Why You Struggle to Speak Confidently

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Do you struggle to speak confidently? When you speak to others at work, do you refrain from sharing your thoughts because you're worried about not sounding intelligent? Do you have regrets after meetings where you think to yourself, "I should have said this!". These are signs that you can't speak in a confident way and you need to learn how to communicate with confidence.
Being unable to speak confidently at work is a major problem with many professionals. Most of the time it's because of your mindset (you're worried about what others will think). And this creates anxiety in you. Sometimes, it's because you're not using confident body language. Other times it's because past experience with people has trained you to not be confident when you speak.
Finding the cause of your inability to speak with confidence is the first step. And in this video, I lay out seven different reasons as to why you struggle to speak with confidence at work. Discover which reason is holding you back, then work on building skills in confident communication.
Timestamps:
00:00 Why you struggle to speak confidently
01:10 You're worried about what others will think
03:06 You're worried about not sounding intelligent
04:50 You're intimidated by others
06:06 You're not prepared enough
07:57 You're anxious
10:24 You use the wrong body language
13:27 Past experience has damaged you
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@melc-eu3dc 5 ай бұрын

From a young age, my family taught me that my opinions didn’t matter, everything was my fault, and I was wrong. That still carries over to my professional life and has made it difficult to get ahead in my career.

@lovelynigwe8188 5 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear that I pray Jesus Christ heals you in amen 🙏🏾

@wasyawasya1106 4 ай бұрын

Wish you overwork your trauma and achieve all your objectives and dreams 🤝

@kristinyaekelnegley3978 2 ай бұрын

I have so much insecurity and fear of what people think of me. I hate it. I am really working on it!

@m.rashidasi3287 5 ай бұрын

Always intimidated by others specially by the seniors but you truly boosted me by this sentence that older or senior doesn't means that they are more knowledgeable or confidant .... Thanks Dear Kara Ronin for such a great video ❤❤❤

@ruthgarcia-andrade7683 5 ай бұрын

Excellent as always! Thank you so much Kara, I love your videos and they help me a lot! Great day for all and let’s speak more and worry less!

@kararonin 5 ай бұрын

Speaking confidently doesn't come naturally to everyone. There are many reasons why. Which reason holds you from speaking confidently?

@krishna_bakth1420 5 ай бұрын

Childhood abuse naturally shutdown my voice .but now I have come out of that trauma and iam able to speak confidently.

@gourikannan 5 ай бұрын

Hi Kararonin, these tips are very useful. Thanks for sharing. If you could show a summary of tips at the end, it will help to recap the learning easily.

@tanyag6917 3 ай бұрын

This is great.. Im needing to overcome major shyness which always lets me down ..

@wasyawasya1106 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

@eustaquiozambrano2974 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. Have a good Night. 🙂👍

@noor.alwaheed 5 ай бұрын

Thank you very much 😍🙏🏻

@janet2u100 5 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@faisalabbas9803 5 ай бұрын

Yes kara you are saying absolutely right if we are aware about something then on that topic we can't speak confidently but sometime we come across such situation in which smooth speaking is Not easy but we need enough word power And phrases so that we can convey our thought to other buy using these phrases phrases play a vital role to make us speak without any fear in front of any One ..when any Person speaks language in flow it becomes impressive And make a good impose on opposite Person Or the Person from which we are talking is influenced ..so we need to stand by making some gap in between feets And make a good eye contact And talking slowly And should be stopped so that other can get a chance to speak when he complete his talk then we should reply in the most best way .

@FeisalMAhmed 5 ай бұрын

It is helpful topic, thanks

@chrisogonas 5 ай бұрын

Fabulous tips 👍👍👍

@amjadsiddique 2 ай бұрын

❤

@gopugopu690 4 ай бұрын

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@Morocco_Entire 5 ай бұрын

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@successgreat1189 5 ай бұрын

Great work

@kararonin 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@nicphillips9178 5 ай бұрын

So what does it mean when your shoulders don't move like yours. Surely a bit of movement in this area shows confidence and not looking so static!

@simonyang-pe3ux 5 ай бұрын

I'm always lack of confidence of giving presentation especially when we are holding english meeting, because i've been trying my best to avoid making mistakes when i speak english at that time. so i think i have to make some efforts to reverse this kind of mentality. Thank you anyway, i've learned a lot from ur videos.

@kararonin 5 ай бұрын

It's difficult to not be nervous when speaking another language. Remember, most people listening to you would be impressed by your English ability. They would also notice your effort more than any mistakes you might make. Keep trying!

@ssmith5986 5 ай бұрын

As a 1st language English speaker allow me to calm your mind.... even if you mistake a word you most likely still have the respect and admiration of others due to the difficulty learning a new language and bravery of trying at all.

@simonyang-pe3ux 5 ай бұрын

yes ,you're right. sometimes why i am not confident enough i think my listening skill is one of the contributors 😂i'm still struggling to it for now. hope i could find some effective approaches to improve it.