Well-done Jane. This is a topic many wouldn't want to talk about, you've approached it fearlessly. I know we all have our reservations about the discussion, males and females alike, but there is no better way to call something wrong, ''wrong'' and there is no better way to fight a fight that needs to be fought.

Nne, I love your boldness, sensitivity,. You are realistic, strong. You are human. I wish we have more Christian ladies that reason like you. Enough of the wicked lies, stigmatization. Our society really hurt women. Truth be told. They brainwash the girl child from infancy that her worth is in a man. Hence the desperation to get and stay married no matter the trauma ❤❤❤

Many people will call it being strong. Strong in suffering?

Yeaaaa I love to call you Jane-Jane Bliss-too.

Well, I agree with you to some extent. And anyone in a toxic relationship should walk away-be it man or woman. Some men are also victims too, remember.

I resign!!!!

Kabashians reign has gone

Until you're married you can't really understand what goes on in marriage 😢

20 minutes of "female perfection" and "male uselessness". Do we need more divorced women or more *successful* marriages? The solution to marital problems is neither championing divorce nor expressly begging for it, as that equals normalizing broken homes and divided families. It is imperative to understand that this comment isn't a defense for either gender but an objective outlook on what marriage is OR should be, what divorce entails, the sacrifices/compromises that are expected to hold a marital union, the non-negotiables that should break it. From a broadview of your video Bliss, you seem to only deem divorce and unsuccessful marriages to be the fault of men, and successful ones as being singlehandedly moulded and held by women... both perspectives all shades of wrong and partial. What we do not need anymore at this point is more divorces because that's almost akin to saying marriages shouldn't even exist. Time would not permit me to say all as pertains to this topic, but going forward, I'll implore you to be more objective in your view of marriages and divorce. Its something to be scarred, its another to remain in the memories of the hurt, being a victim, and to act as if that is all life's about (thorns & blue roses). Divorce isn't a devilry, anyone with a good head on their shoulders know that, however, it is not the beacon of a great or forward-minded society that aims to contain healthy and happy individuals. A conclusive input: "if all men were trained to know is that their wives are rags, way beneath them and to be treated as palace slaves-which is in no way true- then where comes the popular sayings "happy wife, happy life" OR "Behind every successful man, there is a woman"?" Certainly, both imply that men-lots of them-know enough to treat their women well, and infact endure them also as women aren't particularly perfect beings? On this note, going forward, I call for balanced views and objectivity in your outlook of Marriage & divorce. Happy Easter. (Pardon any typos, I'm not Chat GPT).⚖️

Hey, longest time. This is a very slippery topic. We're not built to be alone. It's a man's world. It starts with a family that is whole. If a family is broken, it will affect a child and it's a chain reaction that will affect the child at some point in it's own married. So it's starts with a family that is whole or broken that will affect ones choice. Most people are broken and they have not been truthful to them self or heal in other for you them to choose properly. It's adulthood weather or not you know what you are doing, you're responsible for the out come. Some rules in themselves are not wrong but it has been perverted by the society. Lastly if you can get the family in right place were father and mother head is correct, it robs of on the child which will help them choose right. And something's are easier said than done.... Lastly women are not good at choosing....... I wish KZfaq had a VN LoL. But before you come for me hear me out.

Jane it's been a while! I took my time to see this video/podcast of yours and I must say that you did good upholding your gender and standing up for it as well. However, it is misleading in a lot of ways and most of your gender wouldn't be able to filter through the content and hence think it's okay to divorce, afterall Jane said it. If care is not taken, you'll have to spend more than enough time to correct the impression of the populace than the time you spend in making this video. When I said populace, I mean your gender and society just like you mentioned. I can see you have a genuine intention and very emotional about your gender well being, mental health and self care but you've to know that it's not bed of Rose's like you said in your word. Finally, men of GOD have taken turns to address this issue of divorce and the least, some of them blame their selves and the worst case, some of the abandon the ministry. What gives you the impression that you could spin the narrative on social media without causing more harm than good? Y'all should understand that marriage is a myth, maybe misery and GOD in his infinite mercy, grace and wisdom is the only one that can help in navigating it. Should you deem it fit to take me on, I'm up for it and it's gonna be fun😅