"I date to marry" that kind of commitment scares people these days but honestly same😭

Lol!!! “We met at Trader Joe’s, I was buying Almond milk and you were buying regular milk”… I can’t 😂

Yep I feel ya! I’m almost 25 and so many people I know are getting married, and I’m single af, it’s brutal out here, but you will find someone great eventually, Adrian I believe it! 🥰

Finding the one takes time and it seems like no one takes marriage seriously anymore but remember, life isn’t a race and neither is love.

Being a woman in her 30s and having autism I tell you dating is a nightmare I go back and forth like yes I want to be in a relationship but then I don’t want to be around anybody but then I get lonely it’s a never ending battle and my mom keeps saying she needs more grandkids and I keep telling her she technically has 3 from me yes they’re on the hairy side and don’t have good social skills but they love you! She said cats don’t count as grandkids! 😫🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

Its so exhausting 😣 but this channel makes me happy❤❤

I love being single … after 16 years of marriage 😐 Did not try dating apps, not my thing. I’m old school. But I’ve been socializing with people from Instagram and … it’s pretty sad. I feel for everybody in their 20’s. Would not want to be in your shoes. I also don’t know what I want, but at least I am not setting false expectations and don’t want to waste anybody’s time, nor mine. My only advice would be to spend time with yourself first and heal from whatever needs to be healed and after that, go out there and explore the world. And be your autentic self. Don’t present yourself as someone you are not. And set up boundaries. This is super important. Don’t feel pressured to do stuff you don’t feel like doing. Take your time. I feel like people are rushing into things too quickly nowadays. If you date to merry, then take your time and get to know that person first. There is someone for everybody. Trust me! You will find what you are looking for 🙏🏻

Your an old soul. Very nice and refreshing to hear your thoughts and opinions. I hope you find the girl of your dreams!

Life in general is hard in 2024 😞 and finding someone just feels like an impossible thing to do but it will happen there’s someone out there 😊

Yeah I'm 26 and dating is horror right now. Every year it gets worse. It's really hard to find anyone

I'm kinda happy being single right now though I really feel like having someone every time and then 😢and honestly I'm free to do all I want now and that's something big for coz my last relationship was toxic

It's so true what your saying I'm 20 and I'm tired of dating I have dated on 2 guys and it's tiring cause they weren't serious fr I'm still young but I've come to terms that I would love to date to get married dating and breaking up is too much for me I just dnt want to question a person everytime I'm dating them so I agree with you sometimes I feel like I'm so far ahead of the generation I'm in truly

YES 100% it is SO HARD to find someone nowadays and every time I even mention dating to marry around guys my age they look at me like I’m the petite chica loca of the group 😂💔

I have been married for almost 11 years (turning 11 in April) and I feel for you. Dating now is so different from when my husband and I dated. The expectations for a 1st date are way too high and yes most don't date to marry. They date for hook ups and flings. I hope you find a good woman soon and that its not a needle in the haystack to find her.

Honestly, you seem so sweet. I truly believe you will find what you are looking for. Anything worth having doesn't come easy. 😊🍀

Yes! He a man that knows what he wants!! And love how he talks about trader Joe’s. Ps they have the best vanilla bean cake!! I agree with him I am at a point in my life that do I need to date maybe but I am okay where I am at for now and yeah already have people on me asking me do I have a man 😅 the only man I got is my dog Johnny and cat Snickers 😅😊

Dating is a pain but once the right person it’s worth it

Meeting the person that understands you as a person and loves you for who you are is really hard to find.

I Love that you share these thoughts with us. More men who date to marry please 😅

You are sooo funny being transparent with your feelings. We all want a companion that is not complicated with whom we can share all of our unique quirky self with without judgments… often women have been brought up to be dolls and suppress flaws as if no one will appreciate them. I say show your true colours to attract those who love those colours.

I'm single, going to be 35 this year, feel like I'm 28 in the dating pool, though. Everyone in their 30s is already married. I have to either date men in their 20s, or look for ones in their 40s that already had their kids and got divorced and who knows if they have healed their trauma. When I do land a date, it lasts for a month or two because I am DEEP. Like IDGAF about your favorite color. Tell me about your greatest dreams and fears. Let's make the blueprints for our future where we grow together. Let's talk about our love languages, attachment styles, and emotional/physical/intellectual desires... let's talk naked for hours until the birds wake up and form a bond down to the marrow of our bones. Fall asleep entangled, and whisper, "I'm falling for you." And then they are gone😂 they can't fathom how we became so close so quickly, like a perfectly beautiful day that wouldn't otherwise be questioned. And they take a piece of me with them. So I started writing user manuals for individual people. Hopefully, they won't hurt others in their quest to learn to love themselves.

I'm 39 and been with my husband going on 16 years ❤ has it been easy? Hell no lol But seeing what's going on with people and dating nowadays, we're holding on to each other for dear life 😂😂 and if we were to part ways, I'm staying single because I'm not going through all that mess of dating ALL OVER AGAIN. Too old for that crap 😎

I promise you I have the same thoughts and desires. You are not the only one who has these. 😅😢

So true I understand 🙁

Omg!! Do men really date to marry?? I literally had no idea!! 😮

Almost 28, had one boyfriend, Christian values, respect my parents and myself, virgin. Tried online dating, tried being honest about who I am and what I believe in. Nothing. Not even 1. Thinking it's not meant to be.

I'll make that pact with you straight up 😅

You are so gorgeous and funny 😊

why is bae shirtless like bro got my mouth watering over here😂

Our brows should make sweet, sweet love...perhaps other shenanigans. WE'RE IN ICELAND AND NORWAY, G-DAMN IT!

It will happen don't worry... Sorry when you said why are you hiding😂 I'm finished 😂😂😂

Somebody protect this man for he has all the right intentions and ideas to bad most men aren't like that. ❤❤❤

I’ve found that Dating to Marry as opposed to Dating for Fun/without end goal has helped shape my character in a beautiful and strong way. And also, not being in a rush to marry while still Dating to Marry is another aspect to consider ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

"I date to marry." We need more men like this! I'm Muslim, so I don't date, but it's rare to find a guy these days with that type of commitment. Respect.

I mean if it is not working at the moment don’t stress over it, and get your job done as nicely as you could and maybe later on as a reward you would be getting the woman of your life. You are great at courting and then building family with your future significant someone, so I am sure you are not gonna be left alone🧡🧡🧡

I like cuddles too

I VOLUNTEER FOR THE PACT ❤❤❤

I literally put on my profile "I am here to get married!" "ITS TIME TO FIND THE ONE" 😂😂😂 I found one serious match.

I volonteer as tribute !

I resonate with that , I wouldn’t mind finding a person like that so if you’re 35 and I’m 35 still single ! Hey let’s get married 🤣

You are beautifully weird, and I have just gotten hinged to your KZfaq profile, I have the notifications bell on for all your latest uploads. Lol. Well, it's nice you have these thoughts and stuff. However, over here in this part of the world, it's crazy. I just want a guy who is sure he wants me and not trying to claim I am busy, you can reach me when you want, that's maturity....blah blah blah. I want to know that you want me by just random hi, how are you? That's all. I will simp for you. ❤❤❤ From 9ja

I need to meet this guy 😭

Dude, Law of Attraction that shit. Think about how that specail girl would make you feel, and practice that feeling. Plus sometimes we just have internal shit we have to work put before we're ready for a relationship. And dating a lot is one of the best ways to keep up your desirability vibration up and that definitely is felt by others around you. And you're prettier than me with your NCB (Natural Cinnamon Brown) 😎.

Going into dating world again after 30+ years😮. I'm scared now...

Dude marry my daughter! You are a perfect match for her!

That’s quite an offer you just threw out to a bunch of THURSTY women

I hug all my sharks 🦈 🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈 Baby shark , mommy shark 😂😂😂😂😂

it's true we all need hugs... that's just facts... I don't have anyone to cuddle so I just have a panda plushie to cuddle... That's probably too much information but ah well

36 going on 37 and never even been engaged. You’re fine, lol. It will happen when it’s meant to

Yeeep, this. Can't the perfect guy just knock my door, snuggle in my sofa blankets with me and join in snack fest? 😂 That way I don't have to feel frustrated at writing a profile that NOBODY WILL READ 😣😅

I would love to meet more men who valued marriage. It’s hard out here

Your eyes are red !!!

Fr. Im 31 and i dont even date. Last relationship lasted 10 years and boom, smh. Id date for marriage too. Thought it was gonna happen, guess not. Im fine but i get you, I love cuddles too! "Being single is so trash" ~matt rife 😂

Yeah dating is exhausting in 2024

I got so tired of dating duds I took 2 years to just date myself. Now my parents keep asking when I'm gonna meet someone 😅

Lol I just gave up on love lol

you will find the right one at the right time!! ❤ yes like who doesn’t wanna be cuddled ❤❤

Speaking as someone who was married at 23 and divorced at 31, marriage is extremely overrated, enjoy being young and free and what is meant to be will happen x

Hi

I am so happy being single at the moment, because I know for a fact that no man deserves me!!!!!!!😋😋😜

I mean I will if your down lol if we are 35 and not with some one I’ll gladly go out with you but it’s ok

I wish more people date to marry.

🙋🏻‍♀️

I want to be half delusional as he is😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Jesus Christ loves you brother 😂 you are so funny you should be a comedian

I am 48 and I will try your almond milk. I like cuddles too

Just to make you jealous I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I'm 14 almost 15 lol

Dating is not right too much stress

why does this have no views yet? First comment hehehe

I think your MBTI is ENFP 😂

35... lol. Guess i missed that mark. 😊 Too bad this wasn't about 5 years ago. Ever think about dating a more mature women?!?

How old are you 😂

First!

FIRST ONE HERE HEUEHEUEHEUEUEEHE

Lets make the pack on getting married when we are 35😂 if im being honest i just dont have the patience for it, greetings from Germany 🫶