WHY IT IS OK TO BE DISLIKED | What Other People Think Of You Is Not Your Business | Wu Wei Wisdom
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In this episode, we explore why it’s OK to be disliked.
If being negatively judged or criticised by others is particularly painful or debilitating, this teaching will help you!
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@JH-th9th 2 ай бұрын
A situation I have been in....the person who doesn't like me is upset that I'm not upset that they don't like me.....
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @JH-th9th, That sounds challenging, but your response shows great strength and self-assurance. Maintaining your composure and not letting others' feelings dictate your emotional state is crucial for your inner peace. Keep focusing on what you believe reflects your Shen spirit, and remember, you control how you choose to react. Kind Regards, David
@stern4141 2 ай бұрын
Haha awesome, that’s brilliant
@bsdbibliophile6492 2 ай бұрын
I came to the realization that I was people pleasing so much that I didn't like myself anymore, but even after years of trying to gain other people's approval they still did not accept me. They raised the bar, or the expectation, higher and higher. Pleasing them was impossible. So when I realized that and chose to be the me who I like and who I am proud of it made me much happier. I'm still lonely around people because I feel like an outsider, almost like I recognize the game they are playing and choose not to join in. I haven't found many people who are like me and who choose to try to be authentic and true to themselves rather than participate in the social rat race. But I would rather like who I am and feel lonely at times than feel like I have to fight to be accepted while hating myself.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @bsdbibliophile6492, Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s courageous to choose authenticity over approval. Remember, being true to yourself is the most vital step towards resolving issues with self-acceptance. It's natural to feel like an outsider when you step away from social pressures, but you're not alone in this journey. If you’re looking for support and to connect with others who value authenticity, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Here, you can find like-minded individuals who understand and share their experiences on staying true to their Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@dannydowns601 2 ай бұрын
I think if people don't like us are our best teachers because you can self grow into being authentic self. ❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @dannydowns601, That's a very insightful perspective! Indeed, challenging relationships can often serve as powerful catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Embracing authenticity in the face of adversity can strengthen and refine your Shen spirit. Keep nurturing your true self and using every experience as a stepping stone to further your journey. Kind Regards, David
@julien4741 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I have the thinnest skin, it keeps me from even leaving the house.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @julien4741, Thank you for sharing your experience. It's courageous to acknowledge how sensitivity affects your life. Remember, taking small, manageable steps to gradually expose yourself to social situations can help build resilience and confidence. Also, consider seeking guidance on strategies to strengthen your emotional resilience. You're capable of overcoming these challenges, and each small victory is a step towards a more fulfilling life aligned with your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@wanderer0617 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this teaching. I needed to hear this today after having a wave of self-doubt and insecurity.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @wanderer0617, Thank you for your message, and I'm so glad to hear that the teaching arrived at just the right time for you. It's normal to experience waves of self-doubt and insecurity; recognising and addressing these feelings is a big step towards strengthening your Shen spirit. Keep focusing on your growth and believe in your journey. Kind Regards, David
@enavfarhi8494 2 ай бұрын
I am HSP, and it took me years to practice this life lesson, you summarize it in 14 minutes🤗 I surround myself with people that I like and feel comfortable with😊 thank you ❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @enavfarhi8494, It's wonderful to hear from someone who has successfully implemented such a meaningful life lesson. Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) comes with its unique challenges and strengths, and finding the right environment and company is crucial. I'm glad our video could encapsulate something so important to you in just a few minutes. Keep nurturing your relationships and your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@noonespecial4171 4 күн бұрын
There's this pattern where I'd allow others to do as they liked and id accept them, but if I spoke up, I was the outrageous one and ostracised - regardless of how I'd never done anything to them.
@WuWeiWisdom 4 күн бұрын
Hi @noonespecial4171, Thank you for sharing your experience. It's often challenging when our voices are not valued in the same way as others'. It's essential to stay true to your Shen spirit and beliefs, even when others don't respond as we hope. Consider reflecting on your boundaries and how you can assert them calmly and confidently. This practice can help you navigate these situations with greater ease and clarity. Kind Regards, David P.S. You're always welcome to join our supportive community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
@alfredchongrandomthoughts 2 ай бұрын
Excellent points and reminders! Like the point that let people who dislike you go so you can have space for people who do like you, or even just more space and time for yourself.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @alfredchongrandomthoughts, Thank you for your appreciation! You've captured an important aspect of our message beautifully-letting go of negative relationships frees up emotional space and energy for positive interactions and self-care. It's essential to surround yourself with people who support and uplift you, allowing your Shen spirit to thrive. Kind Regards, David
@peggygregory1652 2 ай бұрын
It's my children who criticize me. It's a habit they learned growing up. Walking away means I walk away from grandchildren who need my enthusiasm. When I try to tolerate their complaints, I end up ruminating about the injustice. I feel tension in my body, hyper alert to betraying myself & trying to fit in, so I can love the grandkids.
@asmundberge1509 2 ай бұрын
What about people who don't like me but don't want to go away? People who just want to stick around in some form just to try to make my life miserable.
@yvonnelesleybrigenshaw950 2 ай бұрын
Yeah! I finally cut myself off from that Bunch...and that was very recently too! And I feel so much better, they begged me to get back altogether again, but after a couple of tries... I cut the cord once and for all...and it feels bloody marvellous! You can do it, you deserve better 🤗
@bsdbibliophile6492 2 ай бұрын
My father was that person for me. He was very vocal about disliking me but he thought I had to be involved and agree with him because I was part of the family. From his viewpoint that is just what families had to do. And he was the patriarch and we all had to listen to him. There was no escaping that situation, but if I gave in it would just invite more emotional abuse from him. Going to counseling taught me how to set personal boundaries. I would go to family functions that I wanted to go to, I clearly stated to my father what my boundaries were, and if at any point I felt uncomfortable or that my boundaries were being crossed I had a plan on how to leave and where to go. The situation wasn't ideal, but I didn't let my father control me or guilt me into anything. The same skills helped me coexist with toxic coworkers and other people in my life I could not avoid. I could establish as little contact as possible, set healthy boundaries, communicate what I needed, and have a way of getting out of the situation or taking a break when I was uncomfortable. I hope this helps!
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @asmundberge1509, Dealing with people who persist in negativity can be really tough. It's important to set firm boundaries to protect your peace and well-being. Remember, you have the power to choose how much influence someone has in your life. Focus on strengthening your Shen spirit and seek support from those who uplift you. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @yvonnelesleybrigenshaw950, Congratulations on making such a bold and liberating decision! It's fantastic to hear how much better you feel after setting those necessary boundaries. Your story is inspiring, and it’s a great reminder that everyone deserves to be surrounded by positivity. Keep cherishing your newfound freedom and nurturing your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @bsdbibliophile6492, It sounds like you've made significant strides in establishing healthy boundaries and asserting your autonomy, especially in challenging family dynamics. Your approach to handling these situations with clear boundaries and exit strategies is exemplary. This not only preserves your emotional well-being but also strengthens your Shen spirit. Continue to apply and share these valuable skills in all aspects of your life, and remember, you are always in control of your responses and your beliefs. Kind Regards, David
@monakhiytani4671 2 ай бұрын
Thank you David, thank you Alex. Your video inspires me. All my life I have been struggling to please people around me, including those who dislike me. As a result I have lost my own self. I will start to be myself again and ignore the negativity today. Your teaching is amazing. I believe my life will change to be better. Thank you both ❤😂
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @monakhiytani4671, Thank you for your heartfelt message. It's wonderful to hear that our video has inspired you to embrace your true self. Choosing to ignore negativity and focusing on what makes you feel at peace is a powerful step. Remember, each day is a new opportunity to live authentically and align with your Shen spirit. You're on a promising path to a better life! Kind Regards, David
@agathafistie 2 ай бұрын
Not only is it ok, it’s none of my business. It has taken me years to accept that.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @agathafistie, That's a profound realisation, and accepting it is a big step towards personal growth and peace. It's wonderful to hear that you've reached this point on your journey. Thank you for sharing your experience! Kind Regards, David
@PC-ds6zk 2 ай бұрын
I keep reminding myself of this in every situation but my inner child wants an explanation as to why other peoples thoughts and actions have to be directed towards me specifically at those moments
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @PC-ds6zk, It's great that you're actively reminding yourself to stay mindful in challenging situations. The desire for an explanation from your inner child is a natural response to feeling targeted or misunderstood. It's important to remember that often, others' actions and thoughts are more about their own issues and less about you. Continue to focus on understanding and nurturing your inner self, and keep strengthening your boundaries and your Shen spirit. This approach will help you maintain your peace regardless of external circumstances. Kind Regards, David
@PC-ds6zk 2 ай бұрын
@@WuWeiWisdom thankyou David, i really appreciate your response 🙏
@maroulio2067 2 ай бұрын
Love this- I'm quite good at not caring what people think about me- I have always dressed and worn my hair in a way that does get remarks sometime from family (even my daughter!) that seem critical, but I just say "I like it", and move on with the conversation.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @maroulio2067, It's fantastic to hear that you're confidently embracing your unique style and staying true to yourself despite external opinions. Your approach of simply affirming your choices and moving forward is a great example of maintaining personal integrity and self-respect. Thank you for sharing this empowering attitude with our community! Kind Regards, David
@sophiafelmingham8734 2 ай бұрын
My daughter caught me using 2 mirrors to see if the hait clip was straight on the back of my head and she said "the back of your head is none of your business" and I love that. I love the idea that other peoples ideas about me are also none of my business and they can go away and find people they like. But sometimes there are people we cant avoid like extended family (which if they are truly awful you can walk away from) but inlaws? Friends in law? Work colleagues? The "inescapables" as I call them. Sometimes people pleasing is a waste of energy but sometjmes its diplomacy for the benefit of our loved ones.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @sophiafelmingham8734, What a wonderful perspective shared by your daughter! It’s true, focusing on what truly matters to us rather than worrying about every opinion can be liberating. Managing relationships with "the inescapables" does indeed require a balance of authenticity and diplomacy. It’s about choosing our battles wisely and maintaining peace without compromising our well-being. You're navigating these challenges thoughtfully, which is commendable. Kind Regards, David
@multivox_musik 2 ай бұрын
This is so tough when you have the RSD that comes with ADHD.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @multivox_musik, Absolutely, dealing with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) alongside ADHD can indeed make emotional regulation and social interactions more challenging. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings and perhaps consider strategies that could help you manage these sensitivities more effectively. Seeking support from professionals or a supportive community can also be beneficial. If you think it might help, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is a great place to connect with others who might share similar experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
@soniapaterson6340 2 ай бұрын
I found this very helpful to hear. What it doesn't cover is when one has unwanted people wanting your time and freindship when one is not feeling strong. I always find that on some insecure days when I want to be left alone is the time when I feel the most put on by others. When one is not feeling sociable and is using their time to reflect but friends or collegues are pushing for you to be more social. I find this situation very hard to manage, especially as by being a people pleaser in the past that others do not except this change.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @soniapaterson6340, thank you for sharing your experience. It's understandable how challenging it can be when others don't respect your need for solitude and reflection. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritise your own well-being, even if it means disappointing others. Your needs matter, and it's important to honor them. If you'd like, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could offer support and strategies for managing these situations. Kind Regards, David.
@bachngocto6368 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful teaching from both of you David and Alex. Thank you 🙏🙏♥
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @bachngocto6368, Thank you so much for your appreciation! Alex and I are thrilled that you found the teaching beautiful. Your gratitude truly warms our hearts. Continue to embrace these teachings and enrich your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@paolatercero4424 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this lesson. I need to hear this.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @paolatercero4424, You're very welcome! I'm glad to hear that the lesson came at the right time for you. It's wonderful when the messages we share resonate and provide what you need to hear. Thank you for being part of our community and for your encouraging feedback! Kind Regards, David
@arjaloggers4509 2 ай бұрын
Thankyou Alex and David, so much recognision in this video! Again and again I notice which believes are underneath my fears which sabotages me. Next week I will do 3 days innerchild work in a group and hope my inner child feels more and more comfortable with all the challenges in life (and me too ofcourse😊) I am so grateful for the work you both do!❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @arjaloggers4509, Thank you for your heartfelt message! It's inspiring to hear how you're actively working to uncover and address the beliefs that underlie your fears. Your upcoming inner child work sounds like a powerful step towards greater comfort and resilience for both your inner child and yourself. We're grateful for your appreciation and wish you a profound and healing experience next week! Kind Regards, David
@JohnSmith-ks5xw 2 ай бұрын
This is such an important life lesson. Thank you.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @JohnSmith-ks5xw, You're welcome! I'm glad you found the lesson important. Remember, every step you take in understanding these concepts brings you closer to resolving issues and living in harmony with your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@Lee-255 2 ай бұрын
Love this, so helpful, as always. Thank you both 🙏
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @Lee-255, Thank you for your kind words and for always being so supportive! We're thrilled to hear that you find our content helpful. Your encouragement motivates us to keep creating and sharing. We look forward to continuing this journey with you. Kind Regards, David
@moyaeastwood6094 2 ай бұрын
Hi guys uiu do have to come back to these lesson more than once 🙏🏼🌸👋☝️🙏🏼Thankuou
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @moyaeastwood6094, Absolutely, revisiting these lessons can be incredibly beneficial as each time might offer new insights or reinforce important concepts. We're glad you're finding value in returning to them. Thank you for your commitment to personal growth and for sharing your journey with us! Kind Regards, David
@donnaclarke8033 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, what about when someone decides they don't like you then deliberately start to target you and behave vindictive towards you through no fault of your own ?
@katedaley8974 2 ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat. Got dumped by a 34 year friend who is now vindictive towards me and has completely blocked me. I didn’t even do anything wrong, it was a misunderstanding/misinterpretation over a minor issue. I apologised for the misunderstanding as I didn’t know for months and then she went off at me over text calling me toxic etc and just dumped me out of the blue on New Year’s Day. I’m still struggling with it.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @donnaclarke8033, Dealing with deliberate negativity can be very distressing. It's important to protect your well-being by reinforcing your boundaries and possibly seeking support from trusted individuals or professionals. Remember, you can't control others' actions, but you can control how you respond. Maintain your focus on your own values and the integrity of your Shen spirit. If you feel overwhelmed, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community might be a supportive space for you: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
@watercolourartincapetown2919 2 ай бұрын
11:47 👏
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @watercolourartincapetown2919, Thank you for the applause! I'm glad that moment in the video resonated with you. Keep embracing the teachings, and may your journey be full of insight and growth. Kind Regards, David
@anthonygevorkian2661 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼 I needed this today 💜
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @anthonygevorkian2661, You're very welcome! We're so glad to hear that our content was what you needed today. Remember, you're not alone on this journey, and we're here to support you every step of the way. Kind Regards, David
@Liz_Gow 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the wisdom and the way it is presented. Hearing repeated in different ways starts to make this feel the 'norm', hopeful and possible. :)
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @divinelyledliving, Thank you for your wonderful feedback! We're delighted to know that the way we present our wisdom resonates with you and feels hopeful. Reinforcing these concepts in various ways can indeed help in making them feel more normal and achievable in daily life. We appreciate your appreciation and are here to support your journey! Kind Regards, David
@mariarichards5221 2 ай бұрын
Perfectly timed. How did you know 🥰🙏Thank you both.
@foolbritannia956 2 ай бұрын
I agree with you to a extent about focusing on yourself and being happy with yourself “BUT” if you are growing as a person you have to do inner work including shadow work otherwise how can you self reflect and self correct if you go around thinking I’m okay nothing to do here you end up looking like the conservative cabinet member- stupid evil of no value or regard to anyone other than yourself how do you ride this tight rope of not giving a damed and honest self appraisal?
@katedaley8974 2 ай бұрын
Agreed!!
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @mariarichards5221, Thank you for your heartfelt message! It’s wonderful to hear that the timing was just right for you. Alex and I are thrilled that our video could offer the support and insight you needed. Continue to embrace your path and trust in the timing of your experiences. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @foolbritannia956, You've raised an excellent point about the balance between self-acceptance and self-improvement. It's important to embrace the concept of continuous growth, which includes engaging in inner work and shadow work to fully understand and resolve deeper issues. Honest self-appraisal is essential-it allows us to recognize both our strengths and areas for improvement without falling into complacency. Keep striving for this balance, as it's key to nurturing your Shen spirit and living authentically. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @katedaley8974, It's great to see you engaging with the discussions and finding points of agreement! Sharing and connecting in this way can be very enriching. Keep embracing the journey and deepening your understanding along the way. Kind Regards, David
@Carbonatedjello 2 ай бұрын
Who doesn't like David and Alex? You guys are the best ❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @Carbonatedjello, Thank you so much for your kind words! We're thrilled to have you with us and appreciate your support. It's wonderful to know you enjoy our work. We aim to keep providing content that resonates with you! Kind Regards, David
@watercolourartincapetown2919 2 ай бұрын
The timing of this video is serendipitous, 🎀 I’ve learned this lesson this week and it’s been such a valuable lesson to learn 🙏 self-validate
@katedaley8974 2 ай бұрын
I’m the same!
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @watercolourartincapetown2919, It's wonderful to hear that the timing of the video aligned so well with your recent experiences. Learning to self-validate is a powerful and transformative lesson. Keep applying this wisdom, and may your journey continue to bring you insights and fulfilment as you nurture your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @katedaley8974, It's great to hear that you can relate to the content and experiences shared! Remember, you're not alone in your journey, and embracing these teachings can further enhance your understanding and connection with your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@watercolourartincapetown2919 2 ай бұрын
🤗 I like that you like you, I like that I like me.. it’s so much easier to make friends knowing that they like themselves enough to not need me to fill in the void 👍 what a beautiful lesson ... I’d be very curious to learn more on this topic in the coming weeks. Practical steps to implement in our friendships and other human interactions
@coryharry7300 2 ай бұрын
Thanks - just ordered a book from the library to learn more about this.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @coryharry7300, That's wonderful to hear! Diving deeper into learning is a fantastic way to expand your understanding and personal growth. We hope you find the book enlightening and helpful. Thank you for your enthusiasm and commitment to learning! Kind Regards, David
@dianapaloma3102 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Bless you both. 🙏❤️
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @dianapaloma3102, Thank you so much for your blessings! We're delighted to hear from you and appreciate your kind words. May you continue to find joy and insight on your journey. Kind Regards, David
@Vxruxxss Ай бұрын
But what if I did embarrassing or unkind things to deserve people to not like me?
@WuWeiWisdom Ай бұрын
Hi, It's important to recognize that everyone makes mistakes, and part of growth is learning from them. Choosing to understand your actions and their impact can help you move forward in a positive way. Remember, every step you take towards self-awareness and improvement is valuable. If you're looking for support or advice on this journey, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. You're not alone in this. Kind Regards, David
@anthonyhirst3940 2 ай бұрын
Watched many times your both great together ❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @anthonyhirst3940, Thank you so much for your continued support and for watching our videos multiple times! Alex and I are thrilled to hear that you enjoy our collaboration. Your encouragement motivates us to keep creating content that resonates and helps. Keep tuning in and joining us on this journey of discovery and personal growth. Kind Regards, David
@anthonyhirst3940 2 ай бұрын
Great advise ❤
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @anthonyhirst3940, Thank you! I'm thrilled you found the advice great. Keep applying these insights to live a life aligned with your Shen spirit. Kind Regard
@peggyjeangregory 2 ай бұрын
Abraham Maslow's higharchy of needs says after safety, being loved is a basic need. Are we going against our basic needs by saying we don't need love from outside?
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @peggyjeangregory, That’s a thoughtful question. While Maslow’s hierarchy highlights the importance of love, recognising our ability to cultivate self-love and inner peace can be equally vital. It’s about balancing external connections with strengthening our inner resilience and self-sufficiency. If you’re interested in exploring this further with like-minded individuals, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a great resource for you: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
@rahuldwivedi9278 2 ай бұрын
I loved it ❤❤ thank you 🎉
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @rahuldwivedi9278, Thank you for your kind words! I'm so glad you loved the video. Your support means a lot to us. Keep embracing your journey and stay true to your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David
@TimCCambridge 2 ай бұрын
~ Great! thanks!
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @TimCCambridge, You're welcome, and thank you for your positive feedback! It's great to hear you enjoyed the content. Keep tuning in for more insights and guidance! :-) Kind Regards, David
@V.E.R.O. Ай бұрын
I have a lot of difficulty with my reactions to criticism, my mother never compliments me on anything and occasionally makes criticisms about my weight (that I should lose it), being late (even if I show up on time) and sleeping in late (I work at night). She's elderly so I visit her regularly every weekend and when she makes a critical comment it makes me want to pull away and I usually skip a week. I understand that what she thinks of me is none of my business but is there a strategy I can use to deal with these critical comments? Should I say something back? Ignore it completely? Change the subject? I usually freeze and say nothing or try to defend myself.
@WuWeiWisdom Ай бұрын
Hi @V.E.R.O., Thank you for sharing your experience. Dealing with criticism, especially from loved ones, can be challenging. Here are a few strategies that might help: 1. **Set Boundaries:** Politely let your mother know how her comments affect you. For example, you might say, "I appreciate your concern, but these comments are hurtful to me." 2. **Stay Calm:** Practice staying calm and composed when criticism arises. This can help you respond thoughtfully rather than reacting emotionally. 3. **Redirect the Conversation:** Gently change the subject to something more positive or neutral. This can help steer the conversation away from criticism. 4. **Self-Affirmation:** Remind yourself of your own worth and accomplishments. Focusing on your positive attributes can help reduce the impact of negative comments. It's important to take care of yourself and maintain your inner peace. Kind Regards, David facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
@V.E.R.O. Ай бұрын
@@WuWeiWisdom I'll do that, thank you so much!
@mutyabajoseph756 Ай бұрын
Wonderful 🎉
@WuWeiWisdom Ай бұрын
Hi, Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Your support is much appreciated. Kind Regards, David
@kerryfaden94 2 ай бұрын
Hi Thank you so much!! This is huge! I’d this Buddhist ? And could you refer me to other Buddhist sites
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @kerryfaden94, Thank you for your enthusiasm! While our teachings are inspired by Taoist wisdom principles. However, they align well with many philosophies, including some Buddhist concepts. For a broader exploration and discussion, you might enjoy joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/, where like-minded people share their experiences and insights from various backgrounds. Kind Regards, David
@marktiabrunocooke3875 2 ай бұрын
This is my biggest problem
@marktiabrunocooke3875 2 ай бұрын
I had counselling and I've reached a good point in my life But still suffer this , thank u
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @marktiabrunocooke3875, Thank you for your candidness. Acknowledging the challenge is a significant first step towards addressing it. If you'd like to delve deeper into understanding and resolving this issue, our community is here to support you. You might also find it beneficial to join our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/, where like-minded individuals share their experiences and insights. We're here to help you navigate through this. Kind Regards, David
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @marktiabrunocooke3875, It's great to hear that counselling has brought you to a good point in your life. It's quite common to experience ongoing challenges even after making significant progress. Remember, growth is a continuous journey, and it's okay to have moments when things feel tough. Keep utilising the tools you've learned, and consider ongoing support if it helps. We're here to encourage you every step of the way, and our community can be a great resource for additional support and shared experiences. Kind Regards, David
@mikehardy3823 2 ай бұрын
Maybe I’ve misunderstood what you actually mean here, but I can think of loads of examples where it matters what others think…. For instance, going for a job or promotion, if you’re in court or stopped by the police ! Ime sorry for this one, but it’s still relevant…different religions or ideology’s, ( I don’t think I need to expand on this) could have a massive effect on us. I understand from a purely spiritual perspective, but this is not written in stone what you say ? Please help me to understand this, because this is the first time I’ve actually disagreed with you. Thanks and Love. Mike.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mike, Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for your honesty. You raise important points. Indeed, there are situations where the opinions of others can have significant implications, such as in professional or legal contexts. Our teachings often focus on the personal and spiritual dimensions, encouraging individuals to find a balance between valuing constructive feedback and maintaining a core sense of self that isn't overly swayed by external judgments. It's about discerning which opinions to take to heart and which to let pass, enhancing our well-being without compromising our integrity or professional responsibilities. Your engagement with these ideas is valuable, and discussions like this deepen our collective understanding. Kind Regards, David
@tinamccormick5385 2 ай бұрын
What if it becomes both of your daughters ❤ do you try fix this with constant resistance or accept this❤.
@WuWeiWisdom 2 ай бұрын
Hi @tinamccormick5385, That's an important question. Striking the right balance between addressing concerns and accepting situations can be challenging. It often helps to focus on understanding and supporting rather than fixing, which can reduce resistance and foster harmony. If you're looking for more insights and support, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
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