Very true

Yes. It's difficult and frustrating.

Also going to the psych ward doesnt cancel jail (unless you're deemed unfit to stand trial but thats another story). When i was in an out of psych wards in the height of my illness i would often see other patients being released to police custody.

I make them regret ever lying about it. No phone no visitor I won't leave the room ever and I ask them if they are suicidal every 15 minutes and when they get annoyed and blow up at me I said I'm sorry sir I take suicidal ideation very seriously and I want to make sure that you don't try to kill yourself on my watch and our policy states that I must check you continuously and ask you every 15 minutes if you're still feeling suicidal so I'm going to keep asking you. Usually when I'm doing their one to one they last about three to six hours with me before they fess up

@@crochetbyterry8655 thats not the right way to handle it.

THANK YOU!!!!

my thoughts exactly

My thoughts too.

💯

But "anything" doesn't include telling the court where he is.

Ever see a cornered cat😉

he has serial killer energy 150%

@doctor duckie1964 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂cornered cat😂😂😂😂😂😂

He needs to be put into a turtle vest for a few days in county so that he can see just how bad life can REALLY suck, sometimes. I understand the fear of jail. I went once in my early 20’s for fighting. Worst 36 hrs of my life. Haven’t had so much as a speeding ticket since, and didn’t have one prior and no other interactions with law enforcement other than that one very stupid decision. Learned my lesson the hard way, but I for sure learned it. My brother was in and out of jail for years for substance issues and multiple traffic violations (suspended license, expired tag, no insurance, stuff like that). The last time he was in he was picked up on a warrant for non-payment of traffic fines and he had a weed pipe on him. That was in January. He was jumped after only being in there for a day and had his arm broken. He was sent to the jail infirmary where someone made the genius idea of putting him in a cell with a schizophrenic, unstable man with a CANE. He nearly beat my brother to death. Fractured his eye socket and he was sent to our local trauma center to have a plate put into his face. He had a traumatic brain injury as well. It not only physically hurt him, it messed him up mentally. He died in a single car accident in which he ran off of the road and the car was engulfed in fire on June 6th. We don’t know if he fell asleep (he was on his way to work at 4am), or if he had a seizure, or if it was intentional and we won’t ever know due to the extent of his injuries. I’ll forever feel like the jail situation killed him, though. He wasn’t a bad guy and he did his best to stay out of trouble. But once all those fines and stuff pile up like his did it’s HARD to get out of that hole, especially when you’re broke. He never had any violent offenses. When he was on probation he stuck to it but eventually went back to weed…This guy claims he will do anything to not go to jail but his actions say otherwise. He reminds me of an abusive partner that threatens to end their life if you want to get out of the relationship.

⁠@@AlaFrigginBamasorry for your family’s loss of your brother 🙏🏼I do believe more attention should be made to keep people separated in jail with mental illness who may harm or kill somebody. We had a case in GA a few years ago-they had just arrested a guy for murder; in his own words on camera he told police and it was on the news “I murdered him for being white” The jail put him in a cell with a white man and he murdered him less than 30 minutes later.

To be fair. Once you lost it all, nothing else matters.

His Facebook profile shows he still lives in Taylor and is in a relationship since 2020…..I don’t get it she has to put up with some nonsense.

Dear god i thought the same thing….i wouldn’t be able to handle this dude for an hour, let alone a week…month…🤦🏼‍♀️

Agree this is screaming narcissist to me

I had to give up watching. He was making me actually angry. I don’t watch tv to be unhappy. 😹 No clue why this idiot bothered me so much more than sov cits or Karens do. I usually only get angry when it is adults hurting children.

I guess you missed the part where he asked her if she was asking these mundane questions because they might be sending someone to his location.

Agree, very manipulative. I hate when ppl say you should be trying “real crimes”, like what he did doesn’t count bc he thinks it doesn’t.

@@chada.bishop307 yet he still continued to talk.

dude it's the craziest thing I've ever seen lol

That's what I was thinking!!

he can't be told no . Imagine how he acts getting caught doing something extreme which I'm sure he's done nothing but for his entire life

I was in Wayne County jail for first time at 17 years old ,straight from juvenile lock up ,it is a dirty shithole,but he's exaggerating 1 billion %.

​@michaelyoung31w11 what city is close to this Wayne County jail?

Constitution be damned, right?

If he is so dangerous surely he needs locked up

100% agree and I'm also a firearm owner.

⁠@@kassiopiajudkins2722Yeah but we don’t let unsupervised 5 year olds have guns, and mentality unstable people shouldn’t either. Some people (like Tim Poole) think taking the 2A literally means anyone should be allowed a nuclear weapon. I think thats crazy. I don’t believe in absolutes or slippery slope arguments, but rather taking into consideration what’s reasonable under the law. We can argue about what’s reasonable, and frankly that’s how it’s supposed to work. It’s the other end of the stick from “zero tolerance” policies that have equally terrible results.

@@kassiopiajudkins2722oh for sure. They only wanna claim the second when it’s good for them.

Uh, his wife had the AUDACITY to leave him just because he had a girlfriend while said wife was pregnant. No biggie. Sickness & health. HOW DARE SHE!!! And besides, it’s not like my wife is even the love of my life. She should be GRATEFUL I even married her. /s

​@@NoName-sd9qc😂😂😂exactly

@@NoName-sd9qc😂😂😂

@@NoName-sd9qcwhere did you get he cheated while she was expecting. No him personally???

Yes, I agree,

He's in the jail that he's begging not to go to. Imagine that guy going back into their pod and telling everyone how this guy acted. He just put a pussy target 🎯 on his back for when he does go to jail.

Exactly

🤭🤭

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

That’s rule #2

I have family members like this.

​@@Sh1tzboutagodown Is rule number 1# "Time is money"?

@@TradBarbie especially with the toots

@@Sh1tzboutagodown toots?

Well gee. People don’t go to jail if they are law abiding people. Prison is awful, say away rom thuggery……

@@ZZ-yw5sh oh yeah the justice system is perfect and no one has ever been put in jail unjustly, also everyone in prison are horrible people who don't even deserve basic medical care. I'm being sarcastic, just letting you know as you seem to struggle to understand simple things.

Is that a don’t so the crime type of motivations speech?

well,. you can thank pos like him that constantly cry wolf and abuse the system and don't need help and harass staff every day, all day ... difficult to know the true victims. It was 25 years ago so that's a stretch to use as an example. I've been to jail a few times. It's not a retreat and meant to be comfortable.. It's supposed to make you never want to ever come back

I wonder why it is so bad? Does that county include Detroit? I live in Memphis, I have never been to jail but ours is a cesspool. Elderly man recently died in our jail. By the time they found him and pulled him out, there were maggots on him. That's so wrong.

😂😂😂

Dude with the beard of the left looks like he has to stop from laughing multiple times

Lmao!!!!!!😂😂😂

This dude is a manipulator. He’s a liar, skips drug test because he’s using drugs that don’t appear after a few days. Lying about killing himself. Blaming everything around him for his issues.

He isn't fit for a society with laws 😂

Helps the guy is an idiot who lives off of others pity.

Like I’m sure once you ask him about any hardships past or present it would be exceedingly difficult to get him to shut his mouth. He LIVES to talk about how much his life SUCKS. He clearly THRIVES off of making company in his misery. insufferable.

Problem is there are people that will kill themselves to avoid jail. Sometimes it's truly hard to tell the difference between them and a manipulative person.

That’s it very manipulative and entitled. He expects to be let off because he has a loss. Many people have loss. I’m sorry to say this because I have experienced depression and suicide in my family , it makes me so mad to see him use that as a way out of trouble. “I’m suicidal unless you let me out of my jail sentence “ wow

It wouldn't matter to me either way if he followed through with it. Narcissistic manipulators like him do nothing good for anything except well.... Manipulate people to avoid accountability. As the story went on the b.s. just got deeper.

I kept yelling at the screen (in the voice of Jim Carrey from Liar, Liar) STOP BREAKING THE LAW!!!!

Anything but that!

Nobody cares.

Noo, that doesn't work for him... he wants to be left Alone

​@donnalynn2 "stop breaking the law asshole"

Yeah he's a trash human being imo. He's trying to get out of consequences.

💯 agreed

Yeah the empathy here seems weird, maybe I’m a bad person though lol

I am not psychic, but I feel You are correct. I was in a relationship with someone who would do this. Apparently she kept it up. Two ex husbands and she still hasn’t followed through. Cause it’s a manipulation tactic, not a true ideation.

He’s obviously faking! The manipulation and anger are just below the surface and come out clear as day when he gets frustrated. It’s extremely EXTREMELY obvious

He’s having a psychotic break. His intelligence may make people believe he’s being manipulative. You’re very, very wrong.

@@indirastone7382 Hahahaha No he isn’t! He’s completely coherent and cognizant of everything he’s doing. He isn’t showing any clear signs of psychosis. But he’s showing many many clear signs of manipulation

@@WoodlandT Sadly, a lot of what he’s saying is true. Some of these cases are over minor things and the people get stuck in the people loop because they don’t have the necessary life skills to be functional in society.

@@indirastone7382 he’s not that bad; I genuinely feel like the court was going a little too hard on him

He literally quoted the movie!

I agree. I think some old mushrooms were eaten.

It’s definitely not a crime to “just get drunk”. He did something.

Darn!!! Should I have been drinking and going insane too? I'm a lefty 🙂

It means he is using his "right" brain...

I am a lefty.. maybe I am insane and never knew it. 😂

It's kinda true. A lot of ppl with higher IQ's have mental health issues and more left handed ppl are diagnosed with psychotic disorders.... So he's not wrong

I'm 20 mins in and that's EXACTLY my take on this. Unfortunate that the judge has to take his threats seriously for fear of being held responsible

Absolutely!! He sure loves himself! A.K.A. extreme insecurity! He is secretly hoping for a Oscar nomination. Unfortunately he's a HUGE hypocrite, when it comes to his so called faith! 😖

How accurate!

Alternatively, he's bipolar in the middle of a manic episode, and when he crashes into depression, it's going to be problematic.

I hate this guy

SAME!!!!! 💀 🐜 🐜 🐜

She kept looking at her phone likely with a crisis counselor and the sheriff. They are telling her to stall and giving her advise what to say. She's a smart lady anyways

That would be hard being that he doesn’t stfu about himself 😆

Ya she didnt have to say much lol he kept blabbering on and on.

Right we now know DeSanto likes word searches and isn’t good at crosswords. 😂 I feel like I should send her a word search as a gift for putting up with this nonsense. 😂😂😂

He kind of is. The laugh I let out @ “I’m an ant & you’re trying to squish me” 😂

I was thinking the same thing

He'll probably see him as soon as he's booked lmao

He is so into it 😂

The judge will probably go easy on him since he will be a breath of fresh air after this nightmare 😂

Exactly. This seems to have been lost on the self aggrandizing manipulator.

My guess is that it is usually in relationships to get out of their partner leaving them. That is a narcissists most common arena of abuse

At Thanksgiving one year my brother’s son in law, a manipulative loser, tried to pull the “I’m going to kill myself and you’ll all have blood on your hands” tactic and stormed out the door. My brother was married to the queen of all drama queens that’s a master manipulator too and has two stepdaughters following closely on her heels. My brother had seen it all and knows a bluff and manipulation when he sees it. He just went outside and told the guy “Dude, you seriously think that’s gonna work here? You think everybody in that house hasn’t tried that too? Come back inside and have some pie and calm the F down.”

I'd bet the farm he throws the "it's all your fault so now I'm gonna commit suicide" card several times a day. Here. I'll diagnose you for free, and I am an rn with psyche experience. You are a terribly entitled young man who would rather blame everyone and anyone for all your mistakes and flip the responsibility to the innocent involved so that you aren't required to do anything to correct your situation. You are a narcissist. You are using that young lady's death to gain yourself sympathy so that, once again, you are never required to clean up your own mess. It's embarrassing to listen to you refer to her initially as "a friend" to elevate her to your wife in an attempt to gain more sympathy. You need to do some serious soul searching and determine why you are so comfortable living this way. My daughter died when she was 2. I became suicidal. No one knew. And I have to live with that. I TRIED TO DIE. NO ONE DROVE ME TO IT. IT WAS ALL MINE, NO ONE ELSES. Let that woman rest in peace and grow the f up

Truth!

He can be both suicidal and manipulative, I don't know why people think its one or the other. Suicidal people, or mentally I'll people in general, aren't necessarily good people, or honest. But their Illness is real nonetheless, even if they are using it for leverage (and obviously he should be held accountable for it, to the extent of his competency). While he is 100% manipulative, MANY traits he exhibits are consistent with severe mental illness. Doesn't mean we have to like it, or him. Excuse my French but he's a cunt. But that doesn't change the fact he needs help.

Exactly. he doesn't want to lose his high.

He lost the love of his life? A minute ago he described her as his friend's sister. All while his wife is pregnant with his first child. He jumped to this so quick he has absolutely used it before.

Agree, this whole thing bothered me. I get that the judge has to okay this game but this guy knows that and is just being a brat.

She’s a pro I’ve seen her before handle a situation like that.

It’s sad , because she clearly has no proper education,Or training, to realize, this is probably a misdiagnosed autistic adult. Those who have proper education and training, can recognize the masking going on here , the crisis this will cause , the desperation, etc. Unfortunately, even those performing the testing, are using outdated criteria, misinformation, and stereotypes.

​​@@tastyrecipesonabudget1689My son has Autism, but it doesn't make me any more of an expert over the next person bc every Autistic person is different. I also have 22 yrs in the field of nursing & even though I don't have a MD Bipolar with mania sounds about right. Did you not listen to his high risk history & so much more, but will leave it at that. She doesn't need to be trained on Autism bc she is so well educated that she managed to get him the mental healthcare he needs. Later, she can handle what she's truly "educated on," which is punishing him for the crime/s he was charged with. Idc what your diagnosis is, we ALL have to abide by the laws & when we don't there are consequences.

@@tastyrecipesonabudget1689 of course not, she went to law school not medical school. He threatened his life though and she has to take that seriously regardless of how serious you may think the threat is. If she had brushed it off and he did end up doing something then she would be held liable.

@@tastyrecipesonabudget1689no matter the diagnosis, people can’t go around breaking laws or hurting others. I don’t know the circumstances bringing this guy to court but the statement still stands true. Consequences happen when you don’t follow the law. Autistic or not.

He sounds like my ex-husband. The pure manipulation is disgusting.

Yup... It was setting me off. I mean right down to the "I make all this money I give it away to everyone, no body respects all that I do for everyone" ... The church stuff, the drinking, the sense of self importance, the circular arguments, the absolute exhaustion of listening to this guy was staggering.

​@@c_me_now*hugs* I understand completely. They can do a number on ya for sure.

My god yes, this is my ex, especially whenever I tried to leave. My skin is crawling.

Yes

Yeah but he makes shit tons of money

NARCISSIST

It's way simpler than that 😅. He's worried about being separated from his dope in jail.

100 per cent disrespectful. i saw the same thing

Yep he only turned on the crazy when he learned he was going to jail

You may have a mental illness, but it doesn't make you a expert on others..

As someone with mentally ill family members, they can be pretty manipulative even if it isnt their intention exactly. He is definitely being manipulative and i agree hes doing it to avoid jail. Something about him is definitely off though

I think he’s entitled and used to getting what he wants

What's ISP?

Very interesting, I was curious how they could find him

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She definitely did a great job. Especially knowing how strict she gets. Despite a lot of us thinking he was manipulating the situation she just conducted a master class in deescalation.

@@SergeantsTimeF3 Well, she did manipulate him but thats what you're supposed to do. She was rockstar today, hope she had a stiff drink after.

Sounds like she done this before.

She did an amazing job ❤💯

Adding his bill up

He will do ANYTHING!!! Except doing what he was ordered to do in order not to go to jail!!!!

I totally agree he was being a child, but is there really any point in 1-7 days in jail ? Surely the bureaucracy isn't really worth it

The way he describes the jail does sound really horrifying though. 😳

If you watch enough true crime, you would know the symptoms. This guy talks about his self too much for me to believe he hates himself and wants to die. But like you said there is a possibility.🤦🏻‍♀️

Also, sorry for you loss. It’s a heart breaking experience to lose someone to suicide. 💔

You are right. I am sorry for your loss, to lose two brothers has to be one of the hardest pains to deal with. I lost my father to suicide so I always take any declaration of suicidal intentions extremely serious. This guy reminds me of my son who due to frying his brain chemistry on drugs has been diagnosed with schizoeffective disorder. It's so frustrating when he uses claims of being suicidal as an attention seeking mechanism. One thing that has helped was one time he was doing that and I called 911, he got put on a 72 hr hold. Since then he actually makes a point of stating he is not suicidal. Though I know how he is I still would not ignore any claims of being suicidal. I wish folks could understand it's never something to ignore.

Maybe a user name coolant too? Sick in the head. All for attention

Keep that chin up!

😔

Not one person handles trauma or grief the same as others. Everyone is different. If there’s mental health issues there and then trauma or grief it is often fuel to the fire. He is very twisted confused and i believe pretty honest though manipulative. Jail for people w mental illness depending on there issues can be suicidal. It’s happened many times. The weak get taken advantage of our beaten. His charge was so minor im surprised it’s went this far tbh. He 100% needs mental health treatment. That i agreed w. He needs to learn coping skills and rational logical thinking. I’m sorry for what you’ve had to go through, staying strong through it. Sadly not everyone can and we should empathize w them bc they need help. Ive struggled through tragic loss and addiction. We all handle it differently. Stay strong and keep pushing through💪

@Tread1775 I always admire people who can withstand the storms of life with strength and Grace. Life can be really difficult. Sometimes I surprise myself with how strong I can be but other times I feel like a total mess LOL. I hope things are looking up for you!

I can tell your strong because your profile pic and name is Tread1775. No weakling understands and embraces these things! Good ol Marvin should’ve just reinforced those dang hyde lines!

Great point!

^^^^^^^ 100% Truth!!

Emotional extortion.

I think he had a royal crush on his best friend's sister and thought she was the love of his life. But she didn't love him and married someone else. Then she died.

@@magi267yeah I’m confused to, he talked about that day and says she kept texting him to come home, which leads me to believe they lived together.. unless he’s just that manipulative that he thought ahead and added that in as a supporting statement to why he was so upset and it was the love of his life.. then again I’m only about 10 mins in or so

​@@KMassey24 In Part 2 he admits he lied about not being at the home, he was there the whole time as she ODed. It was her condo and he moved in with her after his own wife kicked him out of the house and filed a PPO due to his increasingly erratic behavior. He's incredibly manipulative

Junkies going to junkie things

​@@KhajitRugCompanyWhich explains why the police listed him as a suspect. Thanks for the back history.

I see it as his respect for the Judge, not interfering with her control over her court proceedings.

The judge probably sent the lawyer a message the instant the guy threatened to kill himself. She needed to keep him talking and keep him on the line, which is why no one is saying anything but the judge and this man.

I would like to think the lawyer saw that his client needed to be put into a mental institution or whatever.

It’s pretty clear they’re all just deferring to her to handle this situation. She may have communicated with the lawyer and let him know her plan. But it’s pretty obvious what she’s up to to everyone except Anthony. Give a narcissist a platform and the sense they may be getting their way and they’ll do exactly what he’s doing

At this point his lawyer can tell him to shut up. By it has gone to far him to stop.

I believe the lawyer knew they were tracking him down to go and get him. He definitely has issues and needs more than jail time to fix it. He is headed to jail

​@@jodeming5088Yea I was thinking about that. Could they track down his phone though?

@@lynnvh5445probably ip address

@@lynnvh5445They either tracked him down using his IP address or started visiting hotels one by one.

I’m thinking wow my case should be a piece of case after this guy, lol

If they get to listen... this is a lesson of How Not to Act, and Consequences of Your Actions lol

I dont. They get to get out of the boring nature of jail and watch some entertainment for an hour or 2 before going back to the cell block and telling everyone what happened

I'm trying to figure out how they are able to keep a straight face through this whole thing.

For lol kinda hard to describe what its like going to court while in custody lol the same person goes from thinking court is the worst and most boring and least entertaining thing ever, to being the most exiting moment of their life

I love that the defense attorney is basically like “Weeeellllpppppp can’t put out this dumpster fire. Might as well research the other cases on my Docket.” Bro’s so done

Thank you! I thought I recognized that. Odd how quoting movies doesn't seem to help...

And it’s only getting worse.

Guilty of what? Did you even connect that all he did was get drunk once and call police on himself? Is that really so awful he needs to be in jail? If you were representing people I sure hope you used a bit more critical thinking.

​@@happyhatter are you this guy? Cuz you know that isn't the whole story.

I experienced this the same way you did. I fell for his antics at first but as time went on I saw malignant covert narcissism… master manipulator. He is very good & rotten to the core.

May I suggest watching Hg Tudor, seeing as you volunteer at a call centre. He will help you spot the signs. Brilliant.

Why do people always confuse mental illness with straight up addiction?

Yes I think the fact that he’s still not taking off and isn’t able to realize they are definitely sending someone seems manic to me.