I broke up with my girl in December after I found out she was cheating on me and instead of regressing to my usual post-breakup blues, I decided to instead walk 10k steps per day with a weighted backpack every day, go to the gym, learn new skills & read more and I just realized I might be at the happiest point of my life when a friend asked how do I look so confident. I guess they key is to be comfortable in who you are, inadequacies and all and use that insecurity/anger/resentment of whatever negative emotions you have to fuel at least ONE achievement, be it walking more, getting into shape or whatever you think you could do to make yourself a better person than you were yesterday.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
This is amazing to hear!
@orangewarm15 ай бұрын
Is that you Jean?
@FrankiesFire5 ай бұрын
Break ups are a good pre-work out! My ex dumped me in January and I’ve lost 43 pounds since😁💪🏼👊🏼
@azizado-ibrahim68615 ай бұрын
That's an amazing story, I have a similar story myself.
@IAMJhonnyBravo2 ай бұрын
Well said! NOW that is called helping men.
@JohnADuerk5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your content. Recently, I ended a dating relationship with someone who didn't reciprocate. If someone is really interested and ready, then you don't have to wonder. Words and action must match, otherwise you're wasting your time, energy, and money.
@orangewarm15 ай бұрын
Who cares if she's talking to somone else? You dont own anyone. Once you go down the road of thinking 'is she talking to somone else?' Youve lost. If she wants to leave, let her. Just hide your money 😅 only 3 gifts a year: valentines, xmas, birthday. Split bills and dinners out. Pay for holidays. Youre good guy.
@adgaming87725 ай бұрын
That’s correct , you don’t own anyone in this life time , I recently started to know someone a bit older then me first two dates went rather well . I have noticed her texts were late even though she works . And all out of the blue , she went silent . Now she could be going through a rough period in her life which is understandable. These days and this is my own opinion people don’t take the time to know one another it’s all about the phone and social media . But at the end of the day you don’t chase love or women am old school it will happen when it will
@josemiltoncabrera73575 ай бұрын
This is why I stay y myself. You've made me realize that this is so easy for me to read a woman. You advice are so useful and these women hate it. Just shows that I've taken your videos to heart. Thank you so much
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate the support!
@morganfalkdesignsАй бұрын
If I have not committed to some one, I am going to talk to any one whenever. If I am committed, I am monogamous
@angeldiaz7625 ай бұрын
If a woman is toying with it in my face that either I don't have her, or that she's talking to somebody else for an extended period of time, I discard her. It's one thing for her to one-off it as a joke, which can happen, but if she seems committed to the bit on that, I go talk to someone else. My high school crush did that with me regularly when I was seventeen and I tolerated it because I was a Niceguy who really wanted to be with her and talk to her. What I've noticed, is that certain "preppy" girls in the early college years, the ones that pass themselves off as nerds but then with other people talk exactly the same as party girls do, act exactly like that girl I just mentioned. Some are actually better academically, though I can't imagine that wouldn't lead to multiple categories. They have this air about them like they're "better than" people who have a lower GPA than they do, and they are extremely cliquey, and they may choose to talk to you based on proximity and seating, but they're going to snub you to their friends behind your back and attempt to get favors out of you. Even if they do end up having sex with you, they won't go on a date with you or have a relationship. I'm not in college anymore, so I haven't faced directly into this dynamic in quite some time, but I feel like it's worth mentioning for the guys who might be reading this about to go to college. If she tries to pass herself off as "a class above" me or whatever, I could use that as an opportunity early on to tease her about it. But like I said, if it becomes a serious bit she just won't let go, I will let go. For me, if she prioritizes her friends over me, I think that's _good_ . I want her to have her own shit going on. However, if she continues going to "girl's night," getting into places and situations where guys are going to approach her, she's foda streets. As a man, if she's spreading her legs for everybody but you, you should take that as a sign she's a 304 who doesn't want a relationship anyway.
@TomFox15 ай бұрын
2. TRIGGERED. even though we already in relationship.
@domdin1885 ай бұрын
Apollonia, you are a lifesaver. Your advice always rings true whenever a guy doubts his relationship with a woman. We all deserve someone who wont waste our time and efforts.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@joelv925 ай бұрын
I walked away from someone who flaked on me twice. She reached out later insisting to hang out but I turned down the offer. Not wasting my time
@orangewarm15 ай бұрын
Thanks for telling us.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Why did she turn it down? What was her excuse?
@joelv925 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I meant that I declined to meet up again. Her excuse was “something came up” which she used twice in a row. I just didn’t want to waste my time.
@circular-skulledbuffoon76435 ай бұрын
This channel has become rooted in negativity. It’s fear based. It’s dark. It’s not about playing to win, it’s about playing not to lose. I guess it gets more clicks that way and Apollonia made a business decision to go this route
@IAMJhonnyBravo2 ай бұрын
Exxxxxxxactly
@therealdjskam5 ай бұрын
You should do a video on adults in their 40's and 50's too. Men in relationships with a woman with teenagers. Most of your videos are pertaining to the 20 - 30 yr old crowd. Just my opinion. You're great on that end with advice. 👍
@kashmirirose37335 ай бұрын
Your honesty is appreciated, Love.
@balakrishnananand67294 ай бұрын
You are the best I have come across....truly so true
@Yosef_Maharat5 ай бұрын
Thanks, Apollonia
@JDoomhauer873 ай бұрын
“K” reallly means they do not give AF about you. That’s a hard reality I had to accept. I would rather get one or two full messages a day. Than “K” all day long. It’s not about the frequency it’s about the substance and quality of the messages. You don’t want someone who has nothing better to do than text all day anyway
@johngonzalez42985 ай бұрын
Happy Tuesday, Apollonia! ❤
@TomFox15 ай бұрын
Teach me more amiga
@tremendous91644 ай бұрын
Omg i miss this so much I love you
@r3d_i5oljah555 ай бұрын
This. I needed this ty
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Happy to help!
@moisesmontanez51015 ай бұрын
YOUNG LADY KEEP DOING A FABULOUS JOB AS A COACH I GIVE YOU 💯% HAVE A BEAUTIFUL TUESDAY AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DOING 🥰❤️
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Appreciate you
@christopher-yi3rm4 ай бұрын
she worried your with some one else.so she txts she misses you she worried about you. but if she says she wants you to make her happy or she wants to make you happy she wants a relationship.and she says she believes your the one she is looking for.she wants ac serious relationship.or she says your not perfect but perfect for her she wants a relationship. read your msgs men boys,if you txt actually read and look for these in the msg.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
A Sheriff’s Office almost two hours away from my house obviously felt entitled to keep me on House Arrest after my release from one of their jails in a zip code that they don’t even have Law Enforcement jurisdiction anywhere near!
@ilyaazzola.81895 ай бұрын
Thanks u
@Brendan-055 ай бұрын
Over 20 years alone and 18 months trying all these new skills I’ve had no luck, so would love to even get a woman whom I’m their second or third choice 😢.
@orangewarm15 ай бұрын
Dont think badly of yourself man, but you have to ask your close friends WHY. Body, clothes, personality, smell, breath...There is a reason and you have to know what it is. If I had to guess I would say its primarily confidence. So try acting classes and therapy. Whatever it is, you can fix it. But you have to make the effort.
@Brendan-055 ай бұрын
@@orangewarm1 thanks mate, asked female work colleagues and they said being a 50 year old guy with no family (orphan) or close friends (was very poor so moved around a lot) sent off some red flags. Plus I usually go out by myself and lack social proof eg not a psychopath or total loser. They liked how I’ve done stuff for myself eg good job etc, but they stated they wouldn’t want to have to teach a man my age how to be in a relationship and then thought once I’m good at it, I’d leave and date around. But competition for women seems to be high and there are heaps of awesome women with better options than me. I’ll keep trying for a while.
@Brendan-055 ай бұрын
@@orangewarm1 Confidence is most probably also a problem, joining more classes hoping someone has a friend of a friend who might like me 😊
@taylorbee40105 ай бұрын
When she slips drunk and says it
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Says what?
@christopher-yi3rm4 ай бұрын
no they try this i leave them .trying to make you jealouse of another man .
@christtking8945 ай бұрын
These hints apply to married and unmarried women. I call them immature teases
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
True
@soulalabasterandobsidian4 ай бұрын
She was showing genuine interest in me ! But after a talk over phone she went all cold , so in panic I apologized ( I know I messed up ) and now she rarely texts me and even she replies late !! Can You Tell Me Why ? Is there any way to fix this , I think I got friendzoned
@Montanero4 ай бұрын
You showed insecurity over something you weren’t supposed to be insecure about. She took that as weakness deep in her subconscious mind. You can still save it by doing pure no-contact and really use this as an opportunity to fuel what really drives you (ie God). Focus on higher ideals like God, with all your energy, and let women pursue you instead
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
Anyway, a jurisdiction almost two hours away from my house has been threatening to put me back in Jail or Prison for not doing what they tell me to do for 6 months already in my own neighborhood.
@Scorned4055 ай бұрын
The vast majority of women and men are talking to more than one person. This is not Little House on the Prairie. This is 2024. Women cue up other guys so when hypergamy kicks in she is ready to monkey branch she goes up to one of the guys she’s had cued up and talked to on the back burner. Pretty much monogamy is a fading way of life. Everyone is using everyone for short term pleasure. From the guys point of view you really should not care if she’s talking to other guys. There’s a saying in the red pill. “ She’s not yours it’s just your turn” The days of long term monogamy are pretty much over. Have your fun and when she monkey branches who cares. You move onto the next girl
@troyehnisz99075 ай бұрын
Just walk away from the games there are a million single women in the world
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
I’m gonna tell the Public what they did.
@liamodonovan66105 ай бұрын
Glad i want nothing to do with women and relationships. Tis is a time iam glad i don't believe in love
@IAMJhonnyBravo2 ай бұрын
Women are ALWAYSSSSSSSSSS talking to other men!!!! The sooner men accept this, the better. I think that you are her one and only are part of Disney Princess Programming. People that channels like this need to actually help men and admit the truth but they its NOT what you want to hear. What you wanna hear is what they will make content towards. Duhhhhh.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
Technically, the F.B.I. was supposed to put a stop MONTHS ago already.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
“How are they getting away with it?” That’s how bad it’s gotten in this Country.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
👮🏻♂️”Trespassing with a Warrant? I never heard of that.” Do you people see what I mean?
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
NO. Cops CANNOT do that in this Country just because they happen to have a Warrant for somebody’s Arrest. You don’t necessarily have to hurt somebody in order for it to still be considered as EXCESSIVE FORCE ON PROPERTY or as something called ☝🏼”TRESPASSING WITH A WARRANT.”
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
I didn’t want to tell the public this so quickly because I’m obviously a well known man. I’m in the public eye. I didn’t want to draw any more unnecessary attention to myself but I’m gonna tell the Public now.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
ESPECIALLY when the individual is not an imminent threat at that particular. They were slamming on MY front door as if they had Probable Cause do believe that there was an emergency situation going on inside the house when they already knew what they were here for and it wasn’t that urgent. I kept saying over and over again, “I’ll be right there. I’ll be right there. Give me a minute” but they obviously couldn’t hear me over, “OPEN THE DOOR RIGHT NOW! RIGHT NOW! RIGHT NOW!” That’s what the Nazis did. You CANNOT do that in this Country!
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
Slamming on the door like he’s trying to knock it down with no Search Warrant, “OPEN UP THE DOOR RIGHT NOW! OPEN UP RIGHT NOW” over and over again screaming at the top of his lungs like a fucking lunatic.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
“No he didn’t.” Alright well then it’s obviously my word against her’s. Alright?
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
A group of Cops show up at my house in a jurisdiction almost two hours away from Broward County and one of them slams on the front door like he’s trying to knock it off the fucking hinges in a way that was frighteningly reminiscent of Nazi Germany. Anyway…
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
It’s called DOUBLE EXTRADITION.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
And while they did all those thing with their stalking and their bullshit, and they’re illegally doing that, they are also blatantly circumventing the United States Constitution and threatening to CONVICT for both a false charge and not complying with THEIR rules which I consider to be CRIMINAL DEMANDS.
@elcarlitosj83045 ай бұрын
Apollonia how are you ?
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Great! You?
@elcarlitosj83045 ай бұрын
I'm good thanks for asking
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
“You have to get in the car and come to us so that we can decide how else to punish you or we’re gonna issue a Warrant for your Arrest.” That’s a MAJOR FUCKING CRIME and they’re perpetrating it anyway.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h5 ай бұрын
Anyway, they show up here at MY front door with a false charge, try to knock it off the fucking hinges, tell me to get on MY “knees” on my own front porch to take my shoes off and hold me in County Jail before extraditing me into another County almost two hours away. I was processed through 3 Jails in 18 days.