Why Your Ex Comes Back When You Move On

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Жыл бұрын

Why Your Ex Comes Back When You Move On
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In this episode, we're talking about why your ex comes back when you move on.
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@Abcd-gj1fu Жыл бұрын

I decided to literally not give a single **** about her. And lo and behold, she is initiating contact. I still do not give a ****. I don't know how or why, but I think they can somehow feel you take your attention/energy back. It's like they can sense you moving on. It pushes them into a panic mode and they will feel an urgent need to take action *asap*.

@Freespiritedqueen Жыл бұрын

Went through this recently with an ex fiance. He did just THAT! Went grey rock on that azz. Give them false hope like they give you and move along. They will get the hint. Don't mess with empaths.

@jannlewandowski5540 8 ай бұрын

I believe that after a while, you get over them. After you've gotten over them, they want you back, but then it's too late. It's a shame but that's how life is.

@RobbiJamesVogt 4 ай бұрын

Moving on will give you all the power. Relationships are a power struggle - it’s the real deal

@delsamuels4000 Жыл бұрын

As I’ve grown through this process, this video represents where I am now. I care for my ex and want the best for her but I’m good. I have reconnected to myself and a few new people. Great video Clay

@simplykoko9033 11 ай бұрын

I got a ring and wear it on my engagement ring finger now he’s back acting like I hold the key to his life. 😂😂😂

@ElaCanessaMusic Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! Such a wise advice! And I feel that that is the reason why he pulled away from me! Suddenly I started to put extra energy on the relationship and less on myself and my projects…he felt pressured unconsciously…I’m learning so much during this time…my wounds, fear of abandon, anxious attachment style…love triggers us…bringing the best and the worst out of us, that is the work we have to do, we have to feel complete in ourselves, there nothing else…and it’s funny at the end cause for the same reason they leave and for the same reason they came back, they leave cause they see there is a lack of love and fullfilment in us and they came back cause we are full again!

@kevintu4888 Жыл бұрын

This video spoke a lot to me! I am definitely that over analyzer than you mentioned and knowing to shift my thoughts to myself is something I should do.

@kyletruong489 Жыл бұрын

I have watched all the “Let go videos”. I started this process two week ago and felt much better.

@slowdawnphmusic Жыл бұрын

These is a great video. It helps me a lot in this down situation.

@tineitei5392 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, brother, for the video. Thank you, and God bless!!

@jaygarcia7807 Жыл бұрын

Love these videos clay! You always manage to bring a new perspective to things.

@aaguilar9471 Жыл бұрын

keep up the good work Clay..

@lisamiranda9804 Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed your video. Thank you very relaxing by the water

@jeanettesuzannebrooks1963 Жыл бұрын

This was really good, thx.

@SIRICKO Жыл бұрын

Keep this up Clay my man love you bro.

@carlhawkins763 Жыл бұрын

I watch them all the time now ...really has helped thank you

@Js-wd6dr Жыл бұрын

Pretty bike or walk trail. Hey I like these videos!

@newcastlecontractors152 Жыл бұрын

Great Video.Thanks

@dawls07 Жыл бұрын

Are you in Anacortes? That’s my favorite 30 minute walk. The shipwreck is so awesome!

@jamesbondinspector 22 күн бұрын

Thanks for the videos!

@mr.ofromthestore Жыл бұрын

Great content please make more !!

@bradcapps5684 Жыл бұрын

Great video Clay

@terencesampson1475 5 ай бұрын

Love uuur videos !!!! Seriously !!! Thank you bro !!!

@kathyyoest4085 Жыл бұрын

great video.

@agnesbajna7071 Жыл бұрын

So true ❤

@stephaniegordon834 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for explaining everything the way you do, it really made it clear for me that I was still holding on energetically to my ex, but we were in a committed relationship for 20+ yrs and have a son and it's been 9 months since our separation and I'm just curious how long does it take to stop thinking about the ex? Is it bad that I still think of him almost every day, I don't think about him as much as I did in the beginning but I still think about him, I found other videos of yours that have helped so thank you!

@akomeyam Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Clay...

@sumaiya.spriha 11 ай бұрын

Love your videos

@gusmendoza5775 Жыл бұрын

Hey Clay, thank you for all your videos. They help me when I feel hopeless. I have a big question, my ex and I were in a 1.5 year relationship but broke up because we didn't have open communication. he felt unsafe because he couldn't open up to me and I thought we were a happy couple but on the surface. we still live together, and have hooked up and occasionally cuddled, and he has been seeing someone immediately following the break up. I've been working on the emotional connection with him, and I thought it was looking good, but we just had a conversation and he said he's not emotionally available for a relationship with me or anyone but is still talking and sleeping over at the other guys house. he assured me that they just hang out and nothing happens. I feel like he's one to like being in a relationship. he says he misses me and says he still loves me but only when I say it first, any guidance or advice what to do? I still want him back but trying to move forward.

@gardeniaasmr18 Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ that’s for helping me ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@doctorgoodluck8098 Жыл бұрын

How can I help you

@Js-wd6dr Жыл бұрын

Looks like the Seattle area

@MM-kf3gq Жыл бұрын

Do we have to treat ex girlfriends different that have a bad child and getting closer to to a crazy church. Then ones that aren’t going through that?

@ItsAngieFly 6 ай бұрын

Are you in the U.P.?

@MuadDib_ Жыл бұрын

Just how "BIG" was your "BIG ex"? Are we talking a duece, duece & 1/2? Just curious.

@viktor2915 3 ай бұрын

Its been 11 months. Its difficult, im really trying. The thoughts about her just comes up, even when im dreaming. I had other women, just trying to detach and move on. It didnt work

@Js-wd6dr Жыл бұрын

What lake or shore are you at? Good lordy too many questions...analyze the relationship to death...leave them alone.

@Js-wd6dr Жыл бұрын

Cute doggies...I wouldn't trust anyone that left me.

@roberttruman8444 Жыл бұрын

But what if they left you because of something you did or something that you failed to do? In some cases breaking up is the only solution in the short term, and somebody has to make that call. If your partner leaving you was the call to action that you needed and you reconciled further down the line, would you choose to trust them because you know that theirs was the right decision last time? Or would you deny them your trust?

@Freespiritedqueen Жыл бұрын

@@roberttruman8444 I did and they crying back so I went grey rock on that azz😂. Give them false hope like they gave me. Don't play with empaths.

@williamdolan7189 Жыл бұрын

Why? They may of had good reason

@michaelslinger3998 Жыл бұрын

Ex seems to show all the signs of wanting to come back to me we've been split two years almost going through custody case, is it best to just think of myself now

@slowburn1022 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Clay for these insightful videos as well as for the Ex Solution course. They’ve been invaluable. I would be very interested in your take on how to tell if your ex is only being nice to you because you have kids together. “How To Get Your Ex Back If You Have Children Together” :)

@mewmew3142 Жыл бұрын

I would love to see his approach to that too!

@AriAri-rb4oi Жыл бұрын

'Cosmic joke' Lol isn't it just.....

@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513 Жыл бұрын

I'm going to treat women they eat that deserve to be treated from now on.. 😃 I've learnt a lot over recent years and now understand why things were there way they were 100+ years ago