agree with you; people with autism usually have anxieties, depression, and all that mental health problems. it doesn't usually come alone, because the society

@@cheesburgerlady3598 Thank you brother for your nice reply to my older post.

+Geir Erling Gulbrandsen ... That's one of the plus sides of AS: the gift to see things differently from the rest of the so-called neuro typical people.

Good for you but my condition effects my quality of life. I would take the cure.

I understand how you feel. It would be horrendous for me to become part of the 'normal' brigade... mind numbingly boring!!

Mental health problems, like schizophrenia, are often caused by how people are brought up, and treated by their immediate family members.

Maureen Roland they're now on Netflix it you're still interested in watching them. :)

Amanda Arteno does he have mood swings? I have depression and moods

Keep going Amanda, for me was that way too. But now I can handle things that I couldn´t imagine then.

asperges has nothing to do with keeping a job may be its time to start his own business

@@mss4822 Late comment. But if you watch the full documentary he even says only 14% with Autism holds down a full time job, tho i've hadn't checked the statistics as i just got off the documentary!

@@ipixz3 aspergers is not bad as autism! I saw billionaires suffering aspergers (one was on Bloomberg sometime ago) this is why I believe they should start their own business, it not their fault it's others for not understanding them.

I also could not ever maintain friendships..but..I love learning .. adventure and anything in the outdoors ..I love being alone (although I do love to converse)..as long as you replace over-rated "friendships"..with worthwhile activities, you will make friends..but..not to be maintained for long..enjoy life each day..we do not know what our future is..it could be in a few minutes..do what you LOVE..not what you think society says you should do (or be)..then you will be happy...I am so very happy each day..I see many young people have such hardships, due to the fact , they try to be like everyone else..and I see a lot of misery..I never had that problem ,due to my special brain..enjoy your life ..every day when you wake..is a new beginning..you can change it completely at your whim..enjoy!!!

you are so welcome..anytime you have questions..feel free to ask

u r 65 and can use the internet?!

MRsjovealek WEIRDO weirdo

What's your real name? I hope everyone reports you...bye bye MSS!!

I didn't know that's and just like Gary Numan, This lovely man also received death threats and nasty parcels by nutters.

It's funny, I never liked Chris Packham until I saw the program title... My Asperger's and me. Bugger! I had to watch. Mostly in tears! Now I have a lot of respect for him.

I have kids and I would like to think its not torture for them...what was difficult was dealing with an autistic father for them but I matured enough, developed personally to a point where I am able to give them the love they deserve but we my son out it once "you are not like a normal dad" that hurt for a while. They have my traits but thankfully gifted enough to succeed in life.

@@mistert1628 u sound like a good parent which is something some autists dont have which is again torturous as well. ur child is lucky u care....

@@corsicanlulu thank you wasn't easy I was absent for their early childhood and I still struggle to connect at times but I learned being present is more important. If I had to do it all over again? I wouldn't have children not to sound cruel but out of sympathy for them and me

@@mistert1628 well im an anti-natalist myself so i understand completely. just....dont tell them this it will hurt them; but i know u wont. u seem very sensitive but some parents do tell children this sentiment not out of spite or anything, but it still hurts nonetheless

@@corsicanlulu you're a wise person yes words like that very nearly destroyed me because like Chris in the video my traits were recognised very late in life so now I try to pause and look at myself and that helps me realise (most of the time) how cold my words are because unfortunately I can be blunt and a little too honest. The love I have received from my family healed those wounds however...the world lacks respect simple basic humane level of respect for each other.

I guess.

i hope you’re doing better now x

Your not the only person feeling this pain 💔. Tho you may not realize it, there are people who love you even if they don't understand you. Peace

Buddy I know what you are going through but I also know how to fix it

Find a way to express your feelings, music, art, poetry. Give it a go. Read a book called the Charisma Myth and Dale Carnegie. Look into yourself for everything you are led to believe you have to get from others. Try shadow work questions and some inner child bonding work. Lots of love to you. Alot of us think this, go through it and come into the light and make your life work. Lead you life with love as often as you can, not fear. All the best 💖🙏

But is it really the Asperger’s per se that has caused you these issues, or society’s lack of acceptance of any deviations from the perceived normal? Because believe me, being surrounded by the right people (in particular with regard to employers) makes a huge difference - I know because I was pushed to the point of hating my inadequacies so much that I tried to commit suicide; and more than once. But now I’m happy again, I have formed new relationships, I have new colleagues and I am very successful at work. And this is all because I’ve found people who are willing to accept me as I am, autism and all.

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rama cosmocat that's heartbreaking news, and trust me I've thought about an early life exit. However, I just view myself as a late starter in most life activities and that leaving early euros devastate my family.

Well...I cannot compare my situation to yours because of our different genders and family situations (although we are the same age). Despite your intelligence, I'm not surprised you struggled in school because people with Asperger's have trouble with liberal arts subjects (i.e., English, foreign languages, Reading Comprehension, etc.) and having social problems will negatively affect performance. I wish I had answers for you, but I don't because I can't even figure out my problems. Thankfully, more people are becoming aware of Asperger's, which should help people like us, but it will take some time to notice changes in society.

Whoa, I do care about what you have gone through. I care about the struggle that every person with Asperger's goes through. I'm sorry if I offended you, that was never my intent.

Do you have an interest? It's likely you would be very talented at something you are interested in. If you do, check out YT for more info and what others are doing in that subject. You'll have more ideas. Whatever we are personally good at is actually in demand. What we struggle with is trying to fit into 'normal' jobs with other people around us. That becomes more about coping with their illogical oddities. It's them not you.

Many psychiatrists are crap in diagnosing high functionism autism, especially in women... they just read the checklist on their manual, and can't understand you can have some traits but not others and still have it, especially a few traits they consider absolutely present in everybody with autism

Beautiful! We simply cannot fit neatly with the soap-watching normal people. We understand life in a different way, logically more than emotionally. Personally, I wouldn't change anything and my life has led to an incredible understanding of myself, and now, others more and more. We are multi-faceted pegs that don't fit into predefined holes.

@@peterjones6733 beautifully said!!!

@@learningtolivewithhumans1859 aww thank you. I really appreciate that. :)

@@peterjones6733 you are very welcome

Baha! If you knew Owen Cook from RSD you wouldn't DARE say that! He's got the ol' Aspergers but also happens to be one of the most socially adept people I've ever seen

@Argumentology This was two years ago and I’ve had girlfriends since lol. Also, I dated an autistic one and sorry but I couldn’t date an autistic person again after that. They were too annoying and too socially inept

John Vallsäter The only way Aspies see the world differently is from abstract reality. I have a very mild case of it.

Difficult concept but, eventually, you may realise we do not have to fit the world of normies. WE are multi-faceted, often with incredible talents of our own. As we get older, it can become easier to understand. once we do, we begin to see how and where we Do fit. Life then gets better

You do still qualify as Asperger's. They just changed the term Asperger's with ASD to broaden the spectrum of autism and the criteria within which you qualify on the spectrum. You were diagnosed with Asperger's so you are still autistic, it doesn't just go away just because the medical community changes the umbrella term within which autism occurs. I really do hope you aren't diminishing your autism because of this and invalidating yourself.

I mind it very much but I wouldnt change a thing

No he didn't, you vile individual.

@@catwoman8861 Yes he did in a roundabout sort of way because i saw it & from then on he lost me. Google it & see what he said. It was we should stop trying to find cure, stop giving to cancer charities & re direct or money & give to animal conservation, do your research you moronic individual.

@@kevinparker461 you do understand ASD right?

It's an invisible condition.

David Golf It isn't really though is it. I think usually you can tell if someone has 'issues' and how you choose to treat them is a moral thing. In Chris Packham's case it's not as if he has ever done that badly, or even appeared to be very socially awkward, or very naïve, on TV. I wouldn't want to be hard on him if he did have problems, but his success must take the edge off - it's enviable for him to have done so well.

@@therespectedlex9794 I have always thought there could be a little ''Spin'' going on here. Very fashionable these days to have a ''label'' & then fish for ''Sympathy''. May be good when raising lots of money when you have a bee in your bonnet over something like HS2. Now with a fortune of tax payers money already being spunked, it would be foolish to stop, imagine the people that have already had their lives turned upside down find out it wasn't going to be finished. The main thing i have found about people who say they have aspergers is they get focused on something to the detriment of everything else & a usually are very selfish & have no empathy with others. Packham fits the bill perfectly, aspergers or not!.

@@kevinparker461 People with Asperger's are by definition supposed to struggle with, or lack, empathy. That said, it doesn't always mean that they do have the least empathy, or no sense of fairness. Depending on how assertive you are, or your station in life, things can be very different, for those with the same condition.

Tadesan I have been through horrendous things (that I don't even feel comfortable explaining) and no I'm not pulling the victim card here. My lack of social skills has made me an outcast, bullied relentlessly for even the smallest thing, lived under the roofs of Narcissists, but I absorb Biology, Anatomy, History, Psychology, Philosophy like a sponge, I have written my own Sci Find Stories, created Art pieces, composed my own music, and it's because of my Aspergers that I do these things. People want others with Aspergers to be "cured" so that they aren't bullied. An epiphany came to me years ago, why would I want to be "cured" so that I become like everyone else, bullies, unempathetic (and Empathy is one of my most powerful strengths) and to fit in with them giving away my drive for the things I love doing, for that focus, for the thousands of thoughts happening at once that HELP me imagine whole worlds in my head, to transfer in writing and in music, to give away my empathy, so that when someone else with Aspergers or Depression is being treated like shit, walking down the Corridors with loads of people laughing, staring, shouting at them, I'm to join in? Don't think so. The device you are typing this message on is an expansion of the early advances of Alan Turing who had Aspergers. The electrical devices, safely surging away to give you, warmth, light and entertainment, are from another Speculated Aspie, Nikola Tesla (not Thomas Edison) The major breakthroughs in Physics with a massive contribution from the most famous Aspie of all, Albert Einstein. The gorgeous work of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, inspiring so many, his genius living on throughout the ages. Electronic Music is everywhere, it's floodgates were opened by a pioneer who also had Aspergers and so happens to be my hero, Gary Numan. Still to this day making amazing sounds, heartfelt lyrics (and not dumb teen shit like Drugs, Sex, Alcohol and partying) and the many people he has inspired and influenced Nine Inch Nails Marilyn Manson Snoop Dogg Basement Jaxx Moby Trevor Something Deviant UK Goldfrapp Prince If you took Aspergers away from all these people, the world wouldn't even be the way it is today. And I know I must sound like some Supremacist but we practically BUILT this world. Hans Asperger the Nazi our disorder is named after dubbed us "Autistic Psychopaths" yet he like Mengele experimented on us and killed many of us, the myth that we don't have empathy yet we get the piss ripped out of us, then people want to drag us into that same horrid state of mind! I'm sorry but Fuck That! I would like to be me and not what everyone else wants me to be. It's not us that needs to change, it's everyone else (and no I don't mean everyone has to have Aspergers)

Ryan Hunter Well said, and though I think aspies can be narcissistic and psychopathic (not naming any names), it seems a morally neutral, or even better thing to have. 'We' are usually the ones who dodge bullies, not find victims.

@@therespectedlex9794 True, just because someone is an Aspie, doesn't automatically mean they are a saint. This of course is the same for Neurotypicals. There are indeed brilliant and amazing "normal" people out there who are unlike how we say them at times, genuinely compassionate, Empathic, good natured and respectful. I think it is society that needs to change, Neurotypicals have flaws in their society, but because their society is the majority and has been since the beginning, of course they are used to it. Great change and I mean REAL change, (not what every political faction from SJWs to the Alt Right or the most important politicians tell you ) where everyone is taught empathy, no need for modern cultures. Start from the ground up and begin again. We don't necessarily need more Aspies, just more compassionate people.

Ryan Hunter Yes, and those who downplay the morals of people in general are in my view suspicious. I've got a family like that, in fact. But also, books on the subject are written as if it's only Asperger's which is the problem for those who have Asperger's, or who don't, and of course it isn't. So everyone should know better.

Watch his full documentary. Chris speaks of how many times he contemplated suicide, went through dark loneliness and identity crisis about not being "normal". These 5 minutes were just a piece from his documentary.

the subtitles are hearing impaired people

Briddy Hll I do worry about people who say things like this😂

You are a twat.