Why Christian's Need to Stop Using the Term: 'Same-Sex Attracted'

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Room for Nuance

Room for Nuance

4 ай бұрын

You might hear Christians say they are 'same-sex attracted', and what they mean by this is that they struggle with same-sex attraction. We need to be clear-thinking in how we refer to these things. There is a huge difference between "I am that", and "I feel that." Join Rosaria Butterfield in a discussion about understanding and fighting indwelling sin, practical sanctification, and rooting your identity in Christ, not your sinful inclinations!
"So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me."
- Romans 7:17
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@rds9872
@rds9872 4 ай бұрын
I don’t like labeling people by their sins, I think we say my sin nature is gay or alcoholic or lustful but my new nature is not and I choose to live by my new nature.
@user-wz7fe2bq5c
@user-wz7fe2bq5c 4 ай бұрын
Your sin nature us all of the above when it comes to every sin but that doesnt mean you do all those sins and can even hate them which is why we are all hypocrites in Gods eyes.
@rds9872
@rds9872 4 ай бұрын
@@user-wz7fe2bq5c It depends on your definition of hypocrite. Everyone except Jesus does things they say they don’t support, so by that definition we all would be. Another definition of hypocrite is a person who says things they don’t believe. By that definition it’s possible to not be a hypocrite though if you still fail.
@user-wz7fe2bq5c
@user-wz7fe2bq5c 4 ай бұрын
@@rds9872 Both definitions are correct jesus fulfilled the law that is he filled it to the full when the law dont fornicate Jesus said if you look on a woman with lust you have already done it and if you hate in yoru heart youre a murderer so the degree can always be jacked up the nth as far as righteousness goes.
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 4 ай бұрын
I think some Christians can get too hung up on terms. Becket Cook will only use the term, same sex attracted. He doesn't like the term gay Christian. There has to be some descriptor, as some people are plagued w/ this particular temptation. It is a temptation and if Christians aren't careful, it can be a besetting sin.
@user-wz7fe2bq5c
@user-wz7fe2bq5c 4 ай бұрын
I have never been not in my heart nor from my mouth.
@joshj3662
@joshj3662 3 ай бұрын
Thats my sister!
@chunwong1807
@chunwong1807 3 ай бұрын
But is it appropriate to say that a Christian is fighting against the sinful desires/feeling of same sex attraction?
@jesusrocks256
@jesusrocks256 3 ай бұрын
Yes
@Learningthetruth7
@Learningthetruth7 4 ай бұрын
Rosaria is so awesome.
@saundrakrauser2824
@saundrakrauser2824 3 ай бұрын
It is a spiritual battle.
@paulswrath5472
@paulswrath5472 4 ай бұрын
How can someone take the term faith alone serious? She mentions it and the talks about works that must happen. As if Faith is on par or greater than Love. Its either faith alone or its not. Such a lame term.
@jesusrocks256
@jesusrocks256 4 ай бұрын
Friend, I think you have a poor understanding of the protestant doctrine of sola fide. Saved by faith alone, but not a faith that is alone.
@LuckyEucalyptusTree-
@LuckyEucalyptusTree- 4 ай бұрын
@@jesusrocks256 faith is Substance Jesus
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 4 ай бұрын
@@jesusrocks256 That sums it up very well. Catholics really are set on works. They believe Christ saves, but need a whole lot of help from them, though they tend to call that cooperation. We believe we are saved apart from works. A person really saved and devoted to God will have works though too. they don't save us, but they are evidence of our faith.
@paulswrath5472
@paulswrath5472 4 ай бұрын
@@jesusrocks256 I've heard many people try to justify the term away. At the end of the day it's just an interpretation of Scripture. That's not rooted in tradition or authority and phrased in a lame way.
@paulswrath5472
@paulswrath5472 4 ай бұрын
@@saintejeannedarc9460 we are set doctrinally on picking up our cross and following Jesus.
@joshuastevens232
@joshuastevens232 5 күн бұрын
By this logic should we not identify as sinners?
@BATTY3459
@BATTY3459 4 ай бұрын
Is there a difference between saying “I am same-sex attracted” vs saying “I have same-sex attraction” or “I struggle with (the sin of) same-sex attraction”?
@692MOM
@692MOM 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, I would agree with your statement. You identity is not in your same sex attraction. It is not you, but sin in you. according to Romans 7.
@inYTbio_SiteLINKs2Verses_Bruv
@inYTbio_SiteLINKs2Verses_Bruv 4 ай бұрын
Say gay.
@rickmatthewjones
@rickmatthewjones 4 ай бұрын
Seems Rosaria is arguing that there is, indeed, a difference. "Am" is a conjugal verb which marries the substance of the subject (you) to the object (your attraction). Saying something like "I feel/struggle with/deal with/am burdened by" is more biblical in that it discusses something that is inside of you (Ro 7, "indwelling sin"), but it is NOT who you actually are. To anyone wrestling with this, as well as anything else that you're tempted to claim as an identity: You are not your sin. You are not your feelings. You are not your interests, hobbies, addictions, attractions, past, present, or future. You are made in the image of God, made to love God, made to be loved by God. How do we do that? We wage war. Fight. Pray. Seek, ask, knock.
@inYTbio_SiteLINKs2Verses_Bruv
@inYTbio_SiteLINKs2Verses_Bruv 4 ай бұрын
@@rickmatthewjones The mental gymnastics required to understand her should tell you something.
@IYamWhatIYam136
@IYamWhatIYam136 4 ай бұрын
​@rickmatthewjones I didn't really understand what she was saying until I read your explanation. Thanks.
@LuckyEucalyptusTree-
@LuckyEucalyptusTree- 4 ай бұрын
What if you feel it but don't act on it ..isn't that just being attracted? I mean straight people are attracted to others to. All sin leads to death that's why it says the wages of sin is death BUT gift of God is Eternal life
@jesusrocks256
@jesusrocks256 4 ай бұрын
You should check out the whole interview
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 4 ай бұрын
That is fine and to be expected. I think some people get too hung up on terms.
@LuckyEucalyptusTree-
@LuckyEucalyptusTree- 4 ай бұрын
@@jesusrocks256 i did
@user-wz7fe2bq5c
@user-wz7fe2bq5c 4 ай бұрын
If you feel attracted to same sex then you're a homosexual just like I'm an adulterer/fornicator because if i see an attractive woman I will want her, even when I can resist it wears away at me until I get that lust in my heart and have to repent. Now Im older its getting easier but when I was a young man it was impossible because I grew up hypersexualized due to the eastern philosphy mixed with that hippie garbage you know from my parents. SO as early as i can remember i was doing things with girls, boys were also available but I found that gross. I dont know if its different or the same in the eyes of God all I know is I cannot watch two men kiss one another without feeling disgust and I dont apologize for it but I dont condemn either, its not my place but I can tell you that if do something in your heart you have already done it according to jesus.
@kimsteinke713
@kimsteinke713 4 ай бұрын
Some evangelical pastors who regularly deliver sermons in support of school prayer have recently added a twist - preaching that Christian traditions are needed in classrooms to stop children from identifying as transgender. At national conservative gatherings, politicians and activists have been attempting to draw direct connections between the lack of religious instruction in schools and the growing acceptance of transgender people in mainstream culture.
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 4 ай бұрын
There's definitely a connection. I remember when we still had prayer in schools. It was a public school, but we started w/ the Lord's prayer. I loved it. Sex education had just started, but it was very basic. It mainly taught about reproduction and getting periods, just the actual basics that people really do need to know. There was none of this trending gay or trans social contagion, because that wasn't pushed. Now it's actively pushed. They claim it isn't, but they get all kids, young kids to question their sexuality and even their sex. It seems special and alluring to be different, because if you're one of the different ones, you get extra attention and validation now.
@deborahsnyder697
@deborahsnyder697 4 ай бұрын
Amen, Rosaria.
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