Day after day, John Huizar told staff he would take his life if he was discharged. Why didn't they believe him?
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@michelleburt92094 жыл бұрын
Hi. I am John’s mom. I can assure you that we did EVERYTHING in our power to help him. John was an amazing soul who put everyone before himself. He was being watched and it took a split second for his grandmother to go get a glass of water and he pulled the trigger. We had no idea he had a hidden gun. All guns were locked up and accounted for just like they asked us to ensure. He went to my moms because they were close and we thought it would be a good decompression time for him as he had two younger siblings at home. I shared his story to raise awareness and hopefully get mental health care reformed so no one else has to endure this pain. Please instead of being negative share his story so that it makes a difference for future patients.
@andrewgil48432 жыл бұрын
im Sorry for your loss Mama may he rest with God
@SamadAlHayadi Жыл бұрын
You failed
@5starrmami Жыл бұрын
@@SamadAlHayadi oml
@lapinchechismosa Жыл бұрын
The United States needs universal healthcare that includes mental health, im so sorry 😢
@lapinchechismosa Жыл бұрын
@@SamadAlHayadi she’s not your mom, you’re confused
@autumn-rosevonahrens3 ай бұрын
Shut that damn hospital down!!!! I was a patient there years ago when I was 15/16 they over kept me for 22 days and acted like I was going to be discharged and took the papers away and said it was for somebody else!!!!
@ookipuki Жыл бұрын
they. Don't. Care. About. Us....!!!!
@Solarsidofav5 ай бұрын
Very well true, cause they act like they care trying to be there but actually there to get a paycheck from children
@southernbelladonna783 ай бұрын
@@SolarsidofavEXACTLY!! I actually just watched a different video of a woman who voluntarily admitted herself and when she asked to be released they refused to let her out and said they would go to court to get orders to keep her there, fast forward.....she didn't need to be there anymore and was able to be released after contacting the news station. Here we have a kid who needs to be there, so they make him go home and he kills himself. It's so discouraging. 😢
@Lillianleamankane2 ай бұрын
Agreed, all they care is a pay check, they just talk and don’t give a shit write whatever on a piece of paper throw us back in a room and call it a fucking day.
@cherijb84769 ай бұрын
On either ends of seeking help, the so-called "professionals" DO NOT listen. I was admitted after seeking help for being an abuse victim. I did everything to explain to the doctors, nurses, therapists, psychiatrist and still no one listened. I'm now left to deal with additional emotional & mental trauma from my experience in a psychiatric facility while still trying to get help to deal with my abuser. Something has to change
@jewelpendley7223 Жыл бұрын
To anybody watching this, you are so worth it. Keep fighting, I believe in you luv
@Blender.bunker7 ай бұрын
Cheers
@theharshtruthoutthere6 ай бұрын
@@Blender.bunker Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same. All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE. All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh. All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is: to deceive and steal. They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”. In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one. Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there. ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life. Do not trust one nor to try to be one. 1 John 4:1 KJV Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. Turn to the BIBLE yourself and advice it to others also.
@justmadeit23 ай бұрын
Depression is brutal. Truly one of the worst things you can experience
@chavajaimes29783 ай бұрын
Yes it reallt is i was founf through depression for the first time last year and started getting negative thoughts and it was scary i was scared because i didnt want to hurt my self till this day i dont and never will stay strong everyone ❤ 🙏
@birdbrainz65572 жыл бұрын
I would really love to know what kind of insurance they had. 30 years ago my parents couldn't get me out of Pine Rest they had amazing Insurance. My Heart Breaks for this Moma and Family and Friends. I understand what her son was going through. I really wished we had a better Mental Health system that cared for their patients and not the Money.
@pigwheel15 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been in there. I wonder if their insurance was unwilling to continue paying since it had been about two weeks. Typical stay is about 5-7 days. Wouldn’t be surprised if they pushed him out because of it.
@southernbelladonna783 ай бұрын
Part of the reason this happens is because people working in these fields are not competent. They just need a paycheck so they go to work everyday, do what they have to im order to get through the day, collect their paycheck and it continues on from there. They probably couldn't even tell you 10 patients names. But when visitors come they act likr thry have it all together and hope no one finds out. And that happens in a lot of places unfortunately.
@brookiejoy169220 сағат бұрын
I was in a long term state hospital for 9 months. The hospital traumatized mean. 3 weeks after being released I stole medication that wasn't mine and tried to overdose. My mom found me not feeling good because my blood pressure was dropping quickly. I ended up back in the hospital and I ended up going to a long term residential treatment facility. The residential saved my life. The people there were kind and listened to me as best as they could. I also did not make it easy for them as I was afraid of trusting new people. I was there for 2 years and 7 months. I graduated high school thanks to them. I'm now enrolled in a program to become a veterinary assistant.
@hannahgines22032 жыл бұрын
I was in this same hospital around the same age... This hospital doesn't care
@camishaffer93224 жыл бұрын
so sad reading this I hope things get changed . A lot of people do not understand how truly bad mental illness can be. It can overtake everything. And medication is not always the answer. I can say from personally it took many thing before the right things was found to help me but I am glad it was found. Because otherwise this could have been my story.
@michellerollin-sutton2899 Жыл бұрын
Sooo sad 🙏 to many people don't take us seriously. Mental health hurts
@megan925852 жыл бұрын
That hospital should be sanctioned or something and whoever signed off on his release, whoever told his mother she'd be charged with child abandonment if she didn't pick him up that day, should be terminated and the doctor perhaps should be charged with negligent homicide or wanton endangerment. That's just my opinion.
@andybenson29713 ай бұрын
The system totally failed him. But these hospitals are completely overwhelmed by millions of suicidal Americans everyday, all of whom have threatened self-harm. It's impossible to give each patient the real care they need, generally they are out of the hospital in 5 days because thats what the insurance will cover. I used to drive an ambulance in las vegas and 20% of all calls are people threatening self harm. Doesnt help that half the patients are homeless and just trying to get a room and food.
@shirleygiordano7627 Жыл бұрын
The USA really needs to improve the mental health system.
@daisysummer5146 ай бұрын
Australia too. Our psych wards are filth, run by the most disgusting abusers.
@beenjamin-ut4sb3 ай бұрын
@Thegingerbreadm4ni approve we have the worst helth care you have to have a doctor in the family and you can get it all free
@SMOKEWESTOC3 күн бұрын
It’s not just mental health that fails but also law enforcement the justice system and veterinary care services same thing with foster care for help it’s all the same cycle keep your loved ones close by listen to them and help them as much the world is corrupt
@jodibrinks7277 Жыл бұрын
System sadly is broken I have ptsd cause of places I was sent to was assaulted etc you name it don’t feel safe ever reaching out for help again.
@charcoal7259 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I probably would have done the same thing.
@brendafoster9753 Жыл бұрын
Please pray
@AyyoShyGurlTv10 күн бұрын
This poor child definitely had everything ahead of him in life!!! The world was his. This is painful to watch 😔 💔
@jeremyslawson-qb1eg18 күн бұрын
My mom committed suicide when I was a Sophomore in high school & it still affects me today and I'm 46 years old.
@elysses9 ай бұрын
Everyone failed him. My mental hospital will not let you leave even if you say you're doing good. This mental hospital let him go despite him saying he was doing bad.
@theeartisticsquad42984 жыл бұрын
This is so sad🥺
@WitchwitchshesA2 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why there was a gun in the home?
@tinkerbellsfairydust165 Жыл бұрын
so sad,God love him.
@bevanbuckwheatshea5520Ай бұрын
So sorry for the loss of your wonderful son. Mental health should be absolutely ashamed of themselves. They just dont care. Shame on you. An innocent boy has died due to mental health incompetence.
@jac5853 ай бұрын
Its all about money. Money. Love capitalism. Life sucks no one wants to live in this system. Next
@schawnettarobinson85849 ай бұрын
No one listens. People don’t care at all.
@MXIVKeer Жыл бұрын
Grady Heath System in Atlanta, GA had failed me so many giving times when I trying so hard to get someone to understand my sad situations when I requested help they too busy with other gimmicks nonsense I feel sad for this young man my prayers and condolences go out for the families
@lapinchechismosa Жыл бұрын
the entire country failed this boy; we are the only “first world” country without universal healthcare, we need our taxes to fund physical and mental healthcare, even Mexico and Canada have basic healthcare for their citizens
@beenjamin-ut4sb3 ай бұрын
first world is giving us to much credit we are at most a second world country
@knightofkorbin8882 ай бұрын
Closer communities, neighbors, friendships, family, earlier marriages... These basics are needed. Not some artificial, synthetic counterfeit. Whether suppressive drugs stopping the body from neurologically adapting intelligently to this country's insane "normal" cities or a person who you pay for them to pretend (under impersonal professional boundaries) that they're your friend.
@one-stopgodshop2171Ай бұрын
Why did the boy want to end his life? What did he say about that? I ask because we don't know if this was a mental health issue only or a life issue or both. I am very sorry to John's entire family for your tragic loss of such a nice young man. Sometimes there may not be an answer and that's really hard to deal with.
@MZSLEVI4 жыл бұрын
So sad 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿for his mom
@erinhilliard9347Ай бұрын
This happened to my friend in a Detroit psych ward too. It ruined her life to go there- she said it exasperated her issues. They let her go, even though she was far from being ready. They sent her home to die because the insurance ran out.
@tnjapo4375 Жыл бұрын
how did this kid get his hands on a gun the moment he got out of a psych ward when he's telling people this stuff? nobody thought to tell granny to put the strap up before the kid that wants to die comes home clearly all the guns where not locked up and accounted for if he was able to find and hide one and not to mention how do you not notice your own gun is missing idk i think the shit could have been avoided but it might just be me rip
@kimmoore0427 Жыл бұрын
Look above☝☝ the mom posted that they had no idea he had a hidden gun. But I agree. How could they NOT check EVERY nook & cranny to make sure he did not have a gun? I don't get it. But I do know if not for the gun, he Wouldve done it some other way. Knives , rope, etc
@greg_krupa8 ай бұрын
Dude I tried suicide 2 times and been locked up for it don’t worry Jesus is with you we are all gods children! This boy is in heaven with with Jesus don’t worry 😉
@jonathanjacobs89892 ай бұрын
I bet it was the insurance that made him leave.
@HORSEYANIME20248 ай бұрын
Rip that teenager 😢😢😢
@DevilsInc32311 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for ur loss I know how depression and suicide is hard cuz … but I’m sorry
@jessicas14337 ай бұрын
Why would you still give him access to firearms. I'm not saying it's someone else's fault. But if he lready held a gun to his head, and said I wish I pulled the trigger. Wouldn't you remove the guns from the home?
@user-mb2wn7xx7nАй бұрын
Brought him to a home with a gun??😞
@lindathrall4832 жыл бұрын
MICHIGAN IS LAST ON MENTAL HEALTH THAT'S NOT GOOD
@lindathrall4832 жыл бұрын
CMH NEEDS TO GET GUTTED OUT THEN REBUILT THE CORRECT WAY
@nazz60004 жыл бұрын
Well it was a Christian institution
@kimmoore0427 Жыл бұрын
I get your point!!!!💯%
@pixelpulse8835 ай бұрын
💯
@ch6462110 ай бұрын
He should have been kept in there longer.
@teresacorley7874 Жыл бұрын
He finally got fed up and said to staff so he could get out and then he would kill himself so sad that he felt this way thier were warning signs and the staff failed him repeadietly at that point aperson like this kid finally finds a way to do what they really want and isbto die butbthey dont actually want that i wish his mom would have just had him stay with here instead of his grandmothers house. After being away so long he needed his mom it is not her fault but i could never just let my son stay over at a realitives like in his situation and not be right by his side with this kind of condition and feelings that were like a yo yoi would of kept him closer to me know matter what it took so sad i feel her pain and understand it i wish her the best and will pray for her for peace 5:09
@mars9_godboybaby654 ай бұрын
Deep down, I feel like his mom should’ve kept him around and show him a little more love like if he was a little kid again… one mistake and misdemeanor does not mean anything to treat to kick somebody to there grandmas house ,🏡 Deep down, he probably knew she was gonna go to heaven soon, and he might as well stay close to someone that cares for him 😔😔😔 people need to think better for their kids or pick better situations and better options😔😞
@Greenmilklovr3 ай бұрын
So you’re blaming his mother?
@TheToOPPlayers2 ай бұрын
Where did he get the gun
@thatpersonyoucallemo5538 Жыл бұрын
this happened to me but i survived the attempt
@Harlem55 Жыл бұрын
Bond in the amount of corporate hedge fund donations. Next.
@mars9_godboybaby654 ай бұрын
I’m listening 👂
@elysses9 ай бұрын
Their need for a gun outweighed their love for John. I have never felt the need to own a gun. Give your firearms away to the police department if someone in your family is thinking bad thoughts, otherwise, dont ask "why"
@verlatenn6 ай бұрын
"im gonna kill myself" "nuh uh"
@demistephens9376 Жыл бұрын
I was at A psych ward also scary
@renownedfear1874 жыл бұрын
shit happens. but i know we live in the age where we blame others for our mishaps.
@bniceentertainment17534 жыл бұрын
He he he he.....wtf he’s not an adult
@bniceentertainment17534 жыл бұрын
Parents need to step up! N start parenting
@BlackHippy3134 жыл бұрын
@Kevdawg Sutton III% Pro Gun-Rights Activist sometimes they can do everything and its still doesnt help, its hard too keep going, too someone like us, sometimes a "itll get better" wont help, therapy wont help, institutionalization and self/prescribed medicating or taking your own life is what does. Its the sad truth that sometimes you cant save everyone. However in this case he told em they just aint listen, the amount of people who are severely suffering from this will only say they will do it but dont, sometimes just sometimes you get that one thats genuine
@BlackHippy3134 жыл бұрын
@Kevdawg Sutton III% Pro Gun-Rights Activist even then being prescribed something doesnt mean youll take it. But the best way too tell if someone is serious about killing themselves (cause its hard too tell if they cry) how normal and frank about it are they talking, are they real happy out of nowhere, as someone whose tried it and working on himself(if i succeed and grow as a person only time will tell) im very frank with my own death and mortality, if someone is talking about it like its just some normal everyday shit and is the one not making a big deal over it, chances are that nigga actually crazy and might do it
@michelleburt92094 жыл бұрын
Bnice Hi. I am John’s mom. I can assure you that we did EVERYTHING possible to help my son. It saddens me that you laugh but that also tells me you have never dealt with tragedy such as this. I hope you never have to live this nightmare. I promise you won’t find it funny. John was an amazing soul who put everyone before himself. He was being watched and it took a split second for his grandmother to go get a glass of water and he pulled the trigger. We had no idea he had a hidden gun. All guns were locked up and accounted for just like they asked us to ensure. He went to my moms because they were close and we thought it would be a good decompression time for him as he had two younger siblings at home. I shared his story to raise awareness and hopefully get mental health care reformed so no one else has to endure this pain. Please instead of being negative share his story so that it makes a difference for future patients.
@maishal.91524 жыл бұрын
Michelle Burt I’m sorry for your loss.
@TL....11 ай бұрын
The Lord works in mysterious ways. We don't always understand His master plan, but He does everything for a reason. You just have to have faith.