YOLO Psychopaths vs. WOLF Narcissists

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YOLO=You Only Live Once, WOLF=We Only Live Forever.
No Ego, No Superego, Only Id.
No horizon: no future consequences to present actions (malignant mindfulness), sense of impunity and immunity (will always get away with it).
Opportunities perceives as malfunctions of reality and the resulting disequilibrium must be seized regardless of costs or consequences (carpe diem).
Lack of impulse control, disinhibition, attentional narrowing.
Rise of narcissism in modern civilization renders other people a burden or even dangerous.
Narcissists and psychopaths are over-represented in mission critical professions.
Narcissists and psychopaths in the family and among friends, on dating and in the workplace makes self-sufficient atomization and solitude the only survival strategy if one abjures narcissism.
Schizoid men saw the business opportunity in such social trends and developed technologies that are asocial, mislabeling them as social.
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@shannonluck5066 13 күн бұрын

I choose the schizoid Life! 🙂 Narc parents, then spouse... I'm quite content on my own. I'm committed to constant learning and no one hurts me 🎉

@bobsanderz3005 13 күн бұрын

Funny how narc parents send you right into a narc spouse. More tragic then funny, but yeah

@user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap 13 күн бұрын

@@bobsanderz3005No. My husband was no narc!

@shannonluck5066 13 күн бұрын

@@bobsanderz3005 Not very funny actually, lol But I do try to find the humour in it! Now I have grown kids like that... Be Well 🙂

@shannonluck5066 13 күн бұрын

@@user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap Pardon?

@Dystopia2024 13 күн бұрын

Same here.

@nancylevin-pr2ci 13 күн бұрын

I prefer alone at home, with cat dogs and deliveries.

@nancylevin-pr2ci 13 күн бұрын

Professor Sam, As a ph.d in psychology, with a specialty in developmental disorders as well as learning disabilities (neurological impairment,) as well as well as intimate experience with narcissists and psychopaths, and reactive attachment disorders, I value your lectures: continuing/ education. Thank you.

@Wildflower-sm8ow 13 күн бұрын

I love your giggle professor!!!!

@gwinwebb1009 13 күн бұрын

Thank you for your insightful analysis of the reason behind the societal downfall and systemic failure we are witnessing.

@neodeadlyrave3627 13 күн бұрын

“You can either become a narcissist or a schizoid” - this sounds terrible…. I don’t want to be either of these things!

@daltonwilliamlawrence8269 12 күн бұрын

Remember Dr. Vaknin is a Clinically diagnosed sociopath himself ...he sees in black & white. There is an in-between. It is ALL a Spectrum that depends on where you are in life, in other words it fluctuates.

@LeahDyson-kq4bd 8 күн бұрын

Same

@thestriker269 12 күн бұрын

I am a medical doctor (MD) from India.Sometimes i find it extremely difficult to hold back my emotions when i see something very corrupt to the core happening in the medical field and people just ignoring basic patient care. Many a times i am and was very vocal about malpractices and lack of ethics which people in the practice should follow as being a caregiver and not even properly communicating with the ailing ones ,i find it so disturbing that it actually sometimes torments me from within. I had tried the stoic way of dealing things but again i can't stand when a genuine fault and utter ignorance to someones health is there. I dont know man whether this aggression of mine is good or i am just over exaggerating my emotions sometimes when something bad is happening.

@liliaaaaaaaa 12 күн бұрын

Your anger is based on a natural instinct due to a perception of injustice. As a professional you are concerned about malpractice. At the same time you need to be professional & objective & follow the proper procedures. If patient care is inadequate the staff need proper training. If they don't follow protocol then they will need to be sanctioned or removed from their post.

@jamessorrel 13 күн бұрын

Werewolves and vampires, oh my!

@KamalAzzouzi 13 күн бұрын

Doctor we love you, thank you for everything

@ottocubed9520 13 күн бұрын

Tremendous analysis professor

@polamatuszewska663 12 күн бұрын

Could you please comment on Baby Raindeer real life stalker interview case in the context of a mentally unwell person being exploited?

@MarkVrem 13 күн бұрын

Took me 5minutes to realize it is not.. The Seagull, The Eagle, and The Super Eagle.. but Ego, and Super Ego.. Whoops.

@MyEnemy 13 күн бұрын

YOLO

@Franny90. 13 күн бұрын

A Seagull, an Eagle and a Super Eagle are going into a bar...😂😂

@mollybradshaw9336 13 күн бұрын

That's hilarious!! 😂

@chrissyp9003 13 күн бұрын

@@MyEnemylmao

@hafrunmariazsoldos7151 13 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@jasusoppo498 12 күн бұрын

I thank God for you. If I didn't came across your work, too many questions would still be unanswered. These topics are so complex and I probably would have gone utterly insane without this knowledge.

@wandafrazier5206 8 күн бұрын

I've been affected by both types. My initial response was to isolate. However, I seem to have some live and kindness left to give. Hopefully I can keep my eyes and ears open before I become entrapped by more.

@bernicegoldham1509 13 күн бұрын

I'm listening as I'm filling in my eyebrows of a morning and the next few points are exceptionally relevant to this particular activity 12:24 😂

@LastTrumpRevelation 13 күн бұрын

lol, that laugh 😂 😂

@agesflow6815 13 күн бұрын

Thank you, Professor Vaknin.

@AremAsha 12 күн бұрын

The one I had experience with called these fantasy portals - potential opportunities and forks in the road. He called one “same old shit road” and the other one “crazy new shit road” Would veer off down the fork in the road, then when things got hot, return to the boring main pedestrian road. He also used the word pedestrian to describe it. Always restlessly bored when not forking off the road.

@StargazingAxolotl-fz4lg 13 күн бұрын

Are there any strategies to rejoin society and retake the reins in a healthy and proactive way for someone who entered the state of self isolation as a coping mechanism? Or is therapy the only option left? If the schizoid state inhibits growth and the pursuit of independence, then the „cure” is worse than the disease.

@777Honeypie 13 күн бұрын

This is great insight! Spot on.

@rottweilertrainingUK 13 күн бұрын

Excuse me!!! I thought my sci fi novel (The Nuclear Tourist) was very good! Usually I write about dog training 😂

@MelyssaMonroy 13 күн бұрын

And people spying on a person they consider stupid would be worse?

@debrakarr996 13 күн бұрын

Mine keeps spying on me and he got pulled over the other night after doing so lol just his luck I guess they had him in cuffs and searched the car he chose to call me he said he was scared. Lol his karma is at full work this is just some of it. They r stupid.

@Margottaful 6 күн бұрын

i enjoy you humor !

@FelicMore24 13 күн бұрын

🍺📝👍 I'm saving this videos. Can I get a transcript please?

@hafrunmariazsoldos7151 13 күн бұрын

Kokein and Conserta for adhd do very similar things to the brain

@samvaknin 13 күн бұрын

Search the channel for "cocaine".

@bintjesvideokanaal 13 күн бұрын

What is the percentage of people in society being narcissist or psychopath?

@samvaknin 13 күн бұрын

around 1-3% are diagnosed with NPD and 1% are diagnosed with AsPD. But many more are narcissistic or psychopathic (have a subclinical narcissistic or psychopathic style and/or dark personality).

@Susanne2000 13 күн бұрын

@@samvakninBravo 👍👏

@Memenative 10 күн бұрын

@samvaknin: how high would you think the numbers really are for these two diagnoses in society? Just a guess

@erinfroehlich 7 күн бұрын

I resonate with a lot of what I’ve heard you say about narcissists, but most of the time I’m extremely inhibited by social anxiety. I was definitely destructively impulsive as a teenager, but as I’ve gotten older, I’m more cautious. Can narcissists become better at controlling impulses? Can morality become part of a false self? If I decide I don't want to be the sort of person that behaves in a way that it's a threat to my idea of myself, can that be a way to become less harmful for narcissists?

@samvaknin 6 күн бұрын

Search the channel for "prosocial" and for "communal".

@johancarlosmedina8604 13 күн бұрын

consider my narcissism as a form of post-traumatic stress disorder, if you feel that people did things to you maliciously, heartlessly, you consider them evil or irredeemable. Need for control against a world that you perceived as essentially hateful and unfair and therefore you would prefer fear and that is why you are not abused or taken advantage of.

@samvaknin 13 күн бұрын

Watch the From Child to Narcissist playlist.

@liliaaaaaaaa 12 күн бұрын

What you're describing isn't really narcissism though, it's a defensive mindset to perceived hostility that may or may not be there.

@earthrooster1969 10 күн бұрын

Narcissim IS from feeling not enough from within...it's not just evil...@@liliaaaaaaaa

@liliaaaaaaaa 10 күн бұрын

@@earthrooster1969 I don't really understand what you are saying.. the narcissist personality has a sense of elevated entitlement due to a grandiose sense of self, the person he (they) victimise due to sadistic tendencies they abuse due to a lack of ego in their victim & a desire to erode the victim's sense of self worth.

@kaylaoegema7746 10 күн бұрын

Could this be a brain development during the early stages of life, I forget the drs name but he’s a theorist who came up with the theory of the first 1000 days of life and it’s connection to attachment disorder

@samvaknin 10 күн бұрын

Watch the From Child to Narcissist playlist. Everything has to do with the brain. It is a meaningless "theory".

@Abhisheksengupta923 13 күн бұрын

prof, was it cocaine or DMT trip?

@samvaknin 13 күн бұрын

Coke.

@hafrunmariazsoldos7151 13 күн бұрын

Super Eagle is an ANIMAL

@marthapond7070 13 күн бұрын

Lol!!

@vivianfernandes5672 11 күн бұрын

How about a discussion between Jordan Peterson and Sam Vaknin

@K-A5 12 күн бұрын

And by contrast, autistics (and even people with schizophrenia, maybe) are too inhibited?

@samvaknin 11 күн бұрын

Search the comorbidities playlist.

@user-me5eb8pk5v 13 күн бұрын

Whats someone else supposed to say? "I didn't know that, ha ha ha, your very very impressive, im flattered, does it show?" Any contect too close to rationalism is closed to all consideration. "My your awfully black today, however, such luck, i am not also quite dark, we can spoon." In the absence of menacingly bothersome 'girl' laws, nobody should have adheared to xenophobia as strictly as possible. Its just worms, maggots, whatever to doctors gave to you on purpose. If you go to face painting class at cal state, its easy to spot Abraham Lincoln, he just bolly haggles Wally for 20 minutes. He wants inside the gravity vortex. The other brats, they don't belong on my team.

@yosivin1 2 күн бұрын

אתה אומר שיש עוד ערוץ שבו מפורסמים סרטונים עם מידע שלך, אשמח לדעת מהו הערוץ הקודם, וגם האם אפשר לצור איתך קשר, לדבר במייל או להיפגש שאתה בישראל. תודה יוסי.