Marla completely agree!

I like that pick ur man for the future

He has to qualify to be in your present life & your future destiney & plans God has for you. His plans & destiney works with yours too. He can't decide only he & not you has a purpose for your life, along with 💘 love & marraige!!! He will want to Sucessfuly encourage & support your dreams & goals too. Your needs are important to be fulfilled over time & right planning in life too. Women need a Positive Balance in our lives & the right priorities. He & you will bring the best support & love to each others lives. We are not suppose to lose our self respect & accept being in a rut & used & hurt hearts. We are Not to be used like a wife & baby mama with out marraige as a priority. Not some immature dude who makes responsibility & then he leaves, or God may have now have awaken you & you rightly stop bein with him. You rightly put him out now! A real full time husband God has for you. We have to have faith & prepare for good husband. He comes with love & respect & trust that grows & provides for you, your family rather you chose to work out side the home or not. God's man loves & serves Jesus willingly with you too. We must get & believe for God's best man for us. That's is a must for us to know & do for our selves, Queens! God loves us like this. He wants us loved blessed right.💞😄😊🎁💝😍👆

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Amen lady! Your story sound like mines. God bless💙

@@HappinessWellnssLoveChile! I was 28 at the time and had enough of myself. I HAD to make a much needed change. God bless sis.

Danae, I gotta tell you, I'm 44 been without of my EUM for 5 weeks. Im too old to be going through mess like this. I saw the signs but, kept going for 3 yrs 2 months. I found RC Blakes in 2018 and just starting taking heed to what he is saying. I'm definitely taking a break from dating and focusing on myself. Thank you for sharing.

Danaé Lauren Tolbert I love your post.. self discovery and falling in love with our selves is a beautiful gift. It isn’t a easy process, when we give so much to others than we give to ourselves. My last relationship made realize I was ok with having a piece of a man, than no man at all. By the grace of God those days are over. Being single is not a curse. I’m enjoying being single, compared to what I was dealing with by being in a unhealthy relationship.

@@LoveWins73 Yes!! Yes hunty!!! Singleness is NOT a curse. You betta preach. Get to know and love you.

Thank you 💓

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Absolutely beautiful 🌹 n correct 🤞

Time learned sis! No wasted time! 😘

Rhonda Walker agree

You not the only one that’s why we here🙏🏾

Moses took many years to come to God's will. He did some messed up things & ran away. God still gave him a wife & a destiney. He repented. He came back around to God, with new knowledge & faith & anointing to move forward with God's plans. Enjoy your new wisdom & decisions & blessings God has for you now!!!! Celebrate🎉🎈😄😊. Don't let the enemy take your 😂 joy. Some folks never go higher in blessings & wisdom. They circle the same ⛰ mountain. You have a break through & blessings now & to come. Asked God to restore the years that's been stolen by the canker worm & locust with multiplied love & blessings & guidance & strength.👆👆💞🎉🎈🎊🥊🤾🎁💞🎖🏅😄💖

@@alishadennis17 That's good wisdom, God bless you 🥰

Glamrocs Makeup He’s genuine and wise. I like Tony a lot.

@@RCBlakesJr. I also watch both of you. You have genuine authentic and different styles, guided by God.

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Hello pls who will i do all men hv dated dump me for their ex don't no de reason the guy am currently dating told me we should quit that he still love his ex don't y this is happening to me

I love Tony gaskins too!!!! I brag about both men to my women friends. I study both y’all books. Tony said his wife studied his first book what daddy doesn’t tell his little girl and she was able to rebuddle his moves. So I diligently studied, father daughter talk, queenology and mrs right by Tony gaskins and it opened my eyes a lot.

True Kizzy...true!

@@thelibran11 🥰🥰

Thank you ❤

RC Blake jr & Tony Haskins & Christelyn Kraselin from pink pill helping black women & Dr. Banks the professor & author on marraige & how black women need to date based on quality & a man's maturity & being a Christian leader for being husband material for us. Not to wait on one color of men where we out number them more than a million more black females. Just cause He is our color dosnt mean we any thing else in common. the husband for us is the right man not just color.. These 4 teachers on a show together would be so fabulous. Oh my God! It would make a huge effect on dating & marraige & wise life decisions & info for black women especially. Also for all women also.💞👆🎉😊

I hollered out loud with my head cocked back!

Amen! They don't know their self worth.

I know right!! That color looks so good on him.

Keep trying sis. You’re not alone. You goin get there as long as you refuse to look back. We’re all are

I’m sorry to hear that, I hope you’re doing better now! I relate to a lot you’re writing about; going to start therapy again, really need it. God bless you.

May God bless you with peace as you seek Him !

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Wow, tell that real truth!!! We need to understand & over come that curse & attraction for Godly Attraction sent by God to us now.😄😅😊😍👆🎆

Your super gorgeous & wise! Be abundantly blessed, joy & peace filled. Be safe healthy & very well loved in Jesus name Amen sister.💞😄🎁💝🎊🎈🎊ps take vitamins for strong immunity to help guard against the Covid Virus & other illness. Check out Simple Nursing Channel. The male nurse tells you the 3 supplements to take, how it works & to eat before taking Zinc & other info. Please see it & tell others about it & check with your doctors first too. It has helped our immunity. Be blessed!

f myself. I'm learning a little everyday.

Thank you pastor for being the light in my ♥ heart and coaxing the best version of myself forward. I believe the Holy Spirit sent you and the Mrs to be my spiritual guides. What a blessing o

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Thank you love for writing the prayer out too. Amen in Jesus name in agreement of the prayer with RC. Blake JR. Lord. May more than thousands of women & men come to this site & channel Lord. May they listen & receive & believe your words & healing & new blessings & restoration & protection especially in romance & marriages & healthy relationships as we look to you to lead & counsel us in your awesome & simple ways Lord! May they & we all be set free & prepare to walk in your guidance & wisdom & receive abundant love in life as we go forward in peace & joy & have healthy hearts & continual healing & healthy relationships. In the matchless name ofJesus father, Amen father!💞🎁💝🎉🎈😄😅😍💖🎆👆🎑🎊🎊👆

Amen

Yes!! Amen..This is taking place right now!!

Amen 🙏🏽

I agree with you👍 I'm having this same problem. I don't even be looking and they still find me?

@@toyawimley647 same here sis, why?

Made these mistakes I hope God will still bring me someone like this. Sometimes I wonder if my life will ever change for the better. Please pray for me.

Love this thank you 🙏🏾

Love this Sharon. So make it!

stevieT stevens I JUST saw this!! That’s a GREAT idea!

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When we confess our sins God is faithful & just to forgive us our sins & cleanse us from all unrighteousness. The bible says. God's 💘 love & tender mercies & grace is their for us. You may find that it helps to protect your self by ✂ Cutting off any media or songs or shows that get you triggered or tempted in the flesh. Have a go to instead. Replace you actions with positive activities for good, future dreams & goals that help encourage you & lift your spirits & strengthen you when you ever feel vulnerable. Have a friend to pray with when you need to fight feelings or the flesh. You havebrepented & turned from it. God's still got your present & future blessings & your best intetest at heart. You are letting God heal & prepare you for his good purpose. God has a wise caring respectful husband for you. You want to grow focus & be ready. Let God's word, spirit & guidance lead & Keep you now. Confess daily God's in control of your life & choices & he alone leads you nothing else. God 💘 loves, 💘loves, 💘 loves you & us endlessly. He will never leave or forsake you & us is what his holy word says to us his children he cares for & loves. Even when he spanks us for our own good cause of our falls & deeds, when we need it. We grow from God's discipline & 💘 love. Your gonna get your blessings. be ready for him & the blessings the right way in Jesus name Amen. Be safe, joyful & healthy. See Simple Nursing utube channel to strengthen your immunity against the virus with 3 vitamins. More info on the channel about immunity. But eat before taking Zinc to not throw up. Tell others to & check with your doctor. Gloves & a mask or scarf when going out. People protect our selves with a little good practice if THIS! Big hugs to you love!

Ms. A 🙏🏽 Thank you 🙏🏽

I agree so much! Pastor Blakes has changed my life tremendously. No therapy has ever produced the results he has helped me to.

He has been of help to me. Tnk u man of wisdom

Agreed

So true knowledge is power

Keep dodging them sis. Also, you don't have to accept every invitation from a man. What I mean is everyone doesn't deserve a conversation and an exchange of phone numbers. Take this time to devote it to God and yourself. There were plenty of instances where I flat out said, "Sorry I am not interested." Everyone interested ain't eligible.

@@DanaeLaurenTolbert1 very well stated 👏🏾

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Amen, sister!

Why did it take you 5 months and a soul tie to walk away? Shouldn't even start anything with him to begin with. It's easier to walk away before it starts. Once you sleep with him, it's hard to walk away.

Rose Aduke Great 💡idea

Some of us like watching him thank and interact with his viewers. Stop critiquing and listen to his message, you are in your masculine energy telling him what he should do on his channel.

@@herstory1012 Oops. Your comment is out of date dear. You really gotta purge yourself of obsolete thoughts. Whilst at it, try to apprehend the difference between "Telling" & "Suggesting". Get updated with his latest videos! Cheerio.

@@roseaduke8835 1. I don't need to purge anything as he helped to transform my life and my marriage. 2. I watch all of his videos, new and old. 3. I can see that you have "the need to be right" attitude going on. So I'll say sister God bless you.

@@herstory1012 🤤 ""the need to be right" attitude" indeed. The man already responded positively to my original comment, so I can only guess what could possibly be your own "need to be" that motivated your negativity. If I do guess, you'd probably accuse me of another "need to be xxxxxx"! Nevertheless, it's good to hear your testimony of transformation from this channel!👍🏼

I don't trust good looking men. Often that's part of the package of a fckboy!

Kathryn Ellicott Same with women🤷🏾‍♂️

@@kati1017 hey thanks for the reminder, you've just saved me a whole lot of heart ache! Bless you

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I agree with you👍

Exactly how I feel. God knows how to reach out to us in our time of desperation. Thank you Pastor Blakes for availing yourself.

I agree👍

You are so right Pastor we women young and old have to finally wake up.not only for our own selves but for everyone that may be involved in anyway.

I'm only commenting because I commented on another statement you made on here. Pastor talks alot about narcissistic abuse. Not sure you experienced it and no judgement but it's a complete different story. Generally yes your right but it's not the same with narcissists they will act loyal sincere and with a straight face. No way to tell they are cheating and when they walk out 0 closure some think they're trying to save and just figure out what just happened to them ( discard) therefore it wouldn't apply. It's demonic and I promise you demons walk this world in human skin.

Me too

Yes you tube also saved my life