repeating yourself.. Only people who haven`t done a youtube video think people don`t repeat themselves..
@mimicovers97
@mimicovers97 3 жыл бұрын
Just subscribed! Can’t wait to catch up on all your videos and learn all these terms :)
@moonchildsalma7141
@moonchildsalma7141 3 жыл бұрын
i was smiling the whole time watching this video, cus i felt like you were perfectly describing me lol, all i ever talk about are my feelings and emotions, and what goes on in my head, i'm always analyzing myself,, this video just put more of what i feel i am, into words, so thank you
@nikit.5240
@nikit.5240 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. As an INFP, I resonate so much.
@soojinpark246
@soojinpark246 3 жыл бұрын
you talk about ashley but this video is like an online therapy for me, thanks eric
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
That was the intention of the video! :) to be about much more than Ashley! I'm SO happy it was able to help you Soo! Take care! I hope you enjoy the future videos coming soon!
@chzzyfryz8818
@chzzyfryz8818 3 жыл бұрын
this was actually very validating thank you
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad! My pleasure! :)
@TyraThompsonOfficial
@TyraThompsonOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow ENFP, I’m super excited for this one!
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Cant wait for you to see it!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️
@CJShopland_Art
@CJShopland_Art 3 жыл бұрын
Another ENFP here ☺️
@EpicKate
@EpicKate 3 жыл бұрын
Me toooooo!!!
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 3 жыл бұрын
Me tooooooooo
@EpicKate
@EpicKate 3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello So many kindred spirits in one place! Ahhhh! My lonely extraverted side is planning a party.
@url795
@url795 3 жыл бұрын
you do this style of video so well! well doneeee :)
@lisar252
@lisar252 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENFP and this video literally describes me to a tee! I listen to my inner calling and gut feeling a lot (aka my intuition) and even if people are against it or don’t understand it, I do it anyway. I did end up losing a lot of people this way but I’d rather be authentic and stay true to myself than put up a fake front 🤷🏻‍♀️
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I get you!
@itsgabibelle
@itsgabibelle 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTP, I wonder how this permeates through my content!
@abbycarvermusic
@abbycarvermusic 3 жыл бұрын
i don't watch bestdressed but analysis videos always pop up about her and this is the best one I've seen
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺🙏 so glad you enjoyed!
@esto11213
@esto11213 3 жыл бұрын
Genuinely thought this was gonna be a hate video bashing her, but this was a complete 360. Great video man!
@Sunny99926
@Sunny99926 3 жыл бұрын
Did I just... Learn about myself? Bless you sir.
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01
@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 3 жыл бұрын
hi sunshine!
@Sunny99926
@Sunny99926 3 жыл бұрын
@@jellyfishcorpseschannel01 oh! Hello Jellyfish! 🤓
@MoPoppins
@MoPoppins 3 жыл бұрын
Eric, I love your commentary and analysis! Another win from the KZfaq algorithm! New subbie. :)
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here!!
@nayaprabowo9951
@nayaprabowo9951 3 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS IS SO RELATABLE I FEEL SO APPRECIATED! *happy noises* Like seriously when you started showing that Baby Driver clip I just felt it and start dancing with no music at all, just me singing with no voice. Also the pressure part!! It's so funny because I would enjoy doing something so much, but then I got pressured to do it and I just lost all the hype. What's worse is when someone is telling you to do something you don't. When I lose and actually have to do the pressure, I would make sure I get my part and make a scene. I will cry hard, or shut everyone off, and yes, yes, I will do as you say but best believe it wont be an enjoyable experience for both of us!! It's kinda unhealthy because honetly the amount of times I imagine a scenarik of me literally facing death because my teacher pressure me to enter a competition or something. I feel like whenever I have a conversation with someone, I make it like I'm an interview. I can speak about myself over and over, talking about multiple aspects of myself in multiple different ways. It makes me insecure because I feel so self-centered but I genuinely dont know if I'm talking the right amount, if I'm staying on topic (because I often pick up other random connections as I'm talking) and it ended up taking so much time. But now that I'm learning typology and cognitive functions I feel so self-conscious and self aware and I catch myself analayzing my personality aspects everytime I talk. It feels so creepy because I feel like I'm looking at myself outside in, like I'm being a parody of myself or something. It's also hard to pay attention to what people are saying because I would pick other connections about them?? Guessing their cognitibe function rather than what they have to say?? Relating what they say to what I feel, what I've experienced, and how I would feel if I'm in their shoes?? Like I get it it's my way of emphatizing but it feels like I'm making everything about myself. It doesn't even take another person to make me feel like I'm in an interview. I can be alone by myself, whether it's at the middle of the day or when I'm just about to go to sleep, and I will talk to myself for a long time. Reflecting my values, my opinions on certain subjects, etc. Sometimes I even bounce up and down, move my body for no reason because I simply feel so... happy? Like so so happy I feel I can explode. Edit: I-- this is long, but not surprising. Sorry ;-;
@jessjessjess222
@jessjessjess222 3 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel and I’m????? Obsessed???????? Gonna go binge the rest of your channel lol.
@chaithalirai3357
@chaithalirai3357 3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO MEE!!!!!! NO WONDER I LOVE HER!!! 😭❤️
@CJShopland_Art
@CJShopland_Art 3 жыл бұрын
Be interesting to see review same types. So in this case other KZfaqr who are also Enfp and differences in how they present. I’m on a journey of being more myself, those sides I have moments of but didn’t know if to show on KZfaq, all the sides as you mentioned here I was like “that’s me! I struggle to be one thing for business/showing art publicly purposes “ . There were things here I didn’t realise were an Enfp thing but that I resonate greatly and something I do ☺️
@CallumWithall
@CallumWithall 3 жыл бұрын
Woahhhh, I have binge watched some of your videos from Cody Wanner's tweet earlier Firstly, you're so cool! And so smart, and your content is so different and awesome! Secondly, everything you broke down of her is strangely like myself and I've always struggled to explain it
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@oliwia7747
@oliwia7747 3 жыл бұрын
okay but this helped so much with determining for sure whether im ENTP or ENFP
@avolovo
@avolovo 3 жыл бұрын
ISTJ here, I’ve never understood FP and you did a great job explaining it! I loved Ashly’s videos and I’ve always been drawn to her personality and authenticity.
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad Karen! Did you know that ISTJ's actually use a little introverted feeling too! But it's a little clumsier and defensive sometimes for ISTJ's than how Ashley likes to use her feelings/personal identity to guide her! You guys have an emotional individualist side too :) whether or not it's fun to admit haha
@avolovo
@avolovo 3 жыл бұрын
@@EricWen Haha yeah I can personally agree how my feelings are clumsier (not sure about defensive?) because while I've gotten better at expressing my feelings, I tend to forget/not talk about all of my feelings mainly due to (1) fear of judgement and (2) I tend to value objective thoughts more since they are often not easy to argue against or disagree with. I'm also glad to hear ISTJs have an emotional individualist side because I use my emotions too to decide if what I'm doing is right for me, as well as the logic and practicality behind my choices (how it affects me, others, etc. . I would LOVE to see a video talking about ISTJs - I've tried to look for one in your channel but had no luck.
@piach.6936
@piach.6936 Жыл бұрын
as an INFP this felt so much like me!! I aspire to be even more authentic :) loved the video!
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 3 жыл бұрын
I CANT WAIT
@yuuh8341
@yuuh8341 3 жыл бұрын
For what 😐
@BeautyBeatdown
@BeautyBeatdown 3 жыл бұрын
It's amazing because this video feels like you're talking about me.
@benlafave5789
@benlafave5789 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP I can say a lot of this is pretty damn accurate. Eric you should look at a couples vlog channel next like Ryan & Haley (traphamily) or Jess & Gabriel?
@EricWen
@EricWen 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting ideas! Thanks :) Thanks for being here!
@louera
@louera 3 жыл бұрын
And people hate her so much exactly because she's so unapologetically expressive, meanwhile the rest of the world is mostly suppressed:( They want her to be as suppressed as them, but she shan't be tamed!
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