Why broken hearts hurt | Yoram Yovell | TEDxBeitBerlCollege

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When you lose someone you love, the pain you feel is as severe and real as any physical pain. The capacity to experience mental pain is hard-wired into our brains, but we are not powerless against it: Endorphins are our brain’s natural remedy for both physical and mental pain. Narcotic drugs alleviate pain by activating endorphin receptors but are harmful in chronic use.
Recent neuroscientific discoveries are guiding the development of drugs that may ease physical and mental pain like endorphins, while avoiding the dangers of narcotics. Best of all, when we reach out to comfort someone we love who is struggling with grief and loss, we actually cause their brain to release endorphins that help them endure and eventually overcome their pain.
Prof. Yovell is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist, TV presenter, author, and international keynote speaker. He is an Associate Professor of the Practice at the Department of Medical Neurobiology, The Hebrew University of Jerusalem. His areas of research include the neurobiology of emotions and mechanisms of physical and mental pain. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@cute_cookie7496
@cute_cookie7496 8 ай бұрын
Broken people attendance here ☝
@evenow
@evenow 8 ай бұрын
Here 🖐🏻
@CavariousTheCompletedTactician
@CavariousTheCompletedTactician 8 ай бұрын
it's hard , only time can dull the pain not heal (haven't heard the whole thing atm)
@cute_cookie7496
@cute_cookie7496 8 ай бұрын
@@CavariousTheCompletedTactician True time doesn't heal anything it just teaches us how to live with pain
@smoot2337
@smoot2337 8 ай бұрын
@@cute_cookie7496Time wounds all heals
@phoenixpersonified3484
@phoenixpersonified3484 8 ай бұрын
There should be at least a million people giving their attendance here, assuming they watch this video, but again, one needs courage to admit to themselves and to others that they are broken 🤔
@bethaniel841
@bethaniel841 8 ай бұрын
How proud his father must be - what an amazing legacy ❤ I was 13 when my mother died and the physical pain was indescribable. Time is a crazy, magical thing ❤
@visionsofablackherstorian
@visionsofablackherstorian 8 ай бұрын
I literally have a tattoo that says, "Love is Pain", because it was something I discovered after a Heartbreak. I finally feel validated.
@maypap13
@maypap13 8 ай бұрын
have you found new love since your heartbreak?
@visionsofablackherstorian
@visionsofablackherstorian 8 ай бұрын
@@maypap13 No
@maypap13
@maypap13 8 ай бұрын
@@visionsofablackherstorian I'm sorry to hear that
@billyjolly4855
@billyjolly4855 10 күн бұрын
Love is not pain, love is being loved for who you are. Your life has tried and people failed too you for who you were. And pain was, you were lessoned for it. Live is warm and loving and good feeling. Heartbreak and unrequited is what has happened. I'm very sorry for that had happened too you.
@abhiramtadi
@abhiramtadi 8 ай бұрын
Well we should be brave enough to love someone knowing that they might not be with us for the rest of our life, in the end we might think is it a fair sacrifice that we made for the time being with them.
@dragonfly9209
@dragonfly9209 8 ай бұрын
I agree. The pain of losing them is horrendous...but what we gained from having them in our lives helps us to find a measure of comfort. The love gained outweighs the pain--and wins in the end.
@sukhino4475
@sukhino4475 8 ай бұрын
True, I realised, my son recently passed away at 39,bachelor, all alone in US, ...he has taught me the purpose of life, meaning to live,when I suffered from severe wife abusing husband, and utterly selfish unlaws, who had turned him to be a parasite. My son at the age of 15, stood by me and my younger daughter to enable us to complete the career we were in. Even at this time of irreplaceable loss, my husband continue to wield threat,bullying....
@OcelotlAlma13
@OcelotlAlma13 8 ай бұрын
​@@sukhino4475I am so sorry for your loss 💚
@jcjs33
@jcjs33 8 ай бұрын
pain is the touchstone to growth...depression precedes growth and it is always 'lonely' on the growing edge...pain doesn't mean, necessarily, 'damage' but 'healing is going on' , 'repair' ... pain is simply a 'pointer' and varies with what is presented with each person...OMski
@wolfferoni
@wolfferoni 2 ай бұрын
I don't know if I necessarily agree. Depression does not always precede growth. There are many people who struggle with depression for life and who may go on to commit suicide.
@user-xj6kc4qz6s
@user-xj6kc4qz6s 8 ай бұрын
😢😢😢my mother died when I was 13 years old😢my mum was my hero 😢it hurts 😭
@lismabatubara3455
@lismabatubara3455 8 ай бұрын
I feel the same, while my husband died four years ago. But i believed God.
@maypap13
@maypap13 8 ай бұрын
Yoram Yovell is one of my favorites.
@dannyspromise
@dannyspromise 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely fabulous. Makes me wish I was a scientist. Thank you for this TED Talk. So sorry for the loss of your father at such a young age.
@subaschandran1951
@subaschandran1951 8 ай бұрын
By generating a thinking process during the day and hypnopedia during night we can generate endorphin within
@ignaciaforteza7731
@ignaciaforteza7731 8 ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you. Great informative video.
@mariacasado3350
@mariacasado3350 8 ай бұрын
Me gustaría traducción en Español
@ArslonQalqonov
@ArslonQalqonov 8 ай бұрын
This is spectacular story
@bukurie6861
@bukurie6861 8 ай бұрын
Thank you to hear and It happen in real life is phisical+mental pain and we feel sad that it is demage us🌏
@hend570
@hend570 8 ай бұрын
Incredible informations. Thank you for your hard work.
@sifarak.fathima792
@sifarak.fathima792 8 ай бұрын
This was very informative....your hardwork have paid off..Yoram Yuvell.....that's great!
@AlessandraAlonso
@AlessandraAlonso 8 ай бұрын
Out standing!
@psychismelucratif3234
@psychismelucratif3234 8 ай бұрын
This was insightful
@charliefern3568
@charliefern3568 2 ай бұрын
Summary: The knowing is worth the pain.
@prernagupta23
@prernagupta23 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 💝
@eatpant4ever
@eatpant4ever 8 ай бұрын
Very insightful. Thank you for sharing this! 🥰🙏
@rashadjaveed274
@rashadjaveed274 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining feelings of love and pain scientifically. Informative and reassuring that people are the healers and ......
@yasoomohamed970
@yasoomohamed970 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for useful video
@lntj101
@lntj101 8 ай бұрын
Perfect
@yolgag88
@yolgag88 8 ай бұрын
Very interesting!
@kookts8491
@kookts8491 8 ай бұрын
Amazing research, seems it can help many people
@potatopirate5557
@potatopirate5557 8 ай бұрын
Most addictions to opiates are an effort to treat mental pain as much, if not more, than physical pain.
@zakiagul-zt4bp
@zakiagul-zt4bp 8 ай бұрын
Whoever been broken by their loved ones, & how they instantaneously hurt you ;
@freedomtryp62190
@freedomtryp62190 8 ай бұрын
Interesting informations❤
@HAPPY.10.
@HAPPY.10. 8 ай бұрын
Somalia people love ted talks
@HaloDizayee
@HaloDizayee 8 ай бұрын
Thanks, keep going, the videos are very useful
@amalsattar7737
@amalsattar7737 8 ай бұрын
Plz subtitles b add kardein
@jcjs33
@jcjs33 8 ай бұрын
love always hurts until it doesn't...love doesn't 'always hurt'...OMski
@1sanremy
@1sanremy 8 ай бұрын
From my humble perspective : PAIN hearts the EGO. So to be HAPPY, one can reduce the pain or the ego. Any mean can be used but on the chemical side, psychotropic drugs like PSYCHEDELICS and other strange RC ( such as A-PIHP) produce interesting results needing more explorations. Peace & love
@Ajeetrawatroaster
@Ajeetrawatroaster 8 ай бұрын
My mom died when i was 17 yeras old so i do feel 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@maypap13
@maypap13 8 ай бұрын
does this mean we'll be able to treat a broken heart?
@sihamelyamoun4680
@sihamelyamoun4680 7 ай бұрын
Where can we stay updated on these two drugs reveal?
@Real_Michael_Jordan
@Real_Michael_Jordan 8 ай бұрын
Only God can heal my heart
@mohamedelfatih9826
@mohamedelfatih9826 8 ай бұрын
People even scientist still struggle on how to decide the human being at The level of consciousness whether he is pure matter or pure psyche. For almost all of us, the answer is clear but when it comes to practice let us keep saying that human are psyche and they have Free Will as to keep things interesting.
@StelvinSabu
@StelvinSabu 8 ай бұрын
5:14 "But what is grief, if not love persevering?"
@mariacasado3350
@mariacasado3350 8 ай бұрын
Traducción en español
@eva-mariacoughlin9456
@eva-mariacoughlin9456 8 ай бұрын
Drugs and more drugs! How about hug therapy,thank you so much for trying to help those who are deeply 😢
@creativemind8924
@creativemind8924 8 ай бұрын
How do we increase our endorphins???
@ddpwe5269
@ddpwe5269 8 ай бұрын
Exercise is the main one.
@MilaDiamond
@MilaDiamond 8 ай бұрын
Exercise, quality time with friends and/or family, spending time in nature, dancing, listening to music (or engaging in any arts that inspire you), doing things you love; also, living your purpose. If you don’t have a community of likeminded people around you, build one. ✌️
@nakefatty9167
@nakefatty9167 8 ай бұрын
Drugs and hugs.
@mozhganjamyan
@mozhganjamyan 10 күн бұрын
@mariaantoniettamontella9173
@mariaantoniettamontella9173 8 ай бұрын
aspettiamo i nomi delle due sostanze che sviluppano endorfine.
@wilylaba6087
@wilylaba6087 8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@brocanova
@brocanova 8 ай бұрын
Tako-Tsubo-Cardiomyopathy is a reality.
@caracolbaila
@caracolbaila 8 ай бұрын
cacao and thc/cbd.. is ovius.. and lovely
@pamelaroyce5285
@pamelaroyce5285 8 ай бұрын
I hope one of those two drugs is chocolate! 😂
@mayukhpurkayastha2649
@mayukhpurkayastha2649 8 ай бұрын
You Anti Hero like a great Joker 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.(batman world)
@abrahamadam1902
@abrahamadam1902 8 ай бұрын
Here
@AnaPaula-lb7ih
@AnaPaula-lb7ih 8 ай бұрын
Spar Brasil
@user-qb2fx7fg2r
@user-qb2fx7fg2r 8 ай бұрын
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@cdnrdz
@cdnrdz 8 ай бұрын
I know he can’t say yet, but it’s such a tease to not say the names of the medications 🤣
@inphinitezero5499
@inphinitezero5499 8 ай бұрын
fooreal!!!!
@jenninemorel7693
@jenninemorel7693 8 ай бұрын
Magnesium helps
@jcjs33
@jcjs33 8 ай бұрын
too mechanistic...OMski
@Novapsihoanaliza
@Novapsihoanaliza 8 ай бұрын
What a charlatan! :(
@Real_Michael_Jordan
@Real_Michael_Jordan 8 ай бұрын
Science doesn't have the answer for this one, sorry
@user-zv6hh9rw1s
@user-zv6hh9rw1s 2 ай бұрын
Here
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