I’ve never had a date where I’ve said “I’ve learned so much from you”. She must be going on dates and preaching her values and her insight on things instead of simply having a conversation.

She's freaking out becauses they always say that before skipping out on her. "Youve taught me so much..." reall means: "about you, and that's more than enough, bye!"

If she doesn’t want to teach men why is she lecturing men?

For a guy to say..."You taught me a lot"...usually means this woman was running her mouth the entire time without asking him any questions or showing interest in him whatsoever. She obviously got triggered and felt some type of way about it. This is a guilty conscience response. She didn't view it as a compliment because it is a subtle reminder of a character trait she has. She's self absorbed.

I had a serious relationship with a woman that would pick apart everything I ever said to her, not because she actually took my words the wrong way, she knew exactly what I meant, but because she thought it was good to “keep me on my toes.” It was a game to her. She thought it was fun and humorous. I told her it was rude, extremely disrespectful and that I wouldn’t tolerate it. She didn’t understand. She couldn’t wrap her head around the fact that our relationship wasn’t a game to me. She turned out to be one of the worst things that ever happened to me.

Dating social media is so negative constantly. Really glad I found this channel.

Growing on my 20s, women used to tell me i wasn't financially there to commit into a relationship. Last day i saw a girl complaining about guys on their 30s not knowing relationship skills. It's a check mate, we're just never enough

If she’s so easily triggered by that, she should definitely stay single. She already sounds like a pain in the ass to be around. 😅

A little child threw a tantrum. The child wanted a toy. The parents reluctantly purchased the toy. Upon receiving the toy, to the dismay of the parents, the child began to complain about the toy. 😆 Some people never grow up.

In this instance, “You’ve taught me so much” translates to “you have so many issues, I’m going to pass now before I incur additional damages.”

Imagine going on a date and getting lectured from the moment you meet until the date ends. Let me guess, she's still single.

When a guy says you taught me a lot, he was politely saying you have too many red flags and oftentimes the features like nails and hair can tell you who those women are from a distance. Regardless, if women are teachers why are the vast majority of teachers in public schools women in the vast majority of kindergarten and preschool teachers women? Of course they aren't teachers of special skills but they sure can keep the attention of a child far better than a man who has things to get done

When you said “If you’re not their first choice.. then why be one at all?”. That shit really struck a chord with me after being rejected by a women I was crazy over. I can’t settle for less.. and I won’t. Thanks Courtney.

She lacks emotional maturity. She has no business being angry about something so stupid. I grew up around people with terrible anger issues, some even bipolar. It's unsustainable. People who are emotionally immature at a late age behave this way because they're around submissive people who are willing to put up with it for a long time, and the emotionally immature people feel validated by their behavior because no one calls them out on it or they retreat to the people who keep putting up with it. Some day, when they decide to go on one of their fits, they'll do it to the wrong person at the wrong time. Not everyone puts up with others' behavior the way you expect.

I worked in a restaurant for and there were guests who were extremely miserable. I could tell before they got food that nothing we do will be good enough. When the family came with out that person it was a night and day difference

Well I didn’t experience this as a boyfriend but as a husband from my ex wife. When I would ask if she can make dinner she said I’m not your maid, or your mother. When I was trying to understand certain things, she would say I don’t need to explain it to you like if your a little kid. But yeah there is certainly some resentment going on with that woman you showed.

“I’m GOING to lose my mind?” Honey, it’s gone already. Elvis has left the building.

This kinda stuff happened to me yesterday. I was flirting with a gal, her nonverbal communication said "i like whats happening right now" yet she kept saying "hahaha youre such a jerk hehehehe." I asked why she said that and she said she didn't mean it and i should know what she thinks from her actions. I asked her to stop calling me a jerk then she just kept doing it. I even repeated asking her to stop calling me a jerk. Needless to say I won't be talking to her again but why did she keep being insulting after being told about it explicitly? Why are women ok with expressing contradictions? (Hint for the ladies being confusing makes good men run)

Your channel had helped me so much since my seperation with my ex. Been dating and have had many first dates. Recently started dating someone and my healthy mindset has been because of you and she really appreciates that about me. So thank you.

Women are here to make us better men. My grandmother, my mother, my daughters, and the women I call friends have all helped to become not just a better man, but a better human being.

The “Pardon my lack of grace” comment has gotta be the funniest thing I ever heard you say since I started watching your channel 😂😂😂

When people look for the negativity in life, eventually that will be all they will see. I was like that and then I changed my perspective on life to look for the good. Life is so much better now. Never been married but I do believe that a spouse should be a partner to learn from to better themselves and the relationship, that goes both ways.

Taught him so much about what he doesn't like in a woman. From looking at her face and demeanor, that's what I call a teachable moment. Her voice is like nails on a chalkboard. 😆

Courtney, it takes alot more energy to be negative, than to have a healthy positive outlook. This world is gravitating towards alot of insecure unhappy people. They need to get their emotions in order, and step back. I met a woman online, and when we met, it appeared to be a good interaction. After we parted, I texted her that I found her conversation quite stimulating, and she replied " OMG, you are wayyy over the top for me, I'll have to move on". We have to be mindful of who we interact and potentially date. On a happy note, what a great start to your day, Teddy doing such nice gestures for you. A great husband/partner, and a cute cat (Bisquit). Life is good for you!

Wisdom again from Courtney - respect! You’re so right to say avoid this type. My first wife was like that in some ways “damned if I do; damned if I don’t” kinda existence is no way to live

I have definitely learned some things from this channel but the organized and articulate delivery helped me visualize and effectively comprehend. Deep thanks for the content of your channel.

I had a date recently tell me that I ", asked too many personal questions" too soon. Im confused. Is talking about political views, wanting kids in the future too personal? I personally wouldn't see the difference between the first date vs the 3-5th. Also. Why would you wait or waste 2-5 years of your life when you could have saved yourself so much time. Lmk. Thank you.

It's like saying "Look at me because I'm beautiful! But stop looking at me that way!!!"

“I’ve learned so much from you" is man speak for "bloody hell, stay away from me, I don't ever want to speak to or see you again.". Bunny boiler territory.

Your deconstruction of that blasphemous and ignorant person's video was right on. I've been married for 34 years, and one of the key things we've both done is overlook the faults and mistakes of each other and looked to encourage, edify and find what's RIGHT about each other.

Courtney I do have to say that while I am not actively looking for a partner, over the past 6 months or so of watching you I have really gained a lot of context for this type of thing. Thanks for all the videos you made! 🙌

A big issue that I've noticed is that there are many people out here who are trying to find a partner, but have not healed from a previous trauma. These people need therapy so they can actually be ready to be in a relationship.

*I was the date. I told Sourino I learned so much from her. But one thing she missed or she missed to add was my wink at the end.* 😂

Key phrase. There are always people who want the drama/ chaos/wanting to be mad. I made it a point to stay away from that toxicity. Unfortunately, or fortunately that also meant that I have less and less friends. Do we need context? I think we've heard enough to stay away from a person like this regardless of context

"Energy Vampire". WOW! I can relate! Love this term.

I am looking for a woman who is intellectually stimulating for me. It's a deal breaker for me if she is not. I hope to be the same for that woman. I hope to continue to teach as well as learn.

This is one of the things that make dating difficult for me. In additon to being shy and quiet, for most of my life I haven't had much experience being with a woman. I have been with women but they have been VERY far and VERY few in between. I'm talking years. I'm just afraid that if I do open up to a girl she'll be like "I am not going to be your teacher." (Or something like that.)

I loved your video Courtney with you dealing with an open heart with your lovely message and how negative some people can be and how to heal and get rid of all negative things! Thank you sooo much!🌹🌺🌷🍀

My ex-gf was like this, everything I said, she turns into personal attack, and keep saying "I don't do this for you", or “I don’t want to teach you anymore” It's so insufferable. Everything I do, she finds a way to fault me. I'm so glad I got out of that mess.

Well said Courtney, well said. Someone i dated in the past had similar behaviors, and I always wonder why. Thank you for showing me this example and I finally understand the reason behind these behaviors.

Well done. Very wise insight here Courtney. Im glad I picked this for my one youtube video for the day during my lunch break. Have a great day and keep your chins up fellas!

We all should be here to make each other better - ideally. But like many are saying.. most likely that's what she was told as she was kindly dumped - a "it's not you, it's me" kind of thing.

They hate the world 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

When I care about a woman/girl, I let them know openly how I feel. Once done, I don't chase, give excessive compliments or do things seeking her approval. I meditate and not just visualize but actually get into the feeling of how it would feel being with her, until the feeling is real to me. I never doubt just believe that its a done deal. Of course, she has already given me hints of interest. Then, because I believe, it seems that she subconciousely picks up on the positive energy and reciprocates. If she doesn't, then I simply accept it and move on, never allowing her to "friend zone" me. You are so right, that the man and the woman can bring so much to the table and this is really what love is all about. True love never has a happy ending, because true love has no ending, it's eternal and forever. Much love to you, sweet lady.

I am definitely confused as well. But I really want to thank you for the tips and advice that you give. it has helped a lot.

I definitely learned a few things ffrom this channel. One time I got high while watching KZfaq and I was hyper aware of everything being said. One of courtney's videos about mens fashion started playing and almost every second of that video was packed with so much info it actually felt like being in a lecture hall or having someone read an encyclopedia to me.

Best video yet!! Something everyone should watch, especially right now! Eye-opening. Definitely worthy of a conversation. And I think you touched on the key to unlocking the root of what is happening in a lot of senses: understanding the why behind it all. Once we know that, then we may be able to help create positive change. The way you said stuff had me cracking up 🤣 too throughout the video. You delivered some fire 🔥 I’m interested to see if she makes another one too and would love to see you react again if so! Didn’t know you liked doing reactions, plan on keeping my eyes out! I think you are right, though, probably more to the situation. Comes back to needing to have that understanding. Very kind of you to say you value our perspective and that you learn from us…that felt good 🥰 like an honor 🥹 Also, one last thing, someone had told me that we shouldn’t date until we had ourselves mostly together, or at least that we felt we didn’t need someone to complete us, so that view you brought to romantic relationships was revolutionary for me! Gave me confidence and comfort, thank you!! 😊 Always learning things from you as well, you awesome teacher 👩‍🏫 🎉

I Am an easygoing guy who went thew this very same thing thank god It only lasted a few months I can tell you that there is only 1 way their way and is hard to see at first they have a terrible attitude, which I did not see in the first place they just want what they want and that's it good show thank you👌👌

Hi Courtney! I think that the woman is just angry at whatever and is looking to unload her frustrations on somebody. My Dad did this same thing numerous times. He would be angry and look for anything he could to start a fight over. Hope that you, your husband, and Biscuit are all having a great week!

I think she was trying to reject the guy. He said, "I've learned so much", and she got angry because she didn't know how to respond.

I leaned so much for you Courtney thank you 😊

What she is saying is - The man has told her that he “has learned so much” 1 It’s definitely not a compliment to her. 2 He has learned so much on the first date about her, that he is bailing early, and doesn’t have to waste any more time or money on her and obtaining nothing from it. 3 He has learned lessons on that date about what to look for in other women when he takes them on dates.

Peoples want compliments to feel validated and important, yet they also want to belittle and feel superior to the one complimenting them. They are like a bottomless pit, pure narcissism.

You gotta walk on eggshells to talk to women like these and they'll STILL find reasons to be furious at what you said. The only safe thing to say is nothing at all.

I'm a curious person, and I like to share what I've learned. There's no requirement that my partner has to be exactly the same way, but at a minimum, it would never work out if they made me feel bad for wanting to learn something.

Thanks Courtney for another good video. Some women act like they're too beautiful for men and other women. The truth is we are all equal humans who deserve no greater than or less the last person before us. Thanks for being neutral.

your videos are awesome thanks for all the help!

I think it stems from hierarchy. She dosent want to be a teacher because that basically puts her in the leadership role. Teachers are leaders. Therefore she wants to be lead in the relationship not to lead. Most women want a man that leads her and if the roles are reversed she'll lose respect/attraction for the man

You are spot on Courtney One thing we have to do is really super dissect the word (challenge) Because, Like my self it meat Fighting Argument Personal Attacks It’s not the case People need to open there minds for better self and to better others Instead we are caught up fighting dramatically argumentative We to have a calm conversation and learn from our mistakes to make us healthier together Thank you Courtney Very informative

Thank you Courtney. I have always needed help interpreting women’s queues on what they want and need from men in relationships.

What the guys most likely meant was "you taught me a lot...about what i dont like in women" and she is fed up hearing that as it results in them flaking.

You are such a good teacher - a real natural. Not everybody has that talent.

They Say 45 percent of women will be single and childless by 2030 " listening to This woman" there goes the next lonely Cat women " today's modern western woman in a nutshell.

This video has taught me so much about people who get mad when they've taught me so much.

I get the concept that it’s not a woman’s job to improve a man but it’s a great thing when two people support and build each other up. I credit my partner with helping me become a better man because her love and support motivated me when I needed it most and kept me going when I was being challenged. It wasn’t her job to provide that, it was done in service of building a life together. People can and should compliment each other’s strengths and weaknesses.

Thanks for teaching me! I may not have much input, but maybe onday I can find the woman who can be the one. All I see is people telling me things like "you would be the perfect husband" or "how have you not gotten a girlfriend", but I have yet to get a first girlfriend. Its just kinda hard to approach people, and with your vids I have been getting more confident and improving. All I need is to finish school so I have more time(i work at the same time so got not time for romance yet) and find a better environment

Morning Young Lady 🌹! Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to be a part of your Alluring Platform 💯 and your Alluring Appearance 🙉 wow.

big red flag in cosmetic plastic surgery, particularly upon the face, such as a nose job. screams insecure.

In recent years when I’m asked what kind of woman I want, I respond with: Fit, Friendly, Feminine, Fertile, and Faithful. I now added an H for Happy because someone who can’t be happy is a spiritual and energy drain.

Translation: "I want a servant and captive audience who will admire me on my time without any strings attached and be at my beckon and call without question." Then watch her switch the complaints to, "WHERE ARE ALL THE MEN IN THE WORLD? I'M SICK OF LITTLE SERVANT BOYS!"

I think it’s really sweet and a good thing when someone thinks I’ve made them a better person. That’s a reflection of you as a person and how you touch the lives of other people. In what world is that bad? I would also hope that my significant other would make me a better person and teach me new things too. I think she’s just miserable 🤷🏼‍♀️

Thanks for the video. I'm fond of saying that our country's greatest addiction problem right now is the addiction to self-righteous indignation. People seem to draw more emotional sustenance from this harmful emotion than they do from anything else. This trend is harmful to our society, and I worry that we will decline even faster as a result. Absent other context, this woman seems to be suffering from that addiction. As you stated, maybe there is some other context to her video. In the right context, her video could be a confusing communication of a rational feeling. I'm not sure what that context would be, but I am willing to consider the possibility. I always wanted a relationship where my partner and I would learn from one another. Even if the learning were a bit non-traditional, learning would be worthwhile. My age and poor health make a romantic relationship nearly impossible, but I still enjoy friendships that involve a great deal of mutual learning. At times, I've had negative interactions with people online and blocked them. As I thought later why I blocked the person instead of just asking the person to stop contacting me, the thought has often crossed my mind that we'd reached a point where we were no longer going to learn anything from one another. Conflict will always happen, even among friends. In some ways, a line is crossed when the bad feelings reach a point that we can't learn from one another.

You are such a great teacher Courtney

Some people complain for the sake of complaining. And have a pessimistic view on life in general. In my belief, Life is a classroom and we will always be the students. We can either learn from Life's lessons and improve ourselves, or ignore it and repeat the same mistakes over and over again.

By saying "i've learned so much from you", the men most likely meant that they have learned seeing red flags, recognizing bad and unacceptable behaviour and from who they should run away. That's probably why she was so upset

OMG when you google the teacher stat! Fell in love right there, haha, great work! :)

One of the biggest attributes I look for in a partner is if she makes me want to be a better man. This is such a significant indicator of long term compatibility that is almost impossible to overstate. If she makes you better just by being around her, you can probably grow together.

This is my first Courtney Ryan video, damn, its was like therapy, one of my favorite video now, i mean i can hear you taking life in general for straight 24/7. So cool, thanks Courtney, and justmehabibi for the introduction XD.

Courtney hit the nail on the head some women are impossible to please. If you find yourself with a woman like this take to a shop and ask for a refund (ditch this woman).

As a man the greatest lesson Ive learned from women in general is the value of modesty.

Courtney, you are so articulate in the way you speak. You are such a positive person and you don’t bash anyone in a negative way. You will just state that you don’t agree, or that you don’t understand, or that you don’t like something, but you are very articulate in everything you say.

Hi Courtney, I've learned so much from you!

I went on a first date with a girl and we spent 3 hours together. Even planned a second date she agreed to it. Then the day before the second date I reached out and made a joke about the bowling date. She said she had a good time the other night but only wanted to be friends. I said I respected her decision but I’ve got enough friends and wished her the best of luck. I’ve been dating since I was 14 years old. I was in all long term relationships my whole life. I got back out there like a year ago and it’s been an absolute disaster like idk what happened to people to be honest. I’m starting to get the feeling that I am the problem cause I just really don’t understand.

Thanks Courtney, I learned a lot in this video

if she has multiple guys say "you've taught me so much" it's because she spent the entire date ranting about her politics and worldview

Maybe she gets always rejected with the same excuse, “You taught me so much, BUT....”. I guess it is the kind of frustration he feels when she says, "You are so great, BUT let's be friends only." When this happens over and over again, it can trigger lower emotions, indeed. 😄

There are people who are happy with what they have in life. There are also people who are unhappy with what they don't have. The only way to "fix" the unhappiness is to look within oneself and change the attitudes and expections that they have. Nobody else can do that for them.

Well,if she's upset by that, maybe she shouldn't talk or date. I think the guy is telling her"Thanks for showing me a lot about you" and she probably never hears from these guys again. The common denominator is her.

She got Friend Zone on dates more than once obviously, her insecurity is evident and ego is toxic and it spoke for itself..

Courtney needs her own tv/news channel🔥💪🏾

What do you do when you got a friend that’s always accusing you of unjustly accusations. 🤔🤔

My guess is that either a date went awry after a while, or she was broken up with and she was told "you taught me a lot" at the end. It's funny that ladies like that pick guys apart so much, but can't take the heat if there are valid points told to them by friends or family, or the guys themselves. And she is also likely the type to deflect blame onto other things or other people as well. It's unfortunate all around.

An Arab sheikh traveled to Russia and fell in love with a slender and very pretty Moscow girl. Her dad tells his friends: - Long story short, he tells me, If you give her to me in marriage - I will pay for her as much gold as she weighs.' Well, I replied that there is no need to rush in such a delicate matter, and we’ll probably talk about that in a month... - Yes, you’re right, Ivan, these sheikhs with their Muslim laws act weird sometimes ... you really need to think about it ... - There's nothing to think about here, guys ... I should start feeding the girl right away!! * Moscow, Russia

'The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is "What does a woman want?” - Sigmund Freud

Courtney, you are not just a beautiful person, but the insights you share are very valuable to the vast majority of us guys. IMHO, guys are mostly guessing at this stuff yet you make it all make sense! ❤

I am not really into a lot of these woman (and I am a woman myself) but I imagine if I am tuning it to what some of my friends and acquaintances have said - I have heard from them - THAT this is a way that some of the dudes basically end up telling the woman that they are more interested in pursuing others but thank you so much for helping them learn what they really wanted or something else *lol*

Courtney I am just blowing away with your maturity level. I mean this when I say it that if every man and woman would listen to you and live by your example this world would be a different place. Reality is you have to look for good things to make your relationship grow. Tearing down like this girl does will never ever work with anyone. Please keep this channel alive and going strong. Your subscriber base keeps growing. Good on you!

She taught them all they need to know to dip out after the first date and not even try to smash! Reason #4765 that most men are just saying, "Nah, dating isn't worth it!"

So sad that most people today lose their maturity

Added to my "Not for me" list...thank you...! :D