Why You Can't Help Narcissists

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Жыл бұрын

In this clip, The Little Shaman discusses why helping narcissistic personalities is not possible.
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@leepiper4621 Жыл бұрын

When you're interacting with a narcissist, and there's conflict, you feel like you're in an alien world

@QueenKandake Жыл бұрын

Oh my god. Just experienced this. I felt like I was having an out of body experience. My stomach hurt, felt like I was gonna vomit, the word salad, the projection, the gaslighting. Oh wow! 😢

@hissyfitz7890 Жыл бұрын

Watching a movie about 👽👽👽👽👽

@byefelicia7736 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! The things they say and their warped interpretation of things leaves you completely speechless and actually questioning yourself because it's so out there. The latest for me was I asked what I was doing one weekend and I said that my best friend...(completely platonic)...was in town and we were going to dinner. Her: "I can't believe the f@@#ed up things you say to me! You were going on and on about spending time with him" (I did not go on and on). She then followed up with "I know you're not interested in men, but that's not the point." That started months long of "punishment" from her.

@lilyflower6511 Жыл бұрын

Exactly! I always said I used to feel like I was in the twilight zone or A Lifetime Movie!

@byefelicia7736 Жыл бұрын

You are correct.

@StCloud-ns7vt Жыл бұрын

The more logical your solution is, the more they will punish you for suggesting it.

@steadypace1262 Жыл бұрын

👍😀 true.

@darlene-MamaD Жыл бұрын

Most definitely!

@sw33tnycandy Жыл бұрын

No lies told

@byefelicia7736 Жыл бұрын

Yes!! I noticed this, too. They have a problem for every solution.

@beth8275 Жыл бұрын

People that have no business being in relationships. They are just beyond impossible

@byefelicia7736 Жыл бұрын

TRUTH!! 1000%. There is NO reaching them. No matter how nice you say something, how genuine you are being, in how many different ways you TRY desperately to explain something or offer a solution, how much evidence you present, it does not matter. They will not accept it. If they feel something, its fact to them. Period. It is extremely crazy making and frustrating.

@steadypace1262 Жыл бұрын

Well said.

@Nancy-yw1rr Жыл бұрын

You can't help anyone who won't accept new information.

@darlene-MamaD Жыл бұрын

💯!

@lazycatdayz4ever905 Жыл бұрын

This is so very true. Malignant narc I was with for 10 years literally said “I have never done anything wrong.” I had to understand that I could not save him from himself. I chose ME and MY KIDS. Broke trauma bond. More than 3 months no contact. Thank you Little Shaman for your wisdom.

@rubberbiscuit99 Жыл бұрын

Good job. Keep going.

@undercoverbird8592 Жыл бұрын

After 18 years I got to leave by my angels helping. Ex hubby said same thing. “I never did anything wrong- I never said anything bad about you” I told him oh, my kids heard you, my friends, your friends. Nope putting me down and making fun of me and calling me names behind my back wasn’t wrong at all. That’s how you treat your wife and the mother of your kids- sure ok. F off buddy. 😂

@dreamdiction Жыл бұрын

This video fully explains why in my marriage I spent 20 years banging my head against a brick wall, I became increasingly exasperated and infuriated because it made no sense to me that the more I tried to help my wife, the more she hated me. The fact that they need help makes them feel inadequate and inferior which they will not tolerate so they feel suppressed hostility to the person who is helping them. The more you help them, the more they hate you. They are incapable of appreciating or respecting other people because they feel invalidated by giving validation to anyone other than themselves. They will not ask for help, instead they put you in a position where you step in and help them, they behave as if they are doing you a favor by letting you help them, then they silently hate you for helping them. They cannot change so there is no solution. Helping narcissists is a trap that they set for you so DO NOT HELP narcissists.

@eagleeye2300 Жыл бұрын

I have recommended your podcasts to many people in KZfaq discussions, where narcissistic personality has not yet been identified or understood....It's up to the person, then, to seek the information or not. But you have helped me so very much, and I'm grateful. Thank you so much Little Shaman.

@TeddyCruxpin Жыл бұрын

You can't help them because they need to keep the victim narrative going...also "help" = take care of me at all costs...I concur💯% with this message...thank you

@jen7025 Жыл бұрын

Not only that… they have supply SOMEWHERE. If EVERYONE stopped the supply maybe and i mean maybe prolly not, they would take an inner look.

@TeddyCruxpin Жыл бұрын

@@jen7025 nope they won't trust me ...

@dreamdiction Жыл бұрын

The fact that they need help makes them feel inadequate and inferior which they will not tolerate so they feel suppressed hostility to the person who is helping them. The more you help them, the more they hate you. They are incapable of appreciating or respecting other people because they feel invalidated by giving validation to anyone other than themselves. They will not ask for help, instead they put you in a position where you step in and help them, they behave as if they are doing you a favor by letting you help them, then they silently hate you for helping them. They cannot change so there is no solution. Helping narcissists is a trap that they set for you so DO NOT HELP narcissists.

@heatherann4390 Жыл бұрын

Just let them go and protect your own mental health

@steadypace1262 Жыл бұрын

Narcissist's think that they are always right and it's everyone else that has the problem. You can't help someone that doesn't want your help, the contrary narcissist has no desire to change their life for the better. The one thing they do want to change is you.

@k80.82 Жыл бұрын

110% my ex. Always defensive, always felt attacked, absurd arguements.. Save your energy and get off the merry go round

@LinNoOne Жыл бұрын

In learning not to let pity drive me to make choices I am not comfortable with regarding my ailing mother, Ive had to remind myself "this works for her.." She really doesnt want to improve her quality of life or any real comfort. She only wants to be the victim and place you as rescuer, persecutor, or rapt audience, depending on her whim.

@danielr9853 Жыл бұрын

All your videos deserve millions of views. Imagine how many people this super important information is saving every day. I'm one of them. And now it's up to people like me to keep this wisdom going until narcissists are suffocated into obscurity.

@brendabadih8855 11 ай бұрын

OR maybe love them into tolerable madness. I mean you can let the narc know you pray for her, him, them. Is there such a one, a functional narcissist? But whether you do or do not inform the narc of your prayers, Jesus saves! Thank you Lil Shamen. As much as truth offends the narc, maybe just maybe your understanding can penetrate the crust and plant a seed of recovery. I am no contact but send prayers of recovery to my narc sisters. They have no one but each other. The kettle and the skillet. ✝️

@hallereynolds8176 Жыл бұрын

I have listened to your content for nearly 5 years. You’re my go to when I need a reality check. Can’t tell you how much you’ve helped me through.

@skyeblue4 Жыл бұрын

Me too! I’ve been listening for the same amount of time and I too keep going back for reassurance when I come across others I suspect are narcs.

@peterknyk1942 Жыл бұрын

You are right LS! It’s impossible for the most part and most always a mistake to try to help them with just about anything! when we enable them with our kindness, sincerity or goodness we end up being depleted and they walk away full of our good energy! 😔

@HeyMykee Жыл бұрын

(They can't stand to be seen as wrong)-And yet they're almost always wrong about everything they say! For various reasons-because they're oppositional/defiant, so they have to disagree with everything you say; because they seem to completely fail at understanding basic everyday physics like that heat makes things expand and cold makes them contract; because they love to believe in bizarre theories rather than learn about the way things actually work; because they engage in magical thinking so frequently. Ok, actually many of these probably boil down to the first one honestly-they refuse to agree with people because they love to argue. So they find themselves disagreeing with things you know are true, like that the sun is up in the day and down at night.

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

Yep. It's such nonsense, really. So unnecessary. And they say, "Nobody is wrong all the time! I can't be wrong all the time!" That's true; nobody is wrong all the time, but you can be wrong A LOT if you are simply trying to be contrary and/or dont really even understand what you're talking about but want to argue about it anyway.

@shockjay Жыл бұрын

I was given a cold look when the other person realized that I was right when I told them that Costa Rica is NOT in Mexico. Take the "L" with humility!!!

@kirabarsmith9353 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that fact isn't debatable. LOL

@nryane Жыл бұрын

@@kirabarsmith9353 Your comment is the truth, when the person you are debating with isn’t toxic or narcissistic! Otherwise, it’s likely that the toxic/narcissistic individual will “debate” with you till you admit you’re “wrong”!!!

@redherronrecords Жыл бұрын

Perfection, to me, is a huge red flag except in the case of a perfect game in bowling or having perfect pitch in music.

@harrietboateng5239 Жыл бұрын

yep......they are very very picky. told me he dumped someone in the past because she had an accent. whats funny is that the person in question is more educated and accomplished than him

@neomaredi5922 9 ай бұрын

Heavy projection and irrational self interjection. It's fucking insane.

@LuaThomF Жыл бұрын

I wish I could share this with the new supply, they used to be a good friend. But I can't get sucked back in, I have to protect my son. 🥺

@hissyfitz7890 Жыл бұрын

They probably wouldn’t believe it anyway… for awhile.

@nickf2170 2 ай бұрын

Toxic people = toxic results.....and there ain't no fixin them. Bail, and move on.

@annelouisemaclellan485 Жыл бұрын

I’ve tried. It’s impossible

@designforlife704 Жыл бұрын

It's like an impenetrable wall. My father was a narcissist, and my wife, to a large extent is also one. We've been together 25 years, many arguments and disagreements, and not one single apology or attempt at introspection has ever come from her.

@know.nonsense Жыл бұрын

It's so horrifically true, it's literally impossible to understand. Seriously, it's so scary it's tragic. This is the most painful madness in hell on loop. This will undoubtedly murder a beautiful person who tries to love the unloveable. Destroy or be destroyed. Period. Leave or die. Omfg. This is brutal.

@dragonflymagictarot1180 5 күн бұрын

It really is

@tamaragaines562 Жыл бұрын

My ex narcissist would sometimes follow my advice, but would make me feel uncomfortable for just making a suggestion to be helpful! He would throw fits and complain or rage while following my advice! I would just sit there quit thinking to myself, I should've just kept my mouth shut!😩

@brendabadih8855 11 ай бұрын

Oh yeah. Why did I try to help???

@MrsIndy-nh1yd Жыл бұрын

Once you know what your seeing.. It’s that obvious! Save your energy!

@jackwilson1818 Жыл бұрын

Great to hear from Little Shaman. I hope her farm animals still include "Gaslighting Rooster."

@leepiper4621 Жыл бұрын

🤣

@hissyfitz7890 Жыл бұрын

⛽️ 💡 🐓

@bluhummingbird2179 Жыл бұрын

Exactly! This is something that a lot of people are going to have to do or they'll wind up suffering through this torment. Also, when you get the chance, can you please do a video/podcast on toxic stubbornness. Stubbornness is the reason why many people with personality disorders or just toxic people are so hard to deal with & making them controlling & abusive. Thank you for sharing this video love. Just like you said in your previous videos, if you don't want people to leave you, then stop abusing them. That goes for anyone. It's okay to help them when they do the work & actually try, but when you see the total opposite, it's just a waste of time. Many blessings to you.👏👏💛🌻😘

@steadypace1262 Жыл бұрын

Yes narcissists are extremely stubborn, you can't budge them. The covert narcissist mother-in-law told me once that "when I was young I would bite off my nose to spite my face," apparently she must have thought she had grown out of it lol. Straight from the horses mouth.🐴

@nancydoherty796 Жыл бұрын

They are Zero Empathy 🥹😟

@privateprivate8366 Жыл бұрын

Experienced so much of this, with my mother, including jeering at me, when I was trying to help her and get her to accept professional help. I understood the fear of being labeled as someone who’d need professional help. But, also knew there was nothing I could do for her, when she also had an enabling daughter to cling to.

@ua2381 Жыл бұрын

That adds even more clarity to the last day my brother was in my house. I think he felt he had to leave because he realized he was wrong and couldn't admit it. Thought it was so he could move home, closer to the new chemotherapy. Thought the blow up was because he was wrong. He went into total rage and screaming at me over absolutely nothing. It was scary. I was petrified. When he realized he was wrong he went totally silent. Even that was scary. Silent with balled fists and veins popping out on his head, neck and face. But just realized that's probably why he left, too. Couldn't face that he was wrong.

@HeyMykee Жыл бұрын

Yep-narcissistic rage. When my friend does that (any time I force him to see that he's wrong about something) he'll turn away so I can't see the pure rage on his face. Sometimes he'll just storm away-I think he doesn't trust himself to not let it show, and he knows if he does it will destroy the 'friendship'.

@HeyMykee Жыл бұрын

The thing to always keep in mind is that emotionally they're at the level of a 2 year old. It explains just about everything they do. They throw temper tantrums when they can't have what they want.

@ua2381 Жыл бұрын

@@HeyMykee It was all over his pillowcases. I always did his laundry. I was his caregiver. He didn't like softener so I always did his separately so no softener was on his clothes or bedding. He wasn't allergic, he just didn't like it. He started raging at me that I was trying to murder him. It was so loud I was even afraid the neighbors were going to call the police. I kept telling him I would never cause him harm. He just kept yelling bloody murder, literally. Then he finally let me know of my murder weapon. Fabric softener on his pillowcases. 😲 I said, "the pillowcases I just washed in the new detergent you asked me to buy and try on your bedding? There is no softener on them, Just the new detergent you wanted me to use." He went totally silent. I was in shock! Then he left. He only lived about a month longer in his own home with his grown son. All the years he was in my house he was being treated for stage four pancreatic cancer. I still drove up regularly to see him and help out with his medications. I was with him the day and night before he passed away. Got the call in the morning. He was very abusive all the time he was with me. He even had me sleeping on the floor for quite a while for his convenience (or entertainment). My sister had to intervene. He'd even said three times, "I'm not planning on murdering you." Out of the blue. Not in context with anything. I was so shocked he'd say the things he said. I would just freeze. But, he had the trump card in my brain. I'd already been groomed as the perfect supply by my male parent so I easily succumbed to his trump card. My brother had cancer. He was younger than I by two years. My heart broke for him. I was fully disabled but he had cancer. I'll be 70 in a few months and I've been narc free for just about five years now. I've been fully enmeshed from birth until I was 65. At least when my brother came on the scene there, blessedly was no SA. That was all with my male parent. And he had passed away years earlier. But the psychological narcissistic manipulation was amped up with my brother because he could use his cancer. I'm finally U & A (Untouched (finally) & Alive). Yes, that's what my screen name stands for.

@rainajones8170 Жыл бұрын

"Double-plus ungood!" Lol love it 😆 🤣

@lane6216 Жыл бұрын

I have gone back and forth as to whether or not my late husband was narcissistic or whether he adapted some traits due to his mother being highly narcissistic. I know it doesn’t matter at this point, not really. He had managed himself and done a lot of work, and our marriage improved. But, for my one sanity, I want to fully understand before I move forward with my life. I’ve researched this for years, and it’s so hard to say, but I think he was one. I think he worked really hard to hide it, and got better at that over the years. I got better at either being who he wanted, or not caring when he punished me for not being who he wanted. We were married 20 years. The whole thing is just tragic. I hurt for both of us.

@brendabadih8855 11 ай бұрын

Hi. Hurting is one discomfort. Having to live with walking and talking discomfort another

@CarterSams 10 ай бұрын

❤ Blessings. I hope you’re doing okay.

@lane6216 10 ай бұрын

@@CarterSams , thank you so much. I’m doing very well now. He passed 2 1/2 years ago. It’s been so challenging, but I haven’t stopped working on healing and growing. Our sons are just as strong, they just don’t realize it yet. I love our new dynamic and the way we love each other now. I hate how it came about.

@zmack1830 Жыл бұрын

The Little Sharman..........A Mythic Legend!!!

@hissyfitz7890 Жыл бұрын

A REALITY WOMAN!

@tobsternater Жыл бұрын

Little Sharman...You are incredible. Whenever hearing your insight...you are just amazing for understanding these issues. You are superb in your plain speaking around this huge issue!

@LindaM6275 Жыл бұрын

God have mercy 🙏

@nancylicho3538 Жыл бұрын

I've never experienced a person like this until I did. Omg these people are nuts.

@kevinatkinsakaklove1535 Жыл бұрын

Hi great message God bless you the narcissists are a waste of time. Be safe blessings 👍🏻😊🌎❤️👏🏼✝️🇺🇸🙌🏼

@gregorynicholls9991 Жыл бұрын

She got sooo mad when I told her to clean the corner of her eye before facing the public,I even motioned forward to do it for her. She blew her stack,you should see the heat and the billows that was actually fuming from her transformed face. Wow! Even such help is seen as you are trying to be more than them.

@sharonbartholomew4748 Жыл бұрын

Your video is so true.My sister text and say i am her enemy, i tried to do good things to her and all she seeing i am her enemy, it is all a show that is what my narc. sister is telling me. God help us give us the strength Lord.

@rolandasdarius541 Жыл бұрын

One minute a hero the next one a victim. In between you can try to squeeze in with your help; I did that 🤭

@JohnSmith-wo7ns Жыл бұрын

It is sadly impossible to help someone who is NEVER wrong. She never needed to change, it was the job of all the men she'd ever meet to adapt to her. This was and is unsustainable.

@Marcelube Жыл бұрын

Brilliant as usual. Thank you always, Little Shaman.

@lindaandersson5257 Жыл бұрын

They don’t want help with their life as it actually is. They want/need to be a victim so that nothing can ever be their fault and also they can live with the fantacy of all they could have been if only they didn’t have a bad childhood or if it wasn’t for x,y,z so in a way ”loosing” that victim role is a threath. It is more important that they can keep their fantasy.

@nryane Жыл бұрын

TRUTH! No debate with you on this, Little Shaman!🥰

@Violet-zy3ly Жыл бұрын

Thank you little shaman 💜

@nickgironda8932 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Little Shaman! I HIGHLY recommend one on one phone consultations with you. You’ve helped me TREMENDOUSLY! 🙏🙏🙏

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

I'm grateful to help. I hope everything is going well.❤❤

@nickgironda8932 Жыл бұрын

@@thelittleshamanhealing I am maintaining no contact and I feel much better. It’s really sad but my boundaries are set. The other day he had another one of his buddies text me with silly nonsense. I blocked him, too. Like you said there’s no such thing as a final discard. I don’t know what he might try next but honestly I DON’T CARE.

@miraclemorgan1061 11 ай бұрын

"TELL it Like it is Sis! One Love!

@yiravarga Жыл бұрын

“Unless you want to sit there with them.” Can confirm from personal experience, that is what is needed the most in this context. Yes, I do have a choice, and I choose to just exist and be present with “you”.

@t.antoinette2383 Жыл бұрын

So sad yet so comical. I dont see anyone dealing with these people if they could help it.

@mics3747 Жыл бұрын

Wow so fitting, it is exactly as if you know the narcissist with whom I must interact. Thank you for adding clarity to this unfortunate situation.

@AndyMcMasterMusic Жыл бұрын

Little Shaman. You just described it. 12 months of Hang Outs abuse and just 'recovering'. Got the rash all over my body to prove it. Is this normal?

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

You might want to get it looked at because a rash can be the result of many things, but yes, stress is one of them.

@Peace4NJ 4 ай бұрын

I don’t even realize until after it’s done

@BEYOUTOTHEFUL Жыл бұрын

OH THEY LOVE TO SHAME OTHERS BUT CAN NEVER TAKE EVEN HONEST FEEDBACK, THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST ARTICULATIONS I HAVE EVER HEARD. WOMAN, YOU ARE AT ANOTHER LEVEL NOW.. GO DIVA ANGELA IN MT.

@Jovi_Wan_Shinobi Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love how you breakdown these issues with NARCS to keep us on our toes.

@paulpasquaretta6338 11 ай бұрын

Not only spot on, but incredibly funny. Thank you Little Shaman for helping me to laugh at a soul crushing experience!

@linlitner4959 Жыл бұрын

Thanks again Little Shaman. Doing a visualization exercise on this to keep myself in check. When trying to help, I was spun out in chaos because I was always doing things as a people pleaser that did not quite agree with my true self. It was like being cut in half. Not being two people, but one person cut in two by the Devil's forked tongue. I've dissected the people pleaser away and have laid her to rest. Like removing a tumor. When anything like this comes up I remind myself that the version of myself that would have engaged with that type of insanity has been laid to rest. She is as dead as a door nail. Now the rest of me is one whole agreeing person who would do, or not do (whatever is working now). Sending brief and polite no responses to the abusers to avoid being called a ghosting narc by them. That fork tongue is so smooth. Lots of Narcs out there who know enough about it to call others the same. Avoid the fork tongued mirror blight!!!!

@BEYOUTOTHEFUL Жыл бұрын

LISTENED 4 TIMES, HOW VERY POWERFUL EVERY WORD!!! THX SO MUCH ANGELA

@Lagertha838 Жыл бұрын

This was so excellent. So true. I've seen and experienced this from these types so many times. It does catch you off guard when suddenly, you're the enemy. It doesn't matter how close to them you thought you were. You are now a terrible, "toxic" (their favorite word) person who doesn't understand or know anything. It IS best to leave them to themselves. You are right about that!

@Babygirls2023 Жыл бұрын

Excellent

@ruby-qv5bd Жыл бұрын

This is so helpful to hear at this time. Perfect! Thank you Little Shaman for the insight you deliver. Very helpful videos you put out all the time. Much appreciated, so appreciated. Thank you!!!!!

@MandySky Жыл бұрын

I tried helping for 6 years and for 6 years I was made to feel I was the one who was wrong or the damaged one causing the disfunction in our relationship for always bring up issues, including and not limited to, just how he made me feel hurt by his behavior. If we got into an argument, once I got my point out, he'd twist it and I'd hear I was the one who was doing the thing I was saying he did. Horrible Horrible gaslighting.

@calmate9417 Жыл бұрын

I’ve changed so much as a person. I started watching your videos in 2018 I was 18yo. I am now 23 and I’ve become a person who can trust themselves and others, I can love, I express my feelings, I communicate boundaries, ik some of it might have to do with my prefrontal cortex finishing development but I’m pretty sure it all started with you and my fixation with your videos.

@melissarmt7330 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this, and every, video! You have made a difference!

@victoriaburns9967 Жыл бұрын

You are so clear with all your messages. You put words to thoughts I’ve had, but just could not articulate. Thank you ❤️

@tobsternater Жыл бұрын

Lil Sharman. Youre fantastic!

@constructenglish1 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic, just fantastic. I will listen over and over. Thank you LS!

@hatchingofthegods648 Жыл бұрын

Jesus said “ if my testimony be true ….”

@lorrainenicoletti6232 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@daughteroftheking721 Жыл бұрын

All I heard as the first sentence and hit the like "button", Always TRUTH! ✨❤✨❗

@BEYOUTOTHEFUL Жыл бұрын

SOOOO TRUE GEZZZZZZZZZ!!! HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN DOING THIS WORK, YOU GO WAY BACK. XO ANGELA

@doreenr.7922 Жыл бұрын

Omg so true, just had a backward blaming match with my 17 yr old, he used to b protective over me his mom, and when I was losing my mind due to yrs of abuse by his dad I admit I wasn't my best, but dear old dad popped up after being gone for a few yrs, and got us kicked out of our home, and ever since my son been talking to his dad behind my back which was instigated by his toxic girlfriend who had to control my son, my life is falling apart and not one of them can care less, my teen has turned on his mother and now acts just like his dad, its awful cuz everything iv taught him he now uses the good on outsiders while at home he berates, lies, manipulates and hates his own mother, I gave up everything to raise him while dear ol dad lived as a single married man deceiving me the whole time and now that my son is raised all his monkeys are gaining up on and treating me as if I don't deserve anything, yet they both act like the victim its a horrific thing to b a part of, iv literally lost everything due to the monster I married

@linlitner4959 Жыл бұрын

And I've seen so many abusers turn on a dime. Become best friends with those they were so recently abusing.

@Sally-ih6ls Жыл бұрын

I understand..have adult child whose spouse turned them against us(parents) took grandchildren away and only deal with his side of the family….it’s so hurtful, you do your best, raise them, love them and they turn on you. Time I believe will change things, his dad can only keep his mask on for so long and your son will see it as he matures, I hope. Hang in there🤗

@user-lv9dl5vp1g Жыл бұрын

I have gained so much clarity from listening to you for the past two years! I know it is something that I have to work on daily but I am feeling the shift and protecting my energy these days which is huge! Thank you Little Shaman! You are a blessing to us all who are willing to do the work! It’s amazing how all the wisdom you teach finally starts to sink in and we finally start to get it! I go back and listen to certain videos that are helpful just to keep myself grounded! It is a long journey but one that is so worth it!

@lululestat Жыл бұрын

This is 100000% accurate

@cajuncrackerranch7990 Жыл бұрын

Fact!

@djmadijohnson Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome. Thank you!

@sw33tnycandy Жыл бұрын

And I quote : "I need you to apologize to me so that I can feel better." - My mother after court told her some information that isn't to her benefit. Mind you we were in court because she took me to court over my children.

@coachhumanlife Жыл бұрын

yup

@mikedemerski4056 Жыл бұрын

Wow. Wow.. awesome 😎 Totally awesome. I never comment either. So that's saying something from this ole buck. Thumbs

@Suzu52 Жыл бұрын

This!

@karynegough7564 Ай бұрын

Can you please do a video about where the narc’s shame comes from.

@theyrekrnations8990 Жыл бұрын

Yup. Give a little well meant advice to help them, and they do the opposite.

@lislis9134 Жыл бұрын

The ex narcissist would never take accountability for their actions. Would constantly make a war out of everything & impossible to come to a peaceful understanding. Very draining & toxic people. Run & don’t look back!!

@ola3rd Жыл бұрын

I am curious if you watch the show Love is Blind? There is a guy on there named Cole and would love to get your analysis on him

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

I'm not familiar with it, sorry.

@katmcdowell722 Жыл бұрын

How do I speak one on one with little shaman

@thelittleshamanhealing Жыл бұрын

You can visit littleshaman.org/contact if you want to make an appointment.

@gloriagone1601 Жыл бұрын

♟️

@Peace4NJ 4 ай бұрын

This is God doing it because I have these problems and it’s all subconscious- read up on reprobate minds in the bible. We narcs can’t control it. God is doing it.