Ask Google "why is my wife yelling at me" and it will tell you to be considerate towards her feelings. "Potential triggers for a wife's yelling include feeling unheard, financial stress, mental health struggles, disrespect, etc. It's important to understand the root cause." Ask Google "why is my husband yelling at me" and it will give you the domestic abuse hotline. This is what social engineering looks like.

Feminism’s problem is treating 99% of the average man as if they are the top 1% of men that are in office and actually have power. I’m not oppressing anybody, on average women probably make more $ than I do. But yet I’m treated like I’m a senator trying to pass laws against women, or I’m somehow more well off because I potentially have an ancestor 200 years ago who had slaves.

"They're not trying to win an argument, they're trying to shut down an argument." TRUE

It's not that it's "unfair" that a 19 year old man can watch his 19 year old female counterpart making 8k/week. It's that she makes 8k a week while complaining about how hard life is for women compared to men.

Modern ideology Fighting for equality ❌ Only my group matters 👍

I wonder if the Kotaku women will see this video and claim Asmongold is a alt-right misogynist because he cares about men's issues.

Growing up and watching the societal shift over the last 2 decades or so made it almost impossible for any sane man to be / stay a feminist. Women were behind and struggling in some ways, so we changed literally everything to help and cater to women. That's fine! I'm okay with that, I want everyone to have equal opportunity. Now, men are behind and struggling, and what do women say? "Man up", "that's men's problem", "women are just better". Women have really showed their true colours, and yes I'm confident in that generalisation. Look up the statistics for college attendance and graduates by gender, look up deaths of despair, look up homelessness, look up sentence inequality, job mortality, the list goes on. Men are hanging on by a thread and yet feminism keeps grinding. Women look at the top 0.0001% of men, these rich CEO types, and cry about oppression, not realising that the majority of men are way below them already.

Feminism was never about gender equality, even in the beginning. Many of the historical claims of feminism are simply one-sided interpretations of how genders were/are required to function in society. For example, women claim to have had less job opportunity back 100 years ago, and while that might have been true, it was due to the fact that men were expected and required to support a family. Women were not required to support their families with the money they earned. So giving jobs to women would lead to supporting 1 person, giving jobs to men would mean supporting 2-3+ people. Another one: men got the vote just because they HAD to go to war. Women claim they had a lot of limitations and obligations, but so did men. Both sexes were oppressed by their obligations.

"If you want a word about gender equality, it shouldn't be gendered" I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR OVER A DECADE NOW

"How many women directed genocide throughout history and how many men?" Historically, queens in Europe were 40% more likely to start wars than kings.

In 100 years they will describe our society as the age of madness.

Yet again, pretending that bad things happen to both sides equally. Its... simply... NOT... true. Every fucking time someone even attempts to address men's issues or men in general almost exclusively, they still for some reason have to pay lip service to women. It looks pathetic.

"They are not trying to win an argument, they are trying to shut down an argument". Perfectly said Asmon.

"No one wants to be born with Original Sin, they wrote a while book about it." Is lowkey one of the best jokes Asmon has ever made lol

It’s pretty funny watching Asmon try to say that women aren’t a causal factor in this instance given that every relationship he has with women in his life starts with him giving them money and ends the moment he stops doing so.

3:31 That's what I've always been confused about since I was a kid. The name "feminism" itself inherently leans toward women yet everyone says it's just about equality.

The hardest feminist will tell men to share their feelings but the moment we talk about double standards or anything that even slightly puts women in a negative light, they minimize what you say

Schrödinger feminism : every women is the eternal victim of men AND strong independant woman who can do everything better then men. Now when something happen (when the box is open) they choose the more rewarding status.

Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most

Asmon is giving feminism a pass here. The character from Metallic Rouge said it best(so much wisdom in Anime), it doesn't matter what the movement was originally about, it was always going to get greedy eventually. It isn't some women hijacking feminism, feminism simply worked so well that women(in general) got greedy and didn't know when to stop.

its because as a man, you are constantly told how horrible you are and how much power you have over everything apparently, im still yet to see any of the benefits though

Too many people value being "right" over solving a problem.

12:30 Yup. I’m a 41 year old dad and the apprentices at work always want to treat me like a dad. They want to impress me, or more commonly, want to have confrontations that prove I care, if that makes sense.

Who is pushing to remove those positive masculine role models from modern media? That's right, the same people who complain about "toxic masculinity".....almost seem intentional doesn't it?

As a male, I've seen sexism several times but mostly against male. As a teen trying to get a job in fast food restaurant employees telling me the boss only hire girls cause they clean better than boys. (mostly in subways) As a college student trying to be a waiter cause it paidwell. They hired attractive girls instead even tho I was busboy there (happened in 2 restaurants) As an adult, my job in construction you need 4-5 years experience to apply to big companies but woman gets instantly hired as soon as they get the diploma So yeah I grew sceptic about the purpose of feminism nowadays.

So I work an office job for a large company and on international woman's day the head of HR (who is a woman) sent a company wide email in response. I'm all about equality, but to paraphrase what she said it was along the lines of, 'Men need to understand the advantages and luxuries they enjoy in the workplace, especially when it comes to career progression' . I worked so hard to get where I am now, and instead of empowering and uplifting woman, it undermined the effort of and diminished every male that has worked to get where they are. Also this is in a company where majority of upper management is female, and she was praised and applauded for doing this. HOW is this okay?? This is the point where modern societal feminism is at (in many cases) so it's no WONDER we're seeing younger guys turn on and become aggressive towards what was originally about genuine equality.

It's kind of an indicator of how screwy the structure is that so many people don't realize what actually useful skills are. We never did young people such a huge disservice as when we told them all that they could be whatever they wanted in life and to follow their dreams no matter where they led. Newsflash: if the world doesn't value your dreams, you don't get to follow them.

"Monkeys can detect unfairness so obviously so can men". This is true, however monkeys tend to address unfairness with violent behavior lol

I've always been a more "effiminate" guy ever since I was young and I always found it interesting that most of the toxic masculinity I've experienced actually came from woman. Primarily ex girlfriends lol

"Genocide was committed by all men" Look up Ghandi's daughter.

Gen Z are seeing what happened to their Millennial fathers and opting out. They don’t want to go through the same bullshit.

A lot of women seem to want to be treated in ways that benefit them, but when it comes down to the nitty gritty the women suddenly don't want that. It's all about preferential treatment and being put on a pedestal. Sad times boys.

One of the big problems for the "good" feminists that theoretically don't hate men, is that they rarely if ever acknowledge, let alone criticize, the feminists that hate men in their name. That makes it very hard to defend the ideology as one that is really about equality for men and women. It comes across more often as "men and women should be equal, but also women should be more equal than men."

A man dedicated his savings for a mens shelter since there are no mens shelters. The feminists sued him into oblivion.... he passed away just wanting to help men as he was once homless from divorce.

I actually think superman is a good role model personality wise. He's genuinely a stand up guy who has faith in humanities' capability to do good and doesn't feel superior for having superpowers. He helps those who need it by using his strength as a protective force rather than one meant to do harm and talks things out before getting physical if its at all possible.

Feminism since its debut in the Order of the White Feather has always been created to emotionally coerce men into jingoism. Even Declaration of Sentiments was worded so as to avoid addressing the issue of power abuse.

As a man who lives and grew up in Finland its always ridiculous to me when I hear a Finnish woman complain how women are disadvantaged here,etc,etc. the things you hear in the U.S. and every single time I bring up how she wasnt forced to sacrife a year of her life before college for mandatory military service with the threat of going to prison they dodge the subject or say thats not relevant. Now I didn't mind going to the army for a year and didnt think much about it because it was something I knew was coming since I was kid. It gave me more time to mature but when I think about it now its kind of bs. When I started college every girl I knew from high school was already on their second year, starting internships,etc. 1 year ahead of me and I was 1 year older with 1 year less experience pretty much. In the end I got a bunch or stupid, fun and awful memories from my 1 year in the army but if I have ever seen inequality between genders I would say this is one of those things.

A couple of years ago I was on R*ddit and responding to some far left people who were going on about how "gen z will save us", I told them that gen z will end up being the most conservative generation in a long time, they laughed and insulted me. I bet today they are screeching to the skies.

Its not about men being against feminism, it's about men being against men-hate and discrimination

"I think this is because of the lack of family structure and the lack of respectable father figures in media and in people's personal lives." Feminism individually came for each of these things one after the other(one of their first targets was the nuclear family) until we're at a point where young men who have father figures have to consider themselves lucky.

giant leap in woman being liberal, slightly more conservative men, half the videos I see on this data just analyze the men becoming more conservative as if that's the odd thing.

The word you're looking for is "Egalitarian" If you ask a feminist about egalitarianism, they will tell you that's an MRA talking point.

Only time a woman listens to a man's feelings (good mother's excluded) is when they can use it as ammunition shamelessly in a later argument. I have been with multiple women, and this is one thing they've all had in common, but God forbid you do the same. The lack of accountability in modern woman is also a huge problem and the fact that traditional values are being left in the dust. People are painting the traditional woman as weak but it's the opposite being able to raise children and have the empathy to nurture and heal others is a superpower. It's a shame that so many modern women are naive enough to fall for the scam that being a divine feminine is wrong. This message coming from a single father whose baby mama doesn't see her son. We lack family structures because society is telling woman that looking good for a decade of their life is more important than being a mother and proper individual. The game rewards the behavior that is encouraged. Mothers are failing their daughters not teaching them how to be respectable young woman and somehow will teach their daughter it's the father's fault creating "daddy issues" and to some degree it is but no one expects a mother to teach her son how to be a man like they expect a father to so why should a father be held to teach his daughter more than her mother. These anti-woman internet celebrities are horrible too teaching a guy to just focus on him and get his money up is a good thing until he realizes he now has all this money and is unable to find genuine love because now girls see him as an atm and a means to getting what they want in life. Western society feels like shit for men when it comes to dating and relationships that's why we have so many passport bros, they figured it's easier to find a traditional/grateful woman in a 3rd world country that has nothing and hasn't been tainted by the extreme ideologies of the west. Bring back the nuclear family just don't let men beat and mistreat their wives like it's the 30's (which wouldn't happen cause divorce isn't looked at a insane sin anymore) and it'd be fine you'd have a lot more mentally stable folks walking around.

If they show their hatred for men on the surface, out loud, just imagine the hate they REALLY have INSIDE

Whos the guy in the red shirt? I don't recognize him.

Be the kind of man Uncle Iroh would want you to be.

For a woman, having an OnlyFools is OK, do what you want with your body and reputation, but do NOT come to me after 10 years whining about why I don't want you. Have some accountability.

It stopped being about equality and started being about revenge.

Women decided to collectively replace the idea of a husband with the Government. The government, understandably, is okay with this so long as women vote for more government. So, of course men would shift towards the "Less Government" party. The government is the Chad a man's fiance cheated on him with. What does it make you when you pay your wife's boyfriend to call you names and villainize you?

last time i pointed out that women have all of these beneficial school and work programs while men have none i was called a misogynist and was told to go to behavioral training to "undo my internalized misogynism". funny how that works.

We need dads in homes. A solid family is where it all starts.

Why do you have to keep re-iterating every minute that "men do it too". Its like you are afraid of the feminists calling you a misogynist.

The whole "men do it, too" is so tiring. The point that it's overwhelmingly one-sided is just disheartening. Being milquetoast is lame as hell.

I’ve never understood how people that man hate never sit and question if men are so bad why don’t they consider how a mother raises a son?

as a gen z I can say definitely what happened to me I just quickly realized that the left, in general, don't have concrete, statistical data, but idealizations

Feminism ruined the family structure and this is the situation we're in now. Can't Imagine what will be in 20 years.

No, genocide wasn't all men. Look up the history of Madagascar. If women had seats of power more often, I don't think there would have been less death or wars, it is simply that the role women played in politics was usually different, but behind almost every despot are women who usually agree with them. Just look at how many serial killers get married in prison. The common name is "Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome" and a certain percentage of women are attracted to and sexually fetishize violence.

I agree that a lot of this is self-inflicted, but one point that isn’t highlighted enough in this video is how institutionalized this is. I’m finishing up in University and the attitudes that this guy is complaining about in the video is being TAUGHT. I walk out of the class actively trying not to hate women because of how disrespectful my class is towards men. The professor encourages it!

For me, this is like marxism; It sounds and looks nice on paper, but then you realize "oh, people are just mean and egocentric, ofc this wouldn't work".

I never see "good feminists" denouncing the bad/crazy feminists. At this point, "feminist" is synonymous with "crazy".

An entire generation of boys were treated by the school system like defective girls, and many have never experienced a day of male leadership in their lives. The fact that things in society are still working as well as they are is a miracle.

That pendulum everyone talked about is swinging back.

how many young men lived through their mom absolutely shredding their family and destroying their father financially while having a revolving door of boyfriends or just shutting down and living off the state and alimony?

9:20 is exactly right. It’s not about discussion, or debate, or ideas, it’s about bullying into shutting up so they have the unchallenged floor.

It’s so engrained in society that Zack found a way to blame men at the end lol

There is a word for it. Egalitarian, meaning you actually want equality without picking one side's issues over the other.

I'm bipolar to the point that I'm medically disabled . I've been rejected for the most basic of help for the most ridiculous of reasons . If I was a woman or if I was a member of a minority group people would be losing their shit at the level of incompetence I've had to face in the face of a mountain of medical documentation and evidence. Instead they just keep telling me to call back when I'm 55 and that's including the cowardly lawyers that won't take the case cuz they might have to do a little work. They're literally making me have to come to the point where it is going to reach a day where I'm going to have to choose crime over hunger. Whose fault is that going to be ..... I've been screaming for help for 25 years but who's fault is it going to be ......

"I think [this unhealthy backlash] is bad for both groups" THANK YOU

Man does asmon have a new GF? the last 3 video's I've seen of his he has had a different shirt on

Will never not make me laugh that misandry is paraded as feminism nowadays

While I do agree that improving the family structure and going back to nuclear families the norm would help a lot. The issue is that feminist cant let that happen. Because you'd need to fundamentally change how divorce law and the family court work. These two things currently heavily favor women. Try to convince a feminist that for the betterment of society, no fault divorce should be abolished and default parental rights in the case of a divorce should be 50/50. At best, you'll be called pejorativs. At worst, you've just summoned a screeching banshee.

"No body wants to born with original sin. They wrote a whole book about it." lol thats pretty good

They're selling t-shirts on amazon that say "ALL men are evil" let that sink in xD

It’s a weird flex for modern feminism and their supporters to blame me for something that a very small percentage of men have done over the course of history. Time to grow TF up…

It always goes back to the good old saying, "Can't we all just get along?".

No one infected feminism, it has always been this way.

Feminist - WE WANT EQUALITY ! World War 3 draft time. Feminist - YOU CAN'T DRAFT US THAT'S NOT FAIR. ( Equality )

Having a masculine father figure and a feminine mother growing up is one of the best things for someone to have and learn from to respect both sides equally.

Something interesting to me about this is I recently tried to bring some awareness for men's health since its Men's Health Awareness month on the WoW forums, and that thread was taken down within a few hours because advocating for men is hate speech, antagonistic, and offensive. Meanwhile, a post that leaned very heavily into racism from both sides of the fence was allowed to stay up for three or four times as long. I guess the forums think men are worse than racism.

The other thing that I don’t think women understand is that gaining power and influence brings with it an immense amount of responsibility to use that effectively and ethically.

Like that 1 guy who was supporting a feminist protest and then a woman starts talking to him and is angry.. while he actually says I support you but then she gets angry and pushes him and he pushes back and then all women are angry at him 😂 wtf

The feminists that reach out to men are the ones men will actually listen to. Why would you listen to someone who denies/belittles your problems?

The "aragorn vs andrew tate roll model" is a really good arguments.. but Hollywood is not interested into making this type characters anymore..

As a Gen Z I can confirm that us men are tired of modern women when it comes to dating & finding the right partner for life

Because a lot of issues around men aren’t taken seriously, it’s either handwaved or if you want to bring it up you’re called an incel

Who goes to war and gets blown up or watches their buddy get blown up in a trench? Who takes all the hard jobs? I work in a pulp mill. 12 hr rotating shifts, 4 days on, 4 days off. Take a nap then repeat. There's zero women here. Not because they won't hire women, we'd love to have some women around here it's all smelly dudes right now but women don't apply to jobs like this. Same with construction and any field that involves long shifts and or hard labor. And that's one of the real reasons for the wage difference between men and women. They want to force gender equality then are you going to force women to go to war and take hard jobs or is it only going to go in the other direction?

Any man who's not a self-hating Masochist would & should reject modern FEMINISM! Women in 2024 pretending it's still 1964 is getting old now.

Playing a victim gets addictive after a while

Imo, the issue isn't that feminist people don't care about men, but institutional feminism doesn't, and that's where the funds go and where policies are made. Example: For STEM, there are initiatives to get more women into those studies. For humanities, teaching degrees, etc , nothing for men, despite similar gaps. Do my feminist friends care about that? Absolutely. Feminist institutions? Not one bit.

"the problem today is that men are being told what "real" men are by womens with no fathers" -Dj Cara

Losing your career isnt scary if you already are insanely wealthy

You know why there term "toxic feminism" is not really used? Because that would be redundant...

as a mother of 3 young boys, i have genuine fears about them growing up in a culture that demonizes masculinity. i was raised in a conservative christian home where men were revered as the strong leaders, head of house figures. women were nurturers and supporters. and i don't personally think there is anything wrong with these roles, it has been the structure and backbone of the family system for thousands and thousands of years. and i might get a lot of hate from other women when i say this but we can see examples in society where when women are given leadership control, the systems fail. one example, the education system is now almost completely dominated by women, and our education in this country has gone to shit. and i believe it is because women are more easily manipulated. i said what i said. i think men need to be supported now more than ever, and i try my hardest to raise my boys with the mindset of being a strong leader and protector, but this world is definitely doing its best to make it as hard as possible for men to succeed in that role.

"Feminism is a social disease." -Markus Persson aka Notch the creator of the best game ever.

Asmons got good points, but I think he's generalizing quite a bit when it comes to guys "not being able to stop sending d*** pics". There's a lot, a LOT of guys that can't get into relationships that aren't total degens, and who genuinely aren't at fault. They're just traditional men that have been stomped on for being traditional. Like the passport Bros, who are actually normal and leave to find normal girls over seas.

About the "women don't genocide" comment. If you look at ancient Japans history with female rulers a lot of the post-Himiko ones were total war mongers. Evil doesn't prefer a any particular set of wobbly bits.

Most red pill content doesn't say their problem is women per se. They say work on yourself, fix yourself. Go earn, go to the gym, but avoid women because they won't help you get better, especially if you are already broken. You will not be valued by a woman or society except in your capacity to earn. Going into it with eyes open and knowing that doesn't hurt a guy. It lets them engage without being surprised by the way the world will treat them. It also tells them it is on them to fix it and themselves.

They use it as a shield

Asmon says “some guys do this too, everyone tries to blame other people” yeah. But the difference is most guys don’t, VS most women do. And even the guys who do, most of them keep it to themselves, the women who do are obnoxious about it.

“What should be the pinnacle/peak performance of a man? It shouldn’t be Andrew Tate; it should be Aragorn.” Based.