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What's so weird about The Narcissist and their energy is that they just grind on and on and on and yet they tend to rarely accomplish much of anything except the creation of chaos and pain in everything they touch.

Narcissists are so foul they can’t even stand themselves. Do not have anything to do with these creatures.

One thing you left out is that the narcissist also has an ulterior movtive for their non-stop restlesness and constant running to the point of exhaustion! It allows them to keep you completely off kilter. You can't think clearly when you're tired. You can't think clearly when you have no time to sit and reflect. You can't counter gaslighting or projection when you don't have a chance to think. It allows them to better control yoU!

Distracting yourself constantly about everything means you never have to acknowledge that there is actually a problem that needs to be addressed.

I also think they need to keep on the move, like a shark, to find their next victim. They do envy others for their peace of mind, contentment, which they lack. They will try to make you feel like you're boring because you don't need drama and won't provide them with drama they need.

Running from themselves literally 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🙏good informed message.

Narcissist also love to pile your house with wall to wall furniture and other crap then blame you for not being able to keep all that crap clean and dusted off. On top of blaming you for not taking care of the kids, animals and any other burden they piled on your plate. And you didn’t even ask for half of it either. All the while they’re out fooling around.

This is FACTS!! My ex 🐀 rat could never ever sit still! Constantly PACING back and forth! Constantly RUSHING me! Always in a state of movement. I hated it! We could never go out and have a nice dinner and a movie or go have drinks and dancing at a club.....ohhhh noooooo....he would plan 5 places for us to go back to back. I would be so exhausted and he was dying to control me every step of the way! Ohhh hell to the noooooo! That was the beginning of the END! Thank you, 💕🙏 sweet Jesus! Ohhh, I saw in the comments that someone mentioned music & TV blaring all the time.....that's how he would wake me up at 700 am on the weekends! Horrible evil twisted creatures! Apparently, a lot of narcissists do that...I had no idea.

My husband is like this. Always has to be busy, always has to have music on or the news blaring, talking on the phone. He doesn't even sit down to eat something. He mocks me when I need a nap, he says he'll rest when he's dead. Married for 34 years & I'm exhausted, mentally & physically. He thinks he'll be happy when, fill in the blank, currently, it's retirement, it used to be a boat or truck. He gets bored so easily I don't know how he's going to handle that. He just bought a new car, regrets it already. He says I'm not a go getter & he is. When I was a stay at home mom, he said he could do a much better job because it's not difficult. There is nothing that he isn't better at than me. Thank goodness for therapy, even though he thinks it puts ideas in my head & scowls at me for going. He acts as if everyone should be super busy & productive at all times & if you're not, there's something very wrong with you! What a way to live! Absolutely exhausting!

This was eye opening! He cannot sit still. Something has to be moving. It's usually his foot that's crossed over his knee. And then he starts falling asleep. Especially when i start to talk and especially if it's something he doesn't want to hear. Then he'll jump up and say that he's falling asleep because he's just sitting there and it's my fault for keeping him there doing nothing. I tell him it's because he's tired and needs to rest. He'll just say "I'm not like you! I've got things to do!" Then he stays up late "doing things" and is tired the next day but still goes to work, comes home and does more work, tells me that he doesn't need help and he gets more done if I'm not around. Anything i try to do he runs over and says he'll do it (except washing the dishes lol). So i start something else and the same thing happens. He wants the credit for everything that gets done. It's his way of making me feel worthless. Then later he tells me that i don't do anything and he has to do it all. But like someone here said, he does all these things and mostly accomplishes nothing. Or creates a disaster. If i fix something and am proud of my work, he'll go and "fix it better". But that's not what happens. He ends up destroying it to where it's now unfixable and say "I was just fixing it better. These things happen. How else can you learn if you don't try sometime else?" He can't stand the idea of me doing something better than him. After 18 years of this bullshit he can call me lazy and do it himself! He's the one with all the energy anyway.

I think my elderly covert narc mom could never sit down and have a conversation was because she feared confrontation. Any type of question was an attack to her.

My ex exactly except he wasn't materialistic, just a porn and sex addict. He also worked 6-7 days a week to escape the family duties. He was the only employee in a large corporation to work the hours he did because he didn't want to be a real father or husband. I divorced him after 23 years of trying and my kids had enough of him as well. I now have fatigue and an autoimmune disease, as well as insomnia and anxiety. I wish I would've left a long time ago instead of holding on to hope. You're right, they make you run all time, partly by competition and by making you do everything to run a home and keep the yard up. I also worked full time. My kids finally let him have it once they were older. He couldn't sit in silence, ever. Always on the phone, tv, gaming, work or would go to the gym for 4 hours. He'd remind there will always be prettier women then me, but he chose me and I'm lucky. Glad I left for my own peace and healing.

So true .... they are awake even while sleeping 🙄 planning and plotting even when they appear to be asleep😢

Very very true. I always worked hard and I was told I was lazy. I was also told I was not a go getter or ambitious enough when all I did was strive to a point of fatigue. They are never content in the small things. Nobody needs their approval for their ridiculous demands! What they want for you is emotiona, mental, and physical slavery.

So very true! If you are in a Narcissistic relationship please leave it! There is no happy ending!

I am a stroke survivor, have a brain tumor and narcolepsy. I need to sleep a lot sometimes twenty hours a day. The narcissistic wanted to stay out all night every night on his birthday month. He is 35! Not a child. I could have died. I was lucky enough to recover from pralysis after five years from my last stroke. You gave me the strength to leave. I am so grateful and i hope you know the good work you are doing. I cant thank you enough

very true. restless 3 years of my life. always was in constant anxiety and adrenaline. completely lost my self, my desires and what is important for me. truly narcissist can divert you from many important and quality things in life, destroy some rare chances for success and happiness, but in return you do get traumatized and scarred, but you do go into deep self-reflection and are pushed to grow by the force of the pain, shame and all the low feelings after the drama.

I slept practically for a whole year after my narcissist left… a lot of sleeping the 2nd year… it’s the end of the 3rd year (along with one and a half years of therapy) and I’m just starting to feel my own sense of self again. There has been so much trauma for my children as well… which has manifested differently for each child… and so grateful for a therapist who understands trauma and narcissism. Give it time… God made our bodies, minds, souls, and spirits to heal. These videos are great. Just understanding what has happened is very healing in itself.

So very true! It's seems like a direct hit at a real women's genetic build. Studies show women need rest more than men. It has to do with the way our minds and bodies are wired. Every narcissist I knew and was around rarely allowed me to rest or sleep. It's literally devastating to realize you are in so much pain and confusion because of lack of rest. The narcissist will make noises on purpose. Stomping around, dropping things, closing doors loudly, moaning and groaning in their sleep, "accidentally" hitting you 😿 and literally saying you should get up. It's horrible 😖. I need my rest and I am so grateful I am not around a narcissist who can deprive me of my sleep any longer. HalleluYah ☺️🥰🤗

He used to call our daughter "lazy" often, when really she probably needed rest from the trauma he caused.

She and I could be relaxing watching a movie on television and then suddenly get up and go out and start cleaning the pool at midnight. Of course, she would be agitated that I was sitting on the couch doing nothing. This could happen all hours of the day, where we could be watching television and then she would decide to go work in the yard and berate me for not doing something. It was exhausting just being with her.

I agree but want to add: They are running to try to keep everything together, all the lies the triangulation and the munipulation and avoiding reality. It happened with my ex on an even more massive scale as I got closer and closer to my awakening of what I was dealing with before I left him. It was like a dog chasing his tail.

Danish, I have listened to a lot of people on line that help with narcissism, but you are the only one that nails it every time! You truly are an expert on these people!!

Wow! You nailed this Danish 🔨.. Spot On! 💯 I use to tell him all the time that he could never be satisfied. I literally told him many times, "I could hand over a million dollars to you, and you would not be satisfied." He would immediately want two million dollars! The man was impossible to please. You cannot please something that is never satisfied.. That Lesson has been learned! Never will I ever try to please these type of individuals ever again. It sucks the life out trying...

I wanted to go to bed and he blocked me from my room. He projected onto me "no, no rest for you, you are pure evil and no rest for evil". It was a scary moment but the TV was on and distracted him. Thankful for that!!! Glad I'm away from that!

I also noticed my narc mother would never walk beside me, even when it was just the two of us, she always walked ahead of me. I thought this, and her constant focus on non-stop menial tasks, was just her avoiding conversation...like she was avoiding any intimate interactions with me at all times.

Sitting still would have to mean that they would have to be alone with their thoughts and we all know they can’t do that 😂

The ex covert narc was the laziness person I’ve ever encountered. Called out of work a lot. Was always literally laying around. Especially when there were things to be done around the house. But constantly on his phone. Constantly.

Years ago my husband pointed out the conversation between my mother and grandmother that was so strange to him. One would say she slept poorly only four hours and the the other world have slept worse only two hours. Even since my grandmother passed my mother has to announce regularly how little she sleeps as if she wins some weird awards for it.

I thought I was bad having the habit of fidgeting. But when I met my now ex, before I found out she was a narc and we were still together, she would call me everyday keeping me on the phone for at least 3hrs., when I was around her, she was always doing something talking about getting things done and staying productive. I remember one night after running errands all over town together all day we had no plans. I just wanted to sit on the couch together, hold each other, talk, and enjoy each other's company since it was a long distance relationship, and I could only visit her once a month. She wasn't having that! She was constantly on her phone, then she leapt to her feet, pulled me to my feet and demanded that we cooked dinner together(since we had both been professional cooks) She wanted to see how well we worked in the same kitchen together. I wasn't even hungry yet! By the time I said anything, she had already written out a menu, had her car keys in hand heading out the door to get groceries🤯🤯🤯 It was a huge hassle. She was restless right up until the time it was time to sleep. and even in her sleep she couldn't keep still! She woke up in the middle of the night frustrated, took an edibles and kept me up by talking to me until the edible kicked in. In the morning, she woke me up with: 'I don't know how you can lie so still when You're sleeping' She often times shamed me for wanting to slow down and relax. Even after telling her that I just wanted quality time with her, and I can't do that when she going 1,000mph😆😆😆 I'm free of her now. and that's what matters

My mum was with a narcissist for 10 years. When they first met she was outgoing and healthy. She developed COPD, a chronic lung disease & her health plummeted.. He left, but it's so obvious to me the frightening and damaging effect he has had... She seems to be mimicking his behavior and is a shadow of her former self.

Yes, they disturb your sleep, as they are up and active all the times of the night, most nights, and it really disturbs your own functioning. Yes instant gratification and impatience is very wearing on us. 👍

My narcissistic ex was 20 years older then me,he was 60. And it was like dating a 16 year old. He was always on the go doing something or buying something. His house was like a hoarders. I thought dating older would be great cause I'm a home body and don't do much but he couldn't sit still not to mention he couldn't sleep without a million sleeping pills and when I found out he was cheating it was like 10 different people .who has that much energy at 60. It's time to sit down somewhere and be at peace when your that age

I was so depressed with mdd that I had to take naps during the day. He called me lazy and he would say I wish I could rest during the day. I was sick and fatigue. Burnt out and I still had to left 300lbs and workout like an athlete. I was dragging my body to keep up and beat me down

Thank you! After dealing with this in my family, once I left the mess, my adrenals were blown out. Now when I'm around toxic people I'm immediately exhausted. Like my body already knows this too well. This so makes sense. So if I understand this narcissists are in a consent state of escaping themselves by obsessing over chasing external simulation that leads to addiction.

Exactly!! My stbx covert narc is always on the phone even he’s driving, always brakes sharply, as I knew he couldn’t take any criticism, I put my hands on the dashboard in order to show him it’s dangerous, but he never got it. When he discarded me, he said I was so disrespectful by doing this 😂😂😂. So you really can’t communicate with a narc even it’s constructive.

That was so my life. It's taken me over five years to learn how to enjoy life and rest and learn who I am instead of being an extension of a narcissist husband that died from chronic illness, which left me so depleted I thought I had Alzheimers.

Wow I never knew this was part of my exes narcissism. He paces constantly, the name calling to me when i am not good enough. I can’t believe i went through 20 years of this before finally realizing what he was. EXHAUSTED is the word that describes being around him sucking the life out of me.

It's so true. Living with a narc is exhausting. They are constantly busy. Especially partying with their friends. They want to be noticed and accepted. They love vacations. And will spend their money like crazy buying either want. And are very selfish. Love their own birthdays and want it to be a big deal. It's all about them.

When I let-go the narcissist, I spent almost 3 weeks dozing n sleeping long hours at any time of the day. I was exhausted! They intentionally keep you awake over nothing ,n yet during the devaluation, they easily sleep n even snore!

Brilliant presentation and analysis, Danish, and I"ll be sharing this far and wide. Many victims blame themselves for feeling fatigued and confused when dealing with narcs and cannot identify the reason. My sister would threaten to buy a house every week, but after a few days grew bored and canceled the whole transaction, while the entire family had to hear all the details for hours. Congratulations on ur nearly 80K subscribers!!! You deserve that and more! 😇

Everything you said is so true. Married 25 years now and sick with Lupus literally this man makes me sick. We're seniors now and don't have money or energy to go through divorce 😢

All the books that I have read, all the knowledge & experience I have accumulated through my 58 years of life have not helped me as much as the lessons that taught me in the past one year. I won't be able to thank you enough for this enlightenment &insight. I just wish if had someone in my early life to pour such wisdom into my brai😔😔😔🙏🙏🙏😢😥😓

I'm 61 years old and still recovering from the abuse my covert narcissist step mom put me thru, I praise God I don't hate her but to this day when she calls I panic. I've been so sick for years with a broken nerves system, fibromyalgia and so many other things. I'm so grateful for professionals like you. I was going crazy about always having a messy room and could never understand why, now thanks to you I do, THANK YOU.

My parents are both like that, it's terrible to communicate with them. You can't really concentrate on any topic at all, everything gets confused all the time and the subject changes about every 30 seconds.. I try to avoid talking to them, because this is really exhausting, and it makes you feel worse

This describes my former best friend to a T. She was super successful because all she did was work. But she could never relax. Even if she wasn't working, she had to fill her life with activities. I loved her energy at first. But if I didn't want to join her I was lazy, boring etc. If I somehow "misbehaved" or did anything to her dissatisfaction, I was reprimanded as if I were a child. Of course that evolved over time. In the beginning she was fun and friendly. I finally walked away from that & don't miss her at all. But these people are so slick. I need to find out why I'm attracted to this sort of person. She is not the only narc I've had in my life

So true My mother had me always cleaning the house feeding the dogs mowing the yard taking out the trash cleaning up dog poop and going shopping with her for clothes when I was young.. Then got me up on the weekend by 7 am to go to Piano lessons that I didn't even want to take for six years. Then I had school homework. I had no time for any school activities for myself because I was exhausted from my mother's activities she had for me to do for her.

He is always right, like he knows what is happening right in my home.

So true! My ex was always pacing the floor & had to have a 3 ring circus at all times or else he would lash out! He was many things you described, but he was also a thrill seeker…driving erratically, and taking other risky behaviors, and just being very immature & reckless. He was always bored!

Spot on! I am staying with my brother and his wife and they are non stop going morning until late at night. I feel Them looking at me like I am lazy for not running like them. I don’t know how they keep going like this!

Not to be confused with ADHD. But if Narcissists are neurodivergent too, maybe this explains why so many ADHDers end up unhappy with a Narcissist. They feel attracted in the beginning because of some neurodivergent similarities and have trouble with resting, too. ADHDers are often people-pleasers and empaths which might make them a perfect "victim" to a Narcissist.

This is so true. Even o. Holidays. Weekends when it’s time to rest . They cannot stay easy

This explains SO MUCH about my ex husband. SO MUCH. And by extension, so much about myself. And why my life turned out the way it did. I feel seen.

This video brings an interesting perspective that rings true and at the same time seems to be a tell tale sign of the narc personality. They never sit still long enough to self reflect. They keep busy to avoid themselves.

OMG, so true! If I ever suggested something spontaneous, I'd get put down for not planning. But he can pick up and go on a vacation on a moment's notice!

They can't be alone with their own thoughts, it will drive them crazy and they will burst out in raging anger if they had to wait of have patience for too long.

I deal with all this in my workplace. I tell my mentally destroyed coworkers that they are getting spun like a basketball on the end of the narcissists finger. My workplace has been destroyed. I’m actually waiting for my workplace to mechanically shut itself down. 16 miles of Machinery doesn’t care about narcissism. I am near retirement. I can leave any day I want now. So I’m just enjoying the show. Blessings for you Danish,and everyone here. Smitty

Surpressed trauma is why I did drugs, drugs made me a hardcore narcissist and I was in a relationship with a narcissist who never did drugs, now I see everything for what it is. I still have to surpress my narcissistic behavior but it's not as bad as when I did drugs

This was exactly me for 27 years. Exactly! This explains the question I had for years. Thank you!

That was my life for 30yrs !!!! Been without them for 3 yrs and just now coming out of mind fog and getting rested. That explains why he never sit still EVER !!!! My life was hell

Not even when they "go to sleep", cause they keep jumping and moving...🙄

My ex narcissist partner had an obsession with time. Keeping time was an addiction and obsession for him. If we planned a day out, or a holiday, everything was planned to the absolute second, and he would become very agitated, uncomfortable, and often, very angry, if his timeline, or timetable, was disrupted in any way. It was absolutely impossible for him to just go with the flow, relax, and be at peace. He was also totally uncomfortable just having a conversation. When I would try to have a pleasant talk with him, after no more than ten minutes, he would start to get very agitated and restless, and would actually walk away from me mid conversation. When I asked him why he did this he said he was bored. After a while he started to behave as if I wasn't in the room and would look through me as if I was invisible. I became terribly lonely and felt utterly dehumanised, not to mention the chronic fatigue I was now feeling from trying to make sure I never disrupted his timeline and schedule. I wonder if anyone else has experienced the narcissist's obsession with timekeeping?

I grew up in a family like this. Dad was up and going all day every day yet most of what he did didn't really accomplish much of anything. Anything worth doing was usually done in the least efficient way possible even when a better way was right in from of him.

They cannot even watch a movie from beginning to end, they don't have patience, keep jumping from one channel to other. It's exhausting.

Dinesh, I like all your videos but this one is so good that it made me laugh out loud. I was married to someone like this for 11 years. The overwhelming feeling I had the entire time was that of exhaustion. This video explains so much !!

Fantastic! As they age supply is tougher to retain and to also find new supply in "new" people. Additionally, the threshold of divergence is very high by this time. The devious nature gets worse and into new venues for the narc.

Mine was a slightly different version..always pushing me for promotions I didn't want. Her applying for promotions for me saying I wasn't ambitious when I already had a break down in that position. Due to situations out of my control I couldn't do the job for a extra 4 k a year..when I was very ambitious and comfortable as a sous chef at quite high level. Everything else was spot on as usual..most insightful guy on KZfaq in my opinion. Seeing how she has used her child against me is sick and took Everything I owned including the my car and clothes and left me on the street after 7 years. And fought a custody battle to keep her child for 5 years costing me well over 30k, 18 trips to Bulgaria for the court over 4 years and then cheated many times I found at the end...disgusting human I could ever have met.

Danish I must say you're an expert in this field. Each and every word that you said I can relate to with my ex . He was exactly what you described and would call me lazy if I took a small evening nap due to tiredness after working all day.

My sister is a narcissist. She is never content, always looking for the next high from other people’s energy. Being content in your daily circumstances is a gift from our God.

Oh my… my ex narc used to say that he had ADHD, triple D. We could never have a relaxing weekend morning. It was always go, go, go. I came to dread when he came home, and would jump up to look busy. He also found ways to deprive me of sleep. Thank you so much for clarifying this Danish!

Absolutely amazing you have answered the questions I had my whole married life. How could I be lazy when I was on the go 24/7 my ex nearly killed me with exhaustion. Thank you thank you thank you so much for posting this and allowing me & helping me to start to heal.

Absolutely true! Never able to enjoy/ savoring the moment. Always go go go.. it was horrible. So glad and thankful that it’s all in the past.

They face it every day when we cry...they JUST DONT CARE. They don't have shame. You have to care to feel shame. They aren't human.

I want to thank you for helping give me the strength to leave a narcissistic relationship. I had been jn a narcissistic relationship before but a different kind. I kept fooling myself. I almost didnt leave and it was like each video ive watched of yours described the type of narcissistic i was with. To make it worse i immigrated to another country and was all alone and felt so stupid. I was so alone. You probably saved my life. Thank you so much you are doing the work of God

Yep...almost ran myself to death. Can't get sick either, I wasn't allowed. Living on the edge is hell. After 2 weeks after my ex was arrested for spouse abuse I felt like I was in heaven. Beautiful, warm peaceful heaven!

Thank you Danish. Wonderful episode. You explained and made clear why I've been so exhausted for decades now. I've been setting some healthy boundaries as a way to protect myself and put a wall between my need for rest and his need to go faster. And, what you said about it coming crashing down as they get older,... he's 81 now and seems to be crumbling apart. He even seems vulnerable, unless that's just another game of his. Thank you for sharing your insight. It is a valuable tool to help me find the light in my life.

Your ability to observe and articulate these inner dynamics is very impressive and keen ...great job !

Thank you Danish. I was married to a narc although I didn't know anything about narcissists at the time. 30 years later I rent a room from a big time narc. This guy always walks in circles and drinks heavily along with drug and food addictions. I struggle with not losing my temper with his disgusting behaviours and habits. I appreciate your videos.

I'm going to have to give a training class to my office within the next month or two. There is a particularly nasty narcissist in my office. So, I think I'll begin the training class with SEVERAL moments of silence for everyone.

I left my narcissist after 20 years. I came down with severe Chronic Fatigue and Fibromyalgia a few years later.

Great description of the self-avoidance, distraction seeking and why people do this.

Omg i never understood why he always needed to stand up and walk. So weird. 🤣😱

Excellent episode. “My” narc dude was exactly like this. Running all the time restless through life. No willing to enjoy the moment, all the time thinking about the next step, the next move, the next project. He moved from Germany to the States 17 years ago and the American “System” of restlessness seems like to be the best way of life for him (and his poor wife a text book co dependent ) Poor people …

I have an extremely evil overt narcissist sister, a violent malignant narcissist father and a covert narcissist mother🐉🐉🐉They all think I am an extension of themselves either as a literal punching bag, a play thing they can emotionally abuse and an idiot🎯I grew up being used and abused and I felt that I was completely misunderstood and severely undervalued🫀But now I am an empath, i follow my gut and I feel sorry for my family, but not sorry enough to let them devour me anymore🏖️

Yes money, cars ,houses and career nothing else matters.

Thank you for saying that about trauma response. My husband has a lot of trauma response but is not at all abusive. In fact he is supportive, but he does have a lot of trauma response and that can be exhausting. He is anxious and needs a lot of reassurance. Many things can seem narcissistic but he is also kind and selfless. Often doing things for others and not even telling me. It would be great if you could highlight the differences between trauma response and narcissism.

Thank you so much danish,you are the angel for many survivors... You helped me a lot in 7 months... My parents,my maternal grandmother all are narcs...now today by this video I understand why they did not sit still...and they used to say me,body is a machine,use it as much as you can,your work is important for house chores not your skin,and I believed most of the year in this dirty shit,they don't know about rest,even they don't want to see if another person of house is resting or relaxing,they feel very jealous...my parents are financially stable,they have no financial issues still they do house chores all day,they clean all those stuff which are already cleaned..they don't hire maid for house chores even they are capable in the terms of finances,and this is their karma... Now m laughing 😅😅😅all my 30 years I was unable to understand why they do these insane things all day,now I understand the reason behind this... 😅😅😅😅

You’ve hit the nail on the head. She is constantly on the go yet rarely achieves much but let’s others think that she does. Makes others think that I’m the lazy one.

He never stopped talking, had chronic insomnia, and needed to have something going all the time. Was a constant shopper (obsessive), would text me at 3am, thought nothing of starting something at midnight, wanted to go out all the time but couldn't stay anywhere for long. Drove like a maniac too.

Wow! you are so smart because this explains so much. With my family there is literally not a moment to rest. They dont even share their daily plan but I have often compared to this to them being human pinball machines bouncing off one thing after another. We I decline to participate, they get angry. I dont know how this fits in but I have noticed addiction to gossip, gossip magazines, alcohol, and constant phone use. It is all getting worse. After a few days visit I am so exhausted from them, I feel physically sick.

Not only does the narc get illnesses late in life, the victim does too. Get away from them ASAP. I should advise myself first 20 years of exhaustion.

It’s never enough not matter how much you do. 23 years together with my narcissist husband. I’m called lazy always belittling you. I’m learning 18 years married. Programed worker works 65 hours a week. Silicone mode we stay in cause I stoped feeding him with supplies of arguing or caring cause yes it’s draining. Staying calm not supplying no more. ❤

Eternal breath of fresh air of exactly what I have been feeling cannot seem to get enough rest and now I understand why bless you Danish💕

I am so glad that I found you! I have been married for over 30 years, was depressed, my adult children don't like their father....he is a narcissist....now I know!!!!!

Amazing how do you know my husband so well! he is always make him self very busy every day like run away from the house and trying to do so many things in one day as possible, than coming home and be busy again to posted picks of his busy day on the FB and after that he shows his true colors be exhausted and ask for dinner. No empathy for family. NARC

My Nex and I used to just sit down watching a movie and after about 30 minutes, he would get up and go in the kitchen or go do something else. He just couldn’t sit still, focus and pay attention to one thing for too long. It was like he would get bored easily or like he had Adult ADD. He loved to bid for electronic devices on eBay. He LOVED to shop, gamble and play online games. Sometimes when we were together he would shake or shiver. I would ask him if he was chilly or cold. He would tell me he was nervous. I would be like What?!? Why are you nervous and we’re just sitting here chilling out? It was SO WEIRD! He also had sleep apnea, would snore like a fckng wild pig, and would almost NEVER sleep through the night. He would wake up at 2,3, 4am and play games on his phone, get on his laptop, watch TV, want to have sex, want to talk…and he really didn’t care if I got any sleep or a good night’s rest. FCKNG Weirdo!

This is enlightening. I do shopping therapy to escape 🎉from abuse and the distress and grew up in a toxic environment.

This is a good video but I couldn't show it to the narc in my life because she uses work to not sit still rather than materialistic stuff and so she would just say this doesn't apply to her.

Sir, can you please make an episode on how a narcissist always puts in a catch-22 situation: my narc dad for example, if you ask for something he doesn't want to do,he'll rudely ignore you because he has the right as a dad to ignore and If you raise your voice or repeat he'll accuse YOU of rudeness. They always carefully plan a catch-22 situation to keep you entrapped and under control between the8r infallible excuses. It's literally Satanism 101. Not sure if you made an episode on it. Thanks in advance, Doc.