WELCOME TONIGHT!!! Thank you for being here. Please LIKE and share. 😊♥️🙏🏽

Thank you Pastor Blakes. I have never commented before, but I have to let you know, your guidance has helped me tremendously over the last 4 years. I have had many dark days, going through divorce, dealing with rejection, abandonment, depression, and being betrayed and abused by men. What you do for women is phenomenal. God Bless You! ❤

Men don't commit in their relationship because they are not sure of their true feelings to that woman. Some don't commit because they are immature, don't want responsiblities and don't have future plans.

"Ideally,mother's should teach their sons what a woman need from a man and a father should teach his daughters what a man needs from a woman"......True, sadly most parents need teaching themselves.

We still have to wait till the wedding night. This is where traditional weddings work. You can be sexy but you don't need to give it to him till it's time. Just classy is fine.

You deserve a billion like and subscribers You saved my life I was desperate and feeling weak and lonely after another break up from a relationship that I gave everything in it and finally I decided to end it and take my lifes remote control back to my hands after listening to you.. I listen to you everyday all the time, I'm looking for a job and I will never settle for less with a man in the future, I AM A QUEEN 👸 and I deserve to be treated with honor, to be cherished and loved and that will start with me loving me I am the prize god created me Thank you thank you thank you thank you for saving my mind my heart and my life Thank you for being the father that I never had God bless you and your wife and children 🙏

There are soooooo many black middle-aged women like myself who are not dating and can't find any decent men....especially those of us who are celibate and have been through the men not wanting a commitment....just sex. I want more than that. Been there done that have several OLD t- shirts! I truly respect what you have shared with us God Bless you & your wife. I've learned so much from you. But can you guide me on how to find "quality" marriage-minded men. 😆

“Why don’t men commit?” Because “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.”

I really needed this 20 years ago pastor Blakes. Where was your God then, why did he make it so that no one told me?

I am being so blessed by this ministry! Thank you Jesus!

One of my favorite messages thus far since I have been watching RC for the past year. This is it in the nutshells ladies. He’s telling us why we don’t get the outcome we desire and what we can do to change. Together if WE come together, women are so powerful! 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️🙌🏽💯

I have come to the realization that my past relationships were purposeless (last encounter 2014). They did NOT honor God in any way. They were just sex partners. Yikes and yuck. We as human beings make life more complicated than it needs to be. All we have to do is ask God if it is from Him or not. Believe me, He will tell you. Some of us just don't like His answer! I lived long enough to know that when I ignored God, I paid for it immensely. I ain't getting in no bed with no man that isn't my spouse! Period! He can "act" all He wants, God/Jesus/The Holy Spirit will expose it with scriptures, billboard signs, discernment, and/or videos faster than the speed of light. Bishop, please keep speaking the truth. Whoever gets offended is NOT ready to grow and wants to remain stuck like Lot's wife.

I have failed so many times 😢 Lord restore my mind spirit & forgive me for my sins

Let’s put on our seat belts and get ready for a great ride into the world of wisdom with Pastor Blakes 🙌🏽❤️😊

She's a queen 👸 . . Treat her like a queen. . .she is the meaning of every family. 🏡

Good evening everyone! I am so happy to be here tonight. Pastor Blake's teachings are always so insightful and life changing. 🙏❤️

Bro. Blakes, but what about MEN who just DONT WANT TO COMMIT. Whether a woman lays with them or not. There are many Black men out here who will not commit and stay single for years. They're young, and they're old. Black men who are masculine, healed emotionally, and financially stable are so scarce. What is a Black woman to do???🤷🏾‍♀️ Many are not sleeping with these dudes but staying home, celibate, and lonely. Tired of being WITH ourselves and going places by ourselves. It's HARD out here. Thank you for what you do!

I just wanted to express my gratitude towards you for reviewing my Queen long-term strategies. I am getting married to the man of my dreams!!! It's such a beautiful story. I am wearing the most beautiful ring and my aunt and her husband opened the mailbox and freaked out. I opened the mail and got a wedding ring!!! I am glad you are telling women this!!!

I believe 100% in this message. Everything he said is true. Unfortunately i have personally adapted each of these approaches over the years and got the same results whether I slept with the man early or later in the relationship. I have met the praying man and went to church together, abstained from intimacy and I have also dated the man who smooth talked me right out of my mind & body 😂😂 .. the toxic narcissist. Neither lasted long term.

OKAY THAT INTRO SONG IS STARTING TO GROW ON ME! That song is FIRE ❤️🎶✨🫶

Hi Bishop Blakes would you consider doing a part 2 to this lesson teaching about the long-term strategies? Bishop will the code podcast continue?

LET'S BE CLEAR.. YOUR KNOWLEDGE IS RELAVANT & YOUR WISDOM IS MUCH APPRECIATED

“To break the woman’s self esteem down so that she will deliver value without price.”

Good evening from Tampa! Thank you so much for your teachings Pastor Blakes. Every woman should know these things whether she chooses to follow this advice or not. I personally believe what you are saying and choose to be queen conscious. You and your wife are such a blessing! Happy Birthday to First Lady Blakes🎉💕Enjoy your trip..See you at the top!

Bishop, keep doing what you're doing. By now, anybody that has been listening to you knows your heart. God bless you for ALL that you're doing! 🙏🏾

Thank you MOG for this deep biblical teaching. My daughter now watches your videos and God has really used them to grow her into this grounded and amazing queen. As your beautiful wife and daughter go to South Africa may God bond them even more deeply in their relationship with one another in Jesus name. Through this experience may God do something new and unique in their connection as mother/daughter and woman/woman in Jesus name.

Good evening, Bishop Blakes. I really enjoyed this evening's message. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I pray that Lisa and your daughter have a blessed birthday and South Africa trip. I pray God's continued blessings upon you and your family!💜🙏🏽😇

Great word, Pastor!! Short-term mating strategies are destroying the potential for long-term, healthy relationships. I believe we (women) are scared to ask the hard questions, in fear of running the man off. This used to be my testimony, until life taught me the danger in not asking the right questions. My eyes were leading me right into destruction. Thank GOD for growth! Now, I’m led by the Holy Spirit, using discernment & wisdom. Thank you for allowing GOD to use you to reach & teach the masses.🙏🏽 Many Birthday Blessings to First Lady Lisa & safe travels to her & your beautiful daughter! 🙏🏽❤️

Hi Bishop Blakes Your teachings are not out dated The way the world is tainting the dating experience is disgusting really we have lost a generation that most sadly will not know what Real Romance and chivalry are I agree with your concept Don't chase Don't waste your time period be a lady and expect a husband

I thank God for using Bishop RC Blakes to give godly counsel. It has literally changed my mindset regarding relationships.

Papa we appreciate every word.Don't be apologetic.I wish I had known you in my teenage life

Thank you for being a male-man voice in my life Sir ❤

Hey! Let me please testify in case there any ladies on here and see my comment. I'm a man who just broke off a relationship/engagement that had no sex involved. 1 year of pursuing a woman and I can Gaurantee you, had there been any sex I would've have ran like a cheetah. I just want to emphasize what RC is saying, don't give it up so soon. A real man will wait, and I'm so thankful for Sexual abstinence because boy oh boy, because Mercy followed me in that. You can't have serious discernment for long term commitment giving into short term pleasures. That's a fact!!!

I love RC Blakes and his teachings because he takes it back to GOD (aka scripture). That's the 🔑 ! Trust GOD!

Pastor Blakes. Talk to us about being friends with men. Thank you!

Pastor it's always good to hear from another male about another male it gives women insight how men operate

Bishop. Your the first person to teach me about short term vs. long term strategies. Thank you for breaking it down. So basically short term strategy plays no benefit to you.

Bishop “THIS” message speaks to the very depths of my “soul”.. thank you man of God for always giving wisdom and Fatherly guidance

Ha! I’ve been incorporating long term strategies for 8.5 years 😩

I am grateful for your teaching and wish I would've heard this message when you first taught it. 🙏🏿

Thank You again Pastor Blakes, I call you my Spiritual Father as my Biological Father has NEVER taught me as much as you have within the last 2years. I thank God for you and Lady Lisa. You're truly a blessing to women and men all over the 🌎.

In my opinion: Men don’t commit is due to their disobedience to GOD! Truth says, when a man finds a Wife he finds a good thing! Many men refuse Love and where there is Love there is Life and many don’t find it!

PASTOR R.C.BLAKES, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SPEAKING THE TRUTH. I RATHER BE ALONE THAN TO BE WITH THE WRONG PERSON. WE HAVE TO HAVE DISCERNMENT. IF GOD DOES NOT APPROVE, I DO NOT WANT IT. WE MUST DO THINGS DECENT AND IN ORDER. ✝️🩸🙏🏾👑☝🏽🥰

This really blessed me. 🙌🏽 I listened twice. It really needs to be on a billboard

I consciously up my game starting RIGHT NOW. Thanks for the wisdom!!

Thank you for the lessons and prayer today! I'm so grateful for your guidance in my journey. Much love from the Midwest US 💖

I’m hearing the opposite, men are telling me, why are women wanting so much independence and not wanting to commit

Like this perspective. Grown folk information! Pray that younger generation is listening 💯

Amazing word 😊and love when the song plays at the beginning I say this all the time but it’s my jam 🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽

I don't agree. In first year or two years of relationship a guy will tell you everything you want to hear, they will tell you they are ready for commitment and family, they maybe even believe that. You can take a 5, 6, even 4 and observe for months, wait with sex for months, a year and then you get naturally emotionally engaged, that's when they change their mind with million serious excuses like career, location, lack of money. You can predict nothing. There are many psychological patterns of behaviour and people change.

I needed this today and during this rough patch of loneliness. Thank you Bishop 🙏🏾💕

Thank you RC Blakes, Jr . For breaking thing's down for 'us' ladies here and giving your wisdom and I hope your wife and daughter stay safe much Blessing !

Exactly.... Who taught us!? But when we know better We WILL DO better 👌🙌

This is one of your best videos!! You are giving away the game ❤❤ Thank you for schooling us, God bless!

This study was so good, at my age I’m still learning about life.

Thank you so much for giving me a chance to get my life together. God bless you for being a blessing to us . Thank you Pastor RCBlakes ❤

I just woke up from a bad dream - and seen your video - Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life. - Thanks for the message. God bless

Timeless blessings from Austin TX ❣️🙏🏽✝️💯

YES. S3x can definitely be blinding!!! Throws good judgment out the window. 🙈

Greetings Bishop Blakes and special greetings to the 1st lady @ Lisa Blakes. Welcoming her to my shores @SA. Thank you for imparting this kind of wisedom, heaven’s downloads.

This information is priceless. Every woman should hear this and repeat every 6 months as a reminder .

Pastor Blakes thank you for telling us the truth in this teaching. You definitely hit home tonight 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thanks for your may God continue to bless you and your family, happy birthday to lady Lisa and your beautiful daughter ❤️

Praying for Mrs Blake's and their youngest daughter Jesus cover them as they travel to Africa God bless Lisa on her bday pray she had a great one 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

What a word... ALL facts Bishop! 💯

Amen!

Thank you Pastor RC🎯

U sir are just telling us the truth! I wish I had your teachings decades ago!! I had no one to teach me anything. I was a wild fool growing up. I didn't feel worthy of love. My mother told when I was a child that no one would love me or want me. I thought of myself as a trash can & most of what I attracted was trash. I thought being sexy was everything. The LORD himself grabbed me & showed me true love for the 1st time in my life. Now I spend more time on my spiritual being than my physical being. I eat healthy & exercise to be physically healthy, but my spiritual health comes 1st. I have many haters that don't like the fact that I'm out of the world & it's sinful ways. My haters have smeared my name over & over. Thank u Sir for teaching ppl all over the world how to date righteously. May GOD Bless u, your family & your ministry continue to grow!!!

Sending love cant thank you enough for everything! Happy early Birthday to Queen Lisa💕

AMEN THANKS 👑🙏

Thank you so much Pastor Blakes

I needed this 21 years ago

Bless you RC Blake’s 🙏🏽👑

GOD Bless you RC Blakes

I love you Pastor!!! I learned this the hard way. I wish I had known this years ago, it would of saved me alot of heartaches. You are awesome 👌🏿 👏 👍🏿

Awesome!I receive this message 🙌

Awesome!

Powerful!

Thank you Bishop Blakes!

Thank you for your wisdom

Happy birthday to queen Lisa, blessed to have this conversation

🗣️THANK YOU...

Thank you so so much. Your voice is so needed in our time.🙌🏽

Thank you for this message!!!😊😊😊

Amen Pastor

Thanks!

Wonderful blessed, & Truth Message 🫶🏾

Thank U Bishop & Lady Blakes🙏🏽

When do we teach the men to be decent, empathetic and not opportunistic? When do they respect their own bodies and not see women as prey to be snared, tricked, manipulated and conned into sleeping with them?

Happy 🎊 🎁 🎉 birthday Lisa Blake's enjoy your trip an be safe 🙏 ❤️ ✨️

Thank U Sir!

I love it and receive it!

Thank you for sharing your wisdom💕

Best advice ever!

Thank you !

Thank you for this message🙏

This was awesome info that I learned already from the scriptures that I chose to ignore but later decided I had to listen to what God was saying but it was all about Satan. Then you came and put emphasis on it and confirm it. Thank you so much Pastor in knowing the truth. There was a male that called himself a Pastor but felt that he needed to put the church before his wife as in making sure whomever came to the church should be more educated in the scriptures than his wife. He said he didn't have regular Bible studies with his wife because he didn't want to force his beliefs on her. He had been divorced twice and from one wife because she didn't have faith in the people that came to the church anymore and the other just wasn't a believer in the scriptures. I told him, well that is why your marriage didn't last because you didn't do what you needed to in order to make it stand. I said you were the head and your wife should've come before the church in Bible education for foundation. I said as a Pastor, that should be the number one thing on your mind when finding a wife. Why would date and marry someone that doesn't believe in God's scriptures when are laid out for us to live our lives by in order to be safe, happy, and have a long-lasting marriage it doesn't make sense. It's a catastrophe waiting to happen. That's also the reason why the divorce rate is so high because we date to marry people that doesn't believe in the Bible scriptures instead of standing firm and asking if the other person before dating them know and believe and input the Bible scriptures in their everyday life first and if they don't, then you need to run the other way. Guys are always in my DM telling me how beautiful I am and they prayed for God to them their wife and they want to marry me. I them first of all you don't know, I know I'm beautiful, and I don't date guys just because they tell me I'm beautiful. I, also, tell them I'm only dating a guy that live his life by the Bible scriptures. I said yeah most guys say they do and I ask them questions about scriptures and if they can't answer them, I immediately tell him he's not the one for me because he clearly can't lead me if he doesn't know and believe in the scriptures. It's a disaster for another divorce and I'm not letting that one slide ever again. Thank you so much for your guidance, Darlene Bernard P.S. Happy born day Queen Lisa Blakes 🎂🍨🎁🎁🎁🎈🎈🎈

This great teaching!

This is powerful teaching and every word I receive ❤

Thank you for this message😊