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Good luck because modern men lack class.

​@@cheriem432hahahaha

Have you noticed any potential gentleman at your dance lessons that you may want to get to know more of? Sometimes we have to show a little interest in a suddle way. I believe you are close to meeting a good companion 😊

​@@cheriem432Thanks 😊

Try Years, yes years. At the time, they had said he had a girlfriend (which his sibling was sent in to tell me) to which I just nodded like ok, fine. Then left him be. Well his sibling has popped in periodically at my office (we’re in the same field and their company does business with ours) but their sibling has visited maybe twice a yr for few years cause I didn’t chase after. Like hey, don’t forget me… which is how people used to be years ago. Remained friendly.

You should have said if it was so great, where have you been for the past year?! 🙄🙄

LOVE your response to this lazy, lazy man!

Hey ladies plot twist 🎉 YOU ARE ALREADY MAGNETIC I SWEAR BUT YOU DONT BELIEVE IT YET💯if you are watching this, then go within and find the love within yourself. You don’t need to seek advice from other people literally make your own rules. You have that power. There are no absolutes in this world, and there are no things that ALL people find wildly attractive click off this freaking video, and make your own rules you can do it I believe in you ❤

Just looking for a booty call. Glad you drop kicked him!

@@WynneL gotta write it down now

@@WynneLNow that’s just manipulative. No no

Proceeds to say you have multiple options as a women

Any time a guy treats me like I am an option I remove myself from the equation entirely. If there's someone he wants more than me he can HAVE her. I will wait for the guy that WANTS me.

​@@hemantks4353😂 that's the point. Get over yourself dude.

@@UnashamedCaliforniagirl What's the point? Women having multiple options?

Wow.... What a beautiful story about your first kiss with your husband of 52 years. It's so true that we remember the first kiss/kisses that Really stood out to us as women, and it's usually because the man made us feel truly special, and time told us that it was REAL.

❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉intense story I loved reading this.

That is really the only thing a person has to do.

Not working for sooo many women. Men want skinny red carpet looks and pass over good women.

That didn’t work for me 😭😭

Ultimately yes. That's the best way. She's eventually going to find the real you so might as well get it over with early on and save everybody time if you're not her "thing." Hell, if I'm not her type there's a really good chance she's not mine anyway.

I agree ❤

what if he opens door only for me like it not coincidence i have noticed it with other women too ,he doent open fo them .dosent give them as much as space to pass around through the door. but if i enter he just swoops in the side to give me full space. im confued is it bad that he treats other peopel differntly or i it good that he traet me speacially

@@minakumari9866 I can't stand it when any person opens a door and then lets it slam in the face of the next person. If there is a long line that you get stuck holding the door for. Just comment that you need to get to your friend and could someone else do it now. when a man, or any one, opens a door for opens the door you, I see it to be good manners that if he opens one door for you, you hold the next one for him. this is especially easy when you have to push and not pull the door to open it. It also nicely sets you as his equal. It also lets him show if he can be comfortable with it and is appreciative. If not, rethink things about your relationship. also remember any person ( male or female) shows their BEST side in the dating process and shows their REAL side in marriage. I also pay attention to waitstaff. These people work hard for little pay. Just because you may leave a big tip, doesn't mean you have to be rude or dismissive. I believe all these things should be taken seriously by both sexes. women should be polite, thoughtful, friendly , and helpful too.

😂😂😂 about the camel. You are too funny

​@@minakumari9866 he is not a good person then

It doesn't. I have experience.

The media tells young girls and women that they should act like men (because they're equal to men, while preaching that women are 'stronger; than men but having them compare themselves to a 'lesser'(by their standards) thing to prove that they're stronger. . . . , but then they wonder why men aren't interested in them. Hmmmmmmm. . . . . I wonder why! In all seriousness though, men and women are equally strong in different ways, and that's what makes a relationship and/or marriage work!

The issue doesn’t stem from media but society. Femininity has been viewed as weak by men because the roles society gives women are usually not the stronger ones. So, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out the comparison to weakness. It becomes problematic when that transfers into THEIR perspective on OUR actions and thoughts, our likes and dislikes and in our strengths and weaknesses. And that creates an unsafe/uncomfortable environment for women. When a woman feels safe she can be feminine.

True.A human can be shy,cry,bold,fearless,sassy,sensitive etc whatever their gender and sexuality.Women with nice and strong personality are feminine and men with nice and strong personality are masculine.

Feminine and masculine are useless terms, there's just people with different personalities. What you're talking about is caused by mysogyny tho. Just do what makes you happy.

I've learned by witnessing other women getting offended by men holding doors open for them, then they have huge problems! Men, run from this! This is the first, and major red flag! Don't try to date someone who gets offended by you holding a door open for them!

Tiktok kids do XD like, i tick it as a beige kinda i cant say red, but lighter flag if they dont open a door for me (a man) or if they dont pour my drink or smth like, literally thats bare minimum. Act luke a gemtleman dont be like i have a lot of money im bulky im this that blabla, show it stupid show it, dont just talk.

Do they really get mad? I’ll be 25 next month and I’ve never seen women of any age get mad at this. I know this all based on personal experience. That’s just crazy, if they do. I know I’ve seen it portrayed in recent movies. “I can open my own car door” is not a flex. Just arrogant and we don’t need to be hyper independent all the time. I always thank men when they’re chivalrous. But I never expect them to be because of the fight between men and women.🙄 I work in corporate America and when I’m on elevators, from what I’ve observed, millennial men do not allow for women to go first. I’ve only gotten on the elevator with one other gen z guy and he was really kind to everyone. The gen x and boomer men always allow women (and men) to go before them.

I'm in my 60s and I open doors for *people*, men AND women. We have had a patriarchal society since the beginning of time and a male-dominated society continues to exist today. That, to me, is responsible for the inequality that women suffer and, believe me, inequality has affected my life in many arenas. So, it's not about "getting mad at men for opening doors". I just do not want to perpetuate that inequality.

@@dmdr11No wonder the world is in the toilet, your generation helped it happen! Men and women aren’t equal. That exact brainwashed mentality is why men pretending to be women are in women’s sports. You’re probably also jabbed aren’t you?

Women aren’t being “indoctrinated “. To the contrary it seems they’ve arrived at their own conclusions. I raised a young woman and not once have I “indoctrinated “ her. That comment is offensive, rude and quite frankly out of touch with reality. If you want to live under strict and rigid patriarchal gender rules by all means go for it, but the days of men having full reign and power and privilege over women are over.

Well clearly some are. Read the news.

That's a good relationship. I know, because I'm in a good relationship as well. My lovey puts me first because I put him first.

That's nice, but you should always put yourSelf first, ;), not as in "being selfish", but as loving yourself first because it's only when you love yourself first that you can properly love another person. @@chiarac3833

Thank you! This is how it should be.

@@Himmiefan I know. This "balancing of masculine and feminine energies" b.s. is de rigueur now in all these so-called "relationship coaches'" videos. I think they have all piggy-backed on Gray's "Venus/Mars" idiocy to make it sound more relevant.

@@dmdr11 why do you need to turn down the concept of "masculine and feminine" to feel good about your relationship? this concept actually work for a lot of men and women. Why would you diminish a concept that fits other couples to say your relationship is good?

It is very good that you correct your mistakes, and are able to evolve. Some people don't. My best friend and I wanted to go to The Beatles Cirque show in Vegas forever. We finally went, and she was texting half the time! I asked her to be present in the moment. She refused. I told her it was bad show etiquette. She kinda ruined it for me. All I could think about was how embarassing and rude she was! Till the usher came and told her to put her phone away! 😂 Next day we went to a fancy restaurant. She was dressed in a skimpy beach outfit, while I'm dressed like Marilyn Monroe! I said it was customary to put a napkin in her lap. She refused, while sitting spread eagle! Then she ended up sneaking off to a room, with a man. Needless to say, I won't be attending any classy events with her!

I leave my phone in the trunk of my car and rely on my I watch if I must,,,,, no phones on dates!! It's so rude!!

Men get in touch whith you what do you do fore a liveing how old are you were do you live,know you talk a bout thing's first till you get too know one another know dont hate men,and what a bout what a woman wont,s,

I put my phone on do not disturb so it's not constantly binging with notifications, but allows my starred contacts to ring through. Mainly the local sheriff's office in case my horses get out and my BFF who will know what I'm doing so will not interrupt. My time is precious, so is yours.

It’s hard for some of us 😭😭

@@LittleLulubeeit’s called neuroplasticity. Easily explained: Fake it til you make it! The more lighthearted I am, the better I feel!! 😊

"Being lighthearted" does not exist without a sense of humour, -- doesn't have to be extreme, actually shouldn't be extreme, but have a sense, the _sense_ of humour. Anyone without any sense of humour at all is disqualified from being lighthearted.

I don't mind a man opening a door but if he opened my car door, I'd feel like a child

I love that you kindly asked him to open the door for you instead of being offended

@@frenchappletarte3252 It’s good if he’s the one who is driving and you’re just sitting in the car

@@frenchappletarte3252 Same, idk why but it's the same with them like pulling a chair out or smt. I never get mad at them for it, it's just really awkward

Toxic individuality breeds anxiety.

@@bufficliff8978 “toxic individuality?”

Agreed. Also, toxic individuality is lack of self worth, bad self esteem, self conscious… if I’m not mistaken, it’s things that keep you from being in a healthy relationship

@@bethm3152 I guess I am wondering what “toxic individuality” has to do with my comment.🤷🏻‍♀️

‘Your man’? Any sense of ownership is a real turnoff

Absolutely

Please explain?! What’s “de-centering” a man?!

🙄🙄🙄😴​@@NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs

Don't surround your life to the man only

I think it's about balance, and the type of things you let them do for you. Opening doors, helping with heavy stuff at times, etc. are things that I don't think would brew much resentment. But other things, like paying for meals or taking the initiative to organize dates - if it *always* falls on one partner, I can easily see it becoming burdensome, or seem like the other is just "freeloading". It really sucks that in your case your partner just blew up one day instead of talking to you about it when he started to feel uncomfortable with it. I hope you found someone who makes you feel like you're your best self!

Aww, what a great comment:).

He only wants to see you once a week? He’s very busy? Paying for everything for you? I think you need to find out if he’s already married. If he’s not married or in a relationship with someone else, then you can relax a bit and enjoy your outings with him.

@@verenamaharajah6082 thank you. He is not married. He takes care for his little daughter twice a week, visits his mother in the rest home one time a week. I see he is very responsible, working shift. He invites me now more often, always cooking for me, takes care. Tomorrow i should get to know his grown daughters. He wants to be sure as me. It was very good for me, i see I still had to heal from traumabond a bit. I was working on my emotions to be able to let him come. Think this working good. He has a good feeling for me (he was manipulatet before also), I feel safe with him. Im happy now.

You always vent and laugh about it after 😊

lol Geert lol isnt it Giert

Love that! That’s a big-brain solution right there - giving them the opportunity to show themselves to be gentlemen. I live in the U.K. and it’s still normal for men to open doors here, thank God. When my friend and I first arrived here in 2004, we had men at the train station running up and offering to carry our bags whenever we approached a staircase. They wanted nothing from us but to help. It was incredibly lovely. Men are capable of being so much better than they are given credit for. Smart women like you help them along in the right direction!

I wanted to open the door for a woman, but the door was automatic ! 🤔

Me too❤

Have you asked yet 😄

Wait for him to approach you. If he is interested and available, he will. If not, you are wasting your time.

@@CharleneMarshArtist I am a man, and from a man's perspective, we need some indication that the woman is a potential positive result, some hint, some clue, and regardless of everything, being congenial or sociable always, ALWAYS improves your chances and makes society more livable too.

@@mtlicq I appreciate a man's perspective. And agree. For a man to approach a woman, he is taking a big risk on being rejected. A woman must react in a positive, friendly manner when a man approaches. But if there is no initial attraction on his part, it won't go anywhere. My experience is that a man will observe a woman from afar before approaching and assess if she is congenial and sociable. So when he approaches, he has some assurance that she will be kind and friendly and see where it goes. From my perspective, someone becomes attractive based on their personality, humour, intelligence, compassion, morals, service, etc. I just started at a new gym and a man has approached me a couple of times. Very casual, not sure if it goes anywhere and not connected to any outcome. I also have some male and female friends (married and single) who go to the gym and we end up chatting a lot about local politics, health, diet, etc. I'm pretty friendly to everyone and many (including strangers) are helpful towards me and I think that radiates to any observers. And, YES, makes society a much more happy, livable place! 🙂

looks like the same water is being supplied to my town. 😭

Good point. I'm lucky, my lovey knows what I like and he always finds new and exciting places to go. Never a dull moment!

Or German or Chinese

Sounds like a blatant narcissist. He wanted you to accept that. Be glad that's over!