I agree with your teaching!But as an aunty whom i wanted to help take care of my big sister -in -law with depression & violence issuse towards her 4 year old toddler girl & 1year old girl .The mother refuse to let anyone help her care for the children or touch them And she also refused to take care for the children health & hygienes .So my Elderly parents my brother me & my younger sister help in taking turns caring for them even sometimes bring the children to our office for safety reasons When the children“s mother go out to meet friends or seek medical treatments to see doctor .And she gets very violancely & verbally physically abused towards her children”s & husband when she gets inpatient or refusing to acknowlage her mistakes & errors when taking care of the children when we kindly help highlight & advised correcting her ways in taking care of & teacing them.Just last month i had to get a protection order for myself my family & big brother & neices safety issues. So now my parents me & small sister pray for the childrens safety at home.