It is so obvious when someone has truly lived the hell of a narc. There are more of us than I imagined. I wish peace, love, and light to all who have suffered so.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏💯🙌💪💯
@jenniferyates8100 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew, I am learning so much about this personality disorder. 🕊️🕊️🙏🙏
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
theres a ton of us all over the world, its just that most of us dont label our exes as narcs, we got other names for them tho LOL 😂
@intallpines Жыл бұрын
@@MrSamadolfo I hear ya!
@Beholder777 Жыл бұрын
So many of us! I had no idea. What a fellowship
@MaggieMayFlower Жыл бұрын
I blocked him, I moved out of the state. He has no avenue to find me. I’m stronger every day. By the Grace of God. Thank you, Andrew. ❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯🙌💪🙏
@valeriebrown7946 Жыл бұрын
Good for you. Same here.
@MaggieMayFlower Жыл бұрын
@@valeriebrown7946 stay strong. ❤️
@DonaHelms Жыл бұрын
Silence is the best answer to someone who doesn't value your words. God bless ya Andrew and the family here. 👃✝️😀
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
So true!🙏💯💪
@valeriebrown7946 Жыл бұрын
Blocking and going no contact is so extremely important. Doing so gave me so much power and I can freely answer my phone, check text messages and emails without the narc ex knowing how to contact me. I changed my number, blocked email and I'm not on social media. We live in separate towns, so I never have to worry about the manipulator stalking me or just showing up. Oh, did I mention that I have a new job and the narc doesn't know where I work? Some people may think it's extreme, but I have all the room and a safe space to heal. No yo-yoing or going back and forth. Thank God I had nothing connecting myself to him )no kids, house, bills, pets, etc.)!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌💪
@shannonsmith5419 Жыл бұрын
Same here 💜❤️💜❤️
@jennyjose8440 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏 life really becomes peaceful after blocking the Narc😃
@hhsg11 Жыл бұрын
Good for you. Perfect. 👍
@detjaggillar8081 Жыл бұрын
@valeriebrown7946 It's NOT Extreme at all. In my opinion it's just a VERY good protection of Your self and You'r New life and I understand all the things You have done to live a good and peaceful life. I was about 12 years in at very toxic relationship with a covert narc (and also sex- and drugaddicted one too and he is still that!) so I've done NC, blocked him in any ways (phone, mail, social media etc) and of course his enablers and Flying Monkeys as I possible are aware of - even the New ones. I'm living 1 swedish miles outside our common City (he in the center of the town - me out in the country) but he is still trying to reach me even if it's about 2 year and 3 month ago I left and discarded him. So I understand You completely of stopping Your "nex" to reach You in any possible way's I am unemployed for the moment and since a couple of years back and I have lost a lot "friends" (enablers and Flying Monkeys connected to the narc) but I have still a lot of good and trustfully friends which the narc don't know anything about and vice versa. I'm am extremely aware and awake of who I am connecting to nowadays and don't tell any New friends or anybody of my time with the narc. I always checking those New people I get to knowing and their friends so there is NO connection between those: the narc and my New friends etc. I think that the less they know - the better for me! Maybe people should say about me that I am a little bit of too "nervous and crazy about this" but I don't think that cause I'ts about MY New Life in Peace and Harmony and I do NOT let him to know anything about my life anymore or my New friends etc to let him to destroy and make chaos of it! NO WAY - NEVER EVER AGAIN! Take care of You and have a New good life 👊💥
@chazbickel4518 Жыл бұрын
Blocking and going no contact are the only options that really work. Great video Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!💯🙌💪
@pamlangley4696 Жыл бұрын
My hope is that everyone dealing with a narcissist can block and go no contact ASAP.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💪💪💯💯
@MrBassem95 Жыл бұрын
I’m just gonna say this, when I blocked my narc ex of 7 years I IMMEDIATELY felt better. Blocking them is you taking your power back. I’ll say it’s like this, when you don’t block them you are constantly waiting for them to reach out to you because you loved them and want that love reciprocated. When you block them you remove the guess work. Now you’re not being talked to because it’s done on your terms.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙏💪🙌
@kendraheard8240 Жыл бұрын
Amen...the most victorious feeling ever 🥰
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping my mind focused on my right to live without fixing hy husband's bad behavior.
@misskathleen490 Жыл бұрын
Can you not leave? Divorce happens...
@melliecrann-gaoth4789 Жыл бұрын
@@misskathleen490 sometimes it’s a process that you need get them out of your head first. You can be brain washed and guilted. It’s a know cycle done in abuse.
@lindaguy1808 Жыл бұрын
Deleting Facebook for good really has helped in my healing. I'll never go back to it. It is a narc playground as I had 3 stalkers and narc family members that I don't care to see. Thank you for a great reminder to go no contact or block Andrew! 👍
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙌🙏💪💯
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
👍
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@rhrdskns Жыл бұрын
My narc ex best friend loved fb, congratulating every moving thing on there and talking so much shit about them behind their back's, it's so funny to me now that I know what is going on, they fish for attention like a starved person.
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
Yes, they want to know everything you buy everywhere you go. They keep tabs on you.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌💯
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
This is like in Hitchcock movies. Scary.
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
Yes, the narc keeps tabs on everyone he knows. Just disgusting. Stay safe❤
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
Yes, the more information they have on you, the more they can weaponize it against you
@pinkkittyize Жыл бұрын
Blocking, no contact is the only way.. I didn't understand this for a very long time, I thought I could handle contact. I was very, very wrong and wasted a lot of time and emotional pain. Cut them right out. Give them nothing, they will never change, ever! Take back the power, time and peace of mind, it is the only way to move forward, you owe them nothing..Good luck everyone 🙂
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
correct, this is the way its been since the beginning, all of them are to be exiled and excommunicado forevermore, Give Them No Quarter! away with them! 😂
@crybabyslittletears Жыл бұрын
Blocking him gave me so much relief and it makes me feel in power. I used to have the habit to check up on my ex but now I feel no need to check. I'm very grateful that I'm not the only one going through this. I hope everyone here heals and finds happiness in 2023 💕 we all deserve better.
@ultimateoptimist5217 Жыл бұрын
Delete and block are the two best buttons invented on our phones... one click and boom you can eliminate the narc....
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
Depends on how messed up your ex is, whats might happen to you is your going to be sucked into a game of cat and mouse, in a game of Wack o Mole, block here, block there, if u see that then u need to escalate your No Contact to total Ghost, sign up for a witness protection program, change ur name, dont have any number or addresses, keep relocating, go go go 😂
@luizsalles1985 Жыл бұрын
Exactly that Andrew, once again you hit the right spot. Narcissists don't care what you want or need, they come around to suck and play the eternal game. So if you don't report anything about your life they lose all weapons to play and you win. And the best victory is being away from them. You recover the colors of your life….because if you let them, they make you a ghost, lost in the world.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯😉💯🙌
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
So true
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
❤
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
Yes very good points thank you, we dont really mention it but the truly dangerous narcs is the State, for example in divorce court or child support court or family custody court you are forced to report what you have and what you make everytime ur in court, and they keep making you come back to court over n over again, breaking you down and sucking u dry, and if you don't cooporate u go to jail, its crazy broh!
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
All my feelings aside I realize my life has past me by trying to please this husband. And nothing I did was ever good enough for him. I have been free since 10/31/2022. I can never go back to that prison.
@lrx54 Жыл бұрын
I felt like a bird flying out of a cage 🤗 It was a joyful joyful feeling.
@MariaSilva-ix1qc Жыл бұрын
@@lrx54 I am out of the cage, but unfortunately my son is still in it. I hope one day he took can escape
@paulakelley6007 Жыл бұрын
Our dates of freedom/release our close! I often refer to the past Narc as “you remember, when I was in prison & being brainwashed!?!” NC is the only way. As a human moving out of this - you’ll accidentally slip in what you consider normal conversation. SNAP. They use it against you. I told mine I couldn’t meet him at a certain time due to my grandchild who was suddenly ill. He went all kinds of crazy contacting EVERY family member even though he was an admitted pedophile. Took me weeks to calm that $#!% down. No contact. All the way. 🙏🏼💪🙏🏼 Namaste
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
@@paulakelley6007 yikes!
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's time to let go of the past and embrace a new future!
@roslyncerro1263 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Andrew, for addressing newbies to the tribe.. Those of us who have children need to strategize very thoroughly. I, myself, am out nearly 14 years. Even now, sometimes, not as often, thank God, need to hear about their father, my Nex. Tribe, wherever you are on your exit strategy, take it one day at a time. Some days are far better than others. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome🙌💯🙏💪
@michelledanelle Жыл бұрын
it's very difficult when you share a child yes. My heart goes out to those who have minor children especially.
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
I am almost free selling the home we bought together.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯💪
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
💞💞💞💞👍👍
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
The Day my Daughter told me she wants to see me consistently Happy and that she is 36 years old it's not my job to protect her from the man she calls Dad. And that she is completely ok if he walks out of her life completely.
@mspheeincali7418 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I have been struggling with this for over a year. Today not 20 minutes ago I found peace in the anger and decision to fight. Shutting down the freeze will be extremely difficult but I realized I can’t protect my adult daughter from what was done to us. She needs the information to make sense of her experiences and to get the right type of help for her to heal.
@jamesl2846 Жыл бұрын
One thing I've found with the no contact is that the narcissist thinks that you're playing a game with them. They can still be lurking around years and years later waiting for you to drop your guard. Everything is a game to them & you can't win because they make up the rules as they go along.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯💯
@joshuaanzalone2060 Жыл бұрын
James I'll never drop my guard but 3 years strong of stalking and constant harassment 24/7. I'm never going to break no contact. They think I'm playing and this isn't a game. The game is over.
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand. And you would drop your guard after a few years? Why??? With me, when it's over, it's over forever.
@nrosa4051 Жыл бұрын
Yes two years later still Hoovers g and sending flying monkeys over … wth is wrong with these people !!!! Dies not even live in my town …..
@nrosa4051 Жыл бұрын
Does not …live in my town
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
I am a big supporter of blocking and no contact, even if it was about family. We don't have many other options left if we want to have our inner peace. An excellent reminder from you for those who are still thinking. You said it all .
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙌🙏💪💯
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
Yea truth 👍👍👍💞
@sll110 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Yes
@mysteriousone5649 Жыл бұрын
Hi Andrew! Narcissists are like black shadows that survive on our pain. I totally agree with you: Block and no contact. It’s the best way to protect ourselves. Have a great evening.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Exactly 😉💯🙏🙏💯😊
@dianalilley4910 Жыл бұрын
You are so right Andrew when you say a person must do what they feel comfortable with doing ie blocking or going no contact Not answering messages received from the narcissist gives out a clear signal that you're done!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💯🙌🙏💪
@malibu90265 Жыл бұрын
No contact was the only choice for me. It was instinct and self preservation. ☀
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙏🙏💪
@malibu90265 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😘
@carlosgiron1246 Жыл бұрын
Good video Andrew. Well after being discarded, I went no contact I also changed jobs and moved . I was really in a bad place after the discard I was lost and really hurt. I know that the narcissist never loved me and I know that it was all a lie. But going no contact was the hardest thing I've ever had to do . So I've been no contact going on 9 months and it hasn't been easy . I avoid looking at his social media and I really get tempted sometimes, but it will only hurt me more. Knowing what to do is simple enough, actually doing it is very difficult but I'm doing it . Thanks everyone and thank you Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯🙌🙏💪
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
Carlos that's great keep strong 💞💞
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
You deserve better!
@carlosgiron1246 Жыл бұрын
@@emilywilson7308 Thank you
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
You can do this! Your life is here and now, not in the past. Look forward, your future is waiting
@SusanW-lc8rp Жыл бұрын
changed my number, it felt really powerful to send that message without saying a word! It's so incredible to start healing from this abuse. It's like springtime for the soul when everything starts to come back to life.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙏🙌💪
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
Susan that's very true,.💞💞💡
@boneylizette Жыл бұрын
This is exactly where I am right now - I know what I need to do, but have not been able to execute. If I’m honest, it’s because that would cause me to fully admit the truth that I was discarded like trash and it is fully over.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌💯
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that really does hurt. But there is a better place ahead. Keep moving forward. You are very valuable and not trash. It's their loss. And you are now wiser and smarter than before this situation. Set Healthy boundaries for your path ahead.
@deb2319 Жыл бұрын
Move forward with Integrity & Block Them. And Enjoy Nature and Get Together With Friends or Family, Choose liberation. Peace.
@davidcoppotelli3957 Жыл бұрын
Liz, If you know what's going on and it isn't good for you and your well being. SHUT IT DOWN And leave that person behind and stay focused on you and only you. Its there LOSS Don't let someone treat you like Crap and then just let them dismiss You. Your very pretty face tells me you are a lot Smarter then, Go No Contact Go Silent take care of you because they are not going to change. Don't waste your life. DAVID.
@malibu90265 Жыл бұрын
You have admitted the truth in your post. Start the New Year off by focusing on regaining your life's enjoyment. Wishing you the best.
@_Louise__ Жыл бұрын
I blocked my sister today after she sent a post holiday hoover message. A huge step forward for me. Thank you Andrew 🥰🙏
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
💪🤗💖🙌
@hollylorn131 Жыл бұрын
I'm very proud of you Louise for blocking your sister today! You are creating a better quality of life for yourself and being a fine example of someone who sets healthy boundaries for your son! A tremendous growth step! 🙏 ❤️ 🌱
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome💪🙌💯💪
@mariefrancebourget1749 Жыл бұрын
Good for you Louise i am proud of you. 😊 it is not easy to do i had to do it too with my mother, brother and ex husband. But i am happy i did it. Have a great evening. 🙌💖
@_Louise__ Жыл бұрын
Thank you all so much for your amazing ongoing support 🥰💞 And I certainly am Holly. Have had hugely reduced contact since an incident where she had a huge, out of the blue, swearing, rage fit in my son's bedroom when he was young. Not unusual for her to do when in private, but doing that in front of my son was a different ballgame entirely. Feels good, but equally sad, to have taken that final step 💞🙏
@jeremyhernandez3445 Жыл бұрын
you are right blocking them does works and thank you...
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
yes its funny how we forget to do the basics when a relationship ends, too many of us are stuck and lingering around LOL 😊
@alonzomosley7 Жыл бұрын
This controlling aspect does my head .I am treated like a doormat ,the narc controls all phone calls and dictates the conversation .Just loves talking about herself and then abruptly says she must going .I have decided no contact.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏💪💯
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
Yes very classic manipulation tactics, its not ur fault, pushing and pulling you, breaking u down and turning you into a good obedient Pavlovs Dog, and its not going to get better, its never going to get better, just pick yourself up and walk away, and dont look back, I feel sorry for the next dude in line for his turn but theres nothing we can do to really stop them from hurting others. Be grateful u woke up. Godspeed.
@laurenceb3515 Жыл бұрын
My narcissist just recontact me for christmas... He wants to recontact! I blocked him, then he went on telegram, I blocked him as well on telegram... I will never talk to him ever again!!! He said to everyone that I was a narcissist, that I broke him, ... and now h's recontacting me, that is so funny! If someone destroyed me I would never reach to that person again... Funny thing also, is that he blocked me when he cheated on me, and now I'm the one blocking him :)) I'm very happy without him and I will never go back to him, NEVER!!!! thank you so much for your video :) it's been very helpful to recover
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
Congratulations, you were tested and passed your Holiday Hoover, u have leveled up 😏👍
@marybarton5651 Жыл бұрын
I'm finally able to block, and to say NO. I am going no contact and gray rock in every area that I can. It hasn't been easy, but it is getting easier to do. I do not like playing games with people...there's too much drama involved. I am putting myself first, and trying to be more positive about everything I think and do. It's 5:24 p.m. here in Missouri and the curtain has come down upon this rural town. All is quiet, except for the occasional auro upon the main highways and nearby street. My son has arrived and I am having a nice meal with him. Peaceful night.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏💪
@marybarton5651 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you are welcome 😊 🙏
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
You are moving in a positive direction. So happy for you!
@marybarton5651 Жыл бұрын
@@emilywilson7308 thank you. I am working toward it every day, positive vibes, positive thoughts, positive attitude, positive self-esteem, etc. 🙏✌❤🤓😎
@maha_sage Жыл бұрын
I am a young person and I've gone permanent lifelong NC with an ex narc who was also a friend. Now he shall never be my friend for all my life. I'm satisfied.
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
It's really sad my Daughter sees him for his complete narcissist self.
@pattyrooney1323 Жыл бұрын
You are right Andrew. After I went no contact. I threw all of their birthday cards + letters straight in the Trash! Do not even open one. Thank you for helping me take back my power.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯😉💪
@mostHigh23 Жыл бұрын
I told him things in private that I thought that a spouse was supposed to listen to and be an empathetic ear. But he used it all against me in a bad way. Thankfully I didn't tell him everything.
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
This is what they do. I wasn’t married to the narc, however, I am thankful I didn’t share everything too. Stay well.
@xxxtenations23 Жыл бұрын
When you repeat block and move on it's so helpful it helps me not think any more 😜
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏💯
@annamariehewitt3173 Жыл бұрын
It is the only path because anything less is an insult to your Wounded Spirit....
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙌🙏💪
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
I’m a full believer in no contact and blocking after doing it there was less anxiety when checking the phone and peace. We all deserve peace. Bless you Andrew ❤️🙏
@mariefrancebourget1749 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that Chelsea 🙏💯💖
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
@@mariefrancebourget1749 💖
@hollylorn131 Жыл бұрын
Amen Chelsea ❤️ 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏💯🙌💪
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
@@hollylorn131 ❤️
@jamieclouthier5420 Жыл бұрын
Your such a great person Andrew. I feel so blessed to hear your daily advice. Amazing sir
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!💯🙏💪😊
@ao6685 Жыл бұрын
Repeat after me BLOCK and DELETE....made it my mantra lol 🤗
@SweepDailyWin Жыл бұрын
NOT first, second or third 🤣on arriving at tonight's video...but in my life! Yes! I COME FIRST, SECOND AND THIRD! Healing, comforting energy for you Andrew and everyone in the chat!🌻🌿🌱
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏💪🙌💯😊
@joshuaanzalone2060 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew my no contact will never break.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💪🙌💯
@karenseeleylyon4471 Жыл бұрын
So true Andy that’s why I’m on my own. I have only one love and that’s my dogs because of their loyalty all day every day. Sending ❤ from England 🙏🙏🇬🇧🇬🇧 Thank you 😊 Xx
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
Blocking, NC, got my life back. It had to be done for my own sanity. They enjoy destroying. TY Andrew✌🏼💕
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯🙏🙌💪
@mariageaney2362 Жыл бұрын
🌠🙏🕊️💖🕊️💖🕊️💖🕊️💖🕊️ This is to remind and instill into everyone who needs to hear it. That new year is coming and do not drop your guard, do not accept the hoover. Don't fall pray to " the lonlyness" campaign that the flying monkeys will weild. Every day that we survive and grow is our own unique " new year "!!! Keep strong, keep pushing, keep making tracks!! You have got this!! Do not let go of what you have built, what has taken so long to acquire!! Hold onto your knowledge it IS a matter of life or death. A set back by accepting the hoover is not what we want. This time of year is crucial, crucial that we do not give way, we do not give power back to the arragant selfish narc!! 🙏💖🕊️🦊🔥🕷️🐕🐕🎄❄️🌲☃️🦅☄️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏💪
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
👍❤️
@mell250 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely Andrew. It is IMPERATIVE to your healing
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😉💪💪😊
@DaughterOfTheKing- Жыл бұрын
I deleted my social media after I finally left him. And blocking and NC ever since. It was hard at first. I unblocked to see if he unblocked me... which he never did. It takes time. But determined to stay NC forever. He is a very sick man who totally distroyed me. Not anymore! Feel so much peace now. Stay strong beautiful people!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯🙏💪
@robinsnow7779 Жыл бұрын
❤
@pjpammyj4037 Жыл бұрын
That's what's happening to me presently.
@DaughterOfTheKing- Жыл бұрын
@@pjpammyj4037 stay strong! We deserve so much better!
@davidyardley512 Жыл бұрын
If you share children with the narcissist no contact is not possible. Limited contact and grey rock is though, and it is essential to preserve your sanity.
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
we dont really talk about it on utube because its taboo but some of us what we are doing is walking away from the kids as well, kinda like the song Papa was a Rolin Stone, just pay ur child support and go Ghost. You probably dont know this but alot of biological fathers are getting deleted by their baby mama or by their new dude The Enforcer or what they call here the new supply, be careful if ur coparenting, every hand off you do could be your last.
@coral8313 Жыл бұрын
Best thing I’ve ever done block , delete removed from Facebook this is not easy I was ready for new change’s. I had to be 3 steps ahead in the divorce 5 years in court he dragged it out
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯💪
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
5 years in court, wow, sounds very expensive, lawyers love to drag it out, they get paid by the hour, and thats just one case, imagine how much they are making in a year with all the cases they thet get
@hollylorn131 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Andrew, for this video about going no contact with the narc after leaving the narc. If you have kids with the narc, you can gray rock or minimize communication/contact with the ex narc to exert control over your life and who you let into your life. Wishing everyone peace today! Namaste. 🙏 ❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙌🙏😊
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙌
@hollylorn131 Жыл бұрын
@@gratefultobehere ❤️ 🙏
@jandadoly844 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much . I am able to block and go no contact. I am grateful for that. I realize that I need to still stay on guard and tighten my defenses because this person is extremely toxic will always try to be in touch. It worries me. I need to stop worrying.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome..🙌🙏💪
@thrivingnow7395 Жыл бұрын
Well said Andrew. I didn't know what narcissism was two years ago when I made my escape. I was wracked with guilt when I blocked him on everything. It was incredibly difficult to do, especially as I didn't know it was a "thing" that should be done with narcs. Now, after getting educated on it, I know I did the right thing. He was so malignant that he could twist everything and leave me doubting my own sanity. Blocking and no contact is the best route to healing. Don't let the demon in anywhere in your life, including through so-called mutual friends (flying monkeys).
@rayrayace Жыл бұрын
He's still living in another room in the house. It's so sad.
@unelectedleader6494 Жыл бұрын
The narcissist abuser feeds off your pain. They’ll cause you pain, and then feed on it much the way a tiger simply needs to rip the entrails out first in order to eat them.
@PkmnMasterHolly Жыл бұрын
ANDREW YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!! 🙏❤️💯🔥💖✨️🥰
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😊😊
@cavedancesinc.6775 Жыл бұрын
You’re right on the money. I was living in a different state than my ex but had to return home due to financial issues. I was staying with my dad who unfortunately passed away two weeks after I arrived home. My narcissist ex didn’t attend the funeral but she started offering to help with a few things. I foolishly accepted the aid. She then stated that her mom kicked her out and she needed a place to stay. I said she could stay with me and she went out and bought a bed and settled in. She bought some materials to fix up the room she wanted us to stay in, my fathers room, and helped clean it for a couple hours. She then went to work and insisted I finish repainting, fixing things, etc. There were about two good days despite there being no intimacy between us. Then she started tearing me down. The house was horrible, my father an idiot, my step mom atrocious, she hated the room we were staying in, and even my dog. The pettiness of how she picked a strand of dog hair from her clothing and proclaimed it was ruining her life was shocking, even though I knew what to expect. Watching your videos and a few others, I learned what to look for and every minute with her after the initial shock wore off became anxiety filled and generally upset me. I called her out for wanting me to get arid of my dog, the same dog that would sleep on my legs at night to keep me warm. The dog that kept my father warm for four years after his gf had passed and left her dog to him. I felt more joy playing with the dog and taking care of her than I did being with the narcissist ex. The final straw was a series of things she said that I knew were an attempt to stir jealousy and control me emotionally, followed by her asking me for gas money for her driving me to the blood bank because trying to raise funds to pay for probate. I spent seven hours helping her doordash and didn’t ask for anything but she still demanded the 20$ of my blood money. I told her I’ll give it to her but not to ask me for anything else ever again. She dropped me at home after I paid the 20$. She then came back to sleep that night and I preemptively moved my stuff back to my original room. Haven’t heard or seen her since but her stuff is still here. I have other friends who’ve helped me since I got home and they don’t ask for anything in return. It’s not about what they can get from me but what they can do to ease my burden. Yea she brought food into the house and a bed, but that was for her benefit as well. Nothing with a narcissist comes without strings attached. It’s appalling that I offered her a free room and she wanted my blood money. Like her needs were beyond my own and mine not worth her time without compensation. I’ll let her get her things but am so incredibly done with the stress of this person it sickens me.
@deborahkalavrezou2385 Жыл бұрын
Once you block and go no contact, your self worth starts to restore and you look back and say, hey what the hell was I doing with such a selfish person in the first place and you are never the same to be a fool again. It really is a blessing to completely cut them out.
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
❤yes
@deborahkalavrezou2385 Жыл бұрын
@@maried7776 Thank you and God bless
@tararichards1433 Жыл бұрын
A timely video for me! Thanks so much.
@wendytaylor1486 Жыл бұрын
You have to cut them off completely,you know when you have been devalued and it will never change,they drain you with not a word of gratitude.
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder Andrew. I was in a 9 year relationship with a narcissist. When the end came, it was so difficult to get rid of him but he did eventually leave after a restraining order and realizing he wasn’t going to get anything else out of me. In the end it was like the Titanic sinking and I was fighting for my life. Five years later I was in a two year relationship with the father of my one and only child. I didn’t know what narcissism was but I saw all the red flags of the previous relationship and got out quick(2 years). He would constantly accuse me of cheating on him, check my phone, question everything I did, he was always devaluing me. He had rage fits, sometimes I wondered if I could get out alive. Walking on eggshells all the time, wondering when I would be accused of something terrible again. I had a child and 12 months later, I finally jumped in my truck with the baby, no shoes, no purse, no nothing. It was the only way to leave without tipping him off. He was right behind me before I could make it to the highway and chased me for miles. My sister put me up in a hotel for days so he couldn’t find me. Anyway, long story short, that was 15 years ago and the only way to deal with him was grey rock. It works, they want to argue and get information. So, after all these years, he can’t break through my grey rock technique. It is powerful and then they will look elsewhere for supply. Sorry for rambling 😊
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
Anne, good for you your grey rock technique worked. Hope all is well for you currently.
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
@@maried7776 Thank you and yes, life is great! All the best to you 😊
@taffylove6193 Жыл бұрын
❤Thank you Andrew! Done! Painfully!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯🙏💪
@Tenzin62 Жыл бұрын
I’ve posted this on another narc site. Yesterday at 3pm in the afternoon my narc showed up on my doorstep after three years. Three years no contact, totally blocked, on social media, by telephone, no mutual friends and I stopped shopping in places she uses. This was my ex friend who sucked the life out of me. She bullied me, put me down, she borrowed money never repaid. She used to call me four to twenty times a day. If I didn’t answer a text message she would show up at the house. She was always on the borrow, money for gas, cigarettes, a bull she was in trouble with, groceries. Her kids ate at my house at least four times a week. She bled me for literally thousands and I was on welfare. Yesterday she showed up on the RING doorbell system. My daughter answered her. And told her I didn’t want to speak to her. He bust out laughing like it was a joke. And she walked away. This is THREE YEARS. Why did she choose this time? I was thinking it was maybe money, because she knows my family usually give me a cheque at Christmas instead of a gift. So maybe she wanted some of that?
@floxendoodle942 Жыл бұрын
Went no contact with my narc mother 11 weeks ago. No more giving her my time, energy, empathy, resources, etc. just so she can shame and devalue me whenever she feels like it. I’m in my late fifties and want to live the rest of my life free and clear of her toxic bs. ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯💪💪🙏
@shwetajoon6409Ай бұрын
Blocking and no contact is the only path forward freeing yourself of that insane toxicity!!! Thanks Andrew for reminding us.
@mariefrancebourget1749 Жыл бұрын
Right on target Andrew, thank you for the friendly reminder. Have a great evening. 😘💯❤🙌
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome🙌🙏💯💪
@rwdchannel2901 Жыл бұрын
Using grey rock method and going no contact is about self defense. I've see so many times on the internet people struggling with the idea of forgiveness. It's not about forgiveness. This is about self defense. If you walk into a coffee shop and you see the barista spit in your coffee you can forgive them, but out of self defense you're not going back there again. In the same way you must deal with the narcissist if you want to protect yourself. I know sometimes it's lonely, but it's better to be lonely and have peace than be in the company of a narcissist and not have peace.
@archiehendricks6093 Жыл бұрын
I am going to take an actual picture of a giant grey rock, and when they text ask whats up, send pic of grey rock. 😂
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🪨🙌💯
@warriormom5843 Жыл бұрын
I blocked my MIL over a week ago, and talk about FREEING!! Can I get an AMEN, people??? I also just returned from a beautiful area and piled up real estate brochures! Like I said 2023 if MY YEAR, darn it!! 🌟🌟💫💫🎉🎉
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Amen 💯🙌🙏💪💪
@margaretrussell7202 Жыл бұрын
Amen......wishing you all the Very Best for 2023......Yes it’s going to be your Year🤗🤗🤗
@warriormom5843 Жыл бұрын
@@margaretrussell7202 thank you Margaret! Wishing you a wonderful new year as well! 😇🙏🏼🎉
@veronicarecupero6889 Жыл бұрын
I’ve blocked and gone no contact for 3 months now, and I feel so much happier around people. It’s unfortunate this particular person (Narc) still attends the gym I work at. I haven’t seen him in 3 months. I hope he’s left my gym. I will not give him any form of attention not even eye contact if he reappears. Thank you Andrew for this reminder🙏❤️
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@veronicarecupero6889 Жыл бұрын
Keep staying strong.❤️🙏
@karenzilverberg4699 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Andrew! 🙏 🕯 🙏 I notice that when the only thing I had for narcissistic friends is strong boundaries and a caring and loyal friendship then they faded away. I found a different set of lessons in dealing with a narcissistic mate and DNA relatives. It has been a great blessing to receive this awareness and education.
@bran2836 Жыл бұрын
God bless you, Andrew
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏💯
@maha_sage Жыл бұрын
How the narc can even think of contacting without any remorse... It's like they don't even acknowledge the abuse! Would someone who stabbed another, suddenly arrive at their doorstep with presents??
@annewilliams5715 Жыл бұрын
Coming in for the kill!
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
Right...teflon😅
@margaretrussell7202 Жыл бұрын
Everything so bang on true again Andrew. I’ve never felt so well and confident since you have taught me regarding to go no contact with these narcissists......and there are a lot of them about....Best advice ever. Thank You Andrew and much love to you🙏😊🙌
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙏🙌💯💪
@terrestrial_rocket_ride_69 Жыл бұрын
When I blocked my ex narc hubby because of children's visitations I let it all go and passed the communication to the teenage children. I let control go. Had to be that way for the children. No arguments. I turned from him energetically. 🕊🕊🕊💫♥️
@MLAWX Жыл бұрын
The flying monkeys don’t realize the damage they help create sharing with the narc the most minimal information its unbelievable 🤯
@rturney6376 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 ❤😊 I needed to hear 👂 this today. I distanced myself from my sister. She doesn’t want to talk - communicate directly. She is part of the gossip ring. She gets all her information regarding me from other family members. Anyway, she wants to have dinner. It’s uncomfortable. I think 💭 I should decline.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯💯
@MrSamadolfo Жыл бұрын
usually they are unaware, they dont understand that they are being used too, hang in there
@johnmaurer2035 Жыл бұрын
If you stay, then understand that it's never gonna get any better. Get out, no matter what the cost.
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
That’s the truth.😊
@laurahennessy2893 Жыл бұрын
Andrew your a blessing to my Life.
@electriceye683 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou again Andrew, you help many people.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙌💯💪
@tootienottoofruitie1726 Жыл бұрын
No contact IS the only way.....then educate, improve upon your self, love your life and be happy 😊 thank you Andrew 💖
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 😌🙌🙏
@verabrieda2550 Жыл бұрын
Blocking and going no contact with a narc parent is horrible. You automatically become the ‘bad daughter’. Nobody will support or understand that choice, particularly other family members or friends who never experienced abuse. It is a tough decision to make. Many advise to reconnect and forget or forgive. Anyway I made up my mind and I am protecting myself and my daughter. I can’t stop my healing process and go back to toxic relationships. I hope everyone is making the good decision and heal ❤🙌
@elainesetford549 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew ❤ grey rock is the only option for me at present. When I’m finally not living under the same roof as the Narc.. blocking it shall be! Wishing you a great evening too 😁
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
I understand completely 💪🪨🙌💯
@elainesetford549 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙂🌷
@jennifernewton4637 Жыл бұрын
This was the HARDEST part for me, but I just had to DO it and NOT look back . Once I unfollowed/ blocked everyone I could find that was associated with them it was like an insurance policy that if I DID change my mind, there was no turning back. That worked for me, because THEN I had NO CHOICE BUT to move forward. It sped up the healing process TREMENDOUSLY! It’s kinda funny, because I heard you say to do this, Andrew, and I knew it was the best thing to do, but if anyone in my FAMILY had told me to do it, I probably WOULDN’T have. It was probably because by then I had heard your story and KNEW you were coming from a place of not wanting ANYONE to go through what YOU went through. And seeing the emotional pain you were going through, I knew you knew what you were talking about. You were just the right person to deliver the message in a way that I could relate to, and for that I am VERY grateful! Love you, handsome! 😘💋😍🥰🌹🤗☺️😚😉💞💗💖💘❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜 My friends, you all helped give me the confidence I needed to come out of this being a much BETTER, HAPPIER version of myself!!! #BestCommunityEVER ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜 Love y’all!!!
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful realization! So much strength and awareness! Jennifer, I'm so happy for you❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this empowering message of inspiration and encouragement..🙏🙌😊💪💯
@jennifernewton4637 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Emily and Andrew!!! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗 Love y’all… couldn’t have gotten this far without you!!!
@tapthevein2000 Жыл бұрын
Bless you! Best advice ever! VERY instrumental!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏💯
@glendajohnson9863 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew for your inspiring messages. It's been a year since the discard and after accepting two hoovers, the final one being 12/23, the scales fell from my eyes. The cycle is now complete and I am free. I finally blocked him. Not to hurt him but to protect me!!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙌💯💪💪💯
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
Andrew this video was such truth every sentence you said. No contact is the very best and blocking too. You are geting your life and control back ,it is best you will feel stronger , yes your boundries is noted by them it really drives home the message to them, that you are finished . completely...don't forget to block the flying monkeys too , wishing all the people love peace joy .and abundance in your new journey,stay strong and love your narc free life, it's so wonderful Freedom 💞💞💞💞💞💞👍👍💡💡
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💡💡🙏🙌💯💪
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew sorry for bothering you, but I listened to video from RICHARD GRANNON,,he talks about, Narcissist:how they . Artificially induce Love /obsession in the Target,the video is a year old ,l found it so educational,.it made so much sense ( all that madness we all went through) sorry if I disturbed your evening , keep well and keep warm ,💞💞👍👍👍
@izawaniek2568 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew. Everything you say is Spot on. We need to block them and go no contact. They steal our energy big time. God bless you❤
@amandajohnson-williams7718 Жыл бұрын
Happy Christmas and New Year Andrew, you have given me so much knowledge in my toolkit to combat the narcissist in 2022, your videos have been truly inspiring and empowering so I want to personally give you a huge thank you! These people are Hustlers and Swindlers in essence, of your emotions and assets. Going no contact and blocking is the only logical solution to their compulsive lies and sabotage of your life. We are all approaching New Year, an opportunity to wipe the slate clean and start afresh with a new toxic free chapter of our lives. Take that opportunity folks, rid yourself of the parasite and exploiter in your life. Make that decision and healthy choice to go free, no contact and finally end the abuse. Choose to love yourself xxx
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Beautiful empowering message 🙌🙏💪💯😊
@maried7776 Жыл бұрын
❤
@lionheartklaric3729 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew again. Another great video. I left the narc 6 months ago. Full no contact now and that's useful for my healing. I have another situation tho where I moved into a house and the landlady is super toxic. An energy vampire and very into conflict. Am looking for a new place to go to and she is on holiday so away for a week. I am so relieved. This situation is where grey rock may work. She doesn't do boundaries tho and doesn't respect my own when I set them up. Time to leave ASAP. Strange tho how we can leave a narcissist and expect plain sailing from.then on but toxic people do pop up don't they? She is disturbing my healing and insulation after the narcissist and that isn't acceptable. Bless you Andrew for being there and doing such amazing work
@pavanatanaya Жыл бұрын
Narcs shape shift to regain supply. I sent my most recent narc away by sending them a link to their amateur porn video...Funny thing, I havent heard a word
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯😉
@sandygoddard7478 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to my narc mother's house tomorrow ( grey rock of course) so I can see my two older sons for a belated Christmas visit. It's so strange waiting until I can have a full and healthy relationship with my son's, because that means my mother will have died. Sorry to be so blunt and morbid, but this is my reality. Thank you again, Andrew. Namaste.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Namaste 🙏🙌
@mostHigh23 Жыл бұрын
Mines is always asking my daughter about me because he cannot talk to me he cannot touch me. I just feel so bad for her
@queenlauralee47 Жыл бұрын
Andrew, thank you for this video! The narc will do anything to remain relevant in your life. There is no limit to how low they will go. No contact, block, and delete is the safest route to go!! No one is worth losing sleep over or losing your peace....🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@ChroniclesofAJ Жыл бұрын
It's the way to go
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙏🙌💪
@MacyLuv Жыл бұрын
The face you do and think about that for a minute is literally so powerful and actually does make me think about that. This journey is by far harder than any other on my lifetime and believe me when I say it's a lot. This is hard.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Continue to become educated and empowered 💪💯🙌😉
@marymedal8665 Жыл бұрын
All true!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌💯🙏
@SuperSurvivor4 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this channel. In the beginning, I thought I was alone because actually telling people about the situations sounded insane that I just kept to myself and became an extreme introvert. I am an introvert but now I interact with individuals(strangers) in a healthy manner, not like everyone is a flying monkey.
@emilywilson7308 Жыл бұрын
You sound like me!
@nikkired4925 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wise words. I appreciate you 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome💯🙏💪
@hhsg11 Жыл бұрын
Another great video Andrew ❤️. I blocked the narc the second I left the house keys on the table the day I moved out, 5 weeks today. There is No Contact either, I want nothing to do with him. He doesn’t know my new address, neither does any of the neighbours much as I was friends with them, they don’t even have my mobile number. 👍
@eduanolivier74623 ай бұрын
We love you too Abdrew - you save us a lifetime of pain and failure. Please keep on doing your great work.
@karenlacy8950 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew. Realize all of this. Blessings to you. Have a good evening. 🥰🕊🙏🌏💥