Will smith is a great example of why you should NEVER be too vulearable

Those guys are 1000 percent right You can NOT show any weakness. I just went thru this, the woman said it was ok left me 1 week later

Most women will eventually use your vulnerability against you.

These 2 guys are 100% correct. The only time you cry is when it's appropriate. The passing of loved ones, tragic events, or tears of joy.

I cried in front of an ex and she used that emotion against me later. They know they can hurt you when you show emotion. Never letting it happen again.

I was having a tough conversation about life with my soon to be ex wife, I told her my fears for the future and how I really felt at that moment. She would later use all of this against me during an argument. Never cry or be vulnerable with your woman. Ever.

This two guys are absolutely correct! Women say one thing and want another!

I met a girl who always told me to show emotions etc, until she realized that I’m not a f***boy who has multiple options, when I finally released my feelings towards her, she immediately turn off and left me for dead. Never ever be vulnerable with women 🤝✌️

After 6 years of relationship with my gf i cried once because i was tired from work and didnt sleep for 2 days after travelling to her for 12 hours straight i cried a little after that she cheated and didn't want me anymore after 6 years together So yea don't be soft infront of females

Happened to me recently. Vulnerability is Kryptonite to a Woman's attraction for you. They are ruthless!

This issue is why it’s incredibly important for men to have male spaces. The truth is a woman will judge you for moments of weakness and vulnerability. Whether these women want to admit it or not, they have an evolutionary imperative to seek out strong men. She’s looking to you for strength, so outward displays of weakness will begin to erode her respect for you. I’m not saying you can’t experience emotions as a man. You’re human, and there will be things that hurt you, upset you, maybe even make you cry. That’s perfectly normal. It’s part of the human condition. But you need to cultivate male relationships and spaces where you can safely express those feelings and work through them. Your woman is not your therapist.

Any vulnerability shared with your woman will ultimately be used against you later in the relationship.

Today my female Coworker went to Facebook to vent about her life. If I did that. I would not look good. I have never cried in front of a woman and never will. The Last time I had a major cry in front of anyone was at my friend's Mothers Funeral as she was like a Second mother and Ex Boss. Loved to the core. I had a female friend state to me that I am a Mystery to her, because I don't open up to her. It made me happy to hear that from her.

Vulnerability and Weaknesses is bad, Never do it. People will use it against you.

Personally i don't give a damn what anyone thinks, ill be vulnerable when i think its appropriate and if the people i thought i could trust use that against me then I'll cut them out of my life. Theres big difference between showing vulnerability and being a crybaby, No one will stop me from being myself

"I get more attracted when a guy is vulnerable" back pedaling so hard. Stop lying to save face and be honest. Every single relationship I've been in I cried ONE time while explaining a past trauma and their personality did a complete 180. Women hate emotion in men and they'll treat you like a child after you show it.

"Sounds great on paper but thats not reality work" exactlyyyy

As a man i know that showing our emotions can be a double edged sword. No woman will never be able to understand completely what it is for a man to be vulnerable. When a woman is vulnerable to a man we are honest and know we cant relate, but i know that i never held it agains them... women have always held it against us

My girl literally just yelled at me after being emotional saying I can't handle the stress of the world... im now at the gym solving my own problems these dudes speak facts whether you like it or not

I lost my mom due to covid and was about to cry in front of my girlfriend, she looked at me and asked " are you going to cry, I held it in, she kept calling me sensitive and tried to bully me untill I cut her off. Never ever ever again will I shed tears in front of a woman

A girl I was talking to years back straight up told me “my bf got all emotional and I can’t really look at him the same. He’s all ‘Baby I love you don’t fight with me so much’ and he cried. Like a little kid.” She broke up with him. I felt bad for smashing. I used to be the guy in that situation. She got back with him, married him and has two kids with the dude. His name is Chad btw. He ain’t a “Chad” though. Lol just thought that was funny. Bottom line: Don’t believe anything a women says. Behaviors > words

They are right. I have seen women who decided to date other women instead of men often come back to men because they couldn’t handle dealing with the emotions of another woman. They craved that calming stoic demeanor to offset their emotions.

I try to avoid being vulnerable with people in general. Because most people don’t know how to handle vulnerable man. I don’t want to have an arm around me when i’m sad telling me its going to be ok. I want people to stay the heck away from me when i’m sad so i can focus on letting it out before i pull my sh*t together again.

The men are 100% right. I'd go a step further to add you shouldn't even take advice from a woman because they think with emotions not with logic. Go to your guy friends for help if you need to.

Every man learns this lesson eventually. Usually the hard way.

The guy is right . It's not socially acceptable for a man to be vulnerable. Men can only be vulnerable when they know nobody is watching them or when they're alone to themselves but with everyone else they cannot lower their guard.

I never cry in front of my girl and never complain to her.

Being vulnerable with your woman is like a football coach panicking on the sideline asking his players what they think he should do when he's supposed to be the one giving them proper guidance. If that happens too much those players will hit the transfer portal just like a woman will leave that man for a guy that actually has his $h!t together

It's funny how women think men don't share vulnerabilities with each other. Your boys will have your back. If they don't they're not your friend.

I remembered crying about being almost homeless , life was in shambles to my ex and she just gave me a cold blank stare and didn’t console me at all … never again 3 years later own my own dump truck company and house now and pay therapist to only be vulnerable too I got to let it out somehow that’s who I am , just not to the future love of my life unfortunately.

There's a big difference between vulnerability and weakness. Being vulnerable can be good, being weak is always bad.

Nearly all the men agree that the women will use your vulnerability against you later means that it's true. We're all speaking from experience. Men don't be stupid please. If you need a moment please take a drive, go sit somewhere by yourself or with a friend, release the pain and then go back home.

This is why the rate for male suicide is so incredibly high. I feel sorry for these men... Whoever hurt them really did some damage. If a girl used your vulnerability against you than she's just a shit human and you should be glad she's gone from your life.

Myron face deciphering this womanize is hilarious

I broke down in front of my mom once and cried. She made a joke about it a few years ago. Which made me so furious that I literally turn off all emotions near her. Because I'd rather be a heartless, emotionless piece of shit than to be made fun of for showing that I have issues I can't deal with. I let all my anger, frustration, and pain build up, then I beat the shit out of a punching bag until my knuckles bleed. Or, I turn to the bottle. But that rarely happens.

These men are speaking facts

It is true i was in a women subreddit disscussing about men. Many told they are not interested in problem of a man.

"Do you not crave the support of a woman?" With all my fucking heart. But I can't take that chance.

I am the oldest child, raised by a very emotional single mother. My wife learned quickly that I was no stoic, yet still married me. She is a very strong and independent person. Despite all that I broke my right foot a couple of years back and was in a cast for 6+ weeks. I couldn't drive, but was still able to work from home the whole time and walk around with a boot. The main inconvenience was that I couldn't help cart our kids around to their activities. For that whole time my wife's reaction consisted of maybe 2% sympathy and 98% annoyance and frustration at my unhelpfulness.

These guys are absolutely correct! I don't understand why the mainstream media doesn't want to admit this but women and men are just different.

Personally I cry alone.

1:17 All the women are like “NO No no, being vulnerable is so powerful, you’re human.” They’ll say one thing then do another guaranteed they’d leave the guy.

The man speaks truth. The women make valid points. This talk should be taken multi dimensionally and with grains of salt.

You never think it will be you until it is. I never thought me being vulnerable would be used as a bullet to hurt me but it was. I trusted this person more than anything and in what was a really low year for me it showed me how quick people can change. I supported her though everything and at the time I was stretched so thin and trying my best to support not only us but a family member of hers living with us due to mental issues…… everything was thrown back at me. I couldn’t be vulnerable it wasn’t what she wanted. I can honestly say that I will never be vulnerable with a woman I’m seeing ever again. I will be open about the relationship as a whole but my personal shit will be mine and mine alone to deal with.

That what they all say. Not every woman but most of them tell me that about other men. They loose faith in their men.

For get crying, independent women get angry if you're sick or injured. "You're just being a big baby." These guys are 100% CORRECT! The moment a guy needs ANY type of support, he's a burden, a problem and that will be thrown in your face.

The only time a guy can be vulnerable about love, missing their woman, being broken hearted, jealous, insecure is if they’re a rockstar singer singing a song.

Anything and everything you say will be used against you. The past is the past. Never speak on it

When dad is weak and vulnerable! The whole family is fucked.

It’s not even the word “most” it’s literally every woman I’ve Eva met

Women need to stop lying about this.

“That sounds great on paper” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that got me.

100000% facts I lost a girl I was about to get into a relationship with , I wondered why for a bit but then I came to the Realization that it was because I opened up. I'm scarred for life now .Protect yourselves gents

And that’s why there are so much mental health issues with men these days.

It’s true. Gf of 1 year broke up with me because she no longer loved me romantically only platonically. Broke my heart completely but of course as a man I’m not suppose to cry.

Bro I agree I had a ex girlfriend who was dating a mutual friend and he cried in front of her and she flat out said this dude is a pussy crying on my shoulder what happens when I need to cry LoL so basically what he said is true.

Total bad faith from the ladies. He asked if they would rather their man lose his job or go on a vacation, and they argued that him losing his job wasn’t a big deal.

This just happened. She asked certain questions and it got to where I answered truthfully and wholeheartedly. All of a sudden the energy from her changed. It shifted and went dead. Now I'm thinking about the whole conversation and see where I made mistakes, by opening up. It's not worth it guys... They'll look at you very differently after. It's pretty fucked up. 🙏🏽 🤲🏽 💪🏽 🔇

2:24, when the blonde is describing the best sex she ever “had” is after a man cries. When a man breaks down in front of a woman, at that exact moment, the woman feels above that man because he is more weak than her, she’s conquered him. So, much like a man who wants to have sex after winning a fist fight, women want the same. The difference is, after a guy cries, she can never respect him again. Boys/Men should listen to guys like Rollo and Myron.

If she's the type that NEEDS to see her mans weakness, vulnerability, crying... She's the type that's looking for an opening to take her place as the leader in the relationship.

They act surprised… heck, Joe Rogan, who has no skin in any of this, was interviewing this MMA woman who happened to see her -also MMA badass- husband getting beat on a match… the way when she talks about it with such disgust in the face, because he was covering his face in a “girly way” in her eyes when he was receiving punches and all went down the drain for him in that fight. She said right then and there, that this is not a man and definitely NOT HER man… and that’s for covering your face, imaging crying on the shoulder of a woman.

Myron is definitely NOT stoic. Watch him scream and yell when things get heated in his podcast. A true stoic is stone cold calm and steady as a rock. ZERO emotional volatility of any kind.

These men are 💯 correct

never show a women or anyone your weak spots because they might use that agaist you in the future (look at johnny depp), cuz you have no idea when people are gonna turn agaist you they just flip in a second no matter how close they are to you even if they were your best friends or family even.

There's a limit to be vulnerable... The guy is too axiomatic ''its this or that'' but HE'S RIGHT. A man can only be vulnerable in deep situations where it's ''appropriate'' like Death or Failure than they have to pick themselves up. ... The vulnerable men cry at everything and they stay there cause they soft = losing attraction aura

I agree with the guys on this one for the most part. Have a solid foundation of men friends that can be there. Don't bring it to a woman. Exactly what he said they will think you're soft and they want security over anything.

The only time men can cry in front of a woman is when she really loves him.

As rough and harsh as it sounds. He's right. Men gotta be strong.

In my opinion a woman just want to have by her side a man who is responsible , treat her with respect ,whom she trust , who loves her and with who gives her stability and security , whose help she can count on . Man has the right to cry if he feels like , after all , a man is a man not a machine .

they should show this to young guys in elementary school as basic education for men.

Guy is correct 💯...i have experienced it the hard way.

Saw this a while back n said "naaa". Cuz my chick never did that. I would cry over my daughter that I haven't seen in idk how long at this point. And recently 10 months ago lost my mom cuz a heart attack. And I would ball n ball over my daughter and then my mom. Now both. And she just recently called me a "little bitch" and that shit hurt worse than anything. I'll never tell her anything anymore

Only women which will feel your vulnerability and not use it against you is called mother.

Listening to this woman talk about women being feminine and masculine is like watching a guy pitch a slow ball to Myron to hit it out of the park

When a man shows weakness in front of a woman for one second. Your dead. Tom Leykis

Even if your wife/girlfriend "loves you" ... be vulnerable and cry about your problem enough and they'll be wanting you to call a therapist instead. He's 100% right, women aren't equipped to handle real man problems/issues and say they want men to cry but don't actually want it.

I often want to cry to release tension but tears wont come

My girlfriend was saying the same thing until I finally cried to her then soon as we argued i was weak in the cryin was to much never believe what they say DONT BE VULNERABLE!

I’ll be the man and as a father will guide my children to be strong and independent. I’ll let my wife be the soft one and comfort my children. Being a parent is a perfect balance when the father and mother both do their part.

Don’t even cry to tell your mom or sister your problems. I’ve had my own mother and sister throw my problems in my face after a debate. Not even a argument! A simple debate! Never tell a woman nothing !

The strong stoic man is a good father. When he teaches his kids he is showing love by making them strong. You need that strength to protect that beautiful world you speak of.

My man is speaking facts!

I wanna be open but I don’t wanna lose the people I love . I don’t want them to lose feelings for me because I cried . I rather cry in silence .

This is beautiful! This is the absolute truth from my personal experience so I will never and I mean never open up to another woman ever again! I've done it twice and I've almost lost a friend and I actually did lose somebody who I really did care for so just because of my personal experiences I truly believe that this is absolutely correct and absolutely no man should even open up to a woman - EVER!!! #factsoflife.

That guy gavr the most honest answer.If my man came to me crying about their issues,i will be their for abit but it does something in me and i might lose attraction towards him.

You have to control your emotions, if you cry it means that you let the emotion take over you. You have to feel the pain and use it as motivation. real men control their emotions, they don't suppress them or let them take over

I agree with fresh and fit I learn the hard way if am going be vulnerable it will be with myself

These boys are correct 101 percent bro

I was in a bad place after losing my grann, and all my other problems in life kinda resurfaced from that (work, general unhapiness about lots of things that were botteled up, etc...). I opened up to my gf of 4 years to find a bit of comfort, got dumped 3 weeks later

These women are evil for gaslighting on this issue. But I understand it serves their purpose to lie so they can filter out the weak minded men who would believe them.

i actually feel like opening up and showing yourself to her makes it more real. if youre in a long term relationship, she should know that youre also human, it doesnt mean youre not masculine, but everyone has a vulnerable side, and true love is accepting that and being the safe space of each other. i know im masculine but i dont hide the fact that i also have a weak vulnerable side, i work my hardest to be strong but we all have weak sides, its more about knowing who to open up to rather than not showing emotions at all. but thats just my opinion.

As a general rule yes men have to be strong leaders, it's why we're logical so we can provide solutions and apply tactical steps to keep going. You have to get to know your woman well so you know when to show some emotion so she can see you are not heartless and capable of cruelty/sociopathy but always with restraint bc you have to control and contain your emotions on demand to make decisions and perform when it comes to protection and provision.

The fellas here are missing the big picture of crying around women. They’re thinking crying over trauma or personal issues. That is weak, I agree. However they’re missing the crying over death, sad stories or truly horrible events. Anyone who cries because they had a hard day is fragile. As a man, you should be your woman’s rock. But you should let yourself be vulnerable when the time is right.

There is a difference between receiving Wisdom from the woman you’re married to, to receiving advice from a woman you’re dating. If you are going to friends for advice or venting make sure they have a good track record. Being vulnerable and being weak can’t be comparable. They are total opposites. Being vulnerable means you are humble enough to realize you’re weak spots and are willing to receive a help or assistance in order to grow in that particular area.

In all seriousness, I needed a break from hearing the first woman speak at the 59 second mark of this video. Can you imagine this being your wife or gf? I would drink myself to death if I had to come home and listen to this woman's voice every day. I have no idea who she is or what her love life is like, but it would make perfect sense to me if she is struggling in that area. The vibe she puts off is one that makes men run for the hills.

Guy is right 💯

Yeah those women are lying and we’re stumped at the end and didn’t admit it. When I toughened up and figured out how to deal with my own shit I became way more attractive to women

I think the best example to pay attention to is when he gave the scenario about coming to your wife with a problem or coming to her with a vacation and asked what more sexy and her reply was “We’re talking about sexy” when a little while before they stated they had the hottest sex with a man who cried. All of a sudden sexy and attraction goes out the window and it’s brought back to what they said they’d do if the man was to become vulnerable considering I don’t know them or have anything to to prove they’d do what they’d say leads me to believe they don’t fully believe in their own words.

I think there's 2 definitions of emotions going by. The girls seem to be saying show empathy, show you care, address concerns; I can show empathy to a dog without crying or speaking. I can show I care within the same parameters. I can address concerns with low emotion. All of these display a level of humanity within myself. I don't know any, if at all, men who have a "I don't care about nothing" attitude. If they do that, they aren't truly secure with themselves or acting authentic. The guys here, are using the more extreme side of emotions; ie EMOTIONAL; crying, sooking, showing high levels of stress. Crying is a sign of weakness and feminine energy. Women cry more than men, that's not controversial. So, you hide all your high levels of emotions from your girl. If your dog dies, or a family member dies, you can shed a few tears. But don't go turning on the sprinkler in front of your girl. This discussion I think really needed to be defined more, for the girls part. Because I don't think they truly understand what the boys were getting at.

Men shouldn’t front that something’s not bothering them when it is. Especially if your woman asks about it. Whether it’s work, family/friends relationships, or whatever, being open/vulnerable in that way is healthy BUT men should avoid being emotional at all cost. And whenever there is a problem, they should confide in their friends and try to fix the issue first. The last resort should be asking your girl for answers or support. It sucks that’s how it is but it’s the cold reality.