Why Men Should Pay On The First Date! ( Don't JUDGE This)

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@brunoquintana7242 2 ай бұрын

I'm traditional, I always pay for every date and for romantic gifts. However, I draw the line with women that expect me to pay for their living expenses outside of marriage . This is a problem because I'm Hispanic and most Hispanic women expect this.

@ahernandez3437 2 ай бұрын

Most modern women now days do not deserve traditional treatment.

@terrywilliams2349 2 ай бұрын

Agreed!!!!💯💯

@seankelly1366 Ай бұрын

Although I'm a very proud man....I can honestly say that I couldn't agree with you more...

@kkst3552 26 күн бұрын

No. If you don’t love women do not date them. If you think women do not deserve then you don’t really like women. Women needed equal pay and promotions at work. Feminism is not the problem. Bitter pilled guys are the usually the guys that think women do not deserve. I have never been a doormat but I have always felt that women deserve more than I will be able to give them.

@PenjaminFranklyn 2 ай бұрын

Got me fucked up, you better like Popeyes 😂💯

@chaenglaurent11 Ай бұрын

HAHAHAHHAHAHA bruhhh

@scottpowell466 2 ай бұрын

I think a man should pay on the first date. If a man can't buy you a plate of food how can he be expected to take care of a woman.

@AlessandroGenTLe 2 ай бұрын

Take care with that way of thinking. You can get back a "Why should you take care of a woman in the first place? They are perfectly able to take care of themselves, you patriarc male chauvinist!".

@nigelarchibald7570 2 ай бұрын

Good points host

@eddiemartinez1337 2 ай бұрын

If you invited the girl out it’s your responsibility to plan and pay.

@scrolltestimonial 2 ай бұрын

If you can't pay for the first date or any other date you shouldn't be dating.

@myst0ne 2 ай бұрын

Of course men should pay. But women acting entitled to a man’s wallet is a major turn off. The trend of “I don’t do 50/50” is plight for relationships.

@markbrown7058 Ай бұрын

Whoever initiated the date should pay

@nigelarchibald7570 2 ай бұрын

Does equality from a woman's view allows for the man to lead ?

@colinhartung8952 2 ай бұрын

I give up. I can't afford dating any longer. The problem I have is that women ask me out on dates. Many times, I can't afford these luxury dates.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h Ай бұрын

There is a little Con game that people in the business world with large social circles like to play. It’s called the “Imposter” game. They hear all about a person whether it’s true or not and they find out little bit about him whether it’s true or not, who he’s associated with over the years and then they subtly try to ☝🏼REMIND you of somebody else regardless of who it is that they have reason to believe ☝🏼you know while simultaneously trying to lead you to believe that they never even heard of until☝🏼this morning because they want you to☝🏼ASSUME. Now they do this for any number of reasons but it’s usually because they’re ☝🏼SELLING something called “Trust me.”

@michaelhoge2894 2 ай бұрын

Men pay period it goes way back why .

@nigelarchibald7570 2 ай бұрын

I endorse a man paying on dates

@mahdavimail 2 ай бұрын

Men rarely have problem with paying first date. The problem is that men have to pay every date afterwards like they owe to the women! 😂

@ApolloniaPonti 2 ай бұрын

This is true. I have noticed this. Have you experienced a woman your dating giving back in different ways though?

@mahdavimail 2 ай бұрын

@@ApolloniaPonti nope at all. Women's attitude is changed completely. Even the ones that are way below my game, behave like I owe them for the friendship lol. It makes me laugh inside myself 😅

@DeepakSingh-oe5xp 2 ай бұрын

I always pay on the first date. The dates afterwards it's then expected the man always pays. Yet they want men to plan each date and pay for there share as it was the man who planned the date. What happened to equality ?

@kkst3552 26 күн бұрын

My wife thought I was not as much of a feminist as I thought I was. Intellectually I am a fairly committed feminist. Going dutch seems consistent with feminist ideology but for some reason that I do not understand I want to pay for the date even if the woman is wealthier than me.. My wife 35 years has been dead for a while and I am thinking about dating older women my own age.

@nigelarchibald7570 2 ай бұрын

A good man will respect a woman, appreciate her advice, but the man ultimately leads

@ghostoferlock 2 ай бұрын

Pay the bill and treat it like nothing, thank her for coming out, and say something polite and leave. See if she chases you for attention. If not, she's not worth it, If she does, then wing it.

@AlessandroGenTLe 2 ай бұрын

Women "want to do the same as men"(ESPECIALLY when you're around with one of those new "empowered" ones...) just when it's a gain to them. Responsibilities? Drawbacks? No way...

@Karatekasgr Ай бұрын

If a man should pay then.what a woman should do in return? I met many women who say that men should oay because he wanted the date (but not them? Then.why are they accepting? ) but themselfs just want to.see some things. So.ishould pay for their shoping therapy and doesnt mean nothing? If a man should do anything then.a woman should also do something else. Too.many manipulative exploiter out there to.be traditional. And that is coming from.a guy who pays on dates and I.am.tired of getting used and got nothing in return not even appreciation

@DafPoky 27 күн бұрын

The only women who have the right and privilege of having a man that has the responsability and duty of being a gentlemen and pay on the date is a traditional woman thats it. Most women are not traditional, most men are not traditional too soo,most men and most women actualy should be spliting bills

@nairnbaker7385 2 ай бұрын

I agree. Men should pay on the first date. If you can't afford it get yourself into a better situation first then start dating.

@adamotuama8710 2 ай бұрын

Ah, the privileged one has arrived

@user-ef1zm2ih7h Ай бұрын

What did he do? That MMA Coach from California-What did he DOOOO?!? The one who looked at one of my Social Media pages and said, “I See a Lot Of FeAr?!?” 🤣 He’s an excellent salesman. He knows a lot of people all across the Country that lean left. Knowing a lot of people ain’t knowing it all and he insinuated that I’m a delusional and inexperienced sucker and a fraud who will “buy” anything.

@brownsquid7977 Ай бұрын

IMHO, the bear should pay for the first date

@CarlosXPhone 2 ай бұрын

I understand that you are a dating coach. I understand you're a... "woman." But I almost thought this was a biased video. Because most women are selling "their rules." Either as a coach or whatever, and not be on the men's side. You tried to be partial here, but i can't get past society's BS. You broached "women who expect money." But really, my stand-off attitude is "What about women who are long-term, like REALLY long-term "gold diggers." I'm lucky that I saw this very early on when trying to date a woman. She showed her true colors after years of being friends. We became secret lovers. Before i left my state of California, she asked me what i do as a job as a first question. I don't know how i got the instinct of "drop." Regardless of treating her like my girlfriend long before we even got to that private conversation. She already told me she loves me, but that question stopped me in my tracks. I was warned that she only dates guys with money, but the way she treated me before... made me go like, "she's not like that." So that conversation just killed it for me. My issue is the long-term gold diggers. I gots no qualms about taking up the tab, but that whole gold digger thing turns me off.

@JackSparrow-er8cf 2 ай бұрын

Ur channel I love it be safe today ❤

@ApolloniaPonti 2 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@Onnarashi 2 ай бұрын

The mental gymnastics women make is truly amazing. Chivalry is literally anthithetical to equality. If she says she wants equality, she will get it from me. If she complains she shows she's a liar and a hypocrite.

@tommygunn6901 Ай бұрын

Omfg i am so tired of seeing this "debate" all over the dating sphere and the red pill dorkosphere! If you asked her out, pay for the damn date! END OF STORY! STOP TRYING TO REINVENT THE DAMN WHEEL OF DATING...otherwise shut up!

@cmbrock1 2 ай бұрын

Paying on the first date is not a problem it’s when they want you to pay for everything then that’s when the problems start.

@billster0007 2 ай бұрын

And what if you go on several first dates with various women and end up paying each time?! Would get expensive. Women looking for a free meal are out there! I'd hope after that first date you see each other again and either split it or take turns. On a side note, if we are expected to pay (which I'm generally in favour of) then surely if in a relationship the woman should give us sex when we want it, if they expect us to pay when they want it? I think if that is the case the relationship has become transactional and I think that is all wrong. Should be a partnership.

@briar35981 2 ай бұрын

Intimacy is always transactional for women. It's their ultimate power. If a man can become as cold as women. They can't be led with intimacy into the role of the provider.

@yyEthan 2 ай бұрын

I'm traditional I pay for the first date, because as in tradition, women are the property of the men. How do you feel about that, women?!

@aligncars10000 2 ай бұрын

Paying for the first date is totally unreasonable. After that people should be taking turns

@nigelarchibald7570 2 ай бұрын

A strong good man do not desire a strong assertive woman in a relationship

@tgmjrtgmjr8221 2 ай бұрын

Modern Western women do not deserve it. First dates should not be expensive or expected. Completely disagree with this video.

@ghostoferlock 2 ай бұрын

Look at her like she is going to pay the bill, and say something like 'you are a strong independent woman who makes your own money, you made a pass at me, you wanted me to pursue, so you should pay' lmao

@user-ef1zm2ih7h Ай бұрын

“How do you know? How can you be certain?” It’s Magic. 🧙‍♂️What can I tell you? 👼🏻

@user-ef1zm2ih7h Ай бұрын

I’m willing to bet that a lot of people didn’t even realize that they play that game very well the business world where a lot of cash is being thrown around. “That one reminds me of Tom. This one reminds me of my friend Dick and the other one reminds me of Harry.” Brain Trusts. 👨‍💼I’m gonna tell you something. 😂 They are doing it on PURPOSE. You just don’t realize that they heard all about you already and ☝🏼THEY already know Tom, Dick, and Harry.👼🏻