Sabi sa movie na Fireproof which is one of my favorites, Love is something you'll never graduate at because everyday is a learning experience with your partner. It makes sense because things, people, and needs change. Change is the only constant.

Meaning his prayers has been answered by realizing that they should both focus on their emotional needs. God gave that wisdom to him. Praise the Lord.

I’m struggling right now with my relationship and I’m thankful that I chanced upon your channel. I’ll continue to watch your videos and maybe I can find enlighten. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you for this video. I now know love and relationship is a working progress for both.

This is applicable not to couples but other forms of relationships. Again thanks 😊

I've been watching your videos ever since my gf broke up with me. I'm learning so much with all your videos and I'm making my efforts to have her back. Thank you so much!!

Waa!! I love you both!! Thank you so much for sharing this knowledge!!

Very eye opening! Thank you for the great info that I can utilize for the rest of my live!

thank you for your words of wisdom!!! 😊💓

True. But still love of the soul and pray for the 7 gifts of the HOLY SPIRIT live in u will never go astray

This made vlog made me think about many things. Kudos to you two for addressing marital and life issues.🥰

Omg I just came across this on my suggested videos and this is very timely. It's as if God is talking to me using you. I work in a BPO where extra marital affair is rampant. I, myself, am a Christian with faith in God and who also pray. I and my husband were married in CCF, a Christian church. We are so in love with each other and have God in the center of our relationship. So never in my wildest dream would I have thought that I would also fall into this kind of temptation. I can totally relate myself to your descriptions. I know I love my husbanf and it's he who I want to grow old with but it's true that there are emotional needs unmet that caused me to wander from the truth. Thank you soooooo much for this. I love God and my husband that's why I already confessed and asked for forgiveness from God and from my husband (yes, i admitted it to him and i am so blessed to have a forgiving husband like him) and I am looking for things that would rebuke me and encourage me at the same time so that I could save our marriage. Thank you so much for this.

Thank you. It's the question that bothered me 5 yrs ago. We were both God fearing and taught our children to do the same, but still my husband left us. Now i understand, it was his decision to do so. And all the while i thought we were so honest and open to each other, meron pa pla d napag usapan. Thank you for sharing this and God bless you both.

i hope you keep posting relationship matters. this is really inspiring and helpful. God bless you two ❤️

i relate on this. it happens to me even i am a christian but still i surrender to God and come back to the cross.. and i ask my wife and to the whole family that i commit a sin inside our marriage.. and now God is molding our relationship.. and God is in the center of our marriage...

You guys are amazing!

When people get married, most of the time behaviors change. The sweetness disappears.Sometimes even the love disappears and eventually the respect. I don’t believe in committing adultery but sometimes when you feel so lonely especially in your time of illness and your spouse or partner is verbally and emotionally abusive and no matter how much you pray, no effect, there is a chance that if a guy comes to your life showing you attention, there is a big possibility that you will fall for that person.But at the end of the day, it really depends on the principle of a person. When there is no more respect left, it is better to leave while you still have any dignity left.

wow ang galing naman! Thanks so much! So everything is not about being spiritual!

What an enlightenment you brought to the viewers...thank u so much...i gain more wisdom with your content...and i am blessed because it is godly wisdom...

Tama... need talaga m meet ang each others emotional needs. O dpat m feed nyo each other ang love languages nyo.

Thank you for sharing, Godbless to both of you .👍🙏💞

Amazing how you two guys are using your power to help other couples who dont really know that they have a problem...kudos to you...God bless and keep strong....

Learning so much to all of your vids. I'm single 40years old. And I'm praying for my forever.... 😍

point well taken...but we can not discount the fact that there is also character and integrity issue when a spouse DECIDES to fool around..

i hope your relationship even gets stronger. I just landed on your page trying to learn how to stay in a good relationship. :) thanks for the great reminder :)

Thank you for sharing this topic. Even if I'm still single now, but I was able to understand men's top needs now

Gusto ko umiyak while watching this. Nakarelate ako ng sobra. I want me and my husband to be open to each other pero he always resist. So much of my needs na di nya nammeet and im sure may mga needs din sya na di ko nammeet because he doesnt tell me what are those..

Thanks for sharing wisdom. ❤

Thank you so much, i learned a lot from your videos! 😍

thank you very much❣️ and more power!

Very imformative..thanl.u for sharing..God bless u both..

Thanks for this info! 100% it will help me and my partner 🥰❤️

Thank you so much 😊God bless you both❤

I love your relationship with each other.

During the counseling with our church pastor, before getting married, the pastor gave us a book called "The Act of Marriage, the beauty of Sexual Love" by Tim and Beverly LaHaye, it has the same principle as that of Dr. Harley's. It is all giving your all to your spouse, it's not a 50/50 relationship, but rather 100/100, not give and take, but give and give. I love you both!

Learned a lot from you! Thank you!

Good insights.thanks so much. God bless🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

More videos, please! God bless you both! ❤️

Hindi naman po choice ang mafall.it just came unexpectedly.we dont know why it has to happen,we dont know when or how it started.We are just human.Some will tell this reason very wrong but once youre in same situation as not a typical relationship, you will never know how it feels.Yung mga una mong pinaninindigan mawawala yun hindi dahil nawala pananampalataya mo kundi dahil natagpuan/nakilala mo yung taong nagbigay ng puwang na hinahanap mo sa isang tao.Ang choices mo nalang is kung tataya ka para sa taong yan or else parehong may masasaktan,yung legal partner mo o yung new one

Learned a lot. I have been so confused about my partner's feelings. He keeps on insisting he struggles with words and it's easier for him to show his feelings through actions. I can see that, he cooks for me, packs my lunch, cleans up even after a tiring work. But the problem is, I am not satisfied. I still want to hear him say the words. In 3 years we've been together, he only said it once, when I wanted to leave because I don't feel loved. Even told him we should understand each other's love language so we know how to make the other person feel loved. But he says he wants to love me the way he knows how. Diko na alam kung sino ang tama samin. But i'll definitely ask him to watch this video.

‘FORSAKING ALL OTHERS’; now I understood this fully. Angganda! Thank you! God bless your marriage more!😊

watch and note down everything

I thought I am the only one who thought this way. Most people say I am wrong but listening to you proved that I am right. I mean, when i have a partner it is my obligation to give his needs and I expect him to meet mine, like a two way street. We need to talk, understand and make concessions if necessary. Every time I broke up with a bf, I am judged that I have a tall standard. They just don't give what I need, time. So it grew up on me to end things before it becomes worst to get me hurt too much.

finally, the answer to all of my questions about affair and cheating. Haay, thank you for this.

Good job Guys, thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience

Thank you for this open- minded discussion.

OMG!ang sarap makinig snyong 2... ☺

I agree with you guyz.. Depositing emotional needs and continually keeping it.. is so important between husband and wife.. Been there up untill now. We are christians too and have strong conviction too. Also read that book together.. BEEN married for more than 25 years.. Ldr for more than 5 years.. After this time i discover that my husband has another woman.. Its devastating on my part but need to stand strong for our children..

very informative! thank you! 👍🏻

Thank you Mr. And Mrs. Poon for your videos! My partner and I are learning a lot from you. Sana makayanan namin lahat ng challenges along the way at mas maging matibay ang relationship namin especially that we are having a child soon 💕

God Bless you both! Very informative content! Subscribed now!

Im turning 6 yrs of married and y0ur vlog is learning a lot.. ❤️😘 Good job to both of y0u and Godbless y0u!

Just loved this so much. Thank you both, you guys are one of my fave few couples on earth!! Saludo ako! Keep it up.

I learned a lot from this episode. Thank you

Ang galing nio mag payo, very logical and grounded. Walang judgement, pure solution without b.s. grabe buti may kasing smart nio na couple na nkakahelp sa marami. Galing nio promise, very mature. Keep up po.

Best talaga to know each others love languages. :)

Bkit now ko lng kau napanood sa youtube😥😥😥 Dami ko natutunan sa episode n to.. Thanks Mr. and Mrs. Poon😘

Right on and very much explained. Thank you both for taking the time to enhance the explanation. Stay blessed and communicative. Kudos!

I'm learning.. Thank you 💕💕

Ang galing, ang ganda, very profound yet simplified yong explanation. Yong tipong maiintindihan mo talaga. I really wish mas madami pa makakabasa at makakapanood nito. This will save marriages talaga

I just had to replay. Na distract ako sa sweetness hehe 💜

Dami po namin natutunan ng partner ko. Thank you so much Relationship matters! ❤

Thank you for sharing. Very informative.

thank you!!! i learn a lot

Thank you for sharing this very sensitive topic. I hope everybody could learn from this because I did. God bless you both

I'm learning, thank you 😍❤ pls make more vlogs. Love it.

Relate much,i feel u girl💔🏚️😭😭😭

It's not just about love and faith, it is more than that....am sharing this vid and or your other videos to those whom i think and or feel the need to hear the content of what you're both talking. And am learning as well. Thank you. Keep the passion to work out and learn more so that your humble ways of sharing can make miles in someone's journey in life. God bless!

Great piece of information. Very well outlined... very well put... very well explained. I love this. You guys nailed it. 👍

love is outside religion, outside politics and so on. love is a concept that many (if not all) do not understand. love is defined by the degree of pain when the person beloved, is lost, especially due to regret.

I love the topic🙂

Love you Richard and Maricar.

Wow I can really relate...my husband and I meron pala kaming unmet desire/needs, kaya pala. This is "real talk" thanks for the new learnings.

Thanks for sharing this true story.

This is so true.

Avoid Lang talaga mga opportunities to sin. Don't put yourself in a situation na may pweding mangyari. Between sa amin Ng asawa ko, ako yung medyo mas maraming kaibigan of the opposite sex Kasi medyo boyish ako. When we got married I realized I really have to avoid situations with people. Focus na ako ngayun sa same sex friendships.

Very helpful...id v Be very careful from now onwards

Thank you so much RM,I learn so much with this topic, emotional needs.We will work on it.😊❤

So true! Agree talaga ako dito! 👏

Thank you ❤.

Well said! Galing!

Thank you for sharing... 😊

Sobrang inspiring🥰

Thank yoy for this very nice topic.. Ngayon sisimulan ko na alamin ang top emotional needs ng asawa ko ..hehhee.

Yes, I'm learning a lot from you guys! I want to watch all your videos even it was taken two years ago. I'm taking advantage on the time I have, once my kids start school ( Aug. 24), it will be hard for me to be in the computer. Please continue doing this, a lot of people are learning from you!!! Again thank you!!!!!

Ang galing naman ng content na to... Thanks for sharing. God bless you.

Ang galing naman..!😘reality..

Love the topic. . . .

Thanks for this vid.... it surely eid help me realized sooo many things ❤️❤️❤️

Ang clingy ni richard huhu 😭❣❣

Thank you both for doing this video. I think we should have strong faith in God but should not depend and rely on that faith for the solutions of all our problems. At the end of the day, although we as couples are both tired, let's still give our best to our partners and not the leftovers.

thanks so much for this 😌

It's my first time to subscribe and I see your channel very interesting, thanks!

So much wisdom

BIG HELP FOR ME AND MY HUBBY ❤️❤️ newly wed here!😗😗

Akoooo! One of those who learned from you two! Gusto ko din magsulat sa inyo to know more pa at maging mas mabuting tao at partner sa bf ko. Thank you so much RM!!💗💗💗

This is the first time that I've watched your Vlogs. I find it very educational. Congratulations.

Hi Ms. Maricar and Sir Richard. I so love your insights and advices. Sana po idiscuss niyo rin yung husbands na may trust issues, palagi tamang hinala na stressful na at times for wives. Please po. My partner needs to hear other perspective to understand how this is not healthy for our relationship. I'm sure marami din makakarelate.

I love this topic 🥰😇

.thank you po RM.. ito tlaga ang kelangan ko ngayon.. more power po.