God bless you sir, all the way from Nigeria

AMEN 🙌🙏 I am in agreement with you. Father God please grant us patience to grow and wait on Your will. In Jesus mighty name Amen

Me too! The timing is always exactly what I am needing help with!

Amen to that!

@@JOY-ye2us keep it up we got this! We will keep getting better the longer we stay away from the negativity pulling us away from God and our best life!

@@BMILBOCKER10 thank you so much honey. It’s so difficult to just be still and know HE is God. My heart aches for my daughter and she’s alive,strong,going to school and work but we parted ways on not such a good note (due to boys) . But she’s God’s creation and she will be fine. I’m the selfish one mourning her when I should be celebrating how Good God’s work is. May God Bless you dear.🙏💕🐾

It is is late hubby's Bday... I am not crying nor miserable but at peace❤️‍🩹🙏🏾... Healing comes and God has never left my side.

When I was young getting married and having a husband was all I wanted, it ended up in me having not so desirable partners that if I ran into now I would shriek in fear. When I was 34 God sent me the perfect man to marry and I got pregnant got married and had my daughter when I was 35. Blessed bought a home but he was a born again Christian and I was strictly Catholic. We ended up drifting apart due to mental illness and alcoholism. We ended up divorcing after only five years of marriage. I waited five more years and we were separated he was living with his girlfriend and I was back living with my parents with my daughter. He ended up taking his own life last year and at the same time I was put in a mental hospital by my family because I think everything was just too much for me. Remember to put God first and please don’t rush it . We think we are running out of time so we rush things. I pushed the marriage barely knowing my husband. Just to end up divorced with a beautiful daughter but so much grief. Let Go and let God ~ He will give you all you need in His time. Don’t test it or rush it or you may end up like me at 54 ~ divorced and widowed and so much pain. I wanted what I wanted and didn’t serve God to be worthy of such a blessing He loves us so much He already has our lives cut out for us but be patient He may be doing it in His time and His way and you will be blessed. Much love 🙏💕🦋

Same. I know there's nothing wrong with being single but it doesn't mean that being single is for everyone

I understand how you feel, baby girl, but long for ✝️ beyond all else. He, and He alone, will make your path straight. I never married nor had children and at this stage (close to 50 years old now), my life is full, and I have far more peace in ✝️ than most of my married friends/family. Actually, out of all of the couples who married ages ago that I knew, only one couple is still married and the husband in this relationship is dying of a heart condition. Marriage is hard, but so is singleness, so ask ✝️ to bless your life according to His perfect will, and watch your heart & mind transform into exactly what He wants it to be like. He will keep you extremely contented within whatever He's decided for you, before the foundation of the world. That, in the end, will be the LOVE you crave and desperately desire, not the fleeting "love" of men. ... praying for you 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾

@@joelanturk6280 Thank You. If you have never been married, than how do you know it’s hard? I asked Jesus if I am meant to be single for life than to take my desires for a husband and a family away. The more I pray that, the more the desire becomes stronger to be married. So I don’t believe God wants me single my whole life. I crave Jesus more than anything. But what a truly amazing thing it would be to share it with someone else and share it with a family. I have my church family. But it’s not the same as it would be having my own family. Thanks for the encouragement.

​@@Christina_320I will pray for you. Please keep us updated in the time to come if you did find him. Even if it is years from now. Sending love from South Africa

Amen!

I'm so glad this was relevant for you. May the Lord lead you as you keep following him!

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger How does #4 healing to move on apply when ex was abusive and abandoned you while heavily pregnant + other constraints precisely because they want you to succumb to the pressures while denying you marital partnership? What you saved yourself for was intentionally destroyed. How is there hope when you can never have a 1st child experience, etc again?

I feel the same way🙂

That’s exactly how I feel

I'm so glad to hear that. All glory to the Lord!

I second that!

I needed this too right at this timing

Same here... Omg

Same here!🔥

May God save him and grant you the peace you need

My pleasure! All glory to God!

Yes, feelings are unconfirmed until action takes places. You probably won't know until you try. But if you try and she rejects you, it's best to accept you were wrong and God is not telling you to be in a relationship with her again. Again, feelings don't mean much until confirmed in reality :)

God bless!

So glad you have been enjoying the channel! All glory to God!

Many times we get into these things because God either puts them in your life for a season, and for a reason. Other times we make our own choices and place people in our lives and God allows it (we have free agency) to also teach us. If you look back on your life you'll see there have been many times you thought someone would be in your life always and it didn't work out that way. I'm currently going through heartache over a woman that I love and who I know who lives me but she has previously been very hurt by an abuser. She decided we should be friends, for now. Be stay just friends or can we be something korey? Only God knows and I have to trust that whatever happens it ei be for both our good. God always works things out for our best even when we think we know what's best. What you WANT and what you NEED are two very different things. Does that mean you won't hurt when. A door closes,no. But you will get over it because he also sends the comforter and gives you help in times of trouble. Speaking for myself, if I love her and Vid says being her friend is best for us both x that's what I will do.

Amen, he is worthy of our trust!

God bless!

That's your sign right there as painful as it may be. That's a truth that screams "not for you."God would never send you something like that.

@@ashleyhobson1414 it’s only so wound it being common to misunderstand each other on there and that’s why we argue?

I am in the same boat and have been for almost 2 years

You will never have to feel like you need to keep hoping and praying they will change, they never do, put that love into yourself and build a strong foundation with God first ~ then He will send you who you need in your life. 🙏

@@BMILBOCKER10 *2 YEARS?!?!* I’ve been out for 5 months that sounds like torture!!! 😭 I can’t imagine caring so much for someone you have no idea If he/she is either or if they’ve completely dropped you for 2 years?!? Your heart is HUGE!! You must have so much love! I pray that god is gonna take that love and use it to fulfill his kingdom and he will love you back so fiercely it’ll blow your socks off! 🙌🥺

@@BMILBOCKER10how are you able to function? it’s been some weeks for me and i am suspecting he’s already onto someone else. i try to get over it, but it seems like every time i wake up i am worried again. i am trying everything to just feel comfortable but i feel like crap. idk what God is even trying to tell me

@@JOY-ye2uswhy do they change for other people? am i really not good enough?

It is not that he MUST feel it, but that we are a reflection of him. We are made in His image. He has clearly indicated this is who he is, and to not acknowledge that he has these attributes would be to overlook the fact that He himself declared and defined himself as love (1 John 4:7-8 NIV 7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. And the fact that he has defined himself as compassionate Exodus 34:6 Then the Lord passed by in front of him and proclaimed, “The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; It is important to recognize that anything good we display is an imperfect reflection of the God who made us .

I try to follow the Spirit's leading and apply his word to problems I feel people are going through. But I wouldn't say, "God told me" as I believe that is dangerous to say since we are flawed humans and can easily mistake God's voice :) I believe he speaks, but I don't claim to speak for God as his Spirit can speak for himself to his people directly :)

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger thank you for replying.....and sharing what is revealed to you in the scriptures with us🙏

Brad--I know it's frustrating. But please do not give up hope. I went my own way and met someone I thought was my life partner. 5+ years later and I'm in terrible pain. They were not who I thought. I wish I had stayed with God.

Yeah dude. It doesn't work. 😂 No one is good but God.

@@stuti-ruthjacob5246but what is the point? seriously just keep getting my feelings hurt and only more confusion i can’t hear God clearly this makes no sense

@@jackthere What am I supposed to do? Waiting until I die? I have needs and desires I didn't put there. I can't take temptation after temptation constantly all the time without acting on it. I will seek it out if God doesn't act. I can't wait any longer.

The wages of sin is death. Including a dead life & a dead marriage! We go thru these birthing pains to receive the most beautiful gift/treasure one day. God gives us the desires of our heart. But our hearts have to be ready first. We may think that we are ready..but he knows when we truly are. Our hearts have to be God's desires as well..living a sanctified life. God is God. All powerful..he can bring someone to us..in a twinkle of a eye when he knows that we will cherish this gift from God. We have to have the Faith to move mountains.. Keep your Faith always! If we believe in Christ Jesus only in order to receive...then we never really knew Jesus to begin with. We don't want to ever hear the words: Depart from me..I never knew you. We only want to hear Well done! my good & faithful servant. Always put God first. From our first thoughts to our prayer life to reading the Bible every day. Find a church that preaches the "Truth" & Be in his presence & he will provide your present. God has chosen someone for you that HE has specifically designed just for you! One day you will see. As long as you are happy with only God. He will bless you! Always listen to him. Do not "Let me Go". Let go of your flesh/self & let God be in control of his divine purpose for your life. God will forgive you for losing hope in a desperate moment. Please don't harden your heart to God..this is only our temporary home..our eternal salvation is the most important of all. & If you are willing to lose your salvation over a relationship then that is from the devil. God wants our hearts, minds, souls 💯 & if we place a relationship over God..then that is a idol. I apologize for the lengthy response..but Jesus is there with you every step of the way if you have FAITH in him & his power...he'll never leave you or forsake you! Even when we don't feel it or see it..he's working all things out for good. Don't EVER give up on God no matter what!!!