12 Ways to go from Unrefined and Crass to an ELEGANT LADY

12 Ways to go from Unrefined and Crass to an ELEGANT LADY | Stop these Crass Behaviours Now!

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Жыл бұрын

In this video, we're going to talk about 12 ways you can go from a crude and unrefined person to an elegant lady. By identifying and changing these Crass Behaviours now, you can start to transform the way you look and feel.
If you're unhappy with the way you look and feel, then this video is for you! By the end of this lesson, you'll know how to start changing the way you look and feel, and you'll be on your way to becoming an elegant lady! So don't wait any longer, start watching and transformation begins!
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@hollydewbean3248 Жыл бұрын

Your dress code is your personal commercial. It tells the world who you are & how you want to be treated. First impressions are important.

@JENNICOKOJIE Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 👍

@zodwamabaso7477 10 ай бұрын

I wish I can turn back the clock,Sisi Vivian ❤😢

@lashaythestrange 8 ай бұрын

Fun fact: it takes 20 additional interactions with a person to undo a bad first impression.

@mofimTV 11 ай бұрын

1. Tact: behaving with sensitivity,considerate, not talk about something's at dinner or funerals 2. Emotional Intelligence: empathy understanding others point of view 3. Speak with courtesy: politeness 4. Practice kindness 5. Practice level headedness. Avoid confrontation and arguments 6 Don't talk about your achievements 7. Correct etiquette and social rules: table manners, phone manners no yelling no multiple rings, don't spend on people paying, use your earphones, don't click thru their phones, take your leave, respect personal space and boundaries, don't screaming the street, inappropriate 8. Respect yourself 9. Practice self confidence not arrogance by contentment 10. Practice self control and Ctrl your emotions et sont allow to dictate. 11. Elegance online: discreet 12. Be authentic

@edoboleyn 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! ❤

@realpristine Жыл бұрын

As a flight attendant, I noticed that there are so many people who lack empathy. One passenger is annoyed that their missing a vacation , while the other is going to a funeral, another has a fear of flying. So many emotions/ energy trapped on a small plane, it would be nice if people were more considerate of others 🥹

@marciajohnson1825 11 ай бұрын

I think that's the main point of practicing empathy, etc, and incorporating the behaviours mentioned in this video. If we are considerate and controlled in our our behaviour as our way of life, it would stop the inconsiderate assumptions that one could arrive at in such a setting as was mentioned.

@claudialartey8020 Жыл бұрын

A gentle answer turns away wrath But harsh words Stir up anger. Godly wisdom

@curiousdls34 Жыл бұрын

Proverbs! ❤

@minkyann8132 Жыл бұрын

I'm teaching my 12 yo niece how to be elegant using your videos. She remembers it and practices it. 🙂

@aprilgrant1957 Жыл бұрын

There is hope for the future.

@sherileenlambert2784 11 ай бұрын

That's so lovely. Your neice will remember your input!😊

@Tracey_M Жыл бұрын

Let me say that you are soft spoken and polished.Whenever I listen to you not only do I master elegance, but also add something to my vocabulary. Thanks for wholesome content

@Josephine2.0 Жыл бұрын

So true!

@bethsullivan6543 Жыл бұрын

You absolutely GLOW! Would you consider doing a makeup tutorial? You skin is flawless, your foundation is perfect, and your eyeshadow is to die for.

@SuperMalikaz Жыл бұрын

So sweet🥰

@rebeccaowowa4312 Жыл бұрын

I Agree with you 101% my dear, this makeup is sleek like satin. 👌👌👌 As in it's milky

@boldnbeauitful Жыл бұрын

@@rebeccaowowa4312it's actually called a dewy look

@jamarlblackett7663 11 ай бұрын

The Skin can be Flawless, Without Makeup

@SHeri837 Жыл бұрын

I love your voice when you say, “Point number one!” It makes me sit up straight and listen! 😅❤

@ConstantCompanion Жыл бұрын

I love this. I am so happy that the youngers, like you, are discarding the crap that those before you thought was cool. It's not cool. It's crappy. Manners arent boring. It isn't mundane. Style is not mundane. It is actually the profound and the exceptional. Congratulations for catching this while you are young enough to enjoy its future fruits.

@rishikasarma9577 Жыл бұрын

Miss Vivian, Can you make a video on how we can practice elegance while being a college student? Because as a student we are in budget, have to study and to manage clubs societies, live in dorm. It would be really helpful if you could make a video on it😊❤

@honeybunny_2023 Жыл бұрын

My humble request too

@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын

When I was in college decades ago, we all practiced elegance. It was a private college and most of us were from affluent families. It's really how you carry yourself. I notice young women curse alot in public. F bombs left and right. Not a good look. Also dress more modest. Showing too much skin actually puts women at risk. "Fo real".

@starrjohnson1327 Жыл бұрын

@@danilaroche1156I went to a private college too. Our deans always told us to resist foul language, keep our rooms and appearance neat and be kind.

@aeiou0123 Жыл бұрын

@@starrjohnson1327same here.

@aeiou0123 Жыл бұрын

As a student, wear clean, ironed clothes, carry yourself well (meaning, shower daily, smell nice, be polite n kind, arrive to places ontime, smile n exude confidence). Be well-read, n learn about worldly topics, still hangout with friends at bars, clubs, to be socially intelligent but dress classy. With time it bcomes part of you

@ohsostylish60 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making the world a better place through your messages, Vivienne ❤

@KL-co4mg 17 күн бұрын

Vivian, by a landslide you are the most gracious lady I have EVER seen! Thank you so much for sharing your insight and wonderful personality ❣️

@bellathereader1328 Жыл бұрын

This is genius, thank you!! Forget the woke agenda and just implement these principles. It's all about respect of ourselves and of others...

@halcyondays8945 Жыл бұрын

“Wokeness” aka “treating everyone with respect and dignity” is a cornerstone of elegance. They aren’t opposites as your comment suggests

@starchildofthe90s7 10 ай бұрын

Such a gorgeous woman thanks for taking time to create this space.

@gthomas3609 Жыл бұрын

As a white American who is tired of race baiting and hoaxes, I absolutely adore the beautiful melenated faces in elegant clothing 💜

@divinelynaptural Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate this video and your channel. If you meant to do this or not, there is so much BIBLICAL WISDOM for women here. I feel like I'm listening to the book of Proverbs when I listen to you.

@briscoe4365 11 ай бұрын

I look forward to every video. ❤

@robinz.6556 Жыл бұрын

This video is pure gold! Every lady can benefit from these pearls of wisdom. Thank you!

@Christimony222 11 ай бұрын

I love channels like this. So important. Thank you.

@JesusTheMightyGodMinistries Жыл бұрын

This is such a God given anointing on you. You do it so perfectly with such elegance and you carry yourself so graciously. I am happy to see the Lord Jesus behind it all who has given you the wisdom to put together well thought out points for each video. May the Lord continue to bless you always.

@natchasolutions8908 Жыл бұрын

So wonderful. Thank you. I applaud your poise, class, elegance, sophistication , flawlessness in character, beauty and diction. Excellence at its peak. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 11 ай бұрын

Your videos are always very helpful. I simply enjoy them! Thank you.

@chideraogbata3123 11 ай бұрын

“How you speak to people is just as important as what you want to say “

@Haya_0707 10 ай бұрын

I’ve watched your videos again and again and again and I still love them. It’s not easy to transform in flick of a finger but these reminders keep me in check and it somehow reminds me to sit up straight and the rest follows. You truly are such an inspiration to many women. And these topics align with my religion as well so it’s not difficult at all to apply. Because Islam is all about modesty and respect for self and others. Keep up your empowering work my dear Vivian. And may God bless you in it. Bunches of love❤️🌹

@mariamnur3992 Жыл бұрын

Hello dear , this vedio is the summery of all . Previously i wasn't that much of elegant. I dressed up modestly but didn't understand which style will go with me. I had some etiquette issues. Last 8-9 months now I'm studying on elegence , manarism , classy & timeless fashion, values & so on. And yes, the results are showing now. I'm more confident & beautiful than before . We wants more vedios from you.

@bonniehafeman9757 Жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful lady. Thanks. Amen.

@paulinebrough9915 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Vivian!

@AnastasiaEs. Жыл бұрын

This was a great video. I'm so happy I discovered your channel; your content is amazing!❤

@mnameno7713 Жыл бұрын

I found this video incredible thank you so much for your effort

@Dr_Rina Жыл бұрын

I am really impressed by your teaching. ❤it has been of help to me for some time now. May God 🙏 continue to enrich you 💕 with more wisdom. 🎉

@hollydewbean3248 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Vivian. I need your videos to help keep my self in check.

@CoilyCode Жыл бұрын

Beautiful and practical!

@mermaid2605 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely STUNNING skin! WOW! Beautiful!

@naomykinyoro107 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the lessons. Very informative.

@boldnbeauitful Жыл бұрын

Love love love this entire look definitely giving classy

@user-jo5bl5jy4y Жыл бұрын

Yes! I have benefited from your points.

@EditorSJ 2 ай бұрын

Vivienne, your hair looks especially beautiful and elegant worn in an updo! It complements and balances your facial bone structure. Its great that there are casual styles AND dressy evening styles as you are wearing here, that can look lovely with both street and evening attire. Hope to see you use this type of hairstyle much in the future!

@mlowe7245 Жыл бұрын

Thank you this video was so on point!.

@MayaHendsenmayajs19442 Жыл бұрын

Another excellent video. I love your eyeshadow

@jozyaidoo4790 Жыл бұрын

Finally the video I've been waiting for

@deborahajibade-bi9yp Жыл бұрын

For another blessing, thank you ma!

@virginiawomack7167 Жыл бұрын

As always, an excellent video. Thank you.

@m.s9146 Жыл бұрын

Excellent review of the basics.

@rosiesullivan2604 Жыл бұрын

Excellent advice 😊 thanks for the video everything that was mentioned was crucial essential and keep bad behaviour in check. In the old days young ladies used to go to Finishing School and given all your gracious advice plus how to walk properly good posture how to get out of a car how to entertain more or less most of the issues you've covered on other videos all totally correct.❤😂 keep up the good work brilliant job. You made me smile 😊😊

@oyinemaria1940 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sis, as always.

@estherasubonteng3594 Жыл бұрын

Vivian you are glowing. Keep it up.

@HumanbeingonfloatingEarth Жыл бұрын

Love your channel Vivienne❤

@Rachkissa Жыл бұрын

Thank you Vivian I've learnt alot

@user-oj9ss3im9y Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I love your videos 🙂

@KhosiF Жыл бұрын

You are such a shining light and so generous with your pearls of wisdom. I enjoy and learn so much from your videos and I am deeply grateful for holding the space for all of us…..sending so much love and light your way Vivian❤️😘

@angelaalbuquerque9897 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful words of wisdom! Thank you🙏🏻

@happinessenetak Жыл бұрын

This was very impactful, thank you.

@Hairicane77 Жыл бұрын

One of your best videos so far. 😊

@chinenyeokoye4651 Жыл бұрын

God bless you for always dishing out wisdom

@obianujueze9381 Жыл бұрын

Thanks 👍 keep the ball rolling

@claudiar1041 11 ай бұрын

Great video! Thanks for sharing 👏👏👏

@2m.channel794 Жыл бұрын

Learning en relearning,such a master piece ✅

@heidi770 Жыл бұрын

Excellent content! Thank you very much.

@juliansinyaku7155 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Vivienne, you don't how much you are helping 🎉❤.

@rebeccadrummond8859 Жыл бұрын

Thanks. I enjoyed tbis video very much.

@happygirl4218 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. The way you convey the information is very helpful. You're calm and straightforward, but compassionate.

@oluwoletosin4817 4 ай бұрын

Wow. Thank you Vivian❤

@marvawiebe4364 7 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated wisdom!

@lovesmith1489 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. I have shared your Woman of Elegance platform with some women in my church. Your hair looks pretty up nice change.

@Naymichelle76 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this information.

@sassyperry6382 Жыл бұрын

So gorgeous, elegant, and refined!

@LillyRichards Жыл бұрын

Very informative. Thank you

@claudiamoreau2434 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing ❤

@charlytigress6944 Жыл бұрын

Just started my journey with this channel and I'm happy so far 🤗

@Doll-Angel Жыл бұрын

God Bless You and video is very helpful.

@therealcraftymom10 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for these uploads.

@sassyperry6382 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Vivienne!!!

@kemunto_crochet Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much you have helped me a lot in my journey

@chimamiriam8479 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for always 🙏 I learn alot from you ☺️

@criv_clothing Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Ma’am…. I’m glad I came across your channel

@andreajedlohorova6234 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your wonderfull videos!

@user-kf5kt7op9u 10 ай бұрын

Beautiful. Thank you so very much.

@nicoleebagot6241 Жыл бұрын

I am unsure if you have a school yet but please do expand. This is both good for individuals and a cultural community. Flawless reminders for myself on a daily basis. Cannot say how much value these videos are especially the one about affordable functional wardrobe.

@martinabodisova5448 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@SecretsofTarot777 5 ай бұрын

Great tips, thanks for sharing!

@dwhitneybaby Жыл бұрын

I needed this refresh and reminder. I have admittedly let things slide.

@patiencepaintsil3050 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Viv 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

@bernadettehof5878 Жыл бұрын

Awesome , Bless you ❤

@mavoolumma Жыл бұрын

Been waiting for a video from my favorite KZfaqr, you never disappoint Viv 😊

@sukiemurphy862 7 ай бұрын

Such good advice for young ladies! Thank you so much for all your words of wisdom !

@joyamenpryce8979 11 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for your informative and inspiring information. I do love ❤️ and appreciate your advice 👍.

@sulusu4812 Жыл бұрын

Ladies, & any men reading this: ✨ you. matter. ✨ So very much.

@winfridahbanda5739 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Vivian ❤️

@kamusimepromise768 Жыл бұрын

I love this lady ooh my God thanks for sharing this amazing information

@mercydienye2532 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Ma'am This video has really been helpful.

@marymaddy7450 Жыл бұрын

Thank you my beautiful sister for sharing these motivational and inspirational tips. May God bless you 🙏🏾❤❤.

@maureenrugona1341 2 ай бұрын

I love this. Well done Viv.

@delanehopkins8333 Жыл бұрын

This is so needed. I do hope others seek this helpful information. My mom passed these golden nuggets to me as a child and I have tried to do the same for my children. God bless you ❤

@olujumokeogunrayi1446 Жыл бұрын

I just so much love listening to you Vivian. Thanks for sharing these wonderful tips about elegance

@gracemukemba6330 Жыл бұрын

Thank you somach for your Beautiful advies

@kemostically 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing

@rajyavardhanshetty6463 8 ай бұрын

Like your videos...they are much needed for our over all development

@allurekids4545 Жыл бұрын

❤be tactful. Consider if your words would affect the feelings of the other ❤show empathy Be in the shoes and see from the other person's view. ❤watch your tone... Your tone carries more message than words ❤ practice kindness in words and actions ❤ practice level headed ness. Avoid drama/confrontation ❤ Be civil and cordial with someone else ❤be respectful no matter how young,old ,rich or connected someone is. ❤ practice self confidence not over confidence and arrogance ❤Let others tell about how good you are.be content. ❤master self control don't let your emotions control you. ❤ practice elegance online,cross checking.don't be an open book. ❤be authentic.set boundaries.your happiness should not be at another person's comfort. ❤