Why Your New Year’s Resolutions Will Fail(and how not to)

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Abraham Diop

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0:00 Intro
0:21 New Year New Me
2:40 Weekend Workshop
3:20 Group Motivation
5:56 Find Your Why
7:06 Play the Long Game
9:27 Sacrifice For Your Purpose
new year’s resolution
how to keep your new year’s resolutions

Пікірлер: 104
@Liam_Schmid
@Liam_Schmid 7 ай бұрын
In order to evolve this year I will have consistency, discipline and patience. My bad habits no longer represents me. I wish yall the best year possible in your minds. Regards from Argentina!
@CherryHotSauce
@CherryHotSauce 7 ай бұрын
I literally did the binge eating in December thing I have never felt so called out 😂
@thejaded
@thejaded 7 ай бұрын
I was literally drinking last night for New Years Eve 😂😂 but I worked out today, so that's good 😂😂
@thejaded
@thejaded 7 ай бұрын
Honestly, you did call me out about putting off the date and trying to start fresh. That being said, I am not unmotivated and my goals are not gonna fail, like maybe I will fail myself but I will keep moving through. I'm a tough dude, been through a lot and want my life, my mind to be at peace this year. I've been slacking, letting things slip through my fingers, being depressed and I had noticed. I just want this to be a good year for me. Least I am making a change now, that's all that matters yk?
@Tylxk
@Tylxk 7 ай бұрын
What’s crazy is that this is the first year I’ve actually given myself real goals(100k on yt & TT by the end of the year, move out, and learn Japanese) and I’ve recently started going to the gym after doing at home workouts for a couple months but all I’m really trying to say is that I’m 100% not the same person I was last year & I know for a fact no matter what I’m reaching my goals this year without a doubt & I also want to show you some gratitude for posting amazing self improvement content like this bc it’s helped me a lot so I appreciate you and all you do Abraham🫶🏽
@CherryHotSauce
@CherryHotSauce 7 ай бұрын
Learning Japanese from scratch in one year is not realistic. How do you plan to do that? Use Duolingo? Do you have experience learning languages? Are you going to take classes? Do you have a Japanese friend? Are you going to Japan? Is this just because you like anime? You need to make SMART goals Specific Measurable Achievable Relevant Timed
@gamerthe13th36
@gamerthe13th36 7 ай бұрын
Turn to god and he will guide you
@Tylxk
@Tylxk 7 ай бұрын
@@CherryHotSauce You’re 100% right I’m not expecting to fluently speak Japanese by the end of this year but I do want to have the basics down at least but no I have no experience in learning a language so I know it’s going to be very difficult but I can do whatever I focus all my time, energy, and attention on. And yes it did start from me wanting to watch anime with no subtitles but I plan on traveling there & I wouldn’t wanna be uneducated at all.
@Tylxk
@Tylxk 7 ай бұрын
@@mykolas8575 Watch me 😏
@goldench1ld.j4
@goldench1ld.j4 7 ай бұрын
@@gamerthe13th36Amen, for anyone wanting to read a few chapters - read Hebrews 11 & 12 they talk about Faith in God and it’ll help going into the New Year.
@codingandquesting
@codingandquesting 7 ай бұрын
New year, same me, but better.
@midseptembr951
@midseptembr951 7 ай бұрын
This
@clozza4033
@clozza4033 7 ай бұрын
Wasted a good hour in bed doom scrolling because it's colder than anticipated and wanted to go for a run (jog 😂). Just listened to this whilst I was getting ready and now I'm gonna go. Crazy to think I have done more exercise in the past 7 days than I have the past few months. DO THE HARD THING.
@NovaHeartz
@NovaHeartz 7 ай бұрын
keeping u in my life for the new lifestyle I’m adapting
@idushiheshara
@idushiheshara 7 ай бұрын
12.30 am here! Starting the new year with your video! You helped me improve last year. So thankful ❤️ happy new year everyone! Keep going!!!
@maggiemae8932
@maggiemae8932 7 ай бұрын
crazy i watched one of your videos deleted social media set my phone to black and white, started reading started actually working on my goals and working out and after years of therapy i finally feel some kind of relief. you’re doing great stuff dude❤️
@DyingSunberry
@DyingSunberry 7 ай бұрын
Sameee, that video was a life changer for me.
@ashlynnexum
@ashlynnexum 7 ай бұрын
haha i watched that same video earlier! starting my social media detox today. we got this!
@maggiemae8932
@maggiemae8932 7 ай бұрын
@@ashlynnexum so worth it goodluck
@okdman7173
@okdman7173 7 ай бұрын
wishing you the best in 2024, amazing year man love your videos, keep it up.
@moongoddess9008
@moongoddess9008 7 ай бұрын
11:52. It’s about to be 2024 for me. I going to challenge myself. And embrace who I want to become.❤
@user-ke7nd4tr8c
@user-ke7nd4tr8c 7 ай бұрын
loved the vid, Abraham really knows what he's talking about, the amount of people that quit after the first 2 weeks of January is CRAZYYY
@iamwestking
@iamwestking 7 ай бұрын
Signed up for the 14 days to purpose challenge & subscribed. Really appreciate the wise words 🙌
@jemhasopinions
@jemhasopinions 6 ай бұрын
hey! i think what i like about your channel so far is the fact that the advice you tend to give is not generic. your approach is much more honest, nuanced and unique. definitely decided to be a consistent watcher when i need essential advice
@LucaCl1
@LucaCl1 7 ай бұрын
Bro is Dropping Video after video. Respect 🪖
@moripiepenbrink4502
@moripiepenbrink4502 7 ай бұрын
2 videos in a day?? woww love this
@Officialtrinn1
@Officialtrinn1 7 ай бұрын
you inspire me! God bless you !
@imcicily
@imcicily 7 ай бұрын
happy new year thank you for this video
@CalorREevs
@CalorREevs 7 ай бұрын
2023…I’ve improved but didn’t fully reach some of my goals. I’ve reached the goal of getting more fit but not the goal of being more social. I did reach the goal of getting good grades however and gaining weight. I also reached my goal of recovering from my ankle injuries which caused me to miss out on school for 2 1/2 months. I was able to bounce back. This year, I’m planning on reminding myself that I have to complete my goals because if I don’t, I’ll not only feel regret but more importantly I will not be living a full life of experiences that can be life changing. I need to remind myself that this is not just for my friends, but for myself and becoming a better person so that I don’t regret 2024 and the years after that. My goals need to be met and I know I will have to go through the pain that I had to go through this year + more. But it’s better to suffer and die peacefully with no regrets than to not suffer and die conflicted with regrets. Gotta keep that sisiphus mindset knowing it will be worth it in the end. Or more like… in the next beginning.
@randomuser3920
@randomuser3920 7 ай бұрын
I have to admit, I didn't even have any goals for the last years or so, but this year, I hope I will have one!
@dawnbreaker890
@dawnbreaker890 6 ай бұрын
Hey man, I love you lmao. I'm 22 and starting from scratch. A couple of months ago I started working on discipline and honing my emotional intelligence. I'm trying to be more introspective and free myself from a decades worth of instant gratification and depression. I've been going to the gym, journaling, watching videos, listening to podcasts, and out of everyone I’ve met so far in this journey, I've already connected with you the most. I've almost gone through all of your videos and I'll be rewatching them all for sure. You're real and down to earth, I appreciate you're wisdom and will to help others. Keep up this work. You're a godsend.
@user-ml4fd7dz2t
@user-ml4fd7dz2t 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice,really helped bro
@cocosjourney848
@cocosjourney848 7 ай бұрын
your voice is giving old school d'angelo wallace. I love it!
@DonkeyEMakesYouWiserNow
@DonkeyEMakesYouWiserNow 6 ай бұрын
Instant subscribe, your a good speaker
@Midworth
@Midworth 7 ай бұрын
10:13 made me so happy to hear
@christinme8375
@christinme8375 7 ай бұрын
I thought you said everything in the perfect time because it was organic. Thank you ! It’s nice to hear motivational inspiring words from a young person sometimes because it through fresh eyes and the delivery is reciprocated differently then from someone my age or a tad bit younger. In my 50’s . I wanna be able to stay teachable for my ever glowing up needs. 🙏 God bless you ! I also recommend your Chanel to my son who is closer to your age.
@PricklyPapaya
@PricklyPapaya 7 ай бұрын
I'm happy people like you exist. You make such a positive impact on younger ones and even older people too. I'm just a little bit older than you but I wish I had your channel in my formative years. But nothing is lost. I'll be sharing your channel with my younger brother.
@LissandroRestino
@LissandroRestino 7 ай бұрын
Great content
@user-lu4xg4sw9u
@user-lu4xg4sw9u 7 ай бұрын
Thanks man
@Ryuko15
@Ryuko15 7 ай бұрын
Ive been trying to prepare since December to consistently workout, its really hard especially in a holiday season but i think its kinda worth it, starting to picking up the pace and actually start this year very well I hope this lasts
@ithil-maril9141
@ithil-maril9141 6 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Big-Sexy
@Big-Sexy 7 ай бұрын
I get so tired of hearing people face a set back on their goals two or three weeks into the year and give up and say, “Oh well. It didn’t work this year. Next year will be my year for sure.”
@Wowza45
@Wowza45 7 ай бұрын
I didn’t even give myself goals this year, I had goals start to get serious bearing Christmas. So I started researching these goals walking up to new years. On the night of new years ii look at the date and then I realized “oh shit” it’s a new year. My increased productivity now makes me think I might be doing something positive that I can stick to this time.
@JustMikeGreen
@JustMikeGreen 6 ай бұрын
just came to commment and say youve literally gained 83k subs in 10 months. Good for you , keep up the good work
@peepoopeepoo6213
@peepoopeepoo6213 6 ай бұрын
I started bettering myself and my life at around the time of new years eve/day, but that wasn’t because of the new year new me mentality, it’s because I genuinely have wanted to change for a while and around the time of new years just happened to be when I took action
@veepresents
@veepresents 6 ай бұрын
hey man, i watched your video during the first week of january. now, it is the seocnd of febuary. i still watch this video to remind myself to push and not forget why i wanted to get better, i love this video. i literally love this video so much 😭😭
@arnhildurl7666
@arnhildurl7666 7 ай бұрын
We also need to remember that you are not better than someone just because you have more discipline than them. You don’t become a higher being just because you follow through with your goals. Gaining a six pack doesn’t make you gain more worth.
@FrankieBananabut
@FrankieBananabut 7 ай бұрын
new year new me!!! my resolutions are to do a muscle up and beat my dad in an arm wrestle 🤣
@TheAchieversVault
@TheAchieversVault 6 ай бұрын
I wish I could get those workshops
@Juvy_qv
@Juvy_qv 7 ай бұрын
This is the first year i didn't actually set any goals for the next year cause it just feels useless at this point
@ymansteele1564
@ymansteele1564 7 ай бұрын
W vid ty
@michellegomez3353
@michellegomez3353 6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@hyundaiman
@hyundaiman 6 ай бұрын
Dear future me, you know what you want. Do it. Come back dec 31st.
@unbiasedtv6525
@unbiasedtv6525 7 ай бұрын
Can you make a video about music consumption and how often you consume it ?
@denise333
@denise333 7 ай бұрын
Hi Abraham!! Can you recommend any starting books for people like me who are new to improving their quality of life?
@user-wt4ql4kr1w
@user-wt4ql4kr1w 7 ай бұрын
You're tho better to start NOW and not wait
@TheoWasHere2
@TheoWasHere2 6 ай бұрын
Instead of making new resolutions, I made only one resolution and that is learning something new for the year (in my case the duolingo greek course) but the thing is, I already had a 60 days streak. So basically every resolution I have is an already existing habit. And people try to start a complete new life just because of a date and then overload instead of going for existing habits. This is why alot of people fail. We instead should concentrate on existing positive habits and pushing away bad habits.
@user-dr3bj5vf6w
@user-dr3bj5vf6w 6 ай бұрын
Could you do a video for people who have sports as goal like becoming a professional basketball player?
@juicethefirst1429
@juicethefirst1429 6 ай бұрын
When you thunk about it this is also a new year resolution
@Wowza45
@Wowza45 7 ай бұрын
Could you make some videos about study strategies and making money?
@Jesuledesmaa
@Jesuledesmaa 7 ай бұрын
Naw ur rlly helping me man but ur right I really need to sacrifice video games it’s the only thing in the way right now but it’s so hard to I was wondering if you have any advice?
@Vnsterr
@Vnsterr 7 ай бұрын
w video bro
@olivianoelle333
@olivianoelle333 7 ай бұрын
Hey would you be open to doing a video on how you quit your job in one year? that’s my priority for this year and would like to gather some insight on it
@Bezaliel-wxy
@Bezaliel-wxy 6 ай бұрын
It’s crazy that it’s been a year and I haven’t gotten so far in my life.
@aaronbobko7040
@aaronbobko7040 7 ай бұрын
Damn alright, guess if it stung it ain’t wrong 😂
@RisingTestostorone
@RisingTestostorone 7 ай бұрын
I've been on my journey for six months ago. I thought this was common sense, me and my friend were on new year but It wasn't enjoyable. The fireworks made me deaf as all of them were in a vicinity of 200 meters or less. Me and my friend were also confused to why everyone was so happy with the new year even tho most of them didn't achieve their goals. Why would anyone want to follow the crowd? You're basically better than them after you work on yourself, if you wanna fit in just don't shove your success in their mouths.
@RisingTestostorone
@RisingTestostorone 7 ай бұрын
Why in the world do people need motivation to not achieve what they want. Visualize yourself with success. If your habit isn't contributing it's holding you back. Btw I didn't know this before but success is exponential not linear. When you follow your tasks indefatigably and you cease every opportunity you're given, you might not even realize you're getting opportunities. You can always do double work, double sleep. You know what do to so work on it and you have to be ok with seeing no progress for a while.
@Midworth
@Midworth 7 ай бұрын
W vid
@That_OneGuy46
@That_OneGuy46 6 ай бұрын
Hi Abraham, I'm on day 4 of 14 and I'm stuck, the prompt asks me to write about what is stopping me from achieving my purpose, but one of the main reasons I joined was to figure out what my purpose is, and this point I'm still not sure. What do you suggest I do?
@mesekkai
@mesekkai 7 ай бұрын
I just want to save 10k this new year...i not even going to try to set anymore goals because i know good as well im not going ti achive them. im not going to lose weight and shit and i know im not going to start drawing everyday and it really really unlikely that i would get a job in my field anyways because the market is ass right now.
@mmx2K
@mmx2K 7 ай бұрын
this video only having 16k views says a lot about society
@dirolawal8415
@dirolawal8415 6 ай бұрын
I wanna know what mr.diop looks like with a fresh retwist
@niom1555
@niom1555 6 ай бұрын
freeforms
@gr8vibes
@gr8vibes 7 ай бұрын
How can we get in contact with you concerning business
@aworthystar
@aworthystar 7 ай бұрын
HI
@noahcole6856
@noahcole6856 6 ай бұрын
Bible
@banayabah
@banayabah 7 ай бұрын
time: 19.44
@zcvbr
@zcvbr 7 ай бұрын
you look like the rapper autumn
@3RINN_06
@3RINN_06 6 ай бұрын
Despite whatever new year resolution we have, no matter how productive or fun of a life we live, not matter how temporarily fulfilled u can be or how successful you are in your own or others eyes, at the end of it we’re gonna meet Christ, and you want to know him b4 hand bc he’s the only true life that will give you peace, true fulfillment, and authentic unconditional love. Nothing in this world can give you that. Also we’re all sinners but God provided a way out, so live your life for Jesus who makes it better and offers forgiveness(not js to go back to the same lifestyle but actually work with him to be better in his sight), and Jesus is the only way to heaven. Not you good works, not if u go to church, not if you believe in God(even demons do tht). But genuinely know and have a relationship with him! CUZ HE LOVES U TO DEATH GIRL/DUDE, LITERALLY TO DEATH!
@KandiKontent
@KandiKontent 6 ай бұрын
✝ amen bro
@user-ws9wf2bp6c
@user-ws9wf2bp6c 6 ай бұрын
My New Year’s resolution is to make a New Year’s resolution for next year. I have used this resolution every year for my entire life. Unlike you i will keep mine.
@ItsTheOfficialDH
@ItsTheOfficialDH 6 ай бұрын
already gave up
@user-lo1cp6se2g
@user-lo1cp6se2g 6 ай бұрын
Are you an Ethiopian?
@Akarionpawz
@Akarionpawz 6 ай бұрын
Bro i got banned on my discord. From ur server. I wasn't trying to be rude or disrespectful, in fact the people were breaking the respectful rule. But i got kicked?
@dzech18
@dzech18 7 ай бұрын
Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.
@-Daily.Bible.Verse1
@-Daily.Bible.Verse1 6 ай бұрын
YOU ALL CAN DO ANYTBING THROUGH CHRIST!!!
@user-wt4ql4kr1w
@user-wt4ql4kr1w 7 ай бұрын
This is just negativity 🤦🏿‍♂️my plans will definitely not fail.
@Blayzerunner
@Blayzerunner 7 ай бұрын
it’s not negativity, it’s the truth. maybe this video doesn’t apply to you (or at least you think it doesn’t) but he’s just explaining the reality of it
@Big-Sexy
@Big-Sexy 7 ай бұрын
It’s not negativity. It’s facts. Go look at how packed every gym is today and see how much emptier it gets every month. Most people with the “new year, new me” mindset aren’t serious about their goals if they had to wait till the new year to start. If you truly feel like you’re hungry for your goals, then this generalization doesn’t apply to you. Just keep working at your goals and keep moving forward if you fall and you’ll be ahead of 90% of the people.
@cayennepeppy
@cayennepeppy 7 ай бұрын
did you even watch the video
@Goldwithelocs
@Goldwithelocs 7 ай бұрын
He’s right yk
@swuffie
@swuffie 6 ай бұрын
there is no shame in going in person to cancel a membership ?? thats a normal occurrence + who knows maybe ur moving to a better gym
@prytud
@prytud 2 ай бұрын
why don't you ever smile ?
@orethiuswrice
@orethiuswrice 7 ай бұрын
new year new me is pretty cliché
@Maria-ni5dx
@Maria-ni5dx 6 ай бұрын
this might be random but. u cute as hell😂
@AljermainePowell-vh6cm
@AljermainePowell-vh6cm 6 ай бұрын
Pretty obvious you consume lots of iman gadzhi content
@ahski6
@ahski6 7 ай бұрын
There’s 2 kinds of people.. People that have goals and people that have expectations, most people have expectations with no work put in calling it a goal which truly isn’t the meaning of “goal” so this video was just a whole bunch on common sense and is mainly for the NPCs that don’t know the difference pretty much a useless vid for most people that have a brain honestly…
@Bodehi_The_Archivist
@Bodehi_The_Archivist 7 ай бұрын
I’ll be coming back to this episode in particular, because you are so fucking articulate and thoughtful and image painting with your words in a style of speech I don’t see very commonly. The way you perfectly described the pain of discipline vs regret, and sacrifice. The way you talk is exciting to me as an aspiring linguist, and the ideas you share will definitely dig into my mind. If they don’t resonate now, they will eventually. You have all my respect and love this new year and beyond, Abraham. One love ❤️ (I hope this is the red heart, my phone is in grayscale lol)
@ahski6
@ahski6 7 ай бұрын
The fact you are so easily convinced into things lol this was all common knowledge even my dog knows.. be like this dude and just use your own brain and collect information for urself plus u know urself better than anyone so it should be easier and effective.. u truly don’t need anyone else giving u this info when u can get it yourself and from yourself..takes a little bit of thought but u got it
@Bodehi_The_Archivist
@Bodehi_The_Archivist 7 ай бұрын
@@ahski6 please reread my comment. There was never a point when I said I never understood a concept, or that I don’t think for myself. Just that I find the way he words things to be interesting and quite imaginative. However, if you truly want to go there; you don’t have any thoughts that could allow you to claim “free thinker,” no thought has ever been yours and it is egotistical and narcissistic to claim that everyone should know themselves because nobody should be anything. There are no roles anyone naturally fits, and everyone can become anything at any time just by internalizing it. Please have a good day and stop spreading negativity to people who enjoy life
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