I broke up with my girl in December after I found out she was cheating on me and instead of regressing to my usual post-breakup blues, I decided to instead walk 10k steps per day with a weighted backpack every day, go to the gym, learn new skills & read more and I just realized I might be at the happiest point of my life when a friend asked how do I look so confident. I guess they key is to be comfortable in who you are, inadequacies and all and use that insecurity/anger/resentment of whatever negative emotions you have to fuel at least ONE achievement, be it walking more, getting into shape or whatever you think you could do to make yourself a better person than you were yesterday.

Thank you for your content. Recently, I ended a dating relationship with someone who didn't reciprocate. If someone is really interested and ready, then you don't have to wonder. Words and action must match, otherwise you're wasting your time, energy, and money.

Who cares if she's talking to somone else? You dont own anyone. Once you go down the road of thinking 'is she talking to somone else?' Youve lost. If she wants to leave, let her. Just hide your money 😅 only 3 gifts a year: valentines, xmas, birthday. Split bills and dinners out. Pay for holidays. Youre good guy.

This is why I stay y myself. You've made me realize that this is so easy for me to read a woman. You advice are so useful and these women hate it. Just shows that I've taken your videos to heart. Thank you so much

If I have not committed to some one, I am going to talk to any one whenever. If I am committed, I am monogamous

If a woman is toying with it in my face that either I don't have her, or that she's talking to somebody else for an extended period of time, I discard her. It's one thing for her to one-off it as a joke, which can happen, but if she seems committed to the bit on that, I go talk to someone else. My high school crush did that with me regularly when I was seventeen and I tolerated it because I was a Niceguy who really wanted to be with her and talk to her. What I've noticed, is that certain "preppy" girls in the early college years, the ones that pass themselves off as nerds but then with other people talk exactly the same as party girls do, act exactly like that girl I just mentioned. Some are actually better academically, though I can't imagine that wouldn't lead to multiple categories. They have this air about them like they're "better than" people who have a lower GPA than they do, and they are extremely cliquey, and they may choose to talk to you based on proximity and seating, but they're going to snub you to their friends behind your back and attempt to get favors out of you. Even if they do end up having sex with you, they won't go on a date with you or have a relationship. I'm not in college anymore, so I haven't faced directly into this dynamic in quite some time, but I feel like it's worth mentioning for the guys who might be reading this about to go to college. If she tries to pass herself off as "a class above" me or whatever, I could use that as an opportunity early on to tease her about it. But like I said, if it becomes a serious bit she just won't let go, I will let go. For me, if she prioritizes her friends over me, I think that's _good_ . I want her to have her own shit going on. However, if she continues going to "girl's night," getting into places and situations where guys are going to approach her, she's foda streets. As a man, if she's spreading her legs for everybody but you, you should take that as a sign she's a 304 who doesn't want a relationship anyway.

2. TRIGGERED. even though we already in relationship.

Apollonia, you are a lifesaver. Your advice always rings true whenever a guy doubts his relationship with a woman. We all deserve someone who wont waste our time and efforts.

I walked away from someone who flaked on me twice. She reached out later insisting to hang out but I turned down the offer. Not wasting my time

This channel has become rooted in negativity. It’s fear based. It’s dark. It’s not about playing to win, it’s about playing not to lose. I guess it gets more clicks that way and Apollonia made a business decision to go this route

You should do a video on adults in their 40's and 50's too. Men in relationships with a woman with teenagers. Most of your videos are pertaining to the 20 - 30 yr old crowd. Just my opinion. You're great on that end with advice. 👍

Your honesty is appreciated, Love.

You are the best I have come across....truly so true

Thanks, Apollonia

“K” reallly means they do not give AF about you. That’s a hard reality I had to accept. I would rather get one or two full messages a day. Than “K” all day long. It’s not about the frequency it’s about the substance and quality of the messages. You don’t want someone who has nothing better to do than text all day anyway

Happy Tuesday, Apollonia! ❤

Teach me more amiga

Omg i miss this so much I love you

This. I needed this ty

YOUNG LADY KEEP DOING A FABULOUS JOB AS A COACH I GIVE YOU 💯% HAVE A BEAUTIFUL TUESDAY AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DOING 🥰❤️

she worried your with some one else.so she txts she misses you she worried about you. but if she says she wants you to make her happy or she wants to make you happy she wants a relationship.and she says she believes your the one she is looking for.she wants ac serious relationship.or she says your not perfect but perfect for her she wants a relationship. read your msgs men boys,if you txt actually read and look for these in the msg.

A Sheriff’s Office almost two hours away from my house obviously felt entitled to keep me on House Arrest after my release from one of their jails in a zip code that they don’t even have Law Enforcement jurisdiction anywhere near!

Thanks u

Over 20 years alone and 18 months trying all these new skills I’ve had no luck, so would love to even get a woman whom I’m their second or third choice 😢.

When she slips drunk and says it

no they try this i leave them .trying to make you jealouse of another man .

These hints apply to married and unmarried women. I call them immature teases

She was showing genuine interest in me ! But after a talk over phone she went all cold , so in panic I apologized ( I know I messed up ) and now she rarely texts me and even she replies late !! Can You Tell Me Why ? Is there any way to fix this , I think I got friendzoned

Anyway, a jurisdiction almost two hours away from my house has been threatening to put me back in Jail or Prison for not doing what they tell me to do for 6 months already in my own neighborhood.

The vast majority of women and men are talking to more than one person. This is not Little House on the Prairie. This is 2024. Women cue up other guys so when hypergamy kicks in she is ready to monkey branch she goes up to one of the guys she’s had cued up and talked to on the back burner. Pretty much monogamy is a fading way of life. Everyone is using everyone for short term pleasure. From the guys point of view you really should not care if she’s talking to other guys. There’s a saying in the red pill. “ She’s not yours it’s just your turn” The days of long term monogamy are pretty much over. Have your fun and when she monkey branches who cares. You move onto the next girl

Just walk away from the games there are a million single women in the world

I’m gonna tell the Public what they did.

Glad i want nothing to do with women and relationships. Tis is a time iam glad i don't believe in love

Women are ALWAYSSSSSSSSSS talking to other men!!!! The sooner men accept this, the better. I think that you are her one and only are part of Disney Princess Programming. People that channels like this need to actually help men and admit the truth but they its NOT what you want to hear. What you wanna hear is what they will make content towards. Duhhhhh.

Technically, the F.B.I. was supposed to put a stop MONTHS ago already.

“How are they getting away with it?” That’s how bad it’s gotten in this Country.

👮🏻‍♂️”Trespassing with a Warrant? I never heard of that.” Do you people see what I mean?

NO. Cops CANNOT do that in this Country just because they happen to have a Warrant for somebody’s Arrest. You don’t necessarily have to hurt somebody in order for it to still be considered as EXCESSIVE FORCE ON PROPERTY or as something called ☝🏼”TRESPASSING WITH A WARRANT.”

I didn’t want to tell the public this so quickly because I’m obviously a well known man. I’m in the public eye. I didn’t want to draw any more unnecessary attention to myself but I’m gonna tell the Public now.

ESPECIALLY when the individual is not an imminent threat at that particular. They were slamming on MY front door as if they had Probable Cause do believe that there was an emergency situation going on inside the house when they already knew what they were here for and it wasn’t that urgent. I kept saying over and over again, “I’ll be right there. I’ll be right there. Give me a minute” but they obviously couldn’t hear me over, “OPEN THE DOOR RIGHT NOW! RIGHT NOW! RIGHT NOW!” That’s what the Nazis did. You CANNOT do that in this Country!

Slamming on the door like he’s trying to knock it down with no Search Warrant, “OPEN UP THE DOOR RIGHT NOW! OPEN UP RIGHT NOW” over and over again screaming at the top of his lungs like a fucking lunatic.

“No he didn’t.” Alright well then it’s obviously my word against her’s. Alright?

A group of Cops show up at my house in a jurisdiction almost two hours away from Broward County and one of them slams on the front door like he’s trying to knock it off the fucking hinges in a way that was frighteningly reminiscent of Nazi Germany. Anyway…

It’s called DOUBLE EXTRADITION.

And while they did all those thing with their stalking and their bullshit, and they’re illegally doing that, they are also blatantly circumventing the United States Constitution and threatening to CONVICT for both a false charge and not complying with THEIR rules which I consider to be CRIMINAL DEMANDS.

Apollonia how are you ?

“You have to get in the car and come to us so that we can decide how else to punish you or we’re gonna issue a Warrant for your Arrest.” That’s a MAJOR FUCKING CRIME and they’re perpetrating it anyway.

Anyway, they show up here at MY front door with a false charge, try to knock it off the fucking hinges, tell me to get on MY “knees” on my own front porch to take my shoes off and hold me in County Jail before extraditing me into another County almost two hours away. I was processed through 3 Jails in 18 days.

How did they get away with that?