Well said bro. We men just have to be strong, whether we're emotional or not. Women wont punish emotional men who are also strong. They only punish weak overall men. They cant handle a strong confident assertive man.

Facts

Just get a dog and be happy. Woof !

Nice bro

Didn’t even need to see the video…just this comment bc it’s so true. Changing for anyone, even if you are trying to be “less emotional” than you naturally are, just means you let society walk all over you. I always wear my heart on my sleeve but I have way too much self-respect to let anyone push me around.

Bruh I feel like I am learning masculinity at 28 and I had a dad

same

@@SolutionOrientedMan same here man.

same bro. i was raised by single mother. my parents divorced when i was 12. after that my father is gone

Waiting on AI robots to replace these women

Preach plus trading

I tried getting in a relationship and buddy let me tell you I wish I never did. Biggest waste and let down I've had in a while. I was wreckless afterwards.

@@peytonedwards4225 Now you understand why it's not worth it. Take that experience with you for life and never let it happen to you again. Stay safe!

@RICHY8791 I was guarding my heart for a while and she was guarding her heart after she came over for the first time but I seen an opportunity but she was guarding her heart more so I pissed her off on purpose then she didn't want me no more but I tried to commit while she was It was just messed up. Also it was wrong girl wrong time.

I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

My wife of 12 years left me, turns out she was a covert narcissist..and her leaving me turned out to be a blessing in disguise

My wife of 19-years divorced me (luckily it was not until our kid turned 18 and I never had to pay child support). It sucked, but luckily I have a job where there a lot of hot woman are customers. I am a pretty decent looking guy that gets a decent amount of attention from these women. When I look at a hot women I forget about my X wife completely for those moments.

That's your first mistake you tried too hard, dont try at all, let her leave

Stupid?

@@sophie8466 yes narcissistic people are stupid

@@sophie8466 why?

@@TheJoysOfUnemployment cause if she doesn't want you, she won't want you. And if you can't accept it and see the value in yourself without her, you are weak, and you start coping and you will your life build on copes... These games nowadays are totally stupid. 😂

​@@sophie8466 what the O.P. was saying is that she will regret leaving the guy when she hopefully comes to her senses, and realizes he was the real one she should have kept. Especially she sees his life progress, and hers remains stagnant in the abyss of her atrocious and dumbass choice. That is what he is saying.

Lmfao

That background noise had me rolling on the floor laughing 😂 🤣!

Yeah lol

Lmao. I’m driving and keep looking around like WTF is that?!! 😂

Just doing man things. All good.

Good mindset to have these jezebels are evil

Same here, my parents fought all the time and my mother punished me and my brother. We were made to run errands and do everything for her. While my dad was the Alpha who messed up her brains. So, we were the beta kids. It really affected my relationship in college and later in life when I wanted emotional connection with my partners. But, then I accepted their behaviour as normal and kept getting pushed. Now after years of healing , self care and meditation. I realised that my parents abused us. My brother got mentally sic k after his breakup and I had to put him in a rehab for months. It's hard to get over the past, but I found this beautiful lady who loves my company and always takes me in her arms when she see me struggle with my past. Even she was dumped by her ex, but we are both healing together. With her I find my joy, love and happiness. Pretty si ck world out there if you alone

@@TruthTriumphs786 Keep going brother 👊

Be single it is. I’ve experienced this enough times to learn. Showing vulnerability of any sort just kills their attraction for you. Doesn’t matter how long you been together or how into you she was previously. Just instantly dies. Act like the emotional rock who nothings bothers you, she will test this constantly, but also be screwing your brains out and crazy about you the whole time. No going back for me. Learned my lesson.

@@TruthTriumphs786 -- don't get too attached to her. Love her but do not be in love with her. Otherwise she will eventually take control.

Sayeth whaaaat....???

😂

She did it for self pity, the moment she finds a more masculine men she will leave ya, it's over.

@Allah_Loves_Forgives_and_Saves Does your Mom count? 👩

@knowledgeharvester5438 People actually took this comment seriously. 🤣 I love it. I made up the whole thing. I was trolling.

Definitely is a big turn off. I feel so bad for most people today. Society has made women act like men and men like women. Its sad because most people are affected.

Yeah I just don’t participate explaining and trying acquiesce to such behavior is ridiculous they are narcissists if they do that to you how can they raise a healthy family

#manlets

Yeah, very annoying.

Same here. Can't stand that.

Unless you are a literal psychopath, like your brain is literally different than 99% of Humans. You are emotional

Being emotional is normal. But not letting them control you is whats important. Especially in this day and age. Society has put women on pedestals and made supressing emotions for men, normal. Which is really unhealthy.

You mean when you were just “Cry Baby” in their arms and suckling on their breast. Ha-ha! 👍😂

Manhood is not only your idea of Manliness but also accepting the truth of Reality. 🙏🏼😊

Put on a dress 👗 than, plenty are.

im guessing youre not in the best shape and eat properly, either.

​are u saying the bloke that says he prefers his emotions to them is refusing to accept reality ?maybe maybe not i dont know him ..i woud not say its nescesserily about accepting or rejecting reality if you start to fashion out or carve out a form of masculinity ,manhood , personality or whatever ellse u wanna call it fir yourself in order to advance in society or with women instead of being who you are then in my subjective veiw you are at best pragmatic and at worst a coward ..there is a thin line between the two ... for example one could look cooly at the way men and women and infer what mode of behaviour would help one more or help one less with the opposite gender be it male or female and leave my behaviour as it is thereby in certain😮 circumstances reducing my chances of finding a viable partner or adjust it thereby raising the chances ...now we all are flawed so by all means learn new skills and if you absolutely must change yourself in whatever direction you believe facilitates living your best life, regardless of me some random cunt in the youtube comment section somewhere in the ether labelling it craven ..but lets not imply that someone who has the balls to say fuck them is a soppy whingy git who refuses to accept reality because he is to pussy to look facts in the face ...man fuckbthem i prefer my emotions to them .whatever and whoever he means by them .fuck them he says i prefer being emotionaly expresive i prefer being me instead of bowing to whatever version of me they want ...i reckon the fact dude says this shows real balls and if he is willing to pay the price more power to him ...l@@sublimeister9630

Would not never come back

It depends, being a lover is also being a fighter, you gotta be assertive and fight for you love, simple as, if you "messed up" and shown her your emotions then you can always make her come back as strong as long as you do it right, yes you can not contact her for a while then you contact back and show all the love.

If she leaves wave goodbye and move on. No crying. Make something of yourself and attract another one. Amazing when the one who left sees you with another one. Smile , and know she doesn’t like it. Stay strong.

If they're a gold digger and your bank account isn't empty yet they may come back 😂😅

@@kentfitzsimmons6872lol in the meantime she is with someone better not sticking around to see who have now.

Because society has made them like that, just as they have made men supress their emotions. Its all bad.

If a woman is into you then she will go out of her way to treat you well. Women are the nurturers

They only respond/react to FORCE..not love.

Women are more emotionally masculine these days and men become little girls, god help us with this leftist mess.

the only positive of learning it the hard way is you realise how true it is and you can learn more from that experience to not do it again.

@@JangoBlader Exactly

same

#metoo

Yup. We all live the same life 😂

Very true. Every man needs to learn to be stoic

This, I was happy being stoic with her and all that, the moment I show love and affection guess what? it all start going downhill..

He didn’t say not to display emotions. He said not to show too much emotion. Which is correct ✅

If you are truly 100% invisible to women then you need to work on yourself more.. hit the weights and develop your personality

@@brianmeen2158 I'm 57 and I'm done. I was done 40 years ago before it ever started.

@@brianmeen2158 I'm 57. It was over for me 40 years ago.

It can be.

It can be.

Getting with a woman early on, as long as she didn't have others builds the strongest bond

Getting with a woman early on, as long as she didn't have others builds the strongest bond

ok but you still need them to have sex

This, I learned this the hard way.. also another thing is, never let another man tell you how to be, they will say "she doesn't reply to you in time, she is cucking you bro" WHO CARES? if you starting caring, that's when the "relationship" turns south.

Amen.

Amen.

Amen.

Supressing emotions is very unhealthy bro. You have to be able to control your emotions. Be emotionally intelligent and strong overall. Thats the essence of a strong man that those women cant handle. Show those emotions, but dont show you dwell on them. (Stay authentic) And show your confidence and groundness. Society today has made men supress their emotions and thats freakin bad. As much as putting women on pedestals is bad. Its just as bad

Lol you think you're superior for holding in emotions, this society and humanity has been pathetic since day 1

@@WalkingDead520​​⁠what’s the point in being with a woman u love when u can’t be 100% honest with the shit you’re dealing with bc you’re afraid she’ll leave u for some guy who happens to be more stoic than u at that time

@@PostMahomes you shouldnt be with someone you cant be authentic with. Learn to be stoic and never chase women, because they are not the prize. We men are. The problem is the system has programmed us to work the opposite way (backwards) its bad now.. And i dont know if i can say this because they delete comments, but yea anyway. Im here to help and mean no harm to anyone.

@@WalkingDead520 Thank you I'm a women and I agree.

Well said bro. Its all about being emotionally intelligent and staying strong overall without suppressing those emotions. Stay authentic, show your emotions but also show your confidence and that nothing can control you.

Last time I cried was when I was telling my family what was the last conversation I had with my grandpa before he suddenly passed away I didn't really cry, I just let out 2 or 3 tears and a bit of nose noises; I lowkey feel very ashamed of that, am I wrong for feeling that way or was the reaction justified?

@@Sohelanthropus you shouldn't feel ashamed and you shouldn't bottle it inside. There are healthy ways to release privately without being judged.

Yeah I look at the relationship between my Mother and father and I wince - they didn’t hate each other but there was no true love or warmness . They definitely didn’t set a good example and my dad completely failed in terms of telling me about life and women/relationships etc etc

Dude in the background, doing his little alpha male thing by swinging a chainsaw around his head. Ironic really 🤣🤣

You don't need such as pure noble woman. Have a decent woman (25% of women are like that) and keep her in line by being an attractive masculine man to her.

You're welcome! I appreciate that!

Showing anger is a female emotion

​@@YoungLifeEmpireso andrew tate is a woman then? The guy can't give one interview without talking at light speed and visibly and soundly in an anger mood. 😂

@@YoungLifeEmpirenice joke 😂

@@YoungLifeEmpire🤡🤡that’s an asinine statement. And all the cucks who agreed to it. Anger is a natural emotion, how we channel it is what matters.

Tate was raised by a single mother - so it all makes sense

Weak men loose. We should never be pessimistic bro. Be positive, strong and confident.

Yep. Nobody can be strong 24/7

​@@WalkingDead520nobody can be strong 24\7. Unless you are souless.

@@petarglisic7300 im sorry to say this but you are wrong. Strong people are actually the most soulful humans and are always strong no matter what. Its about being emotionally intelligent (being emotionally intelligent means you have empathy). Showing your emotions but having resilience to bounce back from anything with strength and unwavering determination. Its also about having integrity. Being honest with yourself and your strong moral principles. The problem is theres not many people like this, and that is why you dont agree with me because most people are not emotionally intelligent, especially in this day and age.

Yeah I have to be brutally honest - when I read the comment sections on content like this I just put my head down and shake my head. You have grown ass men that are so lost and have no confidence or social skills. I honestly don’t know what to tell a guy that is 28 years old and plays videogames all night long and has no game or social skills .. if you don’t learn the bare basics of talking to women in your teens or early 20s then i don’t know how to get guys out of that spot Oh and then you have the really bitter guys that just watch content like this and complain about women. They are just as bad And yes, no one in the mainstream is telling these guys how to behave

Oh damn I just typed out a long response to your comment and it’s gone. KZfaq is getting bad in this aspect

Nah everyone is fake even so called “brothers” will take advantage of you when you’re at your lowest so it’s every man for their self

​@@PineappaPres14not true. I think you have been surrounded by really bad people mate

@@HCforLife1 Unfortunately that’s been my experience and what i see on social media hurts my outlook on friendships

Ofcourse they hate it because they are use to what society has turned them into. Weak women who want to act like men. Its sad. But let them be. They will always loose to real men.

Hey, I found your comment very interesting and I just agree. I lived the opposite of being asked to open up as I was dating this girl a couple of weeks ago that only talked about superficial things. I really wanted to know how she feels, thinks , plans for the future etc in order to see if she was a "girlfriend" material but on last date I just realized she wouldn´t. I thought she was going slow as she has just divorced but nah I tested her on the last date asking direct but polite questions and being brutally honest on my opinions to what she did not respond as I expected. However, she wanted to keep going out. No thanks, I know what I want and deserve....

Drama course?

@@MewluMoon It's unfortunate that sometimes the wrong people teach us bad habits just before the right ones come along. This creates confusion because many say they want a partner who is open with them. Yet, when they find such a partner, they often feel repulsed or end the relationship shortly afterward. It seems this can greatly diminish attraction. Perhaps we have differing interpretations of what it means to "open up," or maybe there's some dishonesty involved. Your ex's reaction seems typical, aligning with what many experience. Often, vulnerabilities shared in a relationship are turned against us. Ideally, a mature couple would understand each other's insecurities and either help strengthen those areas or at least safeguard them. I'm disillusioned with modern dating; it often feels like a competition between two adversaries, each trying to contribute the least.

Are

Its not

Only guys that suck with women say that sort of thing

​@@MrAlio10190% of it is about looks

Haha yah…

Yea if you was into the Texas chainsaw massacre movies