WIBTA if I left my husband over how he treats my kids?

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16 күн бұрын

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@hitomi94009 14 күн бұрын

NTO! RUN!!! He has become controlling, and it will be dangerous for both your boys and daughter. When he is at work, go to a family member and talk to a lawyer about what is going on. Mention that you worry about the kids' safety and well-being if your husband keeps it up. He will turn your daughter against her half brothers and make her a spoiled, rotten, self-centered pain in the ass if she is allowed to grow up around him and he doesn't change his ways. Your boys will become nothing in that house if corrective measures are not taken immediately!

@Iissad 14 күн бұрын

NTA, he sounds insufferable

@nope-qp2sm 14 күн бұрын

He'll never change. It is ok to have a different relationship with your biological kid than your step kids but this just sounds like he only wants one thing and that's his kid, I don't even think he wants his partner. It sounds like he is a golddigger at best and just uses his partner for children at worst

@suan1 14 күн бұрын

Reminds me of another story where the stepdad lost interest with their stepkids and admited he only wanted to spend time with his bio kids

@sofianemov9469 14 күн бұрын

1st, but other wise, I would be surprised if OP didn't consider this

@chopmoosey17 14 күн бұрын

NTA

@BASIC8584 14 күн бұрын

nta.

@larissagomes451 14 күн бұрын

??? I mean, you have a infant baby now, you will repeat the cicle of bring a random man to the houde and repeat the cicle with them and her? Divorce him, you can date, but don't bring any other men around your children anymore even less to live with you guys.

@troubleinthevalley5884 13 күн бұрын

So she's just supposed to be a single mother the rest of her life because this guy decided to be a douchebag all of a sudden? You're acting like this is her fault. What she needs to do is give this dude an ultimatum and tell him he needs to go to counseling at figure out why he's acting like this towards her kids or she's done. Then if she gets divorced and remarry is that she needs to go to marriage counseling before she marries that dude and probably not have a child with him. If he wants to have a kid with her though they'll probably need more counseling and she'll need to make it very clear that he is not to treat her other kids differently just because they now have a baby. She shouldn't just have to be alone the rest of her life. What would be the point of her just dating if it's not going to go anywhere serious?