Why Men Are Alone. The Ugly Truth Women Don't Want to Hear.

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The loneliness epidemic. Men opting out of dating. More people than ever living as single. What is happening? I will try to give you a man's honest perspective.
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@spencermarkham1 2 күн бұрын

Loneliness is the nasty consequence of living in a society filled with narcissists!

@cheds1 2 күн бұрын

Freedom

@morpheusmurphy3921 2 күн бұрын

This.

@MathVdb 2 күн бұрын

That's why I love spending time in nature! Hiking, camping. The silence and peace of mother nature is bliss! The best, FREE healing available in this often toxic & confused society! (Nature is addictive!)

@feliciajoy2264 2 күн бұрын

We are fully Equipped with devine power and grace. To heal and keep our peace ❤Please remember that..

@tripleb7232 2 күн бұрын

Yep I divorced one! Unfortunately there everywhere

@leechrec 2 күн бұрын

If a woman gets offended when you try to be nice to her, run.

@BaiMengLing 2 күн бұрын

"when you try to be nice to her" stop trying and become a really nice person, if you are so damaged women get offended by you I suggest you read about CPTSD and do attachement healing, I wish you well

@Fuk99999 2 күн бұрын

@@BaiMengLingcringe. Dealing with the average midwit is enough to make anyone be annoyed

@MypersonalURL 2 күн бұрын

@@BaiMengLing Hello feminist. Please shut it.

@Alex-on8yu 2 күн бұрын

When you're a handsome millionaire and you kick a woman in the street, no one will be offended. When you're ugly and you help a woman who accidentally fell on the floor to get up, you go to jail.

@jimbusmaximus4624 2 күн бұрын

Of course the very first reply would be that lol

@Kyle-sr6jm Күн бұрын

Alone is better than being with someone and feeling alone.

@carlmorgan8452 Күн бұрын

Overcoming the flesh and the world is not easy. HOLY SPIRIT ✌❤

@Adrenaline_fix Күн бұрын

Millions around the world are with someone and put up with abuse to not be alone because they prefer to avoid the loneliness which they thinks kills them but in the end, they put up with abuse so they pay the price. I agree with you 100%

@user-zj6mv6eg8q Күн бұрын

@@carlmorgan8452 But it gets easy with practice, right?

@yankeejohn58 Күн бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking!! 👍🏻👍🏻

@yankeejohn58 Күн бұрын

❤

@paulboissiere1278 Күн бұрын

People who get offended on PURPOSE!! Misunderstand on PURPOSE!! That’s such a perfect way to put it. That’s EXACTLY what’s going on and it is absolutely heinous, and nauseating

@JP-fx4ki 12 сағат бұрын

I loved the way that was worded as well. Perfectly called out for what it is.

@drrachelblackie2976 12 сағат бұрын

Was just going to acknowledge the same comment 💡

@okiepita50t-town28 11 сағат бұрын

It’s become a contest of who can be the biggest victim.

@lookupEdwardBernays Сағат бұрын

The deliberate removal of nuance is the essence of tyranny... Can't remember who said it

@RenzoRavioli 2 күн бұрын

Social media broke the world. Expectations and demand for attention and positive “likes” nonstop. Super unhealthy

@Shiryone 2 күн бұрын

As did educational system, politics, etc.

@paulgrayson3597 2 күн бұрын

Technology has totally changed life, people are not the same. I miss the days growing up as a child. Now kids have smart phones at 3 year old, no hope for the poor things.

@paulgrayson3597 2 күн бұрын

Wow, I just replied and it was removed within seconds 🤔

@HPLovesCraftsCat 2 күн бұрын

this world is ruined

@robinchwan 2 күн бұрын

has gone on for far longer i'm afraid, social media just accelerated it. there are people that think we're too many on this planet and want to cull down the populations alot. just read about the georgia guidestones and you'll see what they want.

@stortacus 2 күн бұрын

The problem between American men and women is that they are competing against each other in almost every facet of society rather than accepting complimentary roles to progress through life together.

@scienceegypt7291 2 күн бұрын

This was done by design...the destruction of the nuclear family.

@scotteric8711 2 күн бұрын

Nailed it. Social engineering promotes spiritual grandiosity. Intimacy exists in surrender, not competition.

@elaine1034 2 күн бұрын

It is all a deliberate gov't tactic of conquering a country by breaking down the family and the unity of it's citizens.

@car8070 2 күн бұрын

perfectly said.

@faethe000 2 күн бұрын

Turns out money is a better partner than men.

@timpearce3314 Күн бұрын

Tried everything, being nice, being loving, being generous, being caring, being hard working, being the listener, being the provider to many girlfriends ,partners, and once "a wife"!! Only to have been lied about, abused physically, ripped off and robbed, attacked mentally to the point of despair, smacked hard across the head when I refused to give in or use the word NO! Got to 50 y/o had enough! ran away (no kids) lived on my own in another part of the country got a job and a flat, stayed single, and now at 68 y/o been retired for two years, peacefully enjoying life like never before in fact ,I can rejoice in a life of total bliss with nobody telling me "how it,s going to be!" I am not "tarring" women with the same brush" just stating that I was one of the unlucky ones, just a shame that there are "so many of us??" Live single guys, especially if getting over 50 ish with no hope in sight , don,t put up with it , lifes worth living!! 💔💗👍🍀....

@elyzak333 Күн бұрын

Women go through the same exact thing with men. This is not unique to men.

@clayringler6958 Күн бұрын

At 73, I've been single for 21 years and at this stage in my life I couldn't be happier. Being single is never having to say, "I'm sorry."

@TheVenom46 23 сағат бұрын

Tried much the same as you, brother. I've just turned 40 and am walking away from dating and relationships. Too much abuse and modern women bring nothing to the table. I'm already finding the peace that you have achieved. It's lonely sometimes but then I speak to women I know and the loneliness disappears 😂 Respect to you my friend, your comment gave me hope

@nowhereman7413 23 сағат бұрын

@@elyzak333 women do not go through the exact thing he describes. Women are not providers for the men.

@Dogwatch219 22 сағат бұрын

I’m a woman and did exactly as you did only to be lied to and robbed. It’s a sad world so many of us alone because we can’t find each other.

@holzhausholz8215 16 сағат бұрын

So glad i grew up in the 80s. We dated pretty, educated women with goals- no tattoos, piercings, high body counts or half shaved heads. We married women whose goals aligned with ours. Thankfully social media didnt exist!

@SC-fk9nc 13 сағат бұрын

Nevertheless female nature was the same at that time, social media allowed the negative potentiality to express itself fully with the current consequences presented in the video.

@mernokallat645 38 минут бұрын

You sould only date someone with ZERO body count.

@geordiegeorge9041 2 күн бұрын

My wife of over 40 years, still cannot understand that six men can sit around a camp fire drinking beer saying nothing. Men want peace.

@memitim171 2 күн бұрын

I've met plenty of guys who don't know when to shut up too though, a friend of mine once told me the reason he likes to hang out with me is because I know when it's ok to not talk... 🤣

@MultiSweener 2 күн бұрын

Except in the Mideast.

@sonneversets3530 2 күн бұрын

UM....Don’t think so. Especially w/beers flowing. What’s that saying...? *Instant A Hole...just add alcohol.* *Truth*. ...No matter how many years pass.😂

@IbnRushd-mv3fp 2 күн бұрын

Must be a generational thing, it's always gay jokes and horseplay when the boys are in town.

@annelbeab8124 2 күн бұрын

Not just men

@meshugganator08 2 күн бұрын

been single for 10 years. the dating scene is a travesty of human interaction

@anniesok868 2 күн бұрын

you just failed at it - Men dont choose to be single. They dont have a choice.

@opticalsalt2306 2 күн бұрын

It's a bunch of confused kids trapped in 24 year old bodies pretending they're okay with their day to day activities, not everyone but a lot of them

@susananderson9619 2 күн бұрын

Assuming you are interested in young women

@bmsuperstar1 2 күн бұрын

I'm in my mid 30s, and I too passed the 10 year mark. No one attracts me anymore. It's weirdly satisfying.

@spacedman42 2 күн бұрын

been longer for me.. the dating is sick.

@on2thenextthing Күн бұрын

If you're a man and you have money, never get married without a rock solid prenup. You're just setting yourself up for financial ruin. Literally.

@JohnSmith-zo6ir 21 сағат бұрын

Even pre nups are broken.

@sandywichmann9292 21 сағат бұрын

Same goes for women. My ex husband cheated on me throughout our entire marriage and behaved so irrationally since we separated that we lost a six-figure sum trying to split our assets.

@AB-hu2uw 20 сағат бұрын

@@sandywichmann9292you should have give him better head and s*x, and been nore submissive

@Victoria-qc9vw 19 сағат бұрын

Fuck you. Im not marryiing without me taking at least half of your assets after I have to divorce your stupid body after you cheat. Just live in your money and don't come near women.

@dswilliams2686 19 сағат бұрын

If you feel you need a prenup you're marrying the wrong person. Don't get married at all.

@bucephulus4600 Күн бұрын

Australian here, managed 24 yrs married to an Australian woman and then I called it quits. Was just a nightmare. Four and a half years later, I married a Romanian. 🇷🇴 One of the best decisions I ever made.

@peterbaini8752 Күн бұрын

Be careful she could be related to Dracula

@ValWarzone Күн бұрын

As a Romanian living in Northern Europe there’s just no fking way I’m settling down with a non-Balkan woman

@dawnroe7482 20 сағат бұрын

Well said

@motrock93b 5 сағат бұрын

Now to keep her away from the other women in your country who will try their best to indoctrinate her to their ways. They'll try to ruin your harmonious union.

@marcblank3036 51 минут бұрын

I dated some Aussie ladies before 2015. I agree even then it was too hard work trying to not offend their feelings and ideas

@tassie2348 2 күн бұрын

As a woman, I totally agree. Where has femininity gone? Where has self-respect gone? All part of the agenda!

@user-rr4nl9yq1w 2 күн бұрын

100% accurate BUT most men think with their small head and cannot be faithful. I say why bother with them. Perfectly happy single and hard working

@tassie2348 2 күн бұрын

@user-rr4nl9yq1w I'm lucky, I have a wonderful, old-fashioned, hard-working husband. Took me 3 go's to find him though! 😂

@hamptom11 2 күн бұрын

Me too. Been married 27 years and still going. I would be scared to death trying to find a partner today.

@allisonshaw9341 2 күн бұрын

In my family, the women run the homes, farms, and businesses because most of the men are deployed in the military. Being strong and independent is not at all being unfeminine. We are the backbone of any society because we're the ones who get things done and take care of everyone. No people are conquered until the women have been ground into the dust, and women are far harder to destroy than men are.

@markojuric4954 2 күн бұрын

Due to social engineering, femininity was partly turned into feminism, and partly lost. In both cases femininity hit the wall of natural laws.

@roblloyd1879 2 күн бұрын

As a 77 year old I can't handle the manufactured drama. I am not just talking about women here, both sexes seem to want to emulate TV soap drama. Me! I just want a quiet and enjoyable life.

@turbosnowy 2 күн бұрын

TBF Grandpa this aint your problem and not something you need to worry about per se. It's the younger generations that are getting hella screwed by this and who ultimately need to fix it.

@raynarks 2 күн бұрын

@@turbosnowy you believe that old people should care about children. Ageist prick.

@GilbertdeClare0704 2 күн бұрын

With someone you can really TALK with and find/ DISCOVER new aspects of SELF that cannot be found alone. The SECOND I hear those TV soap lines, I am OUT of there

@firstpersongamer5476 2 күн бұрын

I’m a 22 year old man and I couldn’t agree with you more. It’s very exhausting when the majority of adults, both inside and outside my workplace, are absolutely desperate for drama. Either that, or they’re so immature that they don’t see that their behavior is embarrassing.

@Tyrfingr 2 күн бұрын

I was born in -77 And i feel the same way, before the internet and cell phones. The social life was a paradise. These days i just want to live in a log cabin out in the woods. All i lack is the money, if i had it. I would be gone tomorrow right into the woods.

@RayG817 20 сағат бұрын

It's always funny when someone mistakes their personal preferences for "The Truth."

@prestonbane4176 15 сағат бұрын

lol, the personal preferences of the vast majority of people is what he's commenting on. if you try to when an ugly-contest with your style choices you simply reduce your odds than anyone will be attracted to you. If you don't mind working with very reduced odds so be it...

@RayG817 13 сағат бұрын

@@prestonbane4176 What would you say if I told you I don't like the way you look and act, and I asked if you were trying to win an ugly contest? You'd probably tell me to f-off. Well, that's what I'm telling you.

@RayG817 13 сағат бұрын

@@prestonbane4176 Maybe it's time for you to look in the mirror, lol.

@0xreplikant 23 сағат бұрын

The BEST thing about social media is that it exposes the cluster b (mainly borderline, narcissism and histrionic) type of people instantly. You meet a woman and she asks you for your socials and when you look at her profile it's all just selfies in more or less sexual suggestive ways that signals "hey look at me, I'm available so pick me!" to hundreds if not thousands of her followers. That''s an instant disqualifier to me and I'll never ever get involved with a woman like that on a deeper level. It's what the kids would call a huge "red flag".

@Gullvivas 18 сағат бұрын

👍👍

@benayeb9952 17 сағат бұрын

well said truth

@TimelessWisdom737 16 сағат бұрын

You say you won't get involved with a woman like that on a deeper level...does that mean you are gonna gonna get imvolved on some level, still pick her up, sleep with her, then dump her? Is that moral behaviour, does that make you a man with principles and values?

@SuperPhunThyme9 16 сағат бұрын

What the shlt? Have you never heard of honesty? @@TimelessWisdom737

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

@@TimelessWisdom737 You are a TROLL. He obviously Does NOT believe that. Intentional MISUNDERSTANDING BECAUSE YOU HAVE BAD, BAD ATTITUDE

@RickCarroll-Canada 2 күн бұрын

What's impossible is finding someone who can leave their smartphone turned off.

@skullanones 2 күн бұрын

True that

@SartorialisticSavage65 2 күн бұрын

Demand it. I always did and continue to. I start arguments about it early and if they don't like it, they can keep fishing.

@SartorialisticSavage65 2 күн бұрын

In the 2000s in high school, this shit was already going and I refused to bend.

@Tmate4444 2 күн бұрын

Problem is there's so little to do in a lot of places.

@RickCarroll-Canada 2 күн бұрын

@@Tmate4444 That's called no imagination.

@julieharding6631 Күн бұрын

So true - social media is incredibly damaging; I am a 70 year old woman and I see these girls and boys who seem to have become completely lost and have little or no self respet - which means they do not respect others either. Their values are pitiable . It makes me sad to see but have to believe it will change . Blessings

@pedroferrr1412 Күн бұрын

But the problem lies with there fathers! I´ve a son with 21 years old, and he don´t belong to this epidemic, few friends, all like him.... And my son, is an handsome man, in every way! Very proud of him, but i suffer for him, because i´m afraid that is life will not be like mine. Our society of today, only wants unhappy people.

@George.Coleman Күн бұрын

I see entitlement amongst the old. Respect is earned

@DaveE99 19 сағат бұрын

@@pedroferrr1412 mothers can be just as bad

@monikaeducation6378 16 сағат бұрын

They do not want to live in prisons of relationships 🤷

@thundergun933 15 сағат бұрын

Thanks for confirming what he said was true and pointing out people use social media. Hope you get all the ĺikes.

@funkymunky1238 Күн бұрын

I have always been a caretaker and provider in my relationship trying to save men. I have found being alone for 8 years has helped me forgive myself for discounting myself and forgetting me. Not all men are bad, not all women are bad.

@BrokenBrain100 20 сағат бұрын

💯% this is me. Alone for 6 years after catering to selfish men, giving up my own life. I'm so content now.

@johngalt6838 19 сағат бұрын

Most women are bad...sorry. Since the female vote our country has declined.......abortion, family courts, divorce initiated 80% by women......

@teaadvice4996 2 сағат бұрын

Based

@sim9373 20 минут бұрын

And now you can’t have children

@Andysworld365 Күн бұрын

Social media has destroyed human love, romance, dating, courtship. Truth is hard to digest at times. Appreciate you sharing your perspective, not many Men have the balls to do so anymore.

@LordPrutsikas 19 сағат бұрын

They should ban them

@allisonshaw9341 16 сағат бұрын

I'm older than social media, and romance usually dies after marriage and usually because the man thinks that he has the woman so he doesn't need to court her anymore. Then he gets blindsided when she wants to call it quits because she's tired of being neglected. If you look at animals, the males constantly court the females, even in lifelong pairs such as wolves, crows and ravens, swans, doves, and raptors. They are attuned to their mate's needs, and engage in physical and vocal wooing, as well as bringing gifts - a stick for the nest, the choicest part of a kill, a trinket of some kind. Guys forget that women have emotional needs that need to be met consistently, and not meeting those needs or being careless of them starves the relationship.

@nicholasrandall3507 15 сағат бұрын

Social media didn't destroy love. It exposed what used to be swept under the rug, ignored, or done behind closed doors.

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

@@LordPrutsikas social media doesn't need to be banned. Everybody needs to Stop Looking at it by their Own Decision! put social media out of business!

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

@@allisonshaw9341 I agree. But also, Both men & women have been taught the wrong ways to behave for many, many generations....its just gotten Worse with social media.

@kerryl4031 2 күн бұрын

The whole point of women being women and men being men is that we are supposed to complement each other, not strive to outdo the other. Both of us have weaknesses and both of us have strengths to make a stronger team together. When the balance is out of kilter it all goes wrong!

@jvnd2785 2 күн бұрын

Funny, all that "striving to outdo each other" becomes a problem once a woman can decide her life- never the other way around. Once she can earn her own living, pursue her own goals and enjoy her own life...once she is not chained to an emotional imbecile (honestly, a donkey has more intelligence than all human males), once she is not sacrificing her whole existence.

@MichaelLeonhauser-nn4or 2 күн бұрын

And balance has been lost, if it ever existed at all.

@twophotons 2 күн бұрын

Couples with kids always think in terms of us or we. Individuals only have I. That has no future. They consume but never create.

@jvnd2785 Күн бұрын

@@twophotons, having kids is the ultimate act of consumption and selfishness (it always starts with "I want a kid"). Popping kids is not creative- it's just what dumb people with no ambitions do. Single people, on the other hand, are the creative force of the society (they have the time to spend on important stuff that makes a difference to the society).

@bellahnemetona5924 Күн бұрын

Exactly my words!!! That's it.

@anzwertree 2 күн бұрын

I am alone but not lonely. A quiet home is harbor to a functional mind.

@LilyGazou 2 күн бұрын

Poetry. 👍

@sonneversets3530 2 күн бұрын

💯 Big difference in being alone, & lonely. I love being solo in my home. I’m not lonely. I have a wonderfully diverse circle of friends, & many options to enjoy life around me. 👍♥

@stepchicken3238 2 күн бұрын

Somebody said something like, "Only people can make you feel lonely."

@Tmate4444 2 күн бұрын

Coooooope

@LilyGazou 2 күн бұрын

@@Tmate4444 no woman, Tom? Trolling the internet?

@virgierutledge3004 Күн бұрын

A mature woman here in the US. You did a wonderful job trying to identify both men and women's attitude of today. The powers that be want division. The corrupt media/propaganda has so much power to manipulate. Worshiping idols, materialism and vanity are worshiped. WWII took women out of the home. War is hell and planned by the rulers. So many women are smart and able to do things and possibly lead but most men can make important hard decisions. I hate to say it but most women in seats of power are influenced by the higher thugs. But putting a pretty face out there for the public to hear spewing out idiotic crap is what we get. We married young, combined finances (we had nothing) raised two boys. Worked hard for (to pay the government more taxes. Please people man or woman rethink your priorities and live as free as possible in this upside down world.

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

SO TRUE!

@2Question-Everything 5 сағат бұрын

Powers that be......historically men, correct? So, the powers that be, the ones planning war and all the things in the world you're railing about-men, right? Maybe not 100 per cent but it's up there, right? So you are happy with all those tough decisions these men made? For this world you live in? But they weren't ever influenced by thug, though. Cause they were men, right? Or they just were the thugs? Women proved themselves competent during WW2-the war ending put them back in the home, whether they wanted to be there or not. The economy changed and one income wasn't enough to run a household so women went to work. And women have proved themselves very competent in the f'ed up world men created, but I can't help wondering what the world would look like today if women had had equal power and a seat at the table from the beginning. Less hungry children.....less war..... these would be women not coming from a history of trying to be important and special because they could embroidery or be most valued for their looks........can we get there? And soon enough.

@noneofyourbusiness4595 21 сағат бұрын

As a regular decent man, I have to say women have very little to offer aside from heartache.

@farmersgrip 17 сағат бұрын

They can spend your money and up your stress levels too

@cbird4922 17 сағат бұрын

Did it ever occur to you that your idea of “decent” isn’t something that women want or need? If 50% of the population has nothing to offer to you, maybe you’re the problem.

@allisonshaw9341 16 сағат бұрын

And as a woman, I can say the same about men. Humans are a largely selfish lot who have forgotten how to live in cooperation and putting the needs of others first.

@Chris-lt9hb 16 сағат бұрын

That would be toxic women. The problem is the people in power (banks, media and gigacorps) have realized they can manipulate society through manipulating women, because of the natural pull women have over men. The old way of r*ping women to demoralize men is still in full effect to this day. They used to do it though "beauty" magazines, media and industries, but since social media came along womens' minds are being r*ped more effectively than ever. We seriously need to take a more mature stance on social media. It cannot be as unhinged as it is. And we need to realize we are under attack and manipulation from above. The class warfare is in full effect, and if you are a consumer, of their products or their words, you are a slave. TRUE collectivization is the answer. All big societal instances should be under the direct control of ALL people. Not authoritarian communism and not authoritarian capitalism (=feudalism, which is the end result of all capitalism). You need a pure, undefiled, and uncorrupted democracy for this. That is the first step. Private interest needs to get out of government. Then we can talk.

@cathytilford388 15 сағат бұрын

I feel the same about men, very little to offer. I’ve been single for 30 years.

@danielbast352 2 күн бұрын

57 and Single for 8 years running and it’s been the happiest I’ve been since I was 20. No human has raised their voice in anger, nothing but peace and adventure

@TheMPExperience 2 күн бұрын

This sounds like you picked the wrong women, which is not a reflection on woman as a whole.

@danielbast352 2 күн бұрын

@@TheMPExperience every dam time since I was 16 😂😂😂

@brennancarter7721 2 күн бұрын

You lack the critical thinking skills to follow the linearity of social progression and behavior. Have fun merely seeing what you want to be true and nothing else.

@BaiMengLing 2 күн бұрын

my boyfriend was single 10 years, he was happy but he would tell you that meeting me as 59 years old was even better because he really didn't expect to find love at this age :p

@TheMPExperience 2 күн бұрын

@@BaiMengLing Thats beautiful!

@philg7889 Күн бұрын

Agree with everything you said. I've been telling people for years, 'social media is poison', and put up with their laughter. It's astonishing they couldn't see this coming. I'm 62, and despise society of today. We've lost so much.

@bradpnw1897 Күн бұрын

Darn right.

@pedroferrr1412 Күн бұрын

55 years old, felling the same as you! Every IdiXt, everywhere with there F|K phones in the hand. They don´t even know how to talk...

@julielehman1921 Күн бұрын

Me2 and I'm going to be 62. People are gross and weird

@godswittness69 Күн бұрын

I'm 48, can't believe first smart phone came out in 2009. They told us the Internet would make us more connected and solve all problems including world hunger. Disgusting world we live in now, but rejoice, the end is near ! 🙌 Hallelujah !

@rodeleon2875 Күн бұрын

i'm 62 and agree. society has went to hell ever since social media and smart phones came out. its amazing how fast things just went to shit since 2008. you can take that date any way you want to. organizations pushing hate and division, however subtly, have been legitimized and even applauded. lazy, slovenly behavior and lifestyle has been glamorized. obnoxious behavior is mainstream. traditional values that built this country are demonized and ridiculed. our country is fucked, to put it bluntly and so is most of the world.

@user-zj6mv6eg8q Күн бұрын

Instead of dehumanizing, we should all be humanizing the best in another, whilst eliminating all negativity from the media.

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

SO TRUE!!

@enough1494 Күн бұрын

Self esteem and self worth is developed at home by example and life style. I raised four kids alone, widowed at 39. I am 67 today; and I had not tv, nor computers at home. Each kid got a car the summer before senior year if earned and had to hold a job to sustain said car. However, as a retired teacher, and in my 27 years, half of my kids, in the USA, had no stable father/husband present at home. That lack of balance and stability was replaced with gadgets, yes, it has indeed hurt our children.

@BadgerBotherer1 2 күн бұрын

I've given up on humanity entirely - men and women. I try to spend as much time as possible alone in nature. Only then can I be happy.

@rpersen Күн бұрын

You are not alone in that friend, best regards from Norway

@amberlagoon962 Күн бұрын

I fully understand,.. I like walks with my dogs and watch there spirit ❤ South Africa

@SigFigNewton Күн бұрын

Solitude is wonderful. Relationships are too, tho. Romantic or not, don’t let yourself actively avoid relationships too hard. If you wind up sharing with someone your love for nature, that would be wonderful too.

@robertjones9006 Күн бұрын

Please don’t give up on such things. I humbly ask you to consider the following: is giving up on such things a form of inner resistance, and if so, does inner resistance to life (in any of its manifestations) lead to suffering?

@unrulytoast1189 Күн бұрын

Alone time is the only time I feel 100% relaxed.

@johnjay370 2 күн бұрын

This goes beyond social media. Broken people are doing broken things and then broadcasting that to the world. The cycle of history continues.

@margaretwebster2516 2 күн бұрын

think you just about nailed it, they are broken, societys broken.

@benvolman4976 2 күн бұрын

The whole world is not like that. Just the western world.

@dylanhealy8126 2 күн бұрын

@@benvolman4976 But it’s a cancer that IS infecting the rest of the world. Even China is having a dating/relationship crisis because of social media

2 күн бұрын

One word people.."Hollywood"

@ninjacats1647 2 күн бұрын

Its not the first time people were broken by improper socialization. Google the dancing madness that occurred centuries ago. Its a bizarre condition, and my hypothesis is that it is not genetic, but passed via social contagion and improper socialization.

@YogaStarGreece Күн бұрын

As a woman I totally agree. Most sad is, that if both genders are in their polarity they are so much stronger and better together.

@rustycowell7264 6 сағат бұрын

Using the word polarity put you in my fruit cake zone. Its reaching a few million now

@Josith13 2 сағат бұрын

Loneliness feels forced on me... Seems like it's either be an uncaring gymrat edgelord, or be rejected. Softness, caring, honesty is taken for granted and punished. Best to be a sociopathic animal

@teaadvice4996 2 сағат бұрын

If he's 6ft

@donaldisgrigg7785 Күн бұрын

You never have actually known true freedom , `till you have lived alone.

@TheStarcruiser 19 сағат бұрын

It's the best way to live👌

@Test-Tube-Baby-xo8xx 18 сағат бұрын

It's still not true freedom. Every aspect of your life is monitored, restricted and controlled.

@dickenscider7328 17 сағат бұрын

I’m so sorry to tell you but I became free the day I married my beautiful wife 51 years ago. It was a much simpler time, and a wonderful time to be alive, we had very little but we’re and still are, immensely happy. To love, hold, caress, cuddle, hug and sleep with someone you totally adore is, in my opinion the closest anyone could get to a perfect life. I feel the most blessed person on the planet.

@deborahmayer9161 2 күн бұрын

As a 73 yr old woman I agree with everything you've said Bjorn. Truth.

@arsenelupiniii8040 2 күн бұрын

If only there was something we could have done 50 years ago about the elephant in the room.

@judykuzmitz4585 Күн бұрын

71 year old woman here in the u.s. and I agree with him also.

@anwa6169 Күн бұрын

Oh yes, me too. He is such a breath of fresh air. Greetings from a 45 year old woman in Germany.

@aarondimoff5180 2 күн бұрын

I have a wonderful wife of 15 years, but she came from communist Romania, where people had to deal with real, acual hardship and persecution. She's become a woman who knows between right and wrong, is practical, down to earth, and realistic. Great wife.

@diana-cy4kj 2 күн бұрын

Lol

@aarondimoff5180 2 күн бұрын

@@diana-cy4kjdafuq in what I said is worth Loling at?

@pearlfeather9326 2 күн бұрын

Oh couldnt find one here so you went overseas....is that it:?

@Z329-ut7em 2 күн бұрын

@@pearlfeather9326 you do know people from Romania immigrate to the US right? Romanian women are very conservative and have self respect

@vickyingramnymann8543 2 күн бұрын

My Norwegian husband is the best man in the world. When Norwegian Vikings came to England, those girls must have jumped into those boats!

@MegaWolfgang 23 сағат бұрын

Why are men staying single? Simple. The costs, penalties, and headaches far out weigh any benefits. The prize is not worth the price or the effort!

@josephberrie9550 22 сағат бұрын

women are no longer the prize......the prize has been discounted to bargain basement levels and poundland

@ElsaKing-lp1nq 21 сағат бұрын

I am 34 year old European women and i 100% agree with you. My whole life society has made me feel like something is wrong with me just because i am very feminine , delicate and willing to admit that am not a strong independent feminist, and appreciate the strength and care of a man. I have never been career driven and prefer working part time because i want to have time for those i love and care for my health and home and not to be in constant stress trying to 'do it all'. Society and woman especially look down on me for that ,but its ok. I have peace and its nice to not have to compete with others.

@gg_ingy 14 сағат бұрын

I don't think anyone looks down on that. Seems like a totally normal mindset to me.

@ElsaKing-lp1nq 11 сағат бұрын

@@gg_ingy not sure where you are from but in most western countries girls are told from a young age to work hard for a career and make money in order to be independent, and that you can do anything and more than a man. In my country they want to make it harder for women to stay home with kids or work only part time because they want to push them to be equal to men. I feel that it's an unhealthy pressure since all women are different and not all of us are able to keep up with that expectation. They also make it financially impossible to survive unless you do conform. They are taking our choice to choose.

@gg_ingy 11 сағат бұрын

@@ElsaKing-lp1nq I was born in the Netherlands and living in Sweden.

@ElsaKing-lp1nq 10 сағат бұрын

@@gg_ingy then you must know what its like. Feminist ideology has been brainwashing women for years now.

@teaadvice4996 Сағат бұрын

@@ElsaKing-lp1nqyour mother already chose for you. You now have equal rights to men

@uglukthemedicineman5933 2 күн бұрын

People must stop casually sleeping around and strive towards self-respect, modesty and dignity.

@minimaxmiaandme.4971 2 күн бұрын

And living together after they have known each other for 1 month.......nobody wants to take the time to get to know each other slowly. Those that married in the 40's all had long lasting relationships and they never lived together, waited to have sex when they married and took time to get engaged and learn about each other and the respective families. There should never be a rush to find a partner. It is the biggest decision of your life.

@kristoffer8609 2 күн бұрын

To be fair though, that is mostly a female problem. They're the ones who control the access. If women became more modest, men would too.

@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 2 күн бұрын

All these men complaining about ho"s should be asking themselves who's making the ho"s. Or even matter, ask themselves the last time they looked at p"rn, and if they'd sleep with a woman if she offered it to them. Most have, most would. Western men live in hedonistic materialistic societies and they're getting the women they asked for. This is what they wanted isn't it?

@Tmate4444 2 күн бұрын

Yes, men included

@kristoffer8609 2 күн бұрын

@@Tmate4444 Let's be real though, this is mostly a female problem.

@billyholiday4947 Күн бұрын

My mother took care of us as we progressed in life! Now we take care of her in her elderly years! No old folk home for her!

@museonfilm8919 Күн бұрын

You are thanking her, for the gift of nurture.

@olih6493 Күн бұрын

As it should be. Society has made it so that even being a stay at home mother is a bad thing. The children spending less time with their family, ruining this natural cycle.

@uptimod4715 Күн бұрын

My mother was bedridden and unable to turn her body during her final year of life; I was her primary caregiver until the end. Such an experience is beyond words; I would not hesitate to rush in and do it all over again.

@kathymcmc Күн бұрын

I'm so glad for you. My mother would chase us through the house with a knife and Mason jar. She told us she was going to chop us up and shove us in the jar. This happened more than once. When we were older, 13 and 16, she told us to never have kids, they ruin your life and nothing is ever about you again. So she lives with the youngest child who didn't have to live through this and no, the older ones never had kids. Not all mothers are worthy.

@SigFigNewton Күн бұрын

@@museonfilm8919for every nurture is an equal and opposite renurture

@GymShark_Open 23 сағат бұрын

Single 5 years. Women just cant shut up and im not tolerating terrorism in my own home.

@jackd6372 21 сағат бұрын

Lol

@Gullvivas 18 сағат бұрын

me and my ex loved to talk a lot both,that was wonderful. You need to find the right match in personality!

@dragonmartijn 13 сағат бұрын

@@GullvivasBut now it’s your ex?

@jobarreto6934 12 сағат бұрын

😂

@HeIsEternal- 12 сағат бұрын

ain’t that the truth 😂

@jonathonpotts5666 15 сағат бұрын

I don t eat sugar or ultra proccesed food, i keep myself fit and healthy. I would like a woman that is on the same page.

@astralpowerr 5 минут бұрын

i rather she be happy. She will outlive u anyways.

@Falconlibrary 2 күн бұрын

I'm a man who has been married and has been with a lot of women, both short-term and long-term, over the years. One thing I've learned: it's better to be alone than to be with someone who's bad for you. I've chosen to be alone because, at the end, I want peace and tranquility, not drama.

@user-er4jm1ln8c 2 күн бұрын

Goes both ways 😂

@jvnd2785 2 күн бұрын

You are alone because of your high body count. No self-respecting woman would choose a man-prostitute.

@user-bv1gq5jz9z 2 күн бұрын

@@user-er4jm1ln8cexactly.

@marcodarko6941 2 күн бұрын

Can't just let it be, justlet it go in peace.. always gotta get that last word in. @@user-er4jm1ln8c And with that I will say that it really doesn't go both ways in that regard.

@zeenuf00 2 күн бұрын

@@user-er4jm1ln8cJesus, how many lame-ass comments like this are there? 😆 🤣

@mydistrust 2 күн бұрын

I may be alone, but I am not lonely.

@jeffreiland7463 2 күн бұрын

I would rather be alone than bored.

@BioluminescenceOfTheSpirit Күн бұрын

Far less lonely when you're alone

@life4trinity Күн бұрын

I need to learn to be the same 🙏

@SergeyRyzhankov Күн бұрын

Heat, 1995 🔥

@sunnymeee Күн бұрын

You definitely have a house near nature because you can't say this living in concert jungle

@treborwilliams 20 сағат бұрын

I would rather be a loner with no friends than a clown trying to keep up with the circus

@djf8619 16 сағат бұрын

The fact is that expectations have become so huge, that no one can measure up. Men or women. Husband and I just celebrated 50 years married. There is a lot of give and take, but too many people today only want to take, and are not willing to give. It is not a 50-50 relationship. It is giving 100 percent on both sides. That is what makes a relationship work. I know that sounds like some sappy meme, but it is actually true. Relationships fail when this doesn't happen.

@shawnotoole1421 2 күн бұрын

People are offended when you tell the truth... because they know what you are saying is true.

@MACTEP_CHOB Күн бұрын

"You can't handle the truth!" Col. Nathan Jessep

@Filosofiakanava Күн бұрын

He did not even define what he meant.. Maybe that is how they sell things. Make you see what you want to see.

@user-dh9me5ug4x Күн бұрын

Not agreeing with someone else's point of view is not the same as being offended.

@shawnotoole1421 5 сағат бұрын

@@Filosofiakanava He was avoiding being cancelled. We all knew what he meant.

@shawnotoole1421 5 сағат бұрын

@@user-dh9me5ug4x To disagree with "authoritative sources" is unforgivable "thought crime" as things are... and it is getting worse.

@tumarfa 2 күн бұрын

Hint to young men: In nature, bright colours often signal that an animal is poisonous. 🤔

@SweetPotatoDingo 2 күн бұрын

But it can also mean that they are genetically fit and have taken care of themselves. Looked at almost every bird on the planet

@taras3702 2 күн бұрын

Women with tattoos are no different. I'm a man and I find them in general off putting on men or women alike.

@Black_Void_ 2 күн бұрын

@@SweetPotatoDingo Yeah but humans aren't birds and we know from experience that men and women who dye their hair bright colors tend to be mentally unstable.

@carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679 2 күн бұрын

The term is "apoptamism". Usually, brightly colorful things are toxic. It's a cue.

@carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679 2 күн бұрын

@@SweetPotatoDingo usually the MALE birds....not the FEMALE birds...but you knew that when you made your comment, right? Of course you did.

@LordsMobile080 20 сағат бұрын

Alone by choice 👌 The peace and quiet alone is worth it

@carolinbrandon2185 13 сағат бұрын

All I see on social media these days is men and women telling each other their flaws and arguing who's worse and less desirable. It's so sad... I'm grateful that I grew up without social media for the most part. The pressure young people are under these days is incredible. Everyone is competing with each other in pretending they have the most amazing life and they seem to forget what life really is about.

@user-vq8ub7nq4y Күн бұрын

Strange that they complain about men being toxic, dominant and aggressive, but they display these attitudes in so many social interactions

@jennyhohmann4384 Күн бұрын

Nailed it!

@bmiga Күн бұрын

it's all projection and attention seeking.

@petercrane2560 Күн бұрын

Gaslighting it's called!!

@Josith13 Күн бұрын

They also chase those men and then cut and cry about it on social media while 1000 dudes DM who would treat them well

@kathymcmc Күн бұрын

Most of those women complaining are basing their criticism on what they are watching on TV. They haven't had a man in his natural habitat. LOL

@de-janeniles1120 2 күн бұрын

Im 63yrs and my husband's 82. We have been married 32yrs. He was my 2nd husband, after my late husband. He was the old school, who opened doors, picked up shopping, made bubble baths for me after a hard day at the office. He's never changed! I can say after a bad first marriage, I have truly experienced love.

@morpheusmurphy3921 2 күн бұрын

That is awesome!

@ItApproaches Күн бұрын

You say you experienced love...but you seem to have left out your side of the equation. You take his love, but are you giving him love or just being like most women who take take take...you said what he does for you but what do you do for him?

@OpenlyBritish Күн бұрын

That's beautiful

@trevorsmith7753 Күн бұрын

Don't tell him about Pattaya soi 6!

@Aberamentho2010 Күн бұрын

@@ItApproachesRight. Based on that description, he's been nothing more than a convenient servant to her. Quite sad actually.

@DinoMan_6 Күн бұрын

Beautiful scenery. May Norwegians be able to defend these lands for many years.

@dumpsterbaby3155 21 сағат бұрын

social media and simps are their downfall

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

I didn't run across the expression "simps" until a few days ago. THIS EXPRESSION IS PURE EVIL.

@chris_hawk 2 күн бұрын

Bjorn, as a young man in my 20's living in Canada, I will tell you why young men have become "weak" and "directionless" in today's world. The answer is lack of family and community. Many of us have been brought up by divorced parents, sometimes a single mother, and we lack that positive male role model in our lives who can teach us the fruits of hard work and labour. Also, we see the hatred that young women have towards us, often implying we are just r@pists or abusers. We eventually give up on finding a partner and look down on society for making it so hard for us to be seen as 'valuable'. Some of us seek that missing love in other places, such as in friendships, but too often are friendships one-sided and transitory. A young man who is constantly told he is replaceable and unlovable will eventually give up on society, much to the surprise of those around him. Many of us do not consider ourselves weak, but instead we consider this an act of defiance against our abusers, as futile as the end result may be.

@MrDedushkoMoroz 2 күн бұрын

First of all do not blame anyone for who you are . Secondly why do you care what other ppl or women tell you ? You just need to be the Man who does not give dam stuff about society or their opinion .. All of them can for and fcik themselves . lol. Care about yourself and your close circle

@CarlGustavHung 2 күн бұрын

Highly insightful, nothing to add.

@Haley22_22 2 күн бұрын

Agree .. father role models a boy what is like to be man in the world..

@Embrabrummie 2 күн бұрын

@@Haley22_22 Speaking as a father of 3 daughters, it is equally important for girls to have a positive male role model. One of my daughter's friends had two "mums". Not surprisingly, she now has "mental health issues". When she was a girl, she was fascinated by everything I did, and was obviously hungry for a Dad of her own. She even took to wearing bowties, which I did for work.

@utopicconfections5257 Күн бұрын

Find a church that preaches and teaches straight of the Bible. Find the Lord. Once you find these, you'll find a woman worth being with who will love you equally.

@dvmcvaanimalwellnessworld3833 2 күн бұрын

As a professional woman with 4 children I completely agree with you. Competing with your man is not necessary. Both male and female have beautiful gifts to bring to the relationship. Social media is a disaster and sad to see females (and males) displaying themselves for attention and comments. Privacy and self worth are attractive qualities.

@Anonym-yr4qn Күн бұрын

I have researched the nature of women and ever since, i've never viewed them the same, because according to both the research and personal experience; (and statistics + anecdotes from even ancient times) Women are stonecold opportunists that will throw others under the bus for their own benefit AND play the victim afterwards to make you look like the villain of the story. (Hypergamy, or the zero tolerance policy towards their own accountability for anything for example.) Would you agree that this is the truth, or do you have convincing counter arguments? I've been struggling with this for years now.

@rife133 Күн бұрын

what does a professional woman mean

@peterfitzpatrick7032 Күн бұрын

@@rife133 She is not an amateur woman ... duh !.... 🙄😂

@ThomasMarshall-pg7ye Күн бұрын

What that’s mean professional woman, you are just a woman. You can professional in your job, not who you are. Logic is long time forgotten.

@audy2174 Күн бұрын

@@ThomasMarshall-pg7ye Your comment is an example of her last point: men displaying themselves for attention and comments. Her logic is sound, you're the one that is acting the fool by nitpicking sentences rather than trying to comprehend what she means, if you want to disparage working women, shame on you. Everything Bjorn said in his video (I agree with) and can equally apply to men in the culture too. Women grow up seeing their mothers taking care of their fathers, family, the entire community and we saw how much stress and disrespect it earned them -- so we also ask ourselves "what's the point of doing all of that, if all it gets is disrespect and mistreatment in today's society?" The healthy, feminine women in western society ALSO have their top choice of men, and it's not going to be fools who send dick pics, who drop out of school, who don't have ambition and who disparage other women like this. This woman was expressing her viewpoint, nothing radical nor disparaging in what she said. Three men all of a sudden decide this innocent comment is where they get their revenge on their gradeschool grammar teacher and just go ham on her because of one ambiguous sentence structure as if they expect that all youtube comments must follow perfect construction, and then try to disparage her mind, just because she's claimed being a woman. This is what is sad from the woman's perspective to see. Men who take their pain and their political aggression so far that they do not act in the way that would benefit and create the society that they're seeking. Instead they blindly perpetuate the dynamics they claim they hate. It's these kinds of attitudes that also create the women you claim you do not want. It's no wonder to me why men/women relationships are in the state it is now.

@j.schold6390 Күн бұрын

People's minds have been distorted by too much social media and internet. Stay safe and only watch Bjorn!!

@traciyoung8678 15 сағат бұрын

Thank you for your courage to speak truth. You are spot on! As a woman, I agree with you 100%.

@libertybell7145 14 сағат бұрын

TRUE!!

@1888bry 2 күн бұрын

Men are meant to be alone sometimes

@alancane1482 2 күн бұрын

Many a high hope has died on a home hearthstone. He who travels furthest travels alone.

@oceansoul3694 2 күн бұрын

yes, and so are women

@alcoholicjoe6199 2 күн бұрын

All the time.

@Adrian-jk4kx 2 күн бұрын

The Hunter..primordial..its still within us..that why we find comfort in flames,Candles and open fires.

@cheemsburbger7664 2 күн бұрын

Being alone and being lonely are different things.

@tinasmith1391 2 күн бұрын

Being in touch with nature is important. Social Media is trying to destroy that too. The world was a better place when communities were built around small farms.

@larsthornstrom4668 Күн бұрын

You said something along the lines of “there are as many perspective as there are people”. I like that. Thank you for sharing your opinion, we need more of that. I agree with some of them but more importantly respect all of them.

@whatsnewazylou 19 сағат бұрын

“I would rather sit on a pumpkin and have it all to myself than be crowded on a velvet cushion” - Henry David Thoreau

@KPAllDay55 2 күн бұрын

As a middle aged man, I find that it's very difficult to find a woman around my age that isn't scorned, damaged and holding a grudge towards men due to their prior relationships.

@trydowave 2 күн бұрын

Exactly the reason i stopped looking.

@vernaxxx8940 2 күн бұрын

My attempts to date men when middle-aged gave me the same impression of the available men. I listened to them tolerantly, but in the end it was boring and a real red flag.

@kristoffer8609 2 күн бұрын

@@vernaxxx8940 "I listened to them tolerantly", yeah I'm gonna put a doubt on that one.

@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 2 күн бұрын

@@kristoffer8609 Resentful aren't you.

@kristoffer8609 2 күн бұрын

@@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 It's called realistic.

@dr.stevenpennym.d.3241 2 күн бұрын

I want a conservative woman. I don't want a woke woman.

@TheMPExperience 2 күн бұрын

So you want a woman that is asleep? How very Cosby of you.

@quantumharvestllc2082 2 күн бұрын

Nobody does.

@humanerror7 2 күн бұрын

@@quantumharvestllc2082 so not true bro. Homies lookin to get their dick wet love the empowered woke woman. She may be batshit, but she puts out. I personally think we should boycott dating woke women but most men just wanna get laid and they literally will sacrifice EVERYTHING for that. They are slaves to these women.

@Theresa-Lottodo 2 күн бұрын

We're still around.

@unjabbedpureblood9695 2 күн бұрын

Conservative women are just woke women wearing a based disguise. Do not be fooled.

@dervaishali6051 5 сағат бұрын

"Formerly no one was allowed to think freely; now it is permitted, but no one is capable of it anymore. Now people want to think only what they are supposed to think, and this they consider freedom." Oswald Spengler, "The Decline of the West" (1920s)

@Canucklehead557 14 сағат бұрын

58 have been living a peaceful quiet life of abstinence for over 30 years. Have never met a woman with a PHD who could change my mind.

@jsholmes03 13 сағат бұрын

Do the women with PHD's have them in science and engineering or the social "sciences? " There is a big difference between the two, in the true hard sciences facts don't care about feelings.

@Canucklehead557 11 сағат бұрын

@@jsholmes03 There are not enough PHDs to make me move from my commitment.

@jenniferturmel2327 2 күн бұрын

Social media and mainstream media have ruined both men and womens mental health. Sad reality.

@Ana-jf1ch 2 күн бұрын

And trauma I think, most of us come from broken homes and divorced parents.

@JohnnyUtahFBI 2 күн бұрын

Spot on.

@BradenWalker1 2 күн бұрын

mainstream media... .. you can add all media + all political and religious propaganda has ruined both men n womens mental health

@eastonwilliams1722 2 күн бұрын

Judaism

@rustysworldofentertainment850 2 күн бұрын

It certainly hasn't helped, but I encountered plenty of women with serious behavioural issues long before Facebook was released.

@damienmullan8880 2 күн бұрын

Irishman here, I actually love being alone , woke women or childish women drive me mad. Just a normal thinking smart girl is all that a man needs.

@museonfilm8919 Күн бұрын

Which is why - IF - you find one, you'll knnow how special she is.

@frankharley1000 Күн бұрын

Amen to that, brother.

@darev6780 Күн бұрын

You will find her in Coppersface Jacks my Irishman dude

@VictorMaxol Күн бұрын

Have you considered being a homosexualist for a while? Ireland is not 40 shades of green anymore.

@T.I.T.S-74 12 сағат бұрын

I'm happily married to my blue haired wife. She lives about 2,000 miles away and we haven't spoken in years. I couldn't be happier.😅

@theseeker3771 22 сағат бұрын

Alone mate, but never ever lonely.

@jayneatkins1148 2 күн бұрын

As a woman I 100% agree with you .

@anniesok868 2 күн бұрын

suck up ahhahahah

@faethe000 2 күн бұрын

Did you get picked?

@andy2172 2 күн бұрын

@@faethe000 In almost every thread on this video, someone's a tad insecure....

@faethe000 2 күн бұрын

@@andy2172 Did you pick her?

@andy2172 2 күн бұрын

@@faethe000 Pathetic.

@barbarafleenor6649 Күн бұрын

I’m a woman and totally agree with you that overuse of I phones and social media has made living a normal healthy lifestyle is very challenging.

@lemostjoyousrenegade 16 сағат бұрын

🎯 Addictions to the mobile phone and social media are HUGE PROBLEMS! Not just for those in their early twenties or thirties. People in their 50s, 60s and older have become increasingly worse communicators. It’s utterly appalling.

@ChristopherRaymond-zs6wv 13 сағат бұрын

So phones are the reason Bjorn is talking about... lmao...you are the reason, lack of awareness of simple truths...😂

@oddbod4442 Күн бұрын

I'm alone, not lonely. Weekly arguments and anger for ten years of marriage. I've not been properly angry in the then years since the divorce. For many people, the pain and difficulty of a relationship is not worth the reward. For financial reasons alone, no man should get married.

@newbatling4194 2 күн бұрын

There are normal women that would appreciate a masculine man, a normal man. I agree with you Bjorn that all this girl power, social media, pouting, putting it out there for likes is becoming the downfall of society. A normal, masculine, kind, caring man who loves nature, much like yourself, Bjorn is a great example.

@AllieEm1 2 күн бұрын

The “girl power” now is ridiculous. The messaging begins as soon as the little girl is born. Why? Just let her be, she will be and do. It’s so odd.

2 күн бұрын

Yeah, and where do you find that? Cause all I see are men like you complaining about how this is all womens fault. Masculine men don't blame all their problems on women. Only whiny 'nice guys' do. And who are women 'putting it all out there' to? Men perhaps? So maybe if YOU all got off social media and managed to keep your dick in your pants we would have less problems...

@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 2 күн бұрын

Real men are few. In America that is.

@Dragonist000 2 күн бұрын

@@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 We are hiding and trying to escape the country as soon as can possibly be achieved

@appearingdig 2 күн бұрын

@viktoriyaserebryakov2755 Thats because there is an epidemic of women trying to raise men and turning them into girls.

@thoricdavid8174 2 күн бұрын

So few woman want family life now. They often want and pick careers instead.

@user-rr4nl9yq1w 2 күн бұрын

Kids are very expensive to raise. Everything is so expensive both parents have to work and cost of childcare is OUTRAGEOUS. Having kids is not necessary to be happy. In fact, I know many women that wish they hadn't had kids. When they;re young ist's great and then they become teens...

@LT-et5rr 2 күн бұрын

@@user-rr4nl9yq1wabsolutely, most parents I’ve met have told me in confidence if they could go back before having kids, they’d opt not too.

@markojuric4954 2 күн бұрын

If they don't pick careers they pick a dog 🙂

@allisonshaw9341 2 күн бұрын

So few men act like men instead of overgrown spoiled toddlers who expect women to pick up after them all the time and handle all of the emotional and familial load. If a man isn't competent to pick up after himself, cook a meal, run a load of laundry, remember birthdays and special days, take a child to a dental or medical appointment, or change a child's diaper, then he isn't competent enough to be a husband and father. And if he can't treat his wife like a full partner, with integrity and respect, then he has no business being married. Nobody wants to have to take care of an adult child, and far too many men become so burdensome that women have decided that they are better off without them.

@wittymystic7361 2 күн бұрын

During the 80s and 90s, I sought a husband who wanted to be a family man. All I could find was men who wanted me to get my rear out there and make money. I guess the tables have turned, but now it's too late for me.

@puhakpe 21 сағат бұрын

You are absolutely spot on man! Let me tell you that you are not alone thinking this way. There are many of us. Most of us just dont bring it forth like this. Fortunately there are still women who have traditional values. Otherwise we would be extinct in near future. By the way, Norway is the most beautiful country in the world. You are very lucky in that!

@ChadPrestonOfficialThree 12 сағат бұрын

Narcissism and Narcissistic abuse need to be added to this conversation. People that are narcissistically abused as children (mocked, scorned, controlled, manipulated, neglected, shamed, guilted, scared, etc.) often become narcissists, themselves. Everyone reading this should do deep research on narcissism and its devastating effects. I'd say over half the world is affected by this disorder and with the advent of social media, the numbers keep climbing. Let's ELIMINATE NARCISSISM from our realm.

@graemesaunderson4218 2 күн бұрын

These are unfortunate times we are living in. A lot of people have lost their direction and their drive.

@paenumbra 2 күн бұрын

End of an era apathy, as usual.. But soon the wheel turns

@royfontaine5526 2 күн бұрын

@@paenumbraI doubt it, we’re too far gone and 90% are 💉

@royfontaine5526 2 күн бұрын

@@paenumbraI doubt it, we’re too far gone and 90% are 💉

@Seeker_of_sense 2 күн бұрын

As a man, I fully agree. The new high value woman is the one with traditional values. Men don't care about a woman's career and the number of social media followers she has. The latter negatively correlates with her attractiveness as a potential mate.

@allisonshaw9341 2 күн бұрын

What I've found is that men will not be faithful to a woman no matter how well she keeps the hearth and home and no matter how well she keeps herself in shape. Not only that, they will blame the woman for their lack of self control. No woman wants to put up with that, and children deserve better than to have such a father in their lives. And for those of us women who own property, it's that property that the men are after, not the woman. You wouldn't believe the number of guys who've lost interest in me once I tell them that if I were to marry again, there would be a very strong prenup that requires all family property remain in my family and my personal property remains with me in the event of divorce or death. Women in my family - we are a traditional Native as well as military family - are strong, independent, and more than capable of running homes, farms, and businesses while spouses are deployed. Women are the backbone of any society because we're the ones who take care of everyone and everything and see to it that things that need doing get done. The men born or married into our family tend to like it that way, because they can do what they need to do and not worry about how the family is managing.

@TheMPExperience 2 күн бұрын

@@allisonshaw9341 Sounds like you have been picking shitty men.

@Alan_the_Red 2 күн бұрын

@@allisonshaw9341 That's weird because I personally know of more situations where the woman cheated, not the man. I don't know a single man who cheated actually, including myself.

@anniesok868 2 күн бұрын

but i bet you're seeking sex out every night from the women you put down

@MissRed92837 2 күн бұрын

@@Alan_the_RedI have been cheated on by men. Men who dated me because of my wealth and when I quit the relationship with them they stole stuff from me. One guy stole my 45k usd car. Then many men are jealous because I own the same or more than they do. They also have a huge problem that I earn the same or more than them, wanting me to pay the child support for their and their exes children. Many men lie to women and then get mad when you catch them lying.

@karenflynn6589 23 сағат бұрын

After being married to a physically and mentally abusive man, and then an emotionally abusive man, I'm happy to be single and celibate. So much peace now. I finally feel safe.

@benji1289 21 сағат бұрын

not letting you cheat on him isnt abuse

@Astavar 21 сағат бұрын

@@benji1289 How do you read something like this out of her comment? It´s beyond me.

@toasterpastries5811 21 сағат бұрын

Okay Karen.

@benji1289 21 сағат бұрын

@@Astavar because she’s making it up, no white man is abusive without provocation, and if it was a black guy then she is the abusive one to white men

@cazzawazzawoowoo1600 20 сағат бұрын

@benji1289 she said physically abusive. That means beating her. There are men who murder their wives FFS.

@Miclantechupi Күн бұрын

There is one common factor in every divorce and asset-stripping of a man. Marriage. The whole system is utterly skewed in favour of the gynocracy. Until the system changes, men. Just. Don't.

@DogBeast221 2 күн бұрын

Amen! “The more I get to know people, the more I prefer the company of my dog.” -Mark Twain

@surfrescue3232 Күн бұрын

I think Shania Twain said that too :)

@ShonenMaster33 Күн бұрын

No, that's keeping you doing what everyone is doing, humanity is the one who need help and love, not just a dog, humanity needs to understand what is going on... and you my friend have the knowledge and the power to teach the people what is the actual problem of society, we don't have to close inside ourselves and keep silence

@johnm3544 Күн бұрын

@@surfrescue3232 That's funny, so did I!

@DogBeast221 Күн бұрын

@@ShonenMaster33 WOOF!

@brittrubin9461 2 күн бұрын

Hei Bjorn ..I am a 70 yr old woman and a true feminist ‘ equality for all ‘ I completely agree with you, todays young women have taken on the mantle of toxic masculinity and are confused as to what feminine strengths and gifts are..men and women have different roles and different things to contribute which compliment one another..takk 🙏🏻

@FriggaRedSkye Күн бұрын

Thanks you for this, I support SAHM, I support mothers that work and women that don't want to start families.. imo that's real feminism. Oh and no men that call themselves women in women's spaces. I don't have blue hair and piercings, I'm just being me and want to have adventure and friends over family and knew this before the cultural engineering.. we all have different roles!

@the26thhour57 Күн бұрын

Yep you're definitely a Feminist. Can't conceive the problem with any woman is anything directly related to women, like the toxic FEMININITY. All my long life, only met 1 Femo who wasn't a Misandrist, hiding behind the ideology of Feminism. Do any of you old ones ever admit that most the attitudes young women blame men for these days, were everything your generation of Femo's demanded men change to become? No. None of you. You all invent external problems with men and demand they become something else, problems that have nothing to do with men, but you all choose to project your failings, incompetence, disorders, frailties & fears on men, rather than looking at yourselves and fixing your own problems inside you. Thus, why when they change, none of you are ever satisfied, so look for more problems in your self projections to cast on him. And teach your daughter to do the same & how? Every argument a daughter sees their mother play the same game, in stead of having an adult discussion, being honest, taking ownership of ones' own problems & mistakes, you go straight to "I'm the victim!" & if men don't buy it, you go to "No? The f@ck off!" and just gaslight every issue till you destroy it all & still take everything in the end because you got what you really wanted, to be legally defined as the victim, to use as an excuse to never actually grow up. Girls mature faster than boys? To where? The second stage of immaturity, where they live the rest of their lives? How can you agree when you're not even listening? Feminism failed because your your generation left equality once you got it and then demanded more, demanded inequity and made it toxic. Who demanded women be more like men, rather than just finding themselves? Your era of the movement.

@egblund Күн бұрын

I am also a true feminist. If men and society want feminine women, they must value and respect femininity. Sadly, the US does not. There is no financial support for SAHMs, and women are expected to perform much more free free labor. This lifestyle is unsustainable, disrespected and undervalued. Women have to compete in a masculine created world and they need to earn a living. They have to embrace their inner masculine to be successful. If you value only the masculine in society; then that is what will evolve.

@thebodykeepsthescore2828 21 сағат бұрын

There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity!" Just toxic people

@georgeblackley6028 20 сағат бұрын

I am 71 and have in my lifetime witnessed the disintegration of the natural ways you so eloquently describe. I sometimes believe we are witnessing, without exagerating, the beginning of the fall of humanity, or at the very least western society, and I fear where this may lead, but I know there are many, many people out there, young and old , who have lost their way and have lost their anchor to the world around them. I found what you had to say emotional, refreshing and also uplifting to know that what I have quietly been observing for years has been observed by others. Thank you.

@TheMadeofhonor 17 сағат бұрын

You are risking alot to bring this to light. The truth hurts sometimes. Your compassion and kindness you've shown towards others by bringing truth and knowledge to the World is admirable. You are much appreciated.

@rickman2267 2 күн бұрын

I've stopped watching mainstream t.v. for a start. The adverts usually make the man look foolish and 2nd to a woman.

@garrett621 2 күн бұрын

Exactly.

@cherylk.2474 2 күн бұрын

This is true, I've noticed this also. It is annoying.

@MathVdb 2 күн бұрын

Definitely here in Australia!

@Susan-nm3sx 2 күн бұрын

Rubbish, the fact you see it as placement is concerning.

@garrett621 Күн бұрын

@@Susan-nm3sx thanks for the input Susan.

@TheRealWanderingMan 2 күн бұрын

36 now, 7 years single. Living my best life.

@KenshinPhoenix Күн бұрын

43, 18 years single. Same here. I met a couple along the way that I gave a chance, total train wrecks. I actively avoid women now, just a burden and headache honestly.

@Bow-to-the-absurd Күн бұрын

Totally. Learning to he happy for yourself can be a tough thing.

@3Kefka6Palazzo9 Күн бұрын

41, 9 years single. At first it felt like a lonely necessity, now it's a beautiful solitude that I would never abandon.

@Crabby_Camper Күн бұрын

57 and 8 years divorced. Fuk em. I put all my effort into my kids instead

@maobizubiwa Күн бұрын

@@Bow-to-the-absurd That's what makes it truly worthy, and even admirable these days.

@lockyp204 23 сағат бұрын

Loneliness is better than the alternative. Time for women to back up what they say and go do it all themselves.

@debbiecurtis4021 Күн бұрын

Maybe we should all live alone in tiny homes. I can't bear living with anyone. I always end up paying all of the bills and doing all the cleaning. I'd rather be alone.

@sim9373 15 минут бұрын

We need to go back to a time where you had no rights. We need to restrict your movement and access to technology

@WhatsEvenRealAnymore 2 күн бұрын

Wanted to let everyone know I’ve been married for 19 years. We are both happy and in love. I believe one of the things that helped us last was the fact that we both vowed to stay off social media.

@michaelgoodwin593 Күн бұрын

And yet here you are on KZfaq

@elenachubar4707 2 күн бұрын

I'm a woman and I totally agree with what you are saying.

@alanm6o9 2 күн бұрын

Real one

@EdVanMeyer 20 сағат бұрын

Consumerism has made a big difference in relationships, people are treated like possessions that can be upgraded and dumped, but people are not mere objects they hurt too.

@brandonstaples7300 Күн бұрын

Downside of social media too much false sense of entitlement. Especially for women to.

@dermotosullivan3065 2 күн бұрын

Women have priced themselves out of the market for most men.

@anniesok868 2 күн бұрын

hahahh date other men then

@dermotosullivan3065 2 күн бұрын

@@anniesok868 This vid has really triggered you.

@jurassicthunder 2 күн бұрын

@@anniesok868lol triggered

@user-wj6dt5bq3w 2 күн бұрын

@@anniesok868 You are a troll.

@RB-tz8kj 2 күн бұрын

@@anniesok868why do you think homosexuality is lauded these days? Why do you think trans women have exploded in numbers?

@jesmcalli 2 күн бұрын

Well, if young men aren’t “growing up”, I’d wager it has to do with the lack of basically anything they can reasonably work towards. The economy is in the dumpster, owning a home and being a provider is extremely difficult for most people, and hook up culture has basically ruined dating for most people. It’s no wonder they’re checking out🤷🏼‍♂️

@cherylk.2474 2 күн бұрын

Who is pushing "hook-up" culture? How many men today are willing to spend time with a woman, just walking in a park, going to the beach, without expecting the day to end in bed?

@garysuarez9614 2 күн бұрын

@4:42 This is why commenting on leading questions is fruitless.

@jesmcalli 2 күн бұрын

@@cherylk.2474 Women allow hook up culture. They control access to sex. Hook up culture can't happen unless they allow it to. It used to be, women generally set a much higher cost, and men either met that cost, or they didn't. Now, men see women hooking up with other dudes for no commitment and next to no effort, so they're not going to pay a price that other men clearly aren't, for the same thing.

@jesmcalli 2 күн бұрын

@@cherylk.2474 Oh, and I know plenty of dudes that wouldn't expect so much as a kiss at the end of a first date, let alone sex.

@ModelJames13 2 күн бұрын

@@cherylk.2474 Uh hello, right here. 👋

@rightsideupvt 16 сағат бұрын

I've had enough with all the talking and talking with hands. Huge turnoff, women that won't shut up and need to wave their hands and arms around and pose while in conversation. Well it's not really a conversation, it's them talking, and they don't want to hear anything unless you support and back them up.

@Tenzin62 16 сағат бұрын

Being alone, as opposed to feeling lonely, are two different things.

@ccsbeadworks 2 күн бұрын

I am a 47 year old woman and I totally agree with everything you just said! Grateful for my husband of 26 years. I would hate to be single in these times

@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 2 күн бұрын

You’re crazy I love it no bitchy woman!!!

@thomasn3882 2 күн бұрын

Misunderstand on purpose, and get offended on purpose. Preach, sir!

@christopherboatmun8262 Күн бұрын

It was a great point.

@sonclearbrahman-ar1461 Күн бұрын

🎯

@robertjones9006 Күн бұрын

To me, this imbalance is symptomatic of a deepening crisis of consciousness. The vast majority of people, both men and women, have been captured by their own mind, via the echoing nonsense that resides there. This capturing is so complete, there is no awareness of it. We have forgotten how to be present within ourselves, and how to offer true presence to others. Relationships should be about practicing consciousness, presense, awareness, and forgiveness. Alas, most relationships devolve into the mindless regurgitation of old mind patterns and the reinforcement of deep unconscious grooves within the mind. To all humans: please don’t give up, on yourself, or others. With love.

@g1zmo234 10 сағат бұрын

Bravo! Du våger å bevege deg inn i minefelt og evner å snakke fritt og åpent om vanskelige og ofte tabubelagte saker og ting. Veldig fint, inspirerende og befriende. Stor klapp på skuldra og hjertelig takk til deg for det. Fortsett ditt virke og vit at du settes stor pris på. Føler også for å nevne den fabelaktige naturen du oppsøker og er i kontakt med - helt enkelt praktfullt!

@SteveWFitch 2 күн бұрын

We need a video series, "Masculine Mondays" which showcases some outdoor/Masculine activities to inspire men to get focused. Great video, Bjorn!

@lemongate4869 2 күн бұрын

Great idea.. And "Feminine Fridays" for the women who watch this channel.

@thereselarfield7177 2 күн бұрын

A women should value a man with practical skills… I mean I get amongst it but I never in a million years could do the things my husband and son could do… they have the size and strength and it just seems to come so naturally …it’s lovely when men and women can work out their strengths and work together…

@LoveWins 2 күн бұрын

I will totally do this idea if you are ok with it. I finally have over 2k subs now so I'll at least start out with an audience.

@UtSheildMaiden 2 күн бұрын

Yes please 🙏 ❤

@kazbah1217 2 күн бұрын

The problem with men is due to over masculinity driven by social media attention.