Would You Consider Getting Back Together? | {THE AND} Simone & Charlie
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Simone (she/her) and Charlie (she/her) are exes who maintain a friendly relationship after breaking up and are currently roommates. They are working on navigating their romantic feelings towards each other and are still considering getting back together. Both are acutely aware of the challenges this would entail and the individual changes each would need to undergo to make it work. This conversation is part of their healing process, with vulnerability and honesty playing significant roles.
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EDITOR | Samanta Barbosa
WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Simone & Charlie
Would You Consider Getting Back Together? | {THE AND} Simone & Charlie
@tvlacy Ай бұрын
The brown skin sister with the glasses has a beautiful spirit.
@sundeecathey1748 Ай бұрын
Yes, she does! Beautiful depth of openness, humility and character. I pray for her discernment.
@warreng5394 Ай бұрын
Clarity always comes after the break up...
@devlynnikole1067 Ай бұрын
Facts...❤❤
@Indigenous_DNA 9 күн бұрын
It sure does!
@mainanawacho5322 24 күн бұрын
Body language speaks volumes.. One is leaning in,the other is leaning back..
@jay-jay836 24 күн бұрын
wow great observation
@SebeneleDlamini-ge9ct Ай бұрын
I don't know if she is really remorseful and wishes she could do things better or is she feeling lost and lonely that she needs familiarity to gain comfort that she's not alone. Sometimes people fear dealing with a certain era of life alone because everything is overwhelming and they selfishly hang onto people to satisfy their own need. My own advise to the girl with braids is to just close that chapter and choose herself ❤
@CamilleAOPDG Ай бұрын
Damn…this comment is powerful!
@TheAmayaM Ай бұрын
I needed this comment for MYSELF! Wow!
@texasgoddess323 Ай бұрын
It feels as though, if a person is truly moving towards changing in the right direction, the other person would feel that and would be able to give examples of how that person is different, which would make it more possible to rebuild.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Lol it’s really crazy that you said this. There’s a lot of truth in this. I did close the chapter though.
@smome7773 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn whewwww proud of youuuu
@letsgooooooo111 25 күн бұрын
To the person in the orange scarf, congratulations on choosing yourself and on choosing self-preservation. It's difficult to be treated in the manner in which you were treated. You have made it past the hurts and the pain, and you have clearly learned to love yourself even if just a little more. Congratulations on your healing♥ God bless you and may you find the kind of love you deserve, because there aren't many like you out here in these streets.
@SchyePoetry Ай бұрын
I love the honesty from Charlie. It is so hard to look somebody in their eyes and tell them there is nothing they can do to reconnect with you. I hope they’re both leaning into healing 🫶🏽
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Nice reflection on the video, thank you ❤️
@zerandrianmorris Ай бұрын
The love between two women. My God. Ain’t NOTHING more intense. And…It’s always the one who doesn’t fully choose the other who would be willing to try again. 🥴🥴 Let her go. Release her.
@lonegabalebatse9356 Ай бұрын
i literally found myself saying 'let her go please''💯
@SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja Ай бұрын
She needs to let her go and find what she was looking for when she had her 😂😂😂😂😂
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@tiadeese Ай бұрын
YEP, they always wanna hold on yet they're the reason you two aren't together.
@SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja Ай бұрын
@@tiadeese is there a science that explains this?
@mysterygurrl301088 Ай бұрын
Whew! This really resonated with me. I went through something similar with my ex-girlfriend. Once I was finally done with her, she knew all the right things to do and say. She even begged for another chance. At the time I was not fully over her. However, something in me just said, "No". That same thing in me also pointed out why I shouldn't believe her. Long story short, within 2 months of turning down her request to "try again", everything started being revealed to me and I saw that all the reasons I had given for not wanting her back, were true. She hadn't changed! What had happened was, that she went out there and realized that things were not how she thought they would be and figured, she could run back to me, the one person who loved her unconditionally and always only wanted what was best for her. Remember: "SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST COLLATERAL DAMAGE IN SOMEONE'S WAR AGAINST THEMSELF".
@webleach Ай бұрын
"SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST COLLATERAL DAMAGE IN SOMEONE'S WAR AGAINST THEMSELF" - felt that with my entire being
@aoifeeem 17 күн бұрын
Loving a sexual partner "unconditionally" is never a good idea. That love only exists in parents for their children. We need to love with conditions otherwise we allow ppl to walk all over us. Monogamy in itself is a condition.
@shondalesstudio 11 күн бұрын
Hmmmmmmmm ❤
@violetselene244 Ай бұрын
Sadly nothing would change if they got back together. That’s how it goes when people don’t take the time to dive deep into healing themselves before getting into a relationship. For the mental, emotional and physical health of the woman with the orange scarf. Regardless of if the friendship goes ok. Don’t get back with her.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
I know 🤗
@devlynnikole1067 Ай бұрын
Facts
@nwadi6408 Ай бұрын
Dear One-here I’m referring to the brown skin sister-if God said no, let it be no. You will most certainly find another love.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
100%! What He says will always go for me.
@devlynnikole1067 Ай бұрын
Facts 💯💯💯💯
@Back2basics88 Ай бұрын
They're both brown bozo. The names in the video.
@omnib.135 Ай бұрын
She won't until she starts within! She likes to save people who don't want to be saved. Unless she starts seeing her worth then she will be looking for love outside of herself for a very long time.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@omnib.135 not me 🙅🏾♀️ you’re reading me all wrong lol
@tarashanice_ Ай бұрын
She kept talking about what she deprived herself of…what about what you deprived her of after hurting her?
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
🤧 oof. She’s aware of what she deprived me of as well though, we’ve talked about it
@sundeecathey1748 Ай бұрын
Selfish, self centered. A taker who can only see herself. I pray she heals or she will have a long hard road ahead.
@helloworld3943 12 күн бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehnGod bless you.
@Ana_theeofficial Ай бұрын
Aww this was hard for Charlie I kinda felt her pain when she was asked “what is an experience you wish we never had ?” trying to make someone see you , understand you , feel and hear you but it never happens hurts on a deeper level . 😢
@jarjuanhill3671 Ай бұрын
Nah the lady with the locs has checked out and you can tell she’s not willing to deal with the pain chaos again
@CharlisaKarehn 29 күн бұрын
And you are correct, I’m not willing!
@firstRiley Ай бұрын
“I would’ve chosen to be everything for you instead of everything for everybody else.” 💔
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
That was the one 🤧
@qhamkajim5985 20 күн бұрын
I do personally think she regrets whatever she did to you @CharlisaKarehn, she might just come across as one who is not showing remorse because of her personality, I think, I could be wrong but I support y’all for whatever decision you make for yourselves❤❤❤Sending love
@CharlisaKarehn 19 күн бұрын
@@qhamkajim5985 😊 thank you for watching and engaging! There’s more on the way
@qhamkajim5985 19 күн бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn Alright, will keep an eye
@ericad5933 Ай бұрын
Tough….. wanting to be with someone and loving them so much but knowing it’s not gonna work. Sucks so bad….
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
It does suck
@missmo463 Ай бұрын
“God said no”. Gonna use that one 😂🤣
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
I was forreal 😂😂😂
@immersiveexperiences4799 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn what did you mean by "God said no"? Would you feel comfortable explaining?
@devlynnikole1067 Ай бұрын
Get out My head😂😂😂😂❤❤😂😂❤
@jazzyrivera6396 Ай бұрын
thank you omar apollo for “god said no “
@CAM8689 14 күн бұрын
using God to justify same sex relationships shows how fallen and confused this world has become
@stacia886 Ай бұрын
I don't believe that moving straight into a friendship with someone you just broke up with is healthy. Space is needed. How do you move and navigate a new relationship with the past still lingering around you? How healthy is it to keep a friend who is pining after you?
@Gossipchic Ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@heyjavonnejay Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. It’s so common in WLW relationships and I don’t understand why. Any future potential partners will likely be put off by the closeness of the exes. You can’t compete with history.
@stacia886 Ай бұрын
@heyjavonnejay exactly! Worst part is that they are quicker to call the new partner "insecure" rather than look at this unhealthy pattern and realise that it serves no one but them and their ex.
@thesweetlifeofjoy2314 21 күн бұрын
It's not, I did that and it was toxiccccc as hell. No friends with exes ❌️
@VlogsWithSG92 Ай бұрын
They both need time to heal and maybe try again, but if God said no let it go 🤷🏽♀️
@kissy0k8 Ай бұрын
“When God says no, no buts.” I heard that.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾
@JustCallMeJenn Ай бұрын
The energy I’m getting is Charlie is confident in her sexuality and was open to pursuing it with Simone despite her uncertainty. I don’t think Simone was ready for a same gender loving relationship.
@vikay8 12 күн бұрын
That was my impression too. In this case, if there was no cheating or anything like that, I think Simone deserves a chance to show if she means it. I imagine it like this: when we bake a cake, we might want to take it out of the oven early because we're hungry, but we have to be patient until the cake is ready. In other words, if someone is emotionally unavailable, leave them alone. Focus on yourself and think about what lessons you could learn from this experience. Every relationship is an opportunity for healing. The stronger the feelings, the greater the fears. Until one day they eventually realize that nothing else makes sense than being with this person, as Simone beautifully said.
@s.p.5213 Ай бұрын
Redbone is a bit too callous for me... I can't see any one I care for cry in front of me, especially if I know I'm a part of their pain, and just sit there blank or not tryna comfort my friend. She's got too much baggage adn that's NOT your responsibility to even be present while she goes thru that process, IF she's even actively goin thru the process...... You got away Hunney... Go get ya healing and as much as possible, leave her alone... Do it now before you turn into the many mean, damaged MOC or studs out there.
@HENCHMARV Ай бұрын
Never ever go back to a ex ...their a ex for a reason. Also with that people never really change and if they do its for the next person to deal with.
@cltaylor8490 Ай бұрын
I think it depends on why you broke up. If there is no abuse (physical or emotional) I say give it a try. My ex and I got back together in 2004, still together and still happily married.
@ekeneleticia8398 9 күн бұрын
@@cltaylor8490is WLW?
@itssdesionna Ай бұрын
A part 2 is needed because a lot was said but not really. Other than that I wish nothing but blessings to these two beautiful women Great video.
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Thank you! We'll definitely try to have them on again ❤️
@ja_marriaa 20 күн бұрын
but,you can tell Simone has a really hard time being emotional. She seems like she's operating out of defensive mode. We see you Simone, it's really hard to express such deep feelings. It's someone out here for you too
@MisssGreatest Ай бұрын
Classic case of you never know what you have until it’s gone! Wishing them both the healing they need. Ole girl in the black issa beautiful 😍
@CharlisaKarehn 29 күн бұрын
That’s facts! And thank you, i appreciate it!
@E01234 Ай бұрын
She only wants her back because she hasn’t found “better” or she wouldn’t be able to handle seeing braids with another woman. Regret being the driving force is not a great mix. Loved the video though, great content 👍
@HappinessTheBrand Ай бұрын
Not braids 🤣
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@HappinessTheBrand right dang why i gotta be braids 😂😂😂
@PeukinsPoint Ай бұрын
Why is that a bad thing though? Realized in hindsight shouldn't be that big of an ego hit. Like damn, I've been out here but nobody makes me laugh/smile like my ex. I would think someone could reconsile and appreciate the relationship. We don't always get it right the first time.
@E01234 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn Omggg not too much, sorry!!! I forgot y’alls names were in the caption 😂😂😂
@E01234 Ай бұрын
@@HappinessTheBrand 😂😂 pleaseeee, not in a bad way!! Lol
@mzapril012 Ай бұрын
Whew. They love each other SO MUCH.❤ through the tears and the laughter.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We do 🤧
@out-standing4320 Ай бұрын
Seeing my baby sister on here made me super emotional
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Hello older sister!!! Glad to know you liked it ❤️ love ya!
@ndhlovusithabiso Ай бұрын
If she genuinely loves her, I hope she woes her again but slowly and gentle because she broke her heart and trust. Don’t let her go if you love her
@consistentlyfocused Ай бұрын
Very deep. I wish these women all the healing and love they deserve. Thanks being vulnerable and sharing ❤️
@sibongilenjengele Ай бұрын
Charlie has great insight. The whole video was so emotional...😥
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Thank you! 🥺
@webleach Ай бұрын
and after four years I just could no longer .. this was a much needed watch .. wishing you two the best
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@lexussport300 Ай бұрын
Pain & chaos is a powerful lesson
@voyageswithshyeasha1398 Ай бұрын
There's something in my eyes 🥺 Thanks for sharing ladies ❤
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Our story runs deep! Couldn’t get it all out on here lol
@GoogleAccount00 Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. If it is worth it, heal and work things out. If you know that it's not for you, remain loving and friends. Wishing you both the best!
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@GoogleAccount00 thank you! And naaah, it’s over! I respect her though and always will desire the best for her r
@queerbrunchwoclondon8696 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your Love & Your own unique Love Experience with us all. Peace & Blessings to you & to you both.
@ACEMiller3.0 Ай бұрын
When I tell you from the time this video started I felt your pain! I feel like we’re twins. It’s a sad hurtful feeling. I wish you the best of luck! Genuine love will find you. GOD GOT YOU!
@dejawoods2865 Ай бұрын
Which one is Charlie and which is Simone?
@devlynnikole1067 Ай бұрын
No losses Just Lessons I hope moving foward they continue heal and remember the lessons they learn and apply what they've learned moving foward in future relationships..
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We have!
@user-xm6mb9jo6w Ай бұрын
I really commend these two women for their level of vulnerability. We all gained something from it and there are so many people going through similar situations. Being in a committed relationship takes a lot of love, grace, humility and willingness to look at SELF. My prayer is that they find the healing they need and that this experience helps them in future relationships.❤
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
THIS! Thank you so much for this amazing comment, we love you and appreciate you ❤️
@user-xm6mb9jo6w Ай бұрын
@@TheSkinDeep sending love right back! More content like this is needed in the world
@kslucki Ай бұрын
The girl on the right says many words without saying anything at all. No substance behind those words. When God says 'no', there's a reason. To the girl on the left - you dodged a bullet. Have a happy life, as you deserve it sis.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Thank you
@jalenseward7315 Ай бұрын
I wouldn’t even wanna be friends with Simone fr. Something about her just comes off as disingenuous/ not sincere. Charlie seems like such a well put together person with morals & etc. The best part about watching this video is knowing that Charlie dodged a bullet. 🫶🏿
@dvmn444 Ай бұрын
Yeah something is off in that ladies spirit
@mottley5216 Ай бұрын
I couldn’t agree more !
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Hi there! We appreciate everyone's opinion and input on the videos :) Let's just remember we're trying to make this a safe space for every one of our participants, they're all being raw, vulnerable and brave, it's not easy to open up like this, especially for the world to see! Let's appreciate that ❤️
@sundeecathey1748 Ай бұрын
Facts! 🎯🎯
@bscott1112 6 күн бұрын
I don't get villain vibes from her but I do think she's emotionally unavailable .
@cheristokes8888 25 күн бұрын
This literally had me in tears !!! it reminded me so much of of me and my ex girlfriend its really so so sad 😢
@julieh7432 Ай бұрын
im in this exact situation now, hoping we can come back from the healing stronger together.
@smome7773 Ай бұрын
Pls move on
@blackingingerpurrin Ай бұрын
Move on. The more time you waste the more you’ll regret later.
@10hooper Ай бұрын
Loved this
@ygoodie5924 Ай бұрын
When youre the one always saving people and relationships you got to know when youre times up. Its easier said than done, but who's gonna save you when you have nothing left in you?
@morg.3572 Ай бұрын
Bruh
@dumisamonakali9954 Ай бұрын
Charlie is gorgeous ❤! Both ladies are❤️.heal apart and move forward.
@shawnaspence3784 Ай бұрын
This was deep.
@NattyByNature- 26 күн бұрын
Jamaican in the house 😅. Glasses is a beautiful person and you can just tell with her energy
@nimo4335 Ай бұрын
Great video!!❤❤
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@kiwixoxo371 Ай бұрын
There’s alot of missing puzzles pieces here like, why did they break up? I’m not understanding the full context here because we didn’t get the main question. Hopefully they can remain good friends tho
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We are good friends indeed!
@Sul516 Ай бұрын
Yeah can someone explain
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@Sul516 we’re doing a q&a
@colettewilliams11 Ай бұрын
Light one was not ready for a mature relationship. Bottom line
@shaniecesingh1181 Ай бұрын
Self sabotage as a result of the past.
@morg.3572 Ай бұрын
I'll never have this conversation w ol girl. Damn thanks for the honest talk, cuz shoot. Love shawty tho. 💯
@smome7773 Ай бұрын
Its giving death by a 1000 cuts...........thats when you can really say "God said no"......bc the flesh may be weak but whewwwww is the soul weary 😩😭 Healing to both but especially to Charlie for the level of magnanimous GRACE . In the video and in this comment section as well.
@morg.3572 Ай бұрын
Bruh
@femmefataleracer Ай бұрын
wish i could hav this convo with any/everyone of my exes…including ex friends….ex cousins etc…
@khf729 Ай бұрын
I thought I had skipped to the middle or something because I was missing context. Alas we will never know what led them to break up...
@Dionne_Sheree 23 күн бұрын
Facts! Definitely missing pertinent context. Thought the same but I’m glad they know their story and truths!
@dreamqueen317 Ай бұрын
NO. Unless you’re Nelly and Ashanti. Lol
@HENCHMARV Ай бұрын
Give them time 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@liftedenergy3693 17 күн бұрын
Rejection is Gods Protection 🙏 🙌 ✨️ This reminds me of my last relationship.
@nevaehwilkins9330 Ай бұрын
- I hate when you could go so good with someone and things just don’t go the way yall would like it to go I feel like everyone doesn’t know what love is but you find it between eachother even when it’s not perfect nobody should settle … and if two people are working to make it work it’s worth it but think of your sanity at all times fr …. I wish I knew if my person 4L when she was here
@mirrbaby9854 Ай бұрын
They have the same eyes! Wow. ❤️🩹
@anony16 Ай бұрын
Lightskin really tugging on her heart strings
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
She was tugging on me 🤧
@chocolategreens9584 Ай бұрын
People make mistakes.. they both beautiful and got love for each other.. if not together I hope they discover what’s true for them
@behoney00 Ай бұрын
Teeth and Skin 💫💫
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We appreciate you!
@theemonique Ай бұрын
That’s tough
@05261977 21 күн бұрын
So tell me if I'm wrong as a man but what I heard was I know you loved me but I didn't know if I was truly gay and and my family didn't agree with this relationship and after I cheated on you and was treated less than by someone who cheated on me I realized that you were the only one who truly loved me and accepted me and saw me for who I truly am. And you were prepared to fight for me and give me the world I realized that I compromised the best thing that ever happened to me. Just tell me if I'm off base here because thats what I heard.
@JustCallMeJenn Ай бұрын
Skin deep. I’m so intrigued by Charlie. Send her to me. I’d love to know her.❤❤❤
@Dionne_Sheree 23 күн бұрын
I hear that! 😂
@Eva_H Ай бұрын
Sort it out ladies, there’s obviously still love there, is love enough though? On a personal note, I’m wondering if these wonderful people are still sleeping together without the label. However, everything shakes out for these two people I hope it all works out in the end.
@kegomoditswemahura2136 Ай бұрын
love is not enough. I think, history will repeat itself if they get back together. another wants the relationship back because they really love this person, and the other because they realize what they have lost, regret basically.
@Eva_H Ай бұрын
@@kegomoditswemahura2136 that’s fair
@ajiawillis7447 Ай бұрын
@@kegomoditswemahura2136 the girl with the orange scaf on loves so deeply. The other girl is not in love like that. She just feels regret that she hadn't found better.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
No, we aren’t sleeping together or doing anything like that.
@ItzsimpleLindi Ай бұрын
@@kegomoditswemahura2136it can still happen if both are willing to & work really hard on their love akere they say we learn from our mistakes if they put their most effort they can live happily ever they can go for therapy and start all over again my personal opinion thou they're so cute
@user-fm1le1cr8o 19 күн бұрын
Its called spiritual blinders.Shes starting to see her more for who she is.The feeling of it and if it was really for her
@kholekilemotloi Ай бұрын
Is this the only way they'd be able to have a conversation? Because this conversation wasn't progressive. They seem to know what went wrong. Why they can't be together. One party is still very angry. Apologetic part is willing. Do they know why they had this conversation?
@naemull2055 Ай бұрын
What beautiful women and conversation ❤
@saturnteatree Ай бұрын
The one on the left crying for nothing the one on the right dont care… trust me
@dvmn444 Ай бұрын
The girl on the right rubbed me the wrong way the entire video 🤔 her eyes at the end gave she laughing in that girl face still
@IntoGrownWomen Ай бұрын
I'm confused. If they are here, it's telling "yes, we should try again". To say opposite, and still remain in one another's life as a question mark, will only create more confusion. We have heal, and deal with reality.
@charliemccullough6725 15 күн бұрын
They are still best friends. The vibrations between them. Not wanting to see someone’s soul out of fear of relationships you’ve had prior is real. It creates trauma and baggage that can be carried to the next relationship. Especially intimate relationships. These are the impacts of losing trust in people while still entertaining them. I believe it’s possible that reflection and seeing Simone handle the after math is what cast the light of “what have I done”. I couldn’t imagine meeting my person… at my most whocares stage in life… breaking her heart and never being able to fix it. Being friends til the end but loving deeper..uhg my heart They’re young, I HOPE that time this becomes a catalyst for their positive actions and communication leading them back to each other romantically…(bc that s*x comment locks made was heard 😏😝) she’s just waiting for action and discipline. Life is messy, inconsideration HURTS. it’s up to our combined will power to clean it up as best as we can. Update on them please if they unite
@HalfWayUp Ай бұрын
I wonder if they already knew what each other was gonna say
@mahoganysoul1798 Ай бұрын
They don't know what the questions are going to be
@HalfWayUp Ай бұрын
@@mahoganysoul1798 I mean like after the question was asked I wonder if they already knew what they would say !
@mahoganysoul1798 Ай бұрын
@@HalfWayUp oh !
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We didn’t honestly
@TheSkinDeep Ай бұрын
Exactly, thank you ❤️
@kinsler18 Ай бұрын
Should of, could of, would of.
@ballershanelle 23 күн бұрын
If they allow time, be ready fir a relationship, don't break up the bad habit/bae actions, and forgiveness..they can try again. Got to nip bringing up or stop as soon,as ut comes up.and hurling it back. Try again after dating others. Time has to pass
@simoneh.5416 22 күн бұрын
Damn I wanna know more about them and what happened to them and their relationship. Like damn .
@StevenSsamba Ай бұрын
Do you think we can get back "as long as you show up....."...............................tricky question where it depends on if the other party changes....and that is wrong. I say what it is. I have changed a lot and I know that I am not where or what I used to be with you. So I know we cant get back together in a romantic way. Pure accountability and transparency. Or "there is a possibility if I work on MYSELF more". The other party thinks.....oh my, me too, I would need to work on myself.
@daniawania Ай бұрын
Girl in glasses is so beautiful
@crissyrichy Ай бұрын
Whewww 🥲
@colettezyambo5065 Ай бұрын
🔥
@joannjohnson8334 Ай бұрын
Yasssssssssssss ❤
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We thinking about doing a q&a for yall! If you want to ask us questions, i dropped my insta name in the comments
@kateisha60 Ай бұрын
The one with the dreads look like Supa cent ❤
@carlenecokolee5159 Ай бұрын
She’s even prettier‼️ Her features are so naturally perfect, like a drawing💯
@CharlisaKarehn 29 күн бұрын
@@carlenecokolee5159 thank you for that! I appreciate it!
@belovedone8207 Ай бұрын
Empress! Fine mi! Cause mi tiyad a dem ooman yah.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Empresssss wah gwan?
@JamieSativa Ай бұрын
LOVE TO SEE IT! 👸🏾 +👸🏾
@NattyByNature- 26 күн бұрын
Right deh suh, mi stop try.
@CharlisaKarehn 26 күн бұрын
@@NattyByNature- mi tell she mi ago lef she if di antics nuh stop but 😅🙃
@stephaniebee30 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@rosydouge-charles 13 күн бұрын
I didn’t hear ACCOUNTABILITY and that’s my problem
@cerinashippey 27 күн бұрын
What happened to the audio?
@divasamai2251 Ай бұрын
They miss each other.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We did back then
@divasamai2251 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn ❤️
@taylorduvernay9789 Ай бұрын
What did she do to her 😮? For her to even hear the voice of God.
@Karmellie 23 күн бұрын
Alcohol and drug substances damages any beautiful relationships. Whether it’s friendships, or partnerships, or marriage relationships. It’s sad to see and hear beautiful people separates due to arguments,infidelities and partnerships due to the cause of uncontrollable consequences use of substances.
@FeliFELIxx Ай бұрын
Still I can feel definitely from both of them slight blame and victimising in the Air, especially first lady, who started with first question with that orange scarf...definitely a lot of resentment and blame ..which is okay... i just admire the other lady IS so calm with it, I would be annoyed and for sure I dont know their story and what happened, I just feel it is difficult to deal with blame coming towards you
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
Yeah definitely no resentment or blame honestly. Our story runs deep there’s a lot to this. I just refuse to talk down on her or make her feel like trash in front of anyone.
@bscott1112 6 күн бұрын
Simone seems emotionally unavailable and disconnected from herself. Not evil but unable to access her vulnerability/being to the same degree as Charlie.
@kiajoseph2617 12 күн бұрын
If you planning on using “God said No” for bs and immature things please DONT! yall ruined certain things already using it in the wrong context or for foolishness. I love the statement and it has such a deep meaning. Please don’t ruin it demons 😂
@nicolem889 Ай бұрын
I didn’t watch the whole video but it sounds like growing pains. That’s about it. It’s hard to listen to 20 something year olds talk.
@aielianna Ай бұрын
This is funny because i'm 20 and I get what you're saying. A lot of it is just being unsure about life, who you are and what's next. I also feel like in gay relationships we feel like things are more intense than they really are. It does sound kinda crazy when you're looking from the outside in but thats life I guess lol.
@nicolem889 Ай бұрын
@@aielianna Their relationship only functions to feel good. They haven’t mentioned anything that they were planning to do together. Without goals, day to day drama seems more important than it is. Yes, a huge factor is not knowing anything about yourself as an individual and not understanding the people in your life . They’re not experienced enough to compare and contrast data.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
I understand why you’d say what you did. I don’t agree, there’s more that you all weren’t able to witness
@nicolem889 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn “More” doesn’t mean substance.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@nicolem889 you’re entitled to that opinion, i respect it.
@rhondarosoboro7874 Ай бұрын
I hope it's written that these gorgeous Queens find their way back to each other, romantically.
@warrantykweenwithak5431 18 күн бұрын
Simone wants to be with Charlie badly but,Charlie is really over it.
@jessicaT12345 Ай бұрын
ummm. they still like eachother. lol.
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
We did back then. Imagine pouring your all into someone and HAVING to let them go with no other option. I still liked her, still wanted her, but i knew that wasn’t best for me at the time.
@blacknsassy100 12 күн бұрын
Now I'm wondering what that light-skinned girl did. She cheated didn't she?
@NapTimeMusical Ай бұрын
What is teaaaaa
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
You got time? 🤧 our story is deep and loooong
@MaseratiHolly Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 no fr
@GoogleAccount00 Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehn We got time, lol.
@Ren-yz6mb Ай бұрын
@@CharlisaKarehngirl we got timeee😭😭 how long were yall together?
@CharlisaKarehn Ай бұрын
@@Ren-yz6mb lmao yall are wiiiiild! We were together for a year and a half. I was intentional from the beginning as well as ready to love her fully. She never experienced a me, so she didn’t know how to embrace me and what i come with. I know now i should’ve walked away then, but i continue to invest and tried to get her to see that she’s deserving of a love like mine but she couldn’t receive it. She also wasn’t done with her old life and i was. It’s a loooot 😅
@BMarie-hr2md Ай бұрын
Don't get back together. Metaphor: Don't go back to the trash you put out the trash outside. I also feel the woman on the right is a manipulator.
@ja_marriaa 20 күн бұрын
Simone seems so fake, and inauthentic. I really hope Charlie locks in with herself and her emotional needs. She seems a lot more emotionally mature than her ex partner.... :/
@DeizSons-nb1kr Ай бұрын
World's over 😭👩🏼🔬 two cute chicks wow weulp I guess the lions only way to finding a lionesses is being a sperm donor - sin plastico 🧬🤦🏼♀️
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