Why you lack Consistency, Simple Way to Fix It.

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Күн бұрын

A lot of approaches to consistency are not lasting in my opinion because I think it's often misunderstood.
This concept has helped me for years now and is far better for your mind than the typical forced approach.
00:00 Intro
00:24 What consistency ACTUALLY is.
01:14 Main Concept + Valleys
05:20 An enemy of consistency and how to fix that.
08:20 The best advice for reaching goals
#productivity #selfimprovement #consistency

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@gui_cmf 2 ай бұрын

My guy, I don’t know how the algorithm sent this video for me today but it was just what I needed to hear. Definitely subscribing. Great video

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Glad it found you Lol, and thanks!

@Levi-lr4vi 2 ай бұрын

No graphs or bar charts lmao. Just human experience. This was urgently needed. Thank you

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Lol yes, it’s a general theme of my channel. I’m glad it helps!

@cristianrojasolivares8343 7 күн бұрын

Yeeeah ! The video feeling really natural really human

@spica3394 Ай бұрын

I have diagnosed ADHD and when I found your channel, I like watching but was convinced it wasn't for me. I would love to excel at several things and have a lot of interrsts, but accepted that productivity channels never work for me - being rigorously consistent just isn't realistic for people with ADHD. But your approuch to productivity is so positve and reframes it as something that is achivable and something that can be enjoyable. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, it's really inspiring

@vaughngene Ай бұрын

Hey I'm glad it helps! though I don't have diagnosed ADHD, I actually deal with a lot of the symptoms myself, and much like you, the typical routes also never worked for me. It actually led to lowering my self esteem, so I made a commitment years ago to follow my intuition and nothing else. since then, I found this way to be REALLY effective in helping me excel in multiple areas, so I think it's something that can really help others also.

@azgamingxx7083 2 ай бұрын

Nice to see someone giving an actual human approach to being productive 👌

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

🙏 anytime! Definitely want realistic advice to be the go-to someday.

@adishegokar 2 ай бұрын

I just loved the calming vibe of you and this video... out there on the internet, they constantly make us believe like the world is on fire... Thank u so much I really appreciate your efforts❤❤

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Appreciate it 🙏, I definitely think we get more done without the “fear” approach overall.

@sourlemonsxd5496 2 ай бұрын

Hey Vaughn Gene, just wanted to say I'm really glad I stumbled across your channel. I appreciate your values and your videos have really helped me approach my self-improvement. "Get through the valleys, let that coast through." Thank you!

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Hey I’m glad it helps! And thank you! 💪

@stoneblockone8724 8 күн бұрын

You are by far the best person I have seen talk about these topics. I love your energy and I can relate to you a lot, thank you for not trying to speak in very polarizing terms! Being this real, gentle, yet effective with this subject is such a breath of fresh air in the self improvement scape. No fancy editing, just pure and simple messages

@vaughngene 8 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏, that means a lot considering the others out there. I often wonder if my ‘non-science’ approach will resonate with people since it’s mainly just my experience, but it’s good to see people can gather something from it.

@jaylingo9092 4 күн бұрын

Listen I don’t ever comment on a video I usually like/subscribe and be done might even save a few 100 but commenting has never been my thing… I say all dat to say this was the one, the one I need right here right now. You’ve just broaden my mind to help me understand and handle the feeling of “not doing enough “” inconsistency” I was in a down spiral again I still might be in one but this helped. No one’s ever talks about this or paint the picture like you did bro. Thank you 💯💯

@vaughngene 3 күн бұрын

Means a lot man! And I'm really glad my idea helps. It's something that I felt was natural to me and seemed to really work out overtime. I think it actually made me get way more done too. Glad my ideas resonate though.

@jaylingo9092 3 күн бұрын

@@vaughngene definitely gained a new follower bro this is what we need !!

@awaworldart 3 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for reminding me to not feel guilty of not being a robot like so many videos out there!😅 I needed this today! Love your music and your channel 🙏🏾🩵🙌🏾

@vaughngene 3 күн бұрын

Yeah a lot of these channels are brain rot and lying unfortunately. No one is is consistent or as productive as they claim to be on here. And thank you!

@Patu-t2v 2 ай бұрын

This is what has been happening to me for last few weeks. I'm staying in that valley of consistency waves way more than the peak. Peak comes to me once in a week, and when I try to replicate that, I think, "I gotta be super dedicated, just think about my goal all day, and work intensely". But when you said that peak comes when you're not too lazy or not trying too hard, it got me thinking about my peaks. And I realised, that's what exactly happened to me on peak days, that I was not trying too hard. I suppose, on the next days, I was biased to think that peak was only because of my intense motivation and trying that day. But now I know where I went wrong, thanks to you! Now, I will focus on getting things done, instead of trying! Thanks for explaining the science of consistency so amazingly Sir!

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

It's good that you naturally realized what seemed to work for you. I find that we often know the 'correct' way to do things, but the internet misleads us, so that's good to hear! And thank you! Glad I could help.

@kdmcas_ 5 күн бұрын

man, i'm super grateful I discovered your content. two vids in and I already feel inspired to do more. subscribed.

@vaughngene 5 күн бұрын

That's awesome to hear man, Glad I could help.

@kaseybusler 8 күн бұрын

Dude your content is gold, please keep it up! It’s everything I need to hear

@vaughngene 8 күн бұрын

Appreciate it 🙏, and will do! Glad it’s helping.

@pamelam7095 2 күн бұрын

So glad I found your channel! I’m very much a person of multiple interests.

@vaughngene 2 күн бұрын

🙌

@amrapalidixit399 2 ай бұрын

Consistency is intensity in waves. This is so true. I have been thinking this all along. Thanks for the validation.

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

It’s good to see someone else agrees, Hopefully this idea will be more mainstream someday.

@Sci-Fi_Fan296 2 ай бұрын

This was such a needed message. I've subscribed. Keep up the great work.

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. I'm glad it helps!

@Slow-Biden9 2 ай бұрын

I see those guitars in the background. Even just playing an instrument can help you so much on your journey to self improvement, at least in my experience. Learn a couple songs you really like, especially if those songs are complex, like some math rock type American Football shit. Then you will be motivated to actually learn music theory and make your own songs, that sort of motivation seems to transfer to other aspects of my life, I've been learning calculus and advanced physics lately too, just because I felt like it and I think playing music really helped motivate me to just learn more about everything I want to learn about

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Definitely agree, That and delayed gratification, especially in the subjects you are learning. Because as you know, in music, your brain and your hands are just not connected for a while when learning to play. So there is no instant hit of dopamine in the beginning.

@dakshayanisharma6154 2 ай бұрын

I needed this, thankyou for making this video.

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Hey No problem! I’m sure you can relate as a musician yourself.

@iatheman 2 күн бұрын

Solid, straight advice.

@vaughngene 2 күн бұрын

💪

@ro.xa_na1377 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, thank you❤ I needed this.

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Anytime 👌, glad it helps.

@cristianrojasolivares8343 7 күн бұрын

Your channel is amazing !!! And you are the best !!! Thanks you so much !!!

@vaughngene 7 күн бұрын

Thanks so much 🙏, happy to see you can get some stuff out of it.

@i_am_the_ember 15 күн бұрын

Your video has redefined consistency for me. Thank you.

@vaughngene 15 күн бұрын

For sure, no problem! It's something i've assumed for years now.

@claudinehastick6637 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

No problem 👌. Happy to help.

@lineahhh4222 Ай бұрын

This is like your another video about kaizen. Good content!! Subscribed!

@vaughngene Ай бұрын

Thank You! 🙏 Yes I think it’s a good way to achieve things!👌 Soon I want to talk about reaching goals naturally with this same idea. Without really “setting goals”

@lineahhh4222 Ай бұрын

Will wait on it! 🌟

@aglagane 2 ай бұрын

I like you're approach so mush. Thanks. And keep riding the waves ❤

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Thanks! And same to you 💪

@andreaholcomb3376 2 ай бұрын

Thank you this is so necessary!

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

No problem Mom ❤️

@nguyenthanhdat93 2 күн бұрын

wisdom ❤

@vaughngene 2 күн бұрын

🙏

@frederic1000001 19 күн бұрын

Your reflections are very interesting.👍

@vaughngene 19 күн бұрын

Hey, thank you for watching! 💪

@frederic1000001 18 күн бұрын

@@vaughngene yes very interesting approach especially what you have to say about managing the consistency problems and learning process in general. I'm learning jazz piano and I needed to hear your voice; Thank you 🤨

@vaughngene 18 күн бұрын

Jazz piano is so cool. Glad my info helps! I'm not good enough yet to play Jazz lol, I still have quite a bit of theory to learn; but I'll get there someday. Best of wishes with your progress!

@frederic1000001 17 күн бұрын

@@vaughngene Yes Jazz Piano is a big thing. You will have to challenge your philosophical approach. Just to decide where to start it took me years.

@vaughngene 16 күн бұрын

Look forward to it! 🙏

@AntonioNavarro-pp8ks 2 ай бұрын

I love it!!! New sub

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Thanks! Glad it helps.

@abrarfahimsupan9857 2 ай бұрын

You can kill a plant by watering it too much1❤

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 👌

@venusawaken6656 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this helpful guide! Something I’d like to highlight (cause I do this a lot myself) is not comparing yourself to others and assuming that other people are more productive/consistent/better at life than you. Don’t worry about what other people are doing and just be better than your past self. Be disciplined, but also kind to yourself❤️‍🩹

@vaughngene 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely! I mention it here and there in vids, but I think a standalone video on that would be good to do. Since it’s quite common (and easy to do on accident with social media).

@venusawaken6656 9 күн бұрын

@@vaughngene you do a great job at reminding your viewers and teaching them how to get the most out of life while also being kind to yourself in each video and that’s honestly the best: reassurance ^_^

@vaughngene 9 күн бұрын

Definitely try 🙏. Thank Chels!