Why We Are Collectively Struggling in Relationships- Monogamy vs Polyamory with Naftali Moses

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Why We Are Collectively Struggling in Relationships- Monogamy vs Polyamory with Naftali Moses

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In this week's episode of the HighestSelf Podcast, we delve into the intricate topics of love, relationships, and the dance of divine union.
This profound exploration wouldn't be complete without a special guest - the insightful personal coach, Naftali Moses.
The tapestry of topics unfolds with saucy discussions on monogamy, open relationships, the desire to be chosen, and the complexities of modern-day love.
We explore self-worth, identity, and the power dynamics between men and women.
Here's a glimpse of what Naftali and I unravel:
- The Dance of Masculine and Feminine Energies
- Monogamy vs. Open Relationships
- Unveiling the layers of self-worth, identity, and the deep-seated desire to be chosen in love.
- The Power of Belief and Community
- Embracing authenticity, releasing societal expectations, and having open conversations to improve our relationships.
- The journey to finding love within ourselves and the value of self-investment
- A deep dive into the phenomenon of situation-ships, influenced by technology and societal shifts.
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@candiceclaire801 Ай бұрын

This is one of the best podcasts I've seen! Naftali is a trailblazer in these times which resonates totally with me!

@SaharaRose Ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to watch. 💖

@joanasilva4968 7 ай бұрын

I've watched this episode a few times now, it's a lot of wisdom for and hour and twenty seven minutes. I'm so grateful for this episode! Plus, I think that what Naftali says with the questions that Sahara makes is what makes the content even clearer and so spot on ✨❤ This is like a book in a video!

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Heartfelt thanks for your support! They mean a lot to me. ❤️

@97oxs 2 ай бұрын

Well done to the both of you , you came strong but was seen from a place of experience and external conversation- - your tone of voice was saying give me answers and he just gently guided the answers with strength to you and your head nods of understanding and satisfaction ( great convo )

@SaharaRose 2 ай бұрын

Really appreciate your comment! It's great to have such amazing support.

@coolbreeze5683 7 ай бұрын

I think it comes down to the desire for individuals to learn and grow. People should approach relationships with curiosity and with the desire for self-improvement and also the desire to see your partner grow. Both partners need to see eachother as equals and be willing to put in the difficult work for these relationships to thrive. If either partner gets triggered by something, they shouldn't point a finger but look inwards as to what triggered them. The other partner should provide a safe space to allow for that exploration and vice versa. That is what spiritual partnership is. I've tapped out of romantic relationship years ago since I have a spiritual partnership that is non romantic. It's fulfilling enough for me.

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective on spiritual partnerships. ❤️

@SMG338 7 ай бұрын

What a beautifully mature and deep discussion. Thank you both for sharing your experience and wisdom. I can relate to what you discussed and the importance of creating our true love story with ourselves and getting real with what we desire. The discussion about compromise resonates. Would love to see you both discuss other topics. Sahara so much of what you spoke about regarding your learning post-divorce has also been my experience. I do believe we are unconsciously attached to the stories and patterns we learned as children we don’t realize when the reality may not fit our desires in life.

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment! It means a lot to us that you found our discussion mature and deep. We appreciate your support. ❤️❤️❤️

@luanabossetti3014 7 ай бұрын

This was gold. Thank you to both of you for being open to having a difficult conversation and for being committed to doing the work to embody the healthy divine feminine and masculine. I really appreciated it!

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

I deeply appreciate your words! thank you for watching! ❤️

@elgallonegro9562 5 ай бұрын

Naftali you are amazing brother.

@SaharaRose 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for tuning in! ❤️

@ginamiller3419 7 ай бұрын

Worth listening to ❤

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Really appreciate your support! 🌟

@KR-zi3mt 7 ай бұрын

On the marriage topic and recognizing there is no true real security- I think it comes down to self trust. Do you trust your future self to navigate the potential loss of a relationship or marriage. If you don’t then you’re going to live in a constant of fear and avoid the things that bring us joy and fulfillment along with self growth.

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective on marriage and the importance of self-trust. It's a valuable reminder for us all to trust in our inner strength. 🌱✨

@user-tq6qp4fk3w 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this 1!! You are sharing this much needed truth!

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for tuning in! ❤️

@joanasilva4968 7 ай бұрын

"When we realize that what we put back is better than ourselves, that means we did a good job" ✨

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching! ❤️

@nant4643 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for this wonderful episode!! 💟

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Our pleasure! 💖

@juligrbac4246 7 ай бұрын

You are the best! Your questions and responses are a voice for so many women 🫶🏽

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate that! Thanks a ton! 👍

@yourguidemasha 7 ай бұрын

So much truth here ❤

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

such a good one right?!

@sarahsanchez5637 7 ай бұрын

Loooove this!

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the love! ❤️

@user-cf3ss8td4r 7 ай бұрын

This was amazing

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

This means a lot, thank you! 💖

@BereniceZamora 7 ай бұрын

omg i really love it, amazing to hear man like this. I know there are a lot like, beautiful!

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed the video! Means a lot! 🙌

@danzaathedancer7761 7 ай бұрын

Great podcast Sahara, I’m def a fan! On the other side for me as far as what Sahara was used to, my mother was always very corporate, All about work and stressed out all the time. And growing up that’s all I saw and it stressed and saddened me to see her that way and I never wanted to be that way. So I chose a an opposite path. Still career minded but more about tapping into my passion and creativities. And now that I’ve fulfilled that, I want to be home and cook and clean and be a mother. Raise my child. And yet women my age range look at what I’m doing and think either how lucky I am or how sad I turned to domestication. When at the end of the day I am happier in this lifestyle. Grant it, it’s only been three years but I def intend to raise my baby and homeschool him until he’s 6-7 then possibly work part time or do something off the wall work wise. I just want “to be” at this phase in my life and stop proving myself to others

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your journey and thoughts with us. Your happiness is the most significant success. Keep shining in your unique way!

@GreenVeggie 7 ай бұрын

I needed this today, thank you 🙏

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the love! ❤️

@elfenelfen 7 ай бұрын

Interesting conversation with a really interesting guy - definitely got some serious wisdom going… 🙌🏼😊 but somehow I‘ve „enjoyed“ other episodes more (and I feel the most talented and inspiring Sahara has too 😉). This guy for sure has a lot to share… I hope he can relax and lighten up a bit though. Pretty intense. What I love about Sahara Rose is the lightheartedness brought into deep & serious topics.

@Sarah_Pea 7 ай бұрын

I feel the same, I found it a little hard to follow. I felt there’s a lot of words but I’m not quite sure what’s being said - maybe just me. Some interesting points though and I’ll look forward to more from Sahara in future 😊

@bossladyjenee 7 ай бұрын

@@Sarah_Peayes I too got a bit lost in all the verbiage here and there. And he needs a wife. Clearly. 😅

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback.

@Gymandjuice_it 7 ай бұрын

Let me grab my tea, 👌♥️

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching! ❤️

@infinitebeing7371 7 ай бұрын

All is neutral.

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

thank YOU for listening!

@bossladyjenee 7 ай бұрын

Yes and we make it whatever we want 😊🪄

@gloricaaxox 7 ай бұрын

I wish you would get actual Polyamorous people on to talk when you bring up the topic, instead of getting monogamous people that don’t have an understanding of it. All of your episodes are from a monogamous perspective & I can respect that because that’s who you are. But to talk about a topic with someone else that neither of you have personal experience with, seems quite unfair to the Polyamorous community. Him Saying that it doesn’t “work for women” like it’s facts, is really sad. Because it’s ignoring the fact that there really are a bunch of Polyamorous relationships that have lasted decades. Unfortunately because of all the Stigma, A LOT of the community is actually “in the closet”. Anyway, still sending you all love & no hate ❤ I just wish people would represent our community better so, so many people wouldn’t have to hide their relationships. 🫶🏼✨

@lovelyesmeralduh 7 ай бұрын

polyamorous is treating yourself like a garbage disposal any man can dump their custard on you without the requirement of treating you like a Beautiful treasure queen. Stds is been known to be widespread in polyamorous relationships by medical professionals. I will take Queen treatment over lust cus i know my value.

@gloricaaxox 7 ай бұрын

@@lovelyesmeralduh If monogamy works for you, great. Good for you, I’m not gonna belittle you for your life choices and pretend like my choices are better than yours. It’d be nice if people learned to respect each other’s difference & spoke from curiosity more than judgement. We could all learn something from each other. I feel like you’re talking from a perspective that assumes that polyamory is only done by heterosexual people only. It also seems like you’re assuming that polyamory is solely one man with many women, but that’s not how it works. Even comparing monogamy with Polyamory is unfair. Since monogamy is just two people being exclusive. Whereas Polyamory is an umbrella term to a large variety of relationship dynamics. There are close triads for example, and it’s not always necessarily one man and two women (it could just as well be 3 women). That’s just the stereotype people think of when they think of Polyamory. There are quads and Solo Polyamorous folks and a bunch in between. Which I feel is nice to know that my relationships don’t have to be predetermined to how society conditioned us. I like knowing that I can create my own dynamic with the people in my life. 🫶🏼🤍✨ Anyway, I can obviously go on forever because I really wish to change the stigma around it. So I hope if anyone reads this, maybe you learned a little something today. If not, that’s okay. No need to let stranger’s life choices negatively impact you. We’re all just here to have experiences 🤍🫶🏼✨ love and light to you ✨🫶🏼

@SaharaRose 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts.

@JOHNTITOR-kg9zj 5 ай бұрын

You didnt change absolutly nothing in the world. How bout u change urself and stfup?