All she said was basically that the relationship became way too codependent and it made them forget themselves and change in some negative ways she wants to undo. Once he does that as well, and they're both in a healthier space, there's a chance for them to get back together. I don't know why people are putting words in her mouth. This is literally all she said and its mature as fuck. It's not good to be THAT codependent with your partner to the point that you cant walk anywhere by yourself anymore and need to be speaking to them almost 24/7. That's not healthy. Everyone should still maintain their individuality even in a relationship. Props to Liz for realizing this and for taking the necessary steps to amend that. I hope both of them the best and I hope they work on whatever they need to work on to become stronger and healthier individually and maybe some day together once again.

Please be respectful and don’t try to say there wasn’t any love because I’m not “really” sad. I have mourned this relationship already, I cried my whole eyes out. And he is truly one of the only people I have ever loved. I still love him just not romantically. It’s very complicated for me to share something this personal however I have always been honest from the beginning and it would be a shame if I didn’t update you about a big change in my life and my healing journey. I love you all so much, I’m so grateful for each and everyone of you. Thankyou 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️

You know what else is fascinating about her? That after all her personal realisations and preachments, after all her inner work on her spiritual and mental growth, she is still learning and not being afraid to show us!!! She proves it is okay to feel lost for a while, it is okay when something goes imperfect way in life. Thank you so much Liz, now I feel you are much closer to us we love you

This is exactly how I felt 4 months ago. I ended my relationship for this same reason and I’m working on myself now, I want to be better and evolve.

I’m gonna watch this 100 times Liz. Every day. I got out of a relationship where I thought I was going to marry him and he left. So I’m dealing with the aftermath. It’s incredible this message. Please post more breakup stuff.

I just got out of a 4 month toxic relationship yesterday.I am proud of myself.Thank you liz💕

''Putting yourself first is not selfish, it is self-love'' It's okay guys

In psychology they say that when you grow up in a toxic environment when you are a child that becomes your normal .. so when you get in a good relationship you feel something wrong because you are not familiar with that.. the feeling of being happy or comfortable is not normal to you so you sabotage yourself .. I recommend you to hear to sadiapsycology she will open your eyes and help you to recognize your patterns

She literally said „it’s not you it’s me” and she was honest

This is such an important example of how you do not need to stay in a relationship just because it isn’t toxic or unhealthy. i love how she isn’t afraid to remove anything that doesn’t push her and support her growth

Don’t let yourself feel like you are trapped in a relationship, if you want to let go of the relationship because it’s hurting you in any way leave,it’s not selfish or bad to leave,because in the end you did it for yourself ❤️. Edit: Thank you for the likes & for knowing ur worth Queens/Kings,love u guysss xx

Can we all agree that she is so real for this. Becuse like she could just come here and talk about self love and be in a relationship that made her care about herself less, but she realized the problem, ended it and said what needs to be said. Love you Liz, I hope you'll get your happiness back on top. ❤❤

The trick is do be able to do the things you want to do while in a relationship. Seperation might help bring you back into balance but it's a whole different thing maintaining that with a person. It's all about: No matter what the conditions I can mainatin my habits and my peace and joy. I don't have to control conditions because it's always me and me. You don't have to be seperate to have fire . The art is being in a relationship while being two individuals with passions yet making space for both to exist simultaneously without codependency.

This woman has literally changed my life. thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. Thank you, Liz, for everything!!!

Literally why me and my ex broke up. We both said that we had lost who we are in the relationship, and we need to find our individual selves first before we can be happy again. This really helped me process what's going on, because I too lost my spark for life and it's a tough spot to be in but everything will get better because it always does!

I just feel Liz is avoidant attachment style, being afraid to be merged in a relationship but not knowing how to keep oneself while being inter-dependent. This is not just a maturity thing, also it has nothing to do with love(because they love each other), it is attachment trauma.

people don’t realize that relationships can really drain you. it’s amazing to have that connection with somebody who is truly on your vibration, but vibration is always shifting, and sometimes, our time with the person is only meant to last a little while until we get to our next chapter. people view relationships in a really co dependent way and they assume it’s supposed to last forever but it doesn’t, NOTHING lasts forever. thanks for sharing your journey and perspective Liz, it’s really eye opening.

you are the reason i saved myself and adapted the mindset i needed

I dont get the contradiction in her beliefs. In some videos she talks about how femininity is all about letting things be, letting it flow, receiving, but now she talks about how shes too comfortable, too dependent on her partner, didnt have her hustle and motivation to make deals because of him. That's not really adding up to what she professes about feminine energy. Shes choosing her career and masculine traits over a partner whos literally providing for her and providing the space for her to be in her feminine. I think there's a lot of confusion in what she wants or thinks she wants, and hey everyone goes through it. I hope the best for her but just pointing out the contradictions that some people might not be observing.

I love this so much. Thank you. I'm single for 5 years now and this video still helps me to be MORE ready when I finally want to be in a relationship again. In the meantime, there's a lot of stuff to work with only myself and that's good. Loveee

To anyone watching this keep pushing through! You will persevere. ❤

Moral of the video is that it's *very* important to have a life and ambition outside your relationship. While I do think it's an issue one could communicate before breaking up, I'm sure you tried or that there's more to it that we as viewers simply don't know and that's fine. I have a friend that ended a 6 year relationship for the same reason and it's not been an easy path for them but it may have been the right one.

Talking to older generations and personal experiences made me realise that you should always put yourself first people will say it’s narcissistic but as long as you are not hurting people nor yourself , it’s okay if someone or something is not serving you your highest purpose , you should let them go : you may feel guiltier about being with them whilst knowing you do not truly want them if you are letting go of yourself or not focusing on yourself BECAUSE of your relationship , you have all rights to break up

I relate to this so much my best friend and i decided to give our friendship some time in order to heal ourselves. We were becoming extremely attached to each other and it was getting into a real toxic point, so as Liz says we have prioritized ourselves instead of losing us to the friendship

you’re so strong liz we’re all so proud of you

i love this. it feels so good to hear someone else talking about how a relationship doesn’t have to be awful in order for it to not be for you!

"I miss myself" beautiful ❤

Selfish people are the standard. This isn't a positive thing to strive for but a flaw to overcome.

I felt the same as you for a year. nobody understood me, they criticized me and convinced me to stay with my ex. I took pills to calm myself down, to get rid of anxiety. I also went to therapy trying to change my pattern of attractiveness. In the end we broke up. Sometimes it's good to do what you feel.

Ended my relationship a couple months ago. I had a similar dynamic to you where we were each other's everything. I'm also looking forward to getting myself back, working towards my goals, and learning more about what I like and want. I used to be very outgoing and developed social anxiety from my relationship. Gonna be single for a while. I missed being single. To all the newly single girls out there, we got this!!! Time to level up. :)

It's crazy how people's goal is to have a healthy relationship but once they have it they get bored of it ! Human is never satisfied

working on those things while still being in a relationship is the only way to truly solve the issue at hand. working on urself while single won’t fix a problem that u have when ur in a relationship. ur not working on the problem while being single ur getting back to the things u used to do. when u get in a relationship again it will be the same thing over again bc the relationship was never the problem.

So… I’m the only one who totally understand Liz and think she took the best decision ?

Ending a relationship meant a whole another chapter. We wish you all the best.

This helped me so much. It's so hard to break it off when you still love them

Abuse victims without proper help always seek chaos

The real relationship is where you support each others’ goals while working on yours. The real relationship is where you want to succeed together. The real relationship is where you work hard on your goals while you also pray for your partner’s success.

Part of being in a good relationship is building each other up and encouraging one another to accomplish their goals, encouraging one another to become better overall in all areas where they could improve

Yes to this… it’s very easy to be co dependent on one another! She is being honest and open about why the relationship wasn’t working for her. I can totally relate I focus on my partner too much when in relationships as it revolves around them and their needs whilst avoiding what I need to work on myself. Your amazing for sharing xx

i love you for this video. this is exactly what i’m going through right now and i felt like i was crazy bc of it thank you so much.

I really needed this video to get assured that ending a relationship for your own good is valid! Last year I ended a relationship for the same reason. I was just not working hard anymore. And after I broke up, the hate on me was insane! I did it for myself and I do not feel sorry. You go Liz!

Nah, honestly I got hurt by this video because it was my ex’s reason to break up with me. The truth is, people are not ready for healthy and comfortable relationship because they have their trauma and they are used to emotional abuse, so when the relationship is healthy they are getting bored. That’s it. I will never understand how one can give up on a person he/she loves. If you feel like you’re lost and have inner problems it doesn’t always mean there is something wrong with your relationship. It’s just a personal crisis that you can’t solve, and it’s always easier to break up as you think the true reason is there. It’s not always like that. Life is too short to give up on soulmates just because you are lost and go through stuff. I hate it that there is so much egoism and nobody cares about other people’s feelings. Relationship is not about one person, it’s always the work of two, and if you’re not ready to find compromise and solve problems why would you even enter a relationship? This all wasn’t about Liz particularly, it’s about people in general.

This is sooo so true! Everyone does come into your life for a reason. My ex was my lesson, he made me realise that I don't value myself enough and that I don't put myself first. He made me realise that I'm an anxious person with relationships in my life and that I'm such a people pleaser. I hate when people say "all that just become strangers again" yes the end result might be the same as it started as in being strangers, but you yourself are not the same as before you met that person in your life. They taught you a lesson, that will then allow you to grow and work on yourself. No one will ever be satisfied with anything nor themselves, so you'll always find something you want to improve and that is okay, life is a roller coaster and it goes on and on, that person who is your ex as much as they may have mistreated you or maybe they were a good person it doesn't matter, they tought you something, even if you may not realise it yet, and they just wasn't for you, God has pushed them out of the way for something better for you, not worse!

this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. i feel the same way as you Liz, thank you for opening my eyes AGAIN. i feel you.

Last year I broke up with my boyfriend for about the same reason. He may was a very good guy but I had lost myself, we wanted different things, we didn't do anything together, he only liked to have fun with friends, I had lost my femininity. Almost a year later, not only was I relieved but I discovered my true self! Grateful for that!❤😊

My Mom used to tell me it can be harder at times to leave something that is not forcing you to leave but that you genuinely feel in your heart is not right for you. And now in my life it makes (sixth) sense. It's choosing what is best for you. And only you know what that is. No one needs to understand your journey but you.💗

He sounds like a good guy. I hope he finds someone that appreciates him.

Liz you are so brave. Discovering your channel is one of the best thing that ever happened to me. Love you lots😘

Staying too long can cause resentment and I’m glad you stepped out when you did. Proud of you girl!!

Liz, I'm sorry but I'm not sure about this one. I understand what you say, sometimes being in a really long term relationship can be suffocating, but make sure you're not losing something really important just because you need a little space. I understand you're being very successful right now, you have a big audience and many people love you and support you, but trust me, real love from a partner is never to be taken for granted. I'm speaking from experience.. I've been in a long term relationship with someone who loved me a lot. We had a very strong bond but I eventually felt like I needed to get some space because I wasn't living my life fully like I wanted to (and I was also trying to find myself). When we broke up, I felt relieved and I was sure I could find love very easily after a couple of months. Just like you, I am a very attractive girl and I never had trouble attracting men. But now, 2 years after being single, I realized that even if i have many options, true love isn't to be found everywhere. A lot of men come to me, but they don't get truly interested in who I am and my personality. They're more fascinated by the image of who I am, my energy, my smile. Finding someone who's actually willing to listen to you, cares about you, wants to help you, and wants to be there for you is rare and very precious. Don't think that you will find better than him just because you may feel powerful at the moment. Those things are a blessing. Real and deep connections are a blessing. Also, you talk a lot about the importance of having a good relationship with yourself. Sure that is important, but know that you will never be fully self sufficient no matter how independant you are. Humans are not meant to be emotionally self sufficient. Whether you like it or not, we are codependent creatures. Trying to practise full self detachment at all cost will end up breaking you. Anyways, I hope this single phase will lead you to where you want to be. You will probably enjoy your single life at the beginning, but eventually life is going to feel pretty lonely after a while and you will miss what you had. Sometimes men love us so much, they become too nice and too generous with us. Passion disappears and we take them for granted. This space time will give good lessons to both you.

very proud of you for following your heart and thank you for sharing as it will also inspire people to trust themselves and not care about others' opinion in managing your own happiness. wish you all the best on your healing journey

I’m in the exact same situation since a week now and omg, that feels so weird but reassuring to hear that I’m not alone, to hear the words that describe exactly the thoughts that I got for 7 days now. And I think that it has helped me a lot, so thank you so much Liz.

Sharing something this personal by yourself is in this society something really brave, yet scary. My honest view on this whole situation is for everyone to really “listen to your own intuition” (as in the video stated). Because people go through so many weird, hurtful things that there is a million ways of adapting and moving on. You just gotta align with yourself, with your soul and find your own solution.

You’re a great example for all women. Never prioritize a man, they wouldn’t do it for you, women are socialized into believing it’s normal and expected for them to give up themselves for men, but you have the power to say no, I come first.

This hyper 'self love' and 'i need to put myself first in any situation' and 'i deserve nothing but absolute perfection' is how you end up alone and ironically lowering your self esteem because of it. Knowing when to look past others' flaws and when to put others first is how you end up surrounded by people who reciprocate your kindness and love and support you.

I’m not speaking about Liz, but felt it important to comment here as a recovered intimacy avoider: just make sure you aren’t in a pattern of leaving relationships anytime they get peaceful because it’s ‘boring’. I used to do this, and I was miserable. There are absolutely times when you’re truly not attracted to a person in a larger sense, and it’s not necessarily a toxic situation, but just remember that comfort is a normal part of a long term relationship. You won’t find longterm passion or motivation in a new relationship if you have underlying issues. As Liz said, you have to work to get that passion, especially after the honeymoon phase. It’s totally possible, but not if you always leave. So again, I’m not speaking to Liz, I’m speaking to the people who might need to ask some hard questions. ❤

Liz honey, although you mention that there was nothing wrong in your relationship, your words say otherwise. A relationship does not have to be toxic for you to leave. If your partner was clingy and couldn't function without you, that's an indication of a problem. If you felt like you were losing yourself and lost motivation, that's also an indication of a problem. Sounds like you both need to work on yourselves and be single for a little bit. If you're meant for each other, you'll definitely get back together.

Ya'll you don't have to leave your parter to learn being whole again and focus on yourself!!!! Took me ages to get that but it's true. Do you think 30,40 years of marriage last when people break up after each periodically in life popping up identity crisis?! Relationship is work, it's a battle, realising that it would be way more easy to leave but staying cause you made a decision. I'm not saying what she's doing is wrong or weak. It's a choice. But that choice can become a pattern and then you end up switching partners or breaking love each time you disconnect to yourself. This can't be the solution unless you deep down prefer to live a rather uncommitted life.

Liz thanks for being so upfront. You are also extremely young and there is NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT WANTING TO SETTLE! You are bettering yourself, you’re being a better you and that’s all that matters. As long as you are okay, that is all that matters.

Im so proud of you Liz! Not everyone understands what its like to put themselves first! Its never too late. Thank you for being so transparent with your words ❤

Liz, coming from someone who has been single for 22 years a.k.a. my whole life this gives me so much comfort to hear. I haven’t found anyone that matches my energy yet and brings out the full potential in me so I decline all girlfriend invitations as they do not serve me. However, how are you not so afraid of letting someone go that at one point served you so well? Don’t you get scared you won’t find that feeling again?

Please remember that people are not replaceable, having someone who truly loves you is super rare and nobody can be that person.

I love you so much, thank you for your transparency. I've been single and getting to know myself and I've been missing connection, but this reminded me of why I need to be single and continue on this path.

Gurl I relate each and every word. Thank you so much. I ended my relationship now I feel way better love you 💗

There is another quote “you can only know someone as deep as you know yourself” and this is so true.

Everybody talk about finding yourself and puting yourself in first place, because they aren't receive something in relationship. But nobody talk about giving your time and energy into something. In life sometimas our dear persons have hard time and they need us. You don't leave person you love during hard time. Relationships aren't easy or always beautiful. You have hard time and you have good time.

not related to the topic, but i love how the cat kept passing thru the camera 🥺

Man relationships will never work in this day and age people just quit

love how we all clicked on her newest video within the minute of her uploading 💕💖

I was stuck in a situation that was “comfortable” but made me lose myself, now I see the only way to find hope is to have the courage to change and accept the struggles as well . Thank you Liz! Your videos changed my perspective, I changed my habits and now I do believe I can become my dream woman. Be proud of yourself❤️ you helped a lot of people

Hi Liz! Your videos has helped me alot in my healing journey recovering from my first break up (and the really weird attitude switch up my ex did after i.e. basically disrespecting me just bc were not together anymore), and this video further proved that even tho he was the one who initiated the break up, the relationships i have with others truly is a mirror of the relationship to myself - hence giving myself another “whew I dodged a bullet with that one” whenever i think back on my first serious relationship.

I had experienced a few toxic relationships and leaving felt like I was born again. Till today I remember how incredibly happy I was out of the circle and because of it, my life turned 100% around for better. I would be miserable if I never left, I know that for sure.

I was in a relationship for 6 years and I think I completely lost myself. It's hard for me to wake up without him, to do something without his support, it's so terrible. I really want to find myself again, love and enjoy. Thank you Liz, your videos give me great support!

This is such an important video. I just got out of a relationship where we both were basically obsessed with ourselves, we couldn't go a minute without each other. It really made me forget about myself and my needs. I really do feel like prioritizing yourself is extremely important. Thank you Liz

Liz, you are so transparent! I love your videos, they help me so much! Thank you ❤

"I miss myself" this line🥺 OMG love it liz❤

i honestly relate to all of this. I stopped doing my own hobbies, didn't really try to find new friends, and it's as if he's the only person that I socialize with. got too comfortable that it feels like i'm no longer growing as person. it's like i put my life on hold because of him and good thing I realized it early on. (liz and other youtuber really helped me) and i started to actually make some time for journaling my thoughts, listening to youtube videos like these, affirming myself, and it wasn't easy but i'm starting to really love myself. told my bf this and he's really proud of me. anyways, just a lil rant. and to Liz! Thanks for sharing this to us! sending you hugs!

She's a person too, nobody's life is totally perfect from every angle, just because she advise us to be happy doesn't means that she herself can't have bad and unhappy days or challenging phase in her life. It's a huge thing that she's even sharing that private part of her life with us so respect her. More power to you, you're literally a wonder woman ❤️

You are so amazing… still showing vulnerability and that you are not perfect is so strong. I am even a bigger fan of your work now. You are so strong and what a mature person. Love you even more Lizz and wish you all the Best!❤

I was in relationship with a really narcissistic people and since I found out this channel I started to value myself more and that got him mad I started to love myself more and I had the courage to leave After all that he tried to ruin my reputation just because I left I can say that I’m a better person now I know what I want,what I deserve and I’ll never settle for less I’m the priority and all that is the benefit of your advice 🙏

therapy is expensive but Liz's advice are priceless❤

This is the best video ever Liz. You are like talking right out of my present soul.

Thank you a lot for this video! ❤❤❤ It really helps back to ourselves and choose evolving, instead of fear or comfort.

I love that she always think of us and always look out for us. It’s crazy because Liz is just so amazing, like she’s so different. I can’t comprehend how much a person online can help me this much. I’m glad I live in this generation even because she had helped me so much, I can’t help but think if I lived in an era before Liz exist my life would be harder. I would be very confused with most things and no people would help give out advice and stuff. I’m really the kind of person who kept to herself and always really avoid bringing attention to myself, I can’t ask for help or advice or anything so I find it very helpful and amazing that there is a KZfaq channel that I can go to and search for tips and advice on life. Life is complex and it’s really hard. I appreciate her very much.

Yeah Liz, same with you. I ended our 5th years relationship, it hurts so much. But I need to save myself from a man who doesnt appreciate me and relationship anymore. Even when I got hospitalized, he didnt visit me 😢 I need to wake up, I need to take care of myself, I need to love myself, I need to be kind to myself, I need to courage myself to achieve and support anything she wants to do. thank you for this video, Liz! ❤

Instead of talking through it, like a mature couple, she ends the whole relationship. People need to start learning how to KEEP a relationship by KEEPING on fixing it not just having one.

Great job Thewiwardliz!!! You've never made a mistake in your decisions and your will never make one because you must follow your feelings. Go girl!!!

as someone who was in the exact same situation, she is RIGHT. me and my ex weren’t mature enough to take the decision that liz and her ex did, so, as a result of isolation and self-neglect, the relationship turned toxic and eventually we broke up in a really ugly way. so yeah, break up & work on yourselves before it’s too late.

You don’t need a “good reason” to end a relationship. Simply wanting to end it is good reason enough. I ended a relationship a few years ago simply b/c it took up so much of my time that I wasn’t striving towards other goals as much. Even when I would try, I’d get distracted by my BF and so while that was good, my relationship with myself felt neglected. It made me sad which eventually made me resent the person I was with, even though it wasn’t their fault. I was also with someone who was content complaining about their life but doing nothing about it. I didn’t want that to rub off.

so glad that she mentioned that sometimes its godd to listen to ur own intuition. I know I need to detach from people so this video came at the right time💕

Liz the same thing I am going through rn. Thank you so much for uploading it. I needed it. Love you honey 🎀

*❤️Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!*

Liz you are genuinely so real for this. During my last relationship, there wasn’t anything horribly wrong going on between us, but both of us definitely needed to work on certain aspects of ourselves. And because I hadn’t yet gotten to a point where I felt confident in those areas of my life, entering a relationship made things worse because I think I subconsciously thought that being with him (a person I felt super safe and happy around) would make things eventually be okay. But sooner or later I remember I would cry every single day and night for hours because I felt myself slipping away. I loved my bf so so much at the time and I knew he felt the same, and it made the pain a thousand times worse cus I felt guilty for having these emotions. I still don’t know how to fully explain what I was experiencing but I had a gut feeling that separating myself from the relationship would help me find my spark again because it would force me to focus on myself, improve, and be okay with who I am alone without feeling so much anxiety. When I broke off the relationship, so many people would tell me I was wrong to hurt my ex like that (we ended things mutually and it was honestly a very sweet wholesome breakup), and that I was being selfish. It honestly pained me to have so many people say these things to me, especially knowing what I was going through mentally at the time, and there were lots of moments where I doubted my decisions and wondered if I should get back together with him. But at the end of the day, a year later, I’m SO glad I did what I did. My mental health is a thousand times better and I feel much more at peace with who I am. I no longer have panic attacks from slight moments of insecurity, I’ve sought help, and I rediscovered self-love. And I got in touch with my ex and now I know he’s finally starting to work on himself too, and I’m very proud of the guy. So ya, sometimes you really do have to be “selfish” for your own wellbeing. It could absolutely benefit both people❤

I truly had the same feelings like you. I was astonished when I watched this video. Before watched this video, I had informed my boyfriend three days ago about the things I miss the most including my previous self, how fantastic I was and how happy I was. I told him that I miss myself on the days when I was without him and how pity I am when I want to break my relationship with him. I know I still love him, but that emotion, like you described in the video, is no longer on fire :( I just wanted to give you a big hug for what you've shared, and I wish you a nice day!

i understand you liz. the connection you have with yourself is just different, it's like all your senses are turned on and you're just fully yourself, idk how to describe it..

Codependency is really difficult to live with and tends to slip into otherwise "healthy" relationships. Hearing your story is such a needed reminder to me as someone who can fall into these behaviors. Thank you so much for sharing.

I don’t get why people get dramatic when someone ELSE ends THEIR relationship like it’s literally your life and your decision it doesn’t affect anyone so be proud of yourself liz. Don’t forget how many young girls you saved 💗💗💗

Something tells me there’s more to this than you’re letting on. I went through something similar with my partner, I was being too codependent (to a toxic degree) and I neglected myself. How did it get fixed? I stayed in the relationship, focused on myself more/my hobbies/my dreams, went to therapy, and put heavy focus into unraveling my psychology, and got CLEAR on my goals. All the while, I still stayed in my feminine whilst nurturing the relationship. Things shifted, and it fixed itself with time! I gave us more space and room to breathe, and the relationship has been renewed. It’s NORMAL to be attached to your partner, but it sounds to me like you are afraid of vulnerability and fully letting him in. No matter who you date you will go through highs and lows, emphasis on the lows. Things get boring and stagnant a lot, this is normal for everyone. You really broke up with this man because you were too comfortable? Because he provided too much? I hope he moves on from you

I wish you the best liz , and for everyone here who's trynna heal and change to ther best version , 💞

Liz, you have a valid point, however, it is not enough to break up if really you guys love yourself dearly, rather you guys need to re-strategize and set appropriate space so you can still spread your wings whilst still having the right one by yourself. This is not a scarcity mindset but finding the one that you feel comfortable and compatible with is not something you should easily throw away, it doesn't come often. Unless ofcos I am missing something. Also, I understand that I don't have the whole story, so you do what you think is best for you. In all, I wish you the best