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@a_k37305 ай бұрын
For the first time in my life I'm dating a guy I really feel connected to but also on the other hand, I would easily let go of if there is need to. I feel like this is a powerful place to be. I'm 36 never married, no children, celibate for 13 years now. The dating scene has been ruthless but it made me the mature, confident and compassionate person I am today.
@jencrews5 ай бұрын
That’s amazing and I wish I had been in that place when I met my ex-husband at 38. I now see that the best thing ever is to be in a relationship with someone you’re crazy about because it makes you want to deal with all the hard stuff… That’s me now at 54. But if it helps, I got pregnant naturally twice and had babies at 40 and 43! I think all the inner work makes our bodies work better
@a_k37305 ай бұрын
@@jencrews Oh wow, congratulations on your babies. Thanks for sharing that bit. I'll be holding out faith for my babies too.
@user-qu1jh8xj3oАй бұрын
I wish you all the Love and happiness you deserve! ❤from South of France
@karenoyama89505 ай бұрын
I have learned not to waste time on someone who doesn’t want you. Luckily, someone who really is attracted to me has entered my life. This hasn’t taken a long time.
@SkyePhoenix5 ай бұрын
Congratulations ❤
@IM-uh5tk6 ай бұрын
3:34 are confident, know their value 4:22 self-assured 5:16 invest in proven value, not their potential 6:04 clear about what they need 7:26 wait before committing 8:30 dignity > desire
@rosa62910 күн бұрын
Thank you so much
@G.G.2765 ай бұрын
Self Confidence. WALK AWAY FROM STUPIDITY!
@jeanettebrooks19636 ай бұрын
Dignity, worth and value is greater than desire, I love that concept. Thank you so much!
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Glad you found this useful, Jeanette.
@OlderWomenRock4 ай бұрын
I don’t need a Man to validate who I am . I’m doing ok The opposite feels like abuse , when a Man cannot pay compliments Doesn’t show appreciation , cannot express how He values Me I choose to be cherished
@macareuxmoine6 ай бұрын
Holy f***, another excellent video from you! It’s really got the stuff to save a woman’s life! And it’s dropping at a time where I’m getting to know a great guy that I don’t hope to mess it up with! Thank you for that amazing call to discipline!
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful! Thank you for your enthusiasm : )
@silversoulawakening91954 ай бұрын
WoW! so grateful I stumbled upon your channel loaded with wise sage wisdom. Been a seeker all my life. Went from mere surviving, to striving, next chapter entering fully thriving thanks to phenomenal mentorship like found right here. Thank You.
@BernMendez4 ай бұрын
You're most welcome and Thank YOU so much for your very kind words I feel grateful you find this work I'm doing helpful 🙏🙏
@mamaknow80565 ай бұрын
Dignity over desire. Amen 👊🏻
@BernMendez5 ай бұрын
Glad you found this useful : )
@moniqueruiz906 ай бұрын
Omg I knew something was wrong but I didn’t know it was breadcrumbing. I can’t thank you enough. Live and learn, right? You helped me become stronger and wiser. ❤️
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Grateful to hear my videos are helping you : )
@pamelakapke626 ай бұрын
Wow Bern! You're probably the best one out there! Great video today!
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Pamela, thank you so much!
@catherinenzungnjume78226 ай бұрын
fed up with the hot and cold altitude 😢
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Glad you're learning to identify it so you can say NO ; )
@SkyePhoenix5 ай бұрын
Me too.
@karenconstantine3346 ай бұрын
You nailed it… in many ways! So to take it all home that you nailed…. How do/ does a woman change all it is she knows? We ALL can define the truth your saying… but let’s go ALL the way home with how to change ! Can positive talk till the cows come home Can pray until the same cows come home Can fake it until those same funking cows come home???? 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
Hi Karen, I've dedicated an entire channel to showing the ways this can be changed : ) Additionally, I help my clients through my private practice with custom plans and guidance to get what they want: www.callwithbern.com/ Thank you for watching and for sharing your voice.
@gemstar74475 ай бұрын
Love this content! Paced Attachment Strategy- gonna keep reminding myself of that 🙂. Thank you 🙏🏽
@simplypositiveme5 ай бұрын
Thank you, I'll try to use these tips!
@BernMendez5 ай бұрын
You're welcome.
@user-qu1jh8xj3oАй бұрын
Love from South of France Chéri....❤💫🌻🪷🌞🥰☘️
@SharieFoster5 ай бұрын
Very helpful. Thank you!
@clairechampagne69965 ай бұрын
I’m single and love it!!!
@BernMendez5 ай бұрын
👍 Whatever makes you happy.
@juliafisher58445 ай бұрын
Bern do you recommend dating a few men at once? I find ot a bit overwhelming to manage dating 2 or 3! Do you have any videos about this please? Thanks ❤
@Mixedequalsbrown2 ай бұрын
You got it wrong.... I suggest YOU should date yourself meanwhile all the time.... dont put too much focus on strangers.... your taking too much time off of YOU. Have fun with yourself, family, friends. Then dating one guy should be enough
@twhite8308Күн бұрын
🧡Love🧡this🧡video🧡
@steph61095 ай бұрын
I'm single because I can't find men that share my values. The ones that want and value family love on the breadline or the good will of their parents . The ones that make their own way in life and value independence don't want children. I know the men I'd be attracted to exist, I've met married ones, grew up with them etc but cannot come across them in the world
@misspriss24825 ай бұрын
OK. So the title of this video needs to be changed. Not "Why Men Never Breadcrumb Women Who Do This" but "The Qualities of Women Who Don't Settle for Breadcrumbs". The difference is that as women, we can't control men's behavior. Men who want access to a woman but don't want to commit will try to breadcrumb EVERY woman. The women who don't get breadcrumbed are the ones who don't put up with it. When his actions reveal that he sees her as one of many options, she relegates him to the same position in her life and doesn't focus on him.
@patgiogi12916 ай бұрын
Why are you talking so fast?
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
This is how I talk BUT, You can SLOW it down by choosing a different speed on the video : )
@divinefeminine36 ай бұрын
Not fast enough for me when I’m short on time. Ive started listening to most KZfaq videos at 1.25 speed 😂
@ciscaciz41696 ай бұрын
Yeah, at beginning quiet slow but then gradually speeding up. Use different speed also not comfortable. (My pov form non native english viewer)
@juliafisher58445 ай бұрын
Be grateful for this FREE content ... it's GOLD. You can follow transcript instead