Why women play hard to get with you and what to do when that happens

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Playing hard to get is a game as old as time. Crafty women leave men befuddled with their hot then cold signals. In this video Jessica highlights why they do that and what to do when that happens. This video really zeros in on why women play hard to get.
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@princefrancis194 3 жыл бұрын

Gents save yourselves time and energy. If she’s truly interested she will never play hard to get. Period.

@immanymusic2385 3 жыл бұрын

No lies detected here

@vanessamartinez211 3 жыл бұрын

That’s true why play silly games

@jaydeeentertainments2985 3 жыл бұрын

Then you haven’t met some women, some women might really be interested in you but you will never know because they just don’t want to look cheap

@robinonyango3563 3 жыл бұрын

💯 💯 💯 Interest is everything when dealing with a lady

@roylle6346 3 жыл бұрын

U are WRONG!

@martloni5450 3 жыл бұрын

Don't play no games with no lady. Say your intentions, ask about her values and find out if they align with yours (super-duper important!!!). Always keep the focus on yourself and your goals KING. Don't make her your priority if she isn't reciprocating. Finally, If she wants you, she will come around. Bless!!

@afoteyodai3588 3 жыл бұрын

I came here just to make sure this was stated. 👌🏽

@danielabladeynarh2012 3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@olatundeoladele5093 3 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head there, bruh. Awesome.

@isaacs2539 3 жыл бұрын

Great comment. Boyz and the new young men on the block - read and apply.

@attclubmedia 3 жыл бұрын

Your comment speaks volumes.. Are you in the UK? We need men like you at our studio

@jazzampa 3 жыл бұрын

Any man chasing a woman in 2021 has no purpose. Get on your purpose gents 👍🏽

@jazzampa 3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os How about stop spamming people's pages? Get a life, will you?

@martin1966 3 жыл бұрын

@@jazzampa Title of the viseo should be “as a Beta, and good luck with that…”

@fallonmassey4714 3 жыл бұрын

@@jazzampa The probability that that's her responding is next to ZERO!

@incubus_the_man 3 жыл бұрын

why do people always make the year a part of it? It's not like all the women in the world change every year on the same schedule. It's more like we get to a point where we notice these things and and think that said things are a new phenomena that just popped up this year.

@kuzemike4804 3 жыл бұрын

@@martin1966 when I see my colleagues neither from AMS (university) nor whichever of the real G on KZfaq.....I recognizes y'all 😂😂😂😂😂🙋‍♂️🤑🏋️‍♂️

@juliorodriques1664 3 жыл бұрын

I disagree...women that play games leave them alone quick. That is a degrading level of disrespect.

@revolutionaryleader9615 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@kobbyscratch5799 3 жыл бұрын

Yep. Kevin Samuels says this on his Podcast on KZfaq all the time.

@qaqamkula6633 3 жыл бұрын

Classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@opheliasedzro840 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

@samuelofori4864 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@BRSG. 3 жыл бұрын

Every chick that played hard to get with me were hiding issues/ problems that would've been instant deal breakers had I'd known upfront.

@Malitubee Жыл бұрын

Dawg who you telling . I had this one chick like that who was addicted to drugs real bad , after I found out , a lot of shit became clear .

@user-fp8ys4zr3d 6 ай бұрын

@@Malitubee 🤣🤣🤣

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

She's just scratching the surface because she's a women but women play hard to get because of the following reasons 1) She's intimidated by the guy who approaches her and thinks he's a player or she's not on his level . 2) She has medium to low interest 3) She has low self esteem and she just wants attention . That's why women say "we can be friends" 4) She's not that sexually attracted to the guy 5) Her fear from bad relationships in the past is stronger than her desire to get with the guy . Any guy who approaches and talks to a lot of women in his life knows that if a woman really like you . She will make it easy because she doesn't want to mess the situation up !

@revolutionaryleader9615 3 жыл бұрын

Fact

@randyeduo 3 жыл бұрын

i guess thats some of the many reasons, but she didn't cover all of it--Thats because of the reasons one has to experience it to become aware of it. because women don't communicate as men do, they are usually hiding in the dark about a lot of things

@collinsa8909 3 жыл бұрын

You are right but some put up resistance for their egos sake. The like you talk about could be overwhelming sexual /physical attraction ,the type that awes them so much they can't hide their nervousness.

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

@@randyeduo Not really , because women are so scared of how people will view them if they just say what they truly mean .

@bolajiaiyegboyin3579 3 жыл бұрын

Got it right bro.and let me add one,a lady played hard to get because another guy is in her mind.

@RaymondAinyam 3 жыл бұрын

Life's too short to be figuring out why she's playing games. Guys, I would rather spend that time figuring how to level up, improve my physique, looks and most importantly, my finances. Get on your purpose guys. A lady who likes you plays no games, and they are the best type of women to be with.

@resetinvestments 3 жыл бұрын

Having read over 60 comments, this is by far the best which contains the reality of life and greatest wisdom..others' comments are also insightful! Jessica should tell us whether she's in a relationship or married and if not she should tell us why? If marriage is not her interest then she is defacto disqualified from rendering advice on the subject of relationships and marriage.

@RaymondAinyam 3 жыл бұрын

@@resetinvestments never take a dating &relationship advise from a woman. You'll end up being something they don't want. She's doing these videos because most of her audience are men and these videos gets her the views

@dankwasampson2401 3 жыл бұрын

Great one

@dankwasampson2401 3 жыл бұрын

@@RaymondAinyam Is there any way we can get in touch on WhatsApp or Facebook?

@PageTV2 3 жыл бұрын

She's doing this video for views , probably she isn't married upon all the advise she has been given

@uncleruckus9241 3 жыл бұрын

So women want to be modern with their sexuality, careers, attitudes and demands... but men should stay traditional and play these silly 'catch me if you can' games'? Not gonna happen! Men hate mixed signals and stupid games just as much as women do. For men like myself, if a woman takes too long to text back, doesn't call and gives mixed signals, I'm out! If you're interested in me, SHOW IT. Don't waste my time.

@thyeocroft205 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@welcomehavefun910 3 жыл бұрын

Bro,,come let's rock my boat🤣

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

You're one confident beast !

@mubarakadigun5203 3 жыл бұрын

Off your mic man

@opheliasedzro840 3 жыл бұрын

Ooh no.. you gave up to early 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@wcarroll920 3 жыл бұрын

When I was much younger I’ve wondered why girls would play hard to get, and I didn’t want to waste my time with that type. When I got older I did, and when I won a couple of them over I came to a harsh realization that they weren’t really worth the wait in the first place. The perspective you’ve provided is what I had to learn the hard way. Appreciate your insight and I’m sure it can help someone down the road.

@clarencepaasewe4349 Жыл бұрын

bro u are speaking wisdom here

@meatwad1 2 жыл бұрын

I had a "queen" waste 3 months taxing my patience with this shit and now she's a never-married 51 year old single mom who's going to spend the rest of her life alone. Congratulations on a job well done, Queen.

@eldderbanga5025 3 жыл бұрын

***Men must not waste their time by chasing women. Men must always chasse Excellency to build their own life***Let women do whatever they want, but men should first focus on their own life****Man can choose any woman he wants when his life us well built***Let woman chasse you***

@shadrachwilson1211 3 жыл бұрын

That's so true... i support your argurment 100% women don't like broke guys. So its better to focus on getting yourself well equipped, in terms of finance, business wise, and push yourself up on the ladder.

@isaacs2539 3 жыл бұрын

@@shadrachwilson1211 Focus on building yourself for yourself sake and not to necessarily get women.

@lebogangsetlhaba7391 3 жыл бұрын

✅✅✅

@TheRex210 3 жыл бұрын

Getting a woman is different from building your life except if you want "SUCKERS and VIPERS". What Jessy is say is thinking from a woman point of view to a man. And if you not in for all the "shit" women give then TAKE NOTE of her FINAL statements VERY important.

@alexmwangi9933 3 жыл бұрын

@@isaacs2539 true

@brabbitwalker1009 3 жыл бұрын

It's not about playing hard to get... It's knowing if you have chemistry from the start and being honest with each other...

@r.pinheiro549 Жыл бұрын

100%

@africancockney8712 3 жыл бұрын

With all due respect these games are childish and manipulative. Girls that play hard to get, for me is a clear red flag. Best thing to do is to walk away pursue a classy woman.

@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын

Hats off to you my man. You’re 💯 correct..

@bogosimotshegwa4375 2 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯. Especially when the two parties are older.

@hassanhohay103 Жыл бұрын

The more you love a woman the more she degrade you,while less attention means more attraction.Thats is how women psychology works.Always never hung around with women even if you love her.The more she sees that you are running away or ignoring her the more she fall crazy in you.This psychology applies both men and women.Secondly true lovers never hurt each other physically or mentally.They know the purpose that brought them together but they rest behave differently.

@elvisiriowen7194 3 жыл бұрын

The competition is also stiff with men not only women anymore. If the woman plays hard to get the man quickly shift to another who will definitely play simple to get. cool. Because in the long run both women will exhibit the same purpose in the life that they were destined to fulfill in the relationship they finally end up with. I had a personal experience with a lady who played as such. After three attempts I started ignoring her. Then she attempted to use her body language to bring back my attention without verbally implying it. But them my emotions were already drained for someone else without her knowing. She tried and tried but I just ignored her.

@mohemiiii 2 жыл бұрын

Work on yourself,get your money,go to the gym,dress well, smell nice and rock your confidence. No woman will play hard to get on you because she knows there's lots of girls chasing after you, never simp and chase a woman.

@lovedoctorob 3 жыл бұрын

“The older a woman gets, the more she knows what she wants”…Very true👏👏😍

@shebahdebrah6076 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes

@wanzaleppanen1400 3 жыл бұрын

True

@furydj2311 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@issaadam867 3 жыл бұрын

Sad part men love young women. Older women and single have been run through too much. Also a result of not listening to their men.

@bobbydelgado4502 3 жыл бұрын

Older women also know what men Don't want.. an Older woman. If a woman you like is playing hard to get? Leave her ass right where she is and move on. Women don't play B.S. games with men they are attracted to, Want, Value and Respect. They just Don't. Period.

@BORNFREE876 3 жыл бұрын

🇯🇲 Anecdotally, less is best. Beautiful women are used to getting men's attention & being pursued. That "singled out" male who seemingly gives her " no time of the day", she will come wondering " what is it with you, don't you find me appealing?" As a male, half your work is done and you've gained her respect.

@andolinesibanda6664 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah treat her like a normal human being. Dont put her on a pedestal. Dont treat her like a celebrity because you will be treated like a fan.

@bobbimensahatopley9894 Жыл бұрын

Thank you bruh

@johnnycorn7225 Жыл бұрын

Bro 💯

@ivar5162 3 жыл бұрын

"Why women play hard to get with you and what to do when that happens" Just walk away.

@isaacs2539 3 жыл бұрын

Very simple: walk away and build your own future.

@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын

👊🏾...my man

@jaybryson8501 3 жыл бұрын

True lol

@donniechikson8654 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@PageTV2 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah walk away don't waste your fucking time

@olatundeoladele5093 3 жыл бұрын

The statement you made toward the end of this video...I could use it as my line and lay my cards out on the table when the lady of my dream comes my way. Freaking awesome. Thanks Sis.

@djtommykeys 2 жыл бұрын

"I'm mad at you, you didn't call me today" is my exit call. I only recall one woman I think was playing hard to get. She dragged it out for so long I just faded away. When I bumped into her again she was cold and angry with me. What? She actually cared enough to be angry? I haven't heard the term "mixed signals" in a long time. Great video Jessica.

@Architivist_ 3 жыл бұрын

Each time I tune in, I learn a lot. Thank you sisi🙏

@SizzlesDiaries 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jess! This was insightful.

@knamon864 3 жыл бұрын

What she's achieving on KZfaq is nothing short of true genius and grit.

@qinspride5795 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!..I totally agree with you in all. ..and that last one got me cutely: *Lay your cards on the table* , that's what works here.. even when you said it, my mind resonated with it. I love folks who are *blunt* . At the end of the day, it is what it is.

@relaxingandsoothing7353 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Qins, how is it going?

@qinspride5795 3 жыл бұрын

@@relaxingandsoothing7353 am good 🤗

@relaxingandsoothing7353 3 жыл бұрын

@@qinspride5795 I'm glad 🙏🏼

@frankhonyo1453 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jessie I always learnt a lot whenever I watch your videos

@MrJoennachi 3 жыл бұрын

Why should a man make a woman prize asset? Guys, focus on you and forget going after these broke ladies

@sajidam3463 2 жыл бұрын

This girl is going cold on me and I told her that she looks moody. It was in the supermarket and there were people close by. But because she is playing hard to get I don't get to see her much and I can't talk to her in private. Anyway I told her she looked moody. She responded very quitely saying that I always have some suggestions and complains. (It was not true and It made no sense. I hardly get to see her and I never text her any complains). She said this so quietly that I couldn't hear. I had to bend down (I am at least 5 inches taller than her) and ask her to repeat. She repeated and I left the place saying it is a peaceful month. (It was the Easter holidays) Did I react well to her testing?

@erictripton Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Jessica. The last option about respectfully laying it out how I feel, asking her if she feels that way too will save a bunch of time and help free me up to move on and meet other ladies. Not crazy about dragging this hard to get game. You are the only vlogger who has offered up this solution. Now, to wait for an appropriate time to speak with her.

@philipaadjei1081 3 жыл бұрын

Jess, you're graciously spot on! The last line is Gold-it shows maturity, what you want and not afraid to lose. Best wishes!!

@philipaadjei1081 3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os Thanks Jess. I will have a look- much appreciated 👍

@ebenezerehun8242 3 жыл бұрын

@@philipaadjei1081 please don't fall for this scam. This one is a fraud. Just look closely

@philipaadjei1081 3 жыл бұрын

@@ebenezerehun8242 yeah 😂, I did.

@tawandamataka133 3 жыл бұрын

Very insightful and enlightening. Thank you.

@brown_krs1 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness,you’re so superbly very well spoken-i love it!

@7Fields16llc 3 жыл бұрын

These knowledge are also useful in an existing relationship as well. Thanks Jessica.

@lischendarlene5533 3 жыл бұрын

Just like listening and watching your videos..most of it are often on point..thanks Jessica for the sensitization 🙏🙏

@lischendarlene5533 3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os Okay J...will check him out doing my less busy time...keep on the good work 💪👷 appreciate you for all you do and proud to have your kind 👏👏

@hafolahbi 3 жыл бұрын

Very good advice, thanks. Relationship isn't easy because the decision doesn't lie with you and you feel powerless when you don't have control.

@graciousgod8983 2 жыл бұрын

I really like this video. Thank you very much Jessica.

@uchechukwuorji2205 3 жыл бұрын

I love the title of this video... It's so spot on

@kojamps 3 жыл бұрын

I'm too old for this...bleep - I know!😆 Love the last point, you impersonated the graceful male response perfectly. Ain't nobody got time for this immature...bleep!

@ceejaymaxwell289 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Jessica, most of the things you said really make sense.Thank you 🙏🏽 I'll keep in mind some of the steps you mentioned.

@chanceformyourself Жыл бұрын

Love your videos, so much helpful info. Thank you

@tonyzach8963 2 жыл бұрын

Jessi, I can't stop listening to you , I am paying for your voice. Moreso, your topics are very brief and to the point

@christophernanakofiguggisb2572 3 жыл бұрын

The funny thing is most of these women who play hard to get always ends up with a good for nothing man and when they have hit a brick wall they come back desperate. It happens to my brother and now the woman has two kids from two different men and still single. She shamelessly calls my brother thinking that things might work out.

@kofiduku934 3 жыл бұрын

Then your bro will be a simp to accept her back

@alexmwangi9933 3 жыл бұрын

I hope your bro moved on

@81copey 3 жыл бұрын

She made her bed..... She can lay in it.

@abrefaanderson2675 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Chopper1z 3 жыл бұрын

The only thing I give my full commitment and attention to is my BEANS and FRIED PLANTAIN during lunch😂😊😎

@AKUKOTV 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you bro, I'm more concerned with my food 😂 Women can not give me headache 😂😂

@maxwellobalimu4349 3 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂 😂

@frankopoku4824 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@balibigb 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@kellysidney7395 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@simbarashetereraichimhanda6386 9 ай бұрын

Jess has my likes... many of my mysteries about women have finally been answered thru most videos I have watched, thumbs up!!!

@herbydeslorge 2 жыл бұрын

Wow I like the way she breaks it down like she is in control of every single word come out her mouth. Thanks Jessica.

@zenoboy5412 3 жыл бұрын

Some women have big egos no matter what you do or how much you pursue they won't reciprocate. It's not strategy it's mental illness

@kojamps 3 жыл бұрын

🤣...guy

@markboome5717 2 жыл бұрын

One doctor told me 50 % of people has mental illness and another said 75% so its going to be hard out there lol

@alonzoyahnedum8295 3 жыл бұрын

Love the “lay your cards on the table talk” felt so real

@CocoaKrachi 3 жыл бұрын

Wow! You are really something! Always on point with deep insights. I love your voice, your accent and your mastery of the English language. Very proud of you.

@MrKumarchris 2 жыл бұрын

Really great content Jessica., i am going to try the last pointer

@duahlistowell9122 3 жыл бұрын

"Women wants everything except the responsibilities that comes with it" it" -Kelvin Samuels-

@kansah4026 3 жыл бұрын

Human nature

@kansah4026 3 жыл бұрын

@Youth Finance SCAM!!!!

@mryoung205 2 жыл бұрын

Kelvin Samuel talk is crap....always bashing women

@duahlistowell9122 2 жыл бұрын

@@mryoung205 you are part of the problem

@omufirika2023 3 жыл бұрын

Okay now I know why am single coz I out grew the games 🤣 You are sister I never had. So needed this perspective.

@robertvachon1306 3 жыл бұрын

Thank for advice... listening to you is always instructive

@soso.g 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy we met you today! You spoke words that really entered me and it's really inspired me❤ and everyone loved you! ❤ Like fr God bless you

@craigeenglish6364 2 жыл бұрын

Stay on your mission guys. You'll never know if games are being played. Maintain your frame and remember that you are the prize. That's the reason why hypergamy and actually exists. Continuously improve and make him ever you date do the same.

@nkonzosmagalela3003 3 жыл бұрын

I can't believe I pursue a woman of my dreams for 4 years, I did everything guys, EVERYTHING! just to show her how special she is to me, but I ended up giving up in mid 2019. I never see and talked to her eversince. Love your channel ❤️💯

@carlosemiralonso7997 2 жыл бұрын

Think of it as a happy ending. You rather chase and fail than not chase and wonder what would happen. My history is : i get a girl but became needy due to inexperience. Wonderful and painful time, but a scar of war in my heart. A lesson to be told. The ability to stand up and start over is all it count to finally find the romantic relationship one seek.

@turnback9866 Жыл бұрын

She sometimes laughs at u when she chats with her friends , yeah about that dude who chased for soo long and then I wasted his time 🤣🤣

@tshepomofokeng58 2 жыл бұрын

I caught myself watching and listening to all the videos, I really like you advices

@factsondeck1552 2 жыл бұрын

How is it that the man is the one losing out if the girl is the one playing games ? Isn’t she losing out on him? And him leaving to search for what he deserves, someone who will be honest with him and not try to push a one sided relationship.

@davianoinglesias5030 3 жыл бұрын

Never chase a woman, just chase your purpose, once you are good at what you do that's it, you just lay your cards on the table and at this point she already knows who you are,your values and she knows she won't look cheap

@isaacboakye967 3 жыл бұрын

Jessica is a great tutor! We will need a little booklet on nuggets of these. It would really help.

@anonymoususer7119 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this detailed post.

@WordbellLanguanges 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome and wonderful insights from Jessica. ❤️❤️

@damionkennedy7628 3 жыл бұрын

All this video did was reinforce what I already knew. But I'll give you your due praise, this advise is pretty accurate

@nicholasbauld905 3 жыл бұрын

A woman who wants to be with you, will never play games. She will chase you and call you constantly. Leave her alone if she is not straightforward. A busy man with value have no time for games.

@newtonojok9720 3 жыл бұрын

Great one, thank you!

@kevincroft9848 2 жыл бұрын

You are the best u tuber. No one else holds a candle to you Kevin x

@nanamanuansah6201 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, this video is both insightful and helpful. Thank you, Jessica.

@RomiLenoir 3 жыл бұрын

6 months ago, For the first time in my life I went straight to tell a lady what I really want from her in the long term. I have known her for years but we just used to talk rarely and randomly, so she was surprised. We connect a lot and talk a lot about work, family and future. We even planned to invest in a business together. However, I made my intentions clear, but she seems to shy away when I bring the subject up. We are both in our 30s... I asked her if she honestly see me as someone she can be with but she never answers. So recently I just decided to pull back. Honestly I just don’t have energy to play game. She may be interested but I just stop being available. Now when she calls we only talk about business.

@collinsa8909 3 жыл бұрын

Women often talk a lot but can't communicate. It's a sign of immaturity on their part

@Stevengomez-j6q 2 жыл бұрын

Any updates? YOG

@RomiLenoir 2 жыл бұрын

@@Stevengomez-j6q, nothing new, I have no intention to run after her. I only do business with her but she sometimes text me out of nowhere for confort or advise when facing personal issues.

@unclemax4257 2 жыл бұрын

Never tell a woman you want that you love her...you will lose her. I never tell my dog that i love him yet he follows me everywhere and can even die to defend me.

@RomiLenoir 2 жыл бұрын

@@unclemax4257 😂that’s right

@deejayrenny3067 3 жыл бұрын

Well this is a good insight. I love your content.Keep up the good work.

@macbook6507 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jessica , its really an informative video🤝🏾

@mikelantern148 2 жыл бұрын

The more I listen to Jess, the more frustrated I feel with a woman I’m interested but playing games and literally tells she’s keeping her options open. I told her good luck, I’ll have to pull out of that pool of men. Not chasing a woman with baggage and all like that. I’ll pursue you for a short while, but only for a short while. If I see nothing coming out of it I move on. At my age I don’t have time for cat and mouse games. lol too matured for that.

@ugoawa3171 3 жыл бұрын

Nice tips Jes. I finally got my tough girlfriend to accept me the moment she noticed I took interest in another pretty girl in the same church. So yeah, such a move works like hot knife thru butter 🇳🇬

@debbiea_awurabena 3 жыл бұрын

Dasoooooo I agree with you 💯 You're just amazing... Keep it up Ma supa role model. My daily inspiration

@danielogah9849 3 жыл бұрын

Great great stuff there. Its really insightful and educative. I'm getting to love this woman JESS already. From Nigeria.

@wesleymatafeni479 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are really helpful , am in my early 20s ,before following you , it was really hard for me to really get this concept of women nature but you really have simplified it for me ,thank you

@jilokizito1705 3 жыл бұрын

If I miss out on it, then it wasn't meant to be in the first place. By the way, isn't she also missing out on a good man by playing those petty games? With women, I don't regret at all. One thing I don't do is play those mind games. I don't have that patience at all. Step aside, let room for high value women.

@pascalsugri562 3 жыл бұрын

😊 same mentality here!

@markpayne9698 3 жыл бұрын

Facts💯

@lambyanam4543 3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@hafolahbi 3 жыл бұрын

I share the same view too. A friend of mine once accused me of giving up easily. Pushing hard seems like you are lowering your own standard too. I mean, this is a relationship not like seeking for loan.

@isaacs2539 3 жыл бұрын

Most men have 'woken up' and are placing high value on their lives, time and dare I say, income. No more games.

@TheBlackManMythLegend 3 жыл бұрын

I put a like because the setting and the video and the flow of that lady is top! :)

@anthonynattoo1935 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks again Jessica ❤😍

@boscojay1381 3 жыл бұрын

I think you spoke to me today, I just came back from a date and things didn’t go well. Lol. I’m not hurt though. Just happy I found this channel !

@kingdavid4027 3 жыл бұрын

The best relationships I ever had were the ones that approached me first with their intentions and I lived them so much for their courage and going for what they want.. at the end what matters is happiness not how u achieved it. A moment of true happiness is worth more than a life time if agony in a relationship just for the sake of it. That narrative if a girl gives in easily or makes the first move partially makes her cheap should be corrected in Africa abeg Nobody should be judged for trying to be happy...... But Ur voice e sweet shaaa ooh and the courage u got for biking that monster bike, I'd like to borrow or buy from u if u have some left 😋. Great content and clarity of sound always

@dericktoo9406 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I think am going to use the last one

@eben4732 3 жыл бұрын

Points noted. Thank you, Jessica

@emmanaturinda3158 3 жыл бұрын

one day I will have this best video and audio quality with authentic content, well done J Os

@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын

Amen. It will happen soon

@mreltino4262 3 жыл бұрын

@@JessicaOS How can I reach you strictly business

@newlinnerevents9864 3 жыл бұрын

I'm new on this channel and I'm loving every bit of it! Love from Uganda

@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🇺🇬

@addaetenkamenin5853 3 жыл бұрын

Another good one Jessica

@XiracomGroup 2 жыл бұрын

oh my am a King too ....thank you for a great talk today love it

@debzvictor9227 3 жыл бұрын

Yessss - the older I get the more I know about myself! And I agree - let me know what you want; your intentions so we can work it out! hahaha; another good content Jess; you rock😃

@debzvictor9227 3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os thank you, will await to hear from you

@leanprogrammer 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video! PS: in my experience laying your cards on the table to younger women (below 25) is perceived by them as being needy. They appreciate it more when they are older (around 30), because of their biological clock.. Geriatric pregnancy is at age 35 and the guys hitting them up are now less than a couple..(all men want young women, especially successful men). it's not a coincidence myself and many of my friends are bombarded with messages from girls who previously said no to us when they were younger(22-23).. Another point to be aware of is if she starts to play hard to get, it probably means you showed too much interest right from the start.. You wanna show her you have a purpose, lifestyle and options. And you're not in a relationship because you haven't yet met a woman with the qualities you're looking for.. If you do it properly, she'll try to prove you wrong.. Aka she'll come on a few dates with you... From there if you have sex with her and assuming the sex was good, you've turned the tables around.. She'll start acting needy... My question is: where do you find women with character and good moral values?

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

It all starts with you! You must know the both the non- physical and physical qualities you want before you approach women . You have to be extremely cold and unemotional towards women . You must be prepared to be get rejected by a lot of women who you approach in real life . I don't know what qualities you're looking for but at the baseline is a woman must be co-operative and submissive to your program . Please never lie to women ! Always tell them upfront what you want so you don't waste your time .

@falaafrica3114 3 жыл бұрын

I fully agree with you. Some of the girls I went to the same school with and the ones I spent my childhood with them in the community/block are chasing me now. They used to reject me due to being less successful and less successful than others at school and in the community. Now that I am educated, I work and I make much money, they start to hunt me as if I was an animal. What is amazes me is that, I am being appreciated by both women(younger and older). Some of them are asking me for marriage. Unfortunately there is no room in my hear for them. They ignored me in such a way that I felt useless in this world. I have to get married to someone who has not shared any table or stage with me. Many chase the men that they undermined at their younger age, because they have been married for multiple times with a lot of men and the men no longer appreciate them. Their bodies are already dead. So, they find a refuge from their old childhood male friends. 🤣. Greetings from Moz🇲🇿. Portuguese speaking country

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

@@falaafrica3114 Never take them back because if you do they will not respect you!

@falaafrica3114 3 жыл бұрын

@@Ben256MB I shall never do that in my life. I have been rejected. It is enough

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

@@falaafrica3114 😆 if you want women you can't avoid rejection and dating is a numbers game just like a business . Any business knows they must market their products and the more they do that . Many customers will say no and but the few who buy will make the business successful . It's the same thing with dating and meeting women . You need to develop a thick skin to rejection and that's how you get the women you really want . Life is too short to be afraid of women !

@rivaldomadiba1879 3 жыл бұрын

Such a quality content I'm a great fan, watching from South Africa...this is educational... Keep the good work

@azeezmustapha5976 3 жыл бұрын

Good one, the last point helped me in getting my dream lady. Keep up the good work jessica.

@calebdunyo268 3 жыл бұрын

Jesss this came at the perfect time herrrrh 😂😂😂 Y3bl3 oooo

@emmanuellaannor2393 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Jess. Oh My! I just can't explain why I get so excited when I watch or listen to you. I Love you wati. Something has to do with Jessica Os, and I'm literally glittering

@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын

Awwww

@kwameboamah6395 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the education Jesica. Love you.

@andrewsharples6049 2 жыл бұрын

LOVE LISTENING TO U. I LEARN A LOT. KEEP IT UP.

@brainstorm_gh6916 3 жыл бұрын

I don't have patience at all.. so if it takes more than a week and u still dragging things I move.

@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын

A week ! Bruh you have time ! If you don't return me text or call with 48 hours I'm done . There's too many single women out here to wait a week !

@fridayjames6551 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@nicholasokonofua1368 3 жыл бұрын

Had this talk with my mum about a lady I am seeing and I can't really place what is happening with us. I think place all my card on the table is what I will do. Thanks alot for this jessica

@josenas3739 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome content as always 😉.

@masoudfalahati2275 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your lecture,I learn something new and appreciate it, I'm going to try what you said and hope to get the results ❤❤❤❤

@wilsonmanteylarbi5614 3 жыл бұрын

With the last point a lot of guys avoid it cos we are afraid of how it could turn out. Some ladies do say no even if they have feelings for you just coz you provided with that option. It's crazy chale

@wilsonmanteylarbi5614 3 жыл бұрын

Why should finding love be subject to all these games! It's soooo tiring

@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын

It’s simple, “because this present world is corrupt”.

@balibigb 3 жыл бұрын

Hello!

@papjin6069 3 жыл бұрын

Because of the players and heartbreakers

@PageTV2 3 жыл бұрын

So tiring and fucking stressful

@maxk5831 3 жыл бұрын

i think what's been forgotten in all this analysis is the age of the woman in question. Her level of maturity counts in whether she will play games with a love interest or not. Factor that along with the fact also that men do not accept no from a woman as final.