5 REASONS YOU MUST LET GO OF A PERSON THAT WANTS TO LEAVE YOU

5 REASONS YOU MUST LET GO OF A PERSON THAT WANTS TO LEAVE YOU - RC BLAKES

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There is no benefit in hanging on to someone who has clearly moved on. Sometimes you must allow your heart to break for your soul to heal. Never lose yourself attempting to attain someone else. These are my thoughts.
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@Hawelufamily 3 жыл бұрын

What you tolerate, you fertilize.....If you do not establish a floor, you will end up in the abyss....when a person dishonors you, the next move is to honor yourself by moving away from that person.....you are clingy when you are trying to hold onto that person. Clinging to a hope that is not shared by both......make room for the right person by letting go of the wrong person

@Idk.mem3s 3 жыл бұрын

9900++o

@whendidmanbecomeexpertoverGOD 2 жыл бұрын

Wheeewwww weee, I almost yelled out. Well said👏🏽👌🏽

@gailgreen1595 2 жыл бұрын

Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏

@queenaries4206 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Sista Amen 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@saradigota7201 2 жыл бұрын

Good one. Should complete this one though; Clinging to a hope not shared by both poisens your own life and your invirnoment

@ButterCookie1984 6 жыл бұрын

"It's better to suffer the pain of letting go, than to experience the trauma and devestation of holding on." ABSOLUTELY POWERFUL

@michelle2152 6 жыл бұрын

ButterCookie absolutely!

@jakeline454 5 жыл бұрын

😓💯

@RS-yy9tu 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@RS-yy9tu 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@RS-yy9tu 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@BellaKayeLLard 6 жыл бұрын

"The heart has to break for the soul to heal." ❤❤❤

@gailgreen1595 2 жыл бұрын

Ameeeeeeeeeeen you said it

@islandgirl01 5 жыл бұрын

As long as you're in pursuit of the wrong person, you won't be (emotionally) available for the right person.

@Jesusandme100 Жыл бұрын

Wow this is good!!

@phoenixrising8007 3 жыл бұрын

When you are disrespected it’s your responsibility to move away from them to honour yourself ✊❤️

@najahharvey 4 жыл бұрын

I got married on may 29th. He decided he didnt want the relationship on august 4th. He left. I was so broken. I lost 20 pounds in 3 weeks. I allowed him to come back a week ago only to have him turn around and use me days later to say he didnt want me. He left again and this time I let him leave. I told him have a blessed life and I needed him to move out of the way for the blessing that was coming. He was a narcissistic manipulator and several red flags were there I just chose to ignore them. I have been watching these videos and they are a relief. Thank you..

@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын

@@tff8514 Absolutely so true.

@khiabrown2421 3 жыл бұрын

Currently going through this

@jackiesanders3150 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Queen! When the hurting is gone it will make you stronger! Keep your head up Queen and don't look back.

@HisaLight2mypath 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry.

@ashiahindigo9917 6 жыл бұрын

You just don't know how on time this is. Was crying all day in sheer heart ache over so many years and memories lost. Pain making a fool of me trying to get the attention of some one I don't even respect! Thank you so much for this timely word. God is just so merciful even when we are just so dumb.

@DaniielleMoniique 6 жыл бұрын

Ashiah Indigo wow you hit me when you said,” pain making a fool of me” GIRL IF THAT ISN’T MY STORY

@mukisapleasure5692 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

@tanyacollins3198 4 жыл бұрын

Me too right now

@perpetuallyfavored201 3 жыл бұрын

U r not dumb Experience is a great teacher U own that sense U paid so dearly for it

@ogechiugwudi-alilonu6601 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@sonjapetrovic2809 4 жыл бұрын

It hurts to let go. But it hurts more to hold onto something that's poisoning your soul! Never tolerate disrespect, or disregard. Respect & honor yourself. Yes!!!

@tinikiaj587 6 жыл бұрын

This was what I needed. I thank God for on time words or encouragement. My ex-husband walked out on me and our 5 children. At the time I was devastated, hurt, depressed, angry (even at God). But the Lord knew what he was preparing me for. Almost 3 years later I am stronger than I ever been. He knew he wasn't destined for the destiny he has for me. He has me positioned to receive the King he has just for me. It hurt more than I can express, but now that I'm healed I'm ready for the one who deserves me. 💞

@l.patrick3155 6 жыл бұрын

Tinikia Johnson Go, sister! The Lord will sustain & bless you.

@jessicaellis8751 6 жыл бұрын

Im going thru the same thing with my husband but i got 6 kids he left me and n now we r separated n now i dont know fully should i walk away so it good to hear someone made it thru with god help

@tinikiaj587 6 жыл бұрын

Jessica Ellis I was exactly where you are at now. I know it hurts and the children are hurting as well. One thing I did differently was I didn't tell anyone close to me that my husband left. The only people that knew were my pastor and a counselor I was seeing at the time, and of course my children. My mom or dad didn't know, I just kept living but kept everyone out of my business. I used that time to build a relationship with God and made sure I was hearing him correctly. My advice would be to seek God like never before, pour it all out. He will guide you on which direction to go. It took me a year to really know that I was hearing from God, I was hearing from him before but I was consumed in trying to keep my marriage and do what ever I could to get my husband back. Which didn't work. Lean not on your own understanding but in all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path. God Bless you and your children!

@tinikiaj587 6 жыл бұрын

L. Patrick thank you for your kind words. The Lord has truly blessed me more than I can express. I give him all the honor and praise!

@jessicaellis8751 6 жыл бұрын

Tinikia Johnson thats what im doing now considering how everything played out everyone knows including his fam too 2nd I'm just financially trying to get back on track it just soooo much happening right i feel i gonna lose my mind. Its just scary n hard to start over know that my marriage might b fix or not but thank for your response I will keep leaning n depending on god thanks so much for encouraging words

@iamjen.B 6 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏TRUE💯!!!!!LISTEN UP ALL YOU LADIES..WHAT YOU PUT UP WITH ONLY GETS WORSE...LET THEM GO!!!💯

@aaronbell4903 5 жыл бұрын

And men... Listen if applicable and also reflect in self....

@geoni0078 4 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙌🏼

@LethalWeapon73 3 жыл бұрын

Yes it will

@tinikiaj587 6 жыл бұрын

God caused them to leave you! Glory

@monadeberry9060 4 ай бұрын

Yes God caused them to leave you, because we wasn't strong enough to let go, I agree

@soulprospers4110 6 жыл бұрын

I used to be so broken and codependent but God took me through a major healing journey. I am thankful. Today i can let people go no problem. Today I would never beg someone to communicate with me, respect me, love me etc. If they don't then I delete them from my life end of story. Now I am learning how to let the good ones in. God has brought me some amazing people. And He teaches me how to trust and WHO to trust. Something my parents never taught me cuz they were too broken themselves. Anyhow, God Bless everyone on this channel :)

@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын

Amen! I really liked your post. It spoke to me 🌺🌸🌷🌼

@HisaLight2mypath Жыл бұрын

I wish I could get to your level of healing because I do beg him to stay.

@Butterflylove4231 7 ай бұрын

May God bless you also

@davidsisson2026 6 ай бұрын

So glad you are on the right track. I'm learning as well.

@MJ-ln4xm 6 жыл бұрын

This happened to me before. We were dating for almost a year. Everything was good then one day, I asked my pastor, how do I pray and ask God if this man is for me. She told me & so I prayed. Two days later, he was telling me how he didn't want to hurt me & I was too good for him. I literally had a break down. I went through 6 months of anxiety, bitterness, angry, shame & hurt. My body was going thru so much & I lost weight. I absolutely thought he was for me. But I got over it. God helped me!! I had to pray, pray & pray. I cried all the time until one day, it was gone. Later on, I actually thanked him for doing that. I had made that man my idol & God knew he wasn't for me so he broke it up. He tried to come back to me several times, but I said noooo! I'm so much stronger & I have no problem letting people go,

@crownedmelaninqueen 5 жыл бұрын

Your testimony is golden girl ! I am walking through my journey towards healing after a 8 year marriage, I was with him for 13 ! I prayed and asked God to restore our marriage, before divorce I was praying so many prayers nightly for marriage restoration and with women who wanted their marriage restored too!!! It was amazing how praying the Ezekiel 36:26 prayer softened my ex husband’s heart! He provided for me (the stuff I asked for in the divorce) and had the saddest eyes, but his deeply rooted pride, hurt, and shame never allowed him to utter the words “ I’m sorry.” My ex and I were good together to me, but truly looking at what we had what are we restoring? A marriage that didn’t honor God, we didn’t know our identity in Jesus Christ !! Everyone says keep God first but no one says how to defeat the evil one via prayer and covering with the hedges of protection with thorns , and pleading and cancelling the wicked schemes of the evil one !!!! In Jesus Name! Pre-martial counseling didn’t even mention this ! How to really fight the real enemy it wasn’t my spouse !!! He hates divorce but in our free will, we naively divorce each other and have it as option when it should never be brought up and thoughts of it taken captive as the Bible says!!! I experienced so much warfare today!!! It’s ridiculous! Satan hates that I’m praying my ex and others will turn to God , like I have and escape the trap of the devil who has taken them captive to do his will!! ( 2Tim2:22) #stayingstrong #notsureeverymarriageshouldberestored

@stayundergodlsm3701 5 жыл бұрын

Girl me to was with my ex for 2 years he dumped me after I helped him supported money a place to stay etc .... But god knew it was time for me to go I was hurt for months cried depressed etc now a year later so much strong I didn't need him

@crownedmelaninqueen 5 жыл бұрын

stayundergodlsm m Glad to hear it !!! Glad you shared your story! God is close to the broken hearted. He never leaves us , and it hurts but he understands that too ! Keep praying 🙏🏾 I am praying for you !

@stayundergodlsm3701 5 жыл бұрын

@@crownedmelaninqueen amen thank you

@crownedmelaninqueen 5 жыл бұрын

stayundergodlsm m You’re welcome !!

@foxybrit3075 6 жыл бұрын

"Sometimes the heart has to break, for the soul to heal." Thank you so much for this message.

@anointed1302 6 жыл бұрын

Been there done that about 13 years with my now ex husband...it was extremely painful 😖 when he told me that he wanted out but I thank God for setting me free from that toxic person...

@therealone8628 3 жыл бұрын

Sis How are doing now?

@blueseptember2174 2 ай бұрын

@therealone8628 how are things going?

@queenisaac4679 6 жыл бұрын

While I decided to let go GOD lead me to this anointing channel and I thank him!

@tinishawashington9110 6 жыл бұрын

I was unwilling to let go God did remove him when I couldnt...

@MrMopeake 6 жыл бұрын

Tinisha Washington that happened to me as well.

@tanyacollins3198 4 жыл бұрын

Pray this prayer for me, thank you i believe if god did this for you I am sure God can do the same for me

@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын

@@tanyacollins3198 I know this is a older comment. God has you. Turn to Him. He loves you and cares for you. Always put God FIRST and He will open doors for you that no man can shut. 🌸🌺🌷🌼

@lindelwamthalane1048 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, it is coming to my realisation that my break up was because of God. After i caught him cheating (i was preg, planned pregnancy). I stayed because i thought i needed him to help me with the baby. It was so hard to forgive i eventually miscarried. I kept asking him to leave my house and he refused. I asked his parents to intervene, he would not barge. I started praying about it and when he moved, it was such a whirlwind. Now i realise it was God answering my prayers because i hesitated all this time. It has been painful and stressful but i know it was God. We even have protection orders against each other.

@keyshajeffrey5685 6 жыл бұрын

I'm healing from childhood abandonment issues, which is the primary reason why I couldn't let go. I never developed the life skill of letting people go out of fear. I knew deep down he didn't love me, but I was deceiving myself. Life has a funny way of forcing your hand. Great message.

@conchettam6861 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you ....PASTOR,I HAD 2 LET GO AND LET GOD!!! HAPPY...NOW...SINGLE!!!...*BETTER...THEN BEING SOMEONE'S ...FOOL!!!

@godsdaughter8419 6 жыл бұрын

Amen Sis!!!

@geoni0078 4 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙌🏼

@jatieno7857 3 жыл бұрын

@@godsdaughter8419 ĺ

@diamondwatts3100 6 жыл бұрын

With the guidance of your videos, I finally got the strength to let go of a toxic relationship. It has been very painful, but I know it's God's will. I must break this ungodly soultie in Jesus name!!!

@leleflower2366 6 жыл бұрын

Diamond Watts You Deserve The Best

@diamondwatts3100 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Really needed that word today. Gob bless you!

@Happy78704gal 6 жыл бұрын

Pray for me Brother Blakes, I need encouragement! I invested all of myself, and all I got was used and abused.

@cheriseabston3483 6 жыл бұрын

Miss Empath

@cheriseabston3483 6 жыл бұрын

Miss Empath miss empath,im right there with you,but thanks be to God for bishop blakes for giving us this word!

@leleflower2366 6 жыл бұрын

May God Restore Everything you've lost.

@Happy78704gal 6 жыл бұрын

Alicia Clark thank you!

@Happy78704gal 6 жыл бұрын

Cherise Abston Amen sister! We will move forward with God’s strength!

@happyqueen3849 6 жыл бұрын

Been holding for longer than a decade ...i'm done.. thank you so much your guidance had helped me come a long way

@veronica.armstrong 3 жыл бұрын

When my husband marches through the house telling me how he can’t wait until the kids and I and the kids are gone, I put in my AirPods and listen to you. Each time...I get a little bit stronger. By the time the video has ended I feel valuable and justified. I Realize that I am not the one with the problem.

@WhineyOne 2 жыл бұрын

🙏

@kristinaciminillo9908 5 жыл бұрын

"God makes us uncomfortable to perfect us."

@realtruth8703 6 жыл бұрын

I needed this word today. GOD is always on time. I was struggling with letting go. I thought everything was over and it is, but somewhere deep inside of me still have a lot of pain. I cried after hearing this message. I haven’t cried in a long time. Wow! Thank you for your pray at the end and your word is true and good for my soul.

@ToniToni-rv4yv 4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@geoni0078 4 жыл бұрын

It's been 13 years that were together and 3 kids it's finally getting ready to be over cuz I can't fight for it anymore he chose weed and his friends and I can't even cry if I forced it anymore guess I been over it I don't know 🤷🏽‍♀️

@annbblogs8755 6 жыл бұрын

I went through it painful humiliated prideful looking back months later l am very content with my life single but happy learnt my God walk me through its going to be OK just trust him

@breakthrough1019 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor .. thank you for those words .. I let go and it was painful as soon as I noticed a shift .. no words were exchanged .. I went no contact .. and did not look back .. one sided relationship are not relationships they are a transaction where one person gives and another takes .. It was a blessing that GOD removed this man from my life .. the lies , manipulation , jealousy , abuse , I overlooked everything and one day it clicked I saw him not in the image I built in my head .. I saw the demon in him .. when I realized he was not a man of character it made things simple .. in reality there was nothing .. accepting that was a huge part .. so glad now I discern and know my value ..

@lashondarochell7584 6 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blakes this message helped my spirit I was chasing a man who didn't deserve or want me anymore I woke up and your message was confirmation to let go!! Thank you

@kaceospades 6 жыл бұрын

LaShonda Rochell very same situation.. God is so good. I needed this.

@gloriamccoygl 6 жыл бұрын

Currently leaving an 18 yr marriage due to public betrayal. Been separated for 2 years. My heart has been broken but God is doing a new thing.

@ikeiteray__tali4696 6 жыл бұрын

Omg!!!! This video showed up on my notification the same night my husband left me I cried and he left

@ThrivewithJesus 6 жыл бұрын

“ the heart has to break for the soul to yield “ 🎤 drop.. Deep

@Tluv_1955 4 жыл бұрын

This happened to me when my ex pulled away I found it so hard to let go I was constantly calling him while he was ignoring me it drained me spiritually not worth it at all just cut ties and move on

@Happy78704gal 6 жыл бұрын

5 months out of the abyss and still feeling like I am rebuilding from an earthquake/hurricane/wildfire...I had no floor. I thought I was being Christian by sticking around hoping that he would want to become a good man and I could be there to help him in the path.

@joyinjesus4064 6 жыл бұрын

Miss Empath this so sounds like my situation, I've been staying and fighting for my marriage for years trying to be the godly woman and do the "Christian" thing but sometimes we must move out of the way so God can deal with that person directly and that's where my mindset is now, I'm praying if I leave he will repent and go to God since he wouldn't do it while I was there. #stillpraying # stillhoping #stillbelievingGod

@stephanielewis6788 6 жыл бұрын

Miss Empath yess

@teachlove7497 3 жыл бұрын

He can't be a good man. It's not in his nature but he fools so many!

@mercykalendi 6 жыл бұрын

I am a young lady who has been hurt so many times,frustrated,abused and broken.I hated men,at some point i never believed in love and i decided i will never get into marriage but build myself and fight for women empowerment.I became a christian and started to build on my spirituality.One day,while watching Monroe's videos,i watched one of your videos and since then, i have watched almost all of your videos. I believe God brought me here and you have changed my life and i want to do the same to 10 more girls.God bless you.

@joyful4598 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor Blakes..This is deep for me but i know it's confirmations....I truly felt like God remove him out of mylife for better and he was protecting me from what could have been worst..🙏🙏🙏

@msfredijr 6 жыл бұрын

Guerlyne Bel Amen.

@Mannusverse 6 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you man. Wisdom is like honey, God is love. 🍻

@melc8388 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Going through this now...makes no sense loving a man who doesnt want to commit :(

@kirmoramolone 6 жыл бұрын

M Mejias you are so right.

@l.patrick3155 6 жыл бұрын

Definitely hard to experience...but oh, so good to do! After the tears, anger, pain & thoughts of revenge come inner peace, strength, & calm faith & trust in God. I've become better & greater just by doing the hard stuff, letting go & leaning on God Almighty. Great video, Bishop!

@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын

I needed to read your comment. Thank you

@l.patrick3155 3 жыл бұрын

@@kristinakellogg1732 You're welcome, sister! And I really like your name 😊😘..

@jueileen4599 5 жыл бұрын

This whole message speaks to my soul..this really hurts but I’m gonna trust in the Lord instead of myself.

@mybella1111 5 жыл бұрын

Love is a fairy tale. As long as you believe that your heart won’t be broken. Ive learned that it’s never wise to open your heart and energy to anyone. I’m guarding my heart with an armor made of steel!

@scribeiro1985 3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@richardgonzalez6583 6 жыл бұрын

This video really touched my heart and my spirit I agree with everything in this video I have been suffering from a broken heart for quite some time and I tolerated my ex girlfriend constantly coming and going out of my life and I didn't understand why I would allow her to play with my heart maybe it was the length of time that I've known her and maybe I really did want it to work cuz I felt so invested in this woman that I didn't want to just let go she broke my heart over and over again and I would welcome her back whenever she wanted to come back but at the end of the day my journey is different than her journey I do want a Commitment I do want marriage and unfortunately my ex girlfriend doesn't share that vision so after hearing this video over and over again I'm convinced that I have to let her go because you are right sir once a heart turns away from you you can't do anything else but put it in God's hands and that's exactly what I did I put her in his hands but I cannot do this anymore I deserve better even though it hurts tremendously to let this woman go I have to do what is best for me thank you sir from the bottom of my heart you have helped me out tremendously

@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын

I know this comment is going to be after you posted yours 2 years ago but Always put God first ..Seek Him first as Matt 6:33 says and He will guide you and order your steps. Love yourself and respect yourself . 😊

@stephaniemarie9850 6 жыл бұрын

I tolerated a little bit and finally set boundaries and now he doesn't like it and trying to make my life difficult. Trying to navigate this properly.

@cherylmcleod7357 6 жыл бұрын

Confirmation Pastor I did the right thing of letting go...the rejection was for my protection

@PRECIUZ739 6 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you for the teachings. I promise it's greatly appreciated. Especially for those that didn't have men in our life to guide and protect us. Thank you Mr. Blakes.

@andreabanks331 6 жыл бұрын

Let the church say Amen.

@vivianburton3526 6 жыл бұрын

AMEN... lord keep us broken woman in ur arms breath on ur ur will and ur ways father God .. touch our mind our ears and our heats.. let ur will be done in our like satan ur time is up u can no longer hold space lies still our joy our peace destroy our self worth with the destruction of ur poison ...lord we cant make it out u father god we need u everyday in ever way send ur peace send ur help father God heal us make us pleasing unto u lord God ...send us a good godly mate that will love us like u love the church whats to be more like u a man that is lead by u father god in THESE troublesome days will ask u cover us with the blood of all mighty Jesus ..let us lean not to our our understanding that we simply say i surrender all ..i surrender all ...cant nobody do me like Jesus...speak lord in our lives only u know our truth lord only u can heal us father God...touch Lord

@tabithablount2547 3 жыл бұрын

Amen Amen,

@nwilliamsist 4 жыл бұрын

I let go because I was being taken for granted. Men of low self-esteem will control you to destruction. I need my mind as long as I have my mind and Jesus, I got all I need.

@aquariusbeauty210 6 жыл бұрын

God please help me through this Pain of letting him go. I claim victory , A healed heart and mind. In Jesus name. Amen

@realtruth8703 6 жыл бұрын

I am in agreement with you. In the name of Jesus I pray Amen.

@ButterCookie1984 6 жыл бұрын

aquariusbeauty210 I claim for victory for you. I am dealing with the same. Check one or more of these books out: Codependent No More- Melanie Beattie The Emotionally Abused Woman (Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself) - Beverly Engel The Human Magnet Syndrome ( The CoDependent/Narcissist Trap)- Ross Rosenberg The Betrayal Bond- PhD Patrick Carnes

@CalledandChosen2 6 жыл бұрын

In Jesus'name ❤

@leleflower2366 6 жыл бұрын

I stand in Authority and Agreement with you. God has already done it

@chila7337 6 жыл бұрын

Amen

@kariay50 6 жыл бұрын

An individual who is emotionally unavailable to you, one needs to let go. It hurts deeply but it's the only way to fully heal. Thank you Pastor Blake. Your videos and words are full of wisdom.

@suebee4449 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been married 10 years to a narcissist and I’m an empath he told me 3 weeks ago he’s leaving me. I’m holding on for dear life. I thought it was ok to hang in there in order to save my marriage. I’ve watched numerous of your video’s but this one has truly helped me see where I’v been going wrong.

@demigaines5644 6 жыл бұрын

Thank U /It Was Hard Letting Go Of Some1 That I Loved.This Person Emotionally Abused Me.

@reneerobinson5974 6 жыл бұрын

This was meant for me my name is on it I thank God cause I prayed so hard last night and then this timely message thank you pray for me

@MikaB24 6 жыл бұрын

This video brought tears to my eyes! I look forward to the word...

@coachnenemichelle5785 Жыл бұрын

Who is watching this in 2022 and feeling blessed 🎉 This is an on time word!! Hallelujah!! 🙌🏾🔥

@victoryiswon2858 6 жыл бұрын

This is me currently. It hurts so badly... all the disrespect I’ve tolerated over the years..the constant cheating, lies and excuses.. sigh.. i watched my entire 30’s go by with nothing to show for it. No marriage, no babies.. just a house that I’m not even happy in. I’ve slipped into a depression and totally lost myself. I’m such a shell of who I used to be. But I’m working on gaining myself back. He wants to try again smh..but I’m sure it’s only because I’m a stabilizing unit for him.. I’m quite sure it isn’t love. I need to stay strong and watching this video has helped me greatly. Please pray that God heals my heart and guides me in the right direction. Thank u sir

@Onwardsandupwards2023 5 жыл бұрын

victory iswon i am praying for you ❤️🙏🏾

@withlovebyads 6 жыл бұрын

So the 18 that disliked this clearly don't want to let go! 😂😂 Pastor you are talking that real talk right now! It's so timely for me THANK YOU!

@Denesha0123 6 жыл бұрын

This is Conformation for me from God..Just went through this 6months ago. THANK YOU MAN OF GOD...Word of Wisdom...👏👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤

@Happy78704gal 6 жыл бұрын

Denesha Chapman you are 1 month ahead of me!

@MsEyalgat 3 жыл бұрын

When a person dishonor you- next move you need is to honor your self “!!!!👑👑👑👑👑👑❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@naturalbornfool73 6 жыл бұрын

Why letting go easier for some than others? It makes you question everyone intentions as being sincere.

@luzharumoni877 3 жыл бұрын

Some people might not be as genuine or sincere so letting go might be easier from them

@fuliviacannady7703 Жыл бұрын

Some people come to the realization that it's more painful to stay than leave. They love themselves and choose peace and self-respect over what they're receiving or not receiving in the relationship.

@sandancer45 5 жыл бұрын

I've let go of so many people who did me wrong, some wanted to come back but i wont let them hurt me anymore. Your right it does hurt but you grow stronger every day and make space for decent people to come into your life. Many thanks for this video.

@claudinechambers83 6 жыл бұрын

This message is so true all that you stated is so true. Right on time. A lot of times we know we should leave but won't, and yes i is painful.

@nomfundisokafwanka1870 Жыл бұрын

No👿

@minjlsmith 6 жыл бұрын

Everyone take a moment to visit the website of R.C. Blakes www.rcblakes.com.

@associates10 4 жыл бұрын

I let go pastor. My heart is broken and I am dealing with the withdrawals and grieving rt now. Having said this, I am proud of standing up for myself and setting boundaries. Thank you for this talk. It touched my soul. Amen

@evetteperry1314 6 жыл бұрын

I want to thank you for this message. this message was not for me but for a man that stalks me. I'm praying that your message resonates through my home and out the door of my home to make this man leave me alone. he stalks my house, he leaves me voicemails, he leaves me text messages and I just want him to understand that he has to just let go. so thank you for your prayers and your wisdom.

@kiyaman.grayer5347 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly I came in broken.,scared of being alone,scared of losing my children,etc.afraid of getting to know yourself.,in order to feel whole,when you realize that you were the only one loving to begin with.

@stephanielrichardson7796 6 жыл бұрын

Bishop if this isn't confirmation for me and right on time!!! Thank you Sir!!! I am LETTING GO!!!

@stephanielewis6788 6 жыл бұрын

STEPHANIE L Richardson an me to

@jzlovekin 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I listened to this three times. I really feel like this message was for me and I really needed it. As well as the prayer. 🙏🏽

@deblynn3974 6 жыл бұрын

Thank You Again & Again Pastor Blake's For Your God Filled Messages! You Have Hit Home Spiritually on so many Levels!

@rukiyacarter6316 5 жыл бұрын

I can't thank you ENOUGH!! I have been so BROKEN AND LOST...coming out of a 15 yr relationship. I have listened to other videos even some of yours..but this video HIT ME OVER THE HEAD AND KNOCKED ME DOWN. I standing now more firm and with a FLOOR...no more sinking in the ABYSS!!! Much Love I am a faithful subscriber!! Please continue this FINE, AWESOME AND HEALING WORK!!!💙💙💙

@k.d.williams8998 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking so much time to convey these much-needed teachings. Thanks also for writing your books. Pastor, please never stop spreading your messages. I am truly blessed to recently have come into the knowledge of your teachings. I also have begun to speak to family about your messages. Life changing words that I will NEVER forget!

@jenniferl.jonesmaom7347 6 жыл бұрын

Confirmation. Thank you.

@ioanaz4369 3 жыл бұрын

I'm going through the most difficult moment of my life. Your video has spoken to me and described my relationship so well... I find so much encouragement in your words in a moment when almost nothing helps. Thank you. God bless you and your work.

@chadthecreative 6 жыл бұрын

This was amazing. God spoke to me through you and I'm so thankful.

@saundrabaldwn778 6 жыл бұрын

I love listening to you RC Blake you are such a blessing and what your speaking on is 100.

@zerina9773 3 жыл бұрын

I know this video is old but it’s right on time for what I’m going through now. You’re dropping so many gems 💎 that I’m over here taking legit notes like I’m in class.

@ThrivewithJesus 6 жыл бұрын

Every time I click your button, it hits home! WOW 😮

@missqlalah 6 жыл бұрын

Yes Pastor! Rejection is God's protection! They aren't meant for you! Let go or be dragged!

@Rose-dl6xg 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you sooo very much for your loving and thoughtful prayer at the end of your video, for those of us who have suffered sooo much pain about this topic. Your prayer really helped! God Bless you RC Blake's Jr and your wife!!

@tai568 6 жыл бұрын

Wow! This was my answer. Thank you Holy Spirit

@stephtrader4662 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for yet another great lesson. I recently subscribed and have been absorbing as many of these as I have time for. May God continue to bless you in every area.

@deshawn5885 6 жыл бұрын

Bless You so much for helping me! I needed to hear/know this.

@minjlsmith 6 жыл бұрын

This Is good Bishop! You’re blessing us!

@forerunness 6 жыл бұрын

Oh my, my, my, Pastor! How much wisdom one man can have! How do you know all that? Amazing! Nothing short of the Divine Revelation! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Love to you & Lisa ♥️

@yogib8 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the heart has to break for the soul to heal (embrace it) ...that was a revelation to me...the lights turned on when he said this.

@kristinalabella1177 Жыл бұрын

Going through such heartbreak myself. I am a mama of 2 small children. My husband decided he wants his freedom and now I am mourning yet trying to find acceptance to move forward. It is so incredibly hard. May God continue to brighten my eyes to see his glory revealed through what feels like such tragedy to me.

@CalledandChosen2 6 жыл бұрын

This was sooo good and NEEDFUL!

@vernettathomas7500 2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🌹 I really needed this.What is the chances of a stranger knowing exactly what you are going through. Instant Salvation,So Freeing. Thank you😘💖

@meghan1914 4 жыл бұрын

Pastor, this is hitting home so personally. My husband was the one who told me our marriage was over and it is so hard to release him because we have children together and I just wanted to make this work so badly. But I am trusting God and leaning into teachings like this to get me through this painful season. I trust that there will be exponential growth through and on the other side of this. And that God can help me change the love I have for him to be specifically as love for the father of my children.

@andreabanks331 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the prayers and the word.

@catespinoza9249 5 жыл бұрын

The clarity of the concept of "Letting go" that you have explained gave me hope. What you teach is a good and doable. I am strengthened. Heartbreak isn't for nothing.

@adrienejones6353 6 жыл бұрын

God Bless You Bishop Blakes! Thank You for this teaching!! I needed to hear it🙏🏾

@jewellsmakeup 6 жыл бұрын

I'm crying 😭😭😭 as I'm listening to this. I love you pastor for this! Thank you so much ❤

@vivianburton3526 6 жыл бұрын

thank u pastor blakes for the food

@ponderdarlingmybustedheart 6 жыл бұрын

Such a wonderful message and the prayer at the end was so sweet. Thank you!

@egyptthomas9954 6 жыл бұрын

Gm Pastor im delighted that your with me on my journey, I’m growing and learning in such a little time . Your authentic and what woman and men need to hear

@JMarieTaylor 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Bishop! This message came on a day when God knew I needed to make a decision. Monday I was in your Sanctification prayer on Periscope. These messages have opened my eyes to what has been troubling me as I lost my way. But thank God I was able to recognize was it was before it was too late❤

@vivianburton3526 6 жыл бұрын

let go let God

@TessieDobey 6 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@fruitsofspirit6903 5 жыл бұрын

Anything/one that is toxic/not yours/not meant to be, must be freed!!!! When you have lost someone by way of death, which was not by choice, you can let go of anyone who has made choice to leave you emotionally, a long time ago!!!!!! People sometimes do the unintentional because of what we allow!!!!!!! We must love GOD/ourselves enough to never put anyone before yourself!!!

@missybella9046 3 жыл бұрын

So many beautiful, good women that were broken hearted here. Thankully they came out stronger. I'm recently broken hearted and in a pain. Cant wait for the morning I wake up without it.

@crystalcrystal7140 5 жыл бұрын

Very true. Thanks for making these videos to help people. Never tolerate evilness which may act loving at start but destroy us in end. Watch out. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.