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I cried in front of my ex. She responded in disgust lol. At the beginning of the relationship she said "I don't understand why men feel like they can't be emotional in front of women." Haven't cried in front of a woman since

Cried in front of my girlfriend one time. She responded by giving me a hug and talked through it with me until i felt better. She's cried in front of me many times as well. That was a while ago. She's my fiance now. We'll be married in 105 days.

I cried in front of my gf once. She got mad, not because I was crying, but because I apologized for it. She started bear hugging me and wouldn’t let me go until I admitted that there’s nothing wrong with crying. That’s when I knew she was a keeper.

To my fellow men, my brothers in arms: why would you date a woman that won’t let you cry infront of them?

If a woman you're dating is turned off by you crying, just tell her you're turned off by her bleeding. If she says it's natural just start crying and say it's natural, check mate. Edit: Holy cow 6k likes look mom I'm popular

I cried in front of my fiancé the other day and she took me to waffle house. Fuck I won.

My boss told me how she is trying to raise her son to express his emotions, unlike her brother who is more stoic. She also told me how unattractive it is when her husdband cries. I often see that women will say that want men to be emotional, but in reality they have a visceral reaction to seeing a man they like cry.

My husband cried infront of me not even two month into our relationship. He took me on a spontaneous visit to a retirement home where he had worked during the holidays three weeks ago. The caregivers there had to tell us that all of the old people that he´d taken care of had died during these three weeks. He was 16 and I was 15 at that time. After the visit he thanked me for letting him grief and giving him strengh. I came home that night and knew that this guy was for life.

"Of course men should be vulnerable! If you're not vulnerable, how can we hurt you?" 🙂

Not every girl will mock you for showing emotions. Just most of them.

Cried in front of my mom because she said I couldn't see my crush in high school. She told me to "man up" and proceeded to chastise me for my weakness..."this is why women don't like you." Never opened up to her again. Women use your weakness as ammunition in an argument.

I always found it interesting how we blame the "men don't cry" to other men without asking simply why we say and think this way? Never in my life another man laughed, belittled or mocked me for crying, women on the other hand... I have a strange feeling many of the women here were disingenuous and answered with what should be said rather than what they actually feel like.

I cried in front of my sister (who's 15 years older) for the first time ever. Afterwards she told my mum I was too weak..

i cried in front of my girl, i was emotionally vulnerable in front of her within a few months of dating. we are now 3+ years strong. dont lose hope fellas

There is a big difference between what women SAY they want/ok with and the way they actually react in those situations.

When I was in highschool, I had the worst few months of my life. I wasn't sleeping well at all, my anxiety was getting worse every day, and I was struggling in school. It was awful, and I wasn't talking to anyone about it. I ended up breaking down on the couch, just crying and sobbing like nothing else. And my mother, wonderful woman that she is, just sat down next to me and hugged me until I felt better. I think everyone deserves that kind of person in their life.

It's such a brutal stab in the back hearing people talk about 'men should be more emotional, they're human beings to' and then being mocked behind your back by the same people for doing just that. F*ck this society, f*ck a relationship, f*ck fake friends.

Cried in front of my ex, I had lost my father a few months ago and was scared to lose her too. She said in response to my crying if I was acting. That snapped me out of it and I went cold. That really hurt. Definitely only cry in front of the right girl and if it’s necessary to express your feelings. Otherwise do it in your own private and safe space.

12:35 I love that she just kept going and was steadfast in sharing her thoughts despite her friends laughing/possibly making her feel awkward. Shows that she’s confident in herself and she’s clearly smart.

I cried in front of an ex about how well she treated me compared to past relationships. She responded with open arms and a calm voice, telling me I didn’t need to thank her for how she treated me, and just held me close and let me talk. Fellow men, it’s ok to cry, we’re human too.

My brother was holding a speech at his wedding and poured out some words because our mom was depressed since our grandma died 4 days before the wedding. she didnt attend the wedding until then and just when my brother was about to finish his speech my mom was entering the hall in front a quiet crowd of people and my brother couldnt hold back his tears because she managed to get herself together and attend to the most important day of her firstborn child. Almost everyone in the hall could hold back because it was pretty emotional. When I saw that his now-wife cried aswell like a baby and hugged them both dearly - mom and my brother - I realized that a woman that truly loves you will never see you as less or unworthy when you cry infront of her... But! you should ofc not be a whiny sausage either (its a sign of immaturity)

I’m a woman who grew up in a household with men who weren’t afraid to open up and talk about their emotions and cry. So I’ve always felt kind of disconnected from the idea that men shouldn’t cry ‘cause that’s not how I was raised. My father never told my brothers to “man up” whenever they cried, and as an adult, I’m starting to realize how incredibly beneficial that was to not only my brothers, but myself as well. I feel like men and women should work together to dispel this kind of ideology so that we wouldn’t have to worry about these kinds of things that much.

My wife was somewhat uncomfortable with me crying in front of her at first, but it just took her time to get over her own stuff. Because women are socialized to view men a certain way just like we were socialized to view women a certain way. It didn't take long for her to appreciate my vulnerability. It certainly has made us extremely close and supportive of each other.

I cried in front of women 3 times. Even though not every one of them I was romantically interested in the relationship deteriorated after it. They didn't treat me the same way anymore.

Man: "Should men be more emotionally vulnerable ?" Girl: "Yes, but not..." 🙂

People seem to forget that when we came into this world the first thing lots of us do is scream and cry.What can be more natural then crying

"He's gonna make us look like terrible people." Yeah, about that...

Cant remember the author but she was at a book signing for one of her books and the topic of men crying and the like came up and one guy who is getting some books signed for his wife and daughters drops what is probably the hardest quote ive ever heard and it genuinely gave me pause "They would rather see me die on my white horse than fall." That shit lives with me to this day. As a side note i have never in my life been cut down more in my life than by women I've shared vulnerabilities with. Not once has any man who has known something truly cutting and turned it on me in the heat of the moment.

My ex-wife told me to stop being a little girl once because I was unhappy that we were growing more distant. I wasn't crying, but I was upset and wanted a serious adult conversation about it. Can't even begin to start showing emotion. That said, I'm with a girl now that is empathetic and can handle the fact i'm human and can't always be strong. Women aren't a monolithic entity, just don't waste your time on the shit ones.

My own mother looked at me like I was crazy the last time I cried in front of her, and she always told me crying was okay. So yeah I won't cry in front of a woman.

I grew up in a matriarchal family and they said don’t cry it’s for babies

those 3 at the end who laughed the entire way through the interview definetly lied.

If someone I’m dating sees it as a red flag, it tells me to get the fuck out. Showing any vulnerability is a sign of affection, it’s me telling them that “hey I’m being vulnerable, I trust you with my wellbeing because I don’t think that you will hurt me”. If that vulnerability is abused it’s worth the pain to know that she was someone who always would have abused that at some point and it’s better to have known sooner rather than later. It’s a canary in a coal mine for relationships.

When I cried in front of my girlfriend for the first time, she held me and asked what she could do to help. She herself had battled a long history of depression and extreme anxiety so she understands and knows how to help in those situations. While it isn’t the only reason why, it’s kind of apparent why I want to merry this girl eventually.

I have a feeling these girls are answering the way they think they're supposed to as opposed to how they actually feel on a visceral level. Only cried in front of a girl a couple times and we did not end up together.

I remember getting teary-eyed when I told my ex that my grandma just found out she had breast cance. She started to chuckle. It was the worst feeling ever. I never want to be vulnerable in front of a women again.

If she left you for being vulnerable, she ain't worth it

I cried in front of my ex and minutes later she went and made fun of me to her friends. I was told this by her friend and immediately was heartbroken. A couple weeks later she went back to her toxic ex she said she “hated”. I’m done being vulnerable.

I've seen my dad cry only once out of happiness. It happened because his parents were happy and proud of us, their grandchildren. He's the manliest man I've ever met. I love him so much.

I can practically cry on command when I think too much about a few deaths that have happend in my family and because of my dogs passing. I am married but still choose to cry alone. When I do cry all I want to do is be alone, I don’t want to be consoled or comforted, I am mentally stable enough to cry and then get back to this thing called life. I have cried a few times in front of her but never for long, she tries to comfort me best she can but like I said, I’m a lonely crier and that’s how I want it

My mother-in-law once commented that my husband never cried, so when he cried in front of me the first thing I did was hug him, I understood that he felt so comfortable with me that he allowed himself to be vulnerable, finally married for 7 years

GF: "Wow, you're so cold, open Up! Express your emotions!" Me: Proceeds to tell my fears and insecurities* GF: *LOSES ATTRACTION*

The fact that this is even a question means the answer is "Yes but also maybe but also no."

A man crying doesn't mean he is weak, it means he has been strong for too long ~ Itachi Uchiha

i cry in front of my cat all the time. no judgement from her

Remember, there’s a stark difference between what women say they’re ok with vs how they actually react to that same behavior

I've cried in front of my at-the-time-girlfriend in a few different relationships. Mainly due to catastrophic events in life, but they don't care. They looked at me in disgust and treated me as an inferior being after that. The accuracy on this is like 99.99% so the cap in this video is astronomical.

As a man, it takes something incredibly serious, like a death in the family or a really bad breakup for me to cry. Otherwise, no matter how hard I try, I'm physically incapable of crying. This is not me trying to appear level-headed or stoic. This is just how the large majority of men were raised. I have to be at my literal emotional breaking point. My point is, 9 times out of 10, if a man cries in front of you, it's not because he is weak but because he has been strong for too long.

3:00 Her reaction... RIP Toby, I felt that

My dad passed away recently and I’ve cried quite a few times in front of my girlfriend and she has never judged me or thought less of me for it. Feeling those emotions is extremely important for growth and maturity.

What stands out to me the most is the fact that only "crying" is put on this pedestal and unless you cry in front of your girlfriend you are somehow not open ?? Are we not intimate with one another??Do we not laugh or express joy or anger ?? And to any men who believe these girls and what they are saying about crying,just try it and then wonder why she left you for chad and tyrone who are obviously so much in touch with their emotions... Wake up....We were told a lie about love from early childhood by our mothers and movies about romantic self sacrifice in Titanic . The women sexualy respond to a display of strenght and dominance not our emotional oubursts ...crying should be done in private or with your brothers who know what loyality is and wont gossip about your pain and struggle to others.

I really appreciate that you showed all of or at least all the good answers in this video and not just the negative ones, unlike some other influencers

i think it's amazing that no ones find incoherent to say "dont cry too early in the relationship, could be a turn off". If a man implied that her girlfriend must always be sexually attractive, he would be called a moron with unrealistic fixations. But ok.

As a man, I have a hard time keeping my emotions in check. I cry when I'm happy, I cry when I empathize, I cry when I'm stressed out and sad. I'm just a big ol crybaby. And thankfully I've found a woman that embraces that side of me. It's cliche but I'm a lucky crybaby ig lol

This video is really comforting, it shows that people really do care and are open to openness ❤

This was so refreshing to see ❤ I've had only two men cry on front of me and I became their strength (platonic). I've had one person I was in love with open up and be vulnerable to me, I supported him and felt closer. Unfortunately never had a relationship and therefore could never see a man open up for real….

I think women will usually say that they want their man to be vulnerable, but their subconscious will usually tell them that they are not safe with a man who cries. That being said, I'm a fan of crying, and think it's a healthy emotional release.

It’s disgusting how as a society we internalized this sick belief that men who cry are weak. Like no, nobody who cries is weak, people who cry are literally just being human. If anyone you know reacts with disgust or mocks you when you cry, run the opposite way. They are not your friend and they don’t love you. Better be alone than be around these people.

I felt so special even my baby cried about 2 months into our relationship I saw he was hiding it on call but I comforted him he’s cried 3 times in the year and disgust never crossed my mind.

I used to cry all the time back when i was a kid, but time and time again people scolded me or got angry at me for crying. I can't remember the last time i cried in front of anyone but it must've been about a decade ago. I hope y'all can find that special someone who you can show your weakest side to, with no fear or doubts.

Man, it's very refreshing to find some sane, normal young men and women on a video like this. That isn't the norm. Good find Andrew.

I was crying in the train one time (I never cry but that time I couldn't resist) I think it was idk 1h of me crying none stop and people looking at me of course. In that period of time a woman asked me if I was alright but then later a man just looked at me and gave me and airpod, I put it in and he played "don't worry be happy" then he gave me a hug and we talked for a bit while he also played "staying alive" it was an act of kindness that made me cry even more but it gave me hope in humanity

this chanel is so lovely and asks some important questions... Like wowie these people you talked to were so emotionally inteligent

The first relationship I cried in front of my partner in was my last, and it was only one time. We were together for three years when it happened, it was over things going on in the relationship. She reacted in anger that I was crying, caring about myself, all that. A few years later, was still with her. My best friend passed away, and she asked me why I wasn't showing emotion over it, why I didn't open up to her, cry about it, all that. That's when I had the self realization that the previous experience had completely closed me off to being vulnerable with my partner. I'll communicate with my parter about things I do or don't like, but I'll never emotionally show that side of me to a woman again. We've been apart for several years now, and I've had other girlfriends since, and I have not cried in front of any of them and never will.

Never cry in front of a woman you want to sleep with. They pretend they want men to be more vulnerable, but they in fact want the opposite.

"Not too early in a relationship, it might be a turn off." It's ok, we don't all sexualise you. Some of us actually think of you as human beings too. Being genuine comes first.

"If you need to tolerate tears, thats ok" thats tells me everything i need to know. They dont like when you show how you really feel and if you do it too often.... relationship done.

I find many people conflate being emotionally vulnerable with being emotionally open or available. These are not the same thing, nothing wrong with being open or available, but i can not in good conscious recommend being vulnerable. Most people in the moment may not be negative but boy down the road can that bite you.

I had a pretty good 3 year relationship with a girl until my dad passed away. She was so turned off that 2 weeks later she broke up with me.

I'm disappointed Andrew didn't show the people the clip of him crying. Would've been hilarious getting their reactions

I cried in front of a woman i hold near and dear to me, it only strengthened our bond and I feel a relationship blossoming between us. theres people out there that are awful and treat others like dirt. but there are so many others that are just. beautiful on the inside. a heart of gold

Either way, i don't feel like changing myself because other people want me to. If anyone mocks me for being emotional, that's a complete trustbreaker and immediate turn off for me.

Hi ladies. We're human. We have emotions. We can feel pain. Just like you. We can't be strong ALL the time.

my ex was the sweetest girl. she told me that I don't have to put on appearances in front of her and feel free to be vulnerable. she also told me that a person in a relationship isn't responsible for the happiness of the other person, and it's selfish to expect otherwise. she also told me that I'll never be rid of her because loyalty is everything to her. I thought I found my future wife. I wanted to have a family with her. six months later she broke up with me saying she doesn't have time for our relationship. I spent days trying to talk to her to convince her to stay and she was very dismissive throughout the whole thing. when I told her I though we were happy together, she scoffed and said "you thought I was happy?". when she came over to pack up her things, I broke down in tears and she looked at me in disgust. everything she told me was a lie. that was almost 10 years ago. haven't trusted the word of a woman since.

Crying is at its worst if it's being used to win something. Crying is at its best when someone is simply defeated and can't help but be honest about how they feel. Crying at its best is when it sheds away our mask of perfection and grounds us in who we really are again. It's one thing to dislike someone for using their tears opportunistically. It's another to dislike someone for being real. Anyone who dislikes that, man or woman or anything else, is compensating for something. They should also realize that another person's honest tears are a great opportunity to show their own character. If you spend that opportunity shaming them for not being perfect, or for having attempted and failed at being perfect, you will lose them. Trust them to know their mistakes. If they misuse that trust, that's when you should comment or act. Don't assume. In my experience, it's those who glorify crying and emotions who can't bear to see someone they respect cry. Many personalities struggle with the discomfort, but it's those who glamorize it who can't even bear to look when the real thing presents itself.

known her for 5 years she said she wanted me to be more emotional so I did, 6 months she started saying I was clingy and dramatic. Even if they think they want u to be emotional, they dont.

Honesty and authenticity is a form of strength. If that means crying, its strength too.

15:34 “We got stuck on men with vulnerability?” That is why the other girls were laughing while she was replying “I’m serious tho.” They knew what she was saying was bs.

My ex fiance always told me I could cry infront of her and often asked me why I didn't. Tbh I'm just not the type of guy that needs to for the most part. That was until I got into a car crash with my friends. I was the only one of the 6 of us that wasn't sent to the icu. After she picked me up from the hospital and we got home I just burst out crying because I was terrified that some of my best friends were going to die and it would be my fault sense I was driving. Instead of hugging me or doing anything to help she just started berating me on how I was being selfish and not taking into account how worried she was and how she wants to cry but now she can't because I am. I just got up and left and walked to my parents house that was a couple miles away. I broke up with her soon after because she wouldn't apologize. I've told this story to a couple women and they've all agreed with her. It's really made me jaded against dating again.

The first time i cried infront of a girl that wasn't family was when i was working on mothers day and my dad called me saying my grandmother had passed away Rest in peace Ma.

One needs to be wary of the fact that what women SAY infront of an audience and on camera - is totally different to what they actually think as an individual and amongst their friends.

I hate stigma on crying and showing emotions. I was trying so hard not to cry on my mom's funeral when I was 16 while I had every reason in the world to burst in tears. That was the moment I realized that crying in front of someboddy takes a courage. Unfortunately I'm still not confident enough to cry when I feel like it.

I can only speak from my exp and what I've observed in other relationships. This is a big reason why I've flown solo most of my life, because I'd dealt with some traumatic, demoralizing things from an early age and was basically punished for showing emotions so I'm all kind of messed up. From what I've seen, it's probably fine if you're just breaking down due to stress, anxiety, or just sad about something, as this is pretty common and normal. But if you're truly troubled about something and depressed, it's more common that either another person wants to run the other way, or they themselves experienced something and try trauma-bonding, which isn't really good either. I think if I had someone who just showed they were there for me without pandering to me I'd be able to heal and be able to focus on more positive things in life. Therapy helps but.. for me a big problem is that I never felt like I really had anyone in my corner, I feel like I can't truly connect with people or be close to them without overwhelming them and chasing them off, or I just attract people who are just toxic or just very negative. It's a weird thing.. if I'm going to be with someone, I want them to KNOW me, I don't want to hide my flaws from them, and in the process I want to move away from my past to something good. I think I've let my guard down with women in the past too early because I didn't want to surprise them later.. but that's never gone well and they always run for the hills lol. I've had other guys say that you shouldn't talk about such things with women, that you should just go to a therapist or talk to other guys. I've seen people often say that you shouldn't share everything with your significant other, that some things you should keep to yourself.. I don't know, that's sad to me. If I'm going to be with someone, I want to be able to tackle everything together, to learn from one another etc. But anyways, I will say that the majority of women who I've seen say "oh yeah men should definitely cry and be emotional and share" end up cringing and slinking away almost every time. I've seen relationships where they're very loving, but in the heat of an argument, the women used the mans weakness even though it had nothing to do with the subject. I think women often THINK they want this, but in the moment there's something primeval that tells them to find someone stronger. Same goes for friends in my exp. If you find someone who cares enough to think past this, hold on to them, from what I've seen it's rare. Like I said though, I don't think most have much to worry about because they're not really dealing with demons, just a bad day. Props to the women out there that are loving and supporting and aren't overly judgmental!

I had my first ever panic attack on a second date with the woman I am currently seeing. She helped me through it and I was terrified of scaring her away but she accepted me and has loved me ever harder for it. My PTSD isn’t going to stop me from being the person I was before. Be yourself and don’t be afraid of rejection, the people you want to attract will appreciate you for who you are.

If my tears are an expression of truth and the woman I'm with is turned off by them, that's a good thing. Clearly we're incompatible if she's turned off by my true emotion, so it's best we learn this ASAP and part ways. Hiding who you are in the hopes that someone finds you attractive is about as emotionally empty as life gets.

Crying is one of the strongest and visible emotions a human being can feel. It gives clarity in moments of sorrow

I want to cry. But i can't get myself to cry.

I gave my virginity away to my fiancé (my wife in 2 months). I have trauma that made me turn down sex for 21 years, but she was different from anyone I'd ever met, even despite being long distance. She drove 8 hours to see me, and I was shaking in that hotel room. She calmly said we don't have to do anything if I wasn't comfortable. We cuddled for a bit, and in her arms I felt truly loved and cared for, like I never had before. I took a deep breath, then jumped a leap of faith. I let my guard down, and the rest is history. Good women do exist, and I would like to personally thank every single woman (and man) reading this that provides a blanket of love and security to men when we're vulnerable. Not even necessarily as partners, but as human beings.

Cried openly twice in front of my wife in 15 years. In previous relationships, a few times. It’s good to be in touch with yourself emotionally, but passive stoicism during moments when you might cry has a material affect on a woman’s respect toward you. I’ve seen women respond with disgust and venom over stuff like this, especially when I was these peoples’ age. I have a tough buying what any of these women are saying, because experience, and observation of many other relationships, has taught me otherwise.

I cried in front of my fiancée when I lost my job a fortnight before our wedding.... she cancelled the wedding and broke the engagement a year later.

I cried in front of my mom when I was younger, around 12 years old and i begged her not to tell anyone, but not even 10 minutes later, i caught her telling her friends and laughing. My trust was completely destroyed with my mom and will never cry infront of a woman again

I had an ex who told me she wanted me to be vulnerable with her and I was. During the final fight she told me she wished I was strong enough not to cry and to not dump my emotions on her. I left her never looked back. Found myself a woman who loves when I tell her about how I feel and wants me to feel safe around her and I’ve never been happier. It’s easy to say everything and everyone is trash, but you just have to find the right people who make it all make sense.

If you think emotions are optional as a man, but you also want to experience a 'meaningful' life... take a second to ask yourself how you plan to actually FEEL that meaning in your life. One of my biggest 'ah ha' moments was learning you can't selectively dampen the feelings you don't like while keeping the ones you do. An intellectualized life might look good on paper, but it feels as empty as it is. Keep on feeling my boizzzz

The video of Andrew crying was one of the best things I've ever seen. I treasure that clip and I'm gonna show it to my kids when they grow up. OTAY OTAY!

I was once vulnerable with a girl I was dating when I was 18. She was 1 year younger than me and I opened up to her about an addiction I had. She did not really give me any support and instead went off about why my addiction was an issue. I wasn't really looking for words of encouragement, and she became more distant from that moment. Then a few weeks later she broke up with me bc she "wasn't really feeling it" and that interaction taught me that I should NEVER be fully vulnerable to a woman. To this day, that lesson has served me well. That was the first and LAST time i ever did that. Now I'd rather buy a drink and go cry to a tree or do that alone in my room. Although, from what I've gathered if you've been in a relationship for a while and she already trusts you then maybe its not really an issue, but its still not a risk I'd be willing to take.

When my dad told me he never wanted to see me again and to lose his number I sobbed in front of her. Honestly I was grieving a parent. I have not talked to him since and for the record he told me to never talk to him again because I dropped him off after a night of paying for all of his drinks and food because I was going shooting with my older brother the following morning. She told me to never do that again. My emotional reaction was valid, and she's an emotionally immature person. You should cry if you need to cry. If anyone makes you feel any type of way about it, you should likely cut that person out of your life. Crying is not weakness. Not crying for fear of what other's might think is.

I know he is half joking with the "disliking vunerable men is hardwired in our brain" but I really do wonder how many of these people (men and women) were being honest. Both to themselves and us. I can only speak for myself but I often feel split in two. On one side what I feel deep down, on the other how it should be for us all to be happy

I broke down once crying when I came into the house of my ex to pick up my daughter and I saw a picture of her framed in with her new guy...Now this was only 3 months after leaving her house after a 5 year relationship and we have a child together and on top of that, she was pregnant of our 2nd child while she was already together with this new guy...

Powerful video man, thanks.