Agar tum kisi cheez ko shiddat se chaho, to puri kaynat usse tumahari karane lg jaati hai

That is very anecdotal.

Back then people didn't have much of a choice. Either take up govt jobs or open a small business. Except for marriages, Indians are very thrifty. They spend a lot of money on their sons or daughters marriage. We got a small pie (printing), then there is pendal people, decorators, house keeping staff, florists, priests, catering.. And the list goes on and on.

Ya but look at the loans taken for wedding and many can't return that because loan taken for wedding is like a loss making business bound to bankrupcy

Yes, but no one told them to hold a grand weddings beyond their means. I now live in australia and people here take big loans for things they don't need to impress people they don't like. It is a universal problem. In India it is wedding, and in Australia it is boats and 4x4

Food matters 😂

That’s easy

but how?

​@@hiranyasarma8886 Watch " the problem with genz" by aevy tv and then you can understand what i mean to say.

But with boomer parents.... Trust me it's not gonna happen

point to note is that not everyone in gen z is like this, only the top portion(10%-20%) with access to resources, like quality education, the rest are doing worse by being trapped in status war and doing more showoff or impulse buying finally getting debt trapped. So its not going to be all good by itself unless we all support each other.

no. even genz likes big weddings. no amount of brain washing and leftist agenda is gonna change them.

Seems logical

It is the actual fact

Fact 👏

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Excellent thinking mate

most of the money spent by these big fat weddings (except paying for Rihanna) stays in the country and in the local economy where poor's benefits the most whereas you will be spending mostly on international hotels, and international destination. Although this is not good example of investment in local economy but this is the reality.

@@nikhilkay1 well it's his decision

SAME THOUGHT HERE

I like this plan.

Yeah its their choice to be financially unstable, if they can afford then its good but the problem is most of the weddings in India are funded by debts and in rural areas those debts come from unauthorized sources which make them fall in a debt trap so tell me is it that important to so off your wedding or just be a financially literate person and spend only if you Can afford it

@@MonuKumar44444 I AM FROM A RURAL AREA IN UP and what you said is 100% correct.

Honestly, In India its less about making it memorable and more about making a big show.

@@manofculture9051 definitely brother one of my uncles fell into such a debt trap and today he is in 1.5 crore debt he had spend 3 crore on his daughter's marriage and today he and his sons are paying the dabt sacrificing a better life for their own children

Except that it is not just about making things memorable. And if you need buckets full of money to do it memorable then it is not necessarily good either (spoiler: many people take lot of debts for it)

**and vice versa Sometimes it's other way round.. _The problem starts when an average middle class parents wants Ambani style wedding and then force their children indulge on and organise such weddings.._ I know my Dad doesn't have enough money to have Grand wedding.. he will be taking loan for sure.. then spend next 4-5 yrs to repay them.. personally I don't enjoy gatherings and Camera attention.. Amount spend on showing off your (Fake) Wealth ≠ How Happy I will be in my married life .. I will get nothing.. all will be gone.. I want to get married in a temple.. simple.. and beautiful... When Catholics marry at church.. Sikhs marry in Gurudwara.. why can't we marry in Temple.. I m searching for a Groom who will be on the same tangent as of me.. 😊 --- Avg Middle class Girl..

Even if someone has enough money it is better to invest elsewhere which will reap more fruitful results for our world.

Even if someone has enough money it is better to invest elsewhere which will reap more fruitful results for our world.

Habits bro. Habits don't change even if it is a day before exam

End sem in 6 days.....

Hey bhagwan , jitna ho sake utna hi karna chahiye this thing should change

I dunno why but i laughed a lot hearing the word 'bankruptcy' due to marriage not once but thrice 😂​@@Kitty786kat

Yesssssssssssssss

Disagreed. Super rich will obviously hire well to do wedding planners, other than the labor involved, I am not sure how much it increases cash flow to low income groups

@@idonotdosarcasmSo what is the exact wealth transfer model or equation according to you.

@@magiclandcartoons would my opinion matter ?

@@magiclandcartoonsa common man's marriage in his local place is where the poor is benefited. The wedding of rich doesn't directly benefit the poor, only a part of it reaches the poor.

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Ambani bro..... Obviously a singer will not sing for free, be it foreigner or Indian

@@Z71990 I'm not talking about musicians and singers alone. Anything related to foreigners in your wedding are arranged by event managers, be it table service staff or fake foreign Paparazzis or anything you could wish for

20?

What Hindu if you cut off all roots from culture and traditions?

​@@rajkumarvishwakarma478To be honest even atheism is part of Hinduism, so this culture & roots aren't necessary to be hindu

@@sudhindra what is it? Where does these tradition derive their roots from? Charvaks dont follow any tradition nor believe in Supreme being.

@@rajkumarvishwakarma478 no offense I just told you that, anything or any idea is accepted in Hinduism. Even if you feel that someone is cutting his roots & traditions, even that's accepted. I didn't find anything wrong, it's up to individual preferences

@@sudhindra then what remains as of Hindu? If you keep on taking every thing out of it. I agree, that Hinduism in its current form is not solely based on rigid laws and traditions and has diverse traditions, From Shakta to Vaishnava to shaiva everyone follows their dharma in the way they want. But if one says I don't follow any Hindu custom or even dharmik rituals, but still call oneself one, I don't get this. Seriously.

Nah, that's just for more content :D

Agr Shaadi nhi tiki toh what will you do.. "trying to reminiscing about the Grand event" Achhar daaloge... Focus more on.. Happy Marriage and Settled life than spending Hefty amount just to show off (unreal) family's wealth ..

Waste* in weddings

Bro she is already married😭

@@akshaysriraman3065 yeah bro I understand, it's sad - such a beautiful girl

@@subhojeetchowdhury9304 bhai divorce karwa do uska😁 ladai karwado varun ke saath😂

Which means your life doesn't have any other Jalwa than this, there hundreds of ways to enjoy

hahaha

Hehe true. I dont hate it, just find it wasteful. I would rather save that money to do something better

@@LiberatedNotes yup true 👍

Don't think like that my father run a decoration business it will be bankrupt if u ppl think like that

like our beloved couple Mr and Mrs Mayya

Yeah i agree still the majority of people would prefer buying brand new... driven by emotion

As per my experience it would be 300 on avg(at least in cities) and not 2000(unless in rural areas). Also not even a portion of the cost is recovered in marriage as only close relatives give gifts and in return you have to give gifts in their wedding or "It WOULDN'T LOOK GOOD". Just think about the cost for a week long functions with accommodations for guests. Unification of two families will happen regardless of doing these big weddings like what happens in case of court or temple marriages. And using 20% of life saving just for the sake of employing people once is not a good justification. Spend only what is necessary and don't be trapped in showoff.

@@shubhamtariyal439 yes agreed. Spending money on luxury car or big smartphones are also luxury. People must consider those. Atleast wedding money is spent within India mostly. So basically money remains in Indian economy. Buying luxury cars and smartphones you end up supporting foreign countries

​@@ganeshr4371 I really don't understand the mentality, when it comes to marriage you all think of indian economy, but why not other times? Is marriage the only way to contribute? Also freebies does more damage to economy, even then support it, but people shouldn't by foreign products😢